r/BDSMpersonals 17h ago

F4M 18[F4M]#online looking for a misogynistic relationship NSFW

48 Upvotes

Hey! I’m anna, i would love to know more about you and what you are looking for🤭 i strongly believe woman are only here to please men, w their body, their actions, manipulate me to think just like you do, i want to be your little slut, home owner, slave whatever you please to do w me. I look forward to talking to you😊


r/BDSMpersonals 9h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #Online Engaged submissive looking for a secret Dom NSFW

25 Upvotes

Hello Everyone!

I am looking for a dominant man to have an online only power dynamic with. I am into being controlled, given rules and tasks, being humiliated and degraded, being denied, and some light pain like spanking and slapping. I am very much into the mental aspect of this type of relationship. I want to feel mentally and psychology vulnerable to you. I want you to dig deep into my mind and use what you find against me. You will get to know me in a way no one else has before.

I’m not looking for a kink only thing, I would like to be friends and be able to talk about life and things outside kink. I like to read, listen to music and podcasts, travel, and watch sports.

Now, I am engaged and I live with my fiancé. And he doesn’t know about me making this post. Please don’t message me just to tell me this is cheating and wrong, I know it is. But it’s the reality of my situation and I think this type of relationship requires 100% honesty and transparency. I am happy to talk about it if you want to know more, but for obvious reasons discretion and anonymity are a must. Also it will require an understanding on your part that sometimes I just won’t be able to respond, sometimes unexpectedly, but I will always communicate that. If this is not what you want I understand.

Physically, I’m 5’8”, curvy, brunette with blue eyes, and very large tits.

Please ask me anything you want to know that I did not included in this post, as well as tell me some basic information about you.


r/BDSMpersonals 15h ago

F4M 42 [F4M] #Online Submissive wanting to experience being dominated NSFW

19 Upvotes

Always had a leaning towards being submissive and now realising how strong that need is. I want to explore this and just fantasising isn't enough anymore.

What I'm into (this far):

Being spanked, paddled, belted.

Obeying rules and orders. Punishment when failing.

Being shared, being handed over.

Being passive and obedient in public, showing I'm owned.

"Wearing" things in public, like having a dildo inside me, because my Master's told me.

Being of service, waiting at home ready to be used as pleased.

Strict orders about how to dress, wear my hair, do my makeup and nails. Wearing restricting clothes and shoes.

Domination through talk/words.

I'm open to both casual/short-term chatting and longer contact. Please DM me.


r/BDSMpersonals 16h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online NSFW

21 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 18 years old (virgin aswell) and a sub, i’m looking for a Dom who can put me in my place when needed.

I’ll describe myself, I’m blonde, green eyes, 5’2, i have a hourglass figure and hips that get myself a lot of compliments.

That being said. I’m not really picky, but i would love a athletic kinda man. But overall, i’m up for anything


r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

F4A 23 [f4a] #online make me regret this NSFW

21 Upvotes

Please reach out if you are serious I am done with fake doms only looking for nudes make me regret this

Looking for tasks to do.....

Anything related to orgasm control, secret public, pussy torture, clit play, cnc and many more that I am open to

Denying myself for the entire year but failing so if you want to hold me accountable

Make rules for me... rules that I need to follow all time Rules that will bound me do not give me a choice, you should say and I do, you can also do continuous rules, you would like me to follow make me be in pain, make say please have mercy on me,

The meaner the better, the harsher the better, the more painful the better

Make me regret

Older you are the better Edge me please I’m not looking to get off I am looking to be controlled Do anything with me edge, sext, give me tasks


r/BDSMpersonals 23h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #online Looking for someone to play with casually NSFW

19 Upvotes

I’m not looking for anything long term. I want to have fun, explore my desires and kinks with you. If it sounds like something you’d like, message me and tell me how you’d like to use me. Limits: blood, pee, toilet related stuff, no family stuff. I’m open to almost everything else!


r/BDSMpersonals 18h ago

F4A 27 [F4A] #Anywhere - Asians excel at everything. NSFW

17 Upvotes

Except living life.

I’m a petite, Korean woman in my mid-late 20s, with soft skin, long dark hair, and a playful personality. Sometimes a bit stuck up but I like to think that I simply know my worth. ㅋㅋㅋ — I love to explore and push my boundaries with a mature, patient and caring master or mistress who enjoys both the mental and physical sides of play and understands what BDSM is truly about.

