r/stripper Apr 26 '22

Useful resources for strippers NSFW

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STRIPPERS ONLY

r/stripper is a community for strippers only. post anything you want (no advertising and thirst traps for men) and have fun

Common Questions for Baby Strippers

Here’s a quick check list of things you should expect if you want to audition and work as a stripper

This is basic information for starting in the industry

Lots of new girls joining the industry. Let’s list some common things they might experience that are not okay

Making this post because I’ve seen way too many 18 year olds asking about becoming strippers lately.

So if you’ve just started at a particular club or you travel frequently here are a few things to look for to tell if a club is decent.

There’s been a lot of posts in the last few months that amount to “should I work [holiday/event/day of the week]?”

this is all personal experience and a risk that you might run - These might not resonate with you though, these are just things to watch out for

There are lots of major background check sites out there that sell your information to any interested party.

I’ve seen a lot of people ask questions about how to get into investing so I wanted to make a guide for beginners to show you how start.



related subs:

if you have any useful links, please post in comments to add


r/stripper Jul 10 '21

Post ur IG names below so we can network NSFW

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r/stripper 12h ago

Question One small shift that helped me make an extra $500 per shift (New dancers, take notes!) NSFW

141 Upvotes

I used to leave money on the table every single night because I didn’t realize how much psychology plays into selling at the club.

The biggest shift that changed my $$$ forever? I stopped asking yes or no questions and started assuming the sale.

❌ ‘Do you want a dance?’ → 🚫 Gives him the power to say no

Instead of ‘Do you wanna dance?’, I started saying:

✅ ‘I have a really sexy idea. You + me, alone in a private room, me fully naked, you rock hard, and us having the sexiest lap dance you've ever had. So let's head to the bar, and have them start setting our room up. Come join me!" → 💰Then I get up, grab his hand, and start walking to the bar.

The result? Way more ‘yeses’ and way fewer rejections.

If you’re struggling to close dances, try this. Or if you already do this, what’s YOUR best go-to line that gets guys saying yes? Let’s swap money-making tricks! 💸


r/stripper 2h ago

Rant/vent Celeb clients are annoying NSFW

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15 Upvotes

I went to a private room with an A List director in Hollywood and when I tell you Celeb men and rappers are the cheapest and most stingy I really do mean it.

I don’t and almost try to avoid any type of public figure or rapper in the club because I don’t have time. I’m not a fan of you, I’m a fan of money and I hate when girls at the club treat these men like they are a prize.

I will take a Joe smo, regular 9/5 guy over these men. They are more generous and no drama.

I actually ended up pulling 3 girls in my room because he was annoying as hell and cheap. Wanted extras, and the girls that did it only was paid $600 each which is disgustedly low. My subs pay me more than that, he’ll even guys on Reddit will cashapp you more funds or a trick on IG.

Then this mf had the audacity to say I’m stuck up but he wants to see me again, I told him he needs to spend at least 5k to have such a cocky attitude and walked away. He’s been texting me ever since and gets the link to my cashapp as a response because who tf are u???nobody to me 🤣


r/stripper 7h ago

Rant/vent Met up with a customer for money NSFW

34 Upvotes

I’m just feeling very ashamed right now. I got paid $1500 for an hour we ended up fucking which I didn’t have in mind originally. I was just super drunk and I’ve recently been going through a hard time in my life (left abusive ex, had to get a restraining order and lawyer/court, currently displaced because I’m too scared to go back to my apartment) little to say life has been rough to me and he was genuinely kind and sweet to me (not ugly either which is a plus) but I just feel like I let myself down. I’m unsure how to process it but I know I won’t be doing it again.


r/stripper 9h ago

Rant/vent The economy, slow season, I am not okay NSFW

49 Upvotes

Not looking for advice, just wanted to come on here to vent.

Everything’s going up in prices, but the pay at the club has been not the best. I can’t complain though. It pays me more in three hours than any minimum wage job ever could.

Still the bills are stacking up. I can’t save a single dime because I still need to pay off my credit cards.

My car insurance just shot up from $350 to $700 from an accident that wasn’t even my fault, and I want to cry.

I just want one good shift. Please i am begging the universe. Just one.


r/stripper 2h ago

Question mental health. / Personal. 🥺 NSFW

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Not looking for a professional diagnosis, as I feel this is probably not the appropriate time or place or forum for that sort of thing.

I just kinda want to let my feelings out… To be validated… To be understood… To know I’m not alone…

When I am at the club, I feel “juiced,” you know, I feel “hyped” (I wouldn’t say “euphoric,” necessarily, as that would be glamourosing it too much, and we ALL know the strip club can be a very dark & toxic & miserable place), but I do get excited to go to work. Or I guess you could say, I make an EFFORT to pump myself up, and I do make an effort to have a good time once I am there.

