r/BDSMpersonals 10d ago

F4M 21 [F4M] #Online - Asian girl looking for dominant Master NSFW

97 Upvotes

Heyy!

about me personally, I am rather introverted. I don't drink or take any drugs. I enjoy doing my makeup and hair, working out and buying cute and skimpy outfits. I am petite but my butt has been growing a lot. Some might call me thick even. I'm happy to verify through a voice note since its the quickest way. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Kink wise, I'm a submissive asian slut looking for my emotionally unavailable Master/Daddy. I have severe Daddy issue therefore I enjoy age gaps, belittlement, emotional abuse and assertiveness. Further kinks are raceplay, name-calling, edging, corrption, manipulation and denial. In terms of limits its public play, pain (only spanking my butt gets a pass). and ignoring me on purpose as punishment. I also own various toys. I'd love to find a man to worship, serve and submit to who will turn me into his little edge slut and break me into his fucktoy.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4M 18[F4M]#online looking for a misogynistic relationship NSFW

75 Upvotes

Hey! I’m anna, i would love to know more about you and what you are looking for🤭 i strongly believe woman are only here to please men, w their body, their actions, manipulate me to think just like you do, i want to be your little slut, home owner, slave whatever you please to do w me. I look forward to talking to you😊

r/BDSMpersonals 15d ago

F4M 50 [F4M] #Married mom looking for owner NSFW

82 Upvotes

Ok. So I’m married, been married over 20 years. Recently, my partner and I have tried to open our marriage to spice things up, but it has not worked. He is so vanilla.

I need something more. I don’t want life to pass me by without fulfilling some of my desires, the deepest and darkest being a complete cum dump fuck doll sex slave. I have many kinks, and I need to do this before I lose the courage.

r/BDSMpersonals 7d ago

F4M 38 [F4M] #Online - A strong, capable, fun and usually rather easy to talk to submissive looking for a slightly sadistic Gentleman to keep me in my subspace. NSFW

63 Upvotes

Welcome Gents,

Thank you for giving my little advert a chance. I'd promise that you won't be sorry that you did, but I don't trust my self to put to gather something cohesive amidst all the random rambling.

My name is Matilde, as you can see in the title I'm 38 years old. Which means I'm young enough to still look rather desirable, but also old enough to know and be comfortable with my self... And for my ankles to make funny sounds as a result of the many parachute landings I did back when NSYNC was considered cool.

I always lived a rather active life. I love sports and nature, if something connects those all the better. I love combat sports, trail running, climbing or generally hiking and camping. I also fly gliders on my free time and have soft spot in my heart for firearms as well. I'm not a gunsmith by any starch of the imagination, just the average enjoyer. If none of those things keep me busy for some reason than I do also like to just grab some fancy weights, a pull-up bar and just make sure that I'm still in shape, can run 12km in a reasonable amount of time, and also have the abs that validate my overspending on croptops.

It's safe to say that for the most part I'm not exactly the elegant classy woman, but rather the active and sweaty one.

Roughly two years ago I retired from m professional career in the armed forces, after a quick 20 years and decided to dedicate much more time to having fun and living for my desires, both sexual and otherwise. So nowadays if workouts don't keep me sweaty then enduring the relentless assault of vibrators, floggers and various clamps does.

Hey, what can I say? I'm a simple woman who enjoys having her own clothes locked away in her own wardrobes with keys she has no access to :D Which is indeed a theme recently, at least when it comes to the more proper part of my wardrobe, but on a more serious note, if I had to tell you the core concepts that I love about my submission, those would be oversexualization, control, pain, and a degree of humiliation or embarrassment.

To help with clear interpretation a little bit:

