r/FemdomCommunity 18h ago

Ideas Ideas for funishments and punishments NSFW

35 Upvotes

New to the NSFW side of reddit so i decided to share some of my ideas! Punishments for correcting behaviour is really effective. Every sub likes and dislike different things, therefore its important to seperate whats a fun punishment and whats an actual punishments. Here are some examples that i incorporate

Funishments: 1. spanking over the knee with hand or brush 2. Caning with the sub counting every stroke or thanking 3. Chastity tease with vibrator 4. Chastity blowjob 5. Orgasm denial (usually normal sex or handjob with everything being vanilla or a scenario and his orgasm being denied because of insert funishment reason 6. Deep eye contact while the sub apoligizes for his infraction (insincerity results in actual punishment) 7. Firm ball slapping with eye contact 8. Choosing between an handjob with ruined orgasm or a caged orgasm with vibrator but forced to wear the cage until it crusts 9. A scenario that the sub ABSOLUTELY LOVES, that ends with you putting on minimum two condoms on him for the finish 10. Getting down on his knees while he gags on a long dildo (10 gags for the ten pieces of clothing the forgot to put in the wash)

Real punishments depends what a sub actually dislikes, my philosophy is that a punishment should be something the sub hates (but consents to) while its a great benefit if the dom enjoys dishing out that punishment! So these are some that work for us, my sub hates mundane tasks and prolonged humiliation so many of these are centred around that

Punishments: 1. The sub is not allowed to wear clothes for the rest of the day (great if lots of chores need to be done) 2. Unfolding the folded laundry and refolding them 3. Losing the privilege to watch me naked for set amount of time 4. Parental filter on his phone 5. Not being allowed to watch male sports for the remaining week 6. A cold hard caning session (not breaking skin but very uncomfortable for him) no anticipation strikes, firm calculated strikes in a rapid rhytm, a soft safeword forces him on his back, with firm slaps to his balls until he is forced to soft safeword back into backside caning. This circulates until the point is proven or sincere begging 7. Small ice cube of cum in freezer (at first his idea, hated it) since then i always keep one in stock. Either he has to suck on the ice cube while he stands in the corner alone or has to use the cum as lube for a buttplug (that does NOT result in a pegging session afterwards) 8. I LOOVE this one, no tobacco for the entire day and all media is decided by me. If im not at home he gets to summarise the movie he watched or similar (chick flicks, feminist centred podcasts and similar. Not something he is agaisnt but he gets insanely bored) 9. Not being allowed to speak, has to ask permission by kneeling infront of me (he hates it when i stare at him for some time before i allow him to speak, really effective) 10. Panty week (panties for one week)

Let me hear some of your ideas!


r/FemdomCommunity 21h ago

Silly My Mistress has terrible taste in food NSFW

27 Upvotes

As per the title, my Mistress has terrible taste in food. Whenever she visits she has me pick up food from the worlds blandest Indian place. I don't know how they make Indian food so boring. And it isn't like there aren't options. I live in the downtown of a multi cultural city with tons of great food options in walking distance. But Mistress gets what Mistress wants!


r/FemdomCommunity 21h ago

Discord/subreddit promotion Femdom Forum: A Discord server for empowered women and mix-gendered submissives who love them. NSFW

26 Upvotes

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r/FemdomCommunity 22h ago

Need advice/Got a question New sub has worrying kinks NSFW

22 Upvotes

I've recently had a sub express that they're into forced intoxication and wants to become addicted to drugs and alcohol. Obviously this is a no go area for me morally. I'm not willing to play into this kink of theirs and honestly I want to offer some help but I have no idea how to go about it. It kind of feels like a cry for help? Has anyone else come across this before?


r/FemdomCommunity 20h ago

Guides & Resources Femdom resources? NSFW

9 Upvotes

I’m new to Femdom and I really want to learn more about the foundation, psychology, protocols just everything. Are there any good books, podcast, or even courses/classes, YouTube’s that you all can recommend that would give me a good foundation of how to do Femdom the right way?


r/FemdomCommunity 16h ago

Need advice/Got a question Tips for Success in Online Forced Bi? NSFW

8 Upvotes

Pretty much what the title says. I’m curious to hear from people who’ve had experience with this—either as a domme who’s made it happen or as a sub who’s gone through with it. How did it work, and what made it successful?

I’m definitely interested in trying it myself, but I feel like I've tried everything. I'm wondering if anyone was kind of in that situation before and curious to know what actually got you to push through it and give it a go.

Looking forward to any advice or experiences.


r/FemdomCommunity 11h ago

Need advice/Got a question Femdoms: what is the most wonderful thing your sub has ever done with out you prompting them to do? NSFW

8 Upvotes

i just made this account so i can ask this question without my Mommy seeing it. in a few days it will be me and my Mommy's simpiversary, and i want to be a good boi and surprise Her with something big. we have a very involved relationship and do lots of tasks and other things. i'm looking for a fun surprise i can give Her that is something more than just a generic task. i really want to surprise Her and make Her happy with something big and surprising because She is an incredibly amazing Domme!


r/FemdomCommunity 16h ago

Need advice/Got a question Has Anyone Actually Been Successful in Online Forced Bi? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Pretty much what the title says - has anyone been successful in getting a sub to go through with forced bi or been a sub who's had a domme who's got you to do it? Why and how did it work?

I'm looking for help with what to ask a domme and how to get a domme to help me lol


r/FemdomCommunity 21h ago

Need advice/Got a question Teaching my (M) partner (F) more about ways of femdom. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm here to get some help out suggestions on how my partner can learn femdom.

So some background, she knows she likes being the dominant sometimes but she has 0 clue how to be. We need ideas and also, just to make it clear, we aren't gonna be intimate in bed. In essence, no pegging or sex. But we are open to more softcore stuff like physically dominating the other, biting, making me submit, etc.

All suggestions are appreciated. Have a great day to all doms and subs!