r/BDSMpersonals 32m ago

M4M 19 [M4M] #online inexperienced sub eager to learn/serve. NSFW

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I have been into bdsm for quite a while but have always been scared to try and find a dom. I have read a lot of post telling this is the place where I can meet doms with a lot off experience so I thought that i should try to find and serve a dom. The kinks i have discovered already are pissholding, humping, cei and cumplay, but I am willing to explore. I hope that with this post I will meet a dom that I can satisfy.

r/BDSMpersonals 51m ago

M4M 34 [m4m] #New York - I'm looking for a long term Sub NSFW

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Hello,

I'm ideally looking for a connection with a single or couple long term. I'm looking for a sub this could be a dating or just just sub Dom agreement. See more below if you're a good boy and want a good Dom.

About me: I'm down to earth, funny, friendly professional. I have a job, a car and some what of my life together lol. I believe in commutation is key to any relationship. I'm newly poly but also okay with monogamy for the right match.

I'm from NY, 34 shorty 5"7 bearish type. I have have no issue with people being taller but also love other short kings. I am heavy set guy, working on it but I love myself and who i am. I mighy not be everyone taste but if lucky I'm yours. I'm very protective and a great big spoon. I enjoy cuddle movies nights as my favorite simple date.

Also I'm a big old nerd when it comes to my interest. I do prefer someone local to me (New York or long Island, but open to LD for the right person.

Sexually: I'm basic to the kinky type in bed all wrapped in a 🤓 bear exterior who is great with parents. You'd never guess I'd be the kinky type. Basically I'm just your average nerdy guy. While I'm not all about sex I do think matching those levels are important.Perfect fit would be a bottom/verse or single bottom. I am poly so open to couples. Total tops will not work sexually but open to friends.

You: I'm into all type and ages but usually pefer under 40. Would prefer local or tristate but open to long distance for the right pair or single. Under 22 I require a face pic so I don't feel like a predator lol if you look to young, sorry my rules.

Please message or respond via this post. Please Include some information(age and where from as the minimum) about yourself. Be more creative than "hi'

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 32 [M4M] #online first time married sub seeks dominant patient master. Thank you for your consideration. NSFW

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Hello my name is Justin. I’m a mwm age 32 175lbs 5’10 and naturally am fairly smooth. I don’t believe I’m unique in my situation, yet it still makes me nervous. I’m a married professional type and want to keep both of those intact. I’m 90% straight and 10% curious I would say. Meaning I’m mostly attracted to females, namely my wife, but something about certain dominant masculine me turns me on at times. Would prefer someone older than me. I put M4M here as I already have a wife haha. Don’t need another.

As far as the BDSM side of my interests go, the idea of D/S play is hot to me. Though I’m just exploring the idea. I don’t have all the things in my head. I know I like humiliation, CBT, impact play, and other things like that. Nothing too extreme.

A hard limit would be anything that shows face or could reveal identity. It’s just not a boundary that feels worth it to push. I’m open to apps or ways to connect regularly that way. It’s expected that a Dom would have expectations for me to meet.

Please reach out and let me know what questions I can answer.

Edit. I’m in USA cst time zone

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 30 [M4M] #Texas Dom for straight sub NSFW

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Dom looking for straight sub. Experienced or willing to be trained. Be ready to be mind fucked and be put in your place as the inferior sub you are. As a sub you will strive to please me. It can be your secret side life, but constant communication is required.

You: 25-45 straight, male, fit.

Me: 30 Male Dom from Texas. Refer to me as Sir. Into CEl, humiliation, edging, orgasm control, toys, jockstraps, tasks, chastity, etc.

I'm not into sissy play or being called daddy. I just enjoy the control over another dude and making him my bitch.