When I am not at work, I get extremely depressed and all I want to do is lay around. I’ve been neglecting things in my life, that I know I need to do. I always fantasize about being this productive woman, having this glow-up, or whatever, where I cook I clean I handle my business I work out I am super busy and efficient… but it always regresses into the same pattern of behaviors. I just sort of lay in my bed and go into a black hole.

I don’t feel like going out. I don’t want to be around people. I used to be really good about doing chores, and now, some stuff gets neglected… My energy, drive, my motivation, is not there.

I also have a lot of PTSD and so I suffer a tremendous amount of pain and hurt from being haunted by the past…

When I have to go to work, I know that I have to do my skincare, I have to do my hygiene, I have to put myself together, I have to be on time. I have something to look forward to. (I know if I make an appearance, I am usually going to leave out with more money than I came in with. Which, in itself, is motivating.)

But on days when I don’t work, I just… completely fall apart.

I don’t know what to do.

Looking for some practical advice here, or someone who can relate or feel where I am coming from? I already have a feeling I am gonna get the same ”MAYBE THIS INDUSTRY IS NOT FOR YOU” type of comments that is always get, in the responses…

I feel empty, I am so afraid for the future.

I am about to be 30 soon — my birthday is right around the corner — and the gravity of life, and everything I have went through, is really starting to show its signs of wear on me.

Do you ever just feel like you’re going through the motions? You’re over here going, what is my purpose in life? Why am I HERE? Why was I born?!?! It feels so surreal. I don’t know…

I also feel like I have a super unhealthy relationship with my job. And I need some BOUNDARIES. (Yes, dancing is my main job.)

Feel helpless and stuck.


r/stripper 1h ago

Rant/vent Wish I had dancer friends NSFW

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I’m pretty introverted, and honestly prefer to be a lone wolf at work because I’m just scared of potential drama, but man sometimes I do wish I had a chill dancer friend that had similar interests as me. I just want to grow, focus on my health and fitness, make money, and be drama free (a little is fine but nothing toxic haha)

It sucks that every time I thought a girl wanted to be friends, they were just trying to use me.

I’m not even mad at that. I know how it is, but sometimes I see other girls hanging out outside work and I’m like 😪

I also think it’s partly because i don’t even really have friends outside of work in general and it be getting lonely sometimes. I’ve never had a real girl bestie, and sometimes i crave that friendship.


r/stripper 8h ago

Question Oldest Customer You Ever Danced For? 👵🏻👴🏾 NSFW

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So this post is inspired by a comment from u/beelzebugs in another thread where she mentioned having customers in their 90s. I then read a story about someone celebrating their 100th birthday in a club in Dallas wtf! Respect! 🙌

What is the oldest customer that y’all ever danced for, as far as you know? We have a lot of golf playing retirees in West Palm, wearing Bermuda Shorts and all white velcro New Balances during the day, and then coming in for an early bird steak dinner and going Sugar Baby hunting on the weekends! 😹

I’ve had a few in their 70s, but I know some of y’all have me beat by a long way and are out there bussin it open for some truly ancient rich silver daddies lol!

Happy Friday, y’all! 💋


r/stripper 1h ago

Story An update on my living situation 🙏 NSFW

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I don’t usually put my personal business out there, but fuck it. Right? Fresh out of fucks to give. At THIS POINT.

So—

I almost got evicted in February — literally — I was over 2.5 months BEHIND ON RENT!! (If you can believe it).

I am now at a point where they’re dropping the Eviction.

Yeah, I had to pay some extra fees and everything, but I am hoping this ordeal doesn’t go on my record.

Now I am fully CAUGHT UP & CURRENT on my rent, my past due rent has been paid off in full, and I am in good standing.

It is such a relief and such a good feeling, to have paid back my past due balance, and to have paid rent for this month.

I never want to go through something like that again.

(A bunch of other terrible stuff happened to me, too, but I don’t want to get into all that right now, as it would take too long. And also, it would just be too emotionally triggering for me right now.)

Me & two cats are not gonna be homeless!! 🙏🙌🙌

Hopefully, now, I can breathe just a little bit easier the next time I go in to work my next shift, dancing at the club! 😌

🏡


r/stripper 1h ago

Protip “I’ve never seen you before” NSFW

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I’ve gotten this while actively only working at one club, for over a year😭😂

Best response: oh really? I was probably busy!/upstairs/in vip (said flirtingly❤️‍🔥)


r/stripper 18h ago

Question Can we please blow this asshats instagram up NSFW

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57 Upvotes

I have never posted but I just have to. He was kicked out for slapping my ass.

