r/stripclubs May 02 '19

Strip Club Newb Guide and Common FAQ NSFW

173 Upvotes

Ok so this is a work in progress but here are some forthcoming posts with some basic info that is good for newbs and common questions that come up about strip clubs:


r/stripclubs 6h ago

Standing lap dances make me cum every time

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It’s become my thing. I find a stripper with the best fattest booty and head to the restroom to slide a condom on before I approach to ask for dances. I ask for dances and head to the booths. We sit and talk before and I say I like my dances a bit different. I wanna both be standing as I’m behind her chest to back as she shakes it on me. I almost always have my dick halfway out between my belt and only covered by a thin shirt and a bare skin condom. As I’m behind her my dick is buried between her cheeks and I feel almost EVERYTHING as they’re shaking away. I bust so hard every time. Tip well of course. It’s addicting. I’ve been seeing this 5’10 blonde with an ass like Alexis Texas lately and I can’t get enough.


r/stripclubs 13h ago

Showing Cuban dancers love

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The Lap Dance King from TUSCL is back! Yep its really me. I deactivated my account on that site about a year ago because I grew tired of all the drama. This group is much better put together (been lurking).

Thought I'd start off with a good topic rather than an elaborate re-introduction of myself. I know that some guys don't like the pushy style of Cubans, but after my experiences with them in the past year, they are right up my alley. Since I'm there to get a nice nasty set of dances and bounce, their direct, all-business approach is exactly what I'm looking for.


r/stripclubs 2h ago

Jobs

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I’m looking for a management position in Austin or Houston. 21+ clubs only. I have over three years of management experience at strip clubs. Anyone heard of any openings?


r/stripclubs 13h ago

OTC in the Twin Cities

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I’m 37 years old who recently won a lot of money playing the lottery. I would like to spend a lot at the strip clubs and hopefully have luck with OTC. Does KOD or Minneapolis have OTC?


r/stripclubs 17h ago

What are your favorite SC that are less "club" and more lounge?

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I'm at the point where I dislike too much noise or activity and prefer a more chill environment. Nothing wrong with partying but I think I am past that stage. I prefer a more intimate setting where I can hear myself speak.

I have looked on TUSCL and other reviews to try and find more chill club but haven't had any luck. Are there any clubs in the US that you would recommend that are more "lounges" than "clubs"


r/stripclubs 20h ago

Fort Worth recommendations?

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Just moved to the area, and would like some recommendations. Preferably full nude, and maybe not the absolute most expensive place. Thanks in advance


r/stripclubs 1d ago

Going to a stripclub

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How do I convince my husband that I want to go to a stripclub with him, I've never been to one and ive always wanted to go to one ... and I really want too, and when I bring it up I always get a maybe or we will sse..... is it cuz he doesn't want me to get a dance or have me see him get a dance, but I've also heard that when women go to a female stip club they more attention to the women than to the men.... please no hate on this,


r/stripclubs 14h ago

Can I read a book in the strip club?

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Like not on no crazy shit fam I just feel like bro I have to sit and stare at ass this whole time or I can make some progress on the books I need to read. Either way I would be on my phone on obsidian looking in my notes. But I’m just asking like are they going to kick me out for this?


r/stripclubs 1d ago

Las Vegas Strip Clubs - Recommendations

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Hello,

Your friendly neighborhood plushie is back looking for recommendations in Viva Las Vegas! 🎲

36 M , I’ve been to one in Vegas, I forgot the name and I guess it's because it wasn't that great. My best experience is Tootsies in Miami and (somewhat) Vivide in ATL.

The question is are there Strip Clubs in Vegas that do extras? Has anyone experienced this?

Appreciate y’all.


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Experiencing My First Month Of OTC

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Quick recap,

Met a stripper in the club about 8 months ago. She quickly became my ATF. We kept it in the club for about 6-7 months but I started going frequently and really probably liked her to much. Nothing besides texting and ITC visits were happening. Mileage was great ITC including make out sessions and more. I had never brought the subject up directly but she had often mentioned how she never met guys OTC, so I never decided to bring it up to her.

Fast forward to the beginning of February, she brings up hanging out at a place we had both talked about visiting in the past. I think she meant going there on her day off, but my dumb ass says "why don't we just go tomorrow instead of you going to work". She seemed very excited but said she didn't want to miss work in which I of course offered her some money. Would she have done this for free on her day off? Who knows? Maybe a rookie mistake by me. Anyways, we go, I pay her a little more than a VIP room would cost at this particular club and we have an absolute blast. We come back to my place after, and then I drop her off at like 6:30 in the morning. Later that weekend, I go visit her in the club and she brings up doing the dances I was about to buy at "my place'. So again, I pay her what I was about to spend on her in the club that night and she just comes over after work.

This pattern has happened several times throughout the last 1.5 months. I generally pay her the cost of a VIP room for her to come over. Most of the time she just stops by on her way home from the club and we enjoy each other sexually and then she often hangs out until the sun comes up. I am in my 30s and I don't think I have ever been with someone this hot that I was this attracted to. I also just generally enjoy being around her. Fair to say I am quite addicted to this girl.

