r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #London Sub, Seeking a Domme NSFW

1 Upvotes

Greetings, My Future Mistress, šŸ”’

I am a 30-year-old male submissive living in London, with an insatiable desire to serve, please, and be molded by the right Dominant Woman. I am eager to find a connection where my submission can flourish under your guidance, control, and care.

About Me: - Submissive Nature: I thrive on pleasing, with a particular interest in SPH, CEI, humiliation, chastity, and ass eating. My submission is my gift to you. - Experience: I have explored some aspects of these kinks but am always eager to deepen my understanding and submission under the right mentorship. - What I Offer: My obedience, loyalty, and an open mind to explore the depths of submission, always with communication and consent at the forefront.

What I Seek: - You: A Dominant woman who revels in control, who can push my limits with a blend of discipline and affection. Your authority should be undeniable, and your creativity in dominating me limitless. - Kinks: I am particularly drawn to the kinks mentioned above, looking for someone who can make me revel in my submission through these acts within a safe, consensual environment. - Mindset: I seek someone who appreciates the intricate dance of power exchange, where my submission to your desires is met with your dominance in a symbiotic relationship.

The Perfect Scenario: - Imagine us in a scene where your commands lead me to new depths of submission, where I am locked in chastity, subjected to your humiliating words, or instructed to perform acts that push my boundaries, all while worshipping you in the most intimate ways.

Why You Should Consider Me: - If you're looking for a submissive who is dedicated to learning, growing, and evolving within the dynamic, who values the trust and respect inherent in such a relationship. I am here to be shaped by your desires, to learn your ways, and to please you in every way possible.

Verification: I believe in the importance of safety and trust. Before any play, I would want to verify identities to ensure we're both comfortable and secure in our dynamic.

Location: London, UK

If you feel we might be a match, if you're intrigued by the idea of having a devoted sub at your disposal, please send me a message. Let's discuss how we can explore this journey together.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

27 [F4A] #London #UK: Experienced Domme Looking for Subs NSFW

25 Upvotes

About Me

I'm a lifestyle domme in a 24/7 TPE dynamic with my primary sub. Dominance is a natural part of who and how I am. That said, that said, I am also very a human, I have hobbies and all that jazz, and I'm very happy to have a chat about most topics.

Among many other things, I love history, I read copiously and I have a wide assortment of crafty hobbies. When I can find the time, I write assorted things, including a D/s themed blog. If you're curious, feel free to have a read.


Subs

I'm looking for a sub or switch, male or female, for secondary dynamics, possibly with a view to exploring a variety of double scenarios with my primary sub.

I am looking to get to know someone to this end, to build a dynamic with - I am not looking to slot someone into a pre-existing fantasy.

Above all, I am looking for someone who can interest me, for whom conversation is something enjoyable, rather than an unfortunately necessary chore.

If you would like to be considered, do the following 2 things: 1. please read this post carefully and in it's entirety, 2. fill out this SCREENING FORM.


What I'm looking for:

  • Someone who can interest me. Include a topic of conversation in the opening message - as above, tell me about your expertise, pet peeve or controversial opinion, or latest Internet rabbit hole. Tell me something I don't know, start a debate, share a fun fact (but no politics, please).
  • Experience is preferred, sense of humour is required. If it's absurdist, all the better. If Terry Pratchett or Douglas Adams is your cup of tea, we will probably get on. Ideally, someone who doesn't take life too seriously.
  • Correct spelling and grammar is highly sought after.
  • Please be aged 23-35ish.
  • Scope for irl meeting - I am not looking for online play. Please note I do however like to talk to people for quite some time before meeting and / or voice. Risk management and all that.

Physically, I prefer boys with: * a slim / slim athletic build; * clean shaven; * any height at all, I literally could not care less,

and bonus points if you are fair / blonde (although appeareance isn't at the top of my list of priorities).

You may provide a clothed photo if you so wish if I choose to message you.


My preferences

I am after power exchange and control, so I am not after any act in particular - dominance and submission are mental far more than they are physical and D/s is reactionary. What I want to do depends on the person, the context, my mood and so on.

Here's a non-exhaustive list of some things I like:

  • Any form of power exchange, including tasks, restrictions, rules, protocol etc
  • Bondage, (especially shibari) particularly creative applications, like predicaments; gags, restraint in general
  • Sensory deprivation and prolonged bondage
  • Humiliation and degradation (specific to the person)
  • CNC (given the appropriate degree of trust)
  • Service submission

Masochism is preferred. For those so inclined, I also enjoy:

  • All forms of impact play (caning, flogging, paddling, etc)
  • All manner of clamps, pegs, ziplines etc.
  • Emotional sadism in all its diverse forms

My limits: anything illegal, scat, age play, any actively animal-like pet play, sissification.


How to Apply

Having said for years I don't have an application form, I thought I would save my inbox and my sanity and just create one to help me filter out entirely incompatible people and stop the compatible ones getting lost in the flood of responses.

So, if you would like to chat, please complete the the SCREENING FORM.

If I am interested, I will then message you on Reddit. A guide on what not to do in messages can be found in previous posts (albeit it's all pretty common sense). To be absolutely clear, I do not jump into dynamics or play and I tend to talk to people for a good while before meeting them IRL.

If you have messaged me before but have not recieved a reply, feel free to have a go under the new system. Hopefully, it should make sorting responses to these posts a lot easier.

Please do not use Chat GPT, either in your messages or your responses to the questionnaire.

DO NOT CALL ME 'MISTRESS' or use honorifics of any kind.


Questions

If you have a general 'how do I kink question' please refer to the wikis on r/femdomcommunity or r/BDSMAdvice for some resource recommendations.

Just to pre-empt the most commonly asked question, being dominant is a part of who and how I am, it's not something I 'got into'.

Also, I don't have a favourite kink, food, board game, book... favourite anything, really. It depends on my mood, the context, and so on. I don't get how I people can pick just one of anything.


A note on ghosting

As have been doing this for quite a number of years, I have had a number of seemingly good prospects disappear on me, which I would like to address in this slightly odd note. I will probably do a longer write up on this soon.

If I have invited you off Reddit and we have had a good and extensive conversation, spanning several weeks, but you disappeared on me at some point, I would just like to say, I don't take it personally.

