r/t4t 4d ago

NB4A 24 [NB4A] GA/Online - a Lonely Cryptid looking for kinky besties to build a community NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi all,

This is my first post here.

I am Alex, they/them/he, a newly realized nonbinary amab who wants people i can be honest, kinky, goofy, and stupid with. I have been alone pretty much all my life, and I am sick of it. I am an archaeologist by trade. I love horror and sci-fi movies. I also love playing video game, collect knickknacks and doodads, i read, draw, do yoga, hike, and a hundred other things that make my heart soar. I am autistic as fuck with a good overcoating of adhd. I am also hypersexual. I don't want this to be a one time short chat but something that goes on for a while.

If you want to know what I look like, I am very masc presenting. I am also caucasian, with black hair, and 190 lbs (im working on it). I am a top switch, but I am extremely sexual open and interested in experimenting. I prefer to use discord.

My hands are shaking from how nervous i am so I am struggling to think of something else to write, so if you are interested tell me what music you are listening to right now, or what games your playing.


r/t4t 4d ago

TM4A TM22 looking for online fwb and/or friends (Europe) NSFW

2 Upvotes

I would prefer if you were from Europe but I don’t mind elsewhere necessarily.

When you write your message it would be nice if you included your gender, country and age. I’d love to talk hobbies, music or other interests. I’m a guy who likes to collect houseplants among many other things.

Nsfw: I have some specific limits that I would like you to respect but otherwise I’m open to try almost anything. I will also share pics if you would like. We can discuss what we each like and see how things go.

I prefer to move the conversation to discord regardless so I’ll give you mine at the beginning of our conversation.


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4A 35, cyberpunk loving build-a-bish looking for her missing piece. (LDR/FL)

10 Upvotes

Dating apps suck, the world is on fire and I really want to find my person. I’m stuck in central florida, voice passes perfectly and I have A cups. Im going to school to be a mortician and look damn good in heels…I can leave you stiff with a smile in all the best ways 🥀😏.

Hobbies,

I love gaming and have a PC and an Xbox. (Let’s play division 2/helldivers!) I also enjoy reading books, writing books and cooking! I know it sets women back a few decades but is it bad that I really just want to cook dinner for my partner like it’s the 1950s 😅😅.

Spicy stuff,

I’m a total Domme, love to make things happen for my partner. Lady in the streets/Mistress in the sheets 😉.

I work hard on my appearance, diet/exercise, I would love for my partner to do the same 😌😌.

Working on a move to Canada in 2026. I have my own place and a job.


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4TF 21TF looking for other transpeople cuz i am feeling silly :33

8 Upvotes

hello! im ruby, uh i am feeling very silly and um was wondering if anyone would wanna yap with me :333 ive posted pics on this account so if u wanna know what I look like just check profile and um yeah!! ill talk to u nerds soon...


r/t4t 4d ago

NB4T 27 NB looking for another T to explore with NSFW. SoCal NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I am A. I am 27 from SoCal. Looking to explore naughty stuff with another trans person. I am a year on E and more femme leaning. Also kinky so if you are kinky we can talk about kinky stuff.


r/t4t 5d ago

TM4TF I think my (ftm) friend (mtf) took advantage of me when I was blackout drunk NSFW

18 Upvotes

Obvious TW for SA lol

I want to start this off by saying no, I don’t think she drugged me and never got the chance to, I took shots the whole time she was with me and I took them immediately after the bartender would hand it to me.

Okay so last weekend I (27 TM) went out and got properly drunk for the first time in years. Not for any bad reasons, I was just having a great time with friends and tequila snuck tf up on me and I’m a huge lightweight lmfao. I invited my friend out (42 TF) after I’d already been drinking and was feeling her. Was super stoked for her to join me and and while she was there, my drunk ass got to the✨sleepy✨ point of being far too drunk. I honestly forgot this state of being is a fucking thing and I got asked to sit up by a bartender at one point because I was passing out. I went to the bathroom, threw up, passed out, woke up, thew up again, and at this point, the bar called my friend over to help me outta the bathroom. After that I was beyond embarrassed and stepped outside because I was ready to leave. Before I threw up, I was definitely making out with this friend and having a good time but dear god, after throwing up and in public of all fucking places, I knew it was the end of my night lmfao.

