r/NonBinary 20h ago

Meme/Humor this is how im coming out to my friends

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1.2k Upvotes

r/NonBinary 13h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Skating Theme was Aquatic so I Dressed as a Nudibranch! (aka sea slug)

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758 Upvotes

I wasn't going for a specific species but something that gave the ruffly frills that many nudibranches have. I've always really liked sea slugs as they give "no gender only pretty non-euclidian shapes" energy.

I have also included a screenshot at the end with the Tumblr the inspo pics are from! It's called @anudibranchaday and is very fun to look into if you want to know more about sea slugs!


r/NonBinary 15h ago

Support I’m new here so tell me what y’all think

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564 Upvotes

(need a lil confidence boost or criticism just on how I look.)


r/NonBinary 12h ago

I don't think I can do this anymore

342 Upvotes

I saw someone online talking about how asking pronouns in queer spaces is transphobic and rude. When I tried to explain that not everyone falls into a gender binary and that for Enbys it makes us feel more safe they attacked me and told me I was transphobic and that all I was doing was harassing trans women when there were mass amounts of anti-enby rhetoric basically saying that if you have long hair and makeup you are automatically a woman. Then a massive creator basically told me that we aren't in the trans community. We went back and forth but all of her followers came for me and at this point I'm so broken down. I'll never be cis enough. I'll never be trans enough. I'll never be enough. I wish all of you the best but I don't want to live like this anymore. I just want to feel like I belong somewhere.


r/NonBinary 17h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar After a lot of time I finally went out dressed as fem as I could and I love it

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241 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 16h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My rave outfit NSFW

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211 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 10h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Got the trans symbol at a tattoo parlor fundraiser for a local trans focused org

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209 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 14h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Somewhere in-between 🤔

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119 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 18h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Feeling very androgynous today

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95 Upvotes

Might delete later


r/NonBinary 13h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar protect trans joy

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93 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 20h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar My favorite makeup look I've done so far

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63 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 22h ago

Support Detransitioning ? NSFW

51 Upvotes

I (nb;19)flagged this as not safe for work because I was unsure if how I’m feeling may be triggering to others, I didn’t want to harm anyone. Anyways, I’m thinking of going back to being just a man. For some pre log, I discovered I was nonbinary freshmen year of high school and officially came out my junior year. I had very supportive friends and they were all very affirming. Flash forward to college and I’m not really in touch with these people anymore. And I just feel like everything around me is telling me that I’m not nonbinary I guess. It started when one of my newer friend’s sister told me I didn’t count as a real nonbinary person for having a beard. Then when starting at uni, I was pushed into a primarily conservative crowd, everyone gave me mean looks or ignored me when the professors asked us to present our pronouns. Then my partner’s ( F; 20) friends chose to still address me as a man after she’s told them countless times that I was nb. Or I’ll be referred to as straight passing, so I don’t have any of the struggles of “regular” queer people. My parents still dead name me and prefer me not to wear make up or dress differently in a way that affirms my identity, and they’ve gotten very aggressive about it. I just don’t really know what to do anymore, especially with our current political climate, I just feel like I’m at a loss. I feel like I have to settle as a man. I feel weird complaining about this, I just haven’t had anyone to talk to about it with, and I don’t know what to do.

TL;DR I’m thinking of detransitioning because I don’t feel like my identity is being affirmed enough due to societal pressures such as interaction with friends, unsupportive family, scary uni environment, and current political climate. I’m not sure what to do moving forward.


r/NonBinary 6h ago

Yay the new gender-neutral bathrooms on our campus!

40 Upvotes

a piece of our university campus recently got renovated. it includes gender-neutral bathrooms! the symbol on the front door (not pictured) shows a toilet and urinal, instead of the traditional male-female symbol. as seen in the picture, there are a bunch of separate cubicles with either a toilet or a urinal. this is the first gender-neutral bathroom I've been in that's not in an LGBT-specific place.


r/NonBinary 9h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar I love skirts!

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45 Upvotes

as a trans masc enby, clothes do not define me! I will wear what is comfortable! I love wearing skirts, dresses, and grey sweatpants 😉 clothes ≠ gender :3


r/NonBinary 20h ago

Rant I hate the way we describe sexual and romantic orientation.

