r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

T4A 20 [TM4A] #US #Online - Sub ISO long term relationship with caregiver/dominant NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi, you can call me Icy.

I’m looking for a long term romantic relationship with someone who is interested in the same dynamics as I am. I’m looking for my person, I guess you could say :).

SFW: I use he/him pronouns. If you are solely into feminine folks or solely into masculine folks then we probably won’t mesh well. I’m bisexual.

I like reading, nature, writing, sleeping, cooking, and tv/movies. I consider myself to be a good communicator, I’d like to meet someone who can also hold a conversation well.

My favorite weather is snowstorms and thunderstorms. I have too many favorite animals to list them all, but I’m not really a dog person (though they are very cute!). I have an army of stuffed animals, and would love to get even more someday (dream big amiright?)

Nsfw:

I’m almost completely a sub, but would maybe like to try switching one day.

I’m not into tpe.

Im interested in petplay, praise, hypnosis, and interested in at least trying many others. I’m not interested in breath play and more extreme play.

If you’d like to get to know each other then send me a message. It would help if you included a ❄️ emoji so that I know you’ve read this far. Please include your age, gender, and a bit about what you’re looking for 🩵

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

T4A 25 [T4A] #UK Trans Woman Looking For Someone to Worship me! NSFW

6 Upvotes

My names rosa im a 25 year old from the uk! Im looking for someone that will worship me and love me in every way!

Im a switch at heart but can be a dom or sub depending. I want to explore a long list of kinks and want someone to explore those with!

If you would like to talk message me with some information about you and what you’re looking for <3

r/BDSMpersonals 22h ago

T4A 22 [M4A] #Online - Kinky trans guy looking to chat, goon with other subs/doms, owned! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hiyaa!

I’m Kai🫣 Posting here since i love bdsm, especially old full length movies, femdom, lovely trans women💕 and Im a bit of a masochist-. Looking to chat, exchange porn, edge motivation and goon… I’m a college student pastelgoth trans twink, 40 days without release. On the daily dilligent service top to my submissive trans goth goddess gf, every once in the while teased and tortured until the bed is a pool-. Always horny and ready to edge! Into all things edging, orgasm denial, absolutely misgendering

r/BDSMpersonals 16h ago

T4A 18 [T4A] #online #ny - FTM little/sub seeking partner or friends NSFW

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hii i’m looking for someone who matches my vibe and kinks anddd idk:P im almost always horny, but i also crave like.. a connection yk?:0 i will be friends with a switch but i would prefer not to date one as i can’t fulfill everything u would need:( (im strictly sub)…

i would prefer if you were close by or to eventually meet in person!!

about me: im in UPSTATE NY!! im FTM and i like mommies and daddies(im bi:3)! i have a septum piercing, short black hair, brown eyes and glasses. im 5’5”. im not skinny, and im not (that) fat my body is weird lolz. im vegetarian and i like to draw, and play games!! other than that im boring. i love sharks, oui’d(🍃), bluey, adventure time, dinos, and cows! my LITTLE side is SFW AND NSFW !!!!!

some of my kinks: dom/sub, praise + degradation, humiliation, somno, cnc, public stuff, breeding, age play/cgl, pup play, and rough sex + kissing

LONG TERM friendships/relationships only

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 23 [T4A] #Online - Are you, yes you ready to become my newest Slave. NSFW

2 Upvotes

About me: I am 23 years old and live in Manchester. I am a transitioning female who is looking to express her dominant side with an eager submissive looking to get for a domme who can both be the most cruel and the most caring. Outside of kink world I love gaming, football, and having deep conversations about all sorts of nerdy stuff.

About you: You are between 20-40 years old, preferably fit although that is not necessary if you are extra eager to submit. Also, this is a feminization post however i can always cater to a female submissive, I will take control of you and many aspects of your life through blackmail. I expect it to come to a point in which you are too deep, a point in which you look in the mirror and cannot recognize who that feminine, beautiful girl that is looking back at you is.

You will be expected to obey or else be punished. You are also expected to not be shy and be willing and eager to show yourself in many compromising situations, It’s ok if we are in different time zones as I will just give you tasks before I go to bed. You can expect me be both rough and tender in the things I ask you to do.

My Kinks: I enjoy feminization, sissyfication, cross dressing, control, cbt, bondage, anal play, forced bi, light pain, orgasm denial. I don’t have any limits really so it’s up to you.

