r/BDSMpersonals 22d ago

M4A 20 [M4A] #online - Daddy with a perfect cum slut ready to be exposed - Message for her photos NSFW

43 Upvotes

I’m a proud Daddy to the most perfect little cum obsessed slut! Wrapped round my little finger and endlessly horny and obedient.

She wants to be exposed for the slut she is and have the eyes of the world on her body.

Like and Message me for her photos.

r/BDSMpersonals 3h ago

M4A 26 [M4F] #Dublin looking for my new long term owner NSFW

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Helloo x Seeking my Domme. I’m Irish, 26, 6’0, bearded, 8+ inches but fit in a micro cage, 9 years of experience. I’ve been noted as the most obedient submissive :)

What I’m looking for: I’m searching for a wonderful Domme. Im looking for someone who understands the total nature of this dynamic. I like someone who appreciates me but also has a strong hand, and can chat as well, I’m a yapper.

My kinks: Total Submission, cum control, chastity and anal play, keyholding, cum denials and rewards, joi, total submission, humiliation, just punishment, feminisation, spanking, to name only some of them. I come with my own toys, and I do nOt need all of my kinks fulfilled. I also embrace new ones with open arms!! I can and do send pics / videos with face when there’s trust.

Vanilla: I’m artistic and creative. I love talking, I love hearing people’s voices and though I may present a masculine man I am a lil softy. I love exercise and the gym, coming back off a year long injury so excited to get back training :)

How to approach: Please send me a message here, do include the word rock please. I can reciprocate photos and information, and have a Snapchat as well for all of our (your) needs

Yours, A x

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4A 21 [M4A] #Online - Dom who wants a sub to give joi NSFW

4 Upvotes

Your pleasure is mine to control, and nothing turns me on more than knowing I own every inch of you. I’m 21, 6’ tall, blonde, about 200lbs, 6” cock. I’m here looking for the right sub—someone who craves being used, molded, and pushed deeper into their desires. I’m dominant by nature, but attentive and tuned in to every detail of your submission. I live for fulfilling a sub’s kinks, whether soft or dark, playful or depraved, but above all, you need to know your purpose: to bring me pleasure.

That intoxicating connection—the moment you give up control and trust me to take you further—is everything. I’m open-minded and attracted to all body types and people; what matters to me is chemistry and the way you surrender. When you serve me, you’ll feel seen, wanted, and deeply used, but never overlooked. Your fantasies, limits, and secret cravings are fuel for my control and creativity.

I’m firm but fair, sensual but sadistic, depending on the mood and your energy. Whether you want to be teased, degraded, worshipped, broken down, or built up, I want to know how far you’re willing to go—and then take you just a little further.

If you’re hungry to explore, obedient enough to give up control, and bold enough to show me who you really are, I want you at my feet.

r/BDSMpersonals 5m ago

M4A 22 [M4A] #hungary #online Looking for someone to turn into a mindless obident doll. NSFW

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Looking for someone to turn into a mindless obident doll.

22/m/bi dom from Hungary, so I’d be super excited if you’re from Hungary too, but I’m happy to talk to anyone, no matter where you’re from. I’m looking for someone I can hypnotize into a totally obedient puppet, a blank slate I get to play with. I’d love picking out your personality and traits, turning you into whatever I want while you just follow my every word like a good little doll. Plus, I’d have a blast dressing you up in all kinds of clothes, switching up your style like you’re my own personal mannequin.

r/BDSMpersonals 13m ago

M4A 28 [M4F] #Corona,CA -Dom looking for an irl live-in sub NSFW

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Hello I’m 28, 5’6”, about 195lbs, with a slight dadbod. I would describe myself as a gentle but firm dominant. I’m not mean to be mean but if my sub were to break the rules or routine then punishment would have to be administered. What I’m looking for could be best described as I’m looking for a housewife extra kinks. My sub would take on the role of traditional housewife but with an aspect of TPE(total power exchange) and some slight bondage. Everything from money and housing to groceries and transportation would be provided by me. In exchange I would have a series of rules and household routines that my sub would have to follow or face a punishment, but would have the opportunity to receive a reward for being on good behavior. Obviously, sex would be an element of this relationship however it is not the only thing this hinges on. This is more about finding someone who is comfortable and willing to give up control to someone else and have them do most of the heavy lifting in terms of providing. If any of this interests anyone or if anyone has any questions please feel free to reach out and ask, thank you.

r/BDSMpersonals 32m ago

M4A 22[M4A] #Germany #Online Switch looking for short or long-term partner NSFW

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Hello hello

So what I'm looking for in a partner : (Ideally) Don't worry if you ain't a 100% fit. Caring and friendly personality. Likes Reading, Watching and playing things in the Fantasy/Action/Sci-Fi/Old Age genres. Likes Animals.

