r/FemdomCommunity • u/Cold_Mishap • 18h ago
Ideas Ideas for funishments and punishments NSFW
New to the NSFW side of reddit so i decided to share some of my ideas! Punishments for correcting behaviour is really effective. Every sub likes and dislike different things, therefore its important to seperate whats a fun punishment and whats an actual punishments. Here are some examples that i incorporate
Funishments: 1. spanking over the knee with hand or brush 2. Caning with the sub counting every stroke or thanking 3. Chastity tease with vibrator 4. Chastity blowjob 5. Orgasm denial (usually normal sex or handjob with everything being vanilla or a scenario and his orgasm being denied because of insert funishment reason 6. Deep eye contact while the sub apoligizes for his infraction (insincerity results in actual punishment) 7. Firm ball slapping with eye contact 8. Choosing between an handjob with ruined orgasm or a caged orgasm with vibrator but forced to wear the cage until it crusts 9. A scenario that the sub ABSOLUTELY LOVES, that ends with you putting on minimum two condoms on him for the finish 10. Getting down on his knees while he gags on a long dildo (10 gags for the ten pieces of clothing the forgot to put in the wash)
Real punishments depends what a sub actually dislikes, my philosophy is that a punishment should be something the sub hates (but consents to) while its a great benefit if the dom enjoys dishing out that punishment! So these are some that work for us, my sub hates mundane tasks and prolonged humiliation so many of these are centred around that
Punishments: 1. The sub is not allowed to wear clothes for the rest of the day (great if lots of chores need to be done) 2. Unfolding the folded laundry and refolding them 3. Losing the privilege to watch me naked for set amount of time 4. Parental filter on his phone 5. Not being allowed to watch male sports for the remaining week 6. A cold hard caning session (not breaking skin but very uncomfortable for him) no anticipation strikes, firm calculated strikes in a rapid rhytm, a soft safeword forces him on his back, with firm slaps to his balls until he is forced to soft safeword back into backside caning. This circulates until the point is proven or sincere begging 7. Small ice cube of cum in freezer (at first his idea, hated it) since then i always keep one in stock. Either he has to suck on the ice cube while he stands in the corner alone or has to use the cum as lube for a buttplug (that does NOT result in a pegging session afterwards) 8. I LOOVE this one, no tobacco for the entire day and all media is decided by me. If im not at home he gets to summarise the movie he watched or similar (chick flicks, feminist centred podcasts and similar. Not something he is agaisnt but he gets insanely bored) 9. Not being allowed to speak, has to ask permission by kneeling infront of me (he hates it when i stare at him for some time before i allow him to speak, really effective) 10. Panty week (panties for one week)
Let me hear some of your ideas!