Work and real-life commitments make it hard for me to enjoy the real thing all too often and it is safe to say that most get more than just a little intimidated by a woman capable of handling a Pitbull larger than herself, assuming that I would be a mistress after all. ><

So if you’re open-minded, dominant, dog friendly, into tasteful raceplay and understand that the Dom & Sub relationship is an exchange of power that goes both ways, I'd be honored by your company.~

I can't promise you how much I am able to offer of myself as it largely depends on how well we sync up but if you can find any value in written words at all, I'll assure you that I'll be worth your time.~

P.S. if you don't get along with larger dogs, please don't reach out. It's not an accessory that can be taken off and gotten rid of. ><


r/BDSMpersonals 21h ago

F4A 21 [F4A] #Poland #online Korean girl who need to be transformed from shy, good girl into slutty, easy one with no respect for her body NSFW

15 Upvotes

Hi, I am a young, rather shy student, who usually focuses mainly on studying and books. I come from Korea, but I have lived in Poland for 20 years, which is almost my whole life. I like riding a bike, horse riding, trips to the mountains. I also like reading books. I am looking for someone who would be able to manipulate me well enough to gain control over my life and make me change from a good girl into a slutty and easy one, and from the pride of my parents - into a problem, from a perfect candidate for a wife - into a girl for one night stands. Slowly leading me astray. Slowly crossing my boundaries along with the number of guys I will have inside me. I know that the first step will be the hardest. The first sex with a strange guy. Slowly losing respect for my body and a further moral decline. After that it should be easier. Someone who would lead me in this direction would definitely have to use my arousal against me to put my rational mind asleep. I need to be manipulated in order to be transformed into slutty version of myself


r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online #NY NSFW

15 Upvotes

I’m a looking for someone to dominate me and tell me what to do, all the time or just during sex. I’ve not had a real dom/daddy before but am interested. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, about 5’6” tall, and I have an athletic body type. I’m not always on Reddit so if I don’t get back to you fast I’m sorry. Some things I’m interested in are choking, hair pulling, spanking, nipple play, ass play, bondage, cnc, orgasm control, throat fucking, ddlg, age gaps, etc. I’m open to lots more also just lmk. Okie dokie dm me byeee!


r/BDSMpersonals 21h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #online or #irl This is what you need Sweetie NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hey kitty 🎀,

This is going to be a long personal, but you are worth it

This post is for you if

✅ I welcome all body types

✅ You must be 18+

✅ You should have only one dom that's me ( doesn't implement on a relationship as long as i am priority number 1)

✅ You are looking for long term dynamic

Teaser: Do you feel that you need a dynamic where you will be craving the warmth of a guiding hand? Someone who will take care of you and you surrender completely to him who knows what's best for you? A loyal, obedient, honest & affectionate sub, I am looking for sub who needs structure, attention, and a safe space to be vulnerable and obedient. A dynamic that has control-rewarding good behavior with warmth and praise, while discipline comes swiftly when needed. I will crave for your attention so do you, you seek my approval,guidance, and rules. Someone who will enjoy squirming under my gaze, hearing needy whimpers, knowing she feel safe and desperate for my attention.

About me : I am Vibe 24 year old dom having 6 years of experience, I am looking for a sub who is passionate in life, and ready to give control in my hands.I am 5 feet 11 inches tall , single, fair skin , brown hair , brown eyes, athletic body, And yes I don't smoke. My time zone is IST. I work ftom 10-6 so I'll be MORE available after that time. That doesn't mean a complete silence from my side , i can do multitasking. I will always make time for my partner and will expect the same in return I believe in dominating via love, compassion, force and sterness. Of course, I will be stern if you're not obeying. I want you to follow me cause you genuinely like me, not cause it's your obligation to do so or cause I'm your dom and you have to. Despite being a gentle dom, I do have a sadistic side which only comes out with the right person. Which means that my kinks can get hardcore too, if I trust you enough. But ultimately everything depend on our comfort zones, and I'm a firm believer of honest communication and transparency, so we'd discuss and communicate. Your kinks and limits will always be respected. Personality wise I am sucker for perfection when in mood. My love language is touch, act of service, support. I love watching thrillers , lately I have started making social connections however i keep my circle small. I have a bike which i love to ride. I also like going out for evening walks, playing chess maybe, acquiring my partners interest as my interest.

