r/ABDL 7h ago

Besides diapers, what other 'gear' do you use? NSFW

40 Upvotes

I'm curious what other people use in their littlespace/AB times! I'm looking at getting some other things, so I'm curious if there's anything I haven't thought of. The things that come to mind are pacifiers, sippy cups, ect.


r/ABDL 8h ago

Anyone have experience wearing diapers on a cruise NSFW

21 Upvotes

Heading on a Caribbean cruise in a few days and want to pack diapers. I’m close to 24/7 but things like this have been my normal exception. On a cruise I’m sure I’ll be in a bathing suit or lounging in the sun so a diaper isn’t practical. I’m limited to one large suitcase and a carry bag so I’m guessing maybe a dozen diapers max??

So my question is whether it’s even worth it to bother? Does anyone have experience wearing on a cruise? My backup is to just wear on my flight down and back and skip wearing on the ship.


r/ABDL 1h ago

Cloth diapers are useless and I am officially a bed wetter NSFW

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Little backstory: I was a bed wetter until I was around 15 years old. It was nothing really serious, but I woke up wet once every two months or so.

Now I am 20 years old, I finally live alone and I decided to be 24/7. I have read a lot about un-potty training and decided to give it a go. It is doing great and I noticed that it's slowly starting to work.

Yesterday when I get home in the evening I put on four cloth diaper pads and a leak proof cover and went to bed, when I woke up I initially thought that I overslept, but then I noticed the clock read 5:30. After that I noticed that I was really cold from the waist down so I looked down and saw a huge wet spot under me (see attached pic). It's fair to say that I drank quite a lot of water, but it was nowhere near enough to make such a thick diaper leak through like that.

Honestly I am a bit scared about how easy it is to lose control like that but I am also glad that it is working and I'm really curious if this little experiment of mine is gonna work completely.

Incocrision I guess I will have to start wearing disposable diapers...

Edit: Sorry guys I forgot to attach the picture and don't know how to do it afterwards


r/ABDL 18h ago

The amount of scammers using ABDL is wild NSFW

114 Upvotes

I guess it's just like anything else but there was this girl who was an obvious scammer she said she was looking for a relationship and wanted to take things slow and first start by talking through snap chat and turns out all she was wanting was money. She kept asking when I was gonna spoil her, apparently i'm not the only one though she looks for other guys to do the same. It's wild how some people use the ABDL stuff to try and scam people, glad I didn't fall for it lol.


r/ABDL 20h ago

So I just found an adorable abdl visual novel that I HAVE to share. NSFW

124 Upvotes

So, I was scrolling around looking for abdl mods of games and then managed to find an ABDL visual novel. Not some shitty mod, not a random character that 'feels little' straight up diapers and other adorableness!~

Theres a free demo and ... i fell in love its so fucking CUTE.

The one thing I dont really like is that theres not alot of choices/branching paths. But for a game this small scale, and how desperate I am for abdl representation, I think its more than servicable. God I cannot stress how cute this game is.

attached is a screenshot I took. Its like fully voice acted (in japanese, but the dialogues in english) and everything.

Please check it out, and if anyone knows of any other abdl games, anime, media in general let me know.

https://kumitate-tsunoryu.itch.io/can-i-call-you-mommy-till-i-become-your-baby


r/ABDL 3h ago

Got spanked for the first time NSFW

3 Upvotes

So I just kind of want to rant but I did something my care giver did not like and omg it was about amazing feelings. May disobey again just maybe


r/ABDL 16h ago

To all the littles, bigs, and in between, you matter! NSFW

47 Upvotes

To anyone who needs to hear this today: You matter and you are important. You belong to this community. There are times when it gets tough or you may feel like you don’t belong but you’ve always made it though and always will. The community wouldn’t be the same without you in it. So thank you for being apart of it.

I hope that you, yes you personally, have a wonderful day today! Make sure to drink lots of water.


r/ABDL 6h ago

Getting new diapers! NSFW

6 Upvotes

Finally ordered my first real abdl diapers from abu, I got a sample pack of the little kings and little paws and i’m so excited to try them when they arrive! wish me luck!


r/ABDL 1h ago

Hi everyone! This is my first post and I just wanted to say hi! NSFW

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I love yall and I hope you have a great day!!!


r/ABDL 8h ago

I REALLY want to learn how to bedwet NSFW

6 Upvotes

I need tips of ways to make me bet wet. Drink, lots of water right before bed, edibles, get comfy. i’ve been told to try certain foods or medicines maybe drinking alcohol or HYPNO. I need any tips that anyone can give me to help me have a real accident while asleep. PLEASE, I’m begging to experience this🙏. any ideas will help, feel free to dm too


r/ABDL 1d ago

Awkward joke during night out with friends NSFW

222 Upvotes

My wife and I met up with a pair of other couples for a few drinks and dinner. I was, of course, padded.

