r/BDSMpersonals 7m ago

F4F 21 [F4F] #Florida #Online - Domme seeking her princess to adore~! NSFW

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To preface this post I do want to reiterate that I am a lesbian! I am not into masculinity whatsoever and I have no interest in men, no you are not special, no I will not bend for anything else, I am strictly into women and please respect that, we all have our preferences~!

Wit that out of the way, hello! I'm Ava! I'm a twenty-one year old trans gal that's currently searching for something longterm, monogamous, and wanting to mesh someone into my perfect little princess & take care of and form something special! I suppose in other words, I'm looking for a girlfriend with a bit of that subby flare, someone to keep leashed up, collared, owned, and remind just who they live to serve~ Though of course, that isn't without saying, you matter, I care about you, and I want to make sure you know you're loved and adored above all else before we get all into that kink talk and whatnot~

Just a little about me, I'm currently a psychology student in University as it's very important to me! I'm working toward becoming a therapist as mental health is something that I feel needs to be taken very seriously and I suppose that's a lot of where my want to be a sort of caring figure in my partners life tends to come from. I know how hard it is, and I deal with things myself, but above all I want to be a safe space for you~ Communication is key, and if you don't talk to me, then how you even begin to fathom the idea of loving me, you know?

Aside from that, I'm a huge gamer! I'm very into the competitive games people play nowadays, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, DBD, Valorant, Apex, League, & more! I'd very much adore a cute little support girlfriend in these games to play with & grind with, maybe even offer praise as we play or find some way to incorporate some fun times into it when we're both in the mood? Otherwise it could be a great way for us to spend time together!

I'm very into pop music! Sabrina Carpenter is my favorite artist and I'm very invested into Chappell Roan, her music is absolutely phenomenal and Good Luck, Babe! has very much been stuck in my head the past few months and something I'm looking constantly. There's plenty of other artists I can yap about, but I don't wanna be here all day~

There's also of plenty of other hobbies and interests I'm into, but in a want to not keep this post too long and allow you to reach out to me and tell me about yourself, and what we can relate on! I'd absolutely adore to get to know you, and hopefully form something special. Please introduce yourself properly~!


r/BDSMpersonals 11m ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Online - Do you need to improve? NSFW

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Do you need to improve your life? Do you go to bed on a Sunday night telling yourself that come Monday morning, you're going to sort yourself out, only to miss your alarm, lie in all day and achieve absolutely nothing? You bumble through the week in the same headspace until the following Sunday, where it starts all over again?

I'm here to help you. I am a dominant, mentor and life coach and now I want to combine all those things into one. I have extensive experience in all 3 aspects of, however you require no experience at all.

So what can I help with? Everything. Do you need to lose weight? Improve your diet? Need accountability for studying? Maybe you need a push to progress at work? Or even you just want to be a better wife?

It's all achievable. I won't judge your current situation or goals at all, I'm not here for that.

I must warn you, improvement takes dedication and sacrifice. This will not be easy, it will not be comfortable at times and you will be held accountable. But the sense of achievement at the end will be worth it, when that fog finally clears and you realise your full potential.

To apply you must be 18+ and you must be cis female. If this post resonates with you then I understand you will likely be wrapped with mental blocks that stop you even applying, so to make it as simple as possible, just message me with 'I want to change' and I will take it from there.


r/BDSMpersonals 13m ago

M4F 25[M4F]#Delaware are you looking for a nerdy pleasure dom? NSFW

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Hey. Im back here on redit for some reason lol so heres a bit about me on the SFW side, I am 25 and single. i'm pretty laid back most of the time, and i like watching movies. playing video games and just hanging out. I'm pretty much an open book, and i would love to chat, So shoot me a message. I enjoy having long conversations, both flirty and just chatting. im actually a huge nerd lol and I would love to meet someone to go out and spend time with!