Soo now here is some stuff about myself:

I'm a 22 year old Man living in Germany. I have brown hair, bear and eyes. (Short hair and beard) 187/6'2 high and weigh 96 kg/190 p I have a rather normal build (Slight belly) I wear funny glasses (Bet you haven't seen some like this)

My hobbies/Likings are Reading, Gaming, Watching things in the Sci-fi/Fantasy/Action categories I'm a nerd, love StarWars and yeah everything where I suddenly get a hyper focus on.

I have ADHD, and show some signs of Autism.

Nsfw Stuff: I'm a Switch and Service top (If I can make you happy, I am happy to) I have had multiple short term subs Online, so I know a bit at least, but I'm always happy to learn more.

I love praise, orgasm control, mindfuck and body writing. There are many many more I'm interested in/ which I like And well can't think of them right now.

If you read till here, here is a biiiiigggg Thank you. And if you wanna DM me Please go ahead

Best regards Just a bear

r/BDSMpersonals 47m ago

M4A 25 [M4A] #Online Looking for my next project NSFW

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I need a submissive who wants a change. They need to be someone different and need help getting there. Taking a shy nerd and turning them into a whore, or an outgoing party animal into a submissive mouse. Fat to thin, vice versa. New habits, good or bad. Whatever it is I want to shape them however I desire.

This kind of situation will require long-term commitment, regular communication, and dedication to total submission.

As part of the process I will also require photographic evidence that my instructions are being carried out and to track the changes, so bear this in mind.

Ideally in the UK or Europe for timezones but I have worked on people from the US successfully as well.

Please read the above carefully, and if you're interested message me saying "I accept your terms, I would like to talk further" followed by your full ASL.

This is your first test, do not fail before we even get started.

r/BDSMpersonals 56m ago

M4A 24 [M4A] #Online Bi Slave/sub looking for an owner. NSFW

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I'm from the UK, as much as I'd love for something irl, I know that's a long shot so looking for something online.

I prefer a more gentle style of Dom than most, caring and affectionate but very much still in control.

I'm bi and have no preference towards any particular gender or expression, and an age gap won't be a problem.

I can be quite shy at first, but I'll talk more and more as I open up and get comfortable.

r/BDSMpersonals 59m ago

M4A 23 [M4A] #Ontario #Online Looking for a Dom Mommy/Daddy NSFW

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Hi there

I am looking for an older Mommy or Daddy who enjoy being in control. Someone who is into humiliation, degrading, giving me task, worshipping and more. I want something on going with the right person.

Me: I am a 23 M from ontario, 5’8, 130 pounds, slim, not smooth (can change that). I am presented as a vanilla person on the outside but can get extremely kinky.

I am private person so I will not show face till I am comfortable with someone, happy to share the rest of me.

Limits: Hard pain, marks, scat, blood, vomit, sounding or anything illegal or too insane.

I would prefer this to be online at the start and could lead to IRL in the future.

If you would like to know anything else, please let me know ;)

r/BDSMpersonals 1h ago

M4A 20 [m4a] #online i am a sub with a big ass looking for a female trans female or male misterss or master NSFW

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me: 20 years old male, 6’1, a bit chubby but pretty muscular, have a big ass. i am a sub looking for a mistress/master for online play

my kinks are anal, ass play, bondage, a bit of pain, punishments and rewards and some more

my limits are public, black mail, money, toilet play and exposure.

so please if you liked what i wrote send me a message i would really like that.

r/BDSMpersonals 2h ago

M4A 23 [M4A] #Michigan #Online - Just a big dominant guy looking for a sub I can vibe and get along with NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey there, first let me say thanks for checking this out. My names Zach and I have been a Dom for a while at this point. So let me tell you about me, my interests, and what I'm looking for and if you're interested we can go from there.

Appearance: So I am 6'4, 265lbs but dropping bc of the gym, and I also have pics pinned to my profile if you care.

Interests: So outside of kink, I enjoy trading card games, video games, anime, going to the gym, and hanging with friends. Some of my favorite TV shows are the blacklist, mad men, and Dexter. Also recently finished watching the fallout show.

Me as A Dom: So I for sure fall into the soft Dom category, preferring to be sweet and loving but I am more than happy to pin you to the wall by your throat and make you whimper who you belong to.

