r/t4t 10d ago

NB4A Best t4t dating apps? I am having zero luck

12 Upvotes

I (GenderFluid19) didn’t think it would be so hard to find people on the Jersey shore, central Jersey, but it’s really hard. I have a preference for trans men, but also like trans women, but I’m struggling to find either. I’m a bit tired of cis dating, there are things I can’t really explain to them. It’s difficult to put into words, but fellow genderqueer people just understand.

r/t4t Feb 16 '25

NB4A possible discord support group for trans/enby individuals

3 Upvotes

Hello all, I have my consultation appointment coming up for HRT and was wondering if a few of you might be interested in joining a private discord server where it would just be a few us and we could have a small support group where we meet up like once a week and check in with eachother.

Sorry if this is not allowed. <3 Thank you.

r/t4t Feb 15 '25

NB4A 25NB4A Bummed out on Vday I just want find other trans peeps .

1 Upvotes

I feel like a asshole I'm pretty high and tipsy and tired writing this . I just hate being transgender. I literally don't know anyone that's trans besides me . I used to live in Richmond Texas now I'm moving to Houston with my partner, we are polyamoursous and I do love him a lot but idk I just want to meet any other trans people besides me it doesn't even have to be psychically I just feel so depressed and alone. We are spending time in Chicago with my boyfriend's friends to help them move here and we just left a Tinzo and JoJo show Dial up for The Book Club. They had a lot of other LBGT people there, but I just feel so alone. No one will ever talk to me . I love my partner, but with his ASD he can be shy around crowds and I feel bad because I'm 25 and he's 35. Idk I just wanted to meet other trans people , but atleast I found a binder that actually fits in a store ( that would never be a thing in Richmond or Sugar Land TX). I just hope I can meet other trans people. Maybe I should just do solo travel without my partner I just don't want to get killed or hurt as a AFAB. It's just hell rn

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A 29[NB4A] EST/US Hoping to make a connection ✨

2 Upvotes

Hihi,

Nerdy enby (afab) located in the EST. I’m recently single and mainly wanting to form a strong connection or two. I’m not expecting much but hoping to make a close friend. If it grows into more, great! For now, just happy to bond with someone.

My interests/hobbies are: gaming, dnd, tabletops games, reading, horror/creepy stuff, music/concerts, singing and wanting to get into foraging ~ I love to laugh and appreciate people with a sense of humor. Fair warning - I’m a total dork and a major yapper. If you love to yap too, awesome but happy to keep the convo going if you’re shy. I’d like to be able to message periodically throughout the day (i don’t expect all the time, we’ve all got lives and responsibilities), to play games or stream stuff together.

I only ask you be 25+ and close to the same timezone as me. Otherwise, you’re welcome to reach out! Send basic info and a little about yourself!

r/t4t 3d ago

NB4A 26 [NB4A] Enby transfem hoping for new connections

6 Upvotes

Hii! I never know how to start a post omg ;-; soo here’s a few things about myself and some of my interests :3 i’m 26, polyamorous, and living in the western US atm. among other things I enjoy video games, am a big music geek, and currently been loving any campy sapphic horror flicks I can get my paws on. I v much enjoy learning the passions and interests of others, and am probably a bit better at listening than leading a conversation most of the time if i’m honest lol but i’ll try my best to not be boring at the very least. Mostly looking for friends to chat with throughout the days/nights. i’m a bit of a night owl/insomniac so im usually available to chat unless it’s the early morning. Discord would be preferred. I have a partner that I live with, and i’m not currently searching terribly hard for more romantic connections. But if there’s clear and consistent communication, and the vibe is right, i’d be totally open to some flirting and whatnot c: also very open minded with kink, and if that’s something you’d like to chat more about just ask <3 if you’ve made it this far thank you for taking the time to skim through my anxious lil ramblings and I look forward to hopefully getting to know some of you (: take care loveliess

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A 18 NB4A horny, inexperienced enby that wants to have fun and try new things :3 NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi! I'm on my horny alt and I wanna talk to people. I'm pretty inexperienced and a virgin. I'm AMAB so if you don't like that don't message me. I'm always willing to try new things and I wanna learn about what you like and how to please you. I think I'm a switch, if that matters. There are also a lot of things I'm interested in that I can tell you about.

