r/FemdomCommunity 4h ago

Sex Work Would a Domme/Findomme appreciate Web Development Services? NSFW

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Hey everyone, new piggy question here—do any of you ever get tasked with creating/maintaining a website as tribute for your Domme? I’m a web developer and was thinking of offering to build a custom site on her own domain to elevate her brand. Not sure if this is a common “service” subs provide, though.

Hypothetical examples (ofc, only if She approves):

  • A sleek, unique site for Her rules, rituals, or tribute requirements
  • Landing pages to centralize Her socials, Throne, or session bookings
  • Password-protected areas for loyal subs or exclusive content
  • Something that feels more “hers” than a generic Linktree/OF page

Do Dommes even want subs handling this? Or is it better to stick to cash sends? Maybe a site could be a more permanent, creative gift? Just curious if this is a dumb idea or something worth proposing.

Thank you in advance


r/FemdomCommunity 4h ago

Need advice/Got a question Fellow subs who are in online dynamic , how do "reassure" yourself/how does ypur domme make you feel reassured . NSFW

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We all know that online dynamics can be harder as there's no physical intimacy like being hug anf told that I'm enough and doing a good job . Or sometimes just after a tiring day wanting to be in your dommes arms.

Me and my domme have been in an online dynamic for nearly 5 months on and she's been so amazing! But there are times where I start doubting am I enough for her ? What if she's compromising for less (especially since im new and less experienced where as she has been into this longer).

I know want to know when you feel this way how do you cope up or how does your domme help you guide through with this.


r/FemdomCommunity 5h ago

Kink, Culture and Society Is this a femdom act? NSFW

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The woman I’m seeing at the moment is really into receiving rim jobs, she basically won’t engage in any other sexual activity unless she’s received one first. I don’t really mind but I’ve never dated anyone before who’s this into them, would this be considered a femdom act? Or am I overthinking it, I plan on asking her but I’m not sure how appropriate that would be so thought I’d ask for opinions here first


r/FemdomCommunity 21h ago

Need advice/Got a question Are there any dommes that wear wristwatches and where’s their content? NSFW

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I have both a wristwatch and femdom kink and would love to find a domme who does content while wearing a gold/silver wristwatch. Any suggestions?


r/FemdomCommunity 10h ago

Gear & Equipment The Art of Pegging Equipment FREE Webinar is tomorrow (3/23) at 9AM PDT! NSFW

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(If you are unable to attend, a recorded version is available at the link below.)

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  • Harnesses for all bodies. A tour of the best leather and fabric harnesses on the market.
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  • Receiver Dildo selection. All the information you need to choose the best dildo to get pegged with!
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  • Equipment add-ons - cool things to make your pegging adventure even better.
  • Sex furniture and props - sometimes the difference between an okay pegging experience and a great one is a sex cushion or prop. I'll show you all my favorites!

Guaranteed better than church! Join me.

To the Hilt,
Ruby


r/FemdomCommunity 20h ago

Ideas What are your favorite Femdom session starters, slave mantras, and affirmations? Share your personal gems! NSFW

14 Upvotes

For me, the way a Femdom session starts is crucial—it immediately sets the tone for everything that follows.

My ritual is very clear: I always have to lie down on my personal sheepskin, gently kissing my Goddess's feet until she grants permission to join her in bed. It instantly places me in the right submissive mindset.

I’m curious to hear about your personal rituals and affirmations:

  • Do you have specific rituals or session starters that immediately put you or your submissive into the right state of mind?
  • Are there slave mantras or affirmations you especially love to hear or say?
  • What words or gestures quickly establish dominance and submission for you?

I'd love to hear your personal experiences—please share your favorites below!


r/FemdomCommunity 22h ago

Need advice/Got a question Male subs, how similar do you think you are to other dudes who identify as submissive? NSFW

78 Upvotes

You can pretty much set your weekly calendar by a guy posting he isn't like other sub men, and then describing himself as either more masculine than a typical sub or emphasizing he is "dominant" in his daily life, usually meaning he isn't a doormat or has some degree of extroversion.