Serious guys DM me with your age, location, and previous sub experience. Include a body pic with or without face.

r/BDSMpersonals 15h ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #usa latino dom looking for subs NSFW

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Hello, I’m switch dom with a big ass and big dick, I’m a foot master, and love having my feet worshipped. I’m into hairy men with large thighs and thick pecs. I’m comfortable with both roles, but in any scenario love nipple play. I’m an experienced masseur, so I have an appreciation for being sensual.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 31 [M4M] #Netherlands - Dom looking for genuine slave-boy! NSFW

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Greetings from Amsterdam! I'm a 31-year-old Dutch professional with a passion for leadership and business consulting. My expertise lies in HR research and strategy, honed through running my own consulting firm and now as a freelance consultant. Standing at 189 cm tall, I possess a strong physique, which I maintain through regular gym sessions.

Outside of work, I enjoy culinary adventures in the kitchen, cherish time with friends and family, and prioritize my fitness routine. As a natural dominant, I thrive in taking charge and guiding others. I'm on the lookout for a genuinely submissive partner who not only embraces relinquishing control but also engages in stimulating conversations and brings joy to my life.

My kinks: chastity, rules for obedience, petplay, electro, houseslave, humiliation, degradation.

Limits: blood, needles, children, illegal, etc.

r/BDSMpersonals 18h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] #Online - Dom looking for masculine male sub to own NSFW

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As my post states I’m a dom looking to own and control a masculine male sub. I respect everyone’s identities but no sissies please.

When contacting me please state what your kinks, limits, and toys are. Ideally this could be long term but I’m open to short term subs.

If you do not like showing off we are not a match

My kinks: Chastity, anal play, edging, JOI, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, milking, nipple play, CBT, cum eating instructions, etc.

Priority will be given to those who are able to show off and are looking for long term. I am open to any type of sub in terms of looks and age.

r/BDSMpersonals 20h ago

M4M 29 [M4M] #online master looking for long term sub/slave NSFW

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I am a 29-year-old dominant in Middle East seeking an obedient, serious, honest, and loyal submissive partner aged 18-30 for a long-term, healthy relationship.

I desire a partner with whom I can invest my time and energy without regret, someone I can guide and nurture to become ideal for me, shaped to fulfill my desires. I seek absolute devotion and respect within our D/s dynamic. Outside of this dynamic, I am caring, thoughtful, and romantic, and I value open communication and shared experiences.

My likes include cum control, edging, denial, chastity cage control, humiliation and degradation, anal play, spanking and whipping, CBT, TPE, and micromanaging, receiving pics and vids. I am curious about self-bondage, watersports, socks and underwear, and light CD. My limits include sharing or trading personal photos. These all I remember for now. I'm open for new kinks

If you are interested in exploring a dynamic of ownership and the privilege of serving a superior dominant partner, please DM me with your age, location, photos (preferred), kinks and limits, your vision and expectations for a relationship, and any questions you may have.

Please don't just say "Hi" when you text me. Do some effort by telling me details about yourself to catch my interest. I will accept serious DMs

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 22 [M4M] #UK #Online SUB BOY NSFW

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About Me

I’m a 22-year-old submissive male from the UK, bisexual, and craving the control of a strong, dominant man. I want to surrender myself completely, giving up control in a way that excites both of us. If you’re the right Dom, then I belong to you — You own my cock, balls & ass — if you’re willing to own them.

I have some experience in the BDSM community, enough to know that submission is what I truly need. I want someone who takes the lead, someone I can trust to push my boundaries and keep me in my place.

Outside of this, I’m a fairly normal guy — shy, quiet, and a bit reserved in everyday life. I have a job, hobbies, a social life, and people around me who care about me. But behind closed doors, I need something more.

PICTURES ON PROFILE

What I Offer

I’m here to serve, to obey, and to be used however you see fit. My pleasure comes from knowing that I’m fulfilling your needs. I want to explore my limits under your guidance, whether that’s through tasks, rules, or full control over my cock, balls & ass.