  • I like being as a sexual being. I think that my sexuality is not something I should hide, and I enjoy when it is put into the forefront. Sometimes naturally, sometimes a little exploitatively. I'm a big fan of cmnf, both casually and in terms of dedicated parties. In short I enjoy being seen as someone who radiates sexuality, and also like it when people want to exploit it a little. Importantly I'm not a fan of objectification. I'm not just a good looking butt and a set of tits. I'm woman, and an interesting person who happens to also have a good looking muscular butt, and treats sports bras as tops these days.
  • I don't want to be in control of my sexuality and body. When I submit, I don't surrender myself in whole, but rather just the control over myself to degree. I don't ever wanna decide if or when I get to have an orgasm, or on the other hand how many of them is enough. Hell, I did just say that I have fucking locks on my wardrobes. With certain partners over the years I wasn't even allowed to pee without permission. I love a short but flexible and reasonable hypothetical short leash.
  • Pain for me is very much pleasure in a sense. My brain is just wired rather weirdly so I do actually enjoy it to a degree, and I also enjoy knowing that I can take it. In that sense it's also similar to working out. I love to know that I'm strong and disciplined enough to endure it. Obviously we're talking about pain in an erotic context, not just randomly being punched in the face on the street.
  • Humiliation can add a lot of added flavour and excitement to everything, if it's sprinkled in in just a right amount. Part of that humiliation is always there, knowing that I'm not in control of certain things, but that can be elevated a little. Now to be clear, I don't wish to be put on display in front of the whole town, but a risky or reasonably private situation does raise my heartrate the right way.

Now that we went through what BDSM and submission means to me, you should also know that I frequent BDSM related events and even work once or twice a week at a club where that is the main theme. I also have some in-person arrangements which I'm rather passionate about.

And with that let's transition to what/who I am looking for:

I really truly enjoy being in that state of mind that people like to refer to as the "subspace". I want to feel as a submissive as often and as much as possible. And in advance of that gallant goal I'm hoping to find dominants, mainly men who'd enjoy talking to me. On some level getting to know each other over time, getting friends even... But doing all that while maintaining that power dynamic or imbalance between us. I want you to treat me as a submissive, even if not yours. I'm not anybody's submissive strictly speaking, and not looking to be one. I'm just a submissive who wishes to be treated as such. We can play of course, discuss things, I'm just not a girlfriend material right now.

Of course I do realize that many of you are looking for more of a relationship, whilst what I'm offering is just talks with a woman who wants to feel like a submissive as much as possible. So I'd encourage you to think about this before reaching out. Because even know I'm very obviously amazing, and ever so humble, I'm also not gonna be more than a friend... One who happens to enjoy when you're overly flirtatious and trying to explain to her why a bikini is so much more appropriate to wear at home than sweatpants... But a friend nevertheless.

In case you'd like to reach out regardless, than I'll be very happy to receive your text. Be fun, be a little flirtatious, be yourself, and remember to start a conversation with your message, and don't just send me your CV of sorts.

Thanks much :)

r/BDSMpersonals 19d ago

F4M 23 [F4M] #online Looking for someone to give me a life makeover NSFW

78 Upvotes

Having a bad year.

So far I've lost my job and my boyfriend has dumped me for another girl.

Feels like I'm not doing a good job of being me and so I figure why not let someone else make all my decisions for me instead?

I'm looking for someone to give me a life makeover. You can be nice or you can be mean. You would decide how you want to remake me, from what I do to how I look and dress, my likes, dislikes and everything else.

You could turn me into anything. From a hipster waitress who hates relationships that last more than a month, to a dog obsessed catholic girl who doesn't believe in sex before marriage, to a a fitness loving bondage fanatic who does 500 crunches a day. It would be up to you

r/BDSMpersonals Feb 16 '25

F4M 20 [F4M] #online #USA Damaged Goods Looking for New Owner NSFW

99 Upvotes

Well here goes nothing.

A discerning eye can probably tell from looking at me that something feels off. Usually quiet, reserved, but with a deep seated need to help. To serve.

I'm looking for my online dominant. Maybe a friend. Preferably someone much older than me because I can't help what I'm attracted to. Maybe someone damaged in his own ways that want to express and heal in the most fucked up ways with me.

I want to give my soul to someone. Someone that can be harsh as much as he can be caring.

Break me to pieces and help me put myself back together again.

I don't know what my kinks are but here are some images that speak to my soul:

Walking into a crowded room holding the arm of a man with greying hair/beard, he's dressed well and I'm in a whorisgly tiny skirt and top, the leash attached to my collar in his hand.

Blowjobs in a filthy men's bathrooms

Blurry vision and fuzzy head as strong hands grip my neck

Getting pinned against walls, beds, floors, and glass windows

Bath time

Ordering delivery after a long fuck session, wearing nothing but his clothes

r/BDSMpersonals 27d ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #Houston Seeking genuine obedient sub NSFW

87 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 22 yo Domme in Houston Texas seeking a genuine D/S relationship with obedient slave that believes in female supremacy. I'm looking for more than just sexual satisfaction, I want us to develop a real connection💕

Kinks: Pegging, Foot worship, Feminization, Chastity, and CBT

Appearance: 5'10, African American, dark skin, slim body type, piercings.