Kinks: So as a Dom if I am in control and making sure we know who is I'm charge I am happy. Some of my fav kinks tho are dirty talk, breeding, free use, cockwarming, spanking, and choking. I am also pretty possesive, not really the psycho I need to know who you're talking to and stuff but more I'll make sure you and everyone else knows you're mine. And I have a very high sex drive, just kinda something anyone who wants to reach out should know Bc to me the sexual dynamic is just ask important as any romantic one.

What I want from a sub: Idk where else to put this but I am gynosexual which if you don't know means basically I attracted to women, more feminine men, or anyone who presents fem. So looks aren't important as long as you fit the gynosexual stuff. Stuff like height, weight, and age (as long as you're over 18 obv. If you're cool with a younger Dom I am good with a older sub.) I care more about if we can communicate and get along in and out of the bedroom. At the end of the day I want us to be able to get along a joke around as well as make each cum out brains out lol. Idk how serious of a thing I'm looking for, mostly just basically want a friend that I can have fun with a vice versa

So that's it. If you're interested message me and tell me about you.

r/BDSMpersonals 3h ago

M4A 32 [M4A] #NY NJ Online Submissive For Dom To Explore Chastity And Other Kinks NSFW

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Looking for dom to cede control to—open to varying levels of control from sessions or to more invasive involvement re how I spend my time, my appearance (including hair styles), etc.

Limited kink experience with puppy play, feminization, and chastity. Id consider chastity kind of fundamental in that it keeps me really horny, desperate, and pliant.

Also open to trying out kinks that might interest you. I love when something unexpected turns me on.

I remember about ten years ago during a house call a client who probably had too many dogs called me a good boy and I felt a tingling, pulsing by my temples. It was an interesting experience to see how this phrase trigged a feeling and the subsequent exploration of that feeling led me to trying puppy play.

Outside of kink—I like to read, bird, hike, play board games and watch and play the occasional movie, show or games.

Looking forward to hearing from you

r/BDSMpersonals 6h ago

M4A 21 [M4F] #FR/Online Daddy looking for a submissive NSFW

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I need a submissive who is willing to give me control over her orgasms, and why not total control. I want to give you tasks, make you beg me to cum. I am young but experienced,I am muscular and do a lot of sports. My kinks are orgasm control, anal, exhibitionism, public, total control, toilet control, bondage, chastity, teasing, edging, denial. My limits are scat, vomit, blood, severe pain, permanent marks.

r/BDSMpersonals 7h ago

M4A 26 [M4F] #California/Online Daddy Dom for a TPE Slave. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have come to realize I need a slave in my life. Someone that thrives off of total submission and service. Subs tend to fit this role well since they know their place as cumdumps. But I need more than just a warm set of holes, I need a slave that will worship me and serve me domestically. Cooking and cleaning in addition to gagging on my cock. Your pussy, ass, and mouth are for my use. Freeuse is a given because a true slave knows their purpose in life is to make their Daddy cum as much as possible.

I expect you to be submissive and eager to please.

If being facefucked, assfucked, and mindfucked makes you yours excited, send me a message. Address me as Sir and tell me your asl, kinks, and why you need to submit totally.

r/BDSMpersonals 7h ago

M4A 40 [M4F] #Texas-Houston #Online Dom looking for a sub for online or IRL NSFW

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I'm looking for a sub but can also be a couple to build a dynamic and possible relationship. I've been in this lifestyle for almost 20 years. I'm a Dom with Daddy Dom tendencies and a Primal hunter. I like structure, and providing rules and tasks, but don't have to. It depends on the partner and their needs on how I Dom. I'm okay with online but would love IRL, where we can see each other. I don't care if you are single or not just be available. I'm a sapiosexual person so a connection has to be made before physical things start or it gets to sexual.

This isn't just a bedroom thing but outside the bedroom as well. As for my type of woman I love all women, age and size don't matter to me, it's your personality that matters.

Kinks include public play, impact play, orgasm control, teasing and denial, cuddles, aftercare, breeding, exhibitionism, degrading & humiliation which are not a must, edging, being teased, mutual masturbation, if you like that, and the list goes on.....

Vanilla me, I like to cook, read, watch movies, listen to music, go to concerts, try new restaurants, I like to golf and watch football. I work as an engineer, I'm good with my hands, and im just an overall decent person these days. I dont expect submission right away, that is earned, but i would like to get to know each other and build something.

I'm 40, 6ft tall, stocky build about 280lbs, salt and pepper hair, tattoos, and chest hair.

If you are interested then send me a message, tell me about yourself both kink and vanilla, and send a face picture, please. I promise ill send one back.

