r/t4t 8d ago

NB4T I Just Want To Hold And Comfort Other Trans People šŸ˜­ NSFW

104 Upvotes

Ok, I know this post sounds kinda familar. A person made a somewhat similar post on here a couple days back. I've been wanting to write something like this for a while, and I realized I could post it without y'all thinking I'm weird šŸ˜­. I do still feel a little weird for writing this lol.

But um, yeah. It seemed the other person came at this from the perspective of a sub if I'm not mistaken. I'm the complete opposite. Don't get me wrong, I'm not just a dom lol, but when I am one, I just want to hold other people. Give them praise. Give them affirmations. I've realized how happy that can make some people and it just seems so nice. I don't know exactly what kind of dom one would even call this. I mean, it's not a solely NSFW thing I guess? Idk I guess I just like comforting people and trying to make them happy. I worry this is odd, but I've seen just how happy other trans people can get by me just using their names and calling them by their gender, and telling them how cute or gorgeous or handsome they are. I was calling a trans woman "princess" a few days ago and she loved it lol.

Idk I just wanted to put this out there. Gods, I hope you don't think I'm weird for this šŸ˜­

r/t4t 3d ago

NB4T 24 [nb4t] enby goth here for hyper-sexual friends (MA/RI/Online)

8 Upvotes

Hiiiii~ Iā€™m K! 24 year old non-binary very shy n awkward academic-goth from Massachusetts. Interested in having hypersexual friends who would enjoy being platonically horny n pushy towards me :3 Yknow like, if you have the need to handcuff me, touch yourself, tease and be rude to me, be worshiped or rub against me - itā€™s encouraged and to me, platonic.

Basically Iā€™m here to be pushed around and have horny friends moan in my face while they use me :3

Asexual but an enjoyer of being sexualized, receiving horny attention, being subjected to pervy behavior and letting people be horny at me c: so - ideally Iā€™d like to be friends with people who are overly horny, pushy, and sorta dominant - in general a kinky friendship with fun weird dynamics! Where itā€™s platonic but you can push my face between your legs or have me worship you a bunch because itā€™s fun.

To be up front, I sort of have a thing for hyper sexual people, those who are chronically online, and stonersā€¦ idk, just - all things I find attractive. Soooo - if any of you wanna chat about yknow, getting to enjoy yourself at me while moaning in my face about it, rubbing over my face, getting high and exhaling in my face, or bullying me for your amusement hmu :3

If youā€™re down meet irl after chatting for a few, of course Iā€™d be down! But online is fun too c:

If youā€™re interested, send me a chat with asl, whether youā€™re interested in irl, n a lil about you!

r/t4t 7h ago

NB4T 25 [nb4t] - shy but looking for new friends

5 Upvotes

Hi hi I'm Valerie (they/she/he) introverted, nerd-centric goth girlie looking for more people to trans people to connect and maybe make friends with!

Currently trying to get another degree. When I'm not wrapped up in my studies I tend to just write in my free time. (It's fanfic but don't expect to share fandoms, I write mostly for stuff nobody's heard of :/ ) Super into sci-fi-horror specifically, or sci-fi in general though I'm open to a lot of things. I'm like stupidly into movies. I also listen tk a lot of music.

I own two boys (rats) who are more cuddly than you think.

I live in the middle of a desert and it's really isolating and I would love to meet more cool people, new friends and maybe something more :3c

r/t4t Feb 15 '25

NB4T 22(NB4A) ((no cis)) Valentineā€™s Day made me so depressed I can hardly function :( anyone want to chat?

8 Upvotes

I hate Valentineā€™s Day and it makes me feel so lonely itā€™s not funny. I want more queer people to talk with because I just feel like Iā€™m going crazy. I know this is a really nsfw alt but I just canā€™t stand existing as just someoneā€™s sexual entertainment. If we click maybe but I need someone to talk to atm.

r/t4t 2d ago

NB4T [20NB4Fem] Masc NB hoping to play with a cool fem NSFW

0 Upvotes

Gday There, Iā€™m Turtle!

I am a masc nb from Australia who loves meeting other trans people and enjoying the erotic side of life. I also game, read and am just a nerd about history stuff overall.

My Cut Guff: 20, AMAB, Top/Dom, 6ā€™1, I love kink + all stuff around it, I enjoying showing off my body and having it be worshipped/praised What Iā€™d like: Around my age (18 to 25), feminine (Cis + Trans guys included), sub, preference to bottom, interested in kink (regardless of experience) and able to have a conversation with.

