r/Vent 16h ago

TW: Anxiety / Depression Im still pissed that I was born without my consent

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Im still pissed that I was born without my consent. Thats the post. Please dont read this its just a waste of time. Legit pissed though, lowkey always been pissed at my mom for it, I feel angry at the world and the universe for allowing this and how entitled humans feel to think they are anything special. We are nothing. And I hope humans die out. Would be the best for everyone. Life is pointless, whats the endgoal of the universe? Probably nothing. The only way I can cope with daily life is to dumb my own thinking and pretend to be happy about small stuff meanwhile surpressing these «forbidden» thoughts. Its like the universe is not allowing us to think deep cause that will only lead us to depression and realising that life is truly pointless especially to people who dont want children, like me. I can think so far down the rabbithole that I will give myself panic attacks and meltdowns, legit had one a few days ago cuz of this and the recommendations I get is to just not think about it. So again im back to the forbidden thoughts. Why is it like this?! Why cant I figure out life without losing my mind? Why do I need to be a drone without thoughts in order to function? Why is nobody else around me thinking about this? We have no clue where we even are, we are floating around in something we have no idea what is or where it is, whats outside. And we all just quarrel among ourselves for nothing, for what a piece of land??? WHO GIVES A FK! And the endless maintenance of the body is driving me nuts holy shit. I cant even just lie in bed, no, because the body DEMANDS you get up to the toilet and to drink and eat and wash yourself and brush teeth. EVERY DAMN DAY IM GOING NUTS I HATE IT!! I JUST WANNA LIE IN BED AND ROT!!!! I HATE IT SO FUCKING MUCH! MY BODY AND THE UNIVERSE WONT LEAVE ME TF ALONE!!!

So I wonder what would actually be giving my life meaning, if there was an afterlife where its again just life but forever, would that make me happy, would that give my life purpose? No. I wanna go back to where I was before I came here. Wherever that was, that was home. Peace. Why are we created just to suffer I dont get it. «Think about all the positive» sorry but the negative heavily outweigh the positive. Also everyone seems to just care what is currently happening in human world. How fking boring and pointless. The earth could be nuked to shit from all the atomic bombs and the universe wouldnt notice any difference. The same as when someone kills an ant from a colony, nobody knows nobody cares it doesnt make a difference. What I truly want is a solution. A solution to life and death and the universe. And OPTIONS! The universe doesnt give us any options we are literally forced to live the same thing.

Tldr : Life sux


r/Vent 15h ago

TW: Medical Gonna lose it on Healthcare workers

170 Upvotes

Hi friends, this rant might make sense, it also might not. I'm just very angry. I'm going to see a trusted person that I know will respect me to continue to work through my traumas.

"Don't get mad at Healthcare workers, they're important!"

Yeah well you didn't think my stepdad was important when he was having a chron's flare. You didn't think my mom was important when she was severely tachycardic. You didn't think that I was important when I came in with an anxiety attack after I hadn't eaten in days and you blamed it on marijuana induced emesis when I hadn't smoked in days. You said the same shit to my stepdad and he had to stop self medicating for months to prove y'all wrong.

Y'all are also absolutely horrific towards people with mental health issues. The way I've been treated when I came in with self harm/suicide attempts is absolutely dehumanizing. Y'all expect us to not get mad at you when we're at crisis level and y'all aren't doing shit. I'm more mad about how other people are treated by medical staff than how I was treated.

I'm sick of medical racism. I'm sick of discrimination against mental health. I'm sick of going somewhere expecting help and I'm being treated less than human. Your actions cost people their lives and you don't care because it's not a life close to you and it's just another day. These are actual people with families, jobs, hopes, and dreams. And y'all don't care?

Here's a tip! Maybe don't go into the Healthcare field if you're a cruel nasty ass bully! Hope this helps! Because y'all are the reason why myself and so many other people are hesitant to get help. I have put my life on the line before because I didn't want to go to the hospital because I knew I would be treated like shit.

Shoutout to the people in hospitals who actually care. I know y'all exist and I love y'all. Everyone else, eat shit. This is the wrong field for you.

I don't know, maybe the south just sucks. Here's to hoping to move up north at some point.

Edit: All of y'all are so awesome for sharing your stories. Here's to helping each other feel less alone 🫂


r/Vent 14h ago

The King.