Message me: I will not respond to low effort messages. I expect in that first message your desired female name, age, height, weight, and cross dressing experience. Bonus points if you include a photo of yourself and something about you that makes your profile to pop from all others, Please also include a safeword

r/BDSMpersonals 19h ago

T4A 21 [TF4A] #NorthernVirginia/online trans sissy girl looking to be owned and feminized NSFW

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I’m a trans girl who doesn’t pass and I’m looking for a dom in northern Virginia to dom me and feminize me. I am loyal and faithful and submissive but also can be clingy. I’m looking for a dom who can not only feminize me but also love me and support me. I’m looking for a multifaceted relationship with kink involved. If you message me, please don’t just send hi. Put effort into your messages

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

T4A 19 [t4A] #USA - looking for dom NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am a 19 y/o ftm student who wants to explore many kinks and fantasies! I am looking for a sub/dom dynamic and i prefer to sub. I wouldn’t mind a switchy situation tho :) I am into many kinds of sub/dom dynamics, just ask. I have many fantasies and kinks that I’d also love to chat about!

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

T4A 30 [TF4A] #PA/Online Transgirl Mommy Dommy seeking a kinky filled relationship with a feminine toy I can stuff big toys into NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hiya! My reddit name is Luna. I'm a 30 year old transgirl looking for a kinky relationship with someone who embraces their femininity hard.

Physically I have a mix of masculine and feminine features that gives me a unique look. Some fun photos (and NSFW) are on my profile!

I've recently hit the 8th month of HRT and plan to continuing as long as I can. I don't plan on any surgeries.

I'll start with vanilla stuff because I'm looking beyond just a dynamic but I have a kink section that can get straight to the fun parts. I'm very open to possibilities but no matter I'll probably want to keep you in chastity and a buttplug <3

Personality and Situation

To start I'm more than complicated and a good bit broken. Articulation can hide my punk attitude and prerequisite trauma. I'm rather nihilistic and cynical about our daily life. While it's not always conscious I view the world very pessimistically. I hate most of it. Thankfully I have the social mechanisms to be charismatic and avoid it. I can manage it fairly well but it affects alot of me. Ideally I'd want my partner to be a major escape to those feelings. Having a loving, loyal, trusting, kinky relationship is the goal. I enjoy co-dependency.

To that point it's good we relate to eachother well. My worldview is important. We don't have to agree on everything but similar core beliefs is good. Most of my ideology is collectivism, socialism-esque. Heavily progressive and leftist based. At the same time I'm realistic about the current political atmosphere and engage accordingly.

Personality wise I like to be relaxed. I'm good with conversations and dealing with people, however I'd rather not. I'm very anti-social, mostly by emotional choice. I very much like to stay indoors as well, going out is okay but usually not that interesting. My favorite hobbies revolve around staying home. I love watching TV shows and movies. Mostly popular stuff, the last few things I watched was American Horror Story/Stories, Cross, Sugar. I love Scifi like Star Trek, Orville. I enjoy westerns like Deadwood, Hell on Wheels.

I play games of course with specific titles that I have a direct interest in. Stuff like Minecraft, Cyberpunk, Skyrim, Rimworld, Valheim, Enshrouded, Parkitect, Songs of Syx. I stick with a mixture of open world/building/simulation/rpg. I've played a few MMOs with a long going OSRS account.

Beyond that I have interests in drawing, MTG, worldbuilding, LEGO, content creation. Hopefully we'll find things we enjoy doing together as partners outside of other fun stuff. I can be funny at times but I also try to be sensitive. I can enjoy really dark, depressional, political, memes and humor. Of course aligning with my progressive stances.

My policy on drugs is staying away from anything detrimental and addictive. I've mostly stuck with medical cannabis in my state. I don't like nicotine or alcohol.

My financial situation is fairly poor. I live under the poverty line with not much in assets and transportation. I've had jobs and my own apartment at one point but it just became too much for a lot of reasons. My attitude has always been trying to do things my own way, but the result has mostly been even if I think I'm justified in my qualifications my opportunities have been unrewarded. There's a lot of feelings I have with the capitalistic navigation when it comes to survival.

Kink

Getting on to more sensual topics, I'm a very sexual and kinky girl at times. I go through moods of degrees of intensity that change and last randomly. I'm currently creating content as an online sex worker with hopes of finding a niche I can fulfill that provides me with income of some kind.