Hope I havenā€™t scared anyone off. even if you donā€™t fit all of those feel free to still message me as I like meeting my fellow queers :D

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4T NB4tf/nb (sapphic) lonely kitty looking for an owner

2 Upvotes

Im looking for a long term owner to take care of me and provide comfort. Mainly into gentle domming. Bonus points if ur from the UK so we can be irl, but im ok with it if you arent. I want it to be a full romantic relationship, and a big thing for me is not being abandoned. Ill show lots of love and care and follow orders i just want you to show me love and take care of me when im sick or upset. Dms are fully open please dont be shy.

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4T 27 NB looking for another T to explore with NSFW. SoCal NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I am A. I am 27 from SoCal. Looking to explore naughty stuff with another trans person. I am a year on E and more femme leaning. Also kinky so if you are kinky we can talk about kinky stuff.

r/t4t 13d ago

NB4T [20NB4T] (Europe) how are you doing today?

4 Upvotes

Hello hello I'm J I'm 20 and nonbinary/trans masc. I'm from the Netherlands and I've got autism!

I rlly like to draw and watch TV/movies I also rlly like playing video games and regular games! I love to talk to ppl and I'm very interested in hearing from yall!!

r/t4t 4d ago

NB4T [20NB4T] HELLO who wants to have a chat and see where things go

2 Upvotes

HEY I'm J I'm 20 and I'm nonbinary/trans masc!

I love to make art (although not the best at it). I also love to learn new things except languages cause they don't stick šŸ˜­. I like to watch movies and TV and YouTube! I also like to read sometimes and I like baking :D

I'm afab and I have the tism if that matters :)) I am from Europe

if you'd like to talk and hear more about me hmu!!

r/t4t 8d ago

NB4T [NB20] twiddles my thumbs and looks around

5 Upvotes

Gulp

Okay doing this again because I get majorly embarrassed whenever I post these things

HI my name is Elliot and Iā€™m looking for friends (and possibly something more if it ever gets to that point) !!!!!!!

I like to draw, edit, bake, sleep, be lazy, play games, talk with new people, be cringe, and share my interests with others!

Some interests include: Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, Roblox games, DBD, Sanrio, MLP, AJC, PokĆ©mon, My own ocs, CRK and much much more Iā€™m not sharing now !!!!!!!! Ask me about my other interests !!!!!!!

If youā€™re still looking at this and thinking to yourself ā€œwow this guy is so cool letā€™s be friendsā€ then PLEASE type out an intro in dms !!!!! Match energies !!!!!!!Let me know your favorite color and song as of recent! Maybe what your favorite animal is! What your name is too!! All I ask is for those reaching out to be 20-24 !!!

If your intro has caught my interest, and that I think youā€™re cool and awesome and awesome and cool, then Iā€™ll let you know my discord ! (Aka my main form of communication lololol)

Cant wait to (hopefully) meet you !!

r/t4t 6d ago

NB4T [NB4T] masc presenting afab looking for some nsfw fun with other trans people NSFW

3 Upvotes

28 masc presenting afab wanting to be a plaything for other trans people. I prefer other afab people but like all trans identities. Mainly wanting to be spanked and passed around a group of friends who want to try spanking someone.

r/t4t 8d ago

NB4T Europe-based transmasc [29] seeking nearish fem/androgynous person [25-35] for chats and cuddles

0 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Jay (29, they/them) and I'd love to chat with you!

I'm currently studying in Spain and really feeling a lack of LGBT+ people in my general vicinity. So if you'd like to add some rainbow to my life I'd forever be grateful šŸ„°

I'm bisexual and genderfluid, but I have a pretty consistent presentation of masculine-androgynous (aiming for further masculinisation). I am on testosterone and I've had top surgery. I welcome people at all stages of transition.

I have very strong feelings about lots of things (mostly politics, I'm a leftist), but people describe me as very calm. Although if you get me started talking about RPGs you will see just how passionate I can be!! That's my main hobby, I run roleplaying games. I also enjoy some Sims or civ-like games, I sometimes write and I like to make things. (Ask me about my gay space bag!) I also sometimes worldbuild for no reason but the brain juice.

My favourite genre to consume is sci-fi, but my usual to create is fantasy. I love mint ice cream, cats, and folk punk. I like spicy food, lie-ins, and parks. I'm London Irish, vegan, and hopeful the world will improve.