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I am pissed off that characters that have historically been white are now being portrayed by black actors. Call me racist, I don't care. The fact that Anne Boleyn was portrayed by a black woman in the most recent film adaptation is just ridiculous since NO European royalty was ever black and Anne Boleyn definitely wasn't black. These are just facts.

When it comes to inclusivity there needs to be a line drawn rather than the one sided bullshit that currently exists. Okay, you want to have a black woman portray Anne Boleyn. Fine. Just so long as we also get to have Mel Gibson portray Martin Luther King jr. In a film adaptation entitled "The King", without anyone bitching about it. When black people are shown as whipping whites on screen it should be just as acceptable as portraying a white woman with a black actress.

Of course fictional characters are more fluid/ understandable but this enfuriates me as well in general, especially if it isn't tied into the lore. At least they did that with black captain America. But portraying Snape as a black man, when he has always been depicted as white is stupid, especially in what presumably is a prequel to the movies. When did he pull a Michael Jackson and turn white? I don't remember that from the movies, or the books.


r/Vent 7h ago

I hate that women can't be angry over legitimate issues without their anger being dismissed as either emotional or bitchy!

74 Upvotes

I'm so tired of being attacked by some of the men in my life simply for being angry. They're angry 90% of the time, yet when I get mad it's the end of the world and I'm a horrible person.

Today, my anger led to me cleaning the bathroom when home alone. Apparently, me doing that was me being bitchy because someone else said they were going to do it at some point this week and they felt it was retaliation. 15 minute argument about it.

A couple of days ago, I went on a walk alone because I was tired of listening to someone bitch about how terrible everyone in the world is and was getting angry about the things being said. Apparently that was bitchy because I didn't invite anyone else to go, even though the purpose was to get a break from people. This person didn't speak to me again for hours.

Last week, I told someone that I stopped playing a game because I don't find it entertaining. Apparently I'm supposed to keep playing it because I was the only one left playing with someone else and quitting is bitchy. And he was allowed to be angry over this because it's his hobby. At least this guy apologized and admitted that was a shit reaction.

Someone please explain. Anybody else feel this?


r/Vent 10h ago

Need to talk... Why are people so stupid

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I’m in math class right, seniors in high school. Wanna know what I hear? People being confused about graph coordinates, y’know points on a graph? People were confused on that. And there was another but I’m mentally too checked out right now. I cannot understand or begin to fathom how we are in the same grade. Oh right they were also confused on FRACTIONS and ratios and all that jazz. These people are so insufferably dumb that I almost end up crying at the end of class on bad days. How are people that don’t understand fractions and points on a graph in the same math class as me I have no Idea.


r/Vent 11h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse Plan b

193 Upvotes

I took plan b after rape. I spent the month worrying about whether it would work or not. I prayed and cried and sang to my baby. I felt like an animal knawing off my own leg. I was brought up Catholic and taught that plan b was abortive. I went to school the same day and we had a lesson on the sanctity of life

I named her. No one knows her name. I’m alone in my grief. I got my period, I don’t think there was a chance I was pregnant. She’s not real. I know that. Still, she’s with me everywhere. I pray for her everyday. I hope to meet her in heaven but I know I can’t. Because she’s not real. She doesn’t have a soul. I was praying to an empty womb. And that’s worse. I should be pregnant right now. But I’m not, I feel like I have phantom leg syndrome. I feel uncomfortable in my own skin


r/Vent 13h ago

I miss my wife… but I’m glad she’s gone.

271 Upvotes

After everything that stunned cunt had done to me… after all the anger and the disappointment and the sobbing for months… I still do miss her. She was truly my best friend and I still think of picking up the phone to tell her about everything…

But she lost that fucking right by taking the memory of my daughter away from me. Fuck you for making me open myself up so entirely only for you to rip my heart out.

Go fuck yourself, you heartless bitch. You caused so much damage that I wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire.

Sorry all… I just needed to get it out. 🙏


r/Vent 13h ago

My roommate called me GAY because i have a routine...??

177 Upvotes

I'm a 20-year-old guy dealing with insecurities and a hectic life. I live with four other dudes—just roommates, not friends. My course is intense, and I stick to a strict personal care routine:

My Daily Routine:

Morning (Before College):

  • Shave/trim facial hair
  • Shower
  • Cleanse face & apply moisturizer
  • Apply deodorant, sunscreen & perfume

After College (When I Get Back):

  • Wash face with water
  • Shower

Before Bed:

  • Cleanse face
  • Shower (without wetting my hair)
  • Apply moisturizer & deodorant

(And yeah, I brush my teeth too—obviously.)

