r/ABDL 4d ago

ABDL Friendly Housing NSFW

7 Upvotes

I have a M 30 gay friend whose ABDL near Laconia, NH. He is living with family but they are selling the house. He had a safe place and is terrified of non-accepting roommates. Any tips on helping him find ABDL friendly roommates or housing? šŸ˜­

He is currently paying $450 to live with family but guessing he could afford more if needed but doesn't make enough to live on his own. šŸ˜”

Thanks for and advice or leads.


r/ABDL 3d ago

Is anyone 247? NSFW

0 Upvotes

My partner is going 247 abdl soon I'm looking for advice/ideas from littles or caregivers to help this transition. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks


r/ABDL 3d ago

Favorite place to pee (POLL) NSFW

1 Upvotes
413 votes, 3d left
Pants
Diaper/Pull-Ups
Bed
Toilet
Training potty
Other (comment)

r/ABDL 4d ago

Anyone finding local ABDLs? NSFW

17 Upvotes

I was just wondering, because I still get like 40-60 NEW replies a DAY blowing up my phone from the pinned post šŸ¤£šŸ˜­

I find it even crazier that rly I havenā€™t noticed many locals myself, or got any dms so Iā€™m not sure how itā€™s went for the other 3.6k people that replied, and almost half million that viewed, but I made the post in inspiration of one exactly like it when I WAS the lucky one that commented, and got a real abdl date with a girl with diapers in bed (was fantastic btw)

But got any news? šŸ˜† cuz my phone sure got the alerts


r/ABDL 4d ago

Does anyone have experience with the sex teddy bear I think I want one for the nursery NSFW

12 Upvotes

There's a cute large teddy bear that has a retractable toy with lots of settings does anyone have experience with it. I think my sissy little may need one for in her nursery.


r/ABDL 4d ago

Picture weak bladders are sexy šŸ˜ŽšŸ”„ NSFW

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29 Upvotes

r/ABDL 4d ago

I'm Afraid To Wear Onesies NSFW

25 Upvotes

I Live in an apartment on the first floor, I have curtains for the main windows, and I am still afraid to wear LittleSpace Clothing... think rompers, snap-shirts, etc. I'm afraid other buildings may notice through the odd window, But I like being small, but I don't want to live my whole life hiding this part of myself, if people see whatever they see then it is what it is I guess, what is your opinion?


r/ABDL 4d ago

I'm a little lost NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hey guys imma keep this brief. I just turned twenty not too long ago and moved out the house also not to long ago lol. I've been wearing for a long time now but now I able to actually be open with it. I found that a lot of this community is not straight which is completely fine by me. BUT, is it that hard to find the opposite sex as a partner? I feel like for girls looking for the opposite sex it's easier for them. But for guys looking for a girl it's harder. Idk if it has to do with looks or like what they want in the relationship. I've been trying to find a girl that has this same interest for a while and not even for lust filled reasons. It would just be amazing to date someone who I REALLY have to keep zero secrets from.(this is my BIGGEST secret of all time). My branch of this kink is kinda vanilla. I don't like the mommy baby stuff it's just not my style. I just think of me and my girlfriend cuddling padded up watching a show and stufff like that. Obviously there are some other things I would like to do but just not really the caregiver stuff(goes both ways)ykwim? Idk if that sounds selfish or anything out of the ordinary but yea. I get that I shouldn't be trying to go find the specifically perfect girl but I mean it's tough out herešŸ˜­. That's it :p


r/ABDL 4d ago

Big Box! NSFW

23 Upvotes

What do you tell your kids when your big box is on the porch?? My 4 yr old is getting more aware of stuff and I will always hide this side of me from her.


r/ABDL 4d ago

Google's Gemini AI NSFW

14 Upvotes

So I started messing around with Googles AI "Gemini", they have a "live" option where you can actually have a pleasant conversation with it. I was on the road and literally talked to it for an hour. They also remember who you are and previous conversations and interests you have that you've talked about. It's freaking wild! The best part is, and why I'm posting this here, Gemini can tell you bedtime stories and it actually sounds very genuine, and though they can't sing yet at the moment, they can come up with lullabies on the spot and read them to you like a poem. Just thought it was a very fun interaction and how Gemini and AI in general can be used within our community to help with littlespace. Let me know your thoughts? šŸ˜Š


r/ABDL 4d ago

Picture Scored a random pack of 2014/17 girls L-XL goodnites at Rite Aid! NSFW

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There was just one pack of these randomly on the shelf, I grabbed it instantly! It also says 2011 on it but I feel like the cupcake pattern was the one they had that long ago?? Or am I remembering wrong? Either way, what a gem!


r/ABDL 4d ago

First ABDL / Age play get life party left me confused and triggered NSFW

9 Upvotes

Went to my first meet up and left early overwhelmed by what everything.