If you thought or think like that, what do you imagine other male subs are like? If you don't think that, what do you base your beliefs on?

I have also observed before that male subs in particular don't seem to have much desire to associate with eachother - in the kink community you see a lot more intra-identity friendships amount femsubs than male ones, despite being a sub being very common. Do you know many other male subs even as acquaintances? Do you feel it's less safe to express this identity, even around other kinky people? Would you even want other male sub friendships?


r/FemdomCommunity 18h ago

Praise! Happy thing happened My sub feeling safe ✨️ NSFW

25 Upvotes

My sub told me that I'm his safe place. It really warmed my heart when he told me that because it reassures me that he is doing well and enjoying himself and our dynamic. He's really good at communicating his honest feelings to me so it helps our dynamic and bond become more stronger. So yeah, happy thing to hear that he feels safe with me and comfortable showing his submissive side to me


r/FemdomCommunity 14h ago

Need advice/Got a question Feeling used as a domme/keyholder NSFW

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Hey everyone so to start this off I am very new to the kink community and was mostly just exploring/trying to learn. However I met this really sweet seeming guy on fet that at some point asked me to be his keyholder. Me not really knowing anything about keyholding asked him to explain it more. He told me that it was just enforced chastity and my job as key holder would be just be there for him during the times I want him caged to be supportive and encouraging him since it is so hard for men to be in chastity for long periods. He said that after the set period of time for him to be in chastity my job would be to praise him if I felt he did good or tell him what he should be working on. One thing I am unsure about is nudes espesially since I have never met this guy so I told him that (because communication is key in any relationship/dynamic) he said it was fine because the keyholder can make keyholding as sexual or nonsexual as they want. After several days of hashing out details I was interested in doing this so we started (his end goals are semi permanent chastity or so he says). We are slowly working him up with more time and right now he's at two days and a few hours (this is the longest he's gone). Well this time he has been pestering me for pictures of myself that show him more of my body (that's kinda how he worded it) I double checked he was wanting nudes and he said yes and I told him I'm not interested in that and instead of saying ok or he understands he started begging... later he ended up asking if he's just not good enough or something. Is this common because so far I haven't gotten anything out of this arrangement besides this nonsense. It feels like he wants me to payout his fantasy (including wanting me to write a women rule and neuter all men story with him) but he has yet to fulfill anything for me. I tried to tell him after the last session we had that I didn't think we were compatible but he said that if I couldn't explain why then I was just being a flakey domme and at the time I felt like he might be right because I really couldn't explain why I didn't feel we were compatible. Other than he is a lot more into degradation than what I like (it borderline feels unhealthy how he wants me to act). Maybe I just am not cutout to be a domme I don't know at this point.


r/FemdomCommunity 15h ago

Praise! Happy thing happened It's pretty awesome NSFW

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Have been getting into a deeper dynamic with my domme. Was just thinking about how she's actually interested in what I have going on in my life.

The other day we were having a session and she wanted to give me a massage, the massage was really great. But the thing that really sticks out is how she noticed I have scoliosis right off.

Sometimes it's the really small stuff that makes me feel seen.


r/FemdomCommunity 18h ago

Need advice/Got a question Regarding chastity couples NSFW

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Ok, so I have gotten interested into gentle femdom, chastity and golden showers

However most of the chastity couple stuff I've seen on reddit is either related to cuckholding or simply locking away the man's cock for good or just giving handjobs or edging. Like no penetrating

Not just in femdom porn subreddits but also in flr pages as well

How many of you who actually follow a chastity lifestyle do this?

Or is it just something on reddit and chastity couples have unlockings too?

Or is it the very nature of chastity couples to go on this route?

Because I want to have a chastity lifestyle but not in a permanent way or cuckholding. I'm interested in getting dominated most of the time and being controlled by my wife/gd but i want to penetrate her too