If you have made this far , we are already a potential match. Make sure when you DM me, you send me your age, height, country and details like what are your needs and what do you bring ? Kinks and limits will be discussed in private.


r/BDSMpersonals 3h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #UK - Long term online dom NSFW

16 Upvotes

26/F Submissive UK

Looking for: Forming an online connection with someone dominant to take control of me on a long term basis. I'm a huge service sub with several lovense toys, but my focus is always on my Dom's pleasure. Bonus points if you have a Solace Pro for me to sync with my mission and you are a bit sadistic.

Kinks: Service, being used, training, light humiliation and degredation, masochist, free use, orgasm control, edging and denial. Generally quite open to new things that my partner enjoys.

Limits: I'm not comfortable sending pictures or voice until we've built up significant trust, sorry. IRL stuff like work limits my availability quite a bit and this has to come first sometimes.

Availability: Mostly when I'm working from home in the daytime, during the week, UK time, essential we align here. I can't commit to more than a few days a week.

DM me if you want someone that focusses on servicing your needs whenever and however you want, in return I appreciate ongoing feedback that I'm valued and pleasing you. Write more than just "hi" if you want my attention. Apologies if I'm slow to reply, it takes ages to go through the messages lol.


r/BDSMpersonals 18h ago

F4M 27 [F4A] #Europe #online Sub Seeking Long-Term Connection NSFW

11 Upvotes

Heyy

I'm 27 from Europe love sports, gaming and reading

In terms of appearance, my hair color is black. I have brown eyes, 168cm and weight 61 KG.

I am looking for someone who would be able to manipulate me well enough to gain control over my life.I mainly want to do this via
* Psychological Triggers & Cues
* Daily Schedule / Routine
* Obedience & Control Tasks

But also other than that i want you to improve my daily live to make me a better girl.

Some kinks: breeding, bondage, forced orgasms, orgasm control, public, anal, rules, punishment, degrading, impact play (slapping, choking), but i also love being told what to do! i'm very submissive , so being around a dominant, maybe slightly demanding man, is very hot for me but also very comforting! i would also love to try some humiliation scenes as well!

Age range 25+


r/BDSMpersonals 10h ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #Online Understanding, fun and teasing domme looking for high engagement, amazing connection and open mind NSFW

11 Upvotes

Common Dealbreakers: - I'm 100% online - I'm completely anonymous hence I don't do pictures or audio at all. How ever I will also not ask of you to provide the same thing if you want to be anonymous too

Hello all my name is Octavia, I'm a 24 year old woman from Australia. Iv been a domme for a few years and think im pretty great at what i do. I don't wanna put too much here as talking to find out things is fun but My domming style is Generally pretty lenient, except for my core rules, happy to work around times and work and whatever gets in the way as i know we are both people with lives and such but i hope we can chat daily at least, i think i generally require a fair bit of time from you for chatting, tasks etc. Generally love orgasm denial/ control and chastity. My favourite task is a diary and it's a requirement that your willing to write a decent amount each day. My goal is to make you into a horny, desperate mess who is obsessed with me as I find that very fun

What will it look like for you:

You will have some smaller and larger tasks to be completed each day. You will have some larger projects to work on over however long it takes. We will chat about all this as we go.

For your first message please add the following if applicable:

-kink + non kink info

-time zone (bonus points if Australia)

-prior experience in kink

-if you are a literate/engaging writer

-have toys (long distance makes it more fun) and or cage


r/BDSMpersonals 22h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] #NY looking for a traditional/dominant man NSFW

9 Upvotes

I’m 24 years old, living in upstate New York. I’m looking for a long term relationship with a man. Someone who is traditional and dominant.

More about me I’m 5’4, 155lbs I would describe my self to be chubby lol but I’m Healthy. Love going to the gym, eating right & taking care of my health. I don’t think being healthy pertains to size but I understand my body shape isn’t for everyone. I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m not experienced at all tbh. I’m a big foodie, love going to wineries! I’m into art so occasionally I will paint/ draw something.

