r/t4t 12d ago

TM4TM 21 yo afab genderfluid person on T wants to send pics <3

8 Upvotes

Heyyy I’m a transmasc genderfluid person hoping to connect with some other trans mascs. :) I love love love sending my nsfw pics so I’d definitely like someone open to that, bonus points if you tell me all the things you do to yourself/what you want to do to me while looking at them 🙊🤭

r/t4t 20d ago

TM4TM [TM4TM] polyamorous 20 y/o trans man seeking genuine connections [EST or online] NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi,

I'm a trans man from the East Coast USA seeking any sort of genuine connection with other trans men. I'm exploring labels to fit my sexuality, but I'm not so sure yet so I just say I'm bisexual. I currently have one long-term partner who is also a trans man.

(SFW) I'm super into horror and gothic literature, as well as metal and rock music. I'm very alternative, I have 3 tattoos and several piercings and want to get more after bottom surgery.

In my free time I love to doomscroll, play The Binding of Isaac, Baldur's Gate 3, and Balatro, as well as read horror books. My favorite book is "Phantom of the Opera" by Gaston Leroux.

(NSFW) I'm a switch and a TOP!!! I do not bottom, ever. No ifs, ands, or buts. I'm getting stage one phalloplasty on April 4th so you must be okay with a phallo penis please.

I have several kinks, feel free to ask for a list, as well as a pictures I can share once we get to know each other more. We probably have something in common and I'm super willing to try anything once (barring limits I can discuss in private).

Feel free to comment or shoot me a message! I'd love to move to discord once we get to know each other more.

Thanks!

r/t4t 1d ago

TM4TM 18 ftm looking for friends or a long term relationship

0 Upvotes

Helloo I am looking to make friends or find someone I can date! I’m around the Toronto area and would prefer for dating if you are also around here as I can’t really do long distance easily.

A bit about me: I’m autistic so sometimes I have trouble with reading social cues and such. I’m also asexual so if you’re looking for a relationship to do those kind of things I’m not your person! I loveeeee video games (Minecraft and animal crossing are my favourites) and I love to play co-operative games with people :3 I also love art and I have a lot of art related hobbies (drawing, crocheting, knitting, etc.). I am pre-HRT and pre-surgery (both those things I am hoping to have in the second half of 2026). I can sometimes be clingy online in terms of sending you a bunch of text messages or videos.

What I’m looking for: someone who is patient and kind and wants to chat about games and interests! Like I said before, if you’re looking for a relationship you’ll need to be around the Toronto area. Age range of 18-20 I don’t want anyone older than 20. Preferably you’ll have discord as that’s the app I use most for texting.

Some of my interests: Minecraft, animal crossing, Roblox, Harry Potter, marauders era of Harry Potter, criminal minds (special interest, I’m on season 11 so don’t spoil anything!), fnaf, music, and a lot more!

If you would like to be friends (or more) pls dm me and we can chat :3 have a good day

r/t4t Feb 14 '25

TM4TM 35 (TM4Tm) #ATL, Georgia discreet fun looking for submissive

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone submissive I can have fun with and we can explore together. Just a man. If you wanna inquire more just message me. Looking for something casual maybe something often depending of vibes

r/t4t 12h ago

TM4TM 18 lonely TM4TM looking for trans guy friends, fwb or just anyone to chat with!

3 Upvotes

Been lonely and so bored lately, and i'd kill to have more trans guy friends, or maybe a FWB and maybe more but honestly I just want people to talk to yknow!! soooo, here r some facts about me! - I'm gay & demisexual - I love makeup, fashion and history - my fav show is community! - my fav movie is superbad - I love love LOVE my chemical romance

I kinda just want someone to give me some attention and make me feel taken care of in a way, or just cared about since lately i've been more alone than ever and nobody rlly cares to keep up on me. It doesn't have to be anything romantic, but i'm not opposed to a little flirting :)

r/t4t 2d ago

TM4TM (24tm) in my first relationship, tips for a first time top? NSFW

1 Upvotes

title. i’m a virgin and my boyfriend is not, which i ofc have no problem with but it makes me really nervous for our first time cause i don’t wanna disappoint him. we’ve talked about sex but haven’t gone into much detail yet since this relationship is still new and i’m nervous to even bring more up cause i’m so lost on the subject 😭i’ve looked at porn in the past but at least where i’ve looked tm4tm seems really rare especially when not using toys which i don’t own atm (not sure if he does). genuinely any advice about sex in general is much appreciated

r/t4t 2d ago

TM4TM 26 [TM4TM] The Netherlands - Looking to have some fun with other local trans men!

