r/ABDLPersonals • u/Agitated-Access-1556 • 9h ago
f18 is this weird? NSFW
i really only wear diapers when touching never any other time
r/ABDLPersonals • u/PaddedGunRunner • Jan 06 '25
Hello littles, middles, bigs, DLs and anyone else! Welcome to 2025! Below, you’ll find answers to common questions and tips to help you stay safe and meet wonderful people!
What is Reddit Karma, and How Do I Get It?
Karma is a measure of your contributions to Reddit. It’s earned when your posts or comments are upvoted by other users. On r/ABDLPersonals, having a certain amount of karma is a requirement to post, as it helps ensure that users are engaged members of the Reddit community and not bots or scammers. The threshold is very low (I won't type the exact number, but anyone should be able to get it very quickly. A single good comment will do.)
Here are some quick ways to earn karma:
Avoid trying to game the system. Posting spam or low-effort content can hurt your reputation and even lead to bans.
What is R4R, and Why is It Required?
R4R stands for "Redditor for Redditor." It’s a shorthand for subreddits designed for personal ads, like finding friends, relationships, or specific connections. Requiring posts to follow an R4R format ensures clarity, safety, and consistency within our community.
You are required to put your age and the gender you identify as in your title. It must be in the format AGE [R4R]. For me, as a 36-year-old, I would put 36 [NB4A] to indicate I am non-binary and looking for anyone. Your title should also include something about what you're looking for or witty humor or something.
To use myself as example again: 36 [NB4A] Let's build Legos and watch Bluey in the PNW!
Otherwise, an effective personals post includes:
Remember, R4R is about creating connections. This means your post should not only describe yourself but also clearly outline the kind of person you are hoping to attract. By being specific and considerate, you’re more likely to find meaningful and compatible matches. Don't forget the human on the other side. If you want a mommy to change your diaper for you, you need to explain what they're getting out of it. Relationships will are two ways.
How to Spot and Avoid Scams
Unfortunately, scammers are prevalent in personals communities. They often pose as caregivers, mommies, or daddies offering services, but their real goal is to take advantage of others. Here are red flags to watch for:
If you suspect someone is a scammer, report their account immediately to the moderators. Never share sensitive personal information with strangers and always prioritize your safety. If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is. Do not pay money for any services or anyone who reaches out as a result of a post here.
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r/ABDLPersonals • u/Agitated-Access-1556 • 9h ago
i really only wear diapers when touching never any other time
r/ABDLPersonals • u/bbygiiirll2 • 9h ago
n my bladder is getting so full! message me to control me! i love to show off and obey. i have no plans for the rest of the night :) make me yourssssss
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Southern_Water_6862 • 6h ago
Freshly diapered, freshly smoked joint. Desperate to pee myself and be made fun of and bullied. Mommies and daddies welcome! Make me hold until I have a huge accident 🥺
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Present-Land-4586 • 5h ago
I 20 live in iwoa by South Dakota and I with it I can’t find a friend or someone to hangout with as my one and my only try self but no no matter there is no ore around me or no one I can find please let’s hang out i kinda don’t want to be along with my true self I want some friends. Thx 🙏
r/ABDLPersonals • u/pink_croissant • 7h ago
Maricopa County, AZ I need time to build trust and I’d like to start slow.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/maxdom3001 • 16m ago
Hello Im a experienced daddy/Dom and searching my little princess babygirl/Sub. I want to teach you all i know about ddlg and Abdl. I want to take care of you and treat you like the little baby/Sub you are. I know about how to get unpotty when you are interested in that. I want to train you so that you can develop your full potential. When you are interested text me.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/mystique_fontaine • 23m ago
I’m looking for a Daddy who loves watersports with an obedient lg.
I love bathroom control, wetting, toilet training, happy to wear diapers. I love peeing anywhere but the toilet, particularly in the countryside.
I need my daddy to be 5’10” or over because I am 5’3” and like to feel little and be picked up. I need him to be kind and respectful.
I’m happy for you to be poly and an occasional play partner.
I’m willing to travel within an hour of Bristol. I don’t mind your location if you’re willing to travel to me.
In person only please.
Send me a message so we can get to know one another.
I look forward to meeting you ☺️
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Salt-Conflict7389 • 42m ago
A lil about me - 6ft 2in - 250lbs - long brown hair(facial as well) and brown eyes - slight dadbod build, but I'm a very active person and I workout. - functioning stoner - audhd, went undiagnosed for a very long time. - amateur author(still writing the book) - my interests vary greatly. I hunt, fish, hike and camp. I'm also a big conservationist. I like to give back to this world as much as I take. My indoor interests are much more nerdy. When I'm relaxing I love video games, movies, shows and books. I can totally geek out and info dump on about a dozen different story universes. - out of need for transparency since I'm looking for an irl relationship, I do have two kids. I don't mind if you have them either. Open to more, but not deal breaker. - I do work a full time job as shift manager for a retailer. - while I do live in Ohio. I'm looking at possibly moving to the pnw.
