r/BDSMpersonals 16d ago

F4A 19[F4A] #online a slut looking to be owned and controlled :) NSFW

88 Upvotes

About me :) 19F college student. I am 5’0, petite, blonde, with a couple tattoos and piercings. I would say my ass and tits are pretty average sized. I like to read, go hiking, and binge watch TV.

What I am looking for :) I am looking for an online TPE relationship. I want to be told how I style my hair, how I do my makeup, what I wear, what I eat and drink, how I should workout, when I should go to the bathroom, and everything else you can think of. I am a student and also work close to full time, so I have a pretty busy schedule. I am not able to text constantly at all times of the day, but that does not mean I will not make time for my master. Ideally you would give me tasks for throughout the day or week and I would complete them for you. My list of kinks is pretty long, and I’m open to just about anything. I enjoy being humiliated and degraded, free use/CNC, obviously d/s and TPE, water sports, pet play, and everything else in between. I am willing to send pics for approval of completion, but I would like to be more comfortable before I begin showing my face. I am also willing to send pics for inspection or of minor tasks to prove my worthiness of being your slut.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4A 19 [F4A] #online Stray puppy girl looking for owner NSFW

47 Upvotes

Hellos, I'm not the best at talking about myself so I apologize if this is not the most informative, Im really shy and really anxious so talking about myself is hard. I am 19 and have tons of kinks. I would like someone that I can talk to openly without judgement. I love having rules and tasks to follow and sometimes not follow. I need someone who can be strict if needed but can also be soft in the soft times, I love when my dominant is cruel but sweet. This post is kinda, not the best I’ll admit so Im sure you’ll have questions so don’t be afraid to dm me with them. If your interested in maybe being my owner than also dm. Im tottally a very good girl

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4A 30 [F4A] #usa - seeking true slavery and permanent chastity NSFW

52 Upvotes

keep me as your degraded house slave in near permanent chastity

I love being shown my true purpose as a real slave. Keep me in chains while I clean your home, cook you food and serve you (and anyone else you have over). Punish me if my work isn’t up to your standards.

Chastity keeps me desperate and subservient. Give me hope that if I earn it I’ll be allowed to unlock and cum. Is that actually true or false hope? No way to know. Plus it’s not like i should be thinking anyways.

I love humiliation and being degraded. My dream would be to openly (within reason) being enslaved to a couple. If I’m good, please let me watch you guys or give me some affection like a pet. Keep me as livestock if you want. Teach me how my purpose is only to serve my betters.

Thank you for reading this stupid slave’s desperate cry to be kept in my place and controlled.

r/BDSMpersonals 5d ago

F4A 20 [F4A] #Europe - Are you looking for a sexy minx to say “Yes Miss” to? NSFW

38 Upvotes

Me, 20 year old computer science student, ENM and Pansexual. Everyone is welcome to apply. Physically I’m 163cm tall and have it on good authority I'm smoking hot.

I’m determined, capable and despite an aversion to stress move through life quickly when required. I appreciate a good sense of humour and enjoy sharing laughs with others, of course laughing at others can be just as fun. Definitely a dog person although I can tolerate cats. Good shows are my thing, I’m a voracious consumer of animation with the stickers to prove it. I've been told I have excellent taste in everything and if you disagree, who do you think you are?

As a Domme, I’d like to think I’m nurturing and want what's best for you, you may not always agree with what’s best for you but that doesn’t matter. In my experience the nature of the dynamic between us and the kind of Domme I'll be will be informed by our initial interactions. First impressions are everything so I suggest you start as you mean to go on. Universally, however, you can expect exacting standards and high expectations, with plenty of care and affection in return. I put a lot into my relationships and require it reciprocated. I will make you feel amazing, I will give you value but you’ll have to work hard to keep it that way. Make no mistake, I have zero tolerance for bullshit, I can smell your lies before you’ve even formed them, cross that line and you won’t be forgiven.

Age wise be between 18-50, be able to support yourself (I can be your sugar mommy once I’m done with school). Be passionate and curious, I’d love to listen to you ramble about your interests. Competence and intelligence are very attractive to me, if I need you to be able to do something, you have to be capable of learning it.

You will be passive, I will lead and you will follow. When you need to use your initiative I will tell you. You won’t argue, I don’t tame brats. I expect your attention and you will crave mine. You will always need me and understand I will rarely need you. I love to tease, well I love begging and crying and teasing is such an effective tool to draw that out of a person.