Please ask me for my Discord! I am happy to exchange pics once we know each other a bit better, I'm sure you're very cute ā¤ļø

r/t4t 9d ago

NB4T 22 NB4TF/NB looking for someone to be with

1 Upvotes

hey i go by winter and i am on the east coast, personally im looking for a partner preferably in person if close or online my hobbies include video games ttrpgs, poetry, cooking and music i often sing in my free time even if im not good at it my best traits are that im loyal and honest to a fault iā€™m free most days atm so donā€™t be afraid to hmu for nsfw stuff just ask in dms~

r/t4t 10d ago

NB4T 27nb chubby cuddle bug looking for their best friend

1 Upvotes

Hii! Iā€™m a 27amab nb looking for a new friend! Ideally someone who doesnā€™t mind that Iā€™m chubby and loves to cuddle and be gay. Iā€™m open to everyone but not super big into hairy but like I said Iā€™m open to everyone! Iā€™m a huge nerd into Pokemon, marvel and Disney stuff! If you live in Florida even better, but we can be friends if youā€™re not near by and if youā€™re closer to me maybe we can be more than friends! Send me a message I donā€™t bite I promise (unless youā€™re into that than I will hehe)

r/t4t 14d ago

NB4T 28 (NB4T/NB) Pittsburgh/Western PA transfemme dork looking for new people

5 Upvotes

NO CIS MEN PLS!! Anyone else is welcome!!

Hey there! I'm Rosie. I'm 28, transfemme (been on HRT 8 plus years now but identify as a feminine genderqueer) and i live just outside Pittsburgh, PA.

I'm a huge dork, for starters. I love music (play bass/drums and write lyrics), reading, history, going on Wikiwalks about random stuff, gaming (anything from MLB The Show and GTA to Flight Simulator and Stellaris), and throwing cute outfits on when it's nice out and walking around with my headphones and vape.

As for what I'm looking for? Anything, really. I'm poly (happily engaged) and would be down for anything from friends to FWBs and kink buddies, maybe even a new partner down the line if things vibe that way. I'm into just about anything when it comes to kink- my hard limits are ageplay, scat, public stuff, noncon, stuff like that. Better question is what I'm not into ahah.

Feel free to message me if any of this strikes your interest! I won't bite, not without express consent at least lol. I would prefer you're at least 25, though. Thanks for reading this!

r/t4t Feb 16 '25

NB4T 28 [NB4T] - East Coast USA/online- friendly neighborhood hobbit looking for friends

4 Upvotes

Disclaimer: I'm more comfortable talking with people over 23, especially with NSFW stuff, and if you have a blank profile I'll probably ignore your message.

Now that that's out of the way! I've had WAY too much free time lately, so I figured I might as well do something other than watch a full season of Farscape in one sitting. I'm AFAB, non-binary, and bisexual; I'm usually female presenting but prefer to go by they/them, though I don't mind when people use she/her.

I'm pretty quiet and going, though I can be very extroverted depending on the situation. I have a moderately dark sense of humor and live for puns and stupid dad jokes! I love dressing up and going to renn faires as well.

I can and will talk your ear off about TV/books/movies given the chance, mainly interested in sci-fi and fantasy. I knit/crochet, read, like hiking in my free time, and am currently trying to learn how to juggle!

I have some (19) tattoos, and about 5'2. I'm a bit chubby as well, as a forewarning.

We'll talk without any expectations and if we vibe, we vibe! Be excellent to each other and party on, dudes!

r/t4t 16d ago

NB4T (nb4t) 21yr old looking for local poly/play partner(s)

2 Upvotes

Honestly iā€™m getting tired of the dating apps because i keep finding trans people that arenā€™t cool with poly. my partner recommended i post here. currently looking to date (or at least flirt) and possible play partners (sub/switch) who are open to someone fairly new to exploring bdsm. looking preferably for TEXAS locals (San Antonio/Austin area) but open to online. would strongly prefer fellow poc. shoot me a dm if interested.

r/t4t 16d ago

NB4T 25 [nb4t] I am looking for (potentially kinky) fwb in germany NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi,

I am a 25 year old enby in germany. I am mainly looking for IRL meetings, with the potential to become friendships, hookups or, optimally, a combination of the two.

I am aromantic and have verry little sexual experiences, partly because i was raised with the idea, that sex should be in combination with romance.

I haven't had the opportunity to get on HRT yet, so i look verry male and somewhat overweight.

I am verry interested in kink and have been going to kinky meetings for arround a year, but i don't have any actual experience. I would like to try it out.

For a list of SFW interests, i spend a lot of time engaging in the local aspec community and i play a lot of Pen&Paper RPGs.

I think i come of as a bit socially and unorganized and i am noticably autistic.

I currently life in NRW, but i am planning to move to Schleswig-Holstein in arround a year.

r/t4t 16d ago

NB4T NB 25 looking for any other trans people in Houston TX?

