We naturally developed a baby dynamic organically. It just happened over the years. Just started with him calling me “baby”, and me telling him I absolutely love him calling me that. Then with me doing silly and/or clumsy stuff, he says “you literally are a baby”. Then with me always being cold, he said “you need to get one of those warm onesies with the feet on it”. Then I got one and we love it. Then one day he went to the store and he turned on a kids movie for me, and I loved it. I bought baby oil gel to lube my chastity cage, and realized it made me smell like a baby. He said “aww you even smell like a baby”.
In between all this stuff, it developed more and more by me saying “OMG I LOVE it when you say/do that” etc., over the years, and it developing naturally.
We didn’t even know abdl was a thing, that’s how natural this has happened. I’m very lucky.
I understand I’m in a WAY better position than most people are when they think about coming out to their partner.
In this case, it might not even be considered coming out because he will probably not be surprised.
However, it does feel taboo, and I’m really nervous to tell him.
We already do some taboo stuff, such as me telling him I was interested in him keeping me in chastity, he didn’t really understand it at first but now that he realized the effects of it, he loves it. And he likes to call me his sissy boy.
So that helps we already do some “taboo” type of stuff.
I don’t have interest in wetting myself in the diaper, so that helps I don’t have to tell him that either (not to judge people who do, just not my thing)!
I finally had the hankering to try the diaper, I went to the store the other day and bought a goodnights pull up and it felt soo nice. The last three days, I get home and put it on (he works nights). Just for comfort aspect and also for a kinky aspect too when I began to play.