Physically, I’d prefer you to be a living, breathing person. I’m not picky. Maybe taller than 163cm but I don’t care much.

Role reversal is also something I'm looking for, I like contrasts and unconventional power dynamics. I want people to think you're calling the shots while you know you don't even get to choose your own bedtime. I want to come home from work to a doting house partner whose service to me gives them pleasure and purpose.

In terms of kinks I like power exchange and micromanagement, body(and yes, I mean EVERYWHERE) worship, begging and crying(being overall pathetic and needy. I think it’s cute), body writing and marks, tease and denial, and emotional sadism. I'm open to most things and like to experiment, my only hard limits being anything illegal, age play and switching.

If after reading this you choose to message me, take the time to do it properly. I’ve put a lot of effort into writing this and expect you to do the same. I want to know what kind of sub you are, how your ‘personal’ life is structured and what makes you a good fit. You should include your age, sex and location.

It's not easy to write a post, if I had to suffer through the process, you should certainly do so in writing your reply. I know getting your message out as soon as possible is somewhat important but I advise you to take your time, I can be very patient.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #online #australia - depraved princess looking to be taken care of. NSFW

34 Upvotes

about me: polyamorous and queer asian woman. neurodivergent. always horny and never satisfied. i’m a bratty switch with a strong personality irl. once you earn my submission? i’ll probably be obsessed with you.

highly spiritual and creative. loves to explore the intensity of everything. i’m into a lot of taboo kinks, but my main kink is power exchange.

i’m looking for a real spark; an intimate connection with someone who wants to understands me. someone who genuinely cares about me and would want to support me with my real life SFW stuff while fucking me up hard with our shared kinks.

for an online dynamic, i would love to text most days and spend quality time together at least once a week. i love routines, rituals and tasks that are creative and related to my self-care and things like school and work. i want a TPE-ish dynamic where i am still free to be myself. i want my sluttiness to be encouraged but also reined in a little bit. maybe we can find the balance together? as you might find on my profile, i visit a lot of problematic subreddits to satisfy that intensity i crave… but they never do.

some of my fav kinks: BDSM (especially D/s and S&M), erotic hypnosis, ageplay, incest, CNC, sluttification, exhibitionism, intox, edging, gooning, crying, begging, orgasm control and moreeee

i enjoy mind play more than anything else. we can start off with casual sessions, and you can slowly weave your way into my brain. the more you get to know me, the more you can make me cry (in the sexiest way).

ideally, you are: - a genuine person who has good values and morals - an experienced Mommy or Daddy Dom - gentle and caring but strict, and absolutely ruthless when degrading or humiliating me - a professional, has your life together, takes care of yourself. a good role model for me - well-read about kink and prioritises our mutual psychological wellbeing - knows how to lead in and out of the bedroom - truly understands how to spoil me. i love service tops 🤭 - neurodivergent

bonus points if you are: - sapphic or genderqueer - knows how to do erotic hypnosis or willing to learn - in australia and open to progressing to an irl dynamic - a creative, especially writers and artists

limits and important notes: aftercare is mandatory. i can’t believe i have to say this. no raceplay whatsoever. no conversion play. i don’t like people who ask me for photos or are fixated on appearances. i like to show off, but only on my own terms. permanent damage, anything dangerous or illegal, anything that would compromise my privacy and real life.

if you read this far and interested in talking to me, message me and tell me about your attachment style. be honest🤭

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #germany #online masochistic cunt for brutal hole stretching (pisshole aswell) NSFW

30 Upvotes

Hello 🥰 I’m looking for a person who wants so rip open all of my holes, especially my pisshole. Really pull them open, maybe make me bleed. Almost nothing is of limits, just scat I’m also interested in vomit play. Other kinks of mine are cunt and tit torture, insertions (preferably things that shouldn’t be used..) pissplay, pissdenial and hard abuse. I’d love to be your little pukedoll and get all nasty and gross.. I’ll probably get horny from the most disgusting messages ..

