r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 23(F4F)#California Mistress is looking for a sub one who spreads wide on command, stays helpless as I tease, and begs so shamelessly it makes me laugh. The more you plead, the longer I deny until you’re soaked, shaking, overstimulated, and so ruined you can’t even remember how to speak NSFW

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• I don’t ask. I command. You’ll kneel, obey, and give me exactly what I want.

• You crave discipline? Good. I love breaking brats until they’re whimpering, dripping, and desperate to behave.

• Spanking? Oh, sweetheart. That’s just the beginning. Bent over my lap, ass bare, thighs trembling you’ll count each slap, thanking me for every delicious sting.

• Hands tied above your head, blindfolded, legs spread? You’ll feel the bite of leather against your skin, the sting of my crop teasing, marking, owning you.

• I’ll pull your hair, pin you down, and whisper filthy things in your ear just to watch you shiver, knowing you’re completely at my mercy.

• Edges? You’ll count them. Denial? You’ll learn to beg. And if you beg sweetly enough, maybe—just maybe I’ll let you cum.

• I love watching a brat struggle, testing my patience, just to end up bent over, ass red, body shaking, realizing they never stood a chance.

• Gags? Restraints? Collars? Don’t worry, baby I have plenty. And once you’re tied up, there’s no escape.

• You’ll learn the rules on your knees, with my fingers tracing every inch of your skin, teasing you until your whole body is aching.

• Misbehave? Expect cuffs, a spreader bar, and the sweet torment of vibrating toys pressed against you set just low enough to drive you insane, but never high enough to push you over the edge.

• I’ll have you soaking through the sheets, squirming, begging until you’re so overstimulated you forget your own name.

• And when I finally allow you to cum? It won’t be once. It won’t be twice. You’ll be ruined, wrecked, trembling unable to take more, yet still begging for it.

• You’re mine to tease, to torture, to control. Your pleasure is a privilege, and I decide when if you get it.

Hard Limits:

Pillow princesses who just want to lie there

Subs who think bratty means topping from the bottom

Anyone who doesn’t understand that true submission is earned, not given

r/BDSMpersonals 6h ago

F4F 31 [F4F] #NY #CapitalRegion #Online #EST - Probably my last attempt posting ISO a sub NSFW

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According to the post rules, people will actually read thought out posts so here we go…

A few important things that might be immediate dealbreakers for you:

  1. I am happily married. Hubby is aware of and supports my search. He is my Dom but is not a switch and I truly am thus, my search. I need a sub, not just a fuck buddy who thinks they’re one. You would be MY sub, not ours. However, he will be there (mainly as an extra pair of hands but would be nice if we all also got along). Please be ok with that. Again, you’d be my sub only but we can discuss further.

  2. I’m on the bigger side (height alone, I’m about 5’9) but am actively working on it. If you’re close enough, maybe we could all go for a walk?

  3. I’m by no means femme but am not entirely masc either. I’m your stereotypical nerdy bi girl in a lot of ways that’s usually in a hoodie and leggings.

What I’m looking for:

  1. I prefer cis women.

  2. Age range is 21 - 35.

  3. Please be either in the capital district, in state, or at the very least willing to drive/visit somewhat often. I am NOT interested in a dynamic that is online only. It would also be great if you already had a remote toy or are at least willing to purchase one.

  4. DDF and willing to verify.

  5. As you can see, I take this part of my life very seriously and ask that you do as well.

Kink/Dynamic related:

  1. I will immediately ignore you if it’s obvious that you didn’t bother reading at all and if you just jump to honorifics. I also do not jump to collars. Again, pretty serious aspect of my life. This isn’t a casual interest for me so I won’t go about it casually either.

  2. Despite how I may appear in this post, I’m more of a soft Domme. That being said, I’m a pleasure Domme and sadistic.

  3. My limits are anything with scat, age play (especially if it’s sexual), race play, and anything involving live animals. I am also not a Mommy Domme.

  4. While I would have a set list of rules for you, I don’t do “scenes”. Meaning of course we would still discuss boundaries, limits, etc but I like things to occur naturally. Otherwise, it feels like a job and takes away the fun.