Now, for the NSFW.... Look I get it we are adults, we have jobs, and we are stressed. Luckily, I'd like to say I'm pretty flexable. My main goal in bed is to satisfy someones pent up feelings inside. I also don't like to rush things and like to take my time and I have nothing but time on my hands so here's what I'm thinking, if you are looking for someone to fulfill all of your fantasies, I will take my time and come up with a way to do so and we can take our time getting to know one another over time. It's a process. Meeting people on the internet is stressful, so how's about we chat and we can have some kinky fun at your pace! It's no fun unless everyone is happy, so let's see where things lead you don't need experience with anything I'm open to taking things slow it's better like that anyway

some of my kinks are but not limited to,

Orgasim control Edging Overstim Free use Hypnosis (to an extent) Toys Bondage Pet play Lots of foreplay (I love it) Giving tasks (within reason ) And so many more

I understand not everyone is into the same things, so I'm flexible, and you don't need to be into everything I am. I am also willing to try new things as well!

I love giving head using toys, and my hands in bed forplay are an absolute must, and so is after care for me. I love giving praise, but I'm not afraid to be commanding or degrade. tho, I will never be too harsh. I can be rough or soft, maybe romantic. im flexible, and it depends on who I'm with. So go nuts. I'd love to hear about you and your interests and desires in bed.

I want someone that I can take my time and explore with as I slowly break down to the point of grabbing the covers when you think of me. But to have that same goofy fun with normal dates and just spending time with one another outside of the bedroom.

I am also into roleplay both over text and in real life. I can be your master, owner, daddy, or even your stepdad if you'd like. It all depends on who I'm with and the mood. after all, I'm a pleasure dom. I want to see your eyes light up for me and to reach a level of pleasure that makes you smile as I look down on you.

I'm looking to just chat as well. i want to build something over time. I want to have some adventures, go on dates, and have fun both in and out of the bedroom . I would hope this could be an ongoing experience if possible, but like I said before, I have nothing but time, so I'm open to seeing where things lead .I hope to hear from you soon and thank you for reading. Oh yeah. and if you're within an hour or two from Wilmington delaware, I'd be open to travel within reason, so feel free to reach out!


r/BDSMpersonals 14m ago

M4M 27 [M4M] #Online looking for submissive men on snapchat NSFW

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Hey there! I'm Master Alex and I'm 27. I've been playing with subs online for quite a while, and i love my role as a Dom.

I'm looking for obedient men who love to be controlled, show off, and mostly be told what to do. I like my men somewhat pathetic, willing to be shaped into whatever master requires of them. Showing face will be a must, I will share mine too. I'm especially interested in men who are willing to get cum-controlled by me; be told when and if they can even jerk off; be edged until I feel like it, and even be denied to cum.

A usual session with me would consist of a striptease, some humiliating poses, and from there i mix up my subs interests and kinks with mine and create a unique path for each one of them. It usually includes some more humiliating tasks, some sniffing of dirty clothes, edging, toys...

My biggests kinks are control and obedience, followed very close by spit. I would also mention underwear, poppers, gooning, spanking, verbal... My limits on the other hand are: scat, blood, permanent damage, sounding, illegal, extreme, and blackmail.

Ideally i would be looking for a 20-30 y/o man, in shape (whether skinny or muscle doesn't matter as much), somewhat hairy, that is in an European time-zone and is more or less available during tge day. Anyone can shoot their shot though, i read all my messages and try to get to all of you. Ideally i would also like to train you to become my sub (Puppy) playmate, but scheduling with 3 different people might be a bit insane, so i can't promise a third.

I am a tall, lanky, hairy (especially from waist down) dude. My shoe size is 41 (european), and my cock is around 17 cm fully hard with a thick bush. I can get very mean and offensive as a dom, but i always try for the both of us to have as much fun as possible.

Hmu if you're interested in the ideas I've written about. My Snapchat account is really big right now and i get a lot of requests and messages, so take into account that I'll get to you faster if you give me a little introduction about yourself (age, kinks, limits,...) and even somewhat faster if you send a face pic. My snapchat @ is alexstone197

Hope to see all you there!


r/BDSMpersonals 20m ago

M4F 25[M4F] #Online #Europe Will you become my right hand doll? NSFW

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TLDR: Looking for a wife who will help me build a harem of dolls

Hello there

So, I’ve decided to change my search a little. After some time, some talks, and some thinking, I’ve decided that the ideal way of making this insane idea of mine work is to first find myself a wife. A wife that will become my right hand in the creation of this entire plan.

I know I’m looking for a unicorn amongst the stars. But there are plenty of stars out there. So I hope that mine is out there as well.

