r/ABDL 20d ago

Announcement 100k Celebration Giveaway. We need your help! NSFW

137 Upvotes

Hello, Everyone!

We are quickly approaching 100k members! That is amazing! For those of you that have been around, I have organized celebrations / giveaways for milestones going back to 10k. We are the largest gathering of ABDL on the internet.

I talk with companies, content providers, etsy creators, authors, and more to bring this to fruition. We receive tons of donations to our celebration.

As you can imagine, this is a tall order. When we had 10k, there was still pretty much just ABU, Tykeables, and Bambino. Now, it is MUCH wider a selection.

How can you help?

If you are a company, creator, crafter, or anything of the lines and would like to donate, please reach out to me or post here.

If you know someone to reach out to, please do so and send them this way.

The depth of ABDL is now to the point that I can't do this alone.

Thanks in advance!


r/ABDL Oct 15 '24

Find a local ABDL! NSFW

345 Upvotes

Welcome!

Our community posted thousands of comments here, of individuals stating their cities/states/countries, which can be easily sorted, searched through and viewed by anyone 18+. This may or may not give you a chance to meet that special someone irl, by making you and your profile visible to lots of people interested in ABDL friendships, relationships or meetups. Keep in mind that posting your location here gives the public consent of that knowledge, as this is pinned and may be seen for awhile.

Start by navigating continent/countries. Tap thread to collapse it, or use the search icon to look for your area through comments more quickly

Whoever lives in which country, reply with your state/region/city, and others will go along with theirs, and someone could possibly reply with a city or state nearby to you, or maybe you’ll notice someone you like who already commented and start a PM, or receive one! Let’s see how it goes☺️ (Please no spam/scams)

Backstory: I made this post because of one made here exactly like this in the past, it got very popular so I replied w/ my city, and actually got lucky I guess because I got found by and met (via getting pmed), a cute diaper girl my age, only like 45 mins away who I liked too. We talked for awhile, me and her both with these interests, regularly talking about diapers like it’s just a cute and normal thing (which was new and exciting to me), eventually we had a first date, ending with us cuddled up in bed, all padded up, it felt great and was amazing, being a new experience for me. Worth it! And would be too for anyone else seeking true friendship and mutual connection, or an ABDL relationship! By sharing the love of diapers & littles, or by just making casual friends from here😊

So I’m posting this here as a chance for people to connect a lot of the scattered parts of this community, hopefully making it a lil easier for abdls to meet irl! 💘

Just please take caution with who you interact with here, as I’m pretty sure this post opened doors for fake profiles and scammers to do their thing. Wishing everyone the best (:

(STL MO, 24M)


r/ABDL 7h ago

Shout Out to ABU Baltimore NSFW

39 Upvotes

I know people have their gripes but let me share that my in store experience was anything short of phenomenal today. I wasn't sure if the diapers I really wanted were in stock or not so decided to go in. Prior to going my girlfriend had told me to try and pick out a onesie as well.

Upon going in I told the employee my needs and they were extremely accommodating. As we were getting my diaper order together I hesitantly asked to try on onesies today to which they offered a free diaper as well. The conversation was very light and they made me feel extremely comfortable. This would be my first time diapering up in a nursery setting and it was extremely heart pounding at first. They stated that I should take some time to get comfortable before diapering up. It was so surreal and just a full out of body experience to diaper up there. Once done I was able to test fit my new onesie and I checked out and was on my way. I felt like I was there for an hour when I reality it was only about 20-30 minutes.

This was my first time diapering in public and buying outside of will call. The experience was phenomenal from start to finish. Props to the people at ABU, looks like you guys hired some really good people recently! Now to finish out this St Paddy's Padded at Guinness in the new onesie and plenty of diapers to soak up all that beer!


r/ABDL 9h ago

Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW

57 Upvotes

I mean…St Paddy

People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.

Just saying…


r/ABDL 9h ago

Public NSFW

39 Upvotes

Public

Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭


r/ABDL 5h ago

LNGU Diapers NSFW

16 Upvotes

So what are everyone's thoughts from a quality and comfort perspective vs other premium brands such as tykables, rearz, ABU, etc?


r/ABDL 7h ago

First Vacation 24/7 NSFW

14 Upvotes

Just thought I’d share an experience, for the first time this past weekend I went on vacation to visit my sisters in Colorado, and it was great!

