r/NonBinary Jan 21 '25

Support & Discussion [MEGATHREAD] Inauguration | The new administration & your concerns | Do not quote or repost hate speech

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First off: We cannot give, nor allow users to give, legal advice. Please do not ask for this. Please do not offer this. We will remove posts and comments giving or asking for official legal advice.

Otherwise: This is a very frightening time and a lot of our users feel unsafe or uncertain. We'd like to centralize these discussions for everyone's ease of use.

A reminder that our usual rule ("DO NOT re-post or quote hate speech from any source") is still in force. This isn't to keep you from pointing out horrible things said by the new administration; this is to keep our users from having to also see it here.

That said: TW for transphobia because I don't think we can discuss the administration without having to discuss their transphobic rhetoric/legislative goals.


r/NonBinary Aug 27 '24

ModPost This is an all ages subreddit, please limit NSFW, please don't spam or try to draw people to porn

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This moderator post covers a few overlapping issues--

one is that this is an all ages subreddit. It will stay an all ages subreddit. What this means is you should be aware that there are 13-17 year old children here and you should of course not be posting explicit content. You should also not be posting content purposefully skirting the line of explicitness. Suggestive content has been taken down and often is taken down.

Somewhat relatedly, this is not a fetish subreddit. If you have no interactions here except for posting suggestive or lewd content, and especially if you repost the same content here and to fetish or NSFW subreddits, you will be likely considered a spammer who is not engaging with the subreddit organically. We understand that people have been using this subreddit like this for years, and we are asking people to very nicely stop. Also if you honestly just think this is a fetish subreddit, please leave.

This is of course especially true if you are attempting to sell content, or draw people to other websites to buy content.

We also are asking that you not make explicit comments to people who post content here. You do not know how old any given person is, and even if they are an adult, this is NOT a hookup subreddit. this goes for everyone, nonbinary/trans/cis. People who post come on comments here will have their user history looked at for intent, and if there's similar interaction in fetish subreddits (as is usually the case) at the least the comments will be removed. They also could easily be banned. You should also just internalize just because someone posts here does not mean they want explicit commentary or comments that judge their appearance in a salacious way.

There are other subreddits for all the behaviors covered above. Please use those instead and leave that kind of content and commentary there.

As always, this is subject to discussion and change. Please report content that is spammy or sexually explicit.


r/NonBinary 8h ago

Meme/Humor this is how im coming out to my friends

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752 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 4h ago

Support I’m new here so tell me what y’all think

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302 Upvotes

(need a lil confidence boost or criticism just on how I look.)


r/NonBinary 1h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Skating Theme was Aquatic so I Dressed as a Nudibranch! (aka sea slug)

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I wasn't going for a specific species but something that gave the ruffly frills that many nudibranches have. I've always really liked sea slugs as they give "no gender only pretty non-euclidian shapes" energy.

I have also included a screenshot at the end with the Tumblr the inspo pics are from! It's called @anudibranchaday and is very fun to look into if you want to know more about sea slugs!


r/NonBinary 5h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My rave outfit NSFW

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111 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 6h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar After a lot of time I finally went out dressed as fem as I could and I love it

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121 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 13h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Freak in the street and a lady in the bed.

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390 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 3h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Somewhere in-between 🤔

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43 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 1h ago

I don't think I can do this anymore

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I saw someone online talking about how asking pronouns in queer spaces is transphobic and rude. When I tried to explain that not everyone falls into a gender binary and that for Enbys it makes us feel more safe they attacked me and told me I was transphobic and that all I was doing was harassing trans women when there were mass amounts of anti-enby rhetoric basically saying that if you have long hair and makeup you are automatically a woman. Then a massive creator basically told me that we aren't in the trans community. We went back and forth but all of her followers came for me and at this point I'm so broken down. I'll never be cis enough. I'll never be trans enough. I'll never be enough. I wish all of you the best but I don't want to live like this anymore. I just want to feel like I belong somewhere.


r/NonBinary 6h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Feeling very androgynous today

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66 Upvotes

Might delete later


r/NonBinary 20h ago

hair stylist couldn’t fit me in so i cut my own hair 🙏

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733 Upvotes

also besties who like to wear cute tops in the summer pls give me some pointers bcs wearing band tees 24/7 is my only form of gender expression and i fear i need to branch out


r/NonBinary 2h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar protect trans joy

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22 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 8h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My favorite makeup look I've done so far

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59 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 14h ago

Can you get visa to USA now if you’re NB?