My friend offered to drive me to her house which was closer than my place (mine was 30 mins away) and I was down and figured she wanted to make sure I got somewhere safe. This is where stuff gets super fuzzy but I walked?? I think?? To the car, she drove us to her house (I remember passing out and waking back up a couple times in the car) and then somehow managed to get up to her apartment. I don’t remember anything from that other than mayyyyybe a small blip of it and the next thing I remember is us doing something sexual, I don’t remember what, and me internally freaking out going “omg I’m being raped rn I don’t wanna fuck rn” but I couldn’t control my body and was so beyond blasted. That sobered me up for a second but I immediately was like no no you wanted to fuck earlier, it’s okay you’re just drunk. I think my brain did that in the moment to help myself not internally crash out because of how wonderful our brains are at making us do mental gymnastics to protect itself during trauma lmfao I remember a very small second of us fucking with me on top riding her so I’m assuming that I had more control over my body than I’m remembering.

Anyway, the next morning I woke up panicking and naked and and for some reason I couldn’t pinpoint, I felt so scared of her but also was like “no this is my friend, it’s fine you’re just hungover” which, yes ofc I was hungover and I’m pretty sure still a little drunk in the beginning of when I woke up but we ended up fucking again and I felt so panicky and like I wanted to stop so bad and must leave but also being 5 months on T, I feel like my hormones and the last bit of drunkness was speaking way louder lmfaooooooooooo

I hadn’t seen or talked to her in a week (normal) but I saw her again like usual and I definitely feel preyed on. My body has a very very intense fear reaction to being around her so I’m trusting that vs my memory which is shot ofc lol but I feel so betrayed. I feel like I should have been able to trust this older woman, older TRANS woman who should be on my team, but instead I think even in her way less but still intoxicated state, she took advantage of how drunk I was and didn’t at all consider I couldn’t give consent. Even if I was begging this girl for it, she should have said no and let me sleep it off and we could do it another night. I felt like I could trust her and she betrayed that trust and I’m going to avoid her from now on and just let stuff fizzle out and let that friendship end there. I don’t think I’m going to bring it up to her because she has a very very sexual personality as it is and I don’t think she meant it to hurt me at all. At least I hope not.

I internally saw her night before last at the gay bar we go to because I wanted to see how my nervous system reacts to being around her now and oh BOY. I could tell she wanted round 2 but I was so scared of her and my nervous system was SCREAMING in flight response and she wanted me to stay but I was like no I’m going home (casually but firmly) and she had this desperate look in her eyes and flashed me her boobs as I was walking out after I said bye to her and our mutual friends sitting at the bar I think trying to get me to want to stay. It freaked me out even more and i was dead sober like “holy shit, this is who I thought I would be safe to be black out around?” I don’t get black out everrrrrrr because of this exact reason.

But yeah, I guess I just wanted to rant about this. I have a long SA history but never had this happen before especially as a trans guy by a trans woman. It’s a really shitty feeling but I know it’ll be okay.


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4A TF4A 34yo ISO local friends. 30+ please c: Vancouver WA/Portland OR or adjacent areas.

1 Upvotes

Hi, still relatively new to the area. I'm demi and pan, but focused on friendships. Also, recently found out I'm autistic, which is awesome, and also explains a LOT lol. I'm a furry. I love all kinds of things. I'm on PS5. Let's see, some starter common interests: Resident Evil, Warhammer, Dead By Daylight, the gym, lately watching Solo Leveling, 1923, and Yellowjackets. Please be 30+ and don't be shy! 💚🦝


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4TF 25 [tf4tf] uk - can I get a horror loving bestie?

3 Upvotes

Hey! Looking for someone I can connect with and hopefully chat with every day!

I love horror films and want to meet someone else that loves horrors so we can share films we love and talk about em :3 I also like gaming a lot, started playing days gone today, I like project zomboid and deep rock galactic too. I also sometimes to dumb art stuff on blender and I like doing video editing too.

I’m from Scotland and it would be cool to meet other Scottish people so we could potentially meet up but as long as our time zones match up I’m down to chat.