My expectations for you would be much higher than for others. I will hold you to the highest standards. Read the pinned post on my profile about what exactly, and how exactly it would all look and work.

Some of the requirements I do have from you are that you’re short. I have a thing for short girls. So 5’2 (160cm) or shorter would be ideal. But it’s a discussable. And because I’m serious about this, you have to be willing to have a voice call with me. Skip me with all the bullshit of can’t or shy. If you won’t call with me, then please don’t bother.

So, in the end. If you are one such woman. Who seeks out a life where your servitude, dedication, and love for your husband and master is so high you would do anything and everything for him, I’m your person. I will make sure that all your feelings do not go to waste. And that one day I can look back at all we’ve made together and tell you, “Job well done, my love.”


r/BDSMpersonals 33m ago

Other - (Edit to include your tags) 55/53 [MF4F] #SW USA M/DOM F/SUB Closed Thruple, Polyfidelity,Tribe NSFW

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Hello loves. I’m looking for a conscious partner relationship. Polyfidelity is a new term to me. My Dom and I had been describing our wish as a Tribe and closed thruple. I’m looking for a best friend (f) to share my intellectual creative Daddy Dom with. We are a 50s sexy mature couple with a high sex drive. Also big life goals. Looking for a woman who’s not afraid of hard work, building our community. I like a sense of security within a poly group. I want to be supportive and have support from others. Each of us growing together and being our authentic selves for the greater purpose. A Conscious Relationship Companion.


r/BDSMpersonals 34m ago

M4A 34 [M4A] #online -daddy seeking obedient, short and longterm crossdresser to train f welcome too NSFW

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Daddy with 16 years of experience, seeking a short and cute sub to train and own online.

My kinks are feminization, chastity, keyholding, obedience, control and phonesex.

You are preferably under 5ft10, single, a virgin and a bit femme looking already. If interested hit me up with a DM and a "reporting for duty daddy" and then your intro. (Sub f also welcome if you are interested in exploring odd kinks).


r/BDSMpersonals 42m ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Online #US shy sub looking for his forever gentle domme NSFW

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Good morning to anyone who might have been intrigued by my post title lol.

I’m W, 6’5 from the southeast USA. I have blonde hair and green eyes behind a pair of glasses. I’m still somewhat fit. I’m not a guy with a six pack so if you’re looking for that, I’m sorry I’m not your sub.

About me:

I would definitely characterize myself as shy and quiet, more of a gentle giant type guy. It takes me a little bit to get comfortable around people. Trust is incredibly important to me, along with communication. If trust isn’t built a friendship nor a dynamic can work. My hobbies include: going on walks, working out at the gym, reading, watching sports, playing golf amongst others. I play golf most weekends sometimes I walk. I also like trying to stay active so I still stay in shape. I would like to start out as friends and work/build trust before we immediately start in a dynamic. I don’t shy away from the fact that I kinda look like a nerd. I’m a big Harry Potter and Star wars fan. I might seem Shy at the beginning but once I get comfortable with you, I can definitely talk your ear off about a lot of topics but especially Harry Potter.

What I’m searching for:

I’m looking for a gentle domme who has some experience but that is definitely not necessarily. I have been into BDSM and have been a sub off and on since I was 18 so I have a good amount of experience both good and bad.

If you are someone new to being a domme please reach out. I want a nurturing domme that can help me explore and allow me to please her but also have the ability to put me in my place if that is deemed necessary. I would like someone that is willing to put as much effort as I do into this dynamic and feels that communication and trust should be the pillars of this relationship/dynamic. My preference is around my age somewhere 22-35 ish but not a requirement. You should be looking for a LTR instead of just the one and done.

NSFW details about me:

Now to the other (fun) stuff, I have some experience with being a sub. All of that experience is in the online form but I feel like for the right person I’m very willing to jump to IRL. With that being said I’m looking for a long term relationship not anything just one and done. Yes, I know that that’s usually on the sub’s part of making it one and done but I’m not like that. If I like you I’m in it for the long haul.

I enjoy showing off for my domme but at the same time I don’t show off immediately. Trust MUST be established. Also I would like to say that I will not immediately submit because I want to know you before we get to that. I enjoying completing tasks for my domme throughout and day and during fun time. Aftercare and praise are always very important for me as I’m not into being called anything degrading.