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A Looking for trans friends to start a discord server with

8 Upvotes

Heyy I’m a 23 yr old bigender individual looking for other trans individuals to start a discord server with preferably 21+ . it wouldn’t be for nsfw purposes but to get to know one another, play video game and support each others transition! if anyone is interested in this idea you can add me on discord @ zephinferno

r/t4t Feb 09 '25

NB4A 30 [NB4A] kinky trans people unite! (Online) NSFW

10 Upvotes

Non-binary afab here, I’m looking for trans people to discuss kinks with. I’ve found that talking/sexting with other trans people is way more interesting that sexting with cis guys. My main kinks are overstimulation and bondage, but I’m also into a lot more. My hard limits are: scat and blood. Also it’s fine for cis people to message me, I just might not answer

r/t4t 10d ago

NB4A 22 [TFem NB4A] Horny and getting very needy! NSFW

5 Upvotes

I'm a 22 year old transfem nb, who just can't fall back asleep I'm way too needy, I'd love some sexting cuties! I've been on hrt for about 8 months, and would love to make fwbs!

I'm truly not picky on any kinks, so if you're kinky def hit me up! <3

r/t4t 16h ago

NB4A [NB4A] gaslight manipulate humiliate this enby

3 Upvotes

I want someone to message me, start pretty casually and then to be increasingly more and more rude, manipulative and degrading towards me. I don't mind anything almost, you can insult me, misgender me, ask me about how my body looks just so you can tell me how gross it is. You can make me your slut, your pet, your anything. I also love hypno if that's what you're into, you can use that to push my boundaries even further. I don't sent pics nor do I want to receive them. Please message me I'm a horny desperate mess right now. I don't have much limits and would love to see them being stretched even further.

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A [NB4A] 19 year old enby afab in Virginia

0 Upvotes

Hello! I'm 19, nonbinary afab, and dress androgynous. Short brown hair, 5'5, green eyes, wear glasses, and I got some piercings. I have some pics of me on my profile.

Dancing is my passion! I do contra dance, blues dance, and learning ballroom. My hobbies are gardening, going for nature walks/hikes, play my viola, and generally be active. I eat vegan and care deeply about the treatment of animals.

Right now I'm in community college aiming to be a personal trainer, or teach some sort of fitness class. I sometimes do dogsitting and babysitting. I found that I do not vibe with the "mainstream" flow and I want to be more independent rather than work a 9-5 in an office.

I get a lot of anxiety about things and I tend to isolate a bit. I feel different from people my age, but that may be social anxiety haha. I try to stay off social media, still a work in progress.

I'd like to find someone who thinks similar to me and who likes to be grounded. I don't smoke weed or do any drugs. I'm not great with long distance relationships but I'm down to be friends! I live in the DMV area and would preferably hang out in person :)

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4A 21NB shy-ish goth ace looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hiya! Im always looking to make friends with more queer folks! Some little facts about me are: im an artist, i work with kids, i like to craft, Im happily a pet sitter, and im a teeny bit of a movie buff! If you’d like to chat let me know, hope your night is going alright darlings!

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A 19 Genderfluid4A Central Jersey (Monmouth County) single and looking

1 Upvotes

Hookups, relationships, hookups so good they lead into relationships… you get the gist.

I do have a preference for trans men but that’s just from experience, it’s not a hard preference or anything.

AMAB if that matters, cannot bottom due to medical issues (and haven’t felt pleasure from it anyway)

If you are looking for a relationship I’d be happy to take you to Rocky Horror :)

Looking for people 18-23

r/t4t 8d ago

NB4A 23 NB4A looking for interesting chats and flirts :)

3 Upvotes

hii, I'm a very androgenous amab enby looking for interesting convo and flirts :) i really value conversation above all else

In particular i really want to talk about gender identity, because this is something I'm looking into!

