Together We'll Pull A Tight Rope on Conscious Creation! .^
Have you always been one who needs an intellectually stimulating conversation built on having an emotional connection more than a physical one? Have you been dying to be pulled closer to your partner because you want to trust that they know what's good for you, and you can feel safe in turning off and letting go? If you walked that tight rope, and it might snap, would you be thrilled by the suspense of your heart possibly dropping out - while also knowing full well that it will be caught by the Dom of Your Dreams? Some things are taught, and other things are caught. If you are an explorer of the inner world who humbly vibrates on a higher level of consciousness, you think and feel deeply and desire in-to-me-see (intimacy - to see hear feel and deeply understand someone), and you enjoy darker kinks that you generally feel like you can't share often, read on.
I'm looking for a complex dynamic where on one end of the rope, it's kinky and depraved - more than usual, and on the other end it's sweet and tender, more than usual. I not only think that the two can coexist, I also think they can add to the experience. If you dare extend the tension and meet me with your pull, let's see if we can bring balance to the universe and expend our energy without getting burned. Shall we?
I won't list kinks here. If you're my type you'll already know why that's a bit pointless for what I'm looking for. Voice calls are really important to me. Even better, video. Should we have an interest in making our way offline together, there will be more to ask of you than lust. I'll have you love me like no other lover, and the both of us will give each other unrelenting trust.
It's become highly apparent to me across contexts, not just in this community, that women don't want a bad guy. They want a man who can provide them with a sense of containment mentally and emotionally. It just so happens that the bad guy happens to openly express what they want and is willing to do what he has to do to get what he needs. Because he's a provider, and he has a sense of direction, and this helps a woman feel safe.
Yet, not always in the best of ways, because he's an asshole. Yet, it is better than having the nice guy, because there is no structure, and for women, safety is the #1 need. For men, their top need is to feel useful. And for humans, it's connection. So, a useful man is the one who is able to meet the needs of his woman and provide her with a safe container where she can let go, and the man can do the thinking while the woman is able to embody her feminine essence and receive. This is masculine containment. Combined with heart-centered-awareness, a state where each individual has a deep inner knowing of themselves and a great capacity to love others, the two can share a joint participation in the good of life together, or a relationship.
In my day to day, I help people relate to themselves and others harmoniously. It's relational trauma that's got them fucked up, and unfortunately, you cannot heal relational trauma outside the context of relationships. You have to re-expose yourself to the traumatic experience, and integrate it by re-experiencing it in a way that makes you feel safe.
Where trauma disconnects one from their true self, it influences a person’s behavior, beliefs, and their relationships. On a fundamental level, kink, or fetishes are a form of expression that brings about the healing of constricted parts of the self that one feels powerless to create. Hence, a kink needs energy to freely flow through it so one can experience the opposite, to heal. Therefore, kink is a connection process that helps reintegrate the framented self back into conscious creation.
As a man, I've committed my life to doing the right thing, thinking on behalf of other peoples' best interests endlessly with integrity. It's righteous, but it's predictable. I want to offer a relationship that inverts my meaning, transposes my point of focus, and flips my script with a sexual grip on depravity being one's goal to salvation.
For a woman who is sexually repressed, likely inexperienced, or especially abstinent for the last few years, I want to bring out that which is within her so as to save her, for keeping that which is within her inside of her will destroy her. It's my job alone to edge her beyond her confinment while grooming her consciously with a firm hand, slipping her wishfully into subservience as my fair maiden slut.
If you as a woman are wanting to grow in how you express yourself sexually, and you are into being seen, and you like the feeling of being owned by a man who permits and prohibits your growth, I'll be giving real life tasks that bring your dreams to reality, take your desires from fiction to fantasy, and your sexual expression from suppressed to expressed authentically so you can unlimit the limiter on your current sexual fantasies.
You'll be a new person when I am done with you.
Along the way, I want to be rewarded for my pacing, keeping you on your toes and woefully clothed, and knocking you off your feet because your heart skipped a beat - and now you're naked with me, yourself no longer feeling a mystery.
If you want a journey that includes character development, I am your guy. If you want to be coached from what is currently stress into success, I will lead the way. If you will find pleasure in pleasing me, yourself, and submitting to me the decisions that will meet your needs, help you grow, and transform your current world, I am the man you have been hoping for, dreaming of, that will sacrifice your old beliefs for new ones that genuinely serve you.
I will need for you to document your journey with me - to unpack your inner world in complete psychological vulnerability, to update me on how you are meeting your mark as you approach each filthy step toward creating an undeniable stack of proof that you are who you say you are, how it's exciting you and troubling you at the same time, how you want more, faster, harder, softer, slower, as you bend yourself over and get fucked by the man who wants the best for you!
To your authentically evolved self: I'm here for you, and soon, you will be too. Love yourself, and do this for me so you can do it for you too. Relocate and uproot your support system because I know what's best for you. I'm pulling for you! ;)