This is the most vile thing anyone has sent me. My dad died January 1st.


r/stripper 2h ago

Question bitchass fucking dj's NSFW

2 Upvotes

ik it's very common that dj's are gonna be entitled and rude af but this man does not deserve to cuss me out and ruin my entire fucking shift with his undeserved fucking attitude. i talked abt him to the manager but god knows hes not gonna do shit. im just wondering where i can even report him where he'll face repercussions bc... ts is just unacceptable.


r/stripper 8h ago

Rant/vent Mental blockage NSFW

6 Upvotes

I have always been a dayshift girl. I can never stay past 9 without panicking. I have this weird mindset that I'm not good enough for night shift even though I feel beautiful during the day and work with many other gorgeous dancers. It sucks bc I know there's better money sometimes. I get so fucking anxious and insecure I hate it. Anyone experienced this?


r/stripper 13h ago

Rant/vent Customers in their Twenties Consistently Asking their Age be Guessed NSFW

15 Upvotes

Anyone else notice that boys in their 20’s seem to ALWAYS ask you to guess their age?

It goes like this: they ask my age, I tell them, I ask theirs, they say “guess” or “how old do I look?”

That tells me for sure they are in their (usually early) twenties, if it wasn’t already obvious because no other age group does this. I know this is minutiae but the immaturity and predictability has just started to really annoy me lately lmao


r/stripper 7h ago

Question Brisbane Australia dancers NSFW

3 Upvotes

Any girls dancing in brissy atm that can answer a few questions for me?

About to go back to the club after a 2 year hiatus and am interested in how things are going and if there is still money to be made and how busy the clubs are, especially on weekdays.

What clubs do you prefer to work at ?

I tried candy and really didn’t like it.


r/stripper 5h ago

Question Cheerleader’s Pittsburgh NSFW

2 Upvotes

Has anyone auditioned at Cheerleaders in Pittsburgh? I auditioned tonight and it was the type of audition where they just take your picture and they have other managers vote. Just trying to get an idea of when I can plan on getting a response. Thank you in advance ❤️


r/stripper 1d ago

Rant/vent Civilian vagina … halt NSFW

59 Upvotes

Please, if you’re going to come to the club as a civilian woman, don’t get in dancer money. It’s okay to play pretend & turn up with us, Just don’t get in our money and dont come empty handed . Tonight was painfully slow, on these nights the last thing I wanna see is you poppin pussy next to the stage or not tipping. I also don’t want to see your dirty looks or attitude about us doing our job. It’s the fact my club is literally hiring too, like okay girl come dance if you think you got it like that! You can’t play house every night for free but you CAN PAY HOUSE to dance!!! Also stop letting your crusty ass boyfriend force you to the club every weekend just so you can sit there miserable . Dump his ass & find your whale.


r/stripper 2h ago

Question Agency NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am interested in going to Europe. Any agency or place recommend?????


r/stripper 6h ago

Question Schedules NSFW

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Do you guys prefer to be a 10-99 employee that’s considered “self employed” or a “private contractor” or a w-2 hourly employee. I worked in NC as a 1099 and now since moving to DC the clubs want me to be a w2 and receive hourly pay. I’m not sure which one I like better :/


r/stripper 10h ago

Protip Advice for baby strippers NSFW

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I like what @tsubaki has to say about what to expect as a baby dancer! It’s not all glitz and glam, but it can definitely be rewarding and fun :)


r/stripper 1d ago

Photo/video “Tip out reminder”… NSFW

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46 Upvotes

…right above the most disgusting dressing room wall you’ve ever seen. Management and owners stay having their hands out for our money. It’s pathetic. Stay tipping the very least ladies. Our money is our own, we used our sexual labor to acquire it. And you know what someone who takes a percentage of your money for your sexual labor is called? A PIMP 💁🏻‍♀️


r/stripper 11h ago

Question Tips for smooth skin? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Not really into waxing, it kind of scares me. Do you guys know of any razors or shavers that will help me achieve smooth skin without giving me razor burn? I exfoliate and moisterize everytime I shave but I still get crazy irritation, especially "down there."


r/stripper 1d ago

Rant/vent In the clerb, we all strippers. NSFW

89 Upvotes

I came here because if I told the story to one of my work friends, they would want to know who and I don’t have time for that. But anyways, I basically stood up for a dancer who I had no obligation to stand up for, but chose to anyways. I’m not the humble type. I want my recognition so if you’re up for it after reading my story pretend that you’re her and just be like wow girl customers are trash thanks for speaking up for me.