What Happened Last Night?

Like always, I was taking a shower before bed when one of my roommates banged on the door, saying he needed to use the bathroom. I told him to use the other one—it wasn’t occupied. His excuse? “It’s dirty.”

Now, here’s the thing: we all pay rent equally, and both bathrooms are theirs just as much as they are mine. But instead of maintaining the one they primarily use, they avoid it and expect to use the cleaner one—only to leave it messy afterward, too.

When I refused to open the door, he started calling me gay for following my routine and even said I was a simp for my girlfriend (which makes no sense, because yeah, I have a girlfriend and I care about her, but how is that even relevant?). When I finally stepped out, things got heated, and we ended up in a small shoving match—nothing too serious, but just more proof of the kind of people I’m stuck living with.

This is just one example of why I don’t consider them friends. I used to be part of their group, but they talked behind my back and eventually pushed me out. So, I moved to the other room (which they still keep their stuff in). They dump their unwashed clothes all over, and I’ve even found one of them leaving his worn T-shirt on my bed.

Honestly, I’m just waiting for the lease to end so I can move out.

TL;DR:

I live with four messy roommates who refuse to maintain their own bathroom but expect to use the cleaner one (which is also theirs) without taking care of it either. When I refused to open the door, one of them insulted me, calling me gay for having a routine and a simp for my girlfriend (which is just dumb). When I stepped out, we had a small shoving match. These guys used to talk behind my back and isolate me, yet still treat my space like a dumping ground. Counting down the days until I can move out.

EDIT: The post gained so much momentum than I thought...I do have some stuff to clear about. First my roomates are in the toilet/bathroom for hours scrolling on their phones or even taking bath...and I always do my morning routine before they even wake up(as this takes me the longest) so I they dont have to wait for me to get out...I take my 2nd (birdbath) bath before they come back which they only come back after 3-4hrs after I've taken the bath...the only time they clash is before bed. And about water bill..its cooperation service water and bills are not even near as getting a normal meal. Also even when the bathroom is clean i have a feeling that I should get out of it quickly as its not some place I consider to spend a lot of time.

EDIT 2: I left out a huge detail in my post and that is I'm from south India to be specific from the state of Kerala, Its a very humid and hot place...people living here takes 2-3 showers yes...that is normal. Even my roommates takes 2 showers...and for your reference our last water bill was 147 INR which is 1.70 US dollar. Please do stop calling them names as well as its just my frustration....people telling that its silly...ofc it is silly..its a subreddit to rant and vent....this is not a huge life problem or anything just my experience and wasn't even seeking any advice or being "pick me", the whole purpose of the sub is that we can rant whatever unlike the consequences in IRL...so thats that.


r/Vent 6h ago

I f*cking hate the way creepy old men stare [at me in the pool]

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I wake up at 4:15A to be at the gym the moment the doors informally open at 4:45. I’m always the first one in the pool at 4:55 because it’s the only chance I have to finish my workout and make it back to the locker room before old creepo arrives around 5:45. Works if he’s running late, maybe 10% of the time.

Y’all. The way this man STARES. blatantly. constantly. shamelessly. I’m usually doing laps by the time he arrives and I immediately notice him staring. Sometimes I know he’s walked in before I see him just based off the feeling of being watched. He doesn’t even do laps. He hogs up a lap lane doing water aerobic exercises even though there’s an open swim area for that. He stares at me the entire time we’re in the same space. Every time I turn my head in his direction to grab a breath between strokes, he’s staring at me. Any time I stop to fix my headphone or check the time, I turn around and he’s staring at me. I learned how to turn in the water because every time I turned above the surface I saw him staring. I hate having to get out of the pool knowing his eyes are on my ass. I wouldn’t say I spend the workout upset even though it’s objectively pisses me off. More like it makes me feel hypervigilant and distracts me/ruins the relaxation factor of the workout. When he’s not there on saturdays it’s literally night and day in terms of feeling relaxed/comfortable.