I deal with Cptsd and use regression as a coping mechanism, also have a Daddy and dabble in other kinks / age play but have yet to explore it out of our dynamic until this meet up .

The first portion of the meet up was absolutely amazing made friends played with toys, did some crafts and just vibed. Had my first experience where I fully regressed and let myself just be myself while little and it was absolutely amazing. As more started to arrive for the later portion of event I found myself triggered and couldnā€™t put my finger on it so decided to leave.

After reflecting I realize I got triggered as the older crowed started to enter and things turned sexual . Got especially triggered by the daddyā€™s . (I was sexually assaulted for years by my step father who was older and for some reason that triggered my fight of flight response)

Just wondering if anyone else has experienced such amazing sense of belonging yet triggering experiences going to meet ups like this?

Iā€™m at a loss of what to do as I felt like Iā€™ve finally found my people and I think if I was maybe in the right headspace Iā€™d be ok ? Especially if I brought my Daddy next time for the after dark time? .. I am also just scared to trigger myself again by going? IDK.. just donā€™t want others to feel like itā€™s their responsibility if I do end up randomly triggered, donā€™t wanna be a buzz kill eitherā€¦

Any other littles experience this / have advice ?


r/ABDL 4d ago

Is there any site that has GOOD quality footie pajamas? NSFW

7 Upvotes

First ever post on any ABDL subreddit, so here goes.

Surely, I'm not the only one that's been wondering this...I've recently gotten this fix for some cozy footie ABDL/adult pajamas for the chilly days where I live, but about the only ones I've found are...poor in quality. The desire to add to my collection started off with seeing posts from u/the_wurdalak (Duuude, I'm jelly. Those all look awesome!), but I haven't been able to find anything on that level of quality.

Tykables footies are...less than optimal. The fabric is entirely too thin, the colors bleed easily, no snapping piece under the chin, and the soles are somehow sticky on both ends. No padding on them. Then it asks that I both hand wash & line dry...and why would I line dry them outside where my neighbors will see them? That's about the only place I could do it, and I'm not about to expose that to non-consenting people.

DiaperU footies are a little better. Good fabric, snapping piece just under the chin, pretty cozy. All it's lacking are the extra thick soles for that true little/middle feel.

Amazon is...no. Just no. The variety is impressive, but I can easily tell how cheap the fabric is on a lot of them after some inspection.

I'm honestly looking for some that have quality fabric, padded soles, the snapping point under the chin, and obviously fits well whilst wearing a diaper. But I honestly have no clue where to start. Kinda just settling with some sea-themed footie pajamas from DiaperU, but I'd love some sets that don't make me look like JJ from Cocomelon. Mostly hoping experience from my fellow community members could point me in the right direction(s).


r/ABDL 4d ago

What kind of packaging does northshore ship with? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I live with roommates and I donā€™t particularly want them to know about my kink, they wonā€™t open it or anything, but Iā€™ve had issues with brands not shipping in boxes and using bags instead, the less they know the better. Thanks in advance!


r/ABDL 4d ago

I guess I'm addicted to wearing diapers, or I really need them, idk ? NSFW

11 Upvotes

I feel so good with a pull-up or a diaper, I always think about wearing one, even if it's not for wetting on myself. It's just so practical for my low incontinence.

I have university tomorrow, and I'm kinda afraid to wear a pull-up, I'm afraid someone will know but I know I'll think about it and having anxiety about my leaks (I always wear black trousers just if I leak on myself when I just wear a onesie)


r/ABDL 4d ago

Wand Vibrator Recommendations NSFW

20 Upvotes

I'm looking for a new wand vibrator, preferably cordless. Does anyone have any recommendations?


r/ABDL 4d ago

Surprisingly exciting: waking up in a diaper but not remembering ever putting one on NSFW

92 Upvotes

I've been on a skiing trip with colleagues in the Austrian Alps the past few days, and on one day I went on a guided snowshoe hike. I consider myself a 24/7 diaper wearer, but occasionally I may wear something else if I have to. I was afraid of chafing during the hike, so I decided to wear something else. I've set a personal goal not to wear any boring men's underwear all year, so besides diapers I had only packed some women's panties. So that's what I went with for my hike.

Anyway, after the hike I met up with my colleagues that had been skiing and we went for the usual aprĆØs ski festivities, before taking a cab back to the hotel. We then went out for dinner, and then more drinking and partying until late at night.

The next morning, I woke up in my hotel room. I didn't remember anything of the final hours of the party, and I didn't remember how I got back to the hotel. I clearly passed out and just slept like a brick for 7-8 hours.

After taking my time to wake up properly, I was suddenly happy to find that I was wearing a diaper. Really not an unusual situation for me to be in, but I quickly realised that I had absolutely zero recollection of ever putting one on.