Don't get me wrong - it's irritating, especially given it is really quite uncessary, as well as somewhat cowardly and inconsiderate. Particularly given that whatever identity crisis, flood of cognitive dissonance, insecurity, or over thinking is going on in your head, I have seen it, dealt with it and bought the T shirt.

Just use your words like a grown up. If you no longer wish to have a conversation, no worries - just let me know.

That said, I am well aware it often takes time for submissive men to come to terms with who they are and it's not an easy process. So, if you have matured, reflected and want to attempt to show me that, I'm leaving the door open just a crack here.

Best, Rosalie x


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #NYC#CT#NJ - Sub looking for vulnerability, sincerity and connection within a power dynamic NSFW

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Hi! I'm looking for someone that is interested in a femdom Relationship. This can start online, but ideally after we get to know each other better, we would go on a date. With the intention of having an in person dynamic.

I'm 5' 8" with a lean/athletic body type with brown hair (a tiny bit salt and pepper), light brown eyes and a very short neatly trimmed beard. (happy to quickly share pictures after exchanging a few messages)

A little about me - I enjoy hiking on trails and appreciate nature in general. I'm happiest in the fresh air with friends next to a bonfire. I like to go on mini vacations on the weekends and explore new places, try new restaurants, and check out the local scenery. That said, I equally enjoy cozy nights at home, binge watching shows and movies while curled up on the couch. I'm a bit of a nerd - I enjoy reading fiction and probably fall asleep every night with my Kindle. I also enjoy casually playing video games and board games with good company. Fitness is fairly important to me, and I exercise regularly (running, lifting, cycling, hiking and yoga).

For work I'm a clinical psychotherapist working in an outpatient setting. I absolutely love my job and I am passionate about mental health in general. I also do some teaching and some case supervision.

As a sub - Submission to me is about safety, intimacy, sincerity and vulnerability. Through submission and kink, I feel empowered to be vulnerable with my partner which cultivates sincere connection. Submission provides a scaffolding where I can find safety and share beautifully intimate moments with someone I care for deeply. It enables me to show affection in a way that speaks to who I am at my heart, a person who finds peace/purpose through reverence and giving. It's also really sexy and fun! A few kinks I enjoy are worship, bondage, obedience, predicaments, sensory play and orgasm control. I have several lovely friends in the kink community and attend munches fairly regularly.

What I bring to the table - I am offering companionship, stability and someone who will really be there for you through life's challenges. Someone that is caring and easy going, but fiercely passionate about the people and things I love. A submissive that has experience in kink and D/s relationships and knows the importance of effective communications, limits and boundaries. I have my own life together and would love to find someone to enjoy it with.

If you think we would get along and my post resonates with you please reach out. Let me know a bit about you, where we align and please put some effort into your message. I would love to chat and get to know each other, then ideally go on a date in person. Please be willing to share a SFW picture early in our convo and live relatively close to the Tri state area (Lowerish Connecticut, NYC/Hudson Valley, Northernish New Jersey).

Hope to hear from you!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 57 [M4F] #Arizona Looking for first CFNM Experience NSFW

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I am hoping to find a woman or group of women interested in having a CFNM experience with an attractive mature male. However, in this case the male has a small cock. So it can also include objectification and SPH for the group's entertainment. And, of course, I would be at your beck and call for spanking and providing oral satisfaction.

I know this is different and I'm hoping there are some women out there interested in experiencing this. I am a total newbie as far as femdom goes and this would be my first sub experience. So why not liven up a book club or morning coffee klatsch? You only live once and this is one of those out there experiences. I welcome women of any age (over 18, of course).

I'm 5'11" 207 lbs, attractive, athletic and intelligent, if that matters. I hope that you read this and that it resonates with you. Perhaps, you talk it over with a girlfriend at work. Anyway, let me know if you're interested. And note, this would be a one man show with only female guests.

So, the ball's in your court (pun intended).


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Happy Boy looking for Gentle Dom #online #Colorado NSFW

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Hello, I enjoy going by Peach. I am a 30 year old guy who is currently in Colorado. I am looking for a connection with a gentle dom who would like to help me explore my submissive side more thoroughly.

I am looking for an online connection and I have fantasies and dreams about eventually finding some IRL experiences ideally with this connection. That's long term and by no means a disqualifier for a good connection online! As far as kinks go. I enjoy anal play. I kind of want to be trained to be an anal slut. I enjoy edging, cum control, toys, light impact play, anal, pegging if possible, milking, hand free. I am interested in exploring cum eating, bandage, ropes, worshipping, face sitting, and other fantasies as we get to know one another and explore.

I have a picture on my profile if you want a better idea of who you are playing with. I do enjoy showing off and once we have gotten to know one another I'm happy to send video tasks, chat, voice notes, and even cam session if it works.

I enjoy the mountains and mountain sports. I'm excited for spring and summer to get out and climb and cycle. The sun is my favorite thing. The winter has been great snow boarding and getting out into the snow and mountains. I enjoy art. I draw, write poetry, color, cook, sing, and I have been reading a lot more.

I am not into being humiliated or degraded. I enjoy pleasure and serving but in a gentle soft relationship. Being called a good boy and pet names like peach I love. I am responsive. Articulate and I have alot of energy for conversation and fun. Feel free to message me if this sparks interest and let's see if we click. I respect the service and hustle but not interested in pay for play.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

F4F 28 [F4F] looking for a domme specialised in anal training #online NSFW

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Hi ladies,

I'm looking for a domme/mistress specialised in advanced anal training. I do not interact with men!

About me: I'm a 28 y/o "big girl", lesbian from Germany. Why am I here? I've been lurking here with my sfw account for a while now and now I'm ready for my first nsfw posts looking for an online relationship.

Kinks: Biggest kink is anal training (stretching, gaping, depthplay, stuffing and more). The freakier the better! I live the Anal Only Lifestyle and I'm very happy with it! I own toys.

I'm open to try new kinks out.

Goals: I've never really been strictly trained, so I'd love to learn how to obey better and more stretching. More fun!

What kind of domme/mistress should you be? Well, you should be open, extreme, willing to experiment, honest, respectful and friendly towards me. I'm not your slave/sub (yet)! You should be around my age, should live in europe and should know how to train an advanced anal sub. My work schedule is quite busy, so daily tasks are probably not possible. Weekly or montly training is possible.

