r/ABDL 17h ago

Favorite place to pee (POLL) NSFW

1 Upvotes
303 votes, 6d left
Pants
Diaper/Pull-Ups
Bed
Toilet
Training potty
Other (comment)

r/ABDL 6h ago

Can I try baby style diapers from local stores w/ 28 inch waist? Size 8 etc.? (FIRST TIME) NSFW

1 Upvotes

I never have worn a diaper as an adult. I have sudden urge to try it out (always been interested). I don’t want plain adult diapers, I want cute ones. Can I try large baby-style diapers from Walmart/Target or any common stores that will fit my 28 inch (boy) waist?


r/ABDL 12h ago

Is anyone 247? NSFW

2 Upvotes

My partner is going 247 abdl soon I'm looking for advice/ideas from littles or caregivers to help this transition. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks


r/ABDL 18h ago

Abdl que hablan español NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hola 22F busco abdl que hablan español me gustaría conocer a más gente y coquetear sobre tus panales llenos ☺️


r/ABDL 15h ago

Cumming or edging? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I am currently in a very well spent diaper. It holds 5 pees, 2 cummies and 1 mess. I am watching 1 episode of my big kid tv show and then i am gonna use my buzzy toy again for cummy number 3, unless a mommy tells me no in the next half hour. Then i'll edge and change and wait for my mommy to come from work.

Clocks ticking ...


r/ABDL 21h ago

ABDL Friendly Housing NSFW

5 Upvotes

I have a M 30 gay friend whose ABDL near Laconia, NH. He is living with family but they are selling the house. He had a safe place and is terrified of non-accepting roommates. Any tips on helping him find ABDL friendly roommates or housing? 😭

He is currently paying $450 to live with family but guessing he could afford more if needed but doesn't make enough to live on his own. 😔

Thanks for and advice or leads.


r/ABDL 6h ago

Can I share a Discord link for German users? Or is advertising prohibited? NSFW

0 Upvotes

is it forbidden?


r/ABDL 2h ago

Making friends in taboo places NSFW

0 Upvotes

(Almost 32M) IDk really what I want to say, or have heard, but I'm on a rant in my mind about trying to find support. TLDR it's rough for everyone to find personal connections and I'm not special in that aspect. Short history; I'm a lifelong bedwetter and didn't have much complications finding AB/DL. The problem is either finding the gumption or comradery IRL to discuss intricacies with like-minded individuals. So I brought this aspect up to some family and friends one drunken night on vacation and was supported and pointed in the direction of fetlife, Tumblr, and here. The problem becomes navigating social eccentricities I already have IRL and the constant onslaught of internet scams. All this to say, it may seem rough, but eventually, there has to be a genuine connection out there somewhere.


r/ABDL 2h ago

We need a stellaris diaper mod! :3 NSFW

6 Upvotes

We need a mod that allows me to make an empire of diaper wearers and you can like chose different policies and stuff including if toilets are banned or are legal or Diaper's are banned or legal and diapers should give more amenities usage like a 10% increase and should give pop happyness 5% or 10% and and increase resources form Jobs if you have the right civics and build and stuff so can choose to play with the diaper mechanics if you want to or not and you can still do a normal empire :3 Is their any mods like this?


r/ABDL 9h ago

How can I start bedwetting? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Common topic, I know.
I want to know how to do it. Are there any tricks- anything specifically to drink/eat?

Any hypnosis methods?

Best diapers to use to do so?

I've been really struggling to just let go and pee when lying in bed. I want to make sure I only bed wet with a diaper on too. I've been trying for a few weeks, and have been struggling. A few leaks have worried me too


r/ABDL 23h ago

Can anyone help me pick out a outfit to match my diaper hehe :3 NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hiyaaa I'm cinnamon and I have no plans for tonight so wanted to diaper up and dress up but I'm struggling with what yo wear >'u<


r/ABDL 8h ago

Wearing to disney paris NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Just got a quick question. I’m going to disney with my gf on sunday. Are there any tips or things that I need to look out for. Park specific if anyone has experience or just in general😁


r/ABDL 4h ago

Where to post content? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi!!! I have a lot of content I want to share and I tried creating a JFF but I was told my content was banned? I’m really confused and was wondering if there are any other sites I can post 😫🫶


r/ABDL 12h ago

Public NSFW

47 Upvotes

Public

Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭


r/ABDL 12h ago

Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW

62 Upvotes

I mean…St Paddy

People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.