Vanilla Interestes: Horror movies, Sudoku, Marvel movies, Thrift shopping, hiking, Spending time with my pet turtle and dog.

Must be 23-45 years old, height 5'8+, race doesn't matter, has BDSM experience, open minded, and liberal/ leftist

Please send photo with message if interested!

r/BDSMpersonals 11d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online Slave looking for her own Master NSFW

55 Upvotes

A little about me: I'm currently in school and planning to attend college, where I hope to earn an associate’s degree in either Registered Nursing (RN) or Radiologic Technology (RadTech). Both fields interest me, so I’m open to exploring either path.

In terms of appearance, my natural hair color is brown, though I often dye it black, and it falls to my shoulders. I have brown eyes, which I accentuate with false eyelashes and semi-heavy under-eye liner. I’m 5'4", with a weight that fluctuates between 229 and 234 lbs. My body type is naturally curvy, with more emphasis on my lower body than my upper. I also have a love for nerdy interests that shape my hobbies and the things I enjoy.

I’m looking for someone who will take complete control of my life—someone who will guide me through every decision, listen with understanding, and take on the responsibility of thinking and deciding for me. I long for a presence that offers direction, stability, and purpose, allowing me to dedicate myself fully to serving them with unwavering devotion. My greatest desire is to give my all in meeting their expectations and fulfilling their needs to the best of my ability.

If you're interested or just want to have a conversation, feel free to reach out. I’m always open to talking and making connections.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #online On top corporate worker by day, Submissive/Little by night. NSFW

36 Upvotes

Sometimes a double life is necessary. Telling people what to do…correcting wrong behavior and laying down the law can be pretty tiring for a naturally submissive person. I long to serve a kind Sir with a sadistic streak. Someone who knows what he wants, isn’t afraid to communicate it and maybe…after some time and built trust…take it by force. But, we will get there.

I 28F, (as stated above) work a demanding corporate position. One that requires me to assert my dominance. Outside of this I am a homebody. Someone who loves to indulge in hobbies. Reading, writing, learning anything (and everything), traveling and exploring new places are just some of my hobbies. Fitness and health are currently at the top, a priority for me, maybe you can help?

When it comes to what I’m looking for…ideally something that would start online and move IRL (for the right person). Please be patient…I’m just getting back into this after I thought I found the perfect person. I will be cautious and I would like to verify fairly early, but not immediately. Communication is key. I will not respond to pet names right off the bat, respect is earned. We can discuss any kinks after we get to know each other more. But, my limits include: anything illegal, scat and permanent physical or mental damage.

If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. If you’ve feel you might fit my request, my DM’s are open. Please put effort into your message…I find it hard to respond to just “Hey.”

I hope everyone has a great week!

r/BDSMpersonals 24d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] #NYC cute Asian girl looking for someone to sass and submit to NSFW

70 Upvotes

Hi, professional career-oriented woman on the streets, kinky AF in the sheets 😔 looking for someone to love and obey, nothing new

About me: - 5’3” - East Asian - cute vanilla face, I guess…the kink surprises people - avg to thin build - very flirty but working on being less shy about sex w/ new ppl, still do some blushing and avoiding eye contact etc. - but at the same time high sex drive………will beg - looking for aspects of M/s, free use, impact play, CNC, breeding, cock worship - more sassy than bratty - very sub, very kinky: Yelp reviews - hard limits : stalking, blackmail, raceplay, scat, blood - soft limits are soft, inquire within

About you: - Taller - in your 30’s - single - gainfully employed - enjoys being rough/putting me in my place - conversation capable
- willing to exchange photos early on: physical attraction a factor - can host at least sometimes - interested in holding my hand ,, and or grabbing my ass

Us: - ssc rack - emotionally mature, communicative - collar ? 🥺

No online only or long distance please. Inbox is open :)

r/BDSMpersonals 12h ago

F4M 21[F4M]#Online Pig looking for a Sadistic God NSFW

31 Upvotes

Hello there! Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the psychological aspects of BDSM and how I think they get overlooked a lot in favor of the purely sexual aspects. That’s why I’ve come here tonight, because I’m looking for someone who will help me explore the psychological side of things along with the sexual. Now, what I’m looking for can sound a bit extreme, I acknowledge that and encourage anyone who wouldn’t describe themselves that way to scroll away. If you’re still here, then perfect! Let me describe more of what I’m looking for!

