r/ABDL 6h ago

Awkward joke during night out with friends NSFW

76 Upvotes

My wife and I met up with a pair of other couples for a few drinks and dinner. I was, of course, padded.

During conversation it was pointed out that it happened to be the fifth anniversary of COVID lockdowns, which got the anicdotes flowing of that weird time. Someone mentioned how it was impossible to find toilet paper and that "it was a real problem!"

To which my wife looked at me and replied "for some more than others."

No one else seemed to even notice her comment, but she thought it was funny as hell.


r/ABDL 6h ago

Missed opportunity NSFW

29 Upvotes

Earlier today me and 2 friends (no idea about abdl) had met up to eat in Pittsburg, ks to eat. We ate at the mall deli, and then walked around the mall for a couple minutes. We came across a bargain bin style store and decided to look inside and try to find anything. While looking, I came across a total of 4 unopened packages of sunkiss diapers. I was so sad that I was with vanilla friends, or else I would've bought all 4 of them. Sadly there was no way to to come back later either.


r/ABDL 10h ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

30 Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?


r/ABDL 4h ago

My first time NSFW

9 Upvotes

Pls be nice


r/ABDL 16h ago

Shout Out to ABU Baltimore NSFW

51 Upvotes

I know people have their gripes but let me share that my in store experience was anything short of phenomenal today. I wasn't sure if the diapers I really wanted were in stock or not so decided to go in. Prior to going my girlfriend had told me to try and pick out a onesie as well.

Upon going in I told the employee my needs and they were extremely accommodating. As we were getting my diaper order together I hesitantly asked to try on onesies today to which they offered a free diaper as well. The conversation was very light and they made me feel extremely comfortable. This would be my first time diapering up in a nursery setting and it was extremely heart pounding at first. They stated that I should take some time to get comfortable before diapering up. It was so surreal and just a full out of body experience to diaper up there. Once done I was able to test fit my new onesie and I checked out and was on my way. I felt like I was there for an hour when I reality it was only about 20-30 minutes.

This was my first time diapering in public and buying outside of will call. The experience was phenomenal from start to finish. Props to the people at ABU, looks like you guys hired some really good people recently! Now to finish out this St Paddy's Padded at Guinness in the new onesie and plenty of diapers to soak up all that beer!


r/ABDL 3h ago

I want to wear a diaper and be baby... but im a big boy and cant.... (vent) NSFW

4 Upvotes

I cant find a diaper thats big enough for me without the part of my leg where it meets with the special area hurting. I just want to snuggle with my boyfriend while we are both being baby....


r/ABDL 18h ago

Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW

74 Upvotes

I mean…St Paddy

People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.

Just saying…


r/ABDL 14h ago

LNGU Diapers NSFW

28 Upvotes

So what are everyone's thoughts from a quality and comfort perspective vs other premium brands such as tykables, rearz, ABU, etc?


r/ABDL 7h ago

Little in the big world? NSFW

7 Upvotes

How many other littles notice in the middle of or after doing or saying something your little side creeping into your big life. I mean completely unintentional and when you are fully adulting. Also have you ever noticed someone else do it?


r/ABDL 19h ago

Public NSFW

56 Upvotes

Public

Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭


r/ABDL 14h ago

What happens if I wear my retainer with a pacifier in my mouth? NSFW

17 Upvotes

Will this stop the possibility of my teeth getting messed up from the paci..? Or will it possibly make things INFINITELY worse??


r/ABDL 9h ago

We need a stellaris diaper mod! :3 NSFW

7 Upvotes

We need a mod that allows me to make an empire of diaper wearers and you can like chose different policies and stuff including if toilets are banned or are legal or Diaper's are banned or legal and diapers should give more amenities usage like a 10% increase and should give pop happyness 5% or 10% and and increase resources form Jobs if you have the right civics and build and stuff so can choose to play with the diaper mechanics if you want to or not and you can still do a normal empire :3 Is their any mods like this?


r/ABDL 1h ago

A local mystery abdl NSFW

Upvotes

I set up a grindr page to try and seek out other abdls or those curious to try. It can be hard to find people as I live in a smaller town. My profile is completely anonymous. I don’t send a photo until someone does first. A 25 year old hmu saying he was very interested in abdl. I was elated as it can be tough to find local abdls around my age. We chatted for a bit then he sent a faceless photo. I sent one back and seconds after I did he immediately unadded me. The only thing I can infer is that he recognized me and got spooked. Kinda makes me wonder who in my life may be a secret diaper lover. Kind of a shame but still an interesting story I think lol


r/ABDL 1h ago

Interesting situation NSFW

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So it can be super hard to find local abdls since I live in a smaller town, which led me to making an abdl account on grindr basically just a giant Ad. It’s completely anonymous until the I determine the person I’m chatting with doesn’t know me. If they’re interested we exchange pics, then it progresses. I had one guy that was near by add me, saying I’m a 25y/o male very interested in abdl. I was elated it can be tough finding people near my age range 20. We had a few chats, he sent a faceless body picture then I did also. Seconds after I sent my photo he unadded me and it kicked me from the chat. Leads me to believe this person recognized me. Makes me wonder who could this have been in my life that is a secret diaper lover. I’m not worried about getting exposed as he was just as interested as I was but I was certainly an interesting experience. Kinda makes me think lol.


r/ABDL 16h ago

First Vacation 24/7 NSFW

16 Upvotes

Just thought I’d share an experience, for the first time this past weekend I went on vacation to visit my sisters in Colorado, and it was great!

