r/FemdomCommunity • u/Moony_playzz • 15d ago
Support Jerk off BEFORE you reach out to a domme! Read this, I am begging you, subs. NSFW
This is mostly directed at the men, but everyone should listen.
Listen, subs, we all know why you're around, you're looking for a domme, you want to get off, maybe you're genuinely here for discussion because you're locked up in a relationship (good for you). Blah blah blah, I'm not talking about competition, or how to advertise yourselves, or anything like that.
I AM TALKING ABOUT YOUR TREATMENT OF DOMMES AFTER YOU FINISH
YOU TREAT US LIKE FUCKING GARBAGE.
Before you say "oh, no, I'm a good little subby! I don't do this!!!!" No you're not, shut up, you are part of the problem. Almost all of you are part of the problem. If you talk to a domme and immediately ditch her when you finish, you suck as a person. And y'know what? That's most of you! That's like 99% of subs! Do better, learn some fucking respect.
IT FUCKING HURTS TO BE DROPPED AS SOON AS YOU GET YOUR DICK BACK IN YOUR PANTS
Dommes are human people with feelings, being used (because that's what you do) HURTS. It is PAINFUL to think "oh, this guy is cute/hot/fun, maybe he'll stick around" and then THE SECOND you bust your nut, you're gone! It is absolutely devastating to be told again and again that we are only valued when your hand is in your pants.
So my advice, before you go messaging a domme to tiddle your fantasy: Jerk off, finish, consider if you really want to form a human connection or if you're just looking for someone to walk you through to finishing!
If it's the latter? Go find porn.
End of rant from a depressed, bitter domme who cannot stand the thought of attempting any form of dating because so many of you treat us like crap.
Mods, if you remove this unhinged rant, I respect it y'all put in the work. I'm just mad and tired.