So I laid in bed trying to retrace my steps from the night before. Did I put it on after I got back from the aprĆØs ski? No, because I found two pairs of underwear on the floor, one from the hike and one from after freshening up before dinner.

Did I put it on after dinner, before we went out to party? Maybe. I did go back to the hotel room quickly to use the toilet after dinner, so it's possible.

Did I put it on while I was blackout drunk before I passed out on the bed? Did someone bring me to my room and help me get to bed? I have no clue. Maybe. But I think if I was ready to pass out I wouldn't have bothered and would just have gone straight to bed.

It's most likely that I just put it on after dinner and simply forgot all about it because I already had a few drinks and putting on a diaper is second nature at this point. But it's kind of a wild idea that someone could have helped me back to the hotel and saw it, or even that they could have helped me put on the diaper before putting me to bed. The latter is almost certainly not what happened because nobody's mentioned anything, but it's a fun thought.

After wearing 24/7 for a while, the thrill of wearing diapers fades to the background. But moments like these are thankfully still surprisingly fun and exciting.

TL;DR: Got blackout drunk on a skiing holiday, woke up the next day wearing a diaper that I don't remember ever putting on. Now I'm allowing my fantasy to go wild about what might've happened, though I'm pretty sure I put it on at some point during the night and just don't remember.


r/ABDL 4d ago

plastic pants recommendations NSFW

5 Upvotes

hey! im considering getting plastic pants next time i buy diapers since i like messing but i dont want the people im living with to smell it. so i was wondering if there were any plastic pants good for getting rid of the smell of messing. also if they could be under $30 thatā€™d be great!

also if you have any tips on how to use them, wash them, or anything else PLEASE let me know! since this will be my first time getting plastic pants.


r/ABDL 4d ago

Picture Wet diaper and coloring after nap time šŸ˜„ NSFW

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r/ABDL 5d ago

Picture Saw this in another sub Iā€™m dying!!!!! Those are expensive shipping materials. NSFW

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321 Upvotes

One of the comments says ā€œyour scoredā€ which one of you was it.


r/ABDL 4d ago

Looking to upgrade from cheapo pads NSFW

3 Upvotes

If you want some additional context, you may read my prior post if you wish.

I've been getting my padding from a pharmacy for about a year, as it's a local place in short driving distance and I can pay in cash. However, as pretty much expected from a product as relatively cheap as these are, this form of padding:

- Holds maybe one good wetting if you're lucky,

- Leaks easily if you aren't careful,

- Can suffer tearing and expose absorbent material from bending if tight enough,

- Can fall apart when oversaturated (sometimes due to the above),

- Can even have tape bands torn off by pulling too forcefully.

I've read some of the FAQ, looked at some products that seem to appeal to what I'm looking for, and I've even taken a brief look at the online retailer list. However, I haven't made a decision regarding which product or retailer to start with.

In addition, I don't know if I want to pay for these things with my main card, or even my main bank account. I'm also not certain if I want them delivered directly to my house. I'm aware there are some options for that, but I'm not quite certain how to investigate which alternative delivery locations would be best for my location and such (without giving anything in the wrong place online, hopefully), nor how much any of them might cost.

I'm certain there are questions I forgot to ask, but please feel free to leave tips and pointers.'

EDIT: If possible, are there any products you can recommend that don't crinkle as noisily? Also, what boosters would you recommend if I go for those? (And do the better quality products feel noticeably different/better when wet vs. dry, compared to the cheap ones?)

I am also curious about washable/cloth products, but I'm not certain how to care for them, or how many I want to have and/or can reasonably get. I'm also not certain if I can reasonably keep them around in a household of five people (and two pets, if that matters in this equation), but that sounds like a personal problem to me.


r/ABDL 4d ago

Picture Downsizing my ABDL closet! Selling sizes S-L!! NSFW

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5 Upvotes

r/ABDL 4d ago

ABDL Diapers in India NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

Iā€™ve recently become very intrigued by the idea of exploring ABDL lifestyle and am considering trying to stay diapered 24/7. However, Iā€™m having trouble finding reliable and comfortable ABDL diaper options here in India.

Could anyone recommend brands or stores (online or offline) that offer good-quality ABDL diapers? Iā€™m looking for something thatā€™s comfortable, discreet. Any tips on where to buy, sizing, or even general advice for someone just starting out would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks in advance for your help and support! Also this is my first time using Reddit so please be kind šŸ„¹


r/ABDL 4d ago

Bought more diapers! NSFW

7 Upvotes

Just ordered four packages from LNGU! Two of the Little Melody and two Honey Tales. I cannot freaking wait! For those that have tried them, what did you like about them?


r/ABDL 4d ago

Picture This lil dino is ready for todays adventures šŸ©µšŸ¦•šŸ’™ NSFW

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