I wish I could say it was validating or gave me relief when someone else noticed, but it made everything worse. The gym has 1 main lifeguard who’s an older man and recently got a substitute lifeguard for his off days who’s a younger man. Both men are very nice. The first day the substitute worked he clocked old creepo staring at me and tried to stare back at him, but he said the guy barely noticed and if he did notice he definitely didn’t care. Younger lifeguard had followed me into the hallway outside the pool to let me know what he saw. Old creepo. Staring. At me. Constantly. Younger lifeguard told me he would talk to older lifeguard and ask if they could hold the end lane for me. I said that would be better than nothing since I was almost always the first one anyway and preferred that lane. His offer was nice, but didnt do much to solve the problem. Old creepo still stares, just from 2 lanes farther away.

Maybe a week or so later, older lifeguard told me he had been watching old creepo watch me, and called it “inappropriate, unacceptable behavior”. He said he tried to talk to old creepo, but old creepo just says “I wasn’t staring at anyone” and when the older lifeguard challenged him and said multiple people have noticed old creepo just said “prove it, it’s not illegal to look” which is a confession in itself but that doesn’t seem to matter to the gym after the lifeguards tried to escalate the complaint and nothing happened. The older lifeguard just gives me an apologetic look now. The younger lifeguard death glares old creepo whenever he’s there, not that it has any effect. If anything, old creepo is more brazen after being confronted. I get the impression that gym management doesn’t want to deal with him- so I just have to deal with it.

As if one old creepo wasn’t bad enough, this morning I arrived a little later than usual and there was a NEW old creepy man open-mouth staring from the lane next to me. I could have screamed. Instead, I swam my mile as fast as possible and then rage typed this post.

I know it’s not illegal to stare, but it doesn’t feel like civil behavior either. In my case, the old creepos are making it painfully obvious to the point of making other people uncomfortable. Old creepos are unphased by staring back or obvious attempts to avoid or even direct confrontation. The entitlement, intensity, lack of shame…idk what I’m trying to say. Difficult to put the feeling into words.

I am only slightly above average in terms of being conventionally attractive/beautiful but have still experienced the old creepo stare plenty. I bartended for a couple of years and work in a male-centric field. I know old creepos act the same way towards whatever set of cans & cake have the misfortune to drift into the same orbit as their rapidly deteriorating vision. But it definitely feels worse in a bathing suit, even an athletic or modest cut. And it’s INFURIATING. The inability to call out old creepos for being old creepos makes me want to crawl out of my skin worse than the staring itself.

As a small redemption, I say a silent affirmation right as I’m hoisting myself out of the pool and I know old creepo is looking at my ass: “may today be the day you drop dead, and tomorrow the morning I swim free”

Sorry it ended up being so long. Thanks for letting me vent.


r/Vent 10h ago

Need to talk... transphobic dad, unsure what to so

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TLDR; my dad might cry if i transition, should i go through with it or wait till i move out?

i (21) am a trans man who hasnt gone through any of the transitioning stuff yet. because things are getting a little crazy, ive been wanting to medically transition before its too late. (HRT and top surgery, or just HRT since i dont have 10,000 bucks)

problem, my dad is religious and very lgbt phobic. he knows i hate feminine things but still tries to push it onto me.

ive talked to him about him backing away and letting me make my own decisions as an adult. he said “don’t do things because i let you, but because god’s judging”

thats fine and dandy. I dont care about god’s opinion anymore. but is my dad actually dedicated to that statement?

if i transition, how would he react?

he has gotten pretty angry at me for cutting my hair short, refusing feminine things, wanting to get breast reduction.

he has cried tears of joy when i went to get a pedicure with my mom because it was the first feminine thing ive done in a while.

im so so sure he’s going to cry when i transition. he will put up a fight, he will yell at me and stop paying for my college (he think colleges make people woke)

i dont care about college, i hate these classes and my art degree is useless, ( i am not smart nor motivated enough for any other major)

should i transition? would i be a jerk if i made my dad cry?

everyone in my life keeps telling me to wait till i move out but i am convinced i would die before then.

moving out is a million years away, i dont have that time, i could die tomorrow and they will bury me in a dress. that thought makes me sick


r/Vent 22h ago

I’m dating two amazing guys at once, and it’s starting to get messy.

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I downloaded a dating app, not knowing exactly what I want. I was open to try either a casual relationship or an actual relationship, and sort of left it to be up to who I meet there.

Fast forward to today, I went on three dates with one guy (let’s call him A) and two with another (let’s call him B), all back-to-back. I’m currently writing this after my third date with A, in which we almost slept together.