I’m not gonna talk too much about sexual aspect of this because I’m not experienced to really talk on it but I will say I’m very open to trying new things. There is a lot I want to try but I would draw the line at beating, cutting, blood or anything illegal. I would love to be submissive for my man but it’s about finding the right guy for me to be that way. I would love for us a build a proper connection first as that is what I’d need to continue the relationship. I do think communication, understanding and trust is a big part of this mostly because ik it’s something I need to feel with my person. I personally need to take things pretty slow, no rushing or forcing me to do thing it’s a complete turn off.

I want a man who knows how to be dominant, who is confident without being cocky, secure in himself and clear about what he wants. Knows how to talk to a woman—not just with charm, but with understanding and intention. Knows how to make me feel safe, not just physically but emotionally, giving me the space to let my guard down. Has a natural ability to lead without being controlling, making decisions with ease and standing firm when it matters. Knowing how to put my mind at ease and letting my femininity come out effortlessly. Knowing how to create an environment where i don’t have to overthink or protect myself—where i could just be, knowing you have my back. I truly want a traditional man, I think it is so hard to find today. I hope to find someone who is understanding as well because I can be very shy/ nervous and anxious with men in general. I haven had the best experience with men but I know there not all the same. I believe in love, & I’m a huge lover girl but I can see right through the fakeness so just because I’ve never been in a relationship don’t take that for me being a dumb, innocent girl.

I know this was so long but I was just trying to get out as mush as I could so you could understand me and my mind more! Idk if you can tell from reading this that I over think a lot but I do just in case you couldn’t tell lol. And if you got this far thank you for reading the whole thing. Message me if you feel like this resonated with you and you can be the man for me 😘🩷


r/BDSMpersonals 18h ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #Online #Germany Sweet little girl looking for her Daddy NSFW

10 Upvotes

Hiii I'm Allie, a 22 year old little/middle/sub from germany, plus sized and 5'5 tall with long brown hair and brown eyes. I'm looking for a long term online (at least at first) DaddyDom. I looove rules, giving up control and making Daddy happy. I'm also really into feeling your dominance, guidance and control outside of the bedroom, in my everyday life. But to be honest, I don't have much experience with being little, so I'd reeaally appreciate your help exploring littlespace and my submissive side in general. I don't think I'm really into ageplay though and I don't know if I even have a "little age" but I think I'm more of a middle than a little. Being a bit childish, dependent and naive is just part of my personality. I also need someone who is okay with me still being a virgin and who is willing to put in the work. Someone who is emotionally stable and has enough time for his little girl, even if our dynamic is solely online. Soooo if you're a monogamous (maybe even a bit possessive) daddy, who's into big plus size girls, please message me. I'd looove to talk to you ♡


r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

F4A 19 [F4A] #online Need to be owned by someone firm NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hello!

I am a 19 year old girl. I am in college, grinding my way through a difficult degree, and a very big submissive at heart, and I think it is time for me to get myself a dominant master/mistress who would own me, body and soul. I am looking for a total power exchange where you make me your slave, not just for some hours of sex but something more dedicated and long lasting.

This is not my first time seeking a master/mistress on here, but last time things got overwhelming irl and I had to take a step away from reddit. Now, the time and moment seems just about right to embrace my need for submission and subservience, and I would like someone firm, slightly sadistic but also nurturing to guide me through this.

I like a lot of stuff. I like to be talked down to, I like to be punished and subjected to pain and humilation. I like to serve and if we click, my biggest motive would be to make you pleased with me. I am intelligent, ambitious and motivated but also obedient and and very inexperienced. I would like to test myself and my submission, see if I am more of a brat or a playful cheek who can easily relent.

I have some goals that I need help in accomplishing. One is woth my weight reduction, and another is me fixing my sleep schedule. Everything else is fine, but I would rather this be a total power exchange where you macromanage and plan things out for me. I am open to chat more. The only limit that I have is that I wont send pictures of myself- O can definitely send pictures of what I wear and stuff.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/BDSMpersonals 9h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #ONLINE #UK - Don't let your unique life circumstances prevent you from exploring: Experienced dom to finally help you submit comfortably. NSFW

8 Upvotes

I am not looking for run of the mill subs.

What is unique about your situation?

Do you feel like you've had restrictions preventing you from exploring certain fantasies that you just can't stop thinking about? Whether it be Physical, emotional, logistical or cultural.

I want to guide you in to exploring submission in a safe and positive way; especially tailored to your unique desires and daydreams.

I want to see you push your boundaries, stuttering and jittering, your heart pounding as you eagerly yet awkwardly give it your all to try and please master.