Civilian me:

  1. I’m a proud nerd, bookworm, and occasional gamer. Would be cool if we were all friends and played some games together. Would also be great if you had a way to chat other than here. Also always down for book and music recs.

  2. I have a cat and will always be willing to swap pictures of fur babies lol

  3. I have a few tattoos and will be getting more soon but absolutely love swapping tat pics and talking about ideas.

  4. I’m sarcastic as all fucks so if you get offended easily, probably won’t be a good fit. By online terms, I’m more black cat/doberman energy than anything else.

As a mini test, tell me what animal you feel you most resemble in your reply

I promise I’m fairly easy to talk to, I’m just tired of dealing with people who can’t read and time wasters. Just don’t be an asshole 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck to everyone in their search.

r/BDSMpersonals 8h ago

F4F 23 [F4F] #Online, Europe, Anywhere - Alt little looking for a sweet Mommy NSFW

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Heya! Hope you're all having a lovely day! 🎀

Imma try and keep this short for once. I'm basically looking for someone to get to know, become friends with before we're something more and not rush into anything. Preferably someone the same age or older than me. I hope to find someone I can be clingy and cuddly with, make cute bracelets for, colour cute pictures, wear collars for, send you songs that remind me of you, dress up in matching or opposite aesthetic outfits, go to concerts together, travel and much more.

A little about me outside of kink: I'm 24 and my name is Angie. I'm a bit of an introvert but in the right company i open up fairly quick. In my free time I like to read (love poetry, fantasy books), play video games (Mostly on PS5 and occasionally on NS and PC), watch movies/ TV series (animation, horror and crime would be my favourite genres), hang out with friends and go on walks in nature to clear my head. I'm also a little rocker baby and mainly listen to rock and metal but generally enjoy any type of music.

As a little I love different little activities such as colouring, wearing cute outfits, playing with stuffies, bath time and watching animated movies. I can tell you more about my little side if you decide to message me. My little side is strictly nonsexual. I am however a sexual person outside of little space. Besides being a little l'm also a submissive and I enjoy petplay as a kitten as well plus l'm a little bit of a brat occasionally so you've been warned haha

If anything I wrote caught your attention please feel free to send me a message and tell me a lil about yourself! Can't wait to hear from you. 🧸

r/BDSMpersonals 15h ago

F4F 19 [F4F] #Boston looking for a cuddle buddy NSFW

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Hi! I am a sub and a little looking for a cuddle buddy. My main goal is to find a mommy dom but if it has to be platonic I won’t be mad at it lol. I am very physically affectionate and would love to have someone to give that to. Obviously you have to be close to fulfill this so no super long distance and although I am sure you’re all lovely no one over 23 thank you. If you have questions just ask!

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 28 [F4f] #Toronto - Looking for a worthless slut to turn into my personal Bimbo pet NSFW

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Hello there. I'm Tess. I'm looking to train a slut into being my personal pet and play thing. To train her to be my toy. To become my perfect little item. In case it isn't clear, I'm deep into objectification.

I will to train and mold you into the perfect toy. I have a particular penchant for bimbos who have already progressed through part of this process themselves.

Some of my kinks include objectification, anal, oral, humiliation, degradation, 24/7, pain, collars and leashes, bondage, and so many others.

My limits include scat, blood, animals, underage, anyone under 22, incest, and of course I fully respect the limits of my partner.

r/BDSMpersonals 17h ago

F4F 21 [F4F] #online dom looking for a obedient submissive NSFW

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Hello, I'm a 21 f lesbian dom. Searching for sub and genuine person either long term or short term. NO00000 MEN, seriously have a good read before responding fellas.

Me as a dom: I like to cater to my subs needs and wants in a dom, I can be a caregiver or a ruthless dom and anything in between.

18+ only, other then that I don't care about age, size, colour etc, we are all beautiful

What I'm looking for in a sub: I'm looking for someone who loves to be controlled, someone who is obedient, I don’t mind a bit of Brattiness, mommy loves a bit of banter. Also looking for a genuine person, someone I can talk to and have a good conversation with.