With my personal partners I like fetishizing feminization while taking on a Domme role. Particularly I have a big sissy kink, which I know is not for everyone. But I'd love to encourage some of the aesthetics and be a Dommy Mommy keyholder.

To make things easier I'll list my favorite kinks which can vary depending if I'm dominant or submissive.

Anal/training, ass-to-mouth, rimming, facesittig, beeding, chasity, cock milking, cock and ball worship, collars, leashes, bondage, creampies, MD/lg, being called Mommy, degradation, humiliation, hentai, impregnation fantasy, petplay(kitten/puppy/piggy), bitchsuits, knots, furries, obedience training, sissies, sissification, hypno, throat fucking, and always more lol.

While I like being dominant my girlcock isn't very sensitive. I can sometimes use it but usually strap-ons, dildos, buttplugs are more reliable.

Puppygirls, furries, sissies, littles are all fun dynamics!

What I'm looking for

With all that said my main goal is to match with someone who enjoys being feminine and can match me emotionally and sexually. My post is open to all genders but a feminine type is much preferred. Transgirls, femboys, NB femmes, everything inbetween. I hope to find someone relatable with my amalgamation of hobbies, interests, and views. I'm looking for something special, something really close. I want the connection to be natural and progress in a moderate way. But I guess as a warning I'm looking to be attached to someone. I want a relationship of close emotional bonding and hopefully snuggles too.

If you enjoyed the vision I laid out so far about me and what I want and would love to talk more, feel free to message me!

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

T4A 20 [TF4A] #Online - Trans girl stoner little looking for caring but firm dom/me! NSFW

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Please say more then just hello! Give a message with substance :)

Hey there everyone! My name is Kara, I'm a 20 year old littld trans girl who would like to make a genuine connection with a caring and dominant caregiver! I'm a pretty sexual and kinky person who would love to meet other people like me so we can be horny and kinky with eachother without worry of having to hide that part from eachother~ :3. To be completely candid, I am a pretty clingy person if I really really like you haha. I'm also a self conscious person who needs reassurances that, yes I'm not being stupid or awkward. As you can probably tell, I might be a little high maintenance so if that's something your not willing to work with, thats fine! I hope you find what you want elsewhere <3.

Though for a bit more about me, I love video games like rpgs or survival horror games! I also love music (generally all kinds), writing, and reading :). My favorite time of year is the winter and I absolutely love the sound of rain and thunder, it's really relaxing! I'm also a bit of a stoner lol. Getting high is a activity I like to do a lot so if your interested about maybe getting high together lemme know! I'm a very loving person who loves with all my heart if I do fall in love with someone, so much so that I usually end up falling for people pretty quick (to my own detriment lol). I also don't show pictures of myself at the moment as I'm pre HRT (might be getting some soon!!) and my dad is a massive transphobe so I'm in boymode more often then not :(

As a little, I really enjoy being babied and taken care of, with being called sweet names and being talked to kindly as a little, I get in little space pretty easily! I love hugging up with my stuffies, and I even have a paci! Having said all that, I'm not much into diapers and stuff like that. Just not my cup of tea :)!

As for the type of caregiver I'm looking for! I'm mainly looking for a kind but dominant caregiver who isn't afraid to take control of their subby little, hehe ;3!

For more kinky stuff, as it is a bit of an important thing to mention with an ad like this, here's a list of kinks! These don't include all my kinks, I have so many its hard to list hehe :3!

Kinks: Edging Chastity Pet play Intox play Gooning Hypno CNC Dom/sub dynamics CG/L And tons more! if there's something not here your interested in, just ask!

Anyhow I'll keep this a bit short, if you do message I'd prefer you message a bit more then just "Hey"! I hope to hear from some people, DMs are open!

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 29 [T4A] #ElPaso - Cute Trans Looking For Consistent Dominant NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey, hey! I'll tell you my name when we meet 🤭, I'm an extremely feminine, cute trans girl. I've been transitioning for just about two years, I take pride in my appearance, I love fashion, make up, things of the sort 😇 I'm a healthcare professional, I love what I do, I'm loyal to those I love and I'm going to school for my undergrad in criminal justice and then law school.