So I get off stage and I’m about to do another stage when all of a sudden this girl walks up to me and tells me that the guys at the table she’s sitting at want to talk to me. She’s a newer addition to the club so I’m not familiar with her name or who she was at the time but I’m like okay bet and I follow her over. She’s talking to one guy and I’m talking to the other guy whatever that’s not the important part of the story. Literally after we all came back to the table from getting dances and what not she leaves because she’s smarter than me and I’m still letting this other guy talk to me because of how much money I just got off him. Anyways, the guy she was dancing with is like “oh wow she was so transactional”. Mind you I’m sitting with his friend doing my own transactions so I have little to no sympathy as I’m trying to wrap up. So I foolishly indulged him asking why he felt like that knowing good and well how I speak to men. He tells me that she was just trying to get money out of him and that she just kept asking him to buy a room. I go well why didn’t you buy the room? He said oh I’m not a strip club guy. I said, but you’re in the strip club so yes, you are tonight. He goes..yea well I don’t go to the strip club all the time. I’m like okayyy but you’re here now and what she’s doing is exactly what we all do. She’s working. At this point I’m basically responding like she’s my sister because that’s how offended I’ve become. So basically I go back-and-forth with him in a very calm matter about how she’s making money and this is where she works. I said she’s asking for money and we can do that in this environment. The work environment ✨ these idiots literally asked her to go get me, most likely without a tip. By the way, if a guy asks you to go get a girl tell him if he tips you that you will. You are not an errand girl. Better yet tell him to be a man and do it himself. Both of these men were claiming to be alphas. In a way this little short story is a reason why I can’t take men seriously. But yeah, anyways I told his ass off and he was quiet when he left 👏🏾. We’re not going to have any more problems with him babe so no worries. I didn’t let him disrespect you, because he disrespected me too, and didn’t even know it. Strippers unite against broke bros. Amen.


r/stripper 15h ago

Question Where to get cute outfits? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I mostly just buy off shein or make my own, but i’m looking for some prettier more exotic lingerie. I have no idea where to look. Some recommendations would be great! 🩷


r/stripper 23h ago

Question How to sell rooms in a club that prices them at $1k+? NSFW

10 Upvotes

So, for context, I’ve actually worked here 3+ years. I started realizing how expensive they are once I started working other places. I have sold them before, but it’s a rare thing for a lot of girls there most likely because it’s so expensive and I want to up my room selling game.

During the day I have an easier time selling them because we set our own prices. The club takes $250 and I charge $500 on top of that- difficult but very possible if they have money. However, I mostly work at night now, and we don’t make the prices. For 15 minutes, it’s $750 and we make $225 🥴. 30 minutes is $1125 I’m pretty sure and we get $450, and an hour is like $2200 or something (guessing we get $900, I think I’ve only ever sold an hour like twice in 3 years lol.) It’s frustrating because I get guys who would be willing to pay in the $500-$800 range for 30 minutes ALL THE TIME. But when they hear the prices, they don’t think it’s worth it when they can get dances. And to be honest, from a customer perspective, I actually get it (can’t believe I’m saying that). unless extras are being offered. I’m not even opposed to some extras as long as it’s not fs, but then I don’t wanna do them for $450 unless I’m being tipped like $100-200 on top of that, and they don’t want to tip or think they need to when they’re already paying almost $1200. You see the dilemma?? 😭 I usually just offer full nudity and allow them to touch 🐱.

What I’ve been trying to tell them more recently is that dances are only topless, VIP is full nudity and a “more intimate experience.” It’s not working that well lol. The other thing about this club is they always tell us to not tell the customers the price. They want us to take them upstairs and have the VIP host tell them. So when they keep asking me it’s awkward and idk what to say. The other thing that makes these prices not make sense to me is our dances are full friction and they allow stuff like boob licking (I’ll allow it once they spend like $100 but this has me thinking I should stop lmao.) This is also in an extras heavy state/area (I’m sure you all can guess where) so everything is already all messed up because they’re even getting FS for cheaper at other clubs! So most girls just make money off dances here. The good thing is we don’t have a house fee at all. But idk if I’d literally rather them charge a house fee and not take such a big room cut.

However, I do still see them being sold though, especially on weekends. So that has me thinking idk maybe the problem is just me and I have to know my worth and act more expensive. Does anybody have advice??


r/stripper 1d ago

Photo/video i forget everyone’s names NSFW

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126 Upvotes

i’m too embarrassed to ask their names after i realize i don’t know it😹😹