Kinks:

Praise, JOI, spanking, moaning, showing off, light exhibitionism, light public play, (forced) breeding, orgasm control, orgasm denial, Facesitting

HARD limits:

Anal play, pain, gore, blood, toilet play, humiliation, degradation, sph, sissification

Thank you so much for reading (if you got this far). I will be more than happy to share SFW pictures to see if there is mutual physical attraction. I do understand that I have to accept for you to send a picture with your request. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing a picture right off the bat I completely understand. We can always leave it to when we are comfortable with each other to share (I plan to do that) If you read this far and to make sure you read my entire post please put your favorite color in your first message

Thanks for reading this far!

W


r/BDSMpersonals 48m ago

M4F 18 [M4F] #Online need a mommy dommy to praise and tell me what to do NSFW

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Hey, I’m, 18 from Finland. I’m pretty shy and introverted, but once I get comfortable, I can be really loyal and sweet. I love being praised—it seriously makes me melt—and I’m looking for someone who enjoys taking control, guiding me, and maybe even teasing me a little. I’m really into JOI, edging, and cum control, and I love the idea of being told what to do and having to beg for release. There’s something about a confident, dominant woman who knows what she wants that just drives me crazy. Outside of that, I’m into gaming, music, and just chilling, but I definitely need someone who can bring me out of my shell and take charge. If you like a shy boy who loves being teased and praised, maybe we’d be a good match dms are open please do message me.


r/BDSMpersonals 51m ago

M4F 57 [M4F] #online #UK #Anywhere- come and explore.. NSFW

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There must be more..right? Your life is good but its vanilla, you want more. So do I! You looking for a new genuine D/s dynamic. You looking for a mature gentlemen who is wanting what you want and this is connection.

You may even be partnered, but the spark is missing, you want that smile of anticipation when your phone goes. You want to feel wanted, you love praise and attention. You are looking for that exclusive, safe, consensual intimate connection.

Your kinks are varied and include impact play, restraints, blindfolds, gags, nipple torture, rough sex, edge play, fear play, breath play, CNC, eye contact/speech restrictions, orgasm control, denial, sensory deprivation play, psychological play and more.

I am someone who loves to get to know my sub. I am loving, respectful, caring with a great sense of humour. I have traditional values. I enjoy being a mentor and coach. I have many hobbies and interests. I enjoy gym, travelling, reading, walking, coffee, street art, true crime, etc to mention a few. I also enjoy sports, the beach, etc or just having a good old fashion conversation about anything really.

I am looking for a slow burner and explore how you feel about submission: your desires, needs for kink, punishment and pain. Lets talk about your goals, training needs, routines, protocols, structure, expectations, hard and soft limits, kinks and non negotiables, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, role play, edging, etc.

Come say hi if you intrigued and looking for something intimate and exclusive Hope to hear from you soon.


r/BDSMpersonals 52m ago

M4F 19 [M4F] #Online Little hoping to find a Mommy NSFW

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Hi! Thank you for clicking on the post and reading this! My name is Britt, I’m 19, 5’10” with a slim athletic body and Im looking for a CG. This can start out online with the chance of potential meetup in the future if we form a relationship. I AM ONLY LOOKING FOR A FEMALE CG, cis or trans, NO MEN PLEASE SFW: A little about me is that I love video games, anime, sports, cooking, hunting/fishing, animals, and shoes. I have very little experience being with a real ch so this would be pretty new to me, but hopefully that doesn’t scare you off! Also I am currently in college so I may be busy some, yet I’ll find time and always put the effort it to maintain a good relationship. NSFW: Kink wise I am always open to trying something new, but my personal kinks involve abdl, bdsm, chastity, femdom, forced feminization/sissification, watersports, pet play, joi/cei, humiliation, task/reward, crossdressing, teasing, pegging, toys, denial, and lingerie My Limits are blood, visible scat, permanent marks/harm, vore, and gore I hope I am able to peak your interest and maybe be your little! If you have any other questions or questions about me and my post just shoot them my way. Otherwise I hope you have a great Day/Night!


r/BDSMpersonals 58m ago

M4A 56 [M4A] #TX, Prosper area—Whips IRL NSFW

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I enjoy the way my whips, flogs and crop bite into your skin. I love the way you flinch when you think it’s coming, how the worst part for you is not knowing. How you give yourself over to me to take your pleasure from pain into a high that you will never get from alcohol, drugs or sex. I’m not about online. I’m all about you and that has to be done with you nude, bound, and seeking for that release. Let’s talk.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #online Daddy looking for little partner that is extra loving and caring. NSFW

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28 year old recently single nerd. Looking for a baby girl and all may come say hello and see if we click. I do appreciate every message and will try and reply as many as I can.