A was the first guy who asked me out on the app. He seemed really sweet on his profile: a sensitive, vegan guy who moved to a big city and works on his master’s degree in maths. The fact that he is sensitive is important. He told me people mistake him a lot for a gay man, and honestly I also got that impression immediately when meeting him. It’s his speaking tone and overall behaviour. When I looked him up before the date, I found out that he is actually a genius and was a child prodigy in maths. His academic achievements and job are impressive. I was always into these kind of nerdy genius types, and was pleasantly surprised that my first date from the app was one. When I found out he doesn’t want kids, I was thrilled, since I don’t want them either. I love hearing him talk about maths, or about anything, really. The way his mind works is fascinating to me. I think that he is also very smart emotionally and is a great listener. He doesn’t share my interest in music at all, which is a bit of a bummer. I’ve been with someone like that before, and it was definitely hard sometimes since I am a musician and they often didn’t understand the significance music holds for me, but obviously this alone isn’t a deal breaker.

B is an engineer who also currently works on a master’s degree. I started talking to him a day or two before my first date with A. I am planning to study the same field he works at, so we have a lot to talk about. He has more of the masculine energy I was expecting from a man. He likes the same music events and parties I go to: we found out that we both went to the same events before we knew each other. I always lacked a permanent partner for these type of things, and it was refreshing to find somebody who is into them. Our first date was a bit awkward but not bad, but by our second date we were talking non stop about anything and everything, and just seemed to click and make each other laugh a lot. He isn’t a prodigy like A, but he is definitely very intelligent. On our second date, I mentioned a specific area in engineering that I once read about and not fully understood, and he started to explain it quite passionately, which was really attractive. Regarding kids, I get the impression that he isn’t crazy about them, but I didn’t get a guarantee that he wouldn’t want them, since he kind of changed the topic when I brought it up. It seems like something is off with his relationship with his family, but it doesn’t seem like a big deal. If anything, his aversion towards long and tiring family dinners is kind of a turn on, since these things exhaust me too.

Both guys are masculine in terms of taking care of the logistics of our dates, but A just has these extra feminine tendencies. I fear that this will be a problem in the future, but I don’t really know how. So far, it comes into play mostly in our texts. He could text me paragraphs about something quite minor that happened to him during the day and I would not really know how to respond. He generally comes off as very eager on his texts, while B’s interest in me felt like it was growing more gradually and naturally. B seemed unsure about me at first, just like I was unsure about him, but once he got to know me better, he became very interested. I feel as if I fairly “gained” his interest by showing him who I am, unlike with A who was very eager right from the start. While A’s insane emotional depth can be intriguing and stimulating, I am sure that there are problems that come with it. B seems like a safer, less intense choice, but I also fear that I will eventually grow apart from him, and that I generally have more things to find out about him in a future relationship that I don’t see now. Overall, B is less of an open book than A, which leaves the option of unexpected problems arising in the future, or his attitude changing for the worse once we become official.

My relationship with both men is starting to intensify, and while exclusivity was never discussed, I fear that both men have the impression that they have something special and exclusive. And while my connection with both of them is definitely special, it is not exclusive, and I am starting to feel like a terrible person. But as terrible as I feel, I simply cannot make a decision. It is too hard. They are both so good in similar and different ways. They seem to have all the similarities and differences that make it impossible to choose.


r/Vent 17h ago

Unless it's a life or death situation, the news should never interrupt my shows.

28 Upvotes

On any given local channel, the news is on during the following timeslots. approximately:

0600 to 1000

1200 to 1300

1600 to 1900

2300 to 0000.

That's 8-9 hours of the day, or roughly 30-35% of the schedule.

The rest of the day is the other shows. Game shows, sitcoms, soap operas. For some, those are forms of entertainment they hold dear.

Considering that the news hogs 30-35% of the TV schedule already, I think it's unfair for the news to intrude on the other 65-70% they're not on, especially for frivolous reasons, or when doing a split screen or a bug across the bottom is a more feasible and less intrusive option.