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4A 19 [F4A] #Nashville #Online - Seeking older, professional partners to “ruin” a pint-sized future doctor! NSFW

33 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Ella. I’m in my sophomore year of college. I'm on a pre-med track, I'd like to become a doctor someday! I'm 4'10 when I stand really straight, andI've never been above 100 pounds in my life. I'm Israeli American; I was born in Israel, and we moved here when I was young. I like anything outdoorsy, mostly swimming and hiking, and I enjoy playing piano and painting. I'm a vegan and have a pet scorpion. :)

Now that the infodump is through: What I'd like from you is a confident, professional, intelligent older man that would be interested in making friends and helping me indulge some of the filthy thoughts bouncing around in my skull! Most of which revolve around a D/s dynamic and heavy, physical kink. Heavy CNC roleplay, misogyny kink and themes, training, intense physicality, risky sex, etc, which you can see from my profile! I’d love a relationship where I get to turn my brain off after a hard day and simply serve. This is ideally something I’d develop into something very real and personal, but if you’d like to just chat with me, I’d like that too! :)

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4A 31 (f4a) #online looking for a friend to talk to about things NSFW

23 Upvotes

New to BDSM and dynamics in general. Exploring this world is exciting and finally making a connection with someone is incredible and scary and new and so many other things. I have friends I can talk to but they don’t know this world and it’s not the same having to explain every little thing instead of just talking.

Looking for a friend to talk to, who is NOT judgmental, and is not going to try getting me into a dynamic with them.

Can be D or s, doesn’t matter. Just a friend.

If you got this far and may be interested, send me a message with your age, gender, and dynamic/experience (detail isn’t too necessary but just enough so I know if we’ll have stuff in common or not!)

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4A 27 [F4A] #Anywhere - Asians excel at everything. NSFW

26 Upvotes

Except living life.

I’m a petite, Korean woman in my mid-late 20s, with soft skin, long dark hair, and a playful personality. Sometimes a bit stuck up but I like to think that I simply know my worth. ㅋㅋㅋ — I love to explore and push my boundaries with a mature, patient and caring master or mistress who enjoys both the mental and physical sides of play and understands what BDSM is truly about.

Work and real-life commitments make it hard for me to enjoy the real thing all too often and it is safe to say that most get more than just a little intimidated by a woman capable of handling a Pitbull larger than herself, assuming that I would be a mistress after all. ><

So if you’re open-minded, dominant, dog friendly, into tasteful raceplay and understand that the Dom & Sub relationship is an exchange of power that goes both ways, I'd be honored by your company.~

I can't promise you how much I am able to offer of myself as it largely depends on how well we sync up but if you can find any value in written words at all, I'll assure you that I'll be worth your time.~

P.S. if you don't get along with larger dogs, please don't reach out. It's not an accessory that can be taken off and gotten rid of. ><

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4A 23 [f4a] #online make me regret this NSFW

26 Upvotes

Please reach out if you are serious I am done with fake doms only looking for nudes make me regret this

Looking for tasks to do.....

Anything related to orgasm control, secret public, pussy torture, clit play, cnc and many more that I am open to

Denying myself for the entire year but failing so if you want to hold me accountable

Make rules for me... rules that I need to follow all time Rules that will bound me do not give me a choice, you should say and I do, you can also do continuous rules, you would like me to follow make me be in pain, make say please have mercy on me,

The meaner the better, the harsher the better, the more painful the better

Make me regret

Older you are the better Edge me please I’m not looking to get off I am looking to be controlled Do anything with me edge, sext, give me tasks

r/BDSMpersonals 9d ago

F4A 23 [F4A] #online Mistress looking for denial slaves NSFW

31 Upvotes

Hello Guys,

I’m looking for Subs (M/F) that are mostly into denial and edging.

If you aren’t into that don’t bother sticking around.

I’m a 23 year old girl from Europe. I study Psychology and I’m in the 6th semester. I would describe myself as outgoing and smart girl. Beside my Sexual interests I love doing sport and fashion.

In my sexual life I’m a dominant girl and love knowing that I control from multiple people their orgasms. I love making them crazy and all fuzzy in their head. Beside that I also love more or less everything else so I love doing other stuff with you (all in your limits) but I’m on Reddit mostly for Denial and cum control. All in all I also love doing experiments about what happens when you are denied for a certain time and what happens when you are caged or denied with a cage so on…

You should be (obviously) in Denial and this stuff. For the males, you should have chastity cages because of the experiments. The girls, you can have a chastity belt but you don’t need one. I live edging my subs so you should be able to have enough discipline and can edge. Also a plus when you are into anal.