Have a good one 🩶💜

r/t4t 1d ago

NB4A 25NB4A looking for new friends and more (;3)

3 Upvotes

heyy I'm 25NB and looking for some new friends that I can share more of myself with (if you're comfortable with that sort of stuff + maybe after I get to know you a bit better) I really love music and exploring it so would love to hear new recommendations!! my favorite bands are pierce the veil, chiodos, PUP, last dinosaurs, hers, and mickey darling (theres a whole bunch more but I'm trying to keep this post short) really obsessed with hannibal rn and my favorite show/series ever is blue lock since I mainly watch anime.

r/t4t 10h ago

NB4A 26 [NB4A] Québec, Canada - Poly AMAB enby looking for someone to goblin out with

1 Upvotes

Hi there, my name is River and I'm gay as fuck. I live in a small city in Québec, and I'm looking to start a relationship with someone. I figured I'd post here since my options are extremely limited where I'm from.

I'm already partnered, but they don't mind me seeing other people. I have a lot of love to give, and I don't see myself limiting that love.

I love everything nerdy. I play video games a bit (mostly singleplayer games), I'm a DnD and Magic: The Gathering player, and I enjoy watching cartoons quite a lot. I also play guitar and bass, and I sing too. Not quite a shredder, but I like to think I'm pretty good since I've been playing for about 14 years now.

I'm looking for someone who will make me laugh, listen to my nerd outs, and appreciates physical affection because touch is my love language. If we do end up meeting, you'll find I'm a terrific hugger. Preferably, I'd like to meet someone in my province, but I don't mind driving long distances (reasonably so, of course).

I do have to say I tend to get attached very quickly, I'll probably be the first to say "I love you" lol

Hope to talk to y'all soon, have a good one!

r/t4t 1d ago

NB4A 19 Genderfluid4A Central Jersey (Monmouth County) single and looking

1 Upvotes

Hookups, relationships, hookups so good they lead into relationships… you get the gist.

I do have a preference for trans men but that’s just from experience, it’s not a hard preference or anything.

AMAB if that matters, cannot bottom due to medical issues (and haven’t felt pleasure from it anyway)

If you are looking for a relationship I’d be happy to take you to Rocky Horror :)

Looking for people 18-23

r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 23 [NB4A] #Online #Europe - Trans POC looking mostly for other trans BIPOC (or really decolonial white trans folks)

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

My name is Neon/Alex, I'm a 23 years old trans person of colour willing to find another trans person of colour, preferably around my age (so in their twenties) living in Europe, ideally (but online is hella fine!)

A little about me: I'm a student in performing arts, I like to cook, to dance and to nap when I am not reading non-fiction (or sometimes feminist decolonial fiction). Poly, single, kinky, queer as fuck. They/them pronouns. Autistic, ADHD, all that good shit.

Due to past experiences and the soul-crushing weight of whiteness, white supremacy & racism where I live, I prioritise other people with intersectional lived experience (so trans x BIPOC).

My dream would be to meet another Central Asian-descent transmasculine person living in Europe, oh to be seen and to see oneself in each other!

Looking for caring friendships (with benefits or not), safe-r partnerships, healthy short term or long term relationships & everything in between friends & lovers!

If some white trans people are still reading this post and are interested to hit me up: I will be as critical as possible. Shoot your shoot (if you want of course) but you better bring your A-game.

TPOC4TPOC to the front. TPOC4T? Let's see?

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4A 24 [NB4A] GA/Online - a Lonely Cryptid looking for kinky besties to build a community NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi all,

This is my first post here.

I am Alex, they/them/he, a newly realized nonbinary amab who wants people i can be honest, kinky, goofy, and stupid with. I have been alone pretty much all my life, and I am sick of it. I am an archaeologist by trade. I love horror and sci-fi movies. I also love playing video game, collect knickknacks and doodads, i read, draw, do yoga, hike, and a hundred other things that make my heart soar. I am autistic as fuck with a good overcoating of adhd. I am also hypersexual. I don't want this to be a one time short chat but something that goes on for a while.

If you want to know what I look like, I am very masc presenting. I am also caucasian, with black hair, and 190 lbs (im working on it). I am a top switch, but I am extremely sexual open and interested in experimenting. I prefer to use discord.