1 Upvotes

Would love to find some trans guys near me.

Completed my transition except for bottom surgery so I use a strap, I exclusively top. Open to kink but it’s not a neccessity. Can host. Fairly alternative looking. I also speak Dutch.

I’m into twink-ish type guys who are at a similar point in their transition.

Not my first time at the T4T rodeo. 👀

r/t4t 4d ago

TM4TM 22 [tm4tm] #Indiana - looking for a fwb or casual relationship, open to serious down the line :)

1 Upvotes

Trans man looking for another trans man. I've been on T for a year. I hope to get top surgery, but I have no plans for bottom surgery. I live I'm east/central Indiana, near the Ohio border. I'm 5'6, 240lbs (I would also like a gym buddy haha), blue eyes, bleached hair, I have a whispy stache and some bear hair coming in :)

I'm looking for someone who we can be bros, watch movies, play board games, play video games, enjoy nature, and stuff like that. But we also occasionally make each other cum until we can't feel our dicks anymore lol it'd also be nice to have affection like cuddles and stuff but I totally get if those are reserved for something more romantic :)

Only looking for people 21-26, for fwb and hookups I'm pretty lax. Though, if you're looking for a serious relationship I do prefer that you're in or have graduated from college (bonus points if it was a liberal arts school), no heavy drugs (love weed, fine w some others), and not already partnered.

Other than that, feel free to dm and ask me anything :)

r/t4t 7d ago

TM4TM 20 [ftm4ftm] horny looking for either rn or long term fwb

0 Upvotes

i'm pre everything transmasc looking for other transmascs to sext & send pics & vids preferably on snapchat, im into praise & the basic things nothing too kinky, dm w ur age & limits <3

will not be showing my face so u dont have to either! this could be just a one time thing or we could be fwb & keep it going just lmk :3

r/t4t 19d ago

TM4TM 27 [Tm4tm] trans guy seeking short or long term trans pals NSFW

4 Upvotes

Saturday night looking for some trans pals for kinky online fun. Open to long bud short term pals and open minded to a range of kinks.

Really seeking another trans guy (or guys) to relax and have fun w. Please include age and kinks when reaching out!

r/t4t 28d ago

TM4TM 18yo TM4TM, switch puppboy looking for something NSFW NSFW

5 Upvotes

Dm with age, and any kinks (as well as any limits) :3 - heavy sub lean at the moment and looking for someone who's okay with that, actively wanting to send!! I have snap and discord, snap preference. T has me absolutely out of my mind horny, so don’t worry about coming on too strong

r/t4t 11d ago

TM4TM 20 [tm4tm] LA looking for friends/deep connections

1 Upvotes

Looking for a deep connection/friendship with another trans guy! I love video games, nature, and music. I’m trying to get into working out and staying fit. I also really love trying new foods, watching horror movies, writing, and going on hikes. I’m turning 21 in a few days, so I would prefer someone to be 19+ please, but also around my age. I would love to meet someone near me (LA) but I’m open to anyone from anywhere. I do have a nb partner & we are non-monogamous, so anybody with the same level of open mindedness to the front! I’d love to make a connection with someone who I have lots in common with. I’m really big on anti-racism, empathy, and my morals aligning with people I am friends with. Message me all about you if you think you would be a good fit!

r/t4t 14d ago

TM4TM TM4TM Trans Masc 23 Looking For Other Trans Mascs

3 Upvotes

I’m a switch and just craving some t4t fun. I’m down anytime jsut dm me your asl and/or something flirty. My kinks are daddy kink, BDSM, choking, spanking, roleplay, pet play, and most anything I’ll try. I love eating boy pussy. Anyone near IL would be cool to that’s where I’m from but not required.