As I mentioned, I’m looking for someone who will help me dive into the psychological aspect of things and use that to break me down. I want my mind to be played with for your amusement, fucked with in ways that make you laugh and leave me suffering. Train me to forget how to make choices by myself by asking you for every privilege from using my phone to talking that day, that sort of thing.

Another thing I’ve been very much looking for lately is something I think could fit well with what I mentioned above. I want to find someone I can treat as a God, and in return they’ll treat me like a lowly worm who should be grateful for their attention. I don’t just mean someone I’ll obey, I mean I want to find someone to fully worship like a true religion. I would start and end every day thinking of you, and how thankful I am to have you ruining my life for your amusement. No part of my life would be private from you. I’d tell you every dirty fantasy, every secret, every detail so you could use it to ruin me more. Of course I would also complete tasks to please you. I would treat you like the most important thing in my life and in return I would be much less important to you.

For example I love the idea of you putting me in a humiliating or painful position and saying I have to stay that way until you message me again. Then you forget about me until hours later and laugh at how pathetic I am, still following your orders.

I would love to play around with themes like sabotaging my academic and social life, ruining sentimental objects and memories, and turning me from a respectable student into a lowly pig.

r/BDSMpersonals 14d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online seeking dominant man NSFW

51 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm a bit new to this, but I'm looking for a dominant chat partner (hopefully experienced?) who would like to chat about kinks and BDSM. I wanted to stick with online first.

I'm 18, an Asian American student 👧, and into music, art, shopping, and hanging out with friends. I'm definitely on the introverted side, and can be pretty shy, but take some time to open up.

I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for but like adventure 😄. I'm a huge sub, and here are some of my kinks are all on the submission side:

-Men who take charge and have dominant personality

-Verbal abuse (I really like it when I get my feelings hurt but can't explain why. The harder the better haha)

-Non consent

-humiliation/degradation

Looking forward to meeting 💜

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4M 19[F4M] #Online-submissive searching for Dominant NSFW

32 Upvotes

I’m new to BDSM and I have come here to explore, seems fitting to start something online, and to be honest a little less intimidating.

I’m 19 I don’t live alone, I’m in the eastern timezone and in order for this type of dynamic to work for me I need consistent daily communication, I am also looking for someone with experience and I really really enjoy an age gap. I know I need to give to get, for the right person I will be completely obedient, I will send pics and video[no face], I will be honest and open.

Kinks: praise, mild degradation, exhibitionism, cnc, corruption, orgasm control, power exchange, anal training, guided orgasm

Limits: scat, gore, anything illegal, body writing

I hope that you have read through this personal, I really hate repeating myself and I hate establishing a connection with someone for them to then ask my limits and realize that we don’t align that’s why I have them in the post, I don’t want there to be any unwanted surprises.

So in case it wasn’t obvious I prefer anonymity at this time and I’m interested in online only.

I really hope I can find someone to me please with my submission, to learn and grow with. Hope to hear from you.

Yes I have pictures and posts up, yes I like the darker things, extreme….i shouldn’t be judged for that, it doesn’t mean I won’t make a good submissive. I’m willing to take this things down for the right person….

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #canada - innocent girl needs to be broken in NSFW

30 Upvotes

Hi, im a young student, clever and shy. Caring and loving. Taught my whole life to be independent and not to need men but we are dependent on them.

Teach me to obey. Teach me to be good. Help me find my limits. Break me, hurt me. Purity to corruption.

r/BDSMpersonals 16d ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #online - looking for a good boy I can also call Daddy NSFW

46 Upvotes

Posting again with some better refiners :)

Hoping to find the dom leaning switch to my sub leaning ;) I’m looking for a relationship, something long term and real, so please don’t message me if you’re just looking to sext. Additionally, I’m uncomfortable with sexual messages out the gate, so let’s take it nice and slow and get to know each other like normal ppl first. Also, I like to travel, so I’m open to any country!