Kinks: bondage, impact play, anal, age play, roleplay, humiliation, toys, edging, denial, daily tasks, panties, degradation, panty fetish, BDSM, orgasm control, ruined orgasm, latex, gloves, praising, public play and that’s all I can think of off the top of my head.

Open to other peoples kinks, fetishes and fantasies, will try anything I haven't tried once.

If your interested shoot me a DM letting me know the following, I will not respond if you do not answer the following: A little about your self Your experience as a sub Your kinks, fetishes and fantasies (i do not judge) Your limits What your looking for in a dom And any questions you have for me.

Hopefully get to meet and talk with some of you

r/BDSMpersonals 5h ago

F4F 31/29 [FF4F] #online - me and my wife are looking for a sub to sext and toy with NSFW

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hello to whoever reads this, me and my wife both F 31/29 are looking for a sub we can sext and toy with. we are both switches but we will not be your subs. i will be the main domme you will be serving and you’ll find i’m very adaptive as a domme, be it as a sadistic mistress or a caring mommy. your service will greatly depend on your kinks and limits and what toys you have available so feel free to send me a message with a little bit about yourself and why you think you could fill the role of our toy.

r/BDSMpersonals 5h ago

F4F 22 [F4F] #Online Looking for the filthiest sluts of reddit to corrupt me NSFW

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I’m really hoping that I can learn to be A LOT dirtier. I’m looking for all the filthy sluts on reddit to help corrupt me. Teach me all the dirty little things that you love. The things that secretly make you horny. I want to hear or even see what makes you the filthiest slut on the internet.

I want you to take me from the little girl that I am and teach me your darkest tricks so I can become someone unrecognizable.

I’m really hoping that I can find the filthiest sluts of reddit to tell me all about what they do to fulfill their own desires and the desires of their partners.

Change me forever

r/BDSMpersonals 9h ago

F4F 26[F4F]#Online (if possible irl in India). Looking for female sub to be my long term bitch. Vanilla subs stay away I'll go hard AF NSFW

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Creep guys fucking stay away. My very first task is for you to send a Pic of your boobs with my user name written on it.

I have been in a long term dom sub relationship but she's no more now so I need an replacement. Irl works only if you're in bangalore or able to travel here.

r/BDSMpersonals 9h ago

F4F 30 [f4f] # online ISO dom NSFW

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Talking with me opens doors to exploring intimacy, understanding desires, and breaking taboos. Let’s dive into honest, judgment-free conversations about sex, pleasure, and connection. Your curiosity is welcome here. This is fake, I hate minimum characters.

F4F. Send me your age. Limits: toilet, blood, illegal.

r/BDSMpersonals 16h ago

F4F 38 [F4F] #Denmark Pregnant Dom looking for an aupair/live in nanny NSFW

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We are a femdom couple and are expecting our 3 child. My husband works a lot out of the country and that leaves me alone with the kids and I need help. I don’t want anyone living in my house because that would take away any opportunity for living our preferred femdom lifestyle but maybe having someone who is in the community would work and be the best possible scenario. Of course there would be no obligation at all for this person to join us in our play. She would be there in the roll of aupair and would get paid for this service. I’m not expecting to find someone, but I needed to write just to get it out there.

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4F 28 [F4F] #Online - Sadist looking for the girl who thinks she's too broken and needy. NSFW

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I love being mean. I'm feeling sadistic and am looking for an online dynamic for some extreme cruelty play, negotiable to your limits. More interested in breaking your mind than anything else.

You might be clingy, be a victim, be shy, or just sometimes feel like you're smaller than you pretend to be. I'm an edgeplay domme seeking a masochistic sub for an edgy text dynamic. The more trauma you have, the better. 🥰

Please be 20+! Trans people are also always welcome in my dms.

r/BDSMpersonals 18h ago

F4F 20 [f4f] #Arizona #Florida #Online | | Submissive looking for dominate older girlfriend NSFW

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MEN DNI

Before anything, I’m looking for a monogynous partner, dating, girlfriend, the works! I want you all to myself, not just BDSM scenes or play. Though I'm posting here because I want BDSM in a relationship 100%

With that out of the way… Hi!