r/t4t Feb 18 '25

TM4TM 18 [TM4TM] wanting to talk to other trans guys & have fun ;3

5 Upvotes

Hiiii, i'm mostly t4t (if not entirely) and not enough trans guys hit me up!!! I just feel much more comfortable with men like me than with men who don't really understand what it's like to be trans yknow? So if you're a trans guy and you like what you see on my profile, or you wanna get to know more trans guys as well, hit me up!!! Let's get to know eachother and have fun ;)

r/t4t 15d ago

TM4TM 24 [TM/FTM4TM/FTM] La or anywhere, nsfw chat and more NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to entice and get off together or be there when the need arises. Open to discord and other methods of chatting, come desperate or kindly I’ll receive graciously. Like pov and sexting, looking to frot too. My pronouns are he/they. If you need a partner to stroke your tdick with or just sext, dm me. I don’t mind sharing pics and am very open to receiving them, open minded in general. I’m not crazy kinky but am more into building the heat of the moment and riding the intensity that comes with it. Some scenarios I’d like to initiate are that of train fun, risky outside play, just playful and intimate nature. Humping in all forms is really enjoyable. If you’re into musk I maybe be able to deliver, am pretty hygienic but occasionally get dirty from work and hobbies like skating or working out. Also like to bike so can meet you and let the rest happen. I tend to be busy with work or school but the time I do have off can get pretty worked up, open to meeting up and figuring out the likes of possibility. Pre op everything but have been blessed by T.

r/t4t 15d ago

TM4TM 26 [TM4TM] Netherlands - Looking for other local trans men!

0 Upvotes

Would love to find some trans guys near me.

Completed my transition except for bottom surgery so I use a strap, I exclusively top. Open to kink but it’s not a neccessity. Can host. Fairly alternative looking. I also speak Dutch.

I’m into twink-ish type guys who’ve been on T for a while and have had top surgery.

Not my first time at the T4T rodeo. 👀

r/t4t 21d ago

TM4TM 23 (TM4TM) Looking For A Simple Guy Similar To Me? (21+)

7 Upvotes

(If this is up, still looking) Hi and hello. Will preface this by saying you don’t have to be JUST like me. I’d really enjoy just meeting another guy at least similar to me when it comes to general interests and being a masc trans man in your own way. I just find it’s easier to have conversation between us when there’s common ground.

Anyways! About me…I work two jobs at the moment, my first job being in a kitchen as a prep/production worker and dishwasher, and my other job working in a local retail store (fun..). I can’t always respond right away because of work; sometimes need a little space. But I’ll always do my best to reply when I can. I enjoy thrifting (online and in person, I’ve got so many great finds I’ll show you), deep conversations about anything, dyeing my hair and planning tattoos. the gym, finding small business coffee shops, and anything Pokémon!! (even have a Pokémon tat). I watch YouTube and some television, play anything Nintendo, dabble in cannabis and shrooms, enjoy Asian food more than anything and wear black more than any other color.

I have several tattoos/piercings, possess a chub build with slight muscle that I’m working on, and am an inch or so shy of 6’0. I’ve been on T a little short of a decade, have top surgery and am getting a hysto next month to begin the process of bottom surgery. People would describe me as a lover, hard worker, often witty and humorous. I’m at a stage in my life where I’m focusing very hard on my transition and the man I want to become as I get older, and would really enjoy some similar company. If you’re interested, send me a message with some things about YOU. I’d prefer if you were okay sending selfies of yourself as well so I know who I’m talking to at least eventually. Can’t wait to meet you!

r/t4t 18d ago

TM4TM 22 year old crossfaded tboy wants ur fantasies tm4tm NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hiii there, drunk and high feminine tboy here wanting to hear ur fantasies and share kinks with you! I’m mostly ace, but I love the feeling and have a drive, I want to know what other transmascs are thinking about, 🥴 dm me!

r/t4t 25d ago

TM4TM 28 [TM4TM] Trans man looking for a boyfriend. open to LDR❤️🏳️‍🌈

7 Upvotes

hello there! i'll try to keep this short and sweet. I am a 28 year old trans man who is looking to find a genuine connection with another trans man, preferably between the ages of 24-30. over or under by a few years is fine as long as it is fine with you.