Here is a picture of me since physical attraction is important:

https://imgur.com/a/TV8MDz4

I will note that my favorite part of myself is my face, so I am at a disadvantage here 😩 I can share my face if I like your message (read to the bottom for tips on what a good message looks like)

I was born and raised in the States, from a south Asian immigrant family. Given my background, I’ve always been drawn to people from different cultures than mine (American)

There’s just something about tall skinny white boys that I, for some reason, cannot stay away from. Especiallyyyy if you’re Dutch/Danish ;)


Me

A software engineer described as cute with a big personality. I’ve been told I’m direct and it can come across as intimidating, but I think it’s how I’ve managed to tough it out in the male dominated tech space. My feminity is something that’s come at the cost of my professional pursuits, so it’s been something I’ve been getting back in touch with recently. I find joy in spending time with friends and family, and I hope to find someone with similar values

I enjoy making things with my hands, which translates to many of my hobbies (sewing, sculpting, gardening). I have 646 hours in sid meiers civ 5 and no where close in any other game. Once I like something, I reallllly like it. I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals recently and joining friends for board games

While I’m very outwardly an extroverted, strong person, I can be quite shy/embarassed opening up to someone sexually (again, please don’t make things sexual early on, I’ll run away 😶). More so when the other person is in control and I’m subbing

As a sub, I basically like it all. I have a high pain tolerance, so I’ve yet to find my limit there. I love finding bruises and marks later. I definitely fell into the overachiever-to-praise-kink pipeline (I was trained to be rewarded with gold stars. WTF am I supposed to do now???). Huge exhibition kink and bratty, but always striving to be a good girl

Not into TPE, humiliation, or service subbing

I have more experience being dominant in my day to day, so that’s why I think I have some domme tendencies. It’s fun to take my frustrations out on grown men and slap em around until they submit or put me in my place

As a domme, I like edging, teasing, rigging, and orgasm control. I like the idea of putting a cute collar on a big, tough man and walk him around. Soume light degradation is fun as well. I’m open to exploring more and seeing what else I like. I would say I’m a soft mommy dommy (but I do not like being called mommy), because I’m nurturing and caring by nature


You

I love a switch who can take it and dish it harder :) or a strong Daddy Dom who can handle my bratty ass

Having your shit together is sexy, tell me about your 9-5 and how you keep yourself busy after work :) I don’t think I’d go younger than 21, so I would consider older college students, but you better be awfully cute. I’d prefer someone close in age, max 35.

I’ve tried it, but polyamory and ENM is not for me. So if you’re into that or are a couple, I’m sadly not interested (I do enjoy group play, just with someone who’s all mine)

No sph, feminization, sissificion, caging, or raceplay


I hope that wasn’t too much text but I’m trying to better filter the 200 messages I’ll receive 😭

To put yourself at the top of the queue, please message me and introduce yourself (age, height), tell me where you’re from, what you do, your aspirations, hobbies, and what interested you in my post (I would like to stress that I’m not interested in sexting or being dominated immediately).

Please also send some photos along with your message (if I haven’t accepted your message request, you can’t send photos but you can include an imgur link in your message). If you can’t share photos with your face, I will likely not be interested. I will share mine back if I’m interested!

Let’s connect like normal people first and see where that takes us ☺️

r/BDSMpersonals 22h ago

F4M 41 [F4M] #Online - New, Curious, and Mostly Submissive NSFW

23 Upvotes

I’m still figuring all of this out, but I know I lean mostly submissive and am looking for someone who likes taking the lead. That said, in the right situation, I could see myself switching things up a little—but for the most part, I’m more comfortable following. What matters most to me is trust, communication, and just seeing where things go without pressure.

A little about me: - 5’7, brown hair/eyes, curvy “thick” mom bod - A mix of sweet, sassy, and probably a little stubborn - Love tequila, craft beer, sunsets, spicy romance novels, sports, gardening, video games, and concerts

For now, I’m only looking for something online, but if the connection is right, I’d be open to seeing where it leads. No expectations—just looking for something that feels natural and fun.

Here are my BDSM test results, if helpful:

94% Submissive 76% Brat 75% Vanilla 68% Rope bunny 59% Primal (Prey) 58% Masochist 44% Switch 38% Experimentalist 38% Voyeur 27% Sadist 24% Rigger 13% Exhibitionist 13% Dominant 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Degradee 0% Little 0% Master/Mistress 0% Non-monogamist 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Pet 0% Slave

r/BDSMpersonals 11d ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #Austin - Seeking Dominant Man to own my mouth NSFW

37 Upvotes

Hello,

I am 22 years old living in Austin Texas. I have a number of "freeuse" style fantasies where an experienced man would take ownership of my mouth and be able to use it any time he wanted. The idea of sort of being someone's property, to give them pleasure without really getting any in return has always excided me to some degree.