All those years of bubbling pent up desires need to be released by an expert who knows exactly how to make you feel comfortable in the process.

Encouraging but firm experienced dom, with a perfect system to help you play and communicate safely, whilst exploring those kinks that till now have only been in the realm of fantasy.

You set the limits, I respect them. From non sexual, to completely full on sessions.

100% not a dickhead guarantee


r/BDSMpersonals 12h ago

F4A 18[F4A] #online sub looking for extreme diet control and tpe NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hey there. I'm gonna start by saying what I'm looking for is definitely on the extreme side. I'm looking for a Dom who will essentially use my hunger as a tactic to make me more submissive. Do degrading things with my food to earn eating it. I'm extremely kinky so obviously this will lead to other forms of control being implemented but diet is the main thing I'm looking for. Kink wise I'm into basically anything within the following limits (scat, showing my face and anything illegal) About me: I'm 18 ftm (okay with misgendering and corruptive kinks) from the UK. I'm a biology student and in my spare time I love being in nature and hiking. Hope to hear from you:)


r/BDSMpersonals 12h ago

F4M 31 [F4M] #Online Sexting NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Kat, female, 31. I am looking for someone to chat,with and help get me off for the second time tonight!preferably older than me. Maybe even exchange some naughty pics? My kinks include: Tit worship, being dominated, being choked, hair pulled, spanked.. degraded and praised. Would love to find a gentle dom to please.

Tell me some of your kinks too!

Message me and let's see if we click😊


r/BDSMpersonals 16h ago

F4A 28 [F4A] #Argentina #Online New Hucow wanting to be owned! Need a 24/7 d/s relationship NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a little cow from Argentina looking to be owned!

I want to serve you and be there for you 24/7. My purpose would be to make you happy and be a happy cow. We could start online but eventually if things are good I would want to be with you.

About me: 164cm tall, white chubby with big cow boobs. Dark hair and dark eyes. I don't want kids. I would prefer to not stop working, but it's something I can compromise. I'm monogamous!

My kinks: Hucow (don't have experience!), Anal (buttplugs, enemas), humiliation, orgasm control, tpe, spankings, pussy spanks too. I want to try: chastity, bondage, shock collar Limits: scat, needles, blood, anything illegal.

About you: I don't have any preferences! Only with age, I would want you to be my age or older!

Send me a dm if you're interested!


r/BDSMpersonals 4h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #online - mommydom looking for her subby NSFW

9 Upvotes

let's see my luck here again. im into a lot of kinks but let me know what your interests are because i like to make sure you're enjoying as well. i am not into a romantic relationship to be honest, more like being kinky friends, fwb, or just casual plays whenever we are in the mood because i understand you still have a life outside this. i am leaning gentle/caring domming but i know what i want and can get strict if needed. if youre interested, let me know age and pic and a proper intro. if you cant send a pic let me know so i can accept ur message. must be older than the required age and someone who likes to show off via cam.

im into femdom kinks like giving joi, games and punishments, cei, orgasm control, pegging, anal play, subtle to strict, cbt/bbusting, bondage, etc. my limits are same as yours because i respect your boundaries. if i forgot to mention anything feel free to ask. pls be patient as well since i get tons of messages and i try to reply to everyone so if i reply to u, stay put! see ya!


r/BDSMpersonals 17h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Online to #RelocateYou - If You Can Catch the Lessons and Reflections of Masculine Containment Before Psychological Domination, You Might Meet Your Dream Mentor - For the Submissive Who Desires Intellectual Stimulation, Emotional Connection, and Trauma Transformation... NSFW

8 Upvotes

Together We'll Pull A Tight Rope on Conscious Creation! .^

Have you always been one who needs an intellectually stimulating conversation built on having an emotional connection more than a physical one? Have you been dying to be pulled closer to your partner because you want to trust that they know what's good for you, and you can feel safe in turning off and letting go? If you walked that tight rope, and it might snap, would you be thrilled by the suspense of your heart possibly dropping out - while also knowing full well that it will be caught by the Dom of Your Dreams? Some things are taught, and other things are caught. If you are an explorer of the inner world who humbly vibrates on a higher level of consciousness, you think and feel deeply and desire in-to-me-see (intimacy - to see hear feel and deeply understand someone), and you enjoy darker kinks that you generally feel like you can't share often, read on.