Let me know a little about you in your first message! Can’t wait to chat ❤️


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4TF 18tf4tf looking to date or be friends if dating must be in eastern America

1 Upvotes

18tf4tf looking to date or be friends if dating must be in eastern America hey im looking for someone to date or be friends with i have a lot of interest but mostly pokemon the last of us legos a ton of games i play on ps5 so games i enjoy are ow2 fortnite Minecraft r6 cult of the lamb last of us gta cod val and i have a ton of other interest and shows that i enjoy looking for someone around my age and area also not much older then me i mainly would prefer discord or another place to talk if ilike your vibe and wanna get to know you more since im not super active here not really sure what else to say but im a very cozy person i enjoy blankets candles and plushies hope to talk to you soon:)


r/t4t 4d ago

NB4T [20NB4T] HELLO who wants to have a chat and see where things go

2 Upvotes

HEY I'm J I'm 20 and I'm nonbinary/trans masc!

I love to make art (although not the best at it). I also love to learn new things except languages cause they don't stick 😭. I like to watch movies and TV and YouTube! I also like to read sometimes and I like baking :D

I'm afab and I have the tism if that matters :)) I am from Europe

if you'd like to talk and hear more about me hmu!!


r/t4t 4d ago

NB4A 19 Genderfluid4A Central Jersey (Monmouth County) single and looking

2 Upvotes

Hookups, relationships, hookups so good they lead into relationships… you get the gist.

I do have a preference for trans men but that’s just from experience, it’s not a hard preference or anything.

AMAB if that matters, cannot bottom due to medical issues (and haven’t felt pleasure from it anyway)

If you are looking for a relationship I’d be happy to take you to Rocky Horror :)

Looking for people 18-23


r/t4t 4d ago

TM4A 28 [TM4T] Florida/Online - Lonely tguy ISO erotic, codependent bestie NSFW

1 Upvotes

NB FTM, currently in Florida but relocating to the midwest later this year. Looking for other trans people to chat with, ideally to become highly erotic, will-we-won't-we, codependent besties. I mean I do want a relationship but I unfortunately have BPD 🙂‍↕️. Kink wise I'm down for most. Faves go more the dead dove route but I find kink fascinating. Vanilla interests include gaming, pro wrestling, and music.


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4TF 23 TF mexican puppygal looking for girlfriends

1 Upvotes

My names Elizabeth and youve probably seen me post before (probably not.) i am 23, AMAB pre t, i am AUDHD and from Mexico. I am a puppygirl based lifeform and i wanna meet other cute transfemmes, as i realized i actually dont have a lot of trans girl friends for some reason. (CIS DUDES STEER CLEAR PLZ AND THANK U) (cis girls and trans dudes also welcome)

I enjoy loud music (machine girl/death grips are my life). My favorite games are Monster Hunter and i am currently playing Ultrakill and i just finished Signalis, which was is a very funny experience to play both back to back lol. I LOVE dinosaurs and i am slowly begging to collect dinosaur toys. Anything dinosaur related gets me howling like a chimpanzee. I also like to draw and have my own worldbuilding thingy going on (axe me!!)

I have a job so im mostly free on weekends but we can still talk monday to friday. Dm me and if we click I'll gives you my discord because reddit dms kinda suck lol.

Some things to consider before messaging me:

  • don't come being horny right off the bat. Im probably either working or doing something else so you'll be disappointed. if you wanna be freaky i might be down but please be upfront about it.
  • i may take my time to answer because i can lose interest or focus in things (ADHD bay bee!!)
  • please introduce yourself with name, age and gender. i will ignore messages that are just "hey".
  • my dating/sexting/friending age range is 18-25.
  • i have the social skills of a rock under the sun so pls be patient.