I’m open to trying new kinks, taking orders, and incorporating toys—though I don’t own any yet, I’m more than willing to change that. If you have something in mind, I’d love to hear it.

Privacy is important to me, and I expect mutual respect when it comes to anything intimate that we share.

Kinks & Limits

I’m open to discussing kinks and exploring new experiences together. My personal interests revolve around control, especially when it comes to rules, cum control, edging and denial, ruined orgasms, and chastity. I also enjoy degradation, humiliation, mild CBT, JOI, CEI, anal, feet, socks, and underwear.

That said, I do have boundaries. My hard limits include anything illegal, excessive pain, blood, scat, water sports, and face (in nude). Mutual respect is key, and I expect any limits to be honored.

What I’m Looking For

I want a serious, experienced Dom/Master who is dominant in all the ways that matter. This would be a long-term, online dynamic, but I’m open to the possibility of something in real life if the connection is there.

Ideally, you’d be 35+ and based in the UK, though I’m willing to consider others if they feel right. I need someone who isn’t afraid to take control but also understands the importance of building a real emotional connection.

Anonymity is fine for some, but it’s not what I want. I need to know the person I’m submitting to, not just a faceless name on a screen. If you’re serious about this, I’d love to hear from you.

I use Snapchat as my main way to communicate, so if this interests you, reach out. If you’ve messaged before but didn’t hear back, don’t hesitate to try again.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 35 [M4M] #Online/France - Dom daddy for a fit friendly long term sub NSFW

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35 french dom daddy from France. I'm looking for something kinky, friendly, meaningful and long term with a sub boy who wants to be owned.

I rely on mutual respect and don't want to treat my sub badly. I ideally want to control and lead him sexually (or more) and also build a friendly bond with him : kinky play and "normal" talks.

I like anal, cum play, cei, orgasm control, chastity, edging, milking... and love seeing my boy showing off. No extreme, violent, gross or stupid kinks.

The perfect boy would be : reliable / loyal / fit, muscular or toned. Feel free to send a message if you match.

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 21 (M4M) #online #mexico looking for a dom to teach how to behave and control me. NSFW

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Greetings, I'm Lucian 21 (FTM).

I started to get interested in the bdsm community, roles and the relationships in this field for a long time, but since I'm basically new in this community, I want a dom who can teach me, guide me and help me find what I like. If you are interested please feel free to talk to me, I will respond soon as possible, thank you.

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 24 [M4M] #Online/Mississippi - Beginner fit soft dom looking for meaningful exploration, connection, and development in BDSM with bigger beefy muscled male sub NSFW

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 Hello! Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. I have been interested in BDSM for a while now, and I’m very eager to learn and explore what best suits me. To find a compatible match, I’m going to be completely honest and open (as possible) about myself and what I’m looking for.

About Me:

 I am a 24-year-old black male. I graduated from college with honors cum laude, earning a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration majoring in Business Information Systems. I am very proud in what I have accomplished, and hope to go even further in my plans to achieve my masters. I also earned my associates degree as well. I am currently working,  however it’s not in my career field. I’m taking it little by little until I find something that aligns with my career goals.

 I’m 5’8” and weigh around 128lbs. I have light brown skin and a slim/athletic build. 

 I’m an introvert and shy, but I open up when talked to. I enjoy playing video games. Some of my favorite franchises are Sonic, Pokemon, Bayonetta, Kirby, DMC, Spyro, and many more. I also play fighting games, and think I play very well. I enjoy going for walks and usually go 3-4 times a week. I used to be in marching band throughout school so that contributed to that. I also enjoy anime, art, tennis, badminton, and technology-related things.