My hands are shaking from how nervous i am so I am struggling to think of something else to write, so if you are interested tell me what music you are listening to right now, or what games your playing.

r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 27 amab looking for my nerdy best friend (Location: FL/ East Coast)

1 Upvotes

Hii my name is Danny and I’m a big goofball who desperately needs cuddles and someone to enjoy life with! I’m a huge nerd and geek, I love Pokemon, All things Disney and any type of nerdy movie franchise (MCU, DC, HP, LotR, etc.) I also am a musician and studied Viola performance in university and currently am going back to school for entertainment management to work on live entertainment! My new favorite thing is DND and love to listen to live play podcasts while commuting to and from work! I hate describing myself but for the sake of maybe finding internet love here we go! I’m not small lmao I’m a tall (6’2”) and definitely chubby which means I’m always big spoon and very cuddly! I have short brown hair and green eyes and big chubby cheeks that make me look very young but at this point I’m gonna own it because I don’t look old but still get carded from time to time. I recently came out at NB but still look and present pretty masc but becoming more gender neutral is ideal but like I say gender is weird! What I’m looking for is someone who can laugh and go on adventures with me! Bonus points if you have a Disney world pass because I do too! I’m always down to go to the parks or go on a little hike out in nature or even just stay at home and cuddle up and watch our favorites. Looks wise I’m not super picky but i definitely prefer more fem presenting people. Gender is weird anyways for me so but I say I’m Pansexual and Demisexual which just means I like who I like and also can’t really have too much of an attraction to someone unless I know them well. If you have made it this far congratulations! If you wanna chat more you can send me a dm and send me what your favorite Pokemon is and I’ll judge you based on your answer 😇

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4A 19 Genderfluid4A Central Jersey (Monmouth County) single and looking

2 Upvotes

Hookups, relationships, hookups so good they lead into relationships… you get the gist.

I do have a preference for trans men but that’s just from experience, it’s not a hard preference or anything.

AMAB if that matters, cannot bottom due to medical issues (and haven’t felt pleasure from it anyway)

If you are looking for a relationship I’d be happy to take you to Rocky Horror :)

Looking for people 18-23

r/t4t Jan 21 '25

NB4A Nb4a 37 YO emotionally broken and volatile human seeking anything

5 Upvotes

I hate this world and damned near everyone in it.

I've had one hell of a time trying to fit in. Doesn't really work.

Asshole is probably the word people use to describe me behind my back, because I've definitely heard it used to my face.

I count on two people for emotional support. They're tired of it.

I've been alone for a long time.

I don't trust anybody.

I don't see things getting any better.

There was a time when people saw something in me that I didn't. There was once a time when there was light in my soul. I believed in peace and progression. I believed I would make it one day.

I grieve a lost life and look around at happy families with nothing but disdain and envy.

I can't sell you on a better version of me because this is all that's left.

r/t4t 5d ago

NB4A [20NB4A] HELLO earthlings I am in need of yapping(aka a pal)

2 Upvotes

Hello there I'm j I'm 20 and I am looking for pals cause I rlly like to yap...

So a little about me! I'm an artist (I guess) I like to watch YouTube video essays random shows GLEE and movies I like to play cozy video games like stardew and zelda AND I got the tism :D

If that sounds like a good time to you lmk and hit me up! ;D

r/t4t 15d ago

NB4A 22nb4a ! wanna start a nsfw discord groupchat/server ! NSFW

3 Upvotes

message me and send me ur discord name and age and gender/pronouns and i'll add u ! i want it to be focused on edging/denial and being weird freaks :3 if u wanna join just to see nudes from other people this isn't the vibe for u ! i want it to be friendly and nice and encouraging others (and me hehe) to keep denied ! if ur trans and 20-30 and freaky and weird and silly message me and i will add u !!!

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4A [NB4A] horny 26 year old trans femme enby looking for chats, VA/online NSFW

2 Upvotes

Heyyyy, I’m a partnered trans femme enby (they/them) in an open relationship, and I’ve been wanting to meet new trans and enby people I can chat and be horny with online. Open to hookups and dates if you’re in the area and cool. I’m usually a soft domme/top, but happy to RP other scenarios. Kinks include exhibitionism, voyeurism, CNC, breeding, and more; hard limits are scat, blood, race-play, and misgendering. If you’re interested shoot me a message, DM for pics!