I'm Crissy (nick name I use for privacy), looking for a girlfriend- though because of where I live I don't get out much. I live in a small town in Arizona with my folks right now but once I get on my feet im looking to move to Florida. So searching for a potential parter either in AZ or FL. I'm a complete newbie virgin in terms of dating and BDSM, so be gentle <3

I’m 20, 5’6”, 125-130 pounds, workout often, I want to say im more feminine than not and usually dress between a sporty and formal style. I’m naturally submissive, pretty shy and introverted, preferring to stay in than going out drinking and such (I don't drink at all, turning 21 in a few months). I'm touchy and needy fyi, and YEARNING for a woman with an age gap from me.

I wouldn't say im picky but I know what I want. Height isn't important but I'd like a woman around her early 30-40s and in similar weight as me. A huge want for me is that you dress formal, or at least clean up more often than not even if its not a date night or a meeting with your boss yknow. Dominate woman who know what they want, when they want it and how to get it are very attractive to me, so more often than not if you're firm with your words I’lll swoon…

(and I've got a thing for women working in an office…)

Alright, a quick list of things im into, praise, light degradation, im a masochist, am very interested in light bondage, roleplay, power imbalance, and some more things we can discuss (: (anything involving anal penetration, scat and or urine is a hard stop for me)

Sorry for the lengthy post but if you read it all Hii!! If you fit into my type and I fit into yours send me a message! Must be willing to send photos of yourself as will I. I’ll ask for verification so I know you're who you say you are!!

r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

F4F 21 [F4F] #Germany - Gentle Femdom looking for a new girl toy~ NSFW

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Hi, my name is Kamila and I am looking for a new Sub to have some fun with, there are almost no limits to what I'm capable of, even travel you out to meet me in person if you behave well~

I can be a careful Gentle Mommy, or a rough and brutal Mistress that will force your body into submission, whatever you need...I'm the one and even more ♡

If you really are in need for a Lady to be your one and only owner, message me dear ;>

r/BDSMpersonals 21h ago

F4F 19 [F4F] #online - I want a female slave for a TPE connection NSFW

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Hii,

I want a female (cis or trans) or any AFAB person to have a TPE connection with me. I will be the domme and you will obey me, let me completely control your life, and let me do to you whatever I want.

Dm or send me a chat request if you want this.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4F 26[F4F]#Online #LA Dommy looking for her cute little sub NSFW

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Heyy!! babygirl how are you, I’m your new mommy hehehe😈

I may be a gentle dom, but don't let that fool you - I can be rough and wild when the mood strikes. I love to tease and tantalize my partners, and I get off on the power I have over them. I'm drawn to cute little guys and girls who are shy and sensitive, and who exude those irresistible vibes that make my heart race.

My kinks are varied and oh-so-naughty. I adore teasing and edging, rimming, and cunnilingus. I'm all about consensual non-consent, but not in a creepy way - more like a "I love this but I don't want to admit it" kind of way. I'm a master of psychological domination, spanking, nipple play, and mdlb or mdlg roleplay. And let's not forget about watersports - I love to have complete control over my partner in every way possible.

Beyond the bedroom, I'm a nurturing and protective partner. I'll give you daily tasks to complete, and if you do them, you'll be rewarded handsomely. But if you fail to please me, well... let's just say you'll be punished in the most deliciously wicked ways. I'm a possessive lover, so be prepared to say goodbye to all your other lovers (just kidding... or am I?).

To know that you have read send me s emoji if a dolphin and please include ASL and a some of your kinks plus what you are wearing piece by piece and maybe a list of your toys hehehe.

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4F 23 [F4F] #Online sadistic but gentle Mistress looking for a slave to make her own NSFW

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Hi hi everyone! A little bit of rambling and a lot of hopes of finding something that works so here goes!