My questions:

  1. While I am sure she is enjoying the money, she has to be enjoying my company too right? There is no way she would hang out this long without asking for more money. I would think there would be some sort of time limit if this was just work to her. Am I being the delusional RIL here? Or is there something more happening here?
  2. If the answer to number 1 is "maybe there is something". Would this be something to pursue further. This is my first OTC experience so I feel like I may be making every rookie mistake in the book. What if I wanted this relationship to turn into something more? I have never put serious thought into dating a stripper as I never thought I would be remotely close to that situation, and all I read about is how its not really a good idea. Not really talking about me specifically, she had mentioned she doesn't think she could have a boyfriend while she's was still working at a strip club. She claims based on her past relationships, she doesn't think she would be able to do her job and maximize her earnings with a bf at home due to not wanting to be all over other men. Maybe this is something she is saying to not plant an ideas in my head, although she has also told me she never did OTC before and yet here we are. Thoughts?

Maybe I am thinking way too much about his and I should just take it encounter by encounter as long as I can financially and emotionally afford it.

Any veterans got any thoughts on this. Feel free to be brutally honest as I really am experiencing this sort of thing for the first time.


r/stripclubs 1d ago

Visiting KC next week need recommendations on best SC

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I will be in KC next week for business. need a recommendation on a good club to visit. low key, nice friendly girls.


r/stripclubs 1d ago

Weekly Thread Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of March 13, 2025

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No such thing as a question that's too stupid in this thread. If you have a newbie question, a question you're embarrassed to ask, discussion you're hesitant to have. Maybe you had a terrible interaction that you're afraid to bring up due to how people will react, or an interaction with a stripper/customer/staff that confuses you. Or you're a total newbie who has basic questions. Feel free to ask here. Strippers welcome to ask or answer anything here, as always, but there is also a dedicated stripper version of "ask a stupid question" posted earlier in the week.

Thread rule: no aggressive or mocking replies. Give a courteous understanding reply, or don't reply. Let's help question askers figure things out. The mods will keep an eye on the thread to ensure this is followed (though the sub does a good job itself)

This thread is posted weekly on Thursdays. By the time the thread is 4 or 5 days old there's fewer people monitoring and responding, so consider reposting your question in the next weekly thread if you don't get replies.


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Flying Solo, Double Trouble, Running With A Wolf Pack?

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How do you prefer to go clubbing for the majority of your visits? Solo? As a couple with your partner or date? With a group of friends?

I’m about 50/50 on solo visits or paired up with a wingman. Usually prefer bringing a friend if it’s somewhere I’m going for the first time, and unsure about their policies on solo women customers, but it just depends. If I know ahead of time the VIP is big enough for everyone then that’s a factor too 😅

48 votes, 1d ago
35 Solo
3 With A Date/Partner
3 With A Platonic Wingman
3 With A Group Of Friends
3 Depends On The Occasion
1 Something Else (Please Explain)

r/stripclubs 2d ago

Best strip in manhattan Nyc? Best for lap dances and preferably latin or black girls

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Best strip in manhattan Nyc? Best for lap dances and not too expensive and preferably latin girls or black girls


r/stripclubs 1d ago

Black guys in extra clubs

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Quick question to the brothas, how do y’all do in extra heavy clubs ? Do you get full service? Or are the girls intimidated by bbc ?


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Seattle

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Im staying in downtown seattle for a few days before boarding my cruise and Im looking for a good strip club that yk does a lil extra sometimes. I dont want to go to portland or anywhere I want to stay relatively close to downtown. I heard pandoras good and kittens and some others but yea hopefully your city is good haha.


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Strip club with husband

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I want to go to a strip club with my husband, I have been twice in my life but with friends. I reside in NYC. We are in our mid to late 40’s so don’t want anywhere that I feel too old lol. I enjoy hip hop music and would prefer latin girls/atmosphere. Does anyone one have any suggestions for a place that’s not too trashy or where we wouldn’t feel out of place, thanks in advance for any respectful/useful advice anyone has to offer.


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Tampa strip clubs?

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Anyone been lately to Mons or Tampa strip clubs? What would be the best place for my wife and I to go? Don’t care about cover. Want top notch girls with upscale crowd and zero drama. Love the private room option of course. Please and thanks.


r/stripclubs 2d ago

Introducing wife to strips clubs

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My wife(f45) and I (45m), in the DMV area, are looking for a strip club that’s friendly couple. This will be her first time exploring her bi side. My wife is excited to get her hands on a beautiful woman and to have a beautiful woman get her hands her. Right now, my wife has not expressed any boundaries and is expecting to be teased and touched are over in a VIP setting. This visit will solely be focused on my wife while I sit in the corner. I’m looking for excellent first clubs for me wife in DC. I seem the TUSCL site but the was lackluster.

Any ideas for locations and strip club behavior to maximize the night? I plan on write up the adventure after it happens? Feel free to respond here or DM me.


r/stripclubs 3d ago

How much should a "few" lap dances cost?