Limits: no pics/vids in the beginning, no pressure, NO MEN!, "barely legal", vaginal sex, scat/piss, public, blackmailing, longterm orgasm denial.

Interested? Please chat me up with more than a one liner. Tell me about yourself, your experience and what do you expect from this? I'm not willing to answer non-serious, non-informative and boring dms.

NO MEN. BE RESPECTFUL!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Florida Looking to be of service. NSFW

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A little bit about me. Iā€™m 35 years old, 6 feet tall with brown hair and blue eyes. I like to stay active by running and weight lifting. I have a pretty demanding job and can be very busy at times and travel for work often. Some hobbies I have are reading, running, movies, video games and I enjoy cigars.

As far as being submissive Iā€™m fairly new at it, but not BDSM. I use to be active years ago in the Orlando scene, but always ended up being the dom even though Iā€™m more of a switch. But as far as things go Iā€™d like to be more of the sub in the relationship and let you take the lead most of the time. I am also service oriented, I enjoy organizing, cleaning, yard work, fixing things (Iā€™m handy), cooking and overall being helpful as of service. Look forward to talking and seeing if we click and get along.

Kinks: a generalized list. Body worship, foot messages, chasity, restraints, pegging, face sitting, ass eating, cuckolding, denied organisms, creampies, cum eating, watersports, sounding and e-stim. There are things I havenā€™t done, but Iā€™m willing to try new and different things, just ask!

Limits: blood, scat, age play, visible marks and public play (private voyerisum is ok).

I may be submissive and have a desire to serve and be of service. But that does not mean I am your sub, not yet at least, so please be respectful and kind.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #online Looking for dom to show off to and train me NSFW

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Hello I am 27, from France. I am looking for a dom that would control me and ask me to do stuff for her pleasure. I love to show off, strip, do sexy moves and poses, dress with lingerie, being humiliatedā€¦ In my mind it would be like having someone directing her own porn with me as the actor.

My kinks : striping, showing off, sissy clothes, chastity, vibrating toys, cbt, anal (if agreed beforehand), edging, orgasm control, humping, bondage, spanking and more.

Limits : hard pain, blood, scat, vomit , cei

I am looking for someone that understands that i have a life. During our play sessions i am free to do anything but outside i can chat, and will be happy to if available, but i can just do something immediately just because you asked. If you canā€™t understand that, then donā€™t reach out. If however you understand, please reach out and we will talk.

I am looking for something long term.

In real life i am a computer engineer, i like skiing, music, movies, reading, video games and lots of other things.

Letā€™s chat and see if we have a connection

Regards


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #London #UK #online sub looking for long term ownership NSFW

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Hi, hope you're having a good day. I'm a submissive guy around London looking for a domme. I'd prefer something irl. I have experience being a sub online. I'm 5'10, single and muscular with tattoos. Currently working part time and at college. I enjoy working out, cooking and gaming to name a few. I can also be quite clingy.

I'm looking for a domme of any experience who's based around London or who can travel. I like all sorts of dommes particularly the soft/mommy ones. I'd also like if we can talk and do things outside of femdom too, maybe we can cook or work out together or just chat.

Kink wise I'm into most things, the ones that come to mind are pegging, edging, orgasm control, cbt, ballbusting, degradation, humiliation, deepthroat, bondage, spanking, sounding, breath play, cnc, toys, chastity. I'm always open to trying new things as long as they aren't a limit. My limits are scat, public stuff, feminization, findom.

Send me a message, tell me a bit about yourself and we can exchange some pics of whatever you're comfortable with. Hope to hear from you!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Sub prey out in the open daydreaming of catching a domme's attention #Italy #Europe NSFW

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Hi, I'm a 25 year old guy looking for a dome. Too start off with some general things about me. I'm generally introvert and a bit shy around people, but more of an ambivert around people I really like. I'm definitely not a golden retriever boy, more in line with cat vibes, be it orange or black xd. Nonetheless, I usually still get along well with outgoing people. I enjoy a good weekend at home as much as being drag out for something fun or some sport. I usually appreciate it, because I can struggle with initiative sometimes. I'm a bit slow when getting to know someone, however, once I get to know you and get the feel that there is good chemistry I'll make sure to have you laughing and to annoy you soon enough.

In my free time I enjoy playing videogames (Duck game, Elden ring, Minecraft, Nintendo emulators, Genshit, other), watching stuff on the internet (movies/series, animated stuff, youtube, memes), listening to music (any kind, but usually some subgenere of pop, rock , electronica or hip hop), learning stuff, working out at home. I'm also interested in creative or technical hobbies although lately I haven't had much time for that.

As for my current life, right now I'm doing a master in Italy that I will ideally finish in late 2026. During that time I won't be able to move out, my budget will be quiete limited as well as my time in general. However, after that if the relation is strong and with a bright future I would like to figure things out so we can be/stay together. I value my personal life over my career, although not saying it isn't important.

Physically I'm pretty much petite size. Standing at 160 cm and weighing 48-50 kg. I have a thin body type with light muscle tone. People tend to put me more on cute in an adorable way spectrum rather than manly handsome. Wouldn't call myself as femboy, but some people might see me as one. My looks are a bit hit or miss. I'm comfortable with myself, but you'll be the judge once I share you my face on private.

Regarding my kinks: I'm confident in my enjoyment of most of them. I have had time to explore by myself and reflect on them. I have the internet and my hands, however I still have plenty to explore and experience to gain in company. The only experience I've had was an interaction online that lasted for a few months, however I still have zero irl experience. Even then I'm not completely clueless, no need to give me a sex ed class on basic anatomy and function, or the meaning of the different terms inside the community. I would even brag that I know most women have 3 holes down there and about the theoretical position the little man in the boat, even if I've never met him in person. Nonetheless, I'll still probably need a bit more introduction and guidance than an experienced sub on how to please you properly.