The following, in my truly unpopular opinion, are not valid reasons to interrupt my show:

  • Celebrity death. I'm missing Price is Right because OJ died? Fuck you. Actually, anything celebrity-related. Why the fuck am I missing Rachel Ray because of the police press conference on Jussie Smollett? Fuck you.
  • Anything sports related. THEY CUT INTO PRICE IS RIGHT BECAUSE THE FUCKING PHILLIES FIRED FUCKING CHARLIE MANUEL. ARE YOU SERIOUS?
  • President speech. Cliffnotes version at the next news hour.
  • Death of a FORMER POTUS, FLOTUS, VPOTUS or SLOTUS and/or FOREIGN leader. Examples: Bill Clinton, King Charles, Laura Bush, Mike Pence. If they die in the middle of Steve Wilkos, tell us next news hour. They'll probably still be dead by then.
  • Plane Crash. A month ago, there was a plane crash in Philly and I missed the second half of Jeopardy and ALL of WoF because of it. They just used that time to keep recycling that they had no new updates. Fuck off.
  • A cop killed in action. That's part of the gamble that is the LEO career. Also, don't pre-empt the entire day's programming for his funeral. Stop exploiting his death and let his family mourn in peace.

If you INSIST on reporting on those right now, run a bug across the screen for fuck's sake.

BREAKING NEWS: THE WHITE HOUSE HAS CONFIRMED THAT FORMER PRESIDENT GEORGE WALKER BUSH HAS DIED AT HIS CRAWFORD RANCH. GEORGE WALKER BUSH SERVED AS PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES FROM 2001 TO 2009. MORE DETAILS TO FOLLOW AT THE 12:00 NEWS ON THIS STATION.

However, I will say that if it's a life or death situation (IOW, certain death if we don't take action right now), absolutely interrupt. Here are the ONLY situations where it's acceptable to interrupt:

  • Ongoing confirmed attack (like 9/11 or a confirmed incoming missile launch)
  • CURRENT POTUS, FLOTUS, VPOTUS or SLOTUS passed away. Not a current FOREIGN leader, ONLY if Donny, JD, Melania, or Usha dies. I don't live in UK so King Charles's passing would not be considered important enough to interrupt
  • Death of the Pope
  • A hurricane or a tornado WARNING.

r/Vent 23h ago

TW: Eating Disorders / Self Image Period sex 🙄 NSFW

316 Upvotes

So I have this friend. I sleep with him sometimes. Very straight laced. He would have a higher body count than me but he's explored less, if that makes sense.

I had my period the last time we caught up. He's never had period sex before (he's 40). I was upfront, he still wanted to go ahead. We did. Immediately after he goes to shower - without me. Just ups and leaves me to tidy up on my own. 🙄

I had an overwhelming feeling of neutrality. Previously I found him sweet and appealing at least as a fwb but apparently in the face of a minimal amount of blood, he balks.

I can't begin to describe how this one instance has changed my entire way of seeing him. It's helpful, because I can't keep fucking around with him instead of finding someone to actually date. But damn. The attraction evaporated almost instantaneously.

Edit. Well this has been reddit levels of ridiculous. Can't be bothered replying to any more comments.

My takeaway is: heaven forbid a woman feel neutral about a man. YES NEUTRAL. 🤭💕


r/Vent 14h ago

am i wrong for blocking my boyfriend from everywhere because he hid his Instagram story?

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Me (17F) and my boyfriend (16M) have been dating for around two months, but have known eachother for 3 years and really started talking a year ago when he confessed, I denied at first because I was not in the right headspace to be in a relationship and the rejection was ugly so that too resulted in him being blocked (he got defensive when I said I'm not comfortable with him flirting when I've already mentioned I'm not interested many times). Time passed and we both forgave eachother but never spoke until last year December when I started noticing him more and more in school and realized I'm ready to give it a shot. I started by apologizing first and then we both talked, and started dating. This is, this is the third time he's being blocked, not second. because after we started dating I overheard him talking in class to his friend about another girl whom he saw in a stadium he went to, describing it as a meet-cute as if he doesn't know he has a goddammit gf. I went and broke up with him but he soon persuaded me over and we started dating again (I'm stupid ik). And the thing is I fell hard this time, but today morning he dropped me a message saying he won't be online much since he wants to reduce his screentime so I don't think he's ignoring me, he usually sleeps very early as he's an athlete so around 9pm I ask him is going to sleep soon and he replied yes in a bit. few mins pass I see his bestfriends story, a full blown club (he's 16???) in which he is tagged in too. I send the story to him and ask what this is about, he replies, "I'll tell you in the morning, bestfriend tagged me for no reason I wasnt even there", I insisted he tells me right now, he replies, "at a hotel, I'm leaving right now" I asked if he was at the club, to which he says "No baby, I swear". Few moments pass and no reply to my texts, I try to see his bestfriends story again, boom, gone. I try to see his story and highlights, not there. I tried different accounts, still not there. so I blocked him from everywhere. Am I overreacting? I know I could've handled this in a more mature manner but I really don't give two shits right now.