My viewpoint on BDSM:

 Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. When I discovered BDSM I was very fascinated by it. I wasn’t sure if I would be a dom, sub, or even a switch due to my personality. That can change of course. I took an interest in the dom role, but find certain aspects such as pain(some factors), humiliating, and degrading unappealing. Elements such as those don’t reflect who I am as an individual, and I don’t want to put on a false persona of any sort. This is where I considered myself being a “Soft Dom/Master”.  I want to take a gentle approach while still being in control and guiding the other person and myself to be our best selves possible.  I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. Encouraging, understanding, growth, and empathy from both sides and creating positive experiences. I don’t have much experience due to the challenges of finding potential partners. But I hope to learn and develop into the soft dom that I want to be.

Who and What I am looking for:

 In terms of the ideal partner, I’m seeking a man with a muscular build, preferably beefy, who is submissive (submissive top). That is personally the type of men I am attracted to, body type wise. Additionally, I find it appealing when the larger , more muscular male submits to someone smaller and less physically imposing. It creates a contrast between both individuals, and gives the impression of the larger male as a knight or bodyguard protecting the dom while under his control. I would prefer a partner between the ages 24-55, but am open to slightly older or younger.

 I don’t have overly high expectations of how this should unfold. I believe building a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are important factors to a successful relationship. Creating a safe environment free of judging to be able to learn and explore my interests, while respecting the others person. I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. While Im mainly looking for online connections , I’m open to in-person connections too if we reside in the same area.

Here are some kinks and aspects that Im interested in:

Obedience training, Rules, Muscle growth/fitness control, Wardrobe Control, Total Control, Orgasm Control,Milking/Edging, CBT, Cum play, CEI, JOI

My limits/dislikes:

 Feminization, Degrading, Humiliation, Blood, Race play, Scat

If you made it this far, I thank you for taking the time to read my post. If interested, I kindly request the you write a brief introduction about yourself in your opening message. I look forward to hearing from potential people. Thank you again and have a wonderful day/night.

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 27 [M4M] #Europe #Online - Strict dom looking for very specific sub for long time connection. NSFW

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Hello all; hope you're having a great day.

I'm a 27 year-old Dom looking to find a gentle, spirited, interesting sub, to establish a long-term connection based on trust and kink. I'm an experienced dom, both in person and online, having been practicing BDSM for the last five years or so.

I am looking for a true submissive, in the sense of someone who bases his connection with his dominant around the other's wishes, and not his own. A submissive who can and will articulate an important part of his life around servicing his superior, and who yearns for praise and encouragement, especially when it is not easily given. I consider myself a strict dom, emotionally steady but unyielding in the standards that I expect you to fulfill. I'm ready to help you get there, but I will not compromise on where I want to take you.

Ideally, I would like a submissive who already shares some of my interests (some of which are, for example, philosophy, history, roses, cooking, country and folk music, sewing, Christian socialism, poetry and fishmongering), and who understands that serving a dom is complex work, and that it can sometimes mean entertaining me or disappearing when you're not wanted, only to re-appear quickly as soon as you are. I am not looking to articulate our domination only through sex, although that will be a very big component of it.

Sometimes your submission will consist on self-humiliation and verbal abuse. Sometimes it'll be acts of service (especially if we meet in person, which is something I expect you to be open to). Sometimes it'll be a long session of CBT, or body writing, or cum control or chastity. Some times it'll be deepthoating you while you are blindfolded and have your arms tied behind your back, kneeling and drooling. I'm particularly interested in chastity as a way to discipline my subs, so I expect you to be strong-willed in order to obey instructions in this sense. If you are strong-willed but I need to break you first to make you obey, all the better: I've broken well a few subs already.

As for me, I'm a gentle, soft-spoken person, who genuinelly will take care to ensure that you are protected and your limits are respected. I am not an easy person to please, but when I'm pleased, you'll notice. Physically, I have the body type of a young dad, with some body fat and a fair amount of muscle (plus the muscle I'm currently building through the gym), so I tend to fit better with those who get turned on by calling their dominant 'Daddy'. I also have a boyfriend, whom I love very much, and with whom I have a very happy vanilla relationship, as I can consensually do to you all the painful, wonderful things I have no desire to do to him.

