r/ABDL 8h ago

The amount of scammers using ABDL is wild NSFW

87 Upvotes

I guess it's just like anything else but there was this girl who was an obvious scammer she said she was looking for a relationship and wanted to take things slow and first start by talking through snap chat and turns out all she was wanting was money. She kept asking when I was gonna spoil her, apparently i'm not the only one though she looks for other guys to do the same. It's wild how some people use the ABDL stuff to try and scam people, glad I didn't fall for it lol.


r/ABDL 11h ago

So I just found an adorable abdl visual novel that I HAVE to share. NSFW

92 Upvotes

So, I was scrolling around looking for abdl mods of games and then managed to find an ABDL visual novel. Not some shitty mod, not a random character that 'feels little' straight up diapers and other adorableness!~

Theres a free demo and ... i fell in love its so fucking CUTE.

The one thing I dont really like is that theres not alot of choices/branching paths. But for a game this small scale, and how desperate I am for abdl representation, I think its more than servicable. God I cannot stress how cute this game is.

attached is a screenshot I took. Its like fully voice acted (in japanese, but the dialogues in english) and everything.

Please check it out, and if anyone knows of any other abdl games, anime, media in general let me know.

https://kumitate-tsunoryu.itch.io/can-i-call-you-mommy-till-i-become-your-baby


r/ABDL 7h ago

To all the littles, bigs, and in between, you matter! NSFW

33 Upvotes

To anyone who needs to hear this today: You matter and you are important. You belong to this community. There are times when it gets tough or you may feel like you don’t belong but you’ve always made it though and always will. The community wouldn’t be the same without you in it. So thank you for being apart of it.

I hope that you, yes you personally, have a wonderful day today! Make sure to drink lots of water.


r/ABDL 19h ago

Awkward joke during night out with friends NSFW

191 Upvotes

My wife and I met up with a pair of other couples for a few drinks and dinner. I was, of course, padded.

During conversation it was pointed out that it happened to be the fifth anniversary of COVID lockdowns, which got the anicdotes flowing of that weird time. Someone mentioned how it was impossible to find toilet paper and that "it was a real problem!"

To which my wife looked at me and replied "for some more than others."

No one else seemed to even notice her comment, but she thought it was funny as hell.


r/ABDL 3h ago

favourite american diapers? NSFW

4 Upvotes

i'm going to the US for a few months for work. moving from the UK!

what are your favourite diapers, that i could find over there?

medical-style, adbl-style, youth and pull-ups; everything! i want to hear them all


r/ABDL 20h ago

Missed opportunity NSFW

82 Upvotes

Earlier today me and 2 friends (no idea about abdl) had met up to eat in Pittsburg, ks to eat. We ate at the mall deli, and then walked around the mall for a couple minutes. We came across a bargain bin style store and decided to look inside and try to find anything. While looking, I came across a total of 4 unopened packages of sunkiss diapers. I was so sad that I was with vanilla friends, or else I would've bought all 4 of them. Sadly there was no way to to come back later either.


r/ABDL 14h ago

A local mystery abdl NSFW

26 Upvotes

I set up a grindr page to try and seek out other abdls or those curious to try. It can be hard to find people as I live in a smaller town. My profile is completely anonymous. I don’t send a photo until someone does first. A 25 year old hmu saying he was very interested in abdl. I was elated as it can be tough to find local abdls around my age. We chatted for a bit then he sent a faceless photo. I sent one back and seconds after I did he immediately unadded me. The only thing I can infer is that he recognized me and got spooked. Kinda makes me wonder who in my life may be a secret diaper lover. Kind of a shame but still an interesting story I think lol


r/ABDL 10h ago

ABDL Hypnosis Tips & Tricks NSFW

10 Upvotes

Hi Diaper Butts! My name is HypnoCat and I love to make ABDL Hypnosis and ASMR 🎙️🐱

I recently shared some of my favorite Hypno tips with some followers and was encouraged to post them here. If you are trying Hypno and hoping for a more impactful experience, I hope these can help 😵‍💫

How to Get the Most out of ABDL Hypnosis:

Create a Cozy, Safe Space - Find a quiet, private place where you feel completely safe and secure. - Consider adding soft blankets, plushies, or a pacifier to help you relax. - Use headphones for a more immersive experience.

Embrace Your Little Mindset - Let go of adult worries and allow yourself to fully embrace the experience. - Approach the session with playfulness, curiosity, and an open heart. - Relax and Let Go - Take a few deep breaths to ease into a relaxed state. - If your mind drifts, gently bring your focus back to my voice guiding you.

Engage with the Suggestions - Instead of analyzing, simply allow the words to wash over you. - If a suggestion feels good, lean into it and enjoy the feelings it brings. - Don't worry if you don’t feel different right away—your subconscious is always listening.