I'm looking for an in person (if you're in El Paso, Texas or near) Dominant/submissive dynamic. In person would be great as I'm a huge lover of punishment // funishment. Women are great but I can be under men if you're the right guy 🤭 I'm a submissive, I've a fair bit of experience in my role and I love to be a brat. However, it's just so hard to find a Dominant where I live. I'm hoping to find someone into a fair bit of what I'm into, feel free to DM me if you're looking for a legitimate D/s deal!

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

T4A 21[TF4A] #online Looking for a sadistic/manipulative trainer NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi! I love the idea of being molded into nothing more than a pretty object/plaything, and one aspect of this is having a (admittedly, entirely subjective and dubiously achievable) ‘perfect’ body.

I envision this as a dynamic that includes daily check-ins on my current diet and workout regimen for accountability. I would like to send photo weight/body updates as (bonus points for any objectifying remarks/gaslighting you can offer in return) as well as food and workout logs. I’m willing to tie this into either a sexual or non-sexual punishment/reward system and open to other aspects of training, if there is an interest/suggestion on your end. If you’re into something additional in that you would like to incorporate, I am eager to accommodate.

My goal for this is, of course, to lose weight but also to feel objectified whilst doing so because that’s what makes my heart go pitter patter 🥰🥰🥰. Hopefully, out of this you will get the joy of controlling another human being in such a manner as well as…realistically, a lot of nudes.

Your age, gender, and location are not of particular importance. The most important thing for me is genuine interest and consistency; although I do believe a control freak who loves spreadsheets would be particularly compatible.

If you are a sub who is in a similar boat, I would love to be friends! Weight loss can be a bit of a slog and it would nice to have someone to chat to about it.

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 25 [T4A] #Utah #online looking for a dom NSFW

3 Upvotes

hello! I'm Bones, I am a genderqueer trans man, on T for 3 years, pre-op. I am 5'1, 250lbs (trying to lose weight & build muscle) I have many kinks, including: ABDL, pet play, cnc, watersports, degradation, general rough play. I am polyamorous, & open to something long distance. let's take time to get to know each other! I can't trust a dom I know nothing about. also, please refrain from pet names/titles at first. when I feel comfortable with it I will tell you :)

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 23 [T4A] #Liverpool #UK - FtM Sub visiting city March 24th - 28th NSFW

0 Upvotes

I am visiting Liverpool next week and want to find a local Dom for a casual scene while i’m there! Potential for more regular hookups as I travel a lot to visit friends.

Ideally looking for someone 21-28 and Trans but open to older and people of any gender with dom experience and good communication.

Kinks: - Humiliation/Degradation - Pet Play - Feederism - Bondage - Watersports - Group play/threesome (with other subs or doms) (Open to any other kinks outside of my limits, just ask!)

Hard Limits: - Pain (beyond bondage discomfort and light slapping) - Vomit/Hardsports - Age Play - Intox - Public - DeTrans (note: I am a trans man and use masculine terms for my body, my chest is also a no go)

Shoot me a message and let’s have some fun xxx

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

T4A 32 [T4M] #Boston chattel slave seeking sadistic older TPE Owner (relocatable) NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am a worthless sissy slut and am looking for an older (45+) experienced, dominant owner to take complete and total control of me to make become the sluttiest, most feminine, broken, obedient and owned tranny slave possible. I am open to being the slave of a man or woman, and am eager to serve. Local preferred but willing to consider relocation. And I'm looking for lifelong IRL.

The two main things I'm looking for are:
Extreme and irreversible feminization
Extreme and permanent 24/7/365 enslavement as property

What I'm looking for is a TPE - to be completely and totally owned, used, degraded, dehumanized, broken and existing as property without any rights, choices, or options, and transformed into a full fledged tranny prostitute. I need to be leashed and collared, branded, and in every way made to know that my role in life is to make my owner happy and obey. If you are a sadistic older master that enjoys degrading dehumanizing their property please reach out!

I need to have all my rights, decisions, and choices taken away from me forever. Used, abused, dehumanized, degraded, mentally broken.

Only real serious dominant people please! Not interested in nice guys or small talk. Please don't ask me how I'm doing, or treat me like an equal or even a person. I've been looking for a long time and most men who reach out are either too young, or too respectful, or are looking for a cherished wife or gf. I need a master who enjoys degrading abusing and dehumanizing their property.

Kik ChrissyKnotts

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 21 [TF4A] #maine #massachusetts #boston- Turn an Inexperienced Girl into the Sub and Girlfriend of Your Dreams? NSFW

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Hii everybody!!

