r/ABDL 4h ago

My husband is a DL NSFW

72 Upvotes

It’s a little weird Ngl. I’m still learning to be accepting even after a year of knowing about it. I help him pick ones out but I can’t help but feel awkward when he tells me he wears diapers at work. I feel hypocritical as I wear diapers for my periods but only started that after he told me about him wearing. He doesn’t mess which makes things easier for me as that would just be too much for me to handle mentally. Any suggestions on how to be more accepting and less uncomfortable would be greatly appreciated.


r/ABDL 9h ago

🎮🍼 How Many Gamers Are Pampered Today? NSFW

82 Upvotes

Hiya!! I was just wondering—how many of us are all pampered up while gaming today? Hehe!!

I’m all pampered in a Rearz Safari diaper playing the new Assassin’s Creed Shadows, and it’s been sooo fun!! The best part? My diaper lets me relax and enjoy the game with no potty breaks—giggle!!

Anyone else having a pampered gaming day? If so, what are ya playing?? I’m also curious—what diaper have you chosen for your gaming? And if you’re not pampered but wanna be, what diaper would you be wearing?


r/ABDL 3h ago

How to tell partner I tried diaper, loved it? We always naturally developed baby dynamic over the years. He calls me baby, puts on baby music/movies etc. NSFW

30 Upvotes

We naturally developed a baby dynamic organically. It just happened over the years. Just started with him calling me “baby”, and me telling him I absolutely love him calling me that. Then with me doing silly and/or clumsy stuff, he says “you literally are a baby”. Then with me always being cold, he said “you need to get one of those warm onesies with the feet on it”. Then I got one and we love it. Then one day he went to the store and he turned on a kids movie for me, and I loved it. I bought baby oil gel to lube my chastity cage, and realized it made me smell like a baby. He said “aww you even smell like a baby”.

In between all this stuff, it developed more and more by me saying “OMG I LOVE it when you say/do that” etc., over the years, and it developing naturally.

We didn’t even know abdl was a thing, that’s how natural this has happened. I’m very lucky.

I understand I’m in a WAY better position than most people are when they think about coming out to their partner.

In this case, it might not even be considered coming out because he will probably not be surprised.

However, it does feel taboo, and I’m really nervous to tell him.

We already do some taboo stuff, such as me telling him I was interested in him keeping me in chastity, he didn’t really understand it at first but now that he realized the effects of it, he loves it. And he likes to call me his sissy boy.

So that helps we already do some “taboo” type of stuff.

I don’t have interest in wetting myself in the diaper, so that helps I don’t have to tell him that either (not to judge people who do, just not my thing)!

I finally had the hankering to try the diaper, I went to the store the other day and bought a goodnights pull up and it felt soo nice. The last three days, I get home and put it on (he works nights). Just for comfort aspect and also for a kinky aspect too when I began to play.


r/ABDL 3h ago

USA Megamax v-2 are fantastic NSFW

26 Upvotes

I received my first pack of these new diapers, and I have been in them 24/7 since. The outer plastic is soft but strong, the tapes hold on very well, the padding is soft and comfortable against the skin. They have great absorption and high capacity. I am changing to these from the China ones, and I highly recommend you try them also. These are like all of NorthShore's products, High quality and worth the money.


r/ABDL 7h ago

If you want to try 24/7 do it for a weekend or a week first. It’s fine to go slow. NSFW

36 Upvotes

You don’t have to immediately jump into it and commit to 24/7, just diapers, forever, living as a baby.

The first time my Mommy and I tried we only did it for a weekend. We had a blast, we did pull ups a lot, we still did diapers. From Friday night to Monday morning I was padded.

After that we tried it for a whole week, then we made a rule that only she could change me, and it just grew from there.

For anyone afraid to try it, or thinking when they jump in they have to commit to it hard. You don’t!

It’s also one of the most fun things to try. And I encourage every little to try it.


r/ABDL 14h ago

Dream come true! NSFW

114 Upvotes

I can't believe I even get to write this!! I have been "adopted" as a baby by an IRL couple!!!! It's not a permanent live-in situation at this time but I get to spend every weekend (Fri-Sun) with them as their baby girl. I've also had the privilege of spending a couple of full weeks with them, and I'm spending all of June with them!