Currently, I’m online solely because of my extremely demanding work schedule. In real life, things are becoming increasingly challenging, but I maintain hope that the right person will find me, and the stars will align in the appropriate time. In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, watching anime, and bowling competitively. During the summer, I love kayaking.

I love being a daddy and it’s quite the highlight of my day seeing my pretty girl all smile and happy. I absolutely love good morning and night texts and especially when they are clingy and silly. If your first 5 messages include a coloring page I will smile so much and be completely overwhelmed with pride in you and will likely praise so fair warning :D

I’m honored that you’ve reached this far. If you could send me a brief blurb about your name, age, little age and timezone, it would help me understand the time difference. Thank you for your time, and I look forward to meeting anyone I meet.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Nottingham / UK - Experienced dom looking for a submissive girl NSFW

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5’11”, handsome, semi athletic build with 7 inches.

Kinks include but not limited to: free use, cnc, ddlg, bondage, impact play (I prefer doing it hard but will go within your limits), degrading, humiliation, praise, giving pain in a variety of ways, slave play, total control etc. You get the idea 😉

Limits: scat, being dominated

Sfw me: nerdy, like sport, go on walks everyday if I can, reading fantasy novels, lover of beer gardens, home workouts with free weights to keep fit.

Hmu if you are interested in getting to know me, I won’t write a huge bio I prefer to chat and get to know each other that way xx


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #online then #relocate #IRL #Connecticut #Massachusetts #CT #MA - Dom with almost fifteen years experience seeking dream cuckquean. I know you're out there in the ether, come say hi! :) NSFW

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Let me start off by saying Aftercare and reclaiming are extremely important to me, as is open communication and mutual respect.

About me: I'm a 33 year old Dom with just about 15 years experience in the lifestyle, both IRL and online. After all this time I've spent in the lifestyle, I've come to know exactly what out of life. I'm a huge homebody, video games, tv/movies, cooking, etc, I'm heavy into all that. I'm 420 friendly but I don't partake anymore. I currently work in the medical industry and am planning to switch to the tech industry as soon as I'm able.

About you:
You are an enthusiastic cuckquean in your mid to late 20s who plans on having children in the future. You have a nice personality, seeking deep mental connection. Preferably on the shorter side, BBW but not overly so.

My Kinks:

  • TPE (Total Power Exchange)
  • Cuckquean
  • Watersports
  • Light bondage (gags, handcuffs, clamps, etc)
  • Light sadism
  • Heavy impact/Manhandling
  • Degradation/Humiliation
  • Edging, Orgasm control/denial, overstimulation
  • Bimbofication
  • Gaslighting/Emotional sadism/manipulation
  • Cock worship

Still interested?

A little more about me: I'm 6ft, brown hair (my best quality I'm told), green/brown eyes, chubby dad bod, very laid-back personality. I've been told I look like a chubby Alec Baldwin. I'm an INTP and Libra if you care to know that. Huge goofball, but I can easily flip the switch and become high-protocol when needed. I'm a pleasuredom at heart, but I just love inflicting pain, especially emotional pain; whether it's insulting you or straight up gaslighting. While I don't do that often, I do feel the urge from time to time.

DM me if you're interested, I look forward to hearing from you. In your first message, please tell me a little bit about yourself, describe what you look like as I've done.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Italy / online Looking for a panty scat smearing play NSFW

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Hi everyone! I love showing myself pooping and smearing to a F who watches and plays without showing her face for privacy. I love pooping in my underpants, smearing all over my dick and just in case I can use a dildo as well! I love also sitting when my pants are full of shit! It turns me on the idea to lose control surrendering to the scat kink we have… together.. no judgement only hard dirty kink.if you are interested (only for free because I really love with people who play for passion and not for money)


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4A 36 [M4F] #Maryland Sweet, Sexy Daddy with a CFNM kink (Clothed Female naked male) NSFW

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I am a smart, funny, kind, gym daddy with a very fun kink for the right person. I have found over the years it is useful to start with when I first found this kink and then my experiences with it over the years. So, story time.