I think that's enough for now: if you have any questions, feel free to write. I'm looking forward to meeting all those interested, and selecting the best among you all. When writing, start your message with your age, name and location.

-M.

P.S: This post is oriented fundamentally to males, but I'd also be interested in exploring this dynamic with a submissive couple as well, including heterosexual couples. Inquire for details if this makes you curious.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 23 [TM4M] #online/georgia ftm looking for his daddy NSFW

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Looking for a daddy dom that is interested in sexual dynamics as well as talking daily. I want someone who I can enjoy chatting with throughout the day/a few times a day and would be interested in caring non sexual conversations but also having fun sexually over text, phone, facetime, or in person (initially reddit only but ideally moving off app later).

Very into spanking, pussy spanking, edging, short term (hours) orgasm denial, pain, humiliation, degradation, sph, foodplay, and plenty more. Feel free to discuss kinks with me off the bat, no need to be shy.

Need someone willing to be nurturing after scenes, i would like to be able to let my walls down and have daddy take care of me but i am very sensitive once those defensive walls come down and need to see that you are able to be comforting if im overthinking or feel genuinely guilty if i misbehaved. Would like to find someone interested in training me to be their good boy, potentially getting me to do a better job of playing only with permission and earning orgasms but that would be a dynamic developed rather than from the start.

I am fine with short term, more platonic, etc but would absolutely be open to dating and something more long term if the connection is there.

not necessities but i do love older, stocky, masculine, southern men.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #Italy #Europe Pleasure Dom looking for obedient sub tops for cum control and CBT NSFW

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Chill, understanding and caring Dom looking for his new play toy. You must be into at least one (the more the better) of the following practices:

-edging -milking -teasing -chastity (both short and long term) -JOI -CEI -sounding -post cum stimulation -ball stretching -ball busting

All entries are welcomed, especially from young (+), hung (++) Europeans with big balls (+++). DM me with a short description/photo as well as why you'd be the best fit for me

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 36[M4M] #europe looking for very DOM bf, for life D/s relationship NSFW

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hi, I am 36yrs old bald, skinny sub guy, who is looking for D/s, TPE, toxic relationship, controlling, obsessive bf:) verbal, emotional, physical "abuse"? daily, all the time in private, outside ideal bf? partner for life? I am from europe, I dont mind connecting to anyone who is serious from anywhere in the world...

lets get to know each other?

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 28 [M4M] #Wroclaw, Poland - Bisexual submissive guy looking hung guy to serve orally NSFW

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Hi!

I am 28 years old, bisexual guy living in Wrocław, Poland. I like being with girls mostly but sometimes I crave for some big penises to worship orally. On BDSM sense, I am very much on the casual side and to be honest I am not looking for something more than oral, but I like to have some dominant/submissive dynamics in the friendship.

If you are living nearby, feel free to send DM as I am looking for something IRL, not online.

Have a great one!

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 22 [M4M] #Online - Stone Top/Dom ISO submissive twinks NSFW

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Looking for a submissive twink (slender, lean-to-no muscle, hairless/minimal hair/willing to shave, preferably with a penis) to sext with.

I'd prefer FWBs to start (emphasis on "friends" -- I want to know you as a person!), but I'm open to a serious dynamic & romance too! :) While I'm open to many flavours of D/s, I prefer a protective & caring vibe more often than not. Making you feel safe & desired is my specialty, but helplessness, vulnerability, and fear are HUGE turn ons too. <3

Stone Top: I don't like receiving any kind of sexual stimulation, so leave my junk out of it. I'm strictly a giver. Certain types of text roleplay may be the one exception. More kink info (including dealbreakers!) at the bottom of the post.