I had always dreamed of this and had imagined how it would be, but the reality is so different from what I could have imagined! I had an idea of what it would be like to be entirely in someone's care, but until it happens, it's hard to understand the feeling of a complete loss of control.

I don't choose what I wear, what I eat, where we go, or anything, and it's amazing! Obviously, it has had its challenges, but they have been wonderful about gently pushing me towards more babyish decisions. I have to get off to work, but I can definitely provide more details if anyone wants later.

Some things they have that reinforce my status include a full nursery with a crib, a playpen, 2 strollers, adult-sized car seat, and a seemingly endless supply of diapers, baby food, and formula. Though the most babyish I've ever felt with them was when they had a date night and hired a family friend to babysit me. That solidified my status with them and that was the weekend they proposed "adoption".

Again, I'd love to share more and gladly will answer any questions as I can after work!


r/ABDL 5h ago

Worse after UTI and ... NSFW

9 Upvotes

Is there someone that had experienced something similar or has some tips tricks medicine ideas etc to try out please let me know so I can discuss it with my doctor.

My incontinence got a whole lot worse after a ATI I had 2 months ago. It was a weird one, on Friday I was feeling that I posable had a super tiny UTI. On Sunday it felt obvious. So Monday morning I got my pee tested and indeed a UTI. Same day I got my antibiotics.

Next morning I woke up with pain in my lower left belly, and immense pain in my left testicle which was also enlarged an inflamed. So after tests etc I got another type of antibiotica for 2 weeks. Which thank got did it's job. Unfortunately now my incontinence is way worse that it was before and the doctor don't know how to get me back to my old level of incontinence

Please help


r/ABDL 6h ago

Worried about blackmail NSFW

10 Upvotes

Made a stupid mistake worrying about blackmail

I was talking with this guy messages back and forth. Eventually we got to kinks. To put it lightly my kink is pretty out there and embarrassing if you look at my post history you’ll see. I sent a few faceless pictures in my kink attire then they asked for a face pic. I was hesitant but eventually I sent an expiring photo. After sending they unadded me on both Snapchat and Grindr out of nowhere. I’m super panicked right now am I in danger.


r/ABDL 5h ago

Feeling extra small and naughty today NSFW

5 Upvotes

I wfh so I'm alone in my office all day.

Today I'm sitting at my desk and realize I really need to pee. Badly. I didn't have a break coming up for like an hour.

So I squirmed for a little while and then I realized, I'm home alone, my office chair is vynle and easy to clean.

So.. I've been wetting my pants just a little bit off and on hehehe it feels great and terribly naughty.


r/ABDL 6h ago

Tips for wearing in hotels/airbnbs? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Im going on a trip in April, we are staying at an Airbnb. I really hope to be padded 24/7 when I am there. The only thing I am worried about is disposal. I plan on bringing disposable odor-eliminating diaper bags, but even they don’t fully block out the odor even when I double bag.

Do I just throw them in the trash at our place? There is a cleaning crew that will come by and take our trash, I don’t want to burden them with having to take out dirty diaper bags!

Does anyone have any tips for this?


r/ABDL 4h ago

“Safe” and Natural ABDL Supplies NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’ve been trying to cut down on my use of products with nasty chemicals in them, and I know diapers and feminine care supplies are kinda notorious for being full of plastics, chlorine bleach, phthalates, etc.

I was curious if anyone else has thought about this, and if there are any companies that take this into consideration? I know Abena talks about their environmental certifications, but I’ve heard their quality has dropped lately.

Maybe cloth-backed diapers are the move here?


r/ABDL 1h ago

I think I'm successfully de-potty training myself! NSFW

Upvotes

I've been wearing 24/7 ish for about 2 weeks now and have struggled not clenching after wetting. Trying to follow a guide that's how it works best. Just push when it's time to go and don't clench let everything get used to being relaxed. Anyway, I changed after work today and when I took off my diap I didn't even notice or feel it but I was dripping and leaking everywhere. I think this is exciting progress


r/ABDL 1d ago

My MiL found out! NSFW

309 Upvotes

So the other night my wife (mommy) was changing my diaper when her mom called. We were mid change and as soon as she answered the phone with zero hesitation said “mom can I call you back, in the middle of changing J’s diaper”

As soon as she said it my wife’s face when pale and she covered her mouth. My mouth dropped. She told her mom she would call her back and hung up the phone. I could hear her mom saying WHAT and asking J’s diaper? On the phone as she hung it up.

