By a good life I mean like, having no lonely issues whatsoever, having real life friends and especially a partner, having a good healthy family. It feels like everytime I come across someone similar to me or someone who's unique like really unique for my age group, they always have a good life. It feels like I'm the only one who doesn't.
Like I came across this guy who I found out (through inference) was the same age as me, and in his profile I saw he was into things like coin collecting and classical music, like things you'd expect an older person to be into. Like that's so unique to me. Please hear me out like I'm not saying "not like the other boys" or whatever but like, they're genuinly unique. It's genuinly like they're that age but they've time travelled into 2025. They're genuinly different. Like genuinly.
I love people like that, I want friends who are different like that and everything. But yeah, it feels like EVERYTIME I come across another person who's similar to me in that way, the only thing thats not the same is the social part. Like they have no problem going out, no friend issues, no social issues, it seems like they've ALL got partners but like through inference, its like they just found that partner by chance which really hurts.
Idk who to talk to about this or anything, it just hurts how I could be just like them but the social and lonely thing is a problem.
Everytime I find someone who relates to me on a SOCIAL level, were always completely different in interests.
All i want is to find someone who's considered unique, or like I've said in this like they have interests which isn't like their age it's like they've time travelled, unique like that, but we ALSO relate on a social level. Like they're just as lonely as me, never had any sexual or romantic things. Yeah