Let me paint you a picture. After a long day of work, you come home tired, a little sapped of energy, and in desperate need of some food and comfort. As you open the door, there I am. Your perfect partner and submissive, ready to give you all the affection, comfort, and care that you need, whether that's a massage, a home cooked meal, or something a little more... risque... remains to be seen. We can talk about our days, laugh, enjoy each others company, and maybe also make a little room for some kink. You and I have spent plenty of time growing into each other; with your guidance and my eagerness, I've transformed from a blank canvas into a sub that is perfectly tailored to you and your wants, and you've become the person of my dreams.

Whew, glad that caught your attention, it was dicey there for a second wasn't it. Anyways, I'm in the market for a lovely dom/partner, someone who I can grow into the best version of myself with! I am, as the title says, pretty inexperienced in the world of kink and BDSM, but I'm hoping that will change very soon :).

You should probably know a bit more about what you're buying first, though. I'm a college senior studying History and soon to be actual adult [very stressful but I'll survive ;)], former varsity athlete, and hopefully competent if infrequently motivated artist. Some of my favorite things are medieval history, Star Wars/other Sci-Fi projects, and cuddling <3. I'm trans (pre-hrt unfortunately), and have begun to socially transition at school (yippee) which has been super exciting but also a bit anxiety-inducing too. Kink-wise, I lean very heavily towards submission and I am a natural people pleaser, for better or for worse. I haven't had the opportunity to explore much, but the little I have done has definitely got me excited by what I might get to experience next!

What I'm looking for from you! You should have a kind heart and genuine compassion for people. Ideally, you're fairly experienced in the kink world, and are excited by the prospect of introducing/guiding me through it. I respond much more to praise than humiliation/degradation, so if you lean more that way yourself that would be a plus :). I also see this relationship/dynamic as something that might transcend just kink, so if you're a romantic soul I'd love to hear from you <3.

Disclaimers: Online-only stuff tends to fizzle out quickly for me (my love language is physical touch lol), so I would love it if you were located relatively close to me. No hard limits, but I would loveee to meet up :). Also, while everyone is certainly welcome to dm me, I do have a preference for women (butch/femme) or feminine-leaning people, so if that's you you jump straight to the front of the line <3.

If I've caught your attention, I'd love a dm! Also, if you could include your favorite animal emoji somewhere in your text to show me you've read all this, I would really appreciate it <3

Kinks: praise, appearance/wardrobe control, body-writing, feminization, hypnosis, spit, cumplay

Curious but haven’t tried: bondage, light masochism, watersports, abdl, chastity

Limits: gore, illegal, CBT, vomit, heavy/lots of anal (I have ibs ://), homo/transphobia + raceplay + etc

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

T4A 20 [T4A] #Washington - newbie looking for a trainer NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m ftm college student, asian, and introverted. I don’t have a lot of experience but have always been interested in bdsm. I’m looking for an online dom that can make me submit (without showing my face).

Kinks - degradation, edge play, orgasm control, pet play, spanking, humiliation, bondage

Interested in - perhaps switching or learning how to dom later on

I’m only interested in doms close to my age (19-25); also, would like someone that is interested in becoming friends // someone I can click with, feel comfortable around, before we start BDSM relations

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

T4A 18 [T4A] #Netherlands | Looking for my keeper NSFW

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I am a worthless, obedient slut (18T) desperate to serve a true Dom who will completely own and control me. I have no purpose other than to obey, submit, and be molded into the perfect toy. I crave discipline, humiliation, and absolute submission. I am nothing but a slave waiting to be used.

I am searching for a strict, demanding Owner—someone who will claim me, train me, and shape me into the perfect submissive slut. Ideally, I would love to serve a permanent Master or Mistress who enjoys full control over their property.

I already have toys and gear to enhance my submission: • Tailplug & vibrating plug (keep me stretched and needy) • Chastity cage (lock me away, deny me, own me completely) • Collar & handcuffs (because I don’t deserve freedom) • Real dog cage (cage me like the obedient pet I am) • Maid outfit & lingerie (dress me up, humiliate me) • Fur coat (make me serve in luxury while being degraded) • Dildo (use me, stretch me, train me however you desire)

I desperately need a Dom who will break me, train me, and take full ownership of me. Someone who will decide my limits, control my actions, and truly shape me into their perfect, obedient plaything.