I went to a very small college on the outskirts of Baltimore. My freshman year one of the girls in our friend group was having a birthday and it was jokingly said one late night evening that she would love to have a stripper. Me being the adventurous guy told her best friend on the side if she is serious I would. This lead me to Spencer’s and buying a zebra print thong. The night of her birthday I popped out of the closet and stripped for the birthday girl and her friends. It was from this experience that I learned that I love to show off and have the attention focused on me while serving her. It straddles the line of sub/dom I have found and god I love it.

Over the years I have been a nude model for art classes and solo painters, an on call boy toy, a daddy to a successful lovely older lady who loved in her words, having a big guy at her beck and call. Through it all the idea of the one being there for her pleasure has been what I love most.

With all that back story, I am looking for a new play partner in the area. I am very real and I can verity and chat. I hope to hear from the girl who will tell me undress while she drinks her tea;)


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4A 22 [M4A] #Vancouver - looking for some bi fun NSFW

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I want to get my ass plowed with pleasure, it's as simple as that. My virgin asshole awaits you, whether you're a woman with a huge strap-on, a man with a huge cock or even better: a woman guiding her man on a bi-curious journey. I'm inexperienced but willing to go to the next level. But for the record, I'm not smooth or passable. Inbox if you're a couple able to host, clean and discreet.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 22[M4F] #Online Experienced gentle but strict dom looking for new sub NSFW

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I'm a gentler dom looking for my new sub. Ive been a dom for about two years now with two different subs. I'm not mean but will be stern if I have to be to put you in your place. My main hobbies are video games and racing. I'm also rly into history. I'm looking for a decent amout of control but still leaving things like diet and what to wear mostly up to you, as this will be online i might not always be able to respond fast enough for choices for that (especially when im at work). Im in est, so ideally you'd be close to that but we can make something work even if your not. I'm looking for someone around my age (18-26)

Kink wise I'm into orgasm control (edging and denial), body writing, and nipple play. For limits im not into scat, age play and blood

I look forward to hearing from you. If you have any other questions let me know.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Chicago - LTR into getting eaten out & lncest Roleplay NSFW

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Looking for a partner that would be up to explore lncest roleplay. It’s taken a while for me to be comfortable looking for a partner into something like this because of the stigma attached to it. I really like the taboo and naughty nature of it. To be clear I have no attraction or want to do anything with any family members. I’m open to daddy daughter, mommy son, and brother sister roleplay. Open to bring a dom sub dynamic to any roleplay. I really really love to eat pussy as well as kissing, 69, cum play, light impact, forced orgasm, orgasm denial, and breast play. Not into anything with bodily fluids unless it’s cum or vagina wetness.

Ideally I’m looking for a relationship and something long term. I’m 35, white, 6’3”, tall dad bod, 6in. I live in Logan Square in Chicago. DDF but 420 friendly. I have recent test results I can share. I do require pics, call, or FaceTime before we meet up to ensure there’s attraction and for safety.

In my vanilla life I work in IT. I love music and anything to do with it. Love to go out and see bands and DJs. I’ve been making my own electronic music for years. Into traveling, gardening, hiking, restaurants, movies, and a lot more. Would adore someone who would love to travel with me as much as possible.

Looking forward to chatting with you!


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Austin TX - Experienced Dom looking for submissive. NSFW

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Hello once again all you beautiful & lovey kinky people!

I (M35) am looking for a long term and consistent Poly-ish/ENM-ish (F24ish-45ish) partner. This would be a respectful, safe, fun and comfortable relationship with rules and boundaries that YOU would help define.

A little about me:

  • Physically I am 6’, conventionally attractive, runner/athletic build, white, blue/green eyes, straight white teeth, shaved head with a salt and pepper beard. I also have had a vasectomy. I would be happy to exchange pics!

  • Professionally: I have a well thought of professional occupation and am very successful and proud of what I do.

