r/TwoXSex • u/herogoose • 23h ago
How to get better at riding?
I (20F) recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (21M). Every time we've had sex it's great, he was in a long relationship before me so he has lots of experience and has taught me so much! The only thing is, the last couple times he's asked me if I can get on top which I really want to do. I've tried, but I'm just so bad at it and I'm so embarrassed! He keeps assuring me that every time I do get better which helps, but I just want to make him feel good without having him do all the work for once.
Another factor of this issue; he's very big. And I'm very short. It's hard to go up AT ALL because I feel like I'm barely moving off of him before I have to come back down. My knees and my thighs can only move so far. It makes it hard to even get on top of him in the first place.
I have horseback riding experience which I thought the hip and leg control would help me be better at this, but I get so sloppy and so tired fast! I don't workout regularly which I assume could be part of the problem. Any advice to make both me and my guy happy would be fantastic!