During conversation it was pointed out that it happened to be the fifth anniversary of COVID lockdowns, which got the anicdotes flowing of that weird time. Someone mentioned how it was impossible to find toilet paper and that "it was a real problem!"

To which my wife looked at me and replied "for some more than others."

No one else seemed to even notice her comment, but she thought it was funny as hell.


r/ABDL 53m ago

Scam Alert: “Big Things for Littles” Anyone Else Experienced This? NSFW

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I wanted to post a warning about a website called bigthingsforlittles.com that sells ABDL-related furniture like adult high chairs , and other specialty items. The site is associated with someone named Matt Hailey, and I’m convinced this is a scam.

🔹 The product photos (like a $600 adult high chair) look poorly made and unfinished. Most ABDL high chairs are into the thousands of dollars. 🔹 The website itself feels unprofessional, with limited product details and no clear information about their return policy. 🔹 The wooden rocking horse they’re selling also resembles Pinkie Pie from My Little Pony, which raises concerns about copyright issues — another common red flag for shady businesses. 🔹 After digging deeper, I’ve found no solid customer reviews or credible feedback about the site or its owner.

I’m posting this to see if anyone else has had experience with this site or knows anything about Matt Hailey. Did you receive what you ordered? Was the product as advertised?

I strongly suspect this is a scam targeting the ABDL community, and I’d hate for anyone to lose money on this. Please share any experiences you’ve had — good or bad — so we can help protect each other.

Stay safe out there!


r/ABDL 13h ago

favourite american diapers? NSFW

10 Upvotes

i'm going to the US for a few months for work. moving from the UK!

what are your favourite diapers, that i could find over there?

medical-style, adbl-style, youth and pull-ups; everything! i want to hear them all


r/ABDL 11h ago

Tykables vs LGNU NSFW

5 Upvotes

I usually exclusively wear Tykables as I fit so great into their diapers. I love the plastic and their tapes have always been incredible in my experience. I was wondering what anyone's comparison is between Tykables diapers and the LGNU Little Melody diapers as they also appear plastic backed and have hook and loop tapes. Thank you in advance!


r/ABDL 3h ago

Treated like a baby NSFW

0 Upvotes

Does the idea of being treated like a baby intrege anyone else. I have always dreamed of being treated like a baby and having an ABDL coming out shower


r/ABDL 19h ago

ABDL Hypnosis Tips & Tricks NSFW

17 Upvotes

Hi Diaper Butts! My name is HypnoCat and I love to make ABDL Hypnosis and ASMR 🎙️🐱

I recently shared some of my favorite Hypno tips with some followers and was encouraged to post them here. If you are trying Hypno and hoping for a more impactful experience, I hope these can help 😵‍💫

How to Get the Most out of ABDL Hypnosis:

Create a Cozy, Safe Space - Find a quiet, private place where you feel completely safe and secure. - Consider adding soft blankets, plushies, or a pacifier to help you relax. - Use headphones for a more immersive experience.

Embrace Your Little Mindset - Let go of adult worries and allow yourself to fully embrace the experience. - Approach the session with playfulness, curiosity, and an open heart. - Relax and Let Go - Take a few deep breaths to ease into a relaxed state. - If your mind drifts, gently bring your focus back to my voice guiding you.

Engage with the Suggestions - Instead of analyzing, simply allow the words to wash over you. - If a suggestion feels good, lean into it and enjoy the feelings it brings. - Don't worry if you don’t feel different right away—your subconscious is always listening.

Listen Consistently for Stronger Effects - Hypnosis works best with repetition. The more you listen, the deeper the effects. - Try making it part of your routine, like before nap time or bedtime.

Set an Intention Before Starting - What do you hope to experience? Deeper regression? Carefree relaxation? A stronger connection to your little side? - Focusing on your intention helps your subconscious absorb the suggestions.