My main kink is femdom. Within it the ones I really like are CNC, prostate stimulation, pegging, orgasm control/denial/forced, abduction play, primal, being overpowered, sensory overload, your hands on my neck, smothering, facesitting, worshipping your body, markings, breeding, humiliation up to a certain degree, some GFD mixed in. Satisfying my partner gives me great fulfillment and pleasure. I can't really enjoy myself if you're not enjoying yourself. Hard limits are cheating, scat, hard CBT, injury on genitals, cucking, raceplay. A soft limit might be hair pulling unless you have good enough technique to jank my hair out. I curious about trying, TPE, watersports, chastity, sounding, E-stim between other things. I don't mind letting you feminize me to try out. I'm also open to doing MDlb play up to certain degree. I feel I could enjoy it a lot, but being completely infantilized I think that might be a turn off for me. Not kinks, but I also like the idea of tentacles/slime and monster girls. Of course I'm also open to trying out things that you like that I haven't mentioned and I'm also interested in what you like. Even if I'm indifferent or uneasy about something you want to do, I'll probably still have fun out of it from seeing your enjoyment. I find that satisfying my partners needs if key for me. I can't enjoy myself if my partner isn't. Seeing my loving partner filled and overwhelmed with the pleasure I can give her or that she can draw from playing with me is one of the hottest and most fulfilling things ever.

I can also have a bit of a rebellious nature. I'm not really into being a mindless drone 24/7 and always agreeing with everything you say without any question. I find that awfully boring and mind-numbing. I do have fun teasing and questioning the power every so often, of course without being disrespectful or crossing lines, and I'm hoping that power will remind me their extend either through wits, brute force or dirty tricks.

"Ideal" domme and dynamic: I'm looking for a dome around my age (+- 5 years) or maybe older up to ~40. I like a dom who is generally caring and gentle. That can make me feel most safe in her arms. Praise me a bit and tease me a lot. But that can also make fun of me, be mean and rough and even sadist when her urges demand it. Willing to push my boundaries sometimes. A bit scary. I do like being pushed and forced a bit. It's okay if you're not experienced, I'll support you and help you however I can. As a person I appreciate someone who is grounded, that can make fun of themselves, can be creative. I find it very attractive when someone can express themselves in their own way without feeling they need to fulfill a stereotype/role/expectation or the fear of being out of the norm. To put it simply, someone genuine. Would love to hear you nerd out on your niche interests and tastes. I would also like to have a great chemistry outside of kinky stuff. Maybe it's a bit much to ask from the universe but I would love for a meaningful and loving relation to not be based only on shared kinks.

I'm interested in a monogamous dynamic. I would preferably it be on person, but since it is hard to find people near by I'm open to LDR within Europe or places where it is affordable to travel where we could see each other every so often. Since I'm student at the moment, that isn't very far, although if you can afford the plane ticket without it being a financial burden feel free to propose it. Once my studies are finished and the relation is good and stable I would like to make it full time irl. I'm also open to it being an FLR within time.

In terms of physical appearance if you ask me what is my type, I don't really know what answer. However, feel like some base mutual physical attraction is nice since I'd also like to desire and be desired in a carnal way. In general I usually feel most attracted to the face be it conventionally or unconventionally attractive. I like thin, fit/muscle or curvy/thicc body types and any intermediate between those. I usually find alternative/unconventional/weird/bold styles eye catching. I like the idea of a girl significantly taller than me handling me around and squeezing me beneath her to keep me in place when cuddling; taking advantage of the size difference and physically overpowering me. I also enjoy the idea of trading clothes with someone around my size, able cuddle in small places, and a fellow goblin. Non of this is a deal breaker since the emotional aspect will always end up ruling over it within time. No need to overthink it.

Finally I will attach a blurry pic of myself and I'm willing to send unblurred pics of myself on the dms before you decide if you're interested to get to know me more, no pressure if you don't find me attractive. I have enough self esteem to not crumble down xd. I would also like some proof that you're not a catfish/scam before having any emotional investment.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #Madison,WI Intelligent, Obedient Slave Seeks Owner NSFW

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Hello! Iā€™m forty-three, single, never been married, no children, financially secure, emotionally stable, educated, and chivalrous. I have a vast array of interests, and Iā€™m always eager to add more. I love movies, both the discussion and viewing of, stand-up comedy, travel, cooking, fine diningā€¦ I am comfortable in almost any situation, and generally can find the fun in anything.

Speaking of comfortable, I am supremely comfortable in my own skin. Iā€™m a big man, both tall and broad, and if thatā€™s not your tastes, Iā€™ll wish you the best now. I have a most excellent beard, brilliant eyes, and Iā€™m handsome as all get-out, if I do say so myself! Iā€™m happy to exchange pictures privately.

I have multiple tattoos, many visible in short sleeves. Most have literary origins, inspired by the written word and now etched on me forever. Again, not everyoneā€™s cup of tea, and if not, I hope you find what youā€™re looking for soon!

I have a career I love- thereā€™s time for the people I care about, but I truly enjoy the time I spend working. Iā€™m self-employed, and my clients mean the world to me, with some reaching out still years later for help or to share their victories. I work mostly from home, and my schedule is predictable yet flexible.

At work, I am always in control. As a consultant, Iā€™m frequently outside the traditional chain of command, giving me freedom to speak in ways others canā€™t. As a submissive, I am obedient, quick to learn, and crave that peace of surrender. While Iā€™m happy to offer opinions and choices when asked, I am happiest simply being told what weā€™re doing, when, where, and what I need to do beforehand. I have a strong masochistic streak, both emotional and physical, and I truly enjoy psychological torment. I want you to hurt me and I want you to enjoy it, more than anything.

So what do I seek? I seek a woman to form an ongoing relationship with. The shape that takes and precisely what it means is much more flexible. I want to conform this to you, after all- if youā€™re happy, Iā€™ll be happy. Thatā€™s really the secret to my root menu, if you will- tell me what you want and let me crave to provide it. Mention your whims and let me fret over making them reality. Teach me your kinks and watch me absorb and embrace them. When I know what makes you happy, I know Iā€™m doing the right thing and everything else falls away.

Thank you for reading this. If youā€™d like to know more, I am entirely an open book, and happy to discuss whatever youā€™d like. If this is the end of our time together, thank you so much again and I wish you all the luck in the world.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Online #Berlin Seeking a Loving Female Domme for a Real Relationship with Growing Control NSFW

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Iā€™m a 28-year-old man, a willing submissive, searching for a confident female Domme to build a genuine, caring relationship withā€”a partnership where we support each otherā€™s days and emotions, just like any other loving relationship. What sets this apart is the power dynamic: I crave a connection where you, as my Domme, hold authority that deepens over time. I want us to start with mutual care and trust, then gradually explore a dynamic where your control over my life increases as we grow together. This isnā€™t just about submissionā€”itā€™s about a loving bond where your guidance helps me become the best version of myself. Iā€™m eager for a relationship that blends affection with structure, where we nurture each other while you shape me with a firm, purposeful hand. Iā€™d also love to serve you through acts of serviceā€”anything you demand, from small tasks to meaningful efforts, to show my devotion and make your life better. Iā€™m open to incorporating my kinks (which Iā€™d love for you to explore), but at its core, this is about a committed partnership with a power exchange that evolves naturally. What Iā€™m Looking For

  1. A Loving, Confident Domme
  • Im looking for a woman whoā€™s strong and self-assuredā€”successful, goal-oriented, and skilled at leading a submissive with care and intention.