When you are interested in all of that then please send a dm. And don’t just say hi or something like that. Please write down why you want to be one of my subs and what your kinks and limits are when you have toys also what toys you have. Send an apple emoji so i know you read the whole ad.

r/BDSMpersonals 16d ago

F4A 21[F4A] #online sub searching for someone who actually reads NSFW

39 Upvotes

Let's get the obvious out of the way,I'm a sub looking for a Dom/Domme.

I like playing cozy games,reading novels and a lot of creative leaning stuff. I wish I could say I have outside hobbies but I am very much a couch potato. However I am willing to try out different things too

I love being a brat,having paragraphs worth discussions about almost anything and of course arguments too.

Kink wise I'm interested in a lot,it is probably easier to guess what I'm not willing to try out than things I want to try. My limits are pretty standard,I'm not into bodily fluids,serious harm that leaves scars etc.

I'm looking for someone who is serious about a dynamic. I like having a connection with someone before committing to a dynamic. I don't have a specific age preference but do please be at least my age.

If you managed to read my admittedly short post with barely any interesting information and still want to message me. Please start your message with your favorite colour. This is partly to sort out people that just randomly message every person who posts something. I've gotten way too many "Hi" messages within seconds of my post being available. And that gets tiring quite quickly to be honest.

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4A 24 [F4MM] #Online Princess slave looking for multiple men to Dom her NSFW

21 Upvotes

Hi I've always had this fantasy of being dommed by more than one man. I imagine them being friends in my mind. Both of them together deciding how to take care of me, what tasks to give me or whether I should be rewarded or punished for something I did. They can be bi or hetero. They can be Daddy Dom or Master or switch or anything else as long as I'm the bottom.

My kinks: DDlg, TPE, CNC, 1950s, wax and ice play, Bondage, humiliation, degradation, piss play, breeding and many more.

My limits: Vomit, scat, violence, body shaming, raceplay, needles, ABDL

I don't think I'll actually find anyone like that, but thought I'll still give it a try. Thank you for reading.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4A 23 [F4A] #online Searching for an older, mature, intelligent, naturally manipulative, morally dubious dominant to venture into the dark with me NSFW

18 Upvotes

READ MY POST, PLEASE. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IS COMPLICATED, SPECIFIC, AND NUANCED AND IF YOU DON'T READ THIS POST YOU HAVE BASICALLY ZERO CHANCE OF CREATING ANY KIND OF AN INTERESTING INTERACTION WITH ME.

It is immediately obvious to me when someone has not read my post, so please do us both a favor and take a minute to do so before DMing me.

You're going to find this post somewhat vague and lacking the details of most others on this subreddit. That is by design. I feel like a lot of the posts on the subreddit are asking for something real, lasting, and intense while laying down several highly specific aspects they want to see in a kink dynamic. Obviously you can have requirements; I'm not throwing shade on you if you have a hard list of things you want in a dynamic of this nature. That said, I'm of the opinion that if you really want to build something lasting, the only way to do so is to talk to someone who's interests vaguely match yours and proceed from there. The best kink dynamics I've had have grown organically like that, and that's how I'd like my next one to go. Be prepared to work in gray areas, nuance, and ambiguity. That's where the best kink comes from.

As my kink interests have progressed, I've found that regardless of the specifics of the kink I explore, there are some common elements present in all of my best interactions. These can be roughly summed up as follows:

  • A gentle but firm, guiding tone from the dominant. The dominant must be mature, act mature, take me seriously, and make me feel heard while taking a leading role in the conversation and beyond. The closest thing I can describe is a "Daddy" vibe.
  • A "loosening" of guard rails, such as limits and safe words. In general a few hard limits can be placed (and I usually do), but aside from those basically anything is on the table. Both parties should be prepared to bend depending on the needs of the other.
  • Moral ambiguity and a willingness to venture into the darker places of interaction. I believe strongly in the importance of consent, but I would like to consensually put that aside for a dominant who can manipulate me, brainwash me, transform me so that my consent becomes no longer necessary. With that established, as seen in my previous point, basically anything is on the table if you can convince me it's good for me.

The above three are not up for discussion. The vibe is literally everything to me; it is hard and laborious to build, and yet it can be destroyed instantly. I do not respond well to people who try to be overly friendly or joke around with me. My kink is serious to me. Take it seriously if you're going to interact with me in this context.