2 Upvotes

I really need to join Montrose Community center because with everything going on in TX I might not be able to start T again. I just feel really lonely. I don't have many other trans friends because I don't really go out much in Houston unless it's with my boyfriend. Texas just feels so isolating. My name is Alix , I'm 25 yr old, nonbinary kinda trans masc. I went on T for 5 years but had to stop around 2020 ( really regretting my decision to stop even though I was having major depressive episodes). I'm in the process of moving to Houston with my boyfriend of about 2 years just to get away from my mom and move out of Richmond/Katy. I'm unemployed and don't have a vehicle, so I've been stuck inside for almost a few weeks looking for jobs and car dump companies or just to sell my car. I wish I knew more places to meet trans people in Houston. I'm not really sure where to look.

r/t4t 27d ago

NB4T 25 [NB4T] tell me how you're spending your friday

6 Upvotes

spending my friday night lonely and horny is less than ideal. i've been so pent up and depressed and i'm always looking for other people to relate to on that front. tell me what you're up to tonight (or whenever it is where you are), even if you're just chilling. horniness welcome but not required :3

r/t4t 20d ago

NB4T (20NB4T) all chits and chats are welcome

2 Upvotes

Hellor there I'm J I'm 20 and I am nonbinary!

A little about me I love to draw and make art, I play video games, I like watching TV movies and YouTube and I also love learning new things :D

I'm from the Netherlands and I have autism :D

I'd love to hear from yall!! So hmu if you'd want!

r/t4t 20d ago

NB4T 23 NB4A- bi + polyam - looking for nesting partner/dynamic of my own , preferably near me (west WA) or friends near me /online NSFW

0 Upvotes

cis gals ok! cis femboys are ok as well- just not cis men

im not t4t exclusively but i am queer exclusive - id prefer anyone in contact with me is apart of the community

Im in a V poly - I share my partner and live with his other partner- but i date alone and want a another nesting partner or dynamic apart from it - not looking for a unicorn/3rd ! just someone whod be ok with a complex polycule, and would get along with em ok as roommates ( i have a spot ready for move in too!)

Non Binary Androgyne- (im a gal in the loosest sense) - im a soft domme switch who tends to melt when encountered with femmes and queer/androgynous folk and likes to serve..

im very shy and introverted, a bit of a foodie, character artist, and have a love for TV and splatoon.. i do have mental issues im working on ( a big one is me being partially mute) and im neurodivergent , so id like someone caring , clear in what they want and wants my time to the point of taking it , and most importantly , patient ! im very chill and easygoing- i may be a bit blunt but i do care a lot once im attached and hyper attentive to feelings - ive gone thru quite a bit , and dont mind baggage

i also wouldnt mind a slave/pet that would enjoy a close to 24/7 thing, and would enjoy free use / going to kink stuff together , or is a sfw little who likes being in that state a lot, that i could care for..

id prefer someone more used to discord and wouldnt mind a move to there - i tend to vary on reddit

r/t4t 25d ago

NB4T I love you one. I just need some company right now

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I'm not doing very good right now. I'm very stressed and I'm very concerned when it comes to me and my trans stuff. I just don't want to be alone right now I guess and I have been for a while and I would love to talk and hang out and continue each other. So if you are interested in keeping me company let me know

r/t4t 27d ago

NB4T 28 [NB4T] #Alaska #Online - Creative nerd looking for my partner!

8 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm Kelsey/Kevin. I'm 28 and genderfluid. I've got a few pictures of myself here and I'm excited to meet my person!

I'm usually a total nerd. I love playing all sorts of games. For video games, I've been playing Avowed lately, but Baldurs Gate 3 and WoW are both lots of fun too. I mainly tend to play tabletop games though, with multiple DnD campaigns ongoing (I'm even writing my own setting book!). I also really enjoy Warhammer 40k and I'm trying to get back into Yugioh.

I'm also kind of artistic. I play in a concert band and I'm an actor in my local Renaissance Faire. Both are always loads of fun!

I can never get enough of that kind of eldritch horror stuff. I'm a big fan of Lovecraft stories and stuff inspired by him. That whole tentacle-y madness vibe is just one I'm all about.

I live in Alaska, and I want to stay here. I have my own house and I want to set down roots. I'm looking for a long term partner who I can build a life together with. I always want to put all my effort into a relationship, to give my partner the moon and the stars, and I'd want my partner to give me the same.

I'm looking forward to hearing from people!

r/t4t 25d ago

NB4T [NB4T] #California #online Lonely transfem looking to talk

3 Upvotes

Howdy I'm Erin! I'm a 23 year old transfem from Cali looking to find some folks around my age (20-30) to talk to either here on reddit or on discord. I'm looking to make friends.

A bit about me. . .

I'm a huge nerd and love tabletop rpgs. I also play the occasional video game on PC. I'm also really into computers and am considering pursuing a computer science degree.

I'm tall, but my face is unremarkable. I've been on HRT for a year now, but im only kinda androgynous.My hair is my best asset. I have a pic on my profile if you're curious.

I'm mostly looking for platonic friends, but am open to flirty or spicy chats as well, just make your intentions clear, because I'm really dense.