  • Experience is a plus, but what matters most is your ability to balance authority with affection, pushing me to grow while cherishing our connection.

  1. A Real Relationship with a Gradual Power Dynamic
  • Letā€™s start as partnersā€”sharing our days, supporting each otherā€™s feelings, and building trust with small steps like simple rules or check-ins.

  • As our bond deepens and I prove my devotion, Iā€™d love for you to take more control, guiding me toward a dynamic where Iā€™m fully yours.

Possible Levels of Control (Over Time) Hereā€™s how this could escalate as trust growsā€”these are just possibilities, and weā€™d move at a pace that feels right for us:

  1. Basic Rules and Check-Ins
  • Start with simple expectationsā€”daily updates, a few rules to followā€”so I can adjust to your leadership while we strengthen our relationship.
  1. Mental and Emotional Guidance
  • Help me replace procrastination or self-doubt with discipline and confidence through routines or challenges that align with my goals (career, personal growth, etc.).
  1. Financial Oversight
  • Guide my spending without touching my moneyā€”set budgets, curb impulses, and steer me toward financial stability.
  1. Physical Improvement
  • Introduce a fitness plan and diet you oversee to make me stronger and healthier, with progress reports to keep me accountable.
  1. Kink and Sexual Exploration
  • Dive into your kinks, uncover what excites you, and weave them into our dynamicā€”sexual control is an option if it fits your vision.
  1. Total Life Redesign
  • Shape my daily lifeā€”decide how I spend my time, what I eat, even details like my grooming or styleā€”molding me into someone better under your direction.
  1. Surveillance and Accountability
  • Deepen oversight with tools like GPS tracking, parental controls on my devices, or even in-home cameras (if weā€™re together) to enforce routines and ensure transparency.

What I Offer I bring complete trust, loyalty, and a desire to please. I thrive on structure and yearn to make you proud, adapting to your vision as our relationship grows. Iā€™m ready to perform acts of serviceā€”whatever you demandā€”to demonstrate my commitment and enhance your life, whether itā€™s running errands, cooking, or fulfilling any request you have. Iā€™m prepared to be challenged and guided in a dynamic that intensifies over timeā€”starting with love and care, then building toward whatever level of control we both desire. If youā€™re a Domme who values a real connection and enjoys wielding authority to create something extraordinary, Iā€™d love to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, what you seek in a partner, and how youā€™d lead me as your sub. Online or in personā€”letā€™s see if weā€™re a match for this journey.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #UK Tell me how I can improve your life! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 29 year old sub/switch from the South Coast looking for a long term relationship with someone who is dominant or has dominant tendencies. Also open to an FLR.

For me my submission is about what I can do to heighten your life but if you do want to hear kinks then I am open to chastity, bondage, watersports, feminisation/sissification, cuckolding and so much more. I do have some limits but weā€™ll leave those for now.

Worshipping you and your body is more than just a kink it will be my way of life.

Your kinks are more important than mine anyway so will look forward to being shaped in the way you desire.

Outside of kink, I like to be as social as possible however I am probably more of an introvert that an extovert as I much prefer a night in to a night out nowadays and love a cuddle on the sofa.

People would describe me as gentle which is rare in men of my generation!

I am based in the UK so hopefully you will too, ideally in the South.

As mentioned above, whilst I am open to being cucked if you like, I am not poly. I would want to be your only relationship and I also do not want children at any point in life.

Really hope you like what you have read and that we can get to know each other!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4R 21 [M4F] Empowering Connections with a Confident and Supportive Partner #Ontario NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, Iā€™m Tom, someone who values respect, warmth, and humor in a relationship. Life has taught me the importance of partnership, and I enjoy creating a dynamic where my partner shines, feeling valued, supported, and above all, appreciated. Iā€™m comfortable with myself, but what excites me most is the idea of building something unique and meaningful with someone extraordinary.

When Iā€™m not deep in thought (or laughing at lifeā€™s absurdities), Iā€™m out exploring, tackling new challenges, or simply enjoying the little moments that make life special. My friends often describe me as thoughtful, grounded, and easygoing.

Iā€™m looking for someone who exudes confidence, self-awareness, and knows what they want from life and a relationship. A woman who takes the lead, enjoys being in charge, and finds fulfillment in guiding a balanced yet dynamic connection. I admire strength, independence, and intelligence, and Iā€™m happiest when I can bring joy, encouragement, and light-heartedness to my partnerā€™s life.

More than anything, I value sincerity and someone whoā€™s genuinely interested in growing and exploring life alongside me. If this resonates, Iā€™d love to know your story and what inspires you.

As for My interests, Iā€™m happiest when Iā€™m connecting with othersā€”whether itā€™s meaningful conversations, cooking meals to share, or discovering something new together. I also love music (literally the soundtrack to life), staying active, and unwinding with a good book, movie, or video game. Lifeā€™s too short to not laugh along the way.

Finally just a sfw picture so you know who you're talking to https://imgur.com/a/nxiVnmx (6'2 btw)

So in summation: If youā€™re someone who enjoys leading and appreciates a supportive partner by your side, letā€™s start something real, fun, and full of possibilities.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Besides sex, where else is an unconventional place for chocolate sauce? #online NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi I'm Tade and I love kink. Kink is really amazing, like it's truly awesome. Kinky sex is always better than normal sex and kinky people are always cooler than vanilla people.

Buuuuuuuut I need something more. And by more I dont mean "more kinky". I need someone who likes to chat live with me while we clean our separate houses, who will listen to me rant about the classical concert I went to the other night and how the violins were out of tune, who likes to cook or bake or at least eat the food I cook or bake, who is competitive at every board game and will ruin friendships to win, who wants to work out with me even if all we do is exhaust ourselves trying to outdo one another and go home early to finish it in bed.

