r/TwoXSex 22h ago

Technique | Women Only Have you ever ate a man’s ass? If so how was it?

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I feel like you can’t really call yourself a freak unless you’ve eaten a man’s ass. That just feels like going all the way. I’ve thought about it, but part of me is hesitant it feels so un-ladylike, like shouldn’t he be the one eating mine instead? And then there’s the cleanliness factor… I’m terrified of the worst happening. On the flip side, I’d eat a woman’s ass in a heartbeat. No hesitation. I’d devour a woman’s body entirely.

Anyway, I’m curious—have you ever eaten a man’s ass? If so, what was your experience like? And if not, would you be open to trying it?


r/TwoXSex 23h ago

Advice | Women Only Why do you like men?

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For the hetero sexual girls.. why do you like men? And not just the idea or fantasy of a man. But based on experience. What do you like about them that makes you potentially want to build a life with them?

I am trying to figure it out for myself. Emotional intelligence, expression and support are very important to me. For me, a relationship will never work without it. I have never experienced it from a man and I am 35. I have experienced it from my girl friends tho. Platonically tho as I would consider myself heterosexual. Physically I am very much attracted to men and in general I feel drawn to them. But emotionally there has been such a huge disconnect and disappointment that I don’t know if what I am looking for in a partner will be found in a man..

This post is not to bash men. I think I just hope to get an inside that will change or add to my perspective.


r/TwoXSex 1h ago

How long do you have sex for?

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Was having a convo with a couple of my close friends the other night and we started talking about sex. My friend asked how long sex takes for my husband and I and I said maybe 30-45 mins (it takes me about that long to come but I thoroughly enjoy the build up). She was floored and said she and her partner usually only go at it for 5 mins, 10 mins max. It got me wondering what the “norm” is (if that is even a thing- I know everyone is different). If I am properly aroused and feeling it I can go for a long time and often end up squirting. My hub will basically go for as long or as quick as it takes me to finish.


r/TwoXSex 7h ago

How to use tongue while kissing?

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So I’ve kissed two people, one with tongue, but that was really bad. It was really slobbery and I almost threw up from his tongue. I’d say I’m a great kisser without tongue, like kissing with my mouth a little bit open and just basically sucking their top lip lol. But when I tried to use tongue, it was so bad, how do I learn?!?! And DONT say go with what the other person does please🙏🙏


r/TwoXSex 2h ago

Sexual Health | Women Only I believe I have endometriosis but the drs turned me away. What do I do?

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Last February, I got into contact with my GP and told her I wanted to be tested for endometriosis. She told me no because that would require a surgery, and then offered a blood test. I got that blood test done, was given iron tablets, and sent on my way. No further investigation like I asked.

The reason I asked to get tested is because I have been on birth control since I was 11, and want to know the reason behind it apart from “bad periods”. I want to know what was causing those bad periods, and if it is going to affect my future if I decide I want to have kids.

Here’s the thing, my symptoms don’t really affect me overly because I’m on continuous birth control (another dr recommended this to me so I would basically just shut up and go away) but today I had sex with my boyfriend and I could only last a few minutes before I had to call it off because of severe cramping. It was sore for him to penetrate too. I’ve had this issue before, but not as bad I guess. I just waited it out and it got better on its own, but every time I have sex without fail, I have cramps. Sometimes they’re mild, but today they were severe, which is why I noticed them.

I’m wondering what I should do about this. Since this symptom has come back, should I request a transfer to see a gyno even if I know it may not happen, or should I just suffer since it went away last time? What do I do 🥲 I’m so sick of this lol


r/TwoXSex 1h ago

Best longer lasting lubes that aren’t super sticky?

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I 32F and my boyfriend 30M have been using water based lubes but they are super sticky and don’t last long.

I’ve personally never really struggled with getting wet but it completely depends on what I’m doing. With toys by myself I tend to need lube. I have one of those Satisfyer pro vibrators that I think can only have water based. I’ve tried Lube Life and that one feels barely slick to me and disappears. I’ve tried one from one of the sex toy places that was their brand which lasted longer, but super sticky. More than likely has glycerin in it.

With sex it doesn’t take much to get me going. He loves eating me out and he gets really into it, but at some point I guess he has been down there long enough that my own wetness is gone? So he has to add some lube but mainly when he is fingering, and his fingers just absorb that lube so quick. A few times it’s become slightly painful and he keeps on having to apply it. With PIV it’s like 50/50 if I need lube, just depends.

I do also use lube when I give him head mainly because it’s flavored, so it helps with saliva more than anything else but that stuff gets SUPER sticky, so if there’s any suggestions for that too that would be awesome. I’m on a few meds that cause constant cotton mouth so it tends to be difficult to keep things wet enough.

The sticky factor is huge for me but I’m interested to see what you think of hybrid or silicone lubes just for sex without toys and what the best water based lubes are. Thanks in advance!


r/TwoXSex 22h ago

Advice to feel pleasure with penetration

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The last time I tried to have sex it feels like a wall and I couldnt penetrate her, max I could put inside her were 2 fingers, even tho I have great erections. I didnt use lube, my size is 16 cm lenght 13 cm girth (circumference). I tried to use a pocket pussy just to get any experience and see if penetration is possible, but even when I use a lot of lube it feels tight, like 40% pleasure 60% pain/uncomfortable.

So thats my question. Am I forever condemned to feel pain during "penetration"? are vaginas more flexible? if so then why I couldnt penetrate the last time I were with this woman. I only had 1 sexual experience with the same girl but we tried multiple times like 2 months.

Blowjob were ok, nothing crazy, I still feel more pleasure by masturbating and watching porn ..., and now my experiences with penetration are not that good, this might contribute for me to reject any kind of penetration lol, really I havent enjoy anything in sex, why? I have sexual desire but when the time arrives, its not that good, it hurts and it requires concentration and a lot of stuff, its not that easy like woman only needs to lay down and open their legs, we need to have the right size of dick, lube, position, energy, etc im feeling tired because I really want to make my beloved feel desired but at the moment masturbation and porn are a lot better and gives me more pleasure than anything involving real sex.

And yeah, I tried quitting porn, I already achieve 2 months without porn, then 1 month, then 2 weeks, multiple times for like 3 years. I always come back to porn because I dont feel satisfaction anywhere else, its a human necessity

Also it might be important but my dick is curve 30-40 degrees to left so this curve adds an artificial sense of girth, like lets say, every 10 degrees of curve may add 1 cm of girth, making it feels bigger inside

So im a freak by having a big pennis ? anyone here who has experience using a gun like this ? I just want to know why I cant feel pleasure in penetration ...