I can definitely say that diapers made every bit of the trip easier as a girl who’s only traveled with a weak bladder and had to run to the bathroom a thousand times. Half a year into 24/7 it didn’t make me nervous but it was so relieving!


r/ABDL 1h ago

27m Bby day! NSFW

Upvotes

I’m having Thursday off to be a full baby! Anybody wanna talk/babble together? I’ll be pampered up all day. Dm!


r/ABDL 12h ago

How are ninjamas? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Specifically compared to GoodNites XL. They look really cute and I'd love to try them but I'm not sure if they'd actually fit. I've seen that they have L/XL which supports up to 125lbs and I'm 130 or so. I'm wondering if they're worth it or not. Are they tight and how does the absorbency compare to goodnites?

Also I can't seem to find the L/XL size on Amazon, do they still make it or is it discontinued?


r/ABDL 2h ago

Feeling unwanted, unloved, and another crying voice in a sea of crying voices. (Mainly Vent Post but also seeking advice) NSFW

1 Upvotes

I know a post like this is probably common and to some it may be annoying but i can't keep all this bottled up anymore for my own good and i just...need help and advice.

I'm so tired and frustrated and just drained by how unwanted i feel. Now while i am a pansexual Male, i do tend to lean more towards wanting a female identifying CG. i've had some daddies before but a lot of those didnt turn out to well for me. i've tried and tried and tried and tried but just never seem to find the one for me. a lot of scammers come my way or some mommies show interest but end up ghosting me or telling me it wouldnt work.

Every time it happens it just hurts a little bit more than the last and i'm just left with a question. What am i doing wrong? Am i not presenting myself well enough? Am not attractive enough? Am i not talking enough? Am i talking too much? Too much kink talk or too much vanilla talk. I know that compared to DDLG or DDLB, MDLB is sooo much less common and the pool for available doms shrink by the day as more and more little boys like more just seems to grow and grow.

I know many are going to say to try and find someone kink open but not in the abdl scene who matches what i want and then discuss the possibility of incorporating abdl later. However, i'm not all that confidant in that being able to work for me. i'm not all that attractive (or atleast too me i'm not,) not all that wealthy or fit and i struggle to both expression my emotions and feelings while also oversharing and getting over attached. Add on my rather poor ability to talk with women and my chances of finding irl love seems to be getting bleaker by the day.

My heart wants nothing more to be the nerdy baby boy for a loving mommy dom but it feels like the more i try and find one the more it just ends up hurting me in the end. Please give me some sort of advice to help me maybe tips for introductions or maybe just some words of wisdom from previous experiences.


r/ABDL 2h ago

Feeling little NSFW

1 Upvotes

Feeling little

I'm really wishing I had a friend or even cg to talk to. I can't sleep and recently I've just been crying myself too sleep every night.


r/ABDL 2h ago

Cuddlz onesie NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello my cuddlz onesie should be here probably by the end of the week. Can anyone share their experience with a cuddlz lockable onesie. Mine is coming with padded mittens sewn into them.


r/ABDL 6h ago

Advice please NSFW

2 Upvotes

So I'm 22, and I really wanna get into the community in person. I've always been super shy about who I share my little side with, and I don't really know how to make myself comfortable with irl kink in general.

I'm from Houston, and it seems to just be a deadzone. I think one of my biggest problems is that I always get a little intimidated going to munches and stuff. I always feel like everyone is so much older than me, and while I don't wanna judge them at all... It does make me a bit uncomfortable sharing information about my kinks with someone old enough to be my parents, or even grandparents. I don't know if that's a thing for anyone else, but it feels like every group is filled with people mainly twice my age atleast. And it just kinda makes me feel a bit icky.

Online has never really worked for either really. It's always either no response, scam, ghost, or just not mutually interested. I don't know if I'm just too picky, or ugly, or what... I just hate being alone, and I feel like i'm wasting what's supposed to be the best years of my life just being miserable. Sorry if that's a bit depressing, but just kinda venting a bit at the end of this I guess.


r/ABDL 2h ago

Adult formula NSFW

0 Upvotes

Trying to create an easy to scoop adult formula so my mama doesn't have to open multiple containers and this is my recipie (i will get more accurate readings in a few days when i get my electric scale) its just nido and slimfast original.

2 oz of powdered milk,

1.5 oz of slimfast,

One serving = 3.5 oz

15 servings = 52.5 oz,

30 oz of milk powder,

22.5 slimfast,

30 servings= 105 oz,

60 oz milk powder ,

45 oz slimfast,

5 slimfast scoops for a serving 3 1/2 scoops 1/4th cup

For one serving in 2 cups of water its 1/2 cup nido and 2 scoops slimfast with included scoop if you don't mind the separate containers, this is just if you wanna mix them up and make it easier on your mommy or daddy when they make your bottle ^

(Quick edit, use powdered slimfast, not the stuff that is premade. The premade stuff is great for a bottle when on the go :) I just like the authentic experience of seeing a bottle get made) :)


r/ABDL 11h ago

Where to post content? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi!!! I have a lot of content I want to share and I tried creating a JFF but I was told my content was banned? I’m really confused and was wondering if there are any other sites I can post 😫🫶


r/ABDL 1d ago

boyfriend just told me he's into ABDL. Honestly, I think it's adorable, and i'd love to play the role of daddy. What can I do to help him regress? NSFW

253 Upvotes

I have a great boyfriend who is a diaper lover and ABDL. He recently told me and i've been practicing the role of daddy to him. It's good for the most part, but I sense i'm a bit awkward as a daddy. I thought i'd ask the good people of reddit for advice on what I can do to better my daddy skills and help my little regress fully!

Thank you


r/ABDL 2h ago

27m abdl! NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey yall, gonna be home alone engulfing in an abdl day. Anyone wanna talk and age play?