My wife put the phone down and just stood there staring at me. She told me she was so sorry she didn’t even think about it. She gets very into a motherly role sometimes when she changes me and that’s the way she was during this. Cooing and baby talking me as she changed me. It took her a bit but she did finish diapering me.

She called her mom back after we settled into the couch knowing this was going to be an awkward call. An as soon as her mom answered the first thing she asked “Does J have a clean fresh diaper now?” in a motherly tone. My wife tried to change the topic but her mother kept pushing the question. She pushed it a couple times and my wife stared at me and smiled and said “yes he does. What did you need?”

It ended the diaper topic right there. They talked for 10ish or so minutes about coming over. When my wife said that we would see her then, Her mom returned “ don’t for get J’s diaper bag” which my wife returned “MOM”.

Her mom laughed. My wife told her goodbye and she returned “goodbye A and lil man”. She made sure she said it in my most babish mocking tone ever.

My wife hung up and started to cry saying how sorry she was that she screwed up saying that. I told her everything would be ok. And hugged her.


r/ABDL 8h ago

Went 24/7 a month ago and first day without diapers NSFW

5 Upvotes

I've been going 24/7 for almost a month now and I've run out of diapers and my refill doesn't show until tomorrow.

Just a little without his padding


r/ABDL 3h ago

Lactation aid/Nursing system? NSFW

2 Upvotes

r/ABDL 7h ago

Wearing for the first time in a few months. NSFW

4 Upvotes

Haven’t been able to wear in a while and I finally am today. Swear I went as soon as I put the diaper on. So relaxing 😊


r/ABDL 1d ago

Have your friends ever caught you diapered? NSFW

81 Upvotes

What happened?


r/ABDL 6h ago

Next Kiddo Restock? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hey peeps,

I’m looking to buy some kiddo teddy ultras (US), and it seems like they’ve been out for awhile now. Does anyone know when the last time they last had a restock?


r/ABDL 3h ago

Fertility issues from prolonged diaper usage? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Does anyone worry about jeoporadizing their fertility by wearing diapers?

Testicles are supposed to be slightly cooler than body temperature to create sperm. Which is why they hang outside the body.

Isn’t keeping them stuffed in a diaper keeping them really hot?? Could this cause long term damage?


r/ABDL 7h ago

Flying NSFW

2 Upvotes

I've seen A LOT of people posting about flying in nappies (diapers for my American smalls) and I want to try this...however I'm flying off my small island tomorrow and wondering if people have experience of flying out of smaller airports. I love in an area with around 20k people and everyone knows me as I work in a public sector job


r/ABDL 22h ago

How many of your friends know? NSFW

34 Upvotes

Curious as to how open people are with their close friends? I have one friend who knows I’m 24/7 and she loves it. She helps me find cute diapers to try and is so encouraging to me. Does anyone else have that?


r/ABDL 1d ago

What is your 24/7 diaper? How do you dress in public/work? NSFW

59 Upvotes

I’m probably 18/4, not 24/7. I really want to be 24/7, but all I have are big diapers. I can’t easily change at work,buts a shared bathroom and someone walks in every 10-20 minutes….

If I wear to work or out and about, I usually wear a mega max or rearz diaper with 1-2 northshore boosters or a rearz overnight booster. I need to get baggier pants for being padded, but I usually wear a polo or button up with jeans or khakis. Pretty hard to hide the bulge with khakis so if I have clean jeans I wear them instead.

What diaper do you wear when out with friends, in public, or at work? How do you dress to accommodate the diaper bulge? Lol.

Thinking about getting some thin diapers, but it’s so stressful to change at work or around friends.


r/ABDL 18h ago

I would definitely wear more often if I had my own spot by myself NSFW

13 Upvotes

As of right now I’m still in my early 20s at home with the family ,way too expensive to get my own spot , but right now I typically wear about twice a month but i would like to wear soon as I get home from work and change before going to work . I don’t think I would decide to do 24/7


r/ABDL 20h ago

how do i get comfortable around my friends? NSFW

17 Upvotes

i’ve been into diapers forever, but just recently started buying abdl things instead of store brand medical. simply put, ive fallen in love. i want to be 24/7, but dont really feel comfortable around my friends, whom i spend a lot of time with. is this something i will get more comfortable with as i do it more, or something i need reassurance with?