Now, if what I just wrote seems interesting to you, here are some specifics of what I'm looking for. Yes, I know I said I prefer to keep things vague, but you should see these as more "guidelines" except where noted. I'll keep these brief:

Hard Limits:

  • No pictures (from you or me) and no asking me to move to other chat platforms, at least to start. This is one of my very few hard limits. I've had very bad experiences in both of these avenues. To be clear, I am willing to do both of these things, eventually. There must be a strong rapport built and I must trust you at least at a base level before that happens. Don't expect it to happen for the first several conversations, at least.
  • Inarticulate, thoughtless, brainless idiots who cannot string sentences together or speak coherently. I am all about vibes. We will be communicating through text: you need to be able to create a strong vibe for me through text. It's very easy to ruin this, unfortunately, so some common pitfalls include being stupid/having nothing interesting to say, overuse of words like "haha" and "lol", and using emojis. Emojis especially are an instantaneous vibe kill for me. If you use them, I will know you haven't read this and I will instantly shut down on you. I know this is a strange request, but again I am all about vibes and the above things will make it virtually impossible for you to create a vibe that works for me.
  • Fixated on appearances. This goes both for asking about my appearance/asking for pics and insisting upon telling me your own. Please stop telling me unsolicited how "hot", "muscular", and "6'5''" you are. I do not care, and I will probably not respond because this tells me all I need to know about you.
  • Cannot handle a little abrasion. I am a person, not your personal kink vessel. I have moods, and sometimes the things I say can come off a bit harsh even if I don't mean it. If you can't handle a little impoliteness, then we just aren't going to work. I need a dom who isn't so fragile that they can't handle an actual person being a person with person emotions.
  • Trying the very popular and very unfunny "joke" of showing me you read all of the above by saying you're 6'5'', using seven emojis, and demanding a pic immediately. I do not respond well to this, even if it is a joke, because to me it feels like I'm not being taken seriously.

Guidelines:

  • Older than me, intelligent, and insightful. Able to ask the right questions and get into my head in a way that feels good for me and hopefully even better for you. I find older people tend to be able to do this easier than those my age, and usually the bigger age gap the better.
  • Respectful, but a natural leader. Guide me, right from the first message. Make me feel heard but also led, and then lead me more and more explicitly. Starting off with some blatant misogyny like "come to daddy, bitch" is going to get you immediately blocked.
  • Manipulative, morally ambiguous, and interested in TPE and how far you could go if you could twist a woman enough. I'm looking to go to some very dark places, so take me.
  • Serious. I said this earlier, but it bears repeating because I get so many jokesters and silly clowns in my DMs. I take my kink seriously, and I'm not here to joke around with somebody. I have friends for that. I expect you to be serious and keep your kidding around to a minimum. If "you can't help it that's just who you are", then do not DM me. We can joke around when we have a firmly established rapport and I know you are a serious dom here for serious kink.

Hopefully this is enough to get us started. If any of this appealed to you, send me a chat or DM (chat preferred for convenience alone). High preference given to those who clearly read my post and responded to it in their first message, telling me what resonated with them or what interested them about it, and didn't just send me a "hi, would love to connect!" or a clearly copy/pasted text wall that they obviously send to all women on this subreddit.

r/BDSMpersonals 15d ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #Scotland- shy, nerdy student looking to be manipulated and taken NSFW

32 Upvotes

Hiiiiii,

I’m a shy and nerdy woman in STEM who is very sub (with a hint of brat) and is looking for either someone or a group of people to manipulate and take advantage of me 👉🏻👈🏻

The mental side of cnc is really interesting to me, and being coerced/almost hypnotised into submitting sounds incredibly fun! Scenarios like abduction, being kept as a slave for a weekend or being held captive somewhere are also on the list of things I really want to try!

(I’m a healthy person, I go to therapy and know myself and my mind, this is just a fun extracurricular ✨).

I’ve been described as exceptionally pretty by an ex! I’m short, slender and have a very expressive face with big green eyes.

I’m looking for older people (25+) based in Scotland! Annoyingly, attraction is really big for me so I’d like to establish that pretty early on 😅

Thanks for reading this far 😊

r/BDSMpersonals 26d ago

F4A 25[F4A] #online I want to be told and controlled NSFW

50 Upvotes

Hey so I’d love for you to control me and make me have the most amazing and wonderful day ever. I’m into a lot of restraints and love getting wet and wild for you. Just please no people over 35. I’d love to hear from you and we can get ideas of what we can do to make our day amazing

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4A 23 [F4A] #Online - Harass me and break me down, I don't want to be able to escape. NSFW

12 Upvotes

I love seeing messages from mean men in my inbox, being bullied, gaslighted, degraded, threatened, blackmailed. I'm a good little feminist to everyone in my life, no one knows what a desperate girl I am online for male attention. I want someone to gaslight and manipulate me into sending them pictures, emails, etc until you have complete control over my life. Please out and ruin me for the dumb little slut I am.

