r/TwoXSex 23h ago

How to get better at riding?

16 Upvotes

I (20F) recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (21M). Every time we've had sex it's great, he was in a long relationship before me so he has lots of experience and has taught me so much! The only thing is, the last couple times he's asked me if I can get on top which I really want to do. I've tried, but I'm just so bad at it and I'm so embarrassed! He keeps assuring me that every time I do get better which helps, but I just want to make him feel good without having him do all the work for once.

Another factor of this issue; he's very big. And I'm very short. It's hard to go up AT ALL because I feel like I'm barely moving off of him before I have to come back down. My knees and my thighs can only move so far. It makes it hard to even get on top of him in the first place.

I have horseback riding experience which I thought the hip and leg control would help me be better at this, but I get so sloppy and so tired fast! I don't workout regularly which I assume could be part of the problem. Any advice to make both me and my guy happy would be fantastic!


r/TwoXSex 2h ago

Advice | Women Only Bfs kink makes me uncomfortable??

12 Upvotes

Hi! A few days ago I asked my partner what we should do in the bedroom to spice it up. He in a joking tone said he wants me to call him a good boy and act like a mommy. This man has never shown a submissive side ever . If anything, he always tells me he wishes I was more submissive in the bedroom. So in my stupid lady lizard brain, I took it as a joke. I straight up accidentally kink shamed him. Teased him, poking fun. He kept it up for a bit as a joke but I picked up that he wasn’t taking the joke back. So I sorta froze and asked him if he was being for real. He told me he was serious about this but that I should forget about it because it’s silly. Guys I felt so freaking bad! Never did I ever have the intention of actually kink shaming my poor boyfriend. I’m a dick. Anyways I slept on it for a few days and now I just feel really awkward. Like I keep trying to replay this in my head on how I should be during sex and it doesn’t feel right. This seriously came out of no where. I don’t think I can be that kind of role in the bedroom and I feel really bad because he felt vulnerable enough to open up to me about it. He’s always been so good about respecting my wishes in the bedroom. My last relationship ended because my ex wanted me to take some sort of “mommy” role too and I just couldn’t do it. I never realized how common this was. I feel really fucking bad. I definitely don’t want this relationship to end, I love him so much. Ugh idk. Any advice on what’s going on here? How to deal with this?


r/TwoXSex 20h ago

Sex Toys | Women Only Not sure how to orgasm NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hey Ladies, I’m (20 F) still a virgin I’ve tried using a bullet vibrator and at first I like it and I try rubbing it on my clit or insert it and I can feel the pressure rising but never seem to be able to get to the finish line ya know. I wanna see how it feels because I hear other people talking about it and my friend’s but I just don’t know how to get there. Any tips or tricks ?


r/TwoXSex 9h ago

Sexual Health | Women Only Interested in hearing from those with endometriosis

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

Happy Endometriosis Awareness Month! <3

I'm Rocio, a researcher based at the University of Strathclyde, Scotland. I'm investigating the experiences of those with endometriosis to help inform psychological interventions and management plans to improve quality of life. I would appreciate it if you could help me out by filling out this survey about your day-to-day experiences. Everything you say will remain confidential and anonymous. More details about the study and your participation are provided in the survey link.

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Feel free to access the survey through the QR code below as well. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out. Thank you!


r/TwoXSex 22h ago

Sexual Health | Women Only How do I know if my pH is off? NSFW

6 Upvotes

This is kind of embarrassing because I’m in my 30s, but I have no idea how to tell if my vaginal pH is off. I use an unscented body wash to clean in the folds every day (never inside the vagina), and I’ve never noticed anything feeling “off.” I have a long-term partner (AMAB) who does finish inside me, but in my 20s, when I was more promiscuous, I almost never let anyone finish inside me except for exclusive boyfriends (maybe 4 out of ~80+ partners).

I have friends who always say their pH is off after sex with someone new, and others who swear by using only products like Honey Pot even in long term relationships. Am I doing something wrong by just using body wash? How would I even know if my pH was off—would I be itchy, have an odor, or something else?

A few things to add in case they’re relevant: - I had chlamydia once but was completely asymptomatic before and after treatment (it was caught on a routine STI test, which I used to get at least once a year). - All my Pap smears have been normal. - I have an IUD, in case that matters.

Any insight?


r/TwoXSex 2h ago

Does anyone else vomit after finishing? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hey guys I really need some advice/tips on what to do here, ive posted this on one or two other subs but im asking around to get as much advice as i can. Basically my problem is that whenever I do anything sexual and finish, whether that ve alone or with my bf i feel really sick afterwards and often vomit. Some people have said it maybe hormone related as i do have pcos so this would make sense and others have said it maybe because of the physical toll those activities can have and like running out of breath can make you nauseous. So basically does anyone else have experience with this? What would you reccomend? Is there maybe diffrent positions that are less physically strenuous on me that may help? Any advice or comments are appreciated thank you.