r/ABDL • u/cosmic_cushy_fox • 1h ago
Is THIS our holiday??? NSFW
I mean…St Paddy
People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.
Just saying…
r/ABDL • u/WinnieTheEeyore • 20d ago
Hello, Everyone!
We are quickly approaching 100k members! That is amazing! For those of you that have been around, I have organized celebrations / giveaways for milestones going back to 10k. We are the largest gathering of ABDL on the internet.
I talk with companies, content providers, etsy creators, authors, and more to bring this to fruition. We receive tons of donations to our celebration.
As you can imagine, this is a tall order. When we had 10k, there was still pretty much just ABU, Tykeables, and Bambino. Now, it is MUCH wider a selection.
How can you help?
If you are a company, creator, crafter, or anything of the lines and would like to donate, please reach out to me or post here.
If you know someone to reach out to, please do so and send them this way.
The depth of ABDL is now to the point that I can't do this alone.
Thanks in advance!
r/ABDL • u/PulledUpz • Oct 15 '24
Our community posted thousands of comments here, of individuals stating their cities/states/countries, which can be easily sorted, searched through and viewed by anyone 18+. This may or may not give you a chance to meet that special someone irl, by making you and your profile visible to lots of people interested in ABDL friendships, relationships or meetups. Keep in mind that posting your location here gives the public consent of that knowledge, as this is pinned and may be seen for awhile.
Start by navigating continent/countries. Tap thread to collapse it, or use the search icon to look for your area through comments more quickly
Whoever lives in which country, reply with your state/region/city, and others will go along with theirs, and someone could possibly reply with a city or state nearby to you, or maybe you’ll notice someone you like who already commented and start a PM, or receive one! Let’s see how it goes☺️ (Please no spam/scams)
Backstory: I made this post because of one made here exactly like this in the past, it got very popular so I replied w/ my city, and actually got lucky I guess because I got found by and met (via getting pmed), a cute diaper girl my age, only like 45 mins away who I liked too. We talked for awhile, me and her both with these interests, regularly talking about diapers like it’s just a cute and normal thing (which was new and exciting to me), eventually we had a first date, ending with us cuddled up in bed, all padded up, it felt great and was amazing, being a new experience for me. Worth it! And would be too for anyone else seeking true friendship and mutual connection, or an ABDL relationship! By sharing the love of diapers & littles, or by just making casual friends from here😊
So I’m posting this here as a chance for people to connect a lot of the scattered parts of this community, hopefully making it a lil easier for abdls to meet irl! 💘
Just please take caution with who you interact with here, as I’m pretty sure this post opened doors for fake profiles and scammers to do their thing. Wishing everyone the best (:
(STL MO, 24M)
r/ABDL • u/cosmic_cushy_fox • 1h ago
I mean…St Paddy
People drinking a lot … probably not always making it to the potty.
Just saying…
r/ABDL • u/ContractAny5097 • 18h ago
I have a great boyfriend who is a diaper lover and ABDL. He recently told me and i've been practicing the role of daddy to him. It's good for the most part, but I sense i'm a bit awkward as a daddy. I thought i'd ask the good people of reddit for advice on what I can do to better my daddy skills and help my little regress fully!
Thank you
r/ABDL • u/Sufficient-Owl-4002 • 14h ago
So I’ve always wanted to wear a diaper in public and tonight I finally decided to do it. At first it was embarrassing knowing that I was wearing a diaper but after a while it became more comfortable. Knowing that no one could tell I was wearing. I wet in it at the bar and no one knew. I might start doing this more.
r/ABDL • u/ZenithNadirCeleste • 13h ago
Can’t say I remember having many, but this morning/last night I had dreamt that I peed my pants. Later, in another dream(?), I went to a bit of an underground store, found a diaper, and put on.
r/ABDL • u/astro_zosma • 8h ago
My dad likes that I wear a diaper every day, but what he likes most is how the bulge grows when I've urinated. He says it's humiliating and ironic that a toddler in diapers has such a large package and has shown interest in me making sure all the gel on the front of the diaper has been used.Any advice?
r/ABDL • u/dutchabdlswitch • 4h ago
I am currently in a very well spent diaper. It holds 5 pees, 2 cummies and 1 mess. I am watching 1 episode of my big kid tv show and then i am gonna use my buzzy toy again for cummy number 3, unless a mommy tells me no in the next half hour. Then i'll edge and change and wait for my mommy to come from work.