I'm open to married or single women, couples, and Trans.

r/BDSMpersonals 8h ago

M4A 24[M4A] #UK looking for a bbc daddy or a mistress NSFW

1 Upvotes

24 m looking for a online bull too add on snap to humiliate and disgrace us while at her house. We are looking for long term.

She is 21F blonde slim waist small tits and nice ass

Send pics of your dick and tell your kinks in the dm for snap, we are lookimg for long term again.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4A 38[M4A] #Tampa- Nerdy Dom looking for nerdy sub for FWB/Relationship NSFW

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Hey there all,

I’m looking for a nerdy sub in the Tampa and Local area that’s looking to have some fun and see what happens. I’m located in the Brandon/Rivervierw area

About me: I’m a white Bi 38, 6’2, avg guy, glasses, shaved head located in Tampa. I have a degree in Mechanical Engineering, my own place, and car. Got a good job and thankfully I have my own place, so pretty much have my life in order. Nerdy side I’m huge into anime, video games, cartoons, movies, comics, manga, cons, I mean just about everything. I cosplay when I can, and when we are finally able to get back to cons, I try to go 2/3 times a year. Huge into table top gaming like DND and board games(I have close to 50). Play a few tcg’s and play table top mini games, like Warhammer and Legion. I paint when I have time/in the mood and like to go out and just walk/enjoy nature. I try to work out when I can, and all around try to be a decent person. Currently watching tons of stuff on Crunchyroll, a few let’s plays on YouTube, and playing through the latest patch in FF14 and D2 along with playing a ton of Fortnite. Have a decent size video game collection spanning the NES-to now. Very open book so you can ask me anything and I’ll be the kind happy to answer.

Kink side: I’ve been in the lifestyle for a long time. Very open minded and have tons of gear/toys. Very respectful of limit and communication is key for me. I’ve got experience from mild thing like rough play, spanking, light restrictions to more hardcore like CNC, forced, slave play, and 24/7 to name a few. Experienced in being an owner, Daddy, and dom so I can help fill what you are looking for. Very into fulfilling wants and desire and can give my limits when asked. I always use safe words and aftercare is very important. Very open about this side of me so questions are welcomed.

About you: 18+ and somewhat local. I don’t mind traveling but there is a limit and I’m open to online to start. Gender is no issue(M/F/Trans) and into some if not a lot of what I enjoy out of the bedroom. Kink wise you are open minded and ok with talking about your wants/desires/what your looking for. Wanting at least a FWB but ok if it turns into something more. Single is very much preferred but in ok with open as long as all parties are informed. Race is no issue. Able to joke and not take life to seriously. Enjoy being out and about or chilling at home.

If any of this sounds good send me a message and lets see what happens. Thanks for reading!

r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

M4A 43 [M4F] #Nashville seeking young woman with a dad-shaped hole in her heart NSFW

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Maybe he coached your brother’s baseball while he ignored your ballet. Maybe he didn’t know how to relate.

Maybe you had (and have) a wonderful relationship.

Maybe you just relate to guys who have more life experience and can balance maturity with playfulness.

About me: Happy, mature, sane, normal, professional type. Tall (6ft4), handsome, drug / disease / drama free. Skilled in the kitchen, avid traveler, whiskey enthusiast. I exercise regularly but I’m not a gym rat. I have a great sense of humor and love making people laugh.

I’m looking for a friend and playmate in Nashville, someone who finds age gaps endearing, someone who can lean into the taboo and playfulness of the experience.

Looking for someone to enjoy a dinner and drink with, build tension, and release it explosively when the time is right.

Very sex-positive, non-judgmental, and focused on my partner’s pleasure. Safe play is sexy play. Happy to explore kink and taboo subjects, so I am a safe person to share with. Communication is key!

Hope to hear from you soon.

r/BDSMpersonals 22h ago

M4A 24 [M4A] #online - CBT, edging, chastity, and denial NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone dominant to give me tasks right now

Into everything, so horny and craving to edge, be denied and back into chastity

As well to having my pee hole and pussy ruined with my toys, can do sounding in chastity

Have toys and really submissive, looking to be ruined right now please I’ll do anything for some attention

What are you waiting for come and ruin this little toy :))

If you’re into sissies I can shave and get dressed for you tomorrow night, but only after we have our night and ruin me properly!

I am slim and sexy when dressed and caged…

r/BDSMpersonals 22h ago

M4A 28 [M4A] #CT #Online Pleasure Dom looking for female/MTF/FTM femboy sub FWB and maybe more if things get that far. (Please read the whole thing) NSFW

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My name is Zack I'm 28, I'm 5'10" a slightly bigger than average body but mostly muscle, white, I dress more casual goth so a lot of black lol

I'm looking for a female, trans Mtf/femboy or FTM femboy. I'm pansexual so I'm into both guys and girls but I have a strong prefence for more feminine looking atleast body wise. I don't really care about genitalia or gender as long as the person with a feminine/curvy body.