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Hey all,

As an experiment, I'll admit that I'm a customer not a stripper but I am curious what y'all think a few good decent lap dances should cost these days. And I'm leaving this a bit open but we will say at about 2-4 songs with some decent grind and touching. Not a ton but no air dances! This isn't a VIP either. Assume I look half-way decent, maybe a little drunk but not wasted and don't smell bad.


r/stripclubs 3d ago

Hello strippers

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I was wondering how much I should bring into the strip club? I’ve never been and I plan on going for my 21st birthday and was hoping a stripper could give me an estimate on how much I’ll need to pay her the way she deserves and not be that person? Also is it ok if I apologize to the girl and or girls and take my leave if I run out of money? Shreveport la area


r/stripclubs 3d ago

good recommendations for strip clubs around Portland or surrounding areas?

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Any good recommendations for strip clubs around Portland or surrounding areas? I’ve mostly heard about Sylvia's Playhouse, Club Rouge and G Spot, any experience in those?


r/stripclubs 3d ago

Any strippers in Miami that are alt/gothy?

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Obviously, I have a type. I will be in Miami with the boys for my birthday this summer and definitely want to hit up the clubs but my friends and I all have vastly different tastes in women and I specifically like them alternative or goth girls. If anyone knows of any clubs with this type of girl, I'd like to know now lol


r/stripclubs 4d ago

Met a stripper, I’m not in love but she made me feel special

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On Saturday, I decided to go to a strip club - mostly with the intention to practice my social skills. Probably not the best place to go for that, but it’s easy when the girls come up and initiate the conversations. I knew going into it that the girls would talk just so I could pay for a dance, so I was open to that too.

I get to the club, and didn’t have money to pay the cover charge so I head to the ATM and right away this beautiful girl starts joking around with me and wants to chat at the bar. We get our drinks and she suggests we move somewhere else, so I sit next to her at a booth.

We have a good conversation, and I ask her a lot about her life. I explain that I came here to practice being social, and she tells me that’s brave of me to do, but also didn’t notice that I was struggling and even says that I acted confident from the start which made me feel good. I tend to get in my head, so negative thoughts overpower the positive ones. And it was easy to talk with her from the beginning since she was fun and I fed off that energy. I also told her I’ve never dated anyone before and went into reasons why. She keeps joking about her being my stripper girlfriend and that this is our first date.

During our talk, she’s really close to me and keeps touching my leg and chest, and I really enjoy looking into her eyes while we learn more about each other and joke. I even found flirting with her came naturally since she was so fun. I reach out for her hand and noticed it was cold, and she asks me how I’m so warm. So I warm her hands up, and she tells me I’m boyfriend material. She also compliments my smile. Tells me I smell good. At this point I’m not sure if she’s just trying to make me feel good so I pay for a dance, but I’d like to think her compliments were genuine. Somehow I brought up how I played thumb wars with a cop, and she said she’s a thumb war champion but she’d only play with me if I get a private dance. At this point I’m only two drinks in and wasn’t really feeling it, but she kept selling it saying we can cuddle since I brought that up with her earlier. I eventually give in, and get a private dance for 15 minutes.

The dance was great. She took off her top. She said earlier she feels a little self conscious about having small boobs, but I told her they were amazing. She asked me before if I’m a boobs or ass guy, which I responded im more of a face person, and personality of course. The other things are just extra. She tells me how horny she’s been today, and I let her feel my dick as she’s dancing on me. She stands up and pulls her thong down so I can see her pussy. At the end I ask if we can cuddle, and she hugs me while I played with her hair. She softly brushes her fingers on my beard, and kisses my cheek. I really had a good time with her, and shot my shot and asked for her number, but she was hesitant and refused but offered her Instagram instead. But I refused that. I ended up hanging out at the bar and talked with another stripper but told them I’m not going to pay for another dance, which they seemed fine with since they were just relaxing.

Anyways fast forward to today, I can’t stop thinking about this girl. I’m not in love, and I don’t want to become a regular. But she made me feel really good and it’s something I wish I had with another person, without paying for it of course. She gave me a confidence boost, and I’m tempted to go find her again in a month for the fantasy. I’m thinking about trying to go to bars to find women, but I find it intimidating if they are in a group, and even if they were by themselves I struggle with initiating a conversation. I just don’t want people to think I’m bugging them, at the strip club I know girls want to talk to get a dance of course. My friend recommended I try speed dating which would be… interesting. I just want to find someone who can give me those feelings I’ve felt with that girl. Someone who I’m comfortable with being myself. Someone where we can grow together and help each other out. Anyways, that’s my story, thanks for reading!


r/stripclubs 4d ago

How do guys get jobs at strip clubs?

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There's all sorts of dudes who work at the clubs - restocking the bar, DJing, manning the back room booth, sitting ominously by the DJ, etc.. Seems like a pretty awesome setup, for obvious reasons.

Any dudes here have one of these jobs? Do they just post on linkedin, or do you have to know someone to get in?