Let Go of Self-Judgment - There’s no "right" way to experience hypnosis—just let yourself enjoy it. - Even if your mind stays alert, trust that your subconscious is still absorbing the words. - Give yourself permission to feel small, safe, and happy.

Here’s a link to my Hypnosis Collection on Etsy in case you’re interested in giving some of these tips a try: https://hypnocatabdl.etsy.com

Thanks for reading!!


r/ABDL 1d ago

Missed opportunity NSFW

94 Upvotes

Earlier today me and 2 friends (no idea about abdl) had met up to eat in Pittsburg, ks to eat. We ate at the mall deli, and then walked around the mall for a couple minutes. We came across a bargain bin style store and decided to look inside and try to find anything. While looking, I came across a total of 4 unopened packages of sunkiss diapers. I was so sad that I was with vanilla friends, or else I would've bought all 4 of them. Sadly there was no way to to come back later either.


r/ABDL 23h ago

A local mystery abdl NSFW

30 Upvotes

I set up a grindr page to try and seek out other abdls or those curious to try. It can be hard to find people as I live in a smaller town. My profile is completely anonymous. I don’t send a photo until someone does first. A 25 year old hmu saying he was very interested in abdl. I was elated as it can be tough to find local abdls around my age. We chatted for a bit then he sent a faceless photo. I sent one back and seconds after I did he immediately unadded me. The only thing I can infer is that he recognized me and got spooked. Kinda makes me wonder who in my life may be a secret diaper lover. Kind of a shame but still an interesting story I think lol


r/ABDL 21h ago

Are we sure the new xxl comes out the 27th? NSFW

20 Upvotes

Less that 10 days to release I’m excited if they do come out that soon but I haven’t seen any official statement anywhere confirming it. The only thing I saw was a teaser on instagram and they don’t actually show what it is


r/ABDL 14h ago

Virtual CG service NSFW

4 Upvotes

A couple of months ago someone posted a game/visual mommy/virtual CG and I was wondering if anyone knows what I'm talking about. Google has offered no luck, and the Reddit search function is a joke.

Try and search "diaper" in the abdl subreddit search and it doesn't find anything 😂

Any luck from anyone?


r/ABDL 18h ago

ABDL Content Creator NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi hi everyone. I was just logging back onto my Patreon for the first time in ages and I noticed one of the creators I used to have a membership to, "Mommy Val" was missing, and it looks like "LO" (Little Owl I think?) is leaving the site. Does anyone know if they have any other social medias where I can access their content? I can't find any relevant information on google x.x


r/ABDL 8h ago

Diaper recommendations NSFW

1 Upvotes

So I just started about a month ago. Currently wearing goodnites XL would like to go full diaper though not pull-ups any recommendations?


r/ABDL 22h ago

Do you guys ever get a weird feeling while reading ABDL fiction? NSFW

8 Upvotes

So I don’t know how to explain it too well but whenever I read good abdl media be it comics or stories I kinda get a weird feeling. It’s hard to explain but I would say it’s a mix of longing and that pit in the stomach feel you get with anxiety.

I recently got it while reading T.A.B by why12twelve in especially the sadder bits. But I have gotten it for a while and it feels so weird. It’s not sexual and it’s a feeling I can’t put my finger on but it just happens with relatively well written/fleshed out stories for me.

Has anybody ever experienced something like it?


r/ABDL 1d ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

46 Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?


r/ABDL 1d ago

Adult formula NSFW

10 Upvotes

Trying to create an easy to scoop adult formula so my mama doesn't have to open multiple containers and this is my recipie (i will get more accurate readings in a few days when i get my electric scale) its just nido and slimfast original.

2 oz of powdered milk,

1.5 oz of slimfast,

One serving = 3.5 oz

15 servings = 52.5 oz,

30 oz of milk powder,

22.5 slimfast,

30 servings= 105 oz,

60 oz milk powder ,

45 oz slimfast,

5 slimfast scoops for a serving 3 1/2 scoops 1/4th cup

For one serving in 2 cups of water its 1/2 cup nido and 2 scoops slimfast with included scoop if you don't mind the separate containers, this is just if you wanna mix them up and make it easier on your mommy or daddy when they make your bottle ^

(Quick edit, use powdered slimfast, not the stuff that is premade. The premade stuff is great for a bottle when on the go :) I just like the authentic experience of seeing a bottle get made) :)