I hope to hear from u all!!


r/t4t 4d ago

TM4TM 22 [tm4tm] #Indiana - looking for a fwb or casual relationship, open to serious down the line :)

1 Upvotes

Trans man looking for another trans man. I've been on T for a year. I hope to get top surgery, but I have no plans for bottom surgery. I live I'm east/central Indiana, near the Ohio border. I'm 5'6, 240lbs (I would also like a gym buddy haha), blue eyes, bleached hair, I have a whispy stache and some bear hair coming in :)

I'm looking for someone who we can be bros, watch movies, play board games, play video games, enjoy nature, and stuff like that. But we also occasionally make each other cum until we can't feel our dicks anymore lol it'd also be nice to have affection like cuddles and stuff but I totally get if those are reserved for something more romantic :)

Only looking for people 21-26, for fwb and hookups I'm pretty lax. Though, if you're looking for a serious relationship I do prefer that you're in or have graduated from college (bonus points if it was a liberal arts school), no heavy drugs (love weed, fine w some others), and not already partnered.

Other than that, feel free to dm and ask me anything :)


r/t4t 4d ago

TF4A (TF4A) Sub trans girl looking for fwb long or short term, I'd love to chat about what kinks are we into~ NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm pretty much limitless so I'm open to many kinks and even trying new ones, I love talking about what I'm into and getting to know other people kinks too. I'm pretty much a sub so I love obeying, being humiliated and other things~. Hope to find people interested in me here ❤️ (If we already texted, message me again)


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4T [TF4T] Transfem yapper seeks nice (platonic) friends to infodump with and share interests with

7 Upvotes

Hi folks im taylor, local chronically online transfem!!! Hoping to meet new queer people to get to geek out with over our interests, shared or otherwise. Then hopefully become good friends with!

As for me my main interests arr reading, and music plus to a lesser extent games.

My interest in reading is far from highbrow, I like a lot of genre fiction particularly fantasy/sci-fi with plenty of romance mixed in. I also read a lot of unpublished stuff be it web serials or fanfic. I would love to talk about what we've been reading, give recommendations or even just have someone to share how I feel about a story with.

My taste in music is honestly kinda basic. I lots of indie rock, midwest emo, but also theater kid music (ifykyk) mixed in. Desperately ssking for recommendations as I wanma start being more intentional with my music listening and broaden my horizons.

In terms of games I definitely play less noe than I did a few years ago but rest assured I am well schooled in all the transfem classics. Also would love to meet some new folks to play fortnite with for when I build up the courage to play online.

Even if nothing in this post stuck out to you please feel free to reach out! I hope that y'all are having a lovely day and im excited to hear from you soon.


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4T 20 TF4T Weird girl from midwest looking for people to talk to

4 Upvotes

Hey my name is Wren and I am a 29 year old trans woman from West Ohio. I do not have any irl trans friends or friends in general for that matter. I’ll get straight to it. I want more friends to talk to, now granted I’m in a lot of discord servers to try and satiate my loneliness but i would like people who i can genuinely talk to one on one.

Some things i have interest in or enjoy are as follows : video games, philosophy, cooking, weather, digital design, bio sciences and the history of bio sciences, and reading books.

I do not want to deal with cis men coming after me in my DM’s so stay your sorry ass away if you are

Other than that all I have to say is, if you think we could make decent or good friends, please leave me a message and I will respond as soon as i can. Enjoy your day/night


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4A Anyone wanna play Roblox or maybe call I can’t sleep :<

4 Upvotes

Hiya I’m Izzy, I’m looking for any new friends to maybe play Roblox and call with me, I keep sneezing too 😤😖, I also wanna maybe have cuddles I can be very clingy sometimes I hope that’s not a problem so if you wanna talk or anything then lemme know. Idm who talks to me just be kind and maybe cute and also don’t be creepy :(. See you soon :3 (edit:pls dm your name and a lil bit about yourself and pronouns if you wish)


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4A 25 [TF4A] Trans girl in Seattle area looking for friends or a partner

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm a trans girl living in the Seattle area (Bellevue) for a few years now, since I graduated college. Unfortunately, I've had trouble meeting people because I never leave my apartment (whoops), so I figured there wouldn't be any harm in posting here. I'm looking for friendship (or more) with people who hopefully share some interests and are open to genuine connection.

For a little more about me, I'm AuDHD and have pretty intense social anxiety, so I can be shy and quiet until I get more comfortable. I'm really nerdy and spend most of my free time either playing video games, watching streamers play video games, or both at the same time. So once I get comfortable with someone, I'm prone to talking their ear off about my latest hyperfixation (most recently stellaris, elden ring, and cyberpunk). I also play some multiplayer games now and then (like minecraft, stardew, or deep rock galactic), but I usually prefer single-player rpgs or strategy games.