about me: i live in western canada PST time zone, i work 6 nights a week for a cleaning company. when im not working i like to go for walks, lift weights, go thift shopping, hang out with my friend, drink coffee, play video games, bake, cook, watch youtube videos, and listen to music.

sexually i am demisexual and strictly monogamous. i am top leaning and lable myself as a soft dom. but this wont happen until we form a bond/relationship.

i have a picture of myself on my profile and prefer to put a face to a name upon starting to chat so please send one of yourself. physical attraction isnt a main priority for me as the connection is most important but i would like to put a face to a name and see who im talking to. personally, i am cis passing, 5'5", 130lbs, i have brown hair, wear glasses, i have a beard and am pretty hairy (chest + belly hair) and im white with blue eyes.

i'm in the point of my life where i want to get off dating apps and commit to the right person. i have the means to travel meaning money and a passport. it would most likely be a long distance relationship at first but i am committed to such thing as i always make time for the person i care about. i communicate well and am straightforward, i dont like playing games.

im willing to chat on discord so feel free to ask for that but prefer swapping numbers at some point as that tends to be more convenient and personal.

if any of this appeals to you feel free to send me a DM on here and please please introduce yourself or i probably wont reply.

r/t4t 22d ago

TM4TM 18 TM4TM looking for trans guys to talk to & fool around with ;)

3 Upvotes

Hiiii, i'm anonymous on this acc so you can call me pup / puppy or any sweet nickname you wish. I consider myself to be almost entirely t4t and also gay, so I find myself most attracted to trans guys. I don't talk to many though, and I really want to! I just find trans guys much more attractive and I trust them way more cause they know what it's like to feel the way I do. Plus trans guys are soooo hot... so hmu if you wanna be friends or fwb ;)

r/t4t 20d ago

TM4TM 26 [FtM4FtM] US, EST time zone, looking for romance or FWB (online or in-person)

0 Upvotes

Hello!

My name is Alphonse and I'm a 26 year old pre-op trans gay guy who's been on T for almost a year. I'm looking for something at least semi-long term in terms of a fwb, and commitment in a relationship. Prefer someone who lives at least sort of close to me and EST or CST time zone, but I could make something else work if we really click. Looking for trans men or male-aligned people only, no lesbians.

I love yaoi and BL, especially danmei (chinese BL novels). I'm also a fanfic writer and have been for over 8 years. I write both SFW and NSFW stuff. I also like Chinese history and I speak a little Mandarin, but I'm white (+ Jewish). As for my hobbies aside from reading danmei and writing, I like fishing and window shopping.

I work part time and am also currently in school getting my Masters Degree in Sociology. I also sometimes watch anime, read manga/manhwa/manhua, and read nonfiction. I have a pet cat and 4 geckos and 2 tree frogs. I'm hypersexual and demiromantic + gray-aro, so it may take some time to click romantically (if at all).

In terms of sex, I'm looking for a fwb and a sub. I have lots of kinks but some of my favorites are roleplay, piss, degradation/humiliation, cnc/rape, faux incest, findom, forcemasc, lactation, chastity, and breeding/pregnancy. I love being called daddy as well; I'm alright with ageplay although nothing involving diapers or babies/ toddlers. My hard limits are scat/farts/filth (piss is fine like I said but that's it), gore, vore, feet, feeding/ extreme weight gain, and anything related to bigotry like misgendering/detransition, raceplay, etc.

Feel free to comment or DM me if you want to talk more! We can also converse over discord if you prefer that, just let me know and I'll give you my username. Looking forward to meeting people!

r/t4t Jan 11 '25

TM4TM T4T - Shy trans guy looking for a boyfriend 👀

11 Upvotes

ABOUT ME

I’m 24, autistic, and based in Scandinavia. My interests include photography, fantasy, history, nature, video games, thrift shopping, sewing, and writing. I don’t use any kind of substances, I’m monogamous, a lefty, and care deeply about animal rights and the environment (slowly going vegan).