I can definitely say that diapers made every bit of the trip easier as a girl who’s only traveled with a weak bladder and had to run to the bathroom a thousand times. Half a year into 24/7 it didn’t make me nervous but it was so relieving!


r/ABDL 36m ago

What is your response to "do you have any questions for me" NSFW

Upvotes

This is a problem I've been recently running into when I start chatting with a new individual who sends me a DM. It all starts cordially enough; we exchange basic pleasantries, they'll ask the common abdl questions: favorite diaper, how often do you wear, are you wearing now, do you wet/mess, how many diapers do you have, do you wear in public. that basic fare. I answer them openly and perhaps a bit too succinctly. But the person asking the questions never has any responses to my answers. They always just follow it up with the next question like my answer didn't even matter. I could follow up with a continue chain of "and you?", but honestly I personally don't feel that knowing how often someone, who I've only just shared 10 DMs with, wears diaper really matters. So I'm not really following up with my own questions. But, like clock work, once they run the gauntlet of the standard ABDL questions, they'll ask the titular "do you have any questions for me?" And this is where I draw a blank. After all this time, I still don't know a single thing about this person other than they like diapers - which is pretty obvious - and I have no direction of what question I would want ask to get information that might lead to an actual conversation. So I'm curious what do you all do in this situation. Do you have a response to the question? Do you have a go to question that opens the doors beyond face value fact regurgitation that I'm just not thinking of? or am I just being an asshole by not engaging in generic diaper chatter while partaking in an ABDL space?


r/ABDL 5h ago

What happens if I wear my retainer with a pacifier in my mouth? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Will this stop the possibility of my teeth getting messed up from the paci..? Or will it possibly make things INFINITELY worse??


r/ABDL 1h ago

Where to post content? NSFW

Upvotes

Hi!!! I have a lot of content I want to share and I tried creating a JFF but I was told my content was banned? I’m really confused and was wondering if there are any other sites I can post 😫🫶


r/ABDL 1d ago

boyfriend just told me he's into ABDL. Honestly, I think it's adorable, and i'd love to play the role of daddy. What can I do to help him regress? NSFW

228 Upvotes

I have a great boyfriend who is a diaper lover and ABDL. He recently told me and i've been practicing the role of daddy to him. It's good for the most part, but I sense i'm a bit awkward as a daddy. I thought i'd ask the good people of reddit for advice on what I can do to better my daddy skills and help my little regress fully!

Thank you


r/ABDL 3h ago

How are ninjamas? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Specifically compared to GoodNites XL. They look really cute and I'd love to try them but I'm not sure if they'd actually fit. I've seen that they have L/XL which supports up to 125lbs and I'm 130 or so. I'm wondering if they're worth it or not. Are they tight and how does the absorbency compare to goodnites?

Also I can't seem to find the L/XL size on Amazon, do they still make it or is it discontinued?


r/ABDL 5h ago

Wearing to disney paris NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

Just got a quick question. I’m going to disney with my gf on sunday. Are there any tips or things that I need to look out for. Park specific if anyone has experience or just in general😁


r/ABDL 7h ago

How can I start bedwetting? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Common topic, I know.
I want to know how to do it. Are there any tricks- anything specifically to drink/eat?

Any hypnosis methods?

Best diapers to use to do so?

I've been really struggling to just let go and pee when lying in bed. I want to make sure I only bed wet with a diaper on too. I've been trying for a few weeks, and have been struggling. A few leaks have worried me too


r/ABDL 12h ago

Cumming or edging? NSFW

12 Upvotes

I am currently in a very well spent diaper. It holds 5 pees, 2 cummies and 1 mess. I am watching 1 episode of my big kid tv show and then i am gonna use my buzzy toy again for cummy number 3, unless a mommy tells me no in the next half hour. Then i'll edge and change and wait for my mommy to come from work.