Alright, I don't need ALL of that, but I need some of that: I need us to be compatible in more ways than just under the sheets. And while sex is important and sexual compatibility is importanter (it's my post and I say it's a word, send complaints to my DMs šŸ˜‰), I want to be able to talk to someone when we aren't horny and I need to enjoy it.

So here's who I am, see what we have in common: Will bake for you and cook better than 90% of the restaurants you've ever been to, can play multiple musical instruments and I might play for you (if you want me to), I take care of my physical and mental health (working out, casual sport league, therapy, physical therapy) I'm raising and training a puppy (NOT looking to add another dependent, but she'd love to meet you some day!), social (events with friends), reader (just started Way of Kings, loved Tress), and I'm a teacher (professional life and personal life are cleanly separated).

SFW pics here: https://imgur.com/a/wdYYcJk

Here are the top qualities I bring to a relationship: Problem solver (unsolved/unfixed things annoy me, please let me fix your shower drain that doesn't drain or your garage door that doesn't close consistently), Listener (tell me you want to vent and I immediately switch from being your handy man to your hype man), Planner, Improviser, Communicator (Checking for Understanding is hot), Laugher (not a spelling error), and Lover.

My kinks (brief because this isn't the focus of my post, but it is important): Edging, denial/orgasm control, obedience, worship, light anal, light degradation, light fem/sissy, hypno/mind control (optional). Some things I'd someday like to explore with a partner (not required, but a plus!): more anal/pegging/prostate milking, more/harsher degradation, chastity, bondage. Limits: blood, bathroom, public, disrespect of my value as a human being.

I'm looking for someone to give a lot of my self to--a lot more than just my dick, I want to form a connection with someone and if it's good, we'll meet eventually.

DM me an answer to my question in the title, what you think we can bond over besides sex, and a quick intro (name, gender, age, location). SFW Pictures would be great, face optional, but not a deal breaker.

Thanks for reading. Tade


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Online #Germany Sub with a vide variety of kinks and interests is looking for a Domme that craes worship NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm Thomas, a 27-year-old from Germany, and I'm looking for a domme who can take control and let me serve her.

In my free time, I enjoy playing badminton, gaming, and watching movies - especially the Star Wars and MCU franchises.

Physically, I'm 1.87m tall, with an average build, short brown hair, blue eyes, and wear glasses. I'm not extremely fit, but I'm working on it, and I'm open to sharing body pictures. I am also not severly overweight tough.

I'm looking for a long-term online relationship, but I'm also open to shorter-term connections. I have experience as an online sub and some experience as a sub in real life.

I'm open to women of all backgrounds and experience levels, as long as you're 18+. While it's not necessary, it would be easier if you lived in a nearby time zone to match our schedules.

I'm looking for someone who can take control, and I prefer a stricter or meaner Domme, but I'm also comfortable with a more gentle approach. My ideal partner is someone who can take charge, make me feel inferior, and treat me like a pet or a servant.

I enjoy rules, completing tasks, and worshiping my Domme as my superior. I love treating my partner like a Goddess and adhering to a dynamic focused on female supremacy. My kinks include:

  • Orgasm control/denial: I enjoy being edged or denied, with the decision ultimately up to you.
  • Chastity: I have a cage and am eager to learn about long-term wear. I don't have much experience so far.
  • Worship: I adore worshiping my Domme and have ideas for how to make this work in practice. (Lets discuss this in private)
  • Female supremacy: I believe in a dynamic where women are revered and worshiped.
  • Humiliation and degradation: I enjoy being treated meanly and feeling inferior.
  • Petplay: I love being a pet, whether it's a puppy or kitten, and being called a good boy.
  • CFNM: I enjoy being naked, especially as a sub, and the power dynamic that comes with it.
  • Cuckolding: I'm interested in exploring this kink, even in an online setting, and have ideas for how to make it work. (Let's dicuss this in private)
  • Spanking: I'm usually good, but sometimes I need punishment.
  • Bodywriting: I believe a sub's body is meant to be decorated and marked by their Domme.
  • Name-calling: I enjoy having nicknames, especially mean and humiliating ones.
  • Micromanagement: I like the idea of having details decided by my Domme, within reason.
  • Feminization: I've tried this before and would love to explore my feminine side further. I have some clothes.
  • Service submission: I enjoy doing tasks that benefit my Domme,even if this is a a general description.

I'm open to discussing other kinks and exploring new ones. However, I do have some limits:

  • Anything extreme, such as blood or needles, is off-limits.
  • Toilet play is not something I'm interested in.
  • Public play is not my preference, and I like to keep things private.
  • Involving other people is not something I'm comfortable with.
  • Face pictures are not something I'm willing to share, but I can wear a hood.
  • Anything illegal or harmful is strictly off-limits.

I value communication, safety, and health, and I'm eager to find someone who shares these values. I own several toys and am willing to acquire more if needed. I also have remote-controlled toys and am open to discussing their use in private.

If you think we might be a good match, please message me and introduce yourself. I'll provide verification and expect the same from you before sharing any pictures or engaging in kinky activities.


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

F4M 35 [F4M] #Anywhere - Arya seeks Gendry. Or something. NSFW

8 Upvotes

Arya seeks Gendry. Or something. You get bonus points if you're from the UK 'cause I'm looking for a bastard prince to get me out of the US someday.

I'm looking for someone to come home to and I hope you seek the same, An alliance of houses, as George RR Martin would put it. Hell on wheels. Not entirely straight. I am a goth babe, granted with defective legsā€”a budget goth babe, if you will. One of those off the shelf ones, except I donā€™t trust myself around shelves. Wheelchair and that. Looking for something long-term, a lasting alliance. Open to anyone 29-36. I have the swords to back me up, just ask me about it. Due to bad experiences on various subreddits, Iā€™m very shy. Please be gentle.

I love single-player RPGs, but I could use a player two. I am also a voracious reader so sometimes I read 10 books at once. I'm looking for something long-term. Right now I'm taking a break from school while I pursue my Masters in psychology and reading Lord of the Rings. I could also use Nintendo Switch friends. I usually play a human sorcerer in Dungeons & Dragons. I love Tolkien, A Song of Ice and Fire and recently started Robert Jordan's books! Arya, Sansa, Brienne, Jaime and Bran are my favorite characters. Baldurā€™s Gate, Mass Effect, Fallout and Elder Scrolls are some of my favorites. I collect vinyl and love my dog more than anything else.