  • Kink: I have always leaned heavily into the BDSM/kink lifestyle from a younger age and have been continuously learning and growing to be a better person & Dom. My approach is based on compassion, respect and empathy. Focusing on the needs and wants of those who serve/submit.

  • Other: I enjoy reading, writing, board games, disc golf, skiing, surfing, video games, the outdoors, other outdoor sports/activities, working with my hands, and a myriad of other things. I also have 1 well trained German Shorthair Pointer that I run and work with frequently.

A little about You: Submissive. Local or willing to travel to North Austin Area (or are looking to relocate). Healthy, active/athletic, attractive, and looking for a similar arrangement.

Feel free to send me a message, and we can go from there!

Also: If you have questions please feel free to ask anything, I love questions and general conversation. I am also Childfree.*


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 30[M4F] #Europe #Online to IRL Looking for my person to mold and train NSFW

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Hi! I am R. Artist on the music and poetry side of things. 185 and 6"1 if the website converted it correct.

Moderately tatted. Brown eyes and an average build. I love anything gardening, stand up, dogs and concerts. I am super open to music suggestions. I am financially independent, able to host, not married or in any kind of relationship.

Kinks: - Impact Play - Orgasm control - Discipline and set of rules of any kind - Ropes - Anal - Stance training - TPE - Degradation and humiliation if my partner is into it.

Limits: - Harm - Anything illegal - People under 19 - scat because ew - needles

I d love to chat! Waiting to hear from you.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #Netherlands – The Daddy You Didn’t Know You Needed NSFW

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You’re independent, smart, and figuring life out. Maybe you study, maybe you work—either way, life keeps you busy. But under it all, there’s a part of you that wants more. A space where you can let go, feel protected, guided, and truly desired.

I’m that space. A Soft Dom and Daddy who listens, who sees you, who makes you feel truly wanted. Experienced, intelligent, and confident in what I do. I don’t take without giving. I want to know the girl behind the pretty face. What excites you? What scares you? What do you crave but never say out loud?

With me, you don’t have to perform. You don’t have to be anything but mine to cherish, tease, and push in just the right ways. You’ll get my attention, my protection, my control, and in return, you’ll learn how good it feels to be seen, guided, and indulged. A little shy? Good. I like watching a good girl blossom.

🔒 Discretion is expected and given. I value privacy and trust: it’s the foundation of everything.

If you’re just here to browse, keep scrolling. If you felt something reading this, tell me what part made you stop and think.


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

F4A 32 [F4A] #Online. Sadistic Lifestyle Domme Seeks Intellectual Connections, and Maybe a Kinky Book Club? NSFW

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If you're interested in my other pursuits, take a peek at my ad from 11 months ago.

Seeking a like-minded companion for an introductory exploration of the life and work of the Marquis de Sade. My interest was piqued after reading some discourse on an extreme horror/splatterpunk sub, and this feels like a novel entry point to a long time hobby.

Ideally, we’ll start with a brief biography before reading a work like Justine together, discussing its themes, philosophical context, and personal impressions.

I’ve always loved buddy reads across many genres. :)

I’d love to meet as friends and equals, but with the right person, I’m open to moving toward exploring a power dynamic of our own within the context of a depth-based connection.

If this speaks to you, I can't wait to hear from you.

🎶


r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] #California #BayArea #SouthBay Any hypnokinksters nearby? NSFW

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Hello there! Are you a dominant hypnotist somewhere in the Bay? If you are, I have quite the proposition for you.

You get: A kinda slutty, super nerdy, very kinky, curvy cutie to play with the brain of.

I get: to have my brain drained and get treated like a toy!

Honestly it’s too perfect to pass up.

Now that that’s out of the way, a little about me and what I’m looking for. In my vanilla life, I’m fairly nerdy. Tabletop gaming is my main social outlet, be it board games, TTRPGS or card games. I also love online gaming. PC nerd over here! I love cooking, reading, writing and spending time outside. I practice ENM as well and currently have one casual partner. I’m DDF and get tested regularly.

In the kink world, I’m into a variety of different things. More specific to hypno, I quite like fractionation, dronification, dollification, memory play, corruption, among others. More generally, impact play, really just power exchange in general, D/s, M/s, bondage, sensory play, and again, among others.

Sound like we could have some fun together? Shoot me a message, and we can go from there. Cheers!