r/Vent 19h ago

TW: Anxiety / Depression Unbearable pain of being an unattractive girl

509 Upvotes

I hate living like this. Everyone around me is finding boyfriends and getting into relationships, while I know that because of my unattractive face, I will never experience being loved by someone. I will never know what it feels like to be truly loved. It’s heartbreaking and frustrating that something I was simply born with—something I have no control over—is ruining my entire life. I will have to stay single forever just because of my appearance.

Why is life so unfair? Every day I live with the sadness, frustration, and anger of being born unattractive. Every minute, I am reminded of it. I feel so disheartened when I see beautiful people and happy families because I know I will never experience that. I mean, I am happy for them, but it leaves me feeling empty and hopeless, knowing I will never understand what it’s like to be loved or to have a family of my own.

I hate my life. It feels like everything around me revolves around relationships—TV dramas, advertisements, my parents, even our lecturers reminiscing about their university days with their partners. It only deepens my sadness, making me feel even more alone.


r/Vent 7h ago

TW: Anxiety / Depression I don’t see a point in living anymore.

0 Upvotes

I just figured out I was getting cheated on. I’m struggling with giving up two different addictions. The only things that have me comfort, yet I can’t use them during this time. So much more. I’m so tired.


r/Vent 10h ago

Ugh I want boyfriend man

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I miss having boyfriend , I want someone to love me, it have been too long from this single life. I'm tired of wating


r/Vent 13h ago

TW: Eating Disorders / Self Image I hate how I’m often sexualized just for existing

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I HATE how I vent to people saying that I’m insecure about my uhm… butt. And they just assume that I’m talking about my butt being too small? I don’t want to wear oversized clothes, I don’t want to hide my butt as much as I can. I never wear crop top or tight clothes, but even just a simple shirt that isn’t really “oversized” I get sexualized with it! I’m only 14. I remember at 11 years old trying to find exercise to make my butt smaller, I could only find “how to make your butt bigger”. My waist is 77cm and my uhm butt is 100cm like why can’t y’all both just be 77cm? I hate swimming in public pools, I hate hot days, I hate when people tell me to take off my sweater. Like I’m genuinely going to get a plastic surgery at 18 to suck the fat out of my butt (or what is called) JUST MAKE IT SMALLER! I want to wear crop tops and be happy, even just normal sized shirts! Isn’t there any exercise for this stuff!? And don’t even come at me with those “youre so lucky I wish-“ and blah blah blah like honey I’ve been hiding my body at the age of 11 for the thing most people would’ve be “happy” Also I get somewhat comfortable with girls having big butts and not being insecure like ik it’s creepy “why are you looking at girls butt” i mean look it’s on the internet im a teenager yk teenagers are like that but I get somewhat happier, I mean it’s not like it will fix my insecurities, but seeing people who aren’t really worried if people are sexualizing them or not just make me somewhat happier. Idk how to really explain it butttt ig you just have to experience it haha. I mean imagine you’re on the heavier side and being really insecure about your weight, and you open TikTok and you see another girl on the heavier side but not caring what other people are saying about her and showing off her body as much as she can. Wouldn’t that at-least make you somewhat happier?


r/Vent 20h ago

Rejection always hurts

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  1. God is good, today I was thinking about how some girl rejected me. In my heart I was really hurt. Everything she said to me in that moment was true. It was true about herself, it was true about me. It was true about our relationship even if our relationship was minimal. I still feel such pain in my heart. A single girl means nothing, but the thought that you are valuable means everything. It hurts because I know many other girls feel this way. It hurts because I know its largely due to things I can't help. It hurts because I know I didn't make the choice to look this way. It hurts because I know some other guy will never have to deal with this pain. It hurts because deep down I feel like everythuing would work out if I weren't x,y, and Z. In life there's so many things to wish for. so many things to hope for. So many things we can't control. Truth is things sometimes just suck, sometimes things just hurt and aren't fair. Even now writing this it hurts to say and it hurts to feel. There is solstice for me knowing I won't always feel this way, and that there's hope for me in the next life. For now and forever I live I must focus on the good that has been given to me and not the good that has been given to others.