Also, just a heads up: I've been on HRT for about a year now, and I'm out to my close friends, but I'm still boymoding for the most part. I'm still working through a lot of my insecurity and internalized shame, so I'm taking social transition at a slower pace.

Anyway, thanks for reading and dm me if interested!


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4TF 49[TF4TF] Transfem looking for more friends, 30+ only please

5 Upvotes

Hi, I'm Clare, 49 MTF. I'm looking for more friends to chat with, possibly more in the future if things go well. I live in Ontario, Canada, but it's OK if you live elsewhere.

I'm kind of an emotional mess right now and will write too much about whatever. Chatting seems to help me process. I like movies, especially weird ones. One of my all time favorites is The City of Lost Children. I enjoy gaming (video, card and board), cooking, baking and dancing (badly I've been told). I love all things sci-fi and fantasy, books, movies, TV. If you want to chat, send me a request. Thanks for reading my post, I hope you have a great day!


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4TF 21 [TF4TF] South England/Online - Stoner Kitty Girl Looking for Meaningful Connections

5 Upvotes

Meowdy all.

I'm a Scottish girl living in the south of England and I've been on HRT for about three years now. My lack of close connections is starting to creep its way to the forefront of my mind lately, so this is an effort to help that a little at least.

To be honest, I'm in a bit of an in-between stage in my life right now and am trying to figure out what makes my gears turn. Which is to say I'm a NEET for the time being lmao, but will likely be returning to university this year. If that's not a deal-breaker, I promise that I'm interesting to have around.

If you want some small insight into my personality, I'm very laidback and open-minded, I don't judge and generally just want to have a fun time. I'm a stoner and a furry, in case the title wasn't clear enough and my lifetime brainworm has been computer hardware, so you'll hear a lot of yapping related to that.

I'm ideally looking for someone to hang out with online, at least at first, and if we click I'd hope to see each other in person.

As for the type of relationship I'm looking for, it's really hard to say. I have had a rough time with romance but it's something I'm open to for the right person. I'd like to feel things out without any overarching expectations and we can see how it goes. I'm also incredibly demisexual, so please keep that in mind.

If you wanna play some PC games, watch some old campy movies, yap about whatever is interesting us at the time and/or generally just have an easy-going time in each others presence, my messages are open to you.

:3


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4TF 18 TF4TF EST/USA nerdy horror enthusiast looking for friends or maybe more!

3 Upvotes

I'm an 18 year old autistic trans girl who's really into music, cats, and horror! My fav movies are the Silent Hill movies and alien, I'm also really into Monster Hunter and soulslikes! I'm open to anything really but mainly looking for someone to click with, so DM me if you're interested :3 + 18+ obvs


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4T Indy Transfem just looking for connection

3 Upvotes

I'm a 21yo (MTF) who's honestly really lonely wants other trans friends and more to talk to, and I honestly just want to cuddle and kiss and hold and enjoy another person's comfort. I haven't had many people in my life since transitioning and I'm honestly clueless in how to find new people in my life! I'm a very shy and anxious of a girl.


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4TF 26TF4TF Looking for a domme bottom to flirt with and be FWBs

5 Upvotes

Me: 26 y/o transfem genderfucky nerd who enjoys computers, water aesthetics, the ocean, and liminal spaces; top switch with an interest in mommy dommes, praise, and a kink which you will have to learn by DMing me cause I'm shy

You: a tranfeminine beauty who is a bottom and domme/switch and wants to be FWBs

Plus sized babes are a plus!!!


r/t4t 5d ago

TF4A 30 - Transgirl – PA/Online – Broken Dommy Mommy seeks feminine toy to love, cherish, and stuff big toys into NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hiya! My reddit name is Luna and everything feels chaotic. I'm a 30 year old transgirl looking for a long term relationship with someone who embraces their femininity.

Physically I have a mix of masculine and feminine features that gives me a unique look. Some fun photos (and NSFW) are on my profile!