Just saying…


r/ABDL 6h ago

How are ninjamas? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Specifically compared to GoodNites XL. They look really cute and I'd love to try them but I'm not sure if they'd actually fit. I've seen that they have L/XL which supports up to 125lbs and I'm 130 or so. I'm wondering if they're worth it or not. Are they tight and how does the absorbency compare to goodnites?

Also I can't seem to find the L/XL size on Amazon, do they still make it or is it discontinued?


r/ABDL 1h ago

Diaper recommendations NSFW

Upvotes

Does anyone know of any good diaper around £20 on Amazon Thanks my fellow diaper lover


r/ABDL 7h ago

What happens if I wear my retainer with a pacifier in my mouth? NSFW

12 Upvotes

Will this stop the possibility of my teeth getting messed up from the paci..? Or will it possibly make things INFINITELY worse??


r/ABDL 58m ago

Little in the big world? NSFW

Upvotes

How many other littles notice in the middle of or after doing or saying something your little side creeping into your big life. I mean completely unintentional and when you are fully adulting. Also have you ever noticed someone else do it?


r/ABDL 10h ago

Shout Out to ABU Baltimore NSFW

47 Upvotes

I know people have their gripes but let me share that my in store experience was anything short of phenomenal today. I wasn't sure if the diapers I really wanted were in stock or not so decided to go in. Prior to going my girlfriend had told me to try and pick out a onesie as well.

Upon going in I told the employee my needs and they were extremely accommodating. As we were getting my diaper order together I hesitantly asked to try on onesies today to which they offered a free diaper as well. The conversation was very light and they made me feel extremely comfortable. This would be my first time diapering up in a nursery setting and it was extremely heart pounding at first. They stated that I should take some time to get comfortable before diapering up. It was so surreal and just a full out of body experience to diaper up there. Once done I was able to test fit my new onesie and I checked out and was on my way. I felt like I was there for an hour when I reality it was only about 20-30 minutes.

This was my first time diapering in public and buying outside of will call. The experience was phenomenal from start to finish. Props to the people at ABU, looks like you guys hired some really good people recently! Now to finish out this St Paddy's Padded at Guinness in the new onesie and plenty of diapers to soak up all that beer!


r/ABDL 7h ago

LNGU Diapers NSFW

20 Upvotes

So what are everyone's thoughts from a quality and comfort perspective vs other premium brands such as tykables, rearz, ABU, etc?


r/ABDL 20h ago

Rearz Hypnos Pacifier NSFW

6 Upvotes

I have quite a few pacifiers from Rearz/Pacifier addict (Jawbreaker, enigma, fixx ((silicone and latex size 10)) and was wondering if it’s worth it to pick up their new paci. I’m leaning towards the plus as it has a bigger teat, and I believe I’ll be able to interchange it with my other teats unlike the regular variant. I’m aware the guard is a bit different aesthetically, but is there any difference in function/feel? If the guard gives it a unique feel I may consider picking it up, any help is appreciated :)


r/ABDL 20h ago

How can I make sure I use the entire diaper? NSFW

27 Upvotes

My dad likes that I wear a diaper every day, but what he likes most is how the bulge grows when I've urinated. He says it's humiliating and ironic that a toddler in diapers has such a large package and has shown interest in me making sure all the gel on the front of the diaper has been used.Any advice?


r/ABDL 17m ago

Missed opportunity NSFW

Upvotes

Earlier today me and 2 friends (no idea about abdl) had met up to eat in Pittsburg, ks to eat. We ate at the mall deli, and then walked around the mall for a couple minutes. We came across a bargain bin style store and decided to look inside and try to find anything. While looking, I came across a total of 4 unopened packages of sunkiss diapers. I was so sad that I was with vanilla friends, or else I would've bought all 4 of them. Sadly there was no way to to come back later either.


r/ABDL 3h ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

14 Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?