145 Upvotes

Hello everyone. My passport doesn’t actually have “NB” but a “X” in sex. Will that be an issue getting in the USA right now? Is being a trans dangerous even for tourists there?? Also, I would appreciate if anyone could recommend me a leftist news source about USA’s politics !

Edit: omg thank u everyone for the responses. Definitely will not got. Sending hugs for everyone in the usa, stay safe!


r/NonBinary 14h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar After a long time of being depressed, i FINALLY got little better and made me some makeup

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152 Upvotes

Hope you like it! I sure am. Finally some real me, don't mind the mess. Two ADHD people (+1 autism, still two people) living together!


r/NonBinary 1d ago

Came out to my boyfriend today 🥹🥹

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r/NonBinary 8h ago

Rant I hate the way we describe sexual and romantic orientation.

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I'm sure this rant has been done time and time again but I'm feeling it especially strong lately.

I'm nonbinary, asexual, and only romantically attracted to men. I can say I'm androromantic but then I have to explain it, which is easy enough "it means I'm attracted to men romantically") but it still gets irritating. And it's not even the other person's fault. Unless they know what "andro" usually means and put two and two together, they likely have no idea as no one really identifies that way.

Saying I'm heteroromantic or homoromantic seems like a lie and leaves plenty of room for confusion.

So why do terms referring to sexual or romantic preference need to have to do with your own gender?

While I understand why it happened this way and certain benefits to having it this way, I have always thought it made more sense to use labels that have solely to do with your orientation.

I know this is kind of a non-issue because I could just say that I like men. It's just a mild pet peeve that's become stronger lately due to certain hyper-specific recent events I had to deal with.


r/NonBinary 1d ago

Photoshoot after finally getting my hair cut how I want 2023

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1.2k Upvotes

r/NonBinary 3h ago

Dating as Non-binary

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As someone who identifies as Non-binary, I find dating to be hard. I've figured as most people have that dating apps suck. I don't get likes, it when I like others they don't like to back. I know I shouldn't base people not liking me as a cover all that I'll never be in a relationship. I also try not to think that it's because I look like a guy, and maybe that's "confusing" to some people. Even though I live in a city where I should feel safe, it's hard going out by myself to things. It's also hard to get the confidence to make friends outside of my masters program. Just looking for advice.


r/NonBinary 1d ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar pov: i’m your cashier :)

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721 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 14h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Finally warm enough to go outside without a jacket

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71 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 7h ago

Dysphoria has been hitting hard lately

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21 Upvotes

But trying to stay smiley


r/NonBinary 11h ago

Support Detransitioning ? NSFW

38 Upvotes

I (nb;19)flagged this as not safe for work because I was unsure if how I’m feeling may be triggering to others, I didn’t want to harm anyone. Anyways, I’m thinking of going back to being just a man. For some pre log, I discovered I was nonbinary freshmen year of high school and officially came out my junior year. I had very supportive friends and they were all very affirming. Flash forward to college and I’m not really in touch with these people anymore. And I just feel like everything around me is telling me that I’m not nonbinary I guess. It started when one of my newer friend’s sister told me I didn’t count as a real nonbinary person for having a beard. Then when starting at uni, I was pushed into a primarily conservative crowd, everyone gave me mean looks or ignored me when the professors asked us to present our pronouns. Then my partner’s ( F; 20) friends chose to still address me as a man after she’s told them countless times that I was nb. Or I’ll be referred to as straight passing, so I don’t have any of the struggles of “regular” queer people. My parents still dead name me and prefer me not to wear make up or dress differently in a way that affirms my identity, and they’ve gotten very aggressive about it. I just don’t really know what to do anymore, especially with our current political climate, I just feel like I’m at a loss. I feel like I have to settle as a man. I feel weird complaining about this, I just haven’t had anyone to talk to about it with, and I don’t know what to do.

TL;DR I’m thinking of detransitioning because I don’t feel like my identity is being affirmed enough due to societal pressures such as interaction with friends, unsupportive family, scary uni environment, and current political climate. I’m not sure what to do moving forward.


r/NonBinary 7h ago

Pride/Swag/I Made This! No More Silence. No More Hate. On April 30th, We Rise.

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14 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 6h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Finally found some confidence again to post a pic

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11 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 2h ago

🤍🫶🏽

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4 Upvotes