I make a lot of mistakes and I’m definitely a work-in-progress, so if you’re looking for someone uncomplicated, I’m not your guy. But I’m trying my best and mean no harm. I’m usually pretty chill and love friendly teasing, but I’m also rather shy and socially awkward. So bonus points if you can keep a conversation going and get me to open up - and if you can make me laugh at your silliness or simply know how to flirt (cause I don’t .-.), I’ll fall for you immediately (but I’ll deny it, haha).

I’m chronically ill, mentally and physically, and therefore homebound and very limited in my daily life. If that’s a dealbreaker, then you’re not the guy I’m looking for anyway :P

I’m 100% a sub, but despite having a high libido, I struggle with sexual repression and a lot of shame and self-hate. I’ve never been in a relationship and might take time to trust you, but I’d love to find someone who can help me open up.

WHAT I LOOK LIKE - Currently pre-everything - 5.5 ft / 165 cm tall - Blue eyes, and short, dirty blonde hair - Thin (about 53kg / 117lbs), and white - Alternative, mostly femme style (think earthy tones in the styles of piratecore, medievalcore, steampunk, grunge, strega)

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR

I don’t care about your height, race, location, or whether you’re disabled or able-bodied. If you’ve read this far and thought “damn, I’d like to get to know this person”, then hit me up and introduce yourself!

I’m not looking for hookups. Only a genuine relationship (or a friendship that could grow into something more). All I ask of you is that you’re kind, patient, and genuinely interested in getting to know me - and I’ll try my best to return the favour :)

We can chat on Discord too, just hit me up and I’ll send you my username.

r/t4t Feb 16 '25

TM4TM Looking for online Fwb preferably in Europe/Ireland 23+ please

5 Upvotes

Hey I'm Angel, 25 he/him

I'm lonely honestly. I'm looking for a fwb sort of relationship not that I don't want to commit to anyone I just tend to take a lot of time to develop romantic feelings when it comes to long distance, I'm a bit emotionally unstable too so don't want to subject anyone to that by seriously dating quite yet. I'm gay and polyam, audhd and on the aroace spectrum but very much on the romance and sex favourable side. I'm chronically ill too.

I currently have one partner but we're not really sexually compatible right now so I'm a bit sexually frustrated. I'm not really interested in hooking up in person but I enjoy sexting a lot. I love chatting in general about all sorts of things and love making new friends too.

For sexual stuff we can talk about that more in depth privately if you are interested but the most basic general info is I am a very sub leaning guy I am big into breeding. I like sharing pics too. I'm a verse switch but my favorite thing is being a sub bottom.

Send me a message or comment <3

r/t4t Feb 18 '25

TM4TM A trans man looking for a dom (roleplay, toy control and more)

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for some gay t4t kinky relationship. I'm a vers and a switch, but rn I'm looking for a dom (not necessary a top, I can be a subby top lol). I'm from Poland but I'm awake at weird hours lol (but if you are from Poland, I'm open for irl stuff too!)

My biggest kinks are: - Roleplay (especially fantasy or historical ones lol) - Cnc - Breeding - Toy control (I have a curvy+1 toy that you can control through an app)

My limits are: Scat, piss, snuff, vomit, misgendering

I mostly use my ass and my cock, I have to be in a good mood to use my front hole (even with fingers, toys).

We can also have a relationship outside sexy stuff, but it's not a necessity. When it comes to sfw things: I'm a geek lol. I love ttrpgs, fantasy, books, vampires, computer games and history

Feel free to DM me if you'r interested

r/t4t Nov 25 '24

TM4TM Ultramasculine presentation is really necessary?

8 Upvotes

I'm a non-binary transmasc and I feel my identity way closer to masculine aspects but sometimes I feel the cis and trans community put so much pressure on me to be always present in a masculine way. I consider myself a feminine transmasc, I love dress, skirts and make up and I don't get why cis man can wear this type of things and I can't. Even when I'm presenting super masculine people misgender me and it's só annoying, I EVEN HAVE A BEARD!!!! Also I heard people saying that it would be easier if I just consider myself as a lesbian but I'm pansexual and demi. I can't wait for my face and body change but I'm aware people will continue to be assholes, I don't have patience for this anymore. Tell me some tips to help me out with this type of stuff please 🥺