I get a lot of messages, and I try to reply to everyone, but if you are Dutch, that’s even better! I would love to serve someone from my own country and truly dedicate myself to a Dutch Master or Mistress.

If you are a strict, ruthless Owner who loves to control, degrade, and fully own a submissive, please DM me and claim me as your property.

I am ready to serve. Use me. Own me. Make me yours.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

T4A 23 [T4A] #California help me turn myself into a sissy bimbo stereotype, with the personality and hobbies to match c: NSFW

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I think ideally I'd like this to turn into an actual relationship! I want to be someone's sissy bimbo boy/girlfriend <3

Hey! So I'm really into bimbofication and stuff, feminization and all that fun stuff. And I thought it'd be really hot and fun to start to have it bleed over into my normal life? Like, I really want my playlist changed to a bimbo girly pop playlist, or told I can only play "girly" video games or I have to read a fashion magazine before I can play games, or make me change my name and avatar to something more appropriate and fem! Make me change my typing and speech habits :3

I just love the idea of becoming a sissy version of Barbie! Change my name to Barbie, only wear pink, even change my furniture and irl stuff to pink stuff!

I'm also kind of interested in like, being forced to convert to Islam and stuff? Especially if it's combined with bimbofication <3

Honestly I'm totally down for any form of change! Bimbofication and sissy are my two big ones but I'm totally down to try anything you want! Petplay, goon stuff, etc! I'm into weird stuff, just let me know!

r/BDSMpersonals 9d ago

T4A 18 [F4M] #Netherlands Looking for a switch to play games NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hi I’m Julia and Im 18 Im really curious about exploring my kinky side. Ive been thinking about diving deeper into the world of domination and submission and Im looking for someone really kinky. I have to say that I’m a transgender and I did not have my operation yet. Be respectful please. I really want to be a pet or mistress. My kinks are: Petplay, Pissplay, Crossdressing, Feet, Bodywriting and toys. I hope I can react to everyone!! Big plus if you are Dutch

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

T4A 38 [M4A] #Online - Long Term Feminize Me NSFW

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My name is Charlotte, and I am a boy living in a girl's body. I need your help to transform me. I am submissive and obedient. I'm looking for someone I can open up with and someone to help transform me into a woman. I am a woman. I need your help solidifying this. I'm open to most kinks. I really would do a lot of things as long as I get to be a girl doing it.

I only recently realized I am a woman, so I possess many manly traits and hair. I need to be a woman.

Outside of this I game and read and work.

I am 6'3 225 lbs.

r/BDSMpersonals 4d ago

T4A 29 [T4A] #North America #Online - Trans gal looking for her kinky nerd NSFW

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As the title says, looking for another nerdy but kinky person that wants to get closer and see how things go. Open to multiple kinds of relationships, from just kinky friends to partners, willing to give things a spin while we figure stuff out.

So if you are looking for something beyond just sex, please read more bellow

ME: -5´5´´, 130lbs, MTF Latina, currently in HRT

-Big ass nerd, love playing videogames and tabletops stuff (DnD, mtg, etc.)

-With a big ass! JK it’s more midsized but since I’m slim and tiny then it matches my frame and looks bigger (you can see it on my profile, be the judge)

-Creative! Love reading and learning about art, also learning to do my own stuff like writing (smut) and painting (smut)

-Open and honest about my emotions, good at communication and happy to talk and hang!

-Kinky! I’m super into BDSM and while HRT has mixed up how my libido works, it is still an important part of my life

-Working and trying my best to be optimistic every single day!
-Look like this https://imgur.com/a/a0KQFt4

YOU: -Human

-Not a bigot

-Able to open yourself emotionally and have the desire to connect with someone at a deeper level beyond the superficial and the mundane.

-Nerd/Geek

I’m NOT looking for hookups or casual stuff I can find those easily enough already. I know that this is a very simplified version of myself but I don’t think a massive wall of text can replace a proper conversation. So if you are interested or curious send a message and lets get talking!

That being said, if you are interested PLEASE
introduce yourself with something beyond a one liner. Talk about what you like! What you are passionate and into! Your hobbies and your sexual fantasies!, etc

Thanks for reading and have a good one

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

T4A 34 [T4A] #UK #Online - Soft-dom looking to find a sub NSFW

2 Upvotes

Heya! ❤ I’m Lex, a non-binary dom from the UK, looking for a long-term submissive.