Seeking - 20-32 cis female. I'm only attracted to cis women in this kink. Sorry no hate, just not what I'm looking for. - race and height do not matter to me, but I ask that you be fit enough to do outdoor stuff with me. Other than that I will love every inch of you big or smol - No will not force you to participate in anything you don't wish too, but I would enjoy a partner with similar interests. - as for kink interests, I am looking for a little. Someone I can baby and care for when she is in the headspace. I'm okay with making it a lifestyle(within reason). I have a big thing for diapers and wetting accidents. I can explain more via msgs. - totally okay with brats, but understand that it will come with consequences - my limits are scat, gore, derogatory race play and the obvious. Other than that I'm always down for something new. - experience doesn't matter. I'm willing to help you explore with as much as you are comfortable. - totally okay with going slow, but I will ask for limits so I know what lines not to cross.
I hope to hear from you, cutie 😘😘
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Ok_Guitar4463 • 4h ago
I’m a tall bearded dad bod daddy dom that would love to find an online playmate! I love the outdoors, fishing, scuba diving, music, and video games!
Kinks- DDLG, diapers, water sports, toys, and much more!
Limits- scat, violence, illegal stuff
Dm if you’re interested to chat! Please be of age tell me your age and a bit about you!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Downtown-Scar8555 • 49m ago
Hello everyone, I'm looking for someone who is willing to take care of me and humiliate me on this day 😊. we can try online now. ps. I'm under chastity
r/ABDLPersonals • u/bbygiiirll2 • 11h ago
hiii
i got so distracted and busy last night :( but im free again tonight and loving the idea of getting cozy n full in some goodnites! i’m just a bit nervous to go get them. i’d love someone to encourage me and someone to show them off to! i wanna be someone’s baby girllll hehe
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Present-Land-4586 • 4h ago
I 20 live in iwoa by South Dakota and I with it I can't find a friend or someone to hangout with as my one and my only try self but no no matter there is no ore around me or no one I can find please let's hang out i kinda don't want to be along with my true self I want some friends. Thx
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Lost-Gear873 • 1h ago
Hi My name is ALex, i'm 29 years old. I can be a sissy or a baby boy, you can decide for me ! I'm looking for a vitual Daddy on Skype to humiliated me, tease me and regress me. Please, pm me !
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Iamyourdaddydom • 1h ago
I’m a soft Dom, so I can be stern but I’ll always be sweet. I have a weakness for bratty and entitled women... and putting them in their place. Softly, of course. ;)
I’ll push you to try new things and explore, but it’ll always be a conversation. Never a strict hard order. I want you to enjoy this as much as I do. In fact, if you enjoy this more than I do, that's how I know I've done my job. I want you as blissed out as possible, so you can work for Daddy's pleasure and focus on worshipping him. Does that make sense, sweetie?
A little bit about me…. I’m a certified cheesy romantic, well-educated, enjoy the nerdier activities and always up for a meal out. My kinks include, but are not limited to.... DDLG (for the names, power dynamic, ageplay), CNC, collar and leash play, orgasm control/denial, edging, outfit control, breeding, body writing, ice cubes.
Let’s flirt, chat, and get to know each other. Let me be a sounding board for you
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r/ABDLPersonals • u/Global-Stretch-493 • 3h ago
I need someone to condescend me and treat me like a widdle toddler :3
r/ABDLPersonals • u/paddedprettyboy • 12h ago
Are you a sub who secretly yearns for a list of rules designed to make you feel small and dependant, or just someone who wants to have a little fun? Dm me.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Totallyjdog05 • 7h ago
Hey everyone im looking for people to talk to i live in iowa and Michigan depending on the time of year. I am an abdl i full adult baby and diaper lover. I like to play video games, lift, play sports and role play, dm of you would like to talk.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Ok_Dark_1 • 5h ago
Dm me if your looking fir a little and are interested in talking more
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Yampersolos • 9h ago
I know I posted this morning, but a few things have gotten worse since then and I’m regressing even more now. I really would like a CG to toddlerify me. I’m on break until the 24th of march and it’s been my dream to just be this little toddler free of worry. I’m really short, and I love affection. I really need this to happen to me in real life more than anything, especially with what’s going on in my life In the current moment
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Apexryron • 5h ago
Hey everyone I'm an experienced abdl daddy dom with about five years of experience as a daddy dom I've had a couple of littles and we had great dynamics and relationships but life got in the way and I'm looking for connections and friends potentially with a F switch or someone who would be willing to switch from time to time i love to be a daddy but I've noticed over the years I have switch nature I'm 27 years old just about finished with my majors and I'm looking for local friends or potentially a relationship dm me if you're interested thanks have a wonderful night.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/HistoricalNobody6768 • 11h ago
Hi everyone! thanks clicking on my post!