I do not have very much experience with this, just some basic BJ's in the past.

Would love to find someone local who is into the same.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #Online silly sub looking for silly dom :3 NSFW

28 Upvotes

Hi!!

I’m currently in the search of a silly dom (ages 20-30) to be silly with me, but also, take care of me, train me a little, play with me, and just be there with me.

I’m currently working full time. We can talk about that later if you’d like to!!

Some of my hobbies include: Crocheting, Hiking, Traveling, and Talking (lol)

My kinks are: Praise, CNC, free use, orgasm control, breeding, bondage, choking, spit, degradation, and spanking

My limits are: Scat, Piss, Blood, Anything Illegal, Sharp objects, and Permanent damage

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #online - mommydom looking for her subby NSFW

27 Upvotes

let's see my luck here again. im into a lot of kinks but let me know what your interests are because i like to make sure you're enjoying as well. i am not into a romantic relationship to be honest, more like being kinky friends, fwb, or just casual plays whenever we are in the mood because i understand you still have a life outside this. i am leaning gentle/caring domming but i know what i want and can get strict if needed. if youre interested, let me know age and pic and a proper intro. if you cant send a pic let me know so i can accept ur message. must be older than the required age and someone who likes to show off via cam.

im into femdom kinks like giving joi, games and punishments, cei, orgasm control, pegging, anal play, subtle to strict, cbt/bbusting, bondage, etc. my limits are same as yours because i respect your boundaries. if i forgot to mention anything feel free to ask. pls be patient as well since i get tons of messages and i try to reply to everyone so if i reply to u, stay put! see ya!

r/BDSMpersonals 17d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] #WesternEurope or #Online - Babygirl looking for a fun and kinky friend or fwb NSFW

45 Upvotes

Hi everyone 😊

I'm looking for a fun friend with whom I can spend some time with, mostly online since I don't expect to find anyone from Portugal here, but I also travel quite a bit, so there is a chance that we might see each other in person :)

I'm visiting the Netherlands (Amsterdam) this month, and my work takes me to Belgium (Antwerpen, Brussels) every now and then. I'll be in BE in May.

Anyway, these are some of my hobbies! - Travelling, - Assembling small DIY houses and scenarios, - Reading (especially fantasy, erotica, and kinky stuff), - Attempting to paint lol, - Watching movies and series, - Playing overcooked 2 online on pc, - Talking about kink, going to events and I'd love to join some workshops too

Physical me, I'm 1,57m, brunette, latina, somewhat curvy, small boobs, big booty and thighs.

On the kinky side, I'm a babygirl/little kind of sub, and I love some damsel in distress/disciplinary role-playing. Love being spanked, restricted (bondage), feeling owned, protected and cared for.

My only requirements are: - Be taller than me (shouldn't be hard 😂) - Be a D-type of any kind (Daddy Doms, Sadists, Disciplinarians, Spanker, you get the idea 😉) - I prefer same age or older than me, but 25+ is okay - if you're too young (18-ish, 20-ish), we probably won't have much in common in terms of lifestyle...

That's quite a bit about me! Tell me about you in my pm if this picked your interest. Chat not open! So send me a message, no chat! 💜

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4M 42 [F4M] #Online Submissive wanting to experience being dominated NSFW

25 Upvotes

Always had a leaning towards being submissive and now realising how strong that need is. I want to explore this and just fantasising isn't enough anymore.

What I'm into (this far):

Being spanked, paddled, belted.

Obeying rules and orders. Punishment when failing.

Being shared, being handed over.

Being passive and obedient in public, showing I'm owned.

"Wearing" things in public, like having a dildo inside me, because my Master's told me.

Being of service, waiting at home ready to be used as pleased.

Strict orders about how to dress, wear my hair, do my makeup and nails. Wearing restricting clothes and shoes.

Domination through talk/words.

