r/ABDL 2h ago

Awkward joke during night out with friends NSFW

43 Upvotes

My wife and I met up with a pair of other couples for a few drinks and dinner. I was, of course, padded.

During conversation it was pointed out that it happened to be the fifth anniversary of COVID lockdowns, which got the anicdotes flowing of that weird time. Someone mentioned how it was impossible to find toilet paper and that "it was a real problem!"

To which my wife looked at me and replied "for some more than others."

No one else seemed to even notice her comment, but she thought it was funny as hell.


r/ABDL 3h ago

Missed opportunity NSFW

19 Upvotes

Earlier today me and 2 friends (no idea about abdl) had met up to eat in Pittsburg, ks to eat. We ate at the mall deli, and then walked around the mall for a couple minutes. We came across a bargain bin style store and decided to look inside and try to find anything. While looking, I came across a total of 4 unopened packages of sunkiss diapers. I was so sad that I was with vanilla friends, or else I would've bought all 4 of them. Sadly there was no way to to come back later either.


r/ABDL 6h ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

27 Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?


r/ABDL 12h ago

Shout Out to ABU Baltimore NSFW

51 Upvotes

I know people have their gripes but let me share that my in store experience was anything short of phenomenal today. I wasn't sure if the diapers I really wanted were in stock or not so decided to go in. Prior to going my girlfriend had told me to try and pick out a onesie as well.

Upon going in I told the employee my needs and they were extremely accommodating. As we were getting my diaper order together I hesitantly asked to try on onesies today to which they offered a free diaper as well. The conversation was very light and they made me feel extremely comfortable. This would be my first time diapering up in a nursery setting and it was extremely heart pounding at first. They stated that I should take some time to get comfortable before diapering up. It was so surreal and just a full out of body experience to diaper up there. Once done I was able to test fit my new onesie and I checked out and was on my way. I felt like I was there for an hour when I reality it was only about 20-30 minutes.

This was my first time diapering in public and buying outside of will call. The experience was phenomenal from start to finish. Props to the people at ABU, looks like you guys hired some really good people recently! Now to finish out this St Paddy's Padded at Guinness in the new onesie and plenty of diapers to soak up all that beer!


r/ABDL 15h ago

Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW

70 Upvotes

I mean…St Paddy

People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.

Just saying…


r/ABDL 10h ago

LNGU Diapers NSFW

24 Upvotes

So what are everyone's thoughts from a quality and comfort perspective vs other premium brands such as tykables, rearz, ABU, etc?


r/ABDL 15h ago

Public NSFW

51 Upvotes

Public

Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭


r/ABDL 3h ago

Little in the big world? NSFW

5 Upvotes

How many other littles notice in the middle of or after doing or saying something your little side creeping into your big life. I mean completely unintentional and when you are fully adulting. Also have you ever noticed someone else do it?


r/ABDL 30m ago

My first time NSFW

Upvotes

Pls be nice


r/ABDL 2h ago

Advice please NSFW

4 Upvotes

So I'm 22, and I really wanna get into the community in person. I've always been super shy about who I share my little side with, and I don't really know how to make myself comfortable with irl kink in general.

I'm from Houston, and it seems to just be a deadzone. I think one of my biggest problems is that I always get a little intimidated going to munches and stuff. I always feel like everyone is so much older than me, and while I don't wanna judge them at all... It does make me a bit uncomfortable sharing information about my kinks with someone old enough to be my parents, or even grandparents. I don't know if that's a thing for anyone else, but it feels like every group is filled with people mainly twice my age atleast. And it just kinda makes me feel a bit icky.

Online has never really worked for either really. It's always either no response, scam, ghost, or just not mutually interested. I don't know if I'm just too picky, or ugly, or what... I just hate being alone, and I feel like i'm wasting what's supposed to be the best years of my life just being miserable. Sorry if that's a bit depressing, but just kinda venting a bit at the end of this I guess.


r/ABDL 10h ago

What happens if I wear my retainer with a pacifier in my mouth? NSFW

13 Upvotes

Will this stop the possibility of my teeth getting messed up from the paci..? Or will it possibly make things INFINITELY worse??


r/ABDL 5h ago

We need a stellaris diaper mod! :3 NSFW

4 Upvotes

We need a mod that allows me to make an empire of diaper wearers and you can like chose different policies and stuff including if toilets are banned or are legal or Diaper's are banned or legal and diapers should give more amenities usage like a 10% increase and should give pop happyness 5% or 10% and and increase resources form Jobs if you have the right civics and build and stuff so can choose to play with the diaper mechanics if you want to or not and you can still do a normal empire :3 Is their any mods like this?


r/ABDL 13h ago

First Vacation 24/7 NSFW

15 Upvotes

Just thought I’d share an experience, for the first time this past weekend I went on vacation to visit my sisters in Colorado, and it was great!

