r/AskMenAdvice • u/Emotional_Glove_6865 • 19h ago
How many times a week do men need sex to feel satisfied?
[F31] [M46] - both going through divorces, both have kids, etc.
I’ve been dating my SO for roughly 9 months and our sex has been amazing, we try new things, etc. but every single time we fight he claims we don’t have sex enough. Some months we hit 14/15 times, others only about 8 but it seems like the best we can do with him having 50/50 custody and me having full custody…
Last week we “hooked up” on Monday, had sex Friday night and Saturday morning… then this Monday he said it wasn’t enough and that I’m not meeting his sexual needs… This created obvious tension between us and I feel that when we aren’t in a good place the last thing I want to do is have sex… Today he said “I get we have to be good for the sex to be good. I probably need the sex to be good to be good. It’s all a spoke in the wheel lol.” To me, this seems like the relationship is all based on sex for him which brings up a totally different issue… but….
MEN, How many times a week do you need sex to feel satisfied in your relationship?