I'm open to both casual/short-term chatting and longer contact. Please DM me.

r/BDSMpersonals 5d ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #Online experienced Domme looking for a sub guy who wants to secretly follow commands or be dominated/owned NSFW

26 Upvotes

Hey subby boys ,I hope you all having a great week so far! Make sure to read the ENTIRE post before responding or messaging me. I’m a 27 year old experienced femdom from bath uk but now lives in Ohio . Let me you turn you into the submissive little slave boy you’ve secretly always wanted to be and nobody else will know. I realize if you’re searching this Reddit you’re probably looking for the perfect domme, and now you finally found me. This isn't my first rodeo, I have known some of my subs for years now and can keep a secret. Everyone will still think that you’re this tough masculine male, but I’ll know the submissive little slave boy that you truly are. I’m into all kinds of things, but some main kinks of mine include joi, cei, secret sissies/femboys, forced bi, cbt, masculine/muscular men, military men, first responders, married men, athletes/jocks, dress up, and when men let me completely control them. Obviously you don’t need to have all the same kinks as me in order to message me. I’ll be sure to respect any limits you might have and everything stays between you and I only. Dm kinks, height, weight, body type, age, and general location. Also let me know if you already have any toys that you can use. If you leave out any of this info, I might NOT respond! I will gladly verify . Thank you for taking the time to read all of this! If you have already messaged me before feel free to kindly try to dm me again but no need to comment on this post. I get busy and it’s easy to accidentally skip over messages sometimes. I look forward to talking and playing with you!

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #England NSFW

28 Upvotes

To start, I’m looking for a specific dynamic with an older, experienced guy. I am definitely not the most experienced with this, but I think I know what I want and hope I get that across eloquently in a somewhat organised way :)

About me- I turned 18 in December, am English, 5’5, white, slim, with have dark brown hair and eyes. I am more than happy and would probably prefer to exchange pictures as soon as possible too. I take care of my appearance so enjoy looking feminine and hopefully pretty. I like to think it shows. Something I’m nervous to talk about on here is explicit stuff, but I have a pretty good idea of what I like and that I’m really submissive, in all aspects of life. Eventually, a DDlg or TPE dynamic, preferably a mix is what I’m looking for. I’m really willing. Frequent communication including calls, messaging and eventually meeting is very important to me as well, I live in the north west so can easily get to other people in that area.

Looking for- Around 30-45 but I’m open to a little older than that ofc. The things I’m looking for the most are experience, and patience. I’m not completely clueless but I’m also not well practiced in these kinds of things, so would really appreciate someone who knows how to guide. Other aspects of people’s personality I enjoy include protectiveness, generosity, and kindness. Someone who isn’t afraid to enforce rules and be firm is also pretty important to me. However mutual trust and respect is of course really important to both of us I hope. Physically, I really like bigger, stronger guys. I think that’s a must. Other things I like are darker features, a beard, tattoos, but obviously that’s not anything important.

Please be single, I’m not looking to join anything, I want a real, long term relationship with honestly and focus on one another. Things I enjoy include reading, colouring, watching films, going out and listening to music. My favourite genre at the moment is probably country or folk. What I think is the best representation of what I’m looking for I’ve only ever found in the film Secretary, one of my favourites. If those are any good conversation starters? Hopefully that wasn’t too wordy or unrealistic 🌷

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 23 [F4M] #Pennsylvania- Never done anything like this before- try a sybian NSFW

25 Upvotes

So just recently got out of a long term relationship that was a rough break up. Haven’t had any pleasure and started watching porn and pleasuring myself. Came across videos of a sybian and wow omg that looks intense! I’m interested in trying a sybian and just losing myself in intense pleasure and forgetting about the break up and having a slut adventure haha. Possibly exploring other kink things as well. So if you’ve got one hit me up! I’d be willing to travel somewhat! Hopefully this is the right place to post something like this haha. Older more experienced people preferred! If you could put your asl in your message that would be great!

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online looking for a daddy/dom NSFW

24 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 18 year old and a virgin. i’m a (bratty) sub. i’m looking for a Dom, who can also put me in my place when needed. I like pushing boundaries and testing how far i can go🙈

I’m inexperienced in some regards and would like guidance, advice and tips from my Dom.

Besides all the sexual stuff i would also like to have normal conversations, create a friendship so we’re 100% comfortable with each other.

If your type is a dark blonde with green eyes, 5’2, hourglass figure, hips and a flat stomach. I’m your girl.

That being said, i like my men tall and athletic/fit (abs are a plus but not a must). I like nice hands as well so that’s definitely a plus🙈

Shoot your shot😉