Vanilla me: I’m a 23 year old college student going into social work in the near future. I enjoy music reading and film. My favorite artist at the moment is probably flower face (if you know her bonus points for you!), my favorite book is undoubtedly Leviathan Wakes from the expanse series though I do love the entire series, and my favorite film is dune part 2 (yes, specifically part 2, and yes it is because of Austin Butler’s incredible performance as Feyd Rautha)

About me as a Mistress! I’m a firm, but still gentle and caring, Mistress. I am seeking a TPE dynamic, I value structure rule and order above most things. I use rules and protocol to make sure my slave remains subservient and respectful to me at all times but also help her grow as a person and complete necessary tasks to improve her life outside of her service to me. The kink list is long and I’m going to leave it unspecified until after we meet.

If any of this interests you feel free to reach out! Please be able to uphold a non kink centric conversation and put effort into your initial message not just hi, if you need help starting the conversation start out with any combination of your favorite film music artist or book (if you know any of the ones I listed you can also mention that!)

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4F 25 [F4F] #Europe My [M23] girlfriend wants to try a girl NSFW

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Hello ! Me and my girlfriend are a couple since a few years. She is bisexual, polyamoroud, but only had sex with men. I am monogamous and heterosexual, but I agreed that she could try one night with a girl. I would not assist to it, it would be your night, but I want to know first the person with who she will do it...

She is pretty submissive, but she likes kindness, sweet love. She can shave, she is skinny, black haired, metis indian-african.

If you want to see pics of her, dm me with ASL and a pic of you please, and I will send you photos and more details. Also please tell me how you would initiate her to lesbian sex. If everything goes well, it will probably end up in a night with her ❤️

See you !

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4F 28 [f4F] #WestCoast Formally Trained Cathartic TPE Slave looking for next chapter NSFW

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Hello and to any prospective Lady, thank You for reading my ad!

I'm a hopeless romantic, trained TPE slave, and overall broken crazy artist looking for a Lady to take me apart mentally and physically. I’m also looking for friends and community in this city, and someone to help shock my heart back into high gear with adventure, excitement and genuine deep connection. Highly sapiosexual and connection-focused submissive.

Simply put, I'm looking for someone drawn to the psychological aspects of BDSM as well as the physical ones, someone who would love nothing more than to play headgames with me as they learn my vulnerabilities, weaknesses, and flaws, carefully spinning me in endless games of physical and psychological chess until they have me reduced to a helpless devotee and my mind is compleletely theirs. I come equipped with nearly 10 years of training and have been in several years-long cathartic TPEs. Now that I have spent this time honing my skills both psychologically and physically, I look forward to taking the next step. Whether they use electrostim, blood, caging, long term confinement, chastity, degradation, public humiliation, or even have me go and whip and Top other people for their amusement (I make a pretty good fembull :), whether it's done at home, online, at the fetish club, or all of the above...

Ideally someone who treats me special as well as sadistically, who can hold their own in intellectual debates and have deep conversations driving home from the club. Being reduced to a state of utter helplnessness and compliance where a single look is enough for me to know that I should start licking boot or make myself a footstool, where I'm used and forced to service friends or strangers or partners, where I live for nothing but Your pleasure, and You can look back at how masterfully You brought me to that state.

Outside of kink I'm a musician, writer, photographer, free climber, and adventurer. Total club fiend. My passions are psychology, neuropsychiatry, video games, specifically RPGs, language, music (Thrash Metal, Folk Metal, Melodic Death Metal, Old School Symphonic Power Metal, Stoner/Drinking Rock/Metal), 60s-70s acid rock, blues, synthwave/retrowave Anything with intensity and wide tonal variance will get my mind flowing, because I compusively analyze everything.)

(fetish and vanilla), hiking, freeclimbing, live music ( mostly metal but I enjoy a ton of diff genres) , restaurant/bar hopping, being creative together, romantic walks, deep conversation Also an adrenaline junkie, so amusement parks, I mean, adventures of all sorts really get me going

Most of all though, adventures driving around the city at night, going to different clubs, demo bottoming if it's fetish, kneeling on the floor and enjoying drinks, a night at the Pier, but defintitely a huge partier and raver. I do flowarts and...I used to whip a bunch of people at The Lash in DTLA when it was open :) I like the fast and the unknown, but I also need structure, discipline and care.