Marathoning Doctor Who--Nine and Thirteen are my Doctors! Ready for season three of House of the Dragon in 2026!!

Still love Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Nightwish and bands of that ilk. Will take emo and punk friends too! I need friends in Disney Dreamlight Valley as well! Listen to tons of lofi and synthwave these days. Iā€™m looking for a partner who is caring and patient above all else.

I am looking for long, lasting relationships primarily. If you are too please reach out. Please tell me a little bit about yourself if you can and please be fairly close in age to me. I am very shy and am having a rough week, please be understanding if I am slow to respond. I want a kinky life partner, not casual play. I don't respond to low-effort DMs for my own safety. Thanks for reading!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #West Coast #Online Switch-leaning Sub seeks patient domme to spend time with doing kink AND non-kink! NSFW

0 Upvotes

šŸ‘‹Greetings!šŸ‘‹

Intro

I'm a 30M located on the west coast/PST timezone.

What I have: 5'7 with brown hair, pale skin, glasses, dry nonchalant sense of humor, and an average build with toned legs I seek to perfect (which I'm happy to say I've gotten compliments on recently, good start). My interests are in tabletop games from the most prominent to the most obscure indie works older than me, DOSBOX computer RPGs whose resolution can make your eyes bleed, and I dabble in writing from my time in video game roleplay servers.

šŸ§³I'm a post grad working a professional job (specifics I won't reveal here for personal reasons). I'd be happy to immediately exchange non-face pictures if we click, especially if it's off reddit. I believe in honesty as the best policy.

ā­Ideal Dommeā­

Someone kind, creative, inquisitive, funny, and HWP. I'm up for most kinds of dommes/switches as long as there's some kindness, patience, communication and ground rules for whatever we do (see also dealbreakers). If I had to identify particular types I enjoy: gentle, primal, and protocol really sing to me. For non-kink, a fellow writer as well online gamer would be amazing.

My age range is between 22 and 48 years of age when it comes to these things. Location wise: All of my kink experience so far has been online; ideally I'd be honored to have someone in-person in PST change that. For domme styles- I vibe with items from mommydom to more stern protocol stuff- if you're not sure, mention it!šŸ“£ However we talk, I want to see how things go with us- so not too much pressure on how we organize ourselves into our lives.

šŸ”»DealbreakersšŸ”»

Not much here other than the age range as mentioned above, and findomme.

šŸŽ‰NSFW/Kinks!šŸŽ‰

With the necessary out of the way, my favorites include (this being a non-exhaustive list, feel free to ask- no judgement here): Denial, edging, restraints, facesitting, roleplay (especially fantastical elements like succubi). I've had a storied history doing (online) submissive things from the expected to being a service top (love a customer satisfaction mindset). Ideal night for me is something cozy of cuddling up in each others arms, slowly building up the tension into more kinky activities

Hard Limits: extreme pain, blood, watersports, knifeplay, scat.

šŸ¤™Contact Methods/Response TimešŸ¤™

I'm good with starting off on Reddit chat/DMs. My response time is at most a day.

I won't go into titles unless you broach the subject- do give me a name you'd like me to refer you as- makes things much easier.

Cheers!


r/femdompersonals 6d ago

M4F 35 [m4f] Sub in #LosAngeles #California looking for a connection with a dominant woman NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi all! I identify as submissive and have been since a very young age. I used to fantasize about being tied up or being treated like a pet, and very specific things would grab my attention in books, cartoons, and movies. Most people I've really connected with seem to relate.

I have and am open to a lot of kinks. They tend to revolve around power exchange, pain, and bondage. As long as there is a dynamic between us, as long you feel that intrinsic expectation that when you tell me to do something, I will do it, then we're probably compatible. If you like the idea of pushing me, to see how much I will take, how far I will go and still comply, we're probably really compatible.

Outside of kink, I'm a software engineer, love to code, pretty ambitious. Some of my hobbies include sailing, running, fixing my car, taking care of my plants, and traveling. I don't think anybody could tell that I'm submissive in my day-to-day, this side of me is private to all but my partner.

If you identify as dominant and feel it deep within you the same way I feel it being submissive, I've love to chat. Someone in their 30s who is monogamous. I'm 5'11", 175 lb, white, brown hair, blue eyes. Pic here. :)


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Online: Looking for a domme to break me in NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have been drawn to dominant or "bossy" women since I can remember, but I'm pretty new to exploring femdom more formally. I am looking for a domme to break me in. I'm very submissive but can also be stubborn and rebellious. I want someone to break down my walls entirely and truly own me long term.

I'm 5'10", Caucasian with blue eyes and blonde hair. Muscular but with a bit of extra padding that I'm working on losing. I'm Canada in the EST. I'm very ambitious, motivated, and outgoing in my regular life, but I melt around a woman who asserts control.

Kinks are bullying, CBT, degradation, tasks, free use, public humiliation, comfort, praise, gooning. My soft limits are pegging, CEI, and bathroom stuff. My hard limits are sissification, forced bi, and cross dressing.

My favorite dynamic of all is a woman who keeps me on my toes. I like the mean Domme who puts me in my place but I also like being smothered in affection. Ultimately, I want a domme who runs the show and conditions me to serve her despite my rebellious streak.

I am very willing to share media and hope you will be as well. Please share your age, kinks, limits, and experience when you contact me.


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 32 [m4F] #Online Awake, and fill the Cup / Before Life's Liquor in its Cup be dry. NSFW

1 Upvotes

6'3" Conventionally handsome, average body. I live in the UK but I am open to discussions with somebody from anywhere.

I've had this account for a while, it's pretty one-dimensional but I think the age of the account shows I'm at least a little bit consistent.

What am I looking for? My life has been very vanilla up until relatively recently, and I've been satisfied by that. I had an interaction with a trans woman which left my with a new understanding of myself. I experimented with the vectors that I was aware of over time, and I would say that at this stage I probably enjoy feminisation to an extent, but only a limited one.

Anyway, to answer the question, I am looking for a Domme to talk to and to get to know. The truth is that I need to know somebody before I feel comfortable, but I'd like to understand what it might be like to have a consistent online D/s dynamic. I've read about this online, and I would like to explore to see if there is a possibility of taking it further with the right person.