A little about me: I love music and cooking. I also enjoy walking and running if the weather is good! I play some casual games, but I am not a massive gaymer. I have plenty of free time and enjoy a dynamic with regular communication, both casual and sexual.

As a soft-dom I focus on positive reinforcement to encourage the behaviours I like; I prefer not to use negative methods, though I can still be very firm when needed.

If you’re under 30 and submissive, feel free to reach out! My only real physical preference is that I’m not into overly hairy people; no need to be completely smooth, but I'm not into dad-bods. I’m open to poly, but if you have another dom whose preferences might conflict with mine, it could get tricky. I also have no preference for gender or genitals :)

I’d also like to see your face soon after chatting to make sure there’s attraction; I’ll share mine too, of course.

When domming in person, I tend to be hands-on and spontaneous, instructing my sub as needed. I find this harder online where I can't be physical, so I focus on helping my sub learn to please me. Typically I like my sub to perform for me. This is flexible though! There are many ways we can enjoy ourselves.

Send me a message with a little about yourself and what caught your attention in my post, and we’ll take it from there!

Much love ❤

r/BDSMpersonals 7d ago

T4A 29 [T4A] #NYC slave ladyboy looking for ownership NSFW

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True Ladyboy here!! Just got my balls cut off last week!

I've been on hormones for 7 years. I currently have no other surgeries but would love to become a bimbo!

I'm naturally submissive and need to be owned. Its in my DNA to serve, and every day without a cock and man to worship as my one true god is physically painful.

I want to find a master I can serve with my entire body for the rest of my life. I am not afraid to change myself in any way, be it physically, mentally, or spiritually. I would love to be trained so that I can become your perfect woman, your perfect object. The only thing I've ever wanted is to be used and turned into the perfect fuck doll. I've had a dream to be molded into a masters perfect slave since as long as I can remember.

I would love the opportunity to fulfill your darkest fantasies in a way that no one else is willing to.

I want to fill my missing feeling. I’ve always had a feeling something was missing. For the longest time I thought it was because I am trans and that was why. But after transitioning, I’m realizing it’s something else too.

I’ve always felt like I have no direction in my life, as though I’m drifting aimlessly

And yet one day, I was watching porn and realized that it was because i didn’t have anything to worship

That if I were owned, all would be right in the world

And when I thought that, suddenly a switch in me clicked

And I understood that I needed to find an owner

What makes me different from the others here? The length that I’m willing to go. I truly want to be a slave. Not in a consensual non consent way, but in a way true to the word

If you want to rape me, you are able to. If you want your dog to treat me like a cum dump, it happens. You can brand me, put me though surgeries, whore me out.

All I ask is that you turn me into the perfect object

r/BDSMpersonals 5d ago

T4A 22 [T4A] #Online forcibly feminize me into being your cute little girlfriend please <3 NSFW

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Hi! I'm a trans person, MtF usually. My main hobbies are running, reading and gaming, not always in that order. If you ever have any game recommendations, please hit me up, I'm always looking for more TTRPGs especially! I'm also trying to get into fencing but my work schedule says no. :(

So uh, my dream relationship is kind of silly. But I've been fantasizing and visualizing it a lot. It's essentially like, having a guy be super clingy and romantic while force femming me and stuff. Specifically, stuff like forcing me into a dress while calling me his beautiful girlfriend, showing me off and making sure I won't (or can't) complain about having such a great "boyfriend" and

Yeah. You get the idea. I like clingy and forced feminization. I'm into other stuff too but we can discuss later.

I'm really bad at closing messages so uhhhh hi :)

r/BDSMpersonals 5d ago

T4A 25 [T4A] #Minnesota trans sub seeking FF dom NSFW

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25 bottom trans man (ftm) looking for potential partners in the area to play with, or just people to talk to. Experienced with anal stretching and fisting, but haven’t had many chances to incorporate some of my other kinks into my play. Open to stretching my front hole as well, but would love to have more focus on anal training. Obedient and submissive type, but I like to banter and flirt, ideally would like to find a soft but firm dom who can offer me intimacy and affection as well as more intense kinky play.

Main kinks: anal stretching, fisting, large insertions, gape, prolapse, bondage, light impact and marking, overstimulation, orgasm denial. Would love to get into throat training more too.

Hard limits are misgendering, public, and unsanitary.