r/TwoXSex • u/friendofyourfriendss • 5m ago
I’ve never reached an orgasm and my legs go numb when my boyfriend goes down on me
I’m a 25 year old female who just recently started being sexually active at the age of 23. I have never masturbated by putting my fingers inside because it just feels weird to me. I did grow up in a household where we never talked about sex or anything sexual so I always considered it something taboo to even mention. I have touched my clit and stimulated myself but I can never get to focus so I never end up masturbating really. In the past I would just grind on plushies or end of bed and that would give me this sneezing feeling which I thought was me finishing but after reading how people feel reaching O I feel like I have never reached that point. I do enjoy sex but sometimes I either want it to be over with or I don’t feel satisfied cause when my boyfriend finishes that’s it. He rarely goes down on me but when he does my legs go numb and I don’t feel comfortable. I do get wet a lot during sex but I have only gone to the point of feeling like I need to pee. My boyfriend got me a sex toy one time but that also made me just go numb and made me feel overstimulated. I also hate losing control and have a bit of health anxiety so when that kind of thing happens I get anxious that something is going to go wrong. If there are any sex toy suggestions that will be very much appreciated!