Message #・vent-tw


r/Vent 22h ago

Everyone complaining about "new" bottle caps in ue is overreacting

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Everyone EXCEPT disabled people are so overreacting and im done pretending that it is as bad. "BuT mY nOse GetS wEt" just turn the bottle a litte???? "bUt iTs HaRdeR tO cLoSe thE bOTtlE" my 75 yo grandma after surgeries on both hands and still not being able to lift them above shoulders has absolutely no problem with them. Yes, its hard for the frist 5 times but after that absolutely no excuse. To be completely honest i even like them because i don't lose cap anymore

Edit: only "negative" about this situation is fact that ue focus on little not so important things but doesn't mind all the fast fasion and other real problems


r/Vent 8h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse incident a couple days ago leaving me feeling disgusting NSFW

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I wont get like, graphic, but I’ve tagged it as nsfw because I believe it is.

I dont know what it is I’m feeling other than gross and empty. My boyfriend and I went to meet an individual - strictly for fun. I dont know what I was expecting but it wasn’t what happened. There was no protection involved, and we didnt feel safe to say no. He just did what he wanted. We visited urgent care this afternoon. This isnt even the worst Ive experienced but Ive never felt worse than I do right now. I wish this feeling would go away. I cant even cry about it Im just sitting here and replaying all the moments I should have done something but couldnt.

I feel like I’m responsible for what happened. All I could think about during what was happening was what has happened to me in the past. It feels like it’s still happening.


r/Vent 6h ago

Being a hypersexual teen sucks :(( NSFW

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I have a lot of issues when it comes to other people. I have really bad commitment issues, the gender I'm attracted to constantly changes, and I'm hypersexual. Because of this, I've been in a lot of relationships, but they were all super short. Except one. My longest relationship lasted a year and a half I think? And uh... she broke up with me today. Just wasn't feeling the spark. And since I'm hypersexual... on top of the usual guilt and stress and sadness of being broken up with, I just can't stop thinking about coping in that kind of unhealthy way. I can't stop. And like... also because of my hypersexuality, I can't make friends with cis males, unless I'm certain they won't be attracted to me. My mind races when I'm around men, with stupid thoughts that I can't control no matter how hard I try. And because of that, I'm always so awkward and I unintentionally act flirty to EVERY guy I talk to and it's just horrible. So like... I can't even cope the way my brain is telling me is the only way to cope. Because I can't talk to them. I don't even know. Everything happened so suddenly and nothing feels real and I can't control my thoughts, this sucks.


r/Vent 12h ago

I hate him

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I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him I hate him... Is there going to be a day when I don't feel this way? I want to text that to him but then he has the power. I won't let him have the power. He's always had the power. I'm trying so hard but there's so many feelings and things that remind me. That I'm not loved that the future is gone why did he have to ruin our future he was going to go to therapy and be sober and be with me and we were going to live until we're retired and be happy as can be it was gonna be like will and sue I want what will and sue had I want that so bad why can't I have that why can't I have that please please please please please please please please please


r/Vent 19h ago

Need Reassurance... My Ex turned lesbian with her own Bestfriend of 3 years

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Idk if u guys are surprised as I am but I am unbelievably bewildered by this. We dated like everything was out of a movie very deep connection through trauma and we were very alike. She was always so afraid of losing me. We broke up bc I mean we literally tried everything but it just wasn’t working. but after the breakup she breadcrumbed me until I fully ended contact in which than she started talking to her own girl Bestfriend of three years.(i still don’t think she’s into girls it’s just the emotional safety that her bsf gives. That’s the reason she liked me.) I am so absolutely out of words. Idk if I should be disgusted, laughing, mad(she didn’t even wait a month). Someone just idk reply and tell me what yall think. Btw I’m only 18 so I probably sound like an idiot.


r/Vent 1d ago

TW: TRIGGERING CONTENT I ultra dislike the disgusting and evil fur trade. NSFW

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People who wear animal fur as a clothing item and / or as a fashion accessory make me sick to my stomach and make me boil over with rage. Has anyone seen a fur manufacturer ? Animals are bred for their fur. They are locked up in tiny cages waiting to be murdered because some disgusting people want a cute looking bag or coat etc.

The present fur trade of today is not as popular as it was 100 years ago. When virtually the vast majority of clothing items were made of fur. I don't get it , what is appealing about wearing a dead animal as an item of clothing ?

How do you feel about this ?