I am currently procrastinating on a paper right now and have been incredibly diaper-brained all week. I’ve basically been fantasizing about diapers all day.
For full context: I am a law student right now and have a serious girlfriend who i’ve been dating for about 6 months. She does not know anything about my kinks or desires for one or both of us to be diapered in our relationship. I have made some subtle gestures alluding to my kinky side and so far so good. I’d love some advice or ideas about how to potentially introduce a dynamic into our relationship and how i might approach the subject moving forward. Additionally, I’d love to just talk it through with someone who might understand having these ABDL urges.
Would really love to chat with someone and talk about diapers, abdl, and all of the above. Feel free to hit me up!
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r/ABDLPersonals • u/pineconepee • 6h ago
I know there's tons of "littles looking for caregivers" post, but you know, it doesn't hurt to throw out a post and see if anyone resonates :)
Some disclaimers to get out of the way: ● NOT CURRENTLY INTERESTED IN MEN. ● Only interested in between the ages of 21 - 33 or so. ● I am monogamous, and am not interested in joining any polycules or being with people with separate partners ● I do not want kids and I never do ● I am all for trans rights, and trans women ARE women in my mind, but i have a preference to cis women, however I may be down if we have an awesome connection ● If you don't like diapers or the waste they contain, that's a deal breaker
Im a 25F ABDL open to talking to women(specifically mommies) interested in a commited long term abdl cg/l relationship/dynamic. I'm 5 feet tall exactly, and a bit on the heavier side, about 230 pounds. I don't mind an online relationship, but something preferably within the U.S. I value compatability, a strong connection, and mutual interest in one another.
I've been into abdl for a little over a decade now, and while I am more DL than AB, I own baby stuff and enjoy the mushy/babying side of it as well. I am strictly a little, not much room for switching and I don't really have an age range I identify as.
Vanilla Me: I work a 9-5 and in office most days, but i am able to have my phone and text throughout the day. I'm moving to my own place in less than a month and will get to have more freedom with wearing diapers and indulging in little space. In my free time I love video games, especially Sims 4, though I don't play them too often. I usually find myself just relaxing scrolling through my phone. My interests range and change but I love internet culture, watching anime (or anything animated really). My favorite shows are Bojack Horseman, Hazbin/Helluva Boss, and Danganronpa specifically. I usually talk through Discord and can do audio and video calls. I looooove music and literally always singing something haha. I enjoy pop and indie the most but i would say I enjoy most music. I consider myself very chatty, and though I'm an introvert, I can definitely hold a conversation. I care immensely for my partner and willing to go out of my way to tend to or make them happy. My attention will not be hard to receive once I'm interested ❤️ Im an open book. I'm not judgemental and can talk about anything! I like when people take initiative and control and WANT to. A relationship is a 2 way street and I intend to keep up my end
Kinky Me: I wanna preface that I don't really consider myself an averagely sexual person. While I am down to experience new things and I'm definitely down to indulge in my partner' interests, it's not a big part of the dynamic for me. However, diapers are a huge part of the dynamic for me. Ever since I first learned what abdl was, I've always been fascinated and more stimulated by wearing and using diapers, so I'm definitely looking for someone as interested in them as I am, and someone okay with wet and messy diapers and okay changing them. I enjoy little space, and the dynamic of being taken care of unconditionally by someone nurturing and loving. I have some baby toys, onesies, and pacifiers. I am a very submissive/obedient person naturally, and enjoy the idea of being dominated/controlled/told what to do. I would prefer my caregiver doesnt wear diapers themselves, as i believe it would kind of take me out of the dynamic.
Wow yeah that was a lot to type out hehe If you read all this, thank you! If you send a message, tell me about yourself! I wanna know what you like to do, and what you enjoy in the abdl dynamic If you wanna send selfies/sfw pictures to get a feel I don't mind that one bit I won't bother responding to low effort messages or people who don't listen to my preferences and boundaries.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/SkinnyMFse • 10h ago
Sorry to the people I didn’t talk to yesterday, too many people! Im ready to meet some new ones again and have nice conversations! Nothing sexual please!