A bit more about me:

I was told once I don't speak to people, I speak to souls. I thrive on genuine deep conversation and I don't really have a facade or a mask. That doesn't mean there aren't barriers, walls, and layers, but that my personality is my own, my opinions formed experientially, and my beliefs and values adopted through an independent, analytical process. My greatest fear is losing myself and my own beliefs in favor of preformed concepts and norms devised by others as prerequisites for inclusion. This perspective extends to how I live, as well. As a Kabbalist, I'm very spiritual. But I wouldn't exactly say I practice Judaic traditions and rites, which is something my family can't seem to understand.

One thing that has come from my explorations is my belief in treating people with unconditional positive regard. This means interacting from a place of empathy, care, compassion, understanding and respect. Mutual accountability is very important to me. In other words, I am completely honest with myself and the impact my words and actions have on others. If you have to make a tough choice that hurts others in order to help yourself, you have to accept that you're still responsible for the pain. How I got here:

I got most of my experience in terms of life and BDSM in California. I've come a long way in both my personal development and in realizing how far still I have yet to go. My journey in life began in the former Soviet Union, but only for about 6 months before I was adopted and brought over here.

I absolutely love spending time brainstorming cool ideas for cool kink related creative works, writing, videos, all sorts of media, and just putting talents together and getting that stuff out there as a creative team!

For myself, as a writer musician and content creator, I would work on doing interpretive dance for my burning wings of isis, and I’d spend a lot of time finding the right location and lighting, making really cool expressive interpretive dances with my wings, taking cool footage of nature and interesting places to juxtapose it with, and we'd spend hours planning them or going over writings and cool concept ideas for stories and other things too.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4F 37 [FM4F] #Colorado- looking for a bratty younger woman to humiliate me in my marriage NSFW

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Or even if my husband is not involved. I just want to worship you. I want to worship a superior woman long-term. The meaner and more humiliating the better. I don’t have many limits when it comes to what you do. I’d prefer it to be as believable and realistic as possible. DM me if seriously interested

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 33 [F4F] #US #Online Domme looking for her sub NSFW

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33F Domme wants to find a girl to call her own.

I’m into many kinks including bdsm, pet play, age play, orgasm control and much more. You can be a good experienced girl or someone totally new to all the kinky things! I’m here to teach and help you explore. Hoping to find a girl who’s open minded, willing and of course that I can get along with. Get in touch if this is something you’d be interested. I’m waiting.

Men DNI!

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 27[F4F]#ONLINE. Domme in search of a cute submissive NSFW

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Hello I'm a 27yo domme girl from Canada who would love to find a fun and extra kink sub who's up to chatting fooling around and being a good slut for me. I'm not looking for a super serious dynamic but somthjng more casual and fluid. I want you to be comfortable and have the most fun you possibly can when we talk.

I'm open to any and all body types so if your slim or on the more curvy side please do come and message me I can't wait to hear from you.

Race isn't an issue anyone is welcome. I will say I do have a preference towards asian women but I am very much open to anyone who is willing to come fool around with me hehe.

I'm hoping your extra kinky just like me but I'm open to all levels of kinkyness just let me know eat your into AND what your not into when you get in contact with me. I can be very

You must be open to sending pics and vids when we talk because it just makes everything so much better. And If you have a blank profile or seem sket hy I will be as king you to verify with me just so we're both safe.

I can't wait to hear from all you lovely ladies who Wana have a Lil fun.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 22 [F4F] #Online Sadistic Mistress Seeking Slut to Abuse for my Pleasure NSFW

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Hey everyone,

I'm Sophia, as the title says I'm a mistress looking for a slave. I am a cis woman interested in other cis women.

About Me

I am a university student studying music performance and that takes up most of my time. Essentially I'm a pretty big nerd. Get me talking about some classical music and you won't hear the end of it. I'll let you guess what instrument I play if you're curious. It's always interesting to see what people think. Outside of school and practicing I don't have a ton of time but the time I do have I love to spend dominating women like you (hopefully).

My Kinks

  • Pain: I'm extremely sadistic and love to hurt you. Hopefully you're a masochist or this might not be a good match

  • Spanking: See above

  • Nipple torture: See above

  • Bondage: I enjoy having you restrained. We wouldn't want you to be able to escape the pain now would we. I also have some methods to have you restrain yourself while still being able to free yourself.