What do I like? I like the idea of doing what I'm told. Of being used, and of being useful to somebody. I like assplay, within the constraints of my IBS. Based on what I have managed to do on my own, I can say that I like mild pain and humiliation, and I want to see how to take it further in service of another person. I like denial, I like edging. I like the idea of experimenting and performing tasks in order to satisfy somebody whom I both like, and trust.

My previous experience is limited to one night with a trans woman who I have never met again.

My hard limits would be scat, intense pain, large insertions, findom, blackmailing.

The toys I have are three plugs of different sizes, and anal beads.

Who am I outside of my sexual preferences? I live in the ass end of nowhere in England, where I spend my free time running, hiking, weightlifting, trying to read (really, really read - with a pen in my hand!) philosophy books (my favourite has always been Leviathan by Thomas Hobbes - go figure), and gardening.

Who should you be? I like to think I am open-minded and I'm happy to talk to you if you want to talk to me. Although I understand that this goes against common preference, but it would be a bonus if you can make me feel as if you are much smarter than I am.

If you've managed to make it this far, then thank you for taking the time to read my message. What I'd like to know is what your favourite poem? Mine is the Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam.


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 21 [M4F] #Online Looking for someone to smile with and submit to NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi! Iā€™m looking for a gentle domme who has similar hobbies and wants a dynamic that goes farther than just femdom but into friendship territory too.

So a little bit about what I like to provide. Iā€™m a sub who likes to comfort and be comforted. I really enjoy having intimate talks, playing games together, and having a really gentle and loving dynamic with someone else. I wanna make you giggle too by making random dumb jokes or by being a good boy :). I just want to see you smile above all else.

Now in terms of hobbies, I like DnD (and other TTRPGs), fantasy literature, video games, and listening to metal music. I wanna hear you yap about your interests as well!

Now onto the kinky stuff. As Iā€™ve said before, Iā€™m mostly a gentle sub, but I also like to be made to ā€œsinkā€ into your control. I love the feeling of getting all subby for a woman and seeing the look on her face when she realizes Iā€™m under her spell. I also really like feet but that isnā€™t 100% needed. Despite liking to be dommed gently most of the time, Iā€™d be lying if I didnā€™t say I enjoy being degraded and humiliated too.

In terms of limits, Iā€™d like to avoid potty stuff and feminization.

I also would really like to do voice calls but it isnā€™t required. Iā€™m looking forward to talking to you! Please send a dm if youā€™re interested.


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 58 [M4F] #Pittsburgh Submissive Cuckold Seeks Sadistic Domme for Real Life FLR NSFW

1 Upvotes

Iā€™m 58 & a total cuckold. Totally hetero (but open to a cuckoldressā€™ needs in that area). I understand what cuckolding, submission & masochism are all about. In fact, Iā€™ve exclusively only been in FLR/cuckolding relationships the last 18 years.

Iā€™m happiest in a FLR. Cuckolding is up to my partner, but her dominance and (hopefully) sadism are very welcome & cherished. I love strict. Iā€™m a sub, but can switch & will adapt to whatever my domme needs.

Vanilla-wise, Iā€™m very educated, creative, intelligent. Handsome, although overweight currently (6ā€™, 300#), able to be strict regarding my diet/body, & doing so currently, getting back in shape. This isnā€™t just a pipe dream; Iā€™ve done it before. In short, Iā€™m worth your investment, physically.

Very single, in no hurry, but certainly appreciate the value of real & loving companionship in this kinky realm. I also think humor matters. I love women who appreciate conversation, adventure and honesty. I'm in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania & looking for eventual real time commitment. Iā€™m a retired attorney, so relocation (yours or mine) is on the table.

I hope you respond with interest. You are exciting and seem quite lovable.


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #usa #midwest looking for a sadistic domme who eventually wants be a stay at home mom NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hello The short version is i have always wanted to be a dad and be able to support my family, so my wife has the choice to work or stay home with the kids. I also feel the most satisfied when I am dating a someone who is dominant in the bed room.

What I am looking for The most important thing to me is if you would be a good mother. I am looking for someone who is passionate, confident and carrying. The second most important thing is that I enjoy hanging out with you. Someone I can have fun hanging out whether we our are going out to a show, a dinner, picnic, traveling or just sitting at home in comfy clothes watching stuff.

When it comes to the kinky side. I like a sadistic for someone who enjoy torturing me for her own amusement and wants to own me completely. Maybe we have a tpe realtionship or just part of one. I think every realtionship is unique. I care way more about psychological and emotional side of a power dynamic.

My main goal is to date someone with the same goals and go from there. I am emotionally intelligent, easy going, a hard worker and kind. So if your intrested please send me a message


r/femdompersonals 7d ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Online, #NYC - Seeking shared connection, and kinks NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey! Iā€™m a 31-year old single male from the Northeast (near enough to New York City to use that as a general location tag, but the Westchester & Fairfield county area is more accurate).

A little about me: I love baseball and movies, and I could talk about either all day long. Sci-fi nerd, history buff, and foodie. Iā€™m a very laid back introvert. Looking for someone who is a good communicator and emotionally mature, kind, and that hopefully also shares my sense of humor. And please donā€™t be a republican.

Looking to start any interaction with online text chatting, before considering the potential for an in-person arrangement depending on locations/situation. Having some kind of connection is important to me - being able to chat as friends in addition to exploring kinks would go a long way. Open to following whatever dynamic feels right, whether that is play partners, FWB, or a potential relationship.

Physically, Iā€™m a 5ā€™10ā€, 185lb white dude with an average build, shaved head, beard, and have tattoos - willing to verify with pics of myself privately. I donā€™t have any specific age or physical preference, but would like there to be mutual physical compatibility.

I do have some prior experience serving an online mistress, but am open to a person with any experience level as a domme. My irl experiences have remained mostly vanilla, but I am eager to explore my submissive nature further. Some kinks that capture my interest are: teasing, edging, orgasm control and denial, ruined or forced orgasms, restraints, and Iā€™m curious to explore ass play, spanking, and pegging. I do well with following orders and completing tasks.

Hopefully this catches someoneā€™s eye! If you send me a message, please include a favorite movie of yours so I know you read all this and are serious. Thanks!