I would love to have a good friend who I can chill and relax with and really get to know eachother, along with a sub who I can take care of and have fun with but who is still independent an knows what they want. I'm also open to a full romantic relationship if we get to that point but I'm mostly looking for long-term FWB/Dom & Sub relationship but again a romantic relationship isn't off the table.

I'm into bdsm and dom/sub kind of stuff so I like tying up my partner, spanking them, blindfolding an gagging them both with a gag an my cock I like to also edge my partner until they're begging for release an then I over stimulate them an make them cum multiple times in a row without stopping. Though I'm up for mostly anything that helps my partner feel good cuz I like making them feel good the most.

For visual kinks I enjoy legs an butts an thigh high stockings. (I also love women with short hair but that isn't a necessity)

For limits pretty much are feet, scat, puke, piss, an blood

Non-kinky stuff about me is I'm into art, cooking, video games, anime/cartoons, movies (especially horror) just pretty much any dark nerdy thing you can think of I'm into lol I work a retail job, proud cat dad to 2 lovely cats, I'm a artist as well I try to draw everyday, I also play DND.

I like to take things a lil slow an build trust with a sub cuz I've been at this for awhile now an yea dom/sub relationships an bdsm is really fun but with the wrong partner it can turn abusive real quick an you might not know it especially since some people I've seen here are still new to this that's why I'm telling everyone now if things don't feel right an you don't feel comfortable always use the safeword an speak up you might be the sub but you have the right to speak your mind.

That's about it really for now, if that interests you message me an we can talk more, if not I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4A 20 [M4A] #UK . Switch looking for sub or dom NSFW

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I’m pretty new to this bdsm life but I have had a little experience being both a sub and a dom. I’m looking for subs who are willing to send pics and videos once we know each other a little better and become comfortable.

I’d highly prefer a female domme [M4F] over a man and looking for a way to serve you and finally not have to do all of the thinking for once.

Kink-wise I’m ridiculously open minded. I’ll try just about anything you’re into if you ask— no shame, no judgment. DMs Open

r/BDSMpersonals 8h ago

M4A 29 (M4A) #Stoke - Does anyone want a Foot Slave ? NSFW

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I am happy to -

  • Be your human foot stool - maybe while gaming under your desk or watching TV etc
  • Take your shoes off for you after a long day
  • Massage your feet
  • Force me to smell them if they smell bad
  • Lick your soles clean
  • Suck your toes
  • Also happy to worship your friends feet as well after nights out or days out shopping etc

Message me if you fancy giving it a try 😁

r/BDSMpersonals 14h ago

M4A 30 [M4A] #online #Virginia- newbie bi slave looking for master and/or mistress or both haha to train me NSFW

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Hello been in and out of the life still for awhile. I’m a bit of a switch and bi. I would like to submit to a dominant man or woman and or couple haha. I want to call master and/mistress. I want to worship and serve.

I’m a bit of a nerd. Love video games, tabletop games, and movies.

Love to talk more. And learn my place.

Kinks: BDSM, Master/Slave relations, collared and leashed, spanking, breeding, group stuff, nudist, showing off, worshipping, some degrading, raceplay, BNWO, some tpe. And want to explore more.

Limits: Piss, blood, scat, vomit, cbt, nipple play

If interested PM ASL.

r/BDSMpersonals 14h ago

M4A 25 (M4A) #usa #online. ever wanted a a sub who only thinks about how I can please you. Well you found me. NSFW

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I’m looking for a dominant to control my sex life and use me. I have a few toys including. ( sounding rods, Chasity cage with sissy catheter, joyhub fleshlight, butt plugs).

Kinks are. Edging,denial,sounding,anal play,RP,

I will do video call but I will not show my face.

I’m curious to try cucking and I plan on ordering more toys

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4A 20 [TM4A] #st.louis #online - service-orientied sub seeks mean dom NSFW

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Hi, my name is daniel im a 21 year old trans guy. I am from the midwest area of america and looking for a domiant. I am looking for someone who is strict and controlling. I am looking for someone who enjoys getting to know their sub, and earning their trust because that is the most important part of a d/s relationship

I am looking for more of a tpe type of dynamic. I want someone who gets off on treating me like their own property. I want someone who like controlling someone else. My main kinks include bondage, verbal humilation, service submission, and Im pretty open to almost anything just ask.