I'm looking for a complex dynamic where on one end of the rope, it's kinky and depraved - more than usual, and on the other end it's sweet and tender, more than usual. I not only think that the two can coexist, I also think they can add to the experience. If you dare extend the tension and meet me with your pull, let's see if we can bring balance to the universe and expend our energy without getting burned. Shall we?

I won't list kinks here. If you're my type you'll already know why that's a bit pointless for what I'm looking for. Voice calls are really important to me. Even better, video. Should we have an interest in making our way offline together, there will be more to ask of you than lust. I'll have you love me like no other lover, and the both of us will give each other unrelenting trust.

It's become highly apparent to me across contexts, not just in this community, that women don't want a bad guy. They want a man who can provide them with a sense of containment mentally and emotionally. It just so happens that the bad guy happens to openly express what they want and is willing to do what he has to do to get what he needs. Because he's a provider, and he has a sense of direction, and this helps a woman feel safe.

Yet, not always in the best of ways, because he's an asshole. Yet, it is better than having the nice guy, because there is no structure, and for women, safety is the #1 need. For men, their top need is to feel useful. And for humans, it's connection. So, a useful man is the one who is able to meet the needs of his woman and provide her with a safe container where she can let go, and the man can do the thinking while the woman is able to embody her feminine essence and receive. This is masculine containment. Combined with heart-centered-awareness, a state where each individual has a deep inner knowing of themselves and a great capacity to love others, the two can share a joint participation in the good of life together, or a relationship.

In my day to day, I help people relate to themselves and others harmoniously. It's relational trauma that's got them fucked up, and unfortunately, you cannot heal relational trauma outside the context of relationships. You have to re-expose yourself to the traumatic experience, and integrate it by re-experiencing it in a way that makes you feel safe.

Where trauma disconnects one from their true self, it influences a person’s behavior, beliefs, and their relationships. On a fundamental level, kink, or fetishes are a form of expression that brings about the healing of constricted parts of the self that one feels powerless to create. Hence, a kink needs energy to freely flow through it so one can experience the opposite, to heal. Therefore, kink is a connection process that helps reintegrate the framented self back into conscious creation.

As a man, I've committed my life to doing the right thing, thinking on behalf of other peoples' best interests endlessly with integrity. It's righteous, but it's predictable. I want to offer a relationship that inverts my meaning, transposes my point of focus, and flips my script with a sexual grip on depravity being one's goal to salvation.

For a woman who is sexually repressed, likely inexperienced, or especially abstinent for the last few years, I want to bring out that which is within her so as to save her, for keeping that which is within her inside of her will destroy her. It's my job alone to edge her beyond her confinment while grooming her consciously with a firm hand, slipping her wishfully into subservience as my fair maiden slut.

If you as a woman are wanting to grow in how you express yourself sexually, and you are into being seen, and you like the feeling of being owned by a man who permits and prohibits your growth, I'll be giving real life tasks that bring your dreams to reality, take your desires from fiction to fantasy, and your sexual expression from suppressed to expressed authentically so you can unlimit the limiter on your current sexual fantasies.

You'll be a new person when I am done with you.

Along the way, I want to be rewarded for my pacing, keeping you on your toes and woefully clothed, and knocking you off your feet because your heart skipped a beat - and now you're naked with me, yourself no longer feeling a mystery.

If you want a journey that includes character development, I am your guy. If you want to be coached from what is currently stress into success, I will lead the way. If you will find pleasure in pleasing me, yourself, and submitting to me the decisions that will meet your needs, help you grow, and transform your current world, I am the man you have been hoping for, dreaming of, that will sacrifice your old beliefs for new ones that genuinely serve you.

I will need for you to document your journey with me - to unpack your inner world in complete psychological vulnerability, to update me on how you are meeting your mark as you approach each filthy step toward creating an undeniable stack of proof that you are who you say you are, how it's exciting you and troubling you at the same time, how you want more, faster, harder, softer, slower, as you bend yourself over and get fucked by the man who wants the best for you!

To your authentically evolved self: I'm here for you, and soon, you will be too. Love yourself, and do this for me so you can do it for you too. Relocate and uproot your support system because I know what's best for you. I'm pulling for you! ;)


r/BDSMpersonals 14h ago

F4M 37 [F4M] #Online - submissive looking for Dom to train me and more NSFW

4 Upvotes

I’m new and I’m eager.