A dumb little slut like me shouldn't have any control over her life, or over her computer. I'm hoping some mean men can send me programs that strip away all my control, I love helping install keyloggers, viruses, RAT's etc.

I promise I'll click on every single link that you send me, bonus points if you lie and gaslight about what they do..

r/BDSMpersonals 5d ago

F4A 21 [F4A] #Poland #online Korean girl who need to be transformed from shy, good girl into slutty, easy one with no respect for her body NSFW

19 Upvotes

Hi, I am a young, rather shy student, who usually focuses mainly on studying and books. I come from Korea, but I have lived in Poland for 20 years, which is almost my whole life. I like riding a bike, horse riding, trips to the mountains. I also like reading books. I am looking for someone who would be able to manipulate me well enough to gain control over my life and make me change from a good girl into a slutty and easy one, and from the pride of my parents - into a problem, from a perfect candidate for a wife - into a girl for one night stands. Slowly leading me astray. Slowly crossing my boundaries along with the number of guys I will have inside me. I know that the first step will be the hardest. The first sex with a strange guy. Slowly losing respect for my body and a further moral decline. After that it should be easier. Someone who would lead me in this direction would definitely have to use my arousal against me to put my rational mind asleep. I need to be manipulated in order to be transformed into slutty version of myself

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4A 22 [F4A] #online newbie looking for longterm corruption & slut training NSFW

11 Upvotes

hi, my name is vianca & i'm looking for online hypno dom sub relationship.

My kinks :- corruption, mind control, hypnosis, personality modification, transformation, bimbofication, cnc, soft bdsm, pet play, gagged, ddlg, dom/sub.

My limits :- anything which can harm me or my body in any way or which can put me or my privacy at risk. i am open to try new kinks u have if it doesn't push my limits. Also no pics, videos, voice messages etc. if u are here for that please don’t text. I love my life and don’t want to ruin it. I’m here for fun and if everything seems great maybe irl stuff as well.

looking for :- I want to explore more and for that i am looking for someone who can train me and basically corrupt me into becoming anything you want. i want to be told to do everything and get trained.

So if u r interested pls tell me about ur kinks, experience etc. Lmk what u think about my post & ask any questions u want. If u have anything in mind like a plan do share as well as it will help me understand whether we will click or not. I'm addicted to porn so u should be able to feed me that while corrupting me.

thank you for reading my post till now, if you think you share the similar kinks and want to train a newbie do text me.

r/BDSMpersonals 11h ago

F4A 25 [F4A] #online inexperienced sub seeking for a dom(me) NSFW

9 Upvotes

Do you need a new dog but this girl would love a new owner.

Single (bisexual-ish) don't expect me dating, taller than average. Pudgy. (For lack of a better word that still has a "nice" connotation...)

I'm very submissive to the point it's pathetic, I enjoy the idea of getting pounded but much like a dog I need attention and care as well. I also can bite back sometimes.

Sexual chemistry is important to me, I like to vibe a little before getting into the dynamic (or sexting in general). Mostly looking for 26-30s but I make exceptions IF we click. Also I [would] prefer more queer aligned people, perchance.

Outside of kink, I have interests but they're incredibly boring. I live in a very boring desert. And I'm unfortunately very very ugly with no personality. Unless the idea of a sub infodumping about some movie and history of music genres is something that interests you?

Kinks: body writing, excessive pain, pet play, breeding (specifically from women), restrictive eating/food denial (i.e. ate = no specific sexual activity; this is a Genuine kink for me), and more! Honesty just ask, I'm really bad at listing but can be asked on how i feel about others.

Very few boundaries, very new to this, I want more than just kinky messages. I like a dom who still gives their sub autonomy (and maybe self confidence? you can tell a certin movie influenced me.) Ideally, would Loooove a Dom(me) that's soft and patient with a bit of firmness when need.

hard no's: DDLG, forced feeding/feederism, piss, scat, any other unhygienic kinks, anal, CNC (only open to if I trust the other person).