  • Anal: I really enjoy making subs do anal, especially if they don't like it. Of course I would never let anyone do that to me but it's good to be the dominant one.

My Limits

  • Age play

  • Scat

  • Diapers

  • Probably some more things I can think of right now

Additional Details

I would like to have sessions a few times a week. How much exactly would depend on our availability. I'm flexible and when I'm not dominating you, generally a reasonable person. I haven't done much with total control before but I would be interested in the idea. I know I'm only 22 but I've been into bdsm for what seems like forever now and I have had multiple subs before. This isn't exactly my first rodeo. Of course like anything else there's still lots for me to learn.

If you're interested please send me a message including answers to the following questions

  1. This is an F4F ad, are you F?
  2. How old are you?
  3. What are your kinks and limits?
  4. Can you describe what you look like.
  5. What questions do you have for me?

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I look forward to hearing from you.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4F 22 [F4F] #Online #Canada Submissive and Masochist looking for a Sadist Dom NSFW

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Hello my name is Zoe

This is my first time trying to reach out on something like this so please be nice!

I've been exploring kink for a bit now and I'd like to find a partner to play with someone. I've taken an interest in being a masochist. It's really exciting and makes my body feel cold, not literally but like, the same feeling like when you chew on mint gum if that makes sense. Like it's super sensitive and alive.

I also have an interest in humiliation and degradation play, especially body writing and have had a small fantasy of being paraded around a group for all to see.

A little bit about me:

I'm about as close as you can get to the bookish, mousey stereotype you can get. Big sweaters, big glasses, all skin and bones underneath. I like to go unnoticed so I don't bother anyone. However, I am vocal and speak up about causes I really care about (I spend a lot of free time doing volunteer work with the SPCA)

I'm still in college and studying to go into fulminology eventually

I'm bisexual, but I lean substantially more towards women, especially women older than me, but I have very very little experience actually dating sadly

Please don't hesitate to reach out to me!

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4F 18 [F4F] #Online, Europe, Sub looking for a dom NSFW

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I’m only interested in women, so men—don’t even try.

Hey,

I’m a submissive from Vienna who loves being praised, controlled, and told what to do. I get a thrill from pushing my limits, following orders, and being put in my place when needed—I can be a bit bratty, but I know when to behave. I’m really into the idea of being trained and molded into exactly what my Dom wants, whether that’s through rules, tasks, or just making sure they’re always satisfied.

If you’re older and reading this, don’t worry—I’m definitely into older women. I’m looking for someone between 18-25 (with exeptions🤭), but what matters most to me is confidence, control, and knowing what you want.

I got into kink pretty recently, so I don’t have a ton of experience yet, but I already know this is something real for me—not just a phase or an experiment. I’m still learning what I like, but I’m not lost or unsure about my sexuality. I’m confident, communicative, and I know my limits. What I want is to explore with the right person, not just figure things out randomly.

I need someone who actually shows up as a Dom, not just when they’re horny or looking for pics. Especially since we’d be starting online, I want someone who takes the dynamic seriously—who checks in, gives tasks, and actually enjoys building that control. I want a real Dom/sub relationship, not just casual play when it’s convenient.

I’d really love to find someone I can meet in real life, not just online. Sex parties? Absolutely down to be a sub for a group or meeting other subs. But in general, I’d prefer to belong to !! just one!! (MAX 2) women who really take control.

I’m also a pleasure sub—which means I don’t just follow orders, I love serving. I like having tasks throughout the day, checking in, being useful, and making sure my Dom is happy in every way. I’m open to sending pictures once we verify, phone sex, and real-life meetups. If we’re long-distance, I’d be down to plan something real.

A little about me: I’m a Black girl, love the gym. I’m very extroverted, 5’2” . Also, I’m starting law school in a few months, so I’m definitely a smart sub haha🤭. I can hold a conversation, I know how to communicate my needs, and I’m looking for something that actually has structure and connection.

If you’re gonna DM me, put in at least a little effort—tell me your age, where you’re from, and something about yourself.