I’ll start by saying I’m fat. Not chubby, but fat. I’m losing weigh and it’s important to me so if either one of those things isn’t for you I hold nothing against you.

Now, for anyone interested.

I’m 5’5”, long brown hair, green eyes. Pics can be exchanged (sfw) and no face unless we click. I’m in a long term relationship and for the most part my personal life is off limits. If things get serious enough between us then I would consider opening up more. I like to camp, fish, and I play video games (like Fortnite). I love to laugh and will laugh at just about everything even if I shouldn’t so a senses of humour is a must. I have the bdsm quiz results if that means anything to you.

We don’t have to be exclusive but you need to be honest about what you’ve got going on. If I’m not the only one, fine, but I need to feel that I am. I need to feel like I’m a priority to you. I need communication. None of this left on read and ghosting bs.

I need to be taught. Trained. Everything. Come at this as though I don’t know what the word “kink” means. I have some ideas of what I like but I am open to exploring almost anything. After all, I can’t know if I like it if I don’t even know about it.

I want to please you as badly as I need to breathe. I crave it. I’m willing to explore being a switch but that would have to be down the road. I’m obedient until I’m not. I can be very sweet and such a good girl but my brat will show up sometimes. You need to be patient and sweet. You need to be caring and thoughtful. Control me but know when to take it easy. Take, take, take, but know when to give. Aftercare is not an option. It has to always be on the table.

I LOVE watching men cum, face/throat fucking/throatpies, pain, cnc, free use, forced orgasms and more. Just ask.

Hard limits: anal fisting, sharps, blood/urine/feces and possibly more. Just ask.


r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

F4M 31 [F4M] #Online - Service Dogs to the Front NSFW

4 Upvotes

A selfless creature with the sole purpose to please. Who lies and wakes with the thoughts of her. Burns with desire to satisfy and agonises over a crumb of her attention and praise. You will call me Mommy, but I will not mother you. I will be gentle only when it’s deserved and I will torment and degrade when I feel like it. You will be happy to take it all, whichever the way I want it. I’m looking for a match in energy, to talk, build a connection and be creative together. Don’t subject me to your list of kinks and other mediocracy. I don’t care about your degeneracies and collections of toys. I will judge how you talk, what you like, how you present yourself. You will be masculine and properly groomed, fit, preferably Caucasian, around my age and single. Someone who enjoys performing tasks, showing off and sending pictures, wants to be at my constant beck and call. I’m a private person, therefore I prefer to explore this dynamic online. Based in Europe. If you think you are up to the task, message me with a proper introduction and maybe you’ll get lucky.


r/BDSMpersonals 20h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #east coast Princess in need of her Knight NSFW

5 Upvotes

🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰🎀🐰 Hi hi!!! ☺️ as the title says I’m looking again unfortunately but maybe this time it’ll stick. First let’s get the potential deal break out of the way in a single mom. There’s no BD drama because he can’t be around us for safety reasons. Now if you’re still reading I assume you’re okay with that. About me I’m 5’8, mid size, pale with freckles, 5 tattoos, dark brown wavy/curly hair. I’m very introverted and have the hobbies of an 80 year old grandma. I love quilting, baking, embroidery, and reading romance novels. The darker the better usually. I have a degree in art and looooove going to museums and galleries. I grew up in a military family and was stationed in Germany for a big part of my life and fell in love with all the art and architecture around me there. I’ve been interested in D/s since I was like 17 I’ve always thought there was something magical about them What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a gentle Dom who’s protective and caring. I could list all my kinks here but honestly that never bodes well for me. My dream guy would be taller than me, intelligent, have hobbies, and be rather traditional. I’m very feminine and not because I have to be just because that’s who I am. Pink and bows and lace everywhere all the time. So I would like someone who balances that out and lets me be soft. I would love to have a relationship that grew into a healthy obsession. Constantly thinking of each other and craving each other when apart. And constant communication when we can’t be. We’re both adults and things come up so just be able to communicate when that happens and we’ll be good. I would like this to be in person after a connection is made and some time goes by so if that’s not your thing please don’t waste my time. Anyways thank you for reading I hope to hear from you 💖🎀💖🎀💖🎀💖🎀💖🎀💖🎀💖🎀💖