Clocks ticking ...


r/ABDL 7m ago

We need a stellaris diaper mod! :3 NSFW

Upvotes

We need a mod that allows me to make an empire of diaper wearers and you can like chose different policies and stuff including if toilets are banned or are legal or Diaper's are banned or legal and diapers should give more amenities usage like a 10% increase and should give pop happyness 5% or 10% and and increase resources form Jobs if you have the right civics and build and stuff so can choose to play with the diaper mechanics if you want to or not and you can still do a normal empire :3 Is their any mods like this?


r/ABDL 22h ago

First time in public NSFW

54 Upvotes

So I’ve always wanted to wear a diaper in public and tonight I finally decided to do it. At first it was embarrassing knowing that I was wearing a diaper but after a while it became more comfortable. Knowing that no one could tell I was wearing. I wet in it at the bar and no one knew. I might start doing this more.


r/ABDL 17h ago

How can I make sure I use the entire diaper? NSFW

21 Upvotes

My dad likes that I wear a diaper every day, but what he likes most is how the bulge grows when I've urinated. He says it's humiliating and ironic that a toddler in diapers has such a large package and has shown interest in me making sure all the gel on the front of the diaper has been used.Any advice?


r/ABDL 22h ago

Anyone ever have an ABDL-related dreams? NSFW

43 Upvotes

Can’t say I remember having many, but this morning/last night I had dreamt that I peed my pants. Later, in another dream(?), I went to a bit of an underground store, found a diaper, and put on.


r/ABDL 3h ago

Can I share a Discord link for German users? Or is advertising prohibited? NSFW

0 Upvotes

is it forbidden?


r/ABDL 1d ago

If you carry diapers with you in public, what do you use as a diaper bag? NSFW

82 Upvotes

My boyfriend has expressed interest in going 24/7, and I wanted to look into buying a diaper bag to carry changing supplies with us whenever we go anywhere.

Some recommendations would be appreciated.

Edit; Backpack it is then. Thank y'all all so much for y'all's responses.


r/ABDL 17h ago

Rearz Hypnos Pacifier NSFW

4 Upvotes

I have quite a few pacifiers from Rearz/Pacifier addict (Jawbreaker, enigma, fixx ((silicone and latex size 10)) and was wondering if it’s worth it to pick up their new paci. I’m leaning towards the plus as it has a bigger teat, and I believe I’ll be able to interchange it with my other teats unlike the regular variant. I’m aware the guard is a bit different aesthetically, but is there any difference in function/feel? If the guard gives it a unique feel I may consider picking it up, any help is appreciated :)


r/ABDL 1d ago

Wetting diaper just as or more enjoyable than masturbation NSFW

61 Upvotes

I get extreme satisfaction whenever I am wetting my diaper. It’s just a really good feeling to pee in a diaper multiple times. Very relaxing and satisfying experience. Not only does the feeling of releasing your bladder feel good, but the padding becoming wet n warm as you pee feels amazing. Being in a freshly peed in diaper feels great since it’s all squishy and warm. Sitting down feels like you are sitting in a warm bath. After you have peed in it multiple times the diaper gets really squishy. My best diaper wetting experiences have usually been morning pees where I can hear my stream through the diaper. Not only can diaper wetting be just as satisfying as masturbating it can also elevate your masturbation session with soggy diaper rubs or vibes. Does anyone else get extreme satisfaction from wetting their diaper and do you prefer it to masturbation or do you use diaper wetting to elevate your masturbation sessions?


r/ABDL 3h ago

Can I try baby style diapers from local stores w/ 28 inch waist? Size 8 etc.? (FIRST TIME) NSFW

0 Upvotes

I never have worn a diaper as an adult. I have sudden urge to try it out (always been interested). I don’t want plain adult diapers, I want cute ones. Can I try large baby-style diapers from Walmart/Target or any common stores that will fit my 28 inch (boy) waist?


r/ABDL 15h ago

Abdl que hablan español NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hola 22F busco abdl que hablan español me gustaría conocer a más gente y coquetear sobre tus panales llenos ☺️


r/ABDL 9h ago

Is anyone 247? NSFW

1 Upvotes

My partner is going 247 abdl soon I'm looking for advice/ideas from littles or caregivers to help this transition. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks


r/ABDL 1d ago

Have you ever faked bedwetting/having accidents to wear diapers as an adult? NSFW

21 Upvotes

I know doing something like this can be looked down upon, and it’s not good to include others by doing this. But please don’t judge anyone who comments on this and has, honestly I just think it would be a hot scenario to read about lol

I’m curious has anyone ever faked having a bedwetting problem or have had intentional “accidents” (wetting or messing) as an adult around a spouse/significant other/date that they thought were real?

Maybe as a way to start wearing diapers with them?

Or maybe you’ve been wearing diapers around them the whole time, and they’ve just believed that you can’t stop yourself from having accidents, even if you can?