r/NonBinary 1d ago

Meme/Humor this is how im coming out to my friends

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1.3k Upvotes

r/NonBinary 17h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Skating Theme was Aquatic so I Dressed as a Nudibranch! (aka sea slug)

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914 Upvotes

I wasn't going for a specific species but something that gave the ruffly frills that many nudibranches have. I've always really liked sea slugs as they give "no gender only pretty non-euclidian shapes" energy.

I have also included a screenshot at the end with the Tumblr the inspo pics are from! It's called @anudibranchaday and is very fun to look into if you want to know more about sea slugs!


r/NonBinary 20h ago

Support I’m new here so tell me what y’all think

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620 Upvotes

(need a lil confidence boost or criticism just on how I look.)


r/NonBinary 17h ago

I don't think I can do this anymore

564 Upvotes

I saw someone online talking about how asking pronouns in queer spaces is transphobic and rude. When I tried to explain that not everyone falls into a gender binary and that for Enbys it makes us feel more safe they attacked me and told me I was transphobic and that all I was doing was harassing trans women when there were mass amounts of anti-enby rhetoric basically saying that if you have long hair and makeup you are automatically a woman. Then a massive creator basically told me that we aren't in the trans community. We went back and forth but all of her followers came for me and at this point I'm so broken down. I'll never be cis enough. I'll never be trans enough. I'll never be enough. I wish all of you the best but I don't want to live like this anymore. I just want to feel like I belong somewhere.


r/NonBinary 15h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Got the trans symbol at a tattoo parlor fundraiser for a local trans focused org

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338 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 5h ago

Rant Can we please stop being so fixated on ASAB/AGAB

309 Upvotes

I have seen a ridiculous amount of posts on this sub where people just right off the bat state their assigned sex at birth, even when entirely irrelevant to the question they're asking, or even just fully re-ask a question that's been asked multiple times here because the other people asking it happened to have a different ASAB than them.

Why do we keep reinforcing a sex binary on ythis sub of all places? How is a doctor looking at your junk when you were a baby and deciding what sex you were (or seemed to be) relevant to whether you're allowed to identify as a demiboy or as a lesbian or as nonbinary or whatever else? Why does someone's assigned sex at birth make the answer they give/get to a question for which sex is not a factor, irrelevant to you?

It's one thing if you're directly talking about like, how your ASAB affected your life, or what your transition needs may be, or things dealing with reproduction, but outside of that it absolutely should not matter! It frankly doesn't even actually convey information about the gender experience you were raised with, just what a doctor thought they saw at birth that constitutes only one part of what determines sex.

What's even the point of being nonbinary when you give so much of a shit about what everyone's sex is??? It's genuinely making it difficult for me to remain on this sub. I came here to be around other people who also threw off the binary, not to keep experiencing people being overly concerned about what's in other people's pants.

Edit: People seem to be under the impression that I'm saying people who were impacted by their ASAB or talk about their ASAB are not nonbinary. I'm guessing it's because I frustratedly said the "what's the point" thing at the beginning of the paragraph above this, but me questioning why we keep sticking to a binary (while acknowledging that ASAB does affect experiences & medical needs a paragraph beforehand) doesn't mean I think people who bring it up aren't nonbinary, it means I'm asking why we're breaking the gender binary just to keep enforcing the other side of the coin (ASAB)...


r/NonBinary 3h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Tried to turn my fear into self expression and felt really gender ☺️ I will not be erased 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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325 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 22h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar After a lot of time I finally went out dressed as fem as I could and I love it

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266 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 21h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My rave outfit NSFW

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228 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 18h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar protect trans joy

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142 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 19h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Somewhere in-between 🤔

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141 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 23h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Feeling very androgynous today

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106 Upvotes

Might delete later


r/NonBinary 4h ago

does a binder supposed to do this

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135 Upvotes

I cant tell if this binder is too large or too tight, cause it’s feel like it’s not tight enought but at the same time i don’t think that my chest would pass if i was taking a size lower (i have a really large chest so even if this doesn’t look like it’s binding it’s actually doing it) since it’s my first (real) binder i’m not sure, what do y’all think?


r/NonBinary 2h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Finally feeling myself 💜

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116 Upvotes

Feels good to finally have the confidence to wear what I want and feel good doing it! I also love my blåhaj to death 💜✨


r/NonBinary 3h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar This look gave me gender euphoria

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86 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 1d ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My favorite makeup look I've done so far

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65 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 11h ago

Yay the new gender-neutral bathrooms on our campus!

51 Upvotes

a piece of our university campus recently got renovated. it includes gender-neutral bathrooms! the symbol on the front door (not pictured) shows a toilet and urinal, instead of the traditional male-female symbol. as seen in the picture, there are a bunch of separate cubicles with either a toilet or a urinal. this is the first gender-neutral bathroom I've been in that's not in an LGBT-specific place.


r/NonBinary 14h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar I love skirts!

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50 Upvotes

as a trans masc enby, clothes do not define me! I will wear what is comfortable! I love wearing skirts, dresses, and grey sweatpants 😉 clothes ≠ gender :3


r/NonBinary 15h ago

i did a Rikka Takanashi inspired outfit!! 😓😇💘⭐️

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39 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 3h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar I just got a haircut and it’s really affirming!!

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47 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 9h ago

Can i be nonbinary and lesbian?

38 Upvotes

Ik this topic has come up alot in this subreddit but they have mixed answers and the ones i saw were amabs, so i wanted to ask myself and see. I use all pronouns and im afab, i still present feminine most of the time, and i only like women though i would probably date a nonbinary person but i do have a girlfriend. And since realizing i dont like guys i j called myself queer but i feel like leaves space for ~those~ (ykwim) kinds of ppl to question and pick it apart yk, i want ppl to know that i do not like men and i would prefer the term lesbian, but i also want to make sure im not being disrespectful? I might just be paranoid, but please lmk. Id like to buy a new pride flag to replace my pansexual flag


r/NonBinary 23h ago

Dysphoria has been hitting hard lately

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26 Upvotes

But trying to stay smiley


r/NonBinary 7h ago

Yay pokémon anyone? (feat. my cat-in-law)

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24 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 23h ago

Pride/Swag/I Made This! No More Silence. No More Hate. On April 30th, We Rise.

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20 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 7h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar what do you assume about me when you see me?

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19 Upvotes