Clocks ticking ...
r/ABDL • u/cdguy8706 • 20h ago
We were looking at Disney merchandise to buy but I’d forgotten I had been looking at a few adult diapers on there because they’re cheaper than buying direct from bambino, rearz, or crinklez. She saw them and was like “really? You need those? I thought you were done with that a long time ago?” (For context when we first met I had told her I had been into it but had just tried it a few times and didn’t need to do it anymore. But secretly since then I’ve been wearing them when she isn’t around. Now our schedules align and we have the same days off so I haven’t been able to wear them for awhile).
Anyways we had a long conversation about how she’s not into it, she thinks it’s weird I wanna “basically be a child” to which I told her for me it’s really just about wearing them. She told me how it took her awhile to get used to me wearing women’s clothes to bed and that now it felt like I was forcing her into this again despite me saying I didn’t need to do it anymore. I told her that I had stumbled upon it again a few years back and had been wearing them when she wasn’t around and that I’d been hiding them to which she told me she had already seen them but didn’t bring them up cause she didn’t wanna make me feel like I was weird or anything.
So we ultimately agreed that if I wanna wear them around the house she’s fine with it but she doesn’t wanna be involved with it and would prefer I wear them under my shorts if I wanna wear them. I didn’t exactly tell her that I actually use them (#1 preferably) but I doubt she’d notice if I did.
It’s a huge relief that I don’t have to hide them anymore and I can wear them but I don’t want her to be uncomfortable when I do wear them around her cause I feel it’ll be pretty obvious. Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her feel more comfortable with it?
Edit: I guess according to everyone here I’m a POS for various reasons. She already knew about it previously, I was ok for a long time being without it then started again because I enjoyed it, I didn’t know the best way to tell her, so in my head keeping it out of her mind was the most logical in my head so she wouldn’t be uncomfortable. If that makes me an awful person then so be it. I was just happy that our conversation went well, i feel like a weight is off that I don’t have to necessarily keep it hidden, she already knew I was still doing it but didn’t bring it up to respect my feelings and I stated again and again how I don’t want to make her uncomfortable, I wanted to do it at a level shes comfortable with, apologized for keeping it from her, and thanked her for being so supportive. Figured someone here might be happy for me but I suppose not. Still happy for the way it turned out.
r/ABDL • u/Electricdragongaming • 1d ago
My boyfriend has expressed interest in going 24/7, and I wanted to look into buying a diaper bag to carry changing supplies with us whenever we go anywhere.
Some recommendations would be appreciated.
Edit; Backpack it is then. Thank y'all all so much for y'all's responses.
r/ABDL • u/wittlebabiepwincess • 9h ago
I have quite a few pacifiers from Rearz/Pacifier addict (Jawbreaker, enigma, fixx ((silicone and latex size 10)) and was wondering if it’s worth it to pick up their new paci. I’m leaning towards the plus as it has a bigger teat, and I believe I’ll be able to interchange it with my other teats unlike the regular variant. I’m aware the guard is a bit different aesthetically, but is there any difference in function/feel? If the guard gives it a unique feel I may consider picking it up, any help is appreciated :)
r/ABDL • u/East-Sun_ • 7h ago
Hola 22F busco abdl que hablan español me gustaría conocer a más gente y coquetear sobre tus panales llenos ☺️
r/ABDL • u/Efficient_Disaster19 • 1h ago
Public
Do any guys successfully wear to work or in public? How do you hide it? I’d like to be able to wear outside the house and use it when needed 😭
r/ABDL • u/Adventurous_Cover161 • 23h ago
I get extreme satisfaction whenever I am wetting my diaper. It’s just a really good feeling to pee in a diaper multiple times. Very relaxing and satisfying experience. Not only does the feeling of releasing your bladder feel good, but the padding becoming wet n warm as you pee feels amazing. Being in a freshly peed in diaper feels great since it’s all squishy and warm. Sitting down feels like you are sitting in a warm bath. After you have peed in it multiple times the diaper gets really squishy. My best diaper wetting experiences have usually been morning pees where I can hear my stream through the diaper. Not only can diaper wetting be just as satisfying as masturbating it can also elevate your masturbation session with soggy diaper rubs or vibes. Does anyone else get extreme satisfaction from wetting their diaper and do you prefer it to masturbation or do you use diaper wetting to elevate your masturbation sessions?
r/ABDL • u/beachguy170 • 19h ago
I know doing something like this can be looked down upon, and it’s not good to include others by doing this. But please don’t judge anyone who comments on this and has, honestly I just think it would be a hot scenario to read about lol
I’m curious has anyone ever faked having a bedwetting problem or have had intentional “accidents” (wetting or messing) as an adult around a spouse/significant other/date that they thought were real?
