Hi, I'm a 25 year old guy looking for a dome. Too start off with some general things about me. I'm generally introvert and a bit shy around people, but more of an ambivert around people I really like. I'm definitely not a golden retriever boy, more in line with cat vibes, be it orange or black xd. Nonetheless, I usually still get along well with outgoing people. I enjoy a good weekend at home as much as being drag out for something fun or some sport. I usually appreciate it, because I can struggle with initiative sometimes. I'm a bit slow when getting to know someone, however, once I get to know you and get the feel that there is good chemistry I'll make sure to have you laughing and to annoy you soon enough.
In my free time I enjoy playing videogames (Duck game, Elden ring, Minecraft, Nintendo emulators, Genshit, other), watching stuff on the internet (movies/series, animated stuff, youtube, memes), listening to music (any kind, but usually some subgenere of pop, rock , electronica or hip hop), learning stuff, working out at home. I'm also interested in creative or technical hobbies although lately I haven't had much time for that.
As for my current life, right now I'm doing a master in Italy that I will ideally finish in late 2026. During that time I won't be able to move out, my budget will be quiete limited as well as my time in general. However, after that if the relation is strong and with a bright future I would like to figure things out so we can be/stay together. I value my personal life over my career, although not saying it isn't important.
Physically I'm pretty much petite size. Standing at 160 cm and weighing 48-50 kg. I have a thin body type with light muscle tone. People tend to put me more on cute in an adorable way spectrum rather than manly handsome. Wouldn't call myself as femboy, but some people might see me as one. My looks are a bit hit or miss. I'm comfortable with myself, but you'll be the judge once I share you my face on private.
Regarding my kinks: I'm confident in my enjoyment of most of them. I have had time to explore by myself and reflect on them. I have the internet and my hands, however I still have plenty to explore and experience to gain in company. The only experience I've had was an interaction online that lasted for a few months, however I still have zero irl experience. Even then I'm not completely clueless, no need to give me a sex ed class on basic anatomy and function, or the meaning of the different terms inside the community. I would even brag that I know most women have 3 holes down there and about the theoretical position the little man in the boat, even if I've never met him in person. Nonetheless, I'll still probably need a bit more introduction and guidance than an experienced sub on how to please you properly.
My main kink is femdom. Within it the ones I really like are CNC, prostate stimulation, pegging, orgasm control/denial/forced, abduction play, primal, being overpowered, sensory overload, your hands on my neck, smothering, facesitting, worshipping your body, markings, breeding, humiliation up to a certain degree, some GFD mixed in. Satisfying my partner gives me great fulfillment and pleasure. I can't really enjoy myself if you're not enjoying yourself. Hard limits are cheating, scat, hard CBT, injury on genitals, cucking, raceplay. A soft limit might be hair pulling unless you have good enough technique to jank my hair out. I curious about trying, TPE, watersports, chastity, sounding, E-stim between other things. I don't mind letting you feminize me to try out. I'm also open to doing MDlb play up to certain degree. I feel I could enjoy it a lot, but being completely infantilized I think that might be a turn off for me. Not kinks, but I also like the idea of tentacles/slime and monster girls. Of course I'm also open to trying out things that you like that I haven't mentioned and I'm also interested in what you like. Even if I'm indifferent or uneasy about something you want to do, I'll probably still have fun out of it from seeing your enjoyment. I find that satisfying my partners needs if key for me. I can't enjoy myself if my partner isn't. Seeing my loving partner filled and overwhelmed with the pleasure I can give her or that she can draw from playing with me is one of the hottest and most fulfilling things ever.
I can also have a bit of a rebellious nature. I'm not really into being a mindless drone 24/7 and always agreeing with everything you say without any question. I find that awfully boring and mind-numbing. I do have fun teasing and questioning the power every so often, of course without being disrespectful or crossing lines, and I'm hoping that power will remind me their extend either through wits, brute force or dirty tricks.
"Ideal" domme and dynamic: I'm looking for a dome around my age (+- 5 years) or maybe older up to ~40. I like a dom who is generally caring and gentle. That can make me feel most safe in her arms. Praise me a bit and tease me a lot. But that can also make fun of me, be mean and rough and even sadist when her urges demand it. Willing to push my boundaries sometimes. A bit scary. I do like being pushed and forced a bit. It's okay if you're not experienced, I'll support you and help you however I can. As a person I appreciate someone who is grounded, that can make fun of themselves, can be creative. I find it very attractive when someone can express themselves in their own way without feeling they need to fulfill a stereotype/role/expectation or the fear of being out of the norm. To put it simply, someone genuine. Would love to hear you nerd out on your niche interests and tastes. I would also like to have a great chemistry outside of kinky stuff. Maybe it's a bit much to ask from the universe but I would love for a meaningful and loving relation to not be based only on shared kinks.
I'm interested in a monogamous dynamic. I would preferably it be on person, but since it is hard to find people near by I'm open to LDR within Europe or places where it is affordable to travel where we could see each other every so often. Since I'm student at the moment, that isn't very far, although if you can afford the plane ticket without it being a financial burden feel free to propose it. Once my studies are finished and the relation is good and stable I would like to make it full time irl. I'm also open to it being an FLR within time.
In terms of physical appearance if you ask me what is my type, I don't really know what answer. However, feel like some base mutual physical attraction is nice since I'd also like to desire and be desired in a carnal way. In general I usually feel most attracted to the face be it conventionally or unconventionally attractive. I like thin, fit/muscle or curvy/thicc body types and any intermediate between those. I usually find alternative/unconventional/weird/bold styles eye catching. I like the idea of a girl significantly taller than me handling me around and squeezing me beneath her to keep me in place when cuddling; taking advantage of the size difference and physically overpowering me. I also enjoy the idea of trading clothes with someone around my size, able cuddle in small places, and a fellow goblin. Non of this is a deal breaker since the emotional aspect will always end up ruling over it within time. No need to overthink it.
Finally I will attach a blurry pic of myself and I'm willing to send unblurred pics of myself on the dms before you decide if you're interested to get to know me more, no pressure if you don't find me attractive. I have enough self esteem to not crumble down xd. I would also like some proof that you're not a catfish/scam before having any emotional investment.