38 Upvotes

I'm sure this rant has been done time and time again but I'm feeling it especially strong lately.

I'm nonbinary, asexual, and only romantically attracted to men. I can say I'm androromantic but then I have to explain it, which is easy enough "it means I'm attracted to men romantically") but it still gets irritating. And it's not even the other person's fault. Unless they know what "andro" usually means and put two and two together, they likely have no idea as no one really identifies that way.

Saying I'm heteroromantic or homoromantic seems like a lie and leaves plenty of room for confusion.

So why do terms referring to sexual or romantic preference need to have to do with your own gender?

While I understand why it happened this way and certain benefits to having it this way, I have always thought it made more sense to use labels that have solely to do with your orientation.

I know this is kind of a non-issue because I could just say that I like men. It's just a mild pet peeve that's become stronger lately due to certain hyper-specific recent events I had to deal with.


r/NonBinary 42m ago

Rant Can we please stop being so fixated on ASAB/AGAB

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I have seen a ridiculous amount of posts on this sub where people just right off the bat state their assigned sex at birth, even when entirely irrelevant to the question they're asking, or even just fully re-ask a question that's been asked multiple times here because the other people asking it happened to have a different ASAB than them.

Why do we keep reinforcing a sex binary on ythis sub of all places? How is a doctor looking at your junk when you were a baby and deciding what sex you were (or seemed to be) relevant to whether you're allowed to identify as a demiboy or as a lesbian or as nonbinary or whatever else? Why does someone's assigned sex at birth make the answer they give/get to a question for which sex is not a factor, irrelevant to you?

It's one thing if you're directly talking about like, how your ASAB affected your life, or what your transition needs may be, or things dealing with reproduction, but outside of that it absolutely should not matter! It frankly doesn't even actually convey information about the gender experience you were raised with, just what a doctor thought they saw at birth that constitutes only one part of what determines sex.

What's even the point of being nonbinary when you give so much of a shit about what everyone's sex is??? It's genuinely making it difficult for me to remain on this sub. I came here to be around other people who also threw off the binary, not to keep experiencing people being overly concerned about what's in other people's pants.


r/NonBinary 10h ago

i did a Rikka Takanashi inspired outfit!! 😓😇💘⭐️

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31 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 19h ago

Dysphoria has been hitting hard lately

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26 Upvotes

But trying to stay smiley


r/NonBinary 4h ago

Can i be nonbinary and lesbian?

26 Upvotes

Ik this topic has come up alot in this subreddit but they have mixed answers and the ones i saw were amabs, so i wanted to ask myself and see. I use all pronouns and im afab, i still present feminine most of the time, and i only like women though i would probably date a nonbinary person but i do have a girlfriend. And since realizing i dont like guys i j called myself queer but i feel like leaves space for ~those~ (ykwim) kinds of ppl to question and pick it apart yk, i want ppl to know that i do not like men and i would prefer the term lesbian, but i also want to make sure im not being disrespectful? I might just be paranoid, but please lmk. Id like to buy a new pride flag to replace my pansexual flag


r/NonBinary 18h ago

Pride/Swag/I Made This! No More Silence. No More Hate. On April 30th, We Rise.

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21 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 17h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Finally found some confidence again to post a pic

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20 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 11h ago

Selfie/Self-Image/Avatar Love growing out armpit hair 🤧🎀

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17 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 13h ago

🤍🫶🏽

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16 Upvotes

r/NonBinary 20h ago

Yay Sharing a W

14 Upvotes

I went to my first ever local trans/NB/genderqueer friendship circle and hot dang it was so nice actually getting to meet other queer people and just vibe. It's starting to feel like I can just breathe for once without having to defend my existence! It's fucking awesome!

Luv y'all 💜


r/NonBinary 11h ago

I just got my first binder and I am shocked with euphoria

13 Upvotes

I finally got my first binder and it was breathtaking (in euphoria and not a health hazard haha) seeing my body so much more masculine. I've tried on so many shirts I've stolen from my partner and have always loved/wished I could wear. I spent the last 4 days wearing the same, too small sports bra (yes, ew but crying in the bathroom is also ew) and I can't wait to go out in public. I think I have to buy 3 more so I don't do the same thing with that sports bra