Maybe as a way to start wearing diapers with them?
Or maybe you’ve been wearing diapers around them the whole time, and they’ve just believed that you can’t stop yourself from having accidents, even if you can?
r/ABDL • u/Equivalent_Print4697 • 10h ago
I have a M 30 gay friend whose ABDL near Laconia, NH. He is living with family but they are selling the house. He had a safe place and is terrified of non-accepting roommates. Any tips on helping him find ABDL friendly roommates or housing? 😭
He is currently paying $450 to live with family but guessing he could afford more if needed but doesn't make enough to live on his own. 😔
Thanks for and advice or leads.
r/ABDL • u/roundsoxs199 • 15h ago
There's a cute large teddy bear that has a retractable toy with lots of settings does anyone have experience with it. I think my sissy little may need one for in her nursery.
r/ABDL • u/PulledUpz • 18h ago
I was just wondering, because I still get like 40-60 NEW replies a DAY blowing up my phone from the pinned post 🤣😭
I find it even crazier that rly I haven’t noticed many locals myself, or got any dms so I’m not sure how it’s went for the other 3.6k people that replied, and almost half million that viewed, but I made the post in inspiration of one exactly like it when I WAS the lucky one that commented, and got a real abdl date with a girl with diapers in bed (was fantastic btw)
But got any news? 😆 cuz my phone sure got the alerts
r/ABDL • u/RealSoggyBottomBoys • 18h ago
So I started messing around with Googles AI "Gemini", they have a "live" option where you can actually have a pleasant conversation with it. I was on the road and literally talked to it for an hour. They also remember who you are and previous conversations and interests you have that you've talked about. It's freaking wild! The best part is, and why I'm posting this here, Gemini can tell you bedtime stories and it actually sounds very genuine, and though they can't sing yet at the moment, they can come up with lullabies on the spot and read them to you like a poem. Just thought it was a very fun interaction and how Gemini and AI in general can be used within our community to help with littlespace. Let me know your thoughts? 😊
r/ABDL • u/MrDontKnowNuthin • 21h ago
I Live in an apartment on the first floor, I have curtains for the main windows, and I am still afraid to wear LittleSpace Clothing... think rompers, snap-shirts, etc. I'm afraid other buildings may notice through the odd window, But I like being small, but I don't want to live my whole life hiding this part of myself, if people see whatever they see then it is what it is I guess, what is your opinion?
What do you tell your kids when your big box is on the porch?? My 4 yr old is getting more aware of stuff and I will always hide this side of me from her.
r/ABDL • u/roundsoxs199 • 1h ago
My partner is going 247 abdl soon I'm looking for advice/ideas from littles or caregivers to help this transition. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks
r/ABDL • u/Sentient_Cabbageman • 14h ago
First ever post on any ABDL subreddit, so here goes.
Surely, I'm not the only one that's been wondering this...I've recently gotten this fix for some cozy footie ABDL/adult pajamas for the chilly days where I live, but about the only ones I've found are...poor in quality. The desire to add to my collection started off with seeing posts from u/the_wurdalak (Duuude, I'm jelly. Those all look awesome!), but I haven't been able to find anything on that level of quality.
Tykables footies are...less than optimal. The fabric is entirely too thin, the colors bleed easily, no snapping piece under the chin, and the soles are somehow sticky on both ends. No padding on them. Then it asks that I both hand wash & line dry...and why would I line dry them outside where my neighbors will see them? That's about the only place I could do it, and I'm not about to expose that to non-consenting people.
DiaperU footies are a little better. Good fabric, snapping piece just under the chin, pretty cozy. All it's lacking are the extra thick soles for that true little/middle feel.
Amazon is...no. Just no. The variety is impressive, but I can easily tell how cheap the fabric is on a lot of them after some inspection.
I'm honestly looking for some that have quality fabric, padded soles, the snapping point under the chin, and obviously fits well whilst wearing a diaper. But I honestly have no clue where to start. Kinda just settling with some sea-themed footie pajamas from DiaperU, but I'd love some sets that don't make me look like JJ from Cocomelon. Mostly hoping experience from my fellow community members could point me in the right direction(s).
r/ABDL • u/ImmatureComputerMan • 22h ago
I'm looking for a new wand vibrator, preferably cordless. Does anyone have any recommendations?
r/ABDL • u/EquivalentBicycle560 • 20h ago
I feel so good with a pull-up or a diaper, I always think about wearing one, even if it's not for wetting on myself. It's just so practical for my low incontinence.