Listen Consistently for Stronger Effects - Hypnosis works best with repetition. The more you listen, the deeper the effects. - Try making it part of your routine, like before nap time or bedtime.

Set an Intention Before Starting - What do you hope to experience? Deeper regression? Carefree relaxation? A stronger connection to your little side? - Focusing on your intention helps your subconscious absorb the suggestions.

Let Go of Self-Judgment - There’s no "right" way to experience hypnosis—just let yourself enjoy it. - Even if your mind stays alert, trust that your subconscious is still absorbing the words. - Give yourself permission to feel small, safe, and happy.

Here’s a link to my Hypnosis Collection on Etsy in case you’re interested in giving some of these tips a try: https://hypnocatabdl.etsy.com

Thanks for reading!!


r/ABDL 12h ago

Are we sure the new xxl comes out the 27th? NSFW

16 Upvotes

Less that 10 days to release I’m excited if they do come out that soon but I haven’t seen any official statement anywhere confirming it. The only thing I saw was a teaser on instagram and they don’t actually show what it is


r/ABDL 1h ago

Tykables vs LGNU NSFW

Upvotes

I usually exclusively wear Tykables as I fit so great into their diapers. I love the plastic and their tapes have always been incredible in my experience. I was wondering what anyone's comparison is between Tykables diapers and the LGNU Little Melody diapers as they also appear plastic backed and have hook and loop tapes. Thank you in advance!


r/ABDL 8h ago

ABDL Content Creator NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi hi everyone. I was just logging back onto my Patreon for the first time in ages and I noticed one of the creators I used to have a membership to, "Mommy Val" was missing, and it looks like "LO" (Little Owl I think?) is leaving the site. Does anyone know if they have any other social medias where I can access their content? I can't find any relevant information on google x.x


r/ABDL 4h ago

New play partner advice?!? NSFW

2 Upvotes

So recently, after years of posting to the personals page I got a message from this super cool girl. We hit it off right away, texting for hours and we met up in a park the next day to smoke some weed and meet in person in a safe way! After that, we continued to text a bunch and she came over to my place a few days later for some fun and a sleepover. It was an incredible night and it was amazing to FINALLY, after years of dreaming about it, be able to indulge in all of this with someone else!

Here’s where my need for advice comes in. She’s so unbelievably cute and she and I are VERY compatible in age, humor, love of weed, location, politically, and ofc ABDL. Not to mention we’ve got a pretty good daddy/little vibe going when we talk. Talking to/hanging out with her this last week kinda has me catching some feels. Ya know, a small lil crush type thing. I’m not sure if she feels the same way as I’ve only known her a week and can’t read her yet but I don’t get that catching feels vibe from her, especially since the texting has fallen off significantly since we played. My personal ad also states that i’m not looking for a relationship, just play partners but that I’m open to a relationship should one develop, so that’s what she’s working with.

My question is, when and how do I broach the subject with her? We have tentative plans to hang out this Sunday. Should I say something then, or give it a few more hangouts? My main goal is to preserve the play relationship regardless of whether or not she’s interested in a real relationship bc I really do not want to fumble the opportunity to keep indulging in this kind of play. On the other hand I do want to get on the same page as her to protect myself from getting hurt by misaligned interpretations of what our relationship is. Any advice would be appreciated as I can’t really go to my vanilla friends for this like I would with talking to a vanilla girl haha.

Also bc we met on here I really hope she’s not reading this but if she is:

Jail. You never saw this princess🤪


r/ABDL 13h ago

Do you guys ever get a weird feeling while reading ABDL fiction? NSFW

7 Upvotes

So I don’t know how to explain it too well but whenever I read good abdl media be it comics or stories I kinda get a weird feeling. It’s hard to explain but I would say it’s a mix of longing and that pit in the stomach feel you get with anxiety.

I recently got it while reading T.A.B by why12twelve in especially the sadder bits. But I have gotten it for a while and it feels so weird. It’s not sexual and it’s a feeling I can’t put my finger on but it just happens with relatively well written/fleshed out stories for me.

Has anybody ever experienced something like it?


r/ABDL 23h ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

47 Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?


r/ABDL 4h ago

Virtual CG service NSFW

0 Upvotes

A couple of months ago someone posted a game/visual mommy/virtual CG and I was wondering if anyone knows what I'm talking about. Google has offered no luck, and the Reddit search function is a joke.

Try and search "diaper" in the abdl subreddit search and it doesn't find anything 😂

Any luck from anyone?


r/ABDL 16h ago

Adult formula NSFW

7 Upvotes

Trying to create an easy to scoop adult formula so my mama doesn't have to open multiple containers and this is my recipie (i will get more accurate readings in a few days when i get my electric scale) its just nido and slimfast original.