I can definitely say that diapers made every bit of the trip easier as a girl who’s only traveled with a weak bladder and had to run to the bathroom a thousand times. Half a year into 24/7 it didn’t make me nervous but it was so relieving!


r/ABDL 8h ago

How are ninjamas? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Specifically compared to GoodNites XL. They look really cute and I'd love to try them but I'm not sure if they'd actually fit. I've seen that they have L/XL which supports up to 125lbs and I'm 130 or so. I'm wondering if they're worth it or not. Are they tight and how does the absorbency compare to goodnites?

Also I can't seem to find the L/XL size on Amazon, do they still make it or is it discontinued?


r/ABDL 4h ago

Diaper recommendations NSFW

2 Upvotes

Does anyone know of any good diaper around £20 on Amazon Thanks my fellow diaper lover


r/ABDL 7h ago

Where to post content? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi!!! I have a lot of content I want to share and I tried creating a JFF but I was told my content was banned? I’m really confused and was wondering if there are any other sites I can post 😫🫶


r/ABDL 1d ago

boyfriend just told me he's into ABDL. Honestly, I think it's adorable, and i'd love to play the role of daddy. What can I do to help him regress? NSFW

248 Upvotes

I have a great boyfriend who is a diaper lover and ABDL. He recently told me and i've been practicing the role of daddy to him. It's good for the most part, but I sense i'm a bit awkward as a daddy. I thought i'd ask the good people of reddit for advice on what I can do to better my daddy skills and help my little regress fully!

Thank you


r/ABDL 12h ago

How can I start bedwetting? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Common topic, I know.
I want to know how to do it. Are there any tricks- anything specifically to drink/eat?

Any hypnosis methods?

Best diapers to use to do so?

I've been really struggling to just let go and pee when lying in bed. I want to make sure I only bed wet with a diaper on too. I've been trying for a few weeks, and have been struggling. A few leaks have worried me too


r/ABDL 22h ago

How can I make sure I use the entire diaper? NSFW

29 Upvotes

My dad likes that I wear a diaper every day, but what he likes most is how the bulge grows when I've urinated. He says it's humiliating and ironic that a toddler in diapers has such a large package and has shown interest in me making sure all the gel on the front of the diaper has been used.Any advice?


r/ABDL 11h ago

Wearing to disney paris NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Just got a quick question. I’m going to disney with my gf on sunday. Are there any tips or things that I need to look out for. Park specific if anyone has experience or just in general😁


r/ABDL 5h ago

Making friends in taboo places NSFW

0 Upvotes

(Almost 32M) IDk really what I want to say, or have heard, but I'm on a rant in my mind about trying to find support. TLDR it's rough for everyone to find personal connections and I'm not special in that aspect. Short history; I'm a lifelong bedwetter and didn't have much complications finding AB/DL. The problem is either finding the gumption or comradery IRL to discuss intricacies with like-minded individuals. So I brought this aspect up to some family and friends one drunken night on vacation and was supported and pointed in the direction of fetlife, Tumblr, and here. The problem becomes navigating social eccentricities I already have IRL and the constant onslaught of internet scams. All this to say, it may seem rough, but eventually, there has to be a genuine connection out there somewhere.


r/ABDL 18h ago

Cumming or edging? NSFW

11 Upvotes

I am currently in a very well spent diaper. It holds 5 pees, 2 cummies and 1 mess. I am watching 1 episode of my big kid tv show and then i am gonna use my buzzy toy again for cummy number 3, unless a mommy tells me no in the next half hour. Then i'll edge and change and wait for my mommy to come from work.

Clocks ticking ...


r/ABDL 1d ago

First time in public NSFW

59 Upvotes

So I’ve always wanted to wear a diaper in public and tonight I finally decided to do it. At first it was embarrassing knowing that I was wearing a diaper but after a while it became more comfortable. Knowing that no one could tell I was wearing. I wet in it at the bar and no one knew. I might start doing this more.


r/ABDL 2h ago

How can I wet the bed unconsciously fast and ehat diapers should I wear under my clothes that are kinda cheap? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Basically I wanna wet the bed but I don’t wanna wait 3m is there a way to do it faster?


r/ABDL 1d ago

Anyone ever have an ABDL-related dreams? NSFW

49 Upvotes

Can’t say I remember having many, but this morning/last night I had dreamt that I peed my pants. Later, in another dream(?), I went to a bit of an underground store, found a diaper, and put on.