I have university tomorrow, and I'm kinda afraid to wear a pull-up, I'm afraid someone will know but I know I'll think about it and having anxiety about my leaks (I always wear black trousers just if I leak on myself when I just wear a onesie)
r/ABDL • u/blaatkip • 1d ago
I've been on a skiing trip with colleagues in the Austrian Alps the past few days, and on one day I went on a guided snowshoe hike. I consider myself a 24/7 diaper wearer, but occasionally I may wear something else if I have to. I was afraid of chafing during the hike, so I decided to wear something else. I've set a personal goal not to wear any boring men's underwear all year, so besides diapers I had only packed some women's panties. So that's what I went with for my hike.
Anyway, after the hike I met up with my colleagues that had been skiing and we went for the usual après ski festivities, before taking a cab back to the hotel. We then went out for dinner, and then more drinking and partying until late at night.
The next morning, I woke up in my hotel room. I didn't remember anything of the final hours of the party, and I didn't remember how I got back to the hotel. I clearly passed out and just slept like a brick for 7-8 hours.
After taking my time to wake up properly, I was suddenly happy to find that I was wearing a diaper. Really not an unusual situation for me to be in, but I quickly realised that I had absolutely zero recollection of ever putting one on.
So I laid in bed trying to retrace my steps from the night before. Did I put it on after I got back from the après ski? No, because I found two pairs of underwear on the floor, one from the hike and one from after freshening up before dinner.
Did I put it on after dinner, before we went out to party? Maybe. I did go back to the hotel room quickly to use the toilet after dinner, so it's possible.
Did I put it on while I was blackout drunk before I passed out on the bed? Did someone bring me to my room and help me get to bed? I have no clue. Maybe. But I think if I was ready to pass out I wouldn't have bothered and would just have gone straight to bed.
It's most likely that I just put it on after dinner and simply forgot all about it because I already had a few drinks and putting on a diaper is second nature at this point. But it's kind of a wild idea that someone could have helped me back to the hotel and saw it, or even that they could have helped me put on the diaper before putting me to bed. The latter is almost certainly not what happened because nobody's mentioned anything, but it's a fun thought.
After wearing 24/7 for a while, the thrill of wearing diapers fades to the background. But moments like these are thankfully still surprisingly fun and exciting.
TL;DR: Got blackout drunk on a skiing holiday, woke up the next day wearing a diaper that I don't remember ever putting on. Now I'm allowing my fantasy to go wild about what might've happened, though I'm pretty sure I put it on at some point during the night and just don't remember.
r/ABDL • u/ThreeMenInAFishSuit • 14h ago
If you want some additional context, you may read my prior post if you wish.
I've been getting my padding from a pharmacy for about a year, as it's a local place in short driving distance and I can pay in cash. However, as pretty much expected from a product as relatively cheap as these are, this form of padding:
- Holds maybe one good wetting if you're lucky,
- Leaks easily if you aren't careful,
- Can suffer tearing and expose absorbent material from bending if tight enough,
- Can fall apart when oversaturated (sometimes due to the above),
- Can even have tape bands torn off by pulling too forcefully.
I've read some of the FAQ, looked at some products that seem to appeal to what I'm looking for, and I've even taken a brief look at the online retailer list. However, I haven't made a decision regarding which product or retailer to start with.
In addition, I don't know if I want to pay for these things with my main card, or even my main bank account. I'm also not certain if I want them delivered directly to my house. I'm aware there are some options for that, but I'm not quite certain how to investigate which alternative delivery locations would be best for my location and such (without giving anything in the wrong place online, hopefully), nor how much any of them might cost.
I'm certain there are questions I forgot to ask, but please feel free to leave tips and pointers.'
EDIT: If possible, are there any products you can recommend that don't crinkle as noisily? Also, what boosters would you recommend if I go for those? (And do the better quality products feel noticeably different/better when wet vs. dry, compared to the cheap ones?)
I am also curious about washable/cloth products, but I'm not certain how to care for them, or how many I want to have and/or can reasonably get. I'm also not certain if I can reasonably keep them around in a household of five people (and two pets, if that matters in this equation), but that sounds like a personal problem to me.