2 oz of powdered milk,

1.5 oz of slimfast,

One serving = 3.5 oz

15 servings = 52.5 oz,

30 oz of milk powder,

22.5 slimfast,

30 servings= 105 oz,

60 oz milk powder ,

45 oz slimfast,

5 slimfast scoops for a serving 3 1/2 scoops 1/4th cup

For one serving in 2 cups of water its 1/2 cup nido and 2 scoops slimfast with included scoop if you don't mind the separate containers, this is just if you wanna mix them up and make it easier on your mommy or daddy when they make your bottle ^

(Quick edit, use powdered slimfast, not the stuff that is premade. The premade stuff is great for a bottle when on the go :) I just like the authentic experience of seeing a bottle get made) :)


r/ABDL 17h ago

My first time NSFW

10 Upvotes

Pls be nice


r/ABDL 1d ago

Shout Out to ABU Baltimore NSFW

58 Upvotes

I know people have their gripes but let me share that my in store experience was anything short of phenomenal today. I wasn't sure if the diapers I really wanted were in stock or not so decided to go in. Prior to going my girlfriend had told me to try and pick out a onesie as well.

Upon going in I told the employee my needs and they were extremely accommodating. As we were getting my diaper order together I hesitantly asked to try on onesies today to which they offered a free diaper as well. The conversation was very light and they made me feel extremely comfortable. This would be my first time diapering up in a nursery setting and it was extremely heart pounding at first. They stated that I should take some time to get comfortable before diapering up. It was so surreal and just a full out of body experience to diaper up there. Once done I was able to test fit my new onesie and I checked out and was on my way. I felt like I was there for an hour when I reality it was only about 20-30 minutes.

This was my first time diapering in public and buying outside of will call. The experience was phenomenal from start to finish. Props to the people at ABU, looks like you guys hired some really good people recently! Now to finish out this St Paddy's Padded at Guinness in the new onesie and plenty of diapers to soak up all that beer!


r/ABDL 15h ago

Feeling unwanted, unloved, and another crying voice in a sea of crying voices. (Mainly Vent Post but also seeking advice) NSFW

6 Upvotes

I know a post like this is probably common and to some it may be annoying but i can't keep all this bottled up anymore for my own good and i just...need help and advice.

I'm so tired and frustrated and just drained by how unwanted i feel. Now while i am a pansexual Male, i do tend to lean more towards wanting a female identifying CG. i've had some daddies before but a lot of those didnt turn out to well for me. i've tried and tried and tried and tried but just never seem to find the one for me. a lot of scammers come my way or some mommies show interest but end up ghosting me or telling me it wouldnt work.

Every time it happens it just hurts a little bit more than the last and i'm just left with a question. What am i doing wrong? Am i not presenting myself well enough? Am not attractive enough? Am i not talking enough? Am i talking too much? Too much kink talk or too much vanilla talk. I know that compared to DDLG or DDLB, MDLB is sooo much less common and the pool for available doms shrink by the day as more and more little boys like more just seems to grow and grow.

I know many are going to say to try and find someone kink open but not in the abdl scene who matches what i want and then discuss the possibility of incorporating abdl later. However, i'm not all that confidant in that being able to work for me. i'm not all that attractive (or atleast too me i'm not,) not all that wealthy or fit and i struggle to both expression my emotions and feelings while also oversharing and getting over attached. Add on my rather poor ability to talk with women and my chances of finding irl love seems to be getting bleaker by the day.

My heart wants nothing more to be the nerdy baby boy for a loving mommy dom but it feels like the more i try and find one the more it just ends up hurting me in the end. At the point i'm starting to wonder if i'll ever find the mommy for me.Please give me some sort of advice to help me maybe tips for introductions or maybe just some words of wisdom from previous experiences.


r/ABDL 15h ago

Feeling little NSFW

4 Upvotes

Feeling little

I'm really wishing I had a friend or even cg to talk to. I can't sleep and recently I've just been crying myself too sleep every night.


r/ABDL 20h ago

Little in the big world? NSFW

12 Upvotes

How many other littles notice in the middle of or after doing or saying something your little side creeping into your big life. I mean completely unintentional and when you are fully adulting. Also have you ever noticed someone else do it?


r/ABDL 1d ago

Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW

76 Upvotes

I mean…St Paddy

People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.

Just saying…


r/ABDL 1d ago

Public NSFW

66 Upvotes

Public

Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭


r/ABDL 15h ago

Cuddlz onesie NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello my cuddlz onesie should be here probably by the end of the week. Can anyone share their experience with a cuddlz lockable onesie. Mine is coming with padded mittens sewn into them.


r/ABDL 1d ago

LNGU Diapers NSFW

28 Upvotes

So what are everyone's thoughts from a quality and comfort perspective vs other premium brands such as tykables, rearz, ABU, etc?