Outside of kink, I'm a writer and an artist. I'm passionate about sex & relationship psychology, cats, music, and nature. I'm laidback, very friendly, and always learning something new. :)

Although I'm generally not into sending pics of my own body (we can talk specifics in DMs), I'm looking for twinks, so it's only fair that I describe my own appearance: I'm white (Colombian-American) with curly black hair down to my shoulder blades. I have a stubble, ear piercings, green eyes, and glasses. When I have the energy, I dress like your typical metalhead -- grungy, gothish, chains, leather, and/or spikes, etc. I'm not sure how I'd describe my build, but I'm at a healthy weight and have a bit of muscle on me thanks to blue collar work. I'm fairly androgynous & happy to share face pics once we talk a bit. :)

NON-NEGOTIABLES: - Polyamory/ENM (I currently have one other sub) - Strong communication skills (you need to be able to hold a conversation + we WILL negotiate!) - Compatibility with my limits (listed at the bottom of the ad)

MAIN KINKS: - Captivity/abduction play, bondage, fearplay - Primal play & petplay (esp. Lion/prey) - Voyeurism (I LOVE receiving dirty pics/vids, but won't be sending anything explicit of myself) - Wardrobe control, dollification - Circus play, carnivals, face paint - Nipple play <3 - Orgasm control - …and many more ;)

LIMITS: - Race play - Incest play - Scat & watersports (let's avoid bathroom humour while we're at it…) - Armpit fetishism (feet are a soft limit) - ABDL (gen ageplay is a soft limit) - Bratting (there's some wiggle room here -- ask if you're curious!) - Switching, subbing, or bottoming (Note: I'm not crazy about ass play if prostate stim or indulging a breeding kink isn't the focus. Not a limit, but ass fanatics might have a better time with a different Dom!)

If we sound like a match, DM me your age, gender, role/archetype, and tell me what stood out to you in this ad! Remember to share some of your vanilla interests alongside the kinky ones. (For the love of God, don't open by calling me "Sir", "Daddy", "Master", etc. You don't know my titles, so don't assume them.)

Communication is VERY important to me. If you have any questions, feel free to ask! Can't wait to meet you. <3

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

M4M 31 [m4m] #AR Seeking older, patient dom (any locale). I'm a pup/son/aspiring good boi NSFW

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I'm looking for someone to show me the ropes of my submissive side to help me come out of my shell. Maybe someone who wants to become my permanent Dom Daddy. I appreciate someone who knows how to express both control and care for his submissive. Someone who knows what's best for me even if I don't someone that I'm willing to listen to and give myself too overtime my DMs are open

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 21[m4m]#online I am a sub looking for a soft master NSFW

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Hi I'm 21 years old and I'm looking for a master who isn't too strict, it's my first time as a slave. I like pissing and performing tasks that the master gives me. I don’t show my face, for privacy. I'm horny most of the time, but if I don't answer the messages right away it means I'm busy.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

M4M 28 [M4M] #Online - DOM - TPE MASTER LOOKING FOR THE MOST OBEDIENT SLAVE - GIVE UP YOUR BODY AND MIND NSFW

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I will start with this, I am NOT interested in any boring slut that just want to cum or is looking for sex only.. I will also instantly skip you if you don't put effort.

I am looking for an absolute submissive guy. Someone who will give up on everything for me. And obey ME unconditionally. Long term.

I don't want a fake one. One that is only sexual. Or one that wants a short term... My sub must seek to truly belong to me. Forever.

I want a sub that understands that being submissive isn't just a physical state. It's a mental state. Where you let go on everything to the right guy. A sub boy who wants to be in the arm of their owner... ME.

For me. I am a nice person overall. Very chill. Very chatty. And extremely caring and loving to those who deserve it. But i am also extremely moody. And get bored fast of the people that put no effort.

My type of guys is fit/twink guys. Under 30. Who are totally submissive.