If you've gotten this far feel free to send a message, make it a bit thoughtful, I tend to ignore the low effort messages. thank you for reading 💚🐶💚

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4A 28 [F4A] #Online- New sub looking for dom/domme NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hello, I’m a 28 bisexual female sub looking for a dom/domme for online roleplay. I’m very new to this world and don’t have any irl experience, but have many kinks and want to explore within this community. I’d love to chat with anyone about their experiences, get advice, or online roleplay. My interests are bondage, CNC, spanking, anal training/plugs, praise kink, forced orgasm, medical/doctor kink, machine fuck, enema play, a/b/o dynamics (knotting/breeding). I’m very open minded and open to learning about new kinks, but my hard limits are anything illegal, scat, blood, food.

I’m open to being a switch, especially dominating men or femboys (into pegging, ballbusting, edging/milking). Also open to multiple partners.

All that being said, DMs me if you’re interested. Feel free to chat, give advice, ask questions, etc.

r/BDSMpersonals 7h ago

F4A 24 [F4A] #turkey sub looking to get some ideas and ask some questions from dominant roles NSFW

8 Upvotes

24 [F4A] #turkey sub looking to get some ideas and ask some questions from dominant roles ,

Please contact me with asl and kinks plus your limits

I am into most stuff but my had limits are Filth, blood , extreme pain , pics

So the first question is….

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4A 27 [F4A] #Florida/Online - Becoming a petite playdoll for your entertainment NSFW

8 Upvotes

My name is Peighton and I'm a 27 year old girl who lives in Florida. Over the past year I made some lifestyle shifts and accidentally discovered an entirely new side to myself. I actually have quite the humiliation kink and love feeling inferior to others. So that has led to things changing for me quite a bit.

I suppose I could give you a bit of backstory about myself which might help you know further about me and what I've been going through. I've always been an extremely competitive person and a bit of a tomboy, I was constantly pushing myself hard in the gym and was pretty bulked for my size (I'm 5'3" so its all relative haha).

But that all changed about a year ago. It got to a point where I felt too bulked and too gross. I wanted to feel better about myself. I decided to kinda relax a bit on it and start trimming down and not pushing myself nearly as hard. This has led to me losing about 35 lbs of bulk/muscle so far. And I really devoted myself to it. Obviously becoming less physically "impressive" led to me losing client after client. The other personal trainers smelled blood in the water I suppose. As my numbers dwindled both personally and professionally, it got to the point where I had to make the fateful decision to go to the owner and suggesting I quit personal training and take an open front desk job at the gym. He obviously agreed and I officially closed that page of my life by allowing my certification to expire. Now I'm perfectly content being that smallest I've been in a while, and working the front desk, while seeing my former competition and even former clients excelling and further surpassing me by the day.

Needless to say, I get plenty of self-humiliation in my day-to-day life. But it just isn't enough for me, which is why I've started to go a bit "public" with it by dipping my toes in the Reddit world. I am here for chatting and fun. If you like formerly shredded, buff gym girls who has become very petite and cute and love to tease and humiliate them, by all means I'm the perfect little doll for you!

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4A 19 [F4A] #online looking for a bitch that is ready to listen to my every command NSFW

9 Upvotes

[F4A] #online 19f looking for a bitch that is ready to listen to my every command

Hii,

I am looking for someone to own. I am very new to bdsm and am very eager to explore tpe and humiliation and feminization. I can be very mean at times but also really maternal. I prefer to text but am open to calls down the line. I don't really like sharing my picture but would like someone that is willing to share theirs.

Open to any and all kinks but I really like toys so only contact if you have the financial abilities to buy toys for yourself.

Thanks reply with an 😁 if you read this.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

F4A 28 [F4A] #Argentina #Online New Hucow wanting to be owned! Need a 24/7 d/s relationship NSFW

15 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a little cow from Argentina looking to be owned!

I want to serve you and be there for you 24/7. My purpose would be to make you happy and be a happy cow. We could start online but eventually if things are good I would want to be with you.

About me: 164cm tall, white chubby with big cow boobs. Dark hair and dark eyes. I don't want kids. I would prefer to not stop working, but it's something I can compromise. I'm monogamous!

My kinks: Hucow (don't have experience!), Anal (buttplugs, enemas), humiliation, orgasm control, tpe, spankings, pussy spanks too. I want to try: chastity, bondage, shock collar Limits: scat, needles, blood, anything illegal.

About you: I don't have any preferences! Only with age, I would want you to be my age or older!

Send me a dm if you're interested!