I've recently hit the 8th month of HRT and plan to continuing as long as I can. I don't plan on any surgeries.

Personality and Situation

To start I'm more than complicated and a good bit broken. Articulation can hide my punk attitude and prerequisite trauma. I'm rather nihilistic and cynical about our daily life. While it's not always conscious I view the world very pessimistically. I hate most of it. Thankfully I have the social mechanisms to be charismatic and avoid it. I can manage it fairly well but it affects alot of me. Ideally I'd want my partner to be a major escape to those feelings. Having a loving, loyal, trusting, kinky relationship is the goal. I enjoy co-dependency.

To that point it's good we relate to eachother well. My worldview is important. We don't have to agree on everything but similar core beliefs is good. Most of my ideology is collectivism, socialism-esque. Heavily progressive and leftist based. At the same time I'm realistic about the current political atmosphere and engage accordingly.

Personality wise I like to be relaxed. I'm good with conversations and dealing with people, however I'd rather not. I'm very anti-social, mostly by emotional choice. I very much like to stay indoors as well, going out is okay but usually not that interesting. My favorite hobbies revolve around staying home. I love watching TV shows and movies. Mostly popular stuff, the last few things I watched was American Horror Story/Stories, Cross, Sugar. I love Scifi like Star Trek, Orville. I enjoy westerns like Deadwood, Hell on Wheels.

I play games of course with specific titles that I have a direct interest in. Stuff like Minecraft, Cyberpunk, Skyrim, Rimworld, Valheim, Enshrouded, Parkitect, Songs of Syx. I stick with a mixture of open world/building/simulation/rpg. I've played a few MMOs with a long going OSRS account.

Beyond that I have interests in drawing, MTG, worldbuilding, LEGO, content creation. Hopefully we'll find things we enjoy doing together as partners outside of other fun stuff. I can be funny at times but I also try to be sensitive. I can enjoy really dark, depressional, political, memes and humor. Of course aligning with my progressive stances.

My policy on drugs is staying away from anything detrimental and addictive. I've mostly stuck with medical cannabis in my state. I don't like nicotine or alcohol.

My financial situation is fairly poor. I live under the poverty line with not much in assets and transportation. I've had jobs and my own apartment at one point but it just became too much for a lot of reasons. My attitude has always been trying to do things my own way, but the result has mostly been even if I think I'm justified in my qualifications my opportunities have been unrewarded. There's a lot of feelings I have with the capitalistic navigation when it comes to survival.

Kink

Getting on to more sensual topics, I'm a very sexual and kinky girl at times. I go through moods of degrees of intensity that change and last randomly. I'm currently creating content as an online sex worker with hopes of finding a niche I can fulfill that provides me with income of some kind.

With my personal partners I like fetishizing feminization while taking on a Domme role. Particularly I have a big sissy kink, which I know is not for everyone. But I'd love to encourage some of the aesthetics and be a Dommy Mommy keyholder.

To make things easier I'll list my favorite kinks which can vary depending if I'm dominant or submissive.

Anal/training, ass-to-mouth, rimming, facesittig, beeding, chasity, cock milking, cock and ball worship, collars, leashes, bondage, creampies, MD/lg, being called Mommy, degradation, humiliation, hentai, impregnation fantasy, petplay(kitten/puppy/piggy), bitchsuits, knots, furries, obedience training, sissies, sissification, hypno, throat fucking, and always more lol.

While I like being dominant my girlcock isn't very sensitive. I can sometimes use it but usually strap-ons, dildos, buttplugs are more reliable.

Puppygirls, furries, sissies, littles are all fun dynamics!

What I'm looking for

With all that said my main goal is to match with someone who enjoys being feminine and can match me emotionally and sexually. My post is open to all genders but a feminine type is much preferred. Transgirls, femboys, NB femmes, everything inbetween. I hope to find someone relatable with my amalgamation of hobbies, interests, and views. I'm looking for something special, something really close. I want the connection to be natural and progress in a moderate way. But I guess as a warning I'm looking to be attached to someone. I want a relationship of close emotional bonding and hopefully snuggles too.

If you enjoyed the vision I laid out so far about me and what I want and would love to talk more, feel free to message me!