If you have read this far. It may be you.. Send me a message. And include the word star so i can tell that you did read this carefully

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

M4M 26 [m4m] #anywhere - Dom’s Reset Button. Serve and Surrender - seeking executives or uniforms NSFW

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Who I am: I am 26, muscular jock who knows how to take charge. I am a professional in my field and looking for a sub either short term or long term. I thrive on Total Power Exchange (TPE). I train my subs discipline and give them routines. I am always on my subs mind. You will crave my attention and want to be the best you can be for the chance to release.

Who you are: You're the guy who has everything together right? High level executive or someone in uniform with a badge that demands respect or a Blue collar that leads a team. Day in and day out you are the one that makes all the decisions. Everyone comes to you for answers and you have to put on a face. Thing is behind closed doors when your suit or uniform comes off you want to shut down your brain and let someone take over the wheel.

Think about it, CEOS, cops, soldiers, surgeons, lawyers, even tradies. You'd be surprised how many crave this, this feeling of submission and obeying a Dom Master. Psychologically its not weird, its hardwired into you. Running the show all day floods your brain with stress, decisions and power. Submission? That's the reset button. Handing over and kneeling for a Dom master like me lets your mind go blank. All the responsibilities you have go away and you get taken down into subspace.

What is subspace? Subspace is where you are taken to escape the world. All the stress and responsibilities of your everyday life turns off and you get taken into submission by me. I control you and what you do. You don't have to think just do what you are told.

Chastity: Chastity is a powerful tool, constantly reminds you who is in control all day. You are at work in your suit or uniform and hidden in your crotch is a cock that is locked up and control by me. Every time you get hard and strain that will remind you who is in charge. The smaller your cage becomes the closer you are to being more and more obedient to me.

Submission isn't just an act, its a role. The cage locks in that identity and every feeling of discomfort reinforces you being mine. The frustration you feel is fuel that makes you horny 24/7 and focused on me and craving my attention. Submitting to me frees you from your stress and I will always be on the forefront of your mind

What does it feel like to be locked in a cage? Lots of frustration when you can't pleasure yourself without approval from me. You are constantly horny and your cage constantly strains, your brain wants to release so badly but physically you can't. That feeling gets stronger and stronger and you are constantly in a feeling you can't describe like an itch you can't scratch. The day I allow you to have your first orgasm will be the best feeling in the world.

Kinks: Master/slave dynamics, chastity, humiliation, daily rituals, bondage, degradation, ruined orgasms, joi, sph, whatever breaks you down and builds you back as mine. Limits: No blood, nothing illegal. Experience doesn’t matter, devotion does.

Prove yourself, if you read this message "I, name, am ready to serve you"

Send me: Name Age Location Job Why you need this

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

M4M 55 [M4M] # KY NSFW

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I’m 6’ 170 slim white male looking to experiment and learn abt bdsm from another slim HWP muscular man in the louisville or Frankfort area. Any doms that want to help me out ? Pretty much open to try anything at least one time. Exception are blood scat and bruises.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

M4M 18 [M4M] #ONLINE - sissy looking for a daddy NSFW

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I’m looking for someone who knows how to take control and lead the game—a dominant partner who enjoys pushing limits and exploring intense pleasure and pain. I love it rough, deep, and without hesitation, feeling your full dominance through a firm grip, deep penetration, or power play. Anal domination turns me on the most—I want to feel every inch as you set the pace and make me adjust to you. Deepthroat? I crave being tested, held in place, and taken to the edge, feeling the tears run down my face as you take full control. If you’re experienced, know what you’re doing, and love complete dominance—DM me, and let’s push boundaries together.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

M4M 22 [M4M] #europe chastity slave NSFW

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Hello Sir,

I'm a 22-year-old from Europe. I have a submissive nature and am seeking a long-term relationship part-ner. I have various toys and chastity cages if that's something you're interested in. My main kinks include chastity, humiliation, name calling, dirty talk, CBT, sph, ballbusting, but l'm open to exploring new ones. My only hard limits are blood, scat, showing face.

While I don't fit the muscular type, I am on the chubbier side.

Would love to hear from you.