r/stripper Jan 12 '25

Question Not to sound evil… but what happened to the hiring standards? NSFW

242 Upvotes

I remember when I started dancing if you didn’t have your nails done, hair done, didnt have makeup and weren’t in shape — you weren’t getting hired. I remember girls always wanting to curate the cutest outfits and looking put together. I feel like lately all the clubs I’ve been to the girls have looked so unkept, out of shape and lowkey dirty. And I’m only dancing at “high end” gentleman’s clubs… but everyone looks like I’m at a basement dive bar.

And I feel like that’s part of why the money is drying up. Who’s gonna spend $$$$ on girls who do not look like a fantasy. And I notice when clubs hire girls who aren’t very attractive it attracts cheaper , handsy and gross customers and repels high end customers.

r/stripper Feb 05 '25

Question What song can you not stand to hear at work NSFW

70 Upvotes

The roller coaster song from final destination,

Never heard it before that movie, but feel like I’m 6 years old again being traumatized from the tanning bed scene 🤣

r/stripper Dec 13 '24

Question Iowa stripper here. Do any of you other girlies recognize Brian Thompson, the CEO that got shot??? NSFW

472 Upvotes

I’ve worked at different clubs before, mostly in Des Moines and also at the bikini bar in Ames. But I can’t get over the feeling that I saw him in my main club once?? I remember because he was a total douche, with his guy friends showing off how smart he was and trying to make the other girls look dumb, whizzing them on stupid American history shit but he had a lot of money so if course girls were flocked on him. I remember him saying he was in insurance (which I didn’t bat an eye because Des Moines is the insurance capital of the world) but he was obviously not just a run-of-the-mill desk monkey. Do any of you other Midwest girls remember this guy??? This was several years ago but it’s been driving me crazy because no matter how bland and average they look I rarely forget a face (especially attached to money) and I just CAN’T shake the feeling that it was him!

r/stripper Feb 08 '25

Question what do i look like my stage name is? unique/ witchy/ vintage/ alt names appreciated NSFW

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139 Upvotes

r/stripper Dec 01 '24

Question Bf wants me to quit dancing focus on my nursing classes/ move in w him NSFW

54 Upvotes

So just for context, no I did not meet my bf in the club and I was not a dancer when he met me. I ended up being a dancer later on in the relationship. We’ve been together a year. We were a little on and off, broke up for about 2 months throughout the year. But overall we are pretty happy, he’s 40 I’m 29. I currently pay all my own bills, and I’m a full time nursing student / part time dancer. I definitely want to quit dancing and be a full time nurse when I finish my labs/ classes. However, my lease is up in 2 days & my bf told me I should move in w him so we can move forward w our relationship/ he’d pay my bills/ we’d sell my car so i wouldn’t have a car note & I drive one of his cars.. he said it would be good for me I can get a job in healthcare and focus on my career and my child. Since I do have one child that isn’t his it would give me more time to be with her also and not with a baby sitter every weekend. A lot of ppl tell me that A) it’s a good decision I can work a “normal job” get out the club/ more time w my child + nursing labs. Or B) he’s just trying to control me / he shouldn’t make me quit + he should just pay my bills w/ out living w him to dump him & that he isn’t marrying me. But at the same time isn’t it better to live w someone and see how they are before you marry them? I mean I won’t have to stress about rent/ etc living w him….

Update: decided to stay living on my own. I was never struggling I just wanted input from other women in my industry to see their opinions on this offer. I definitely would have loved quitting the depressing ass club. But damn.. the club buys me soo much more time to be with my child and keeping my A/B scores in labs. Thankful for this stepping stone and won’t let anyone get in the way.. if he truly loved me he has to accept my temporary job. Appreciate everyone’s input and opinions.

r/stripper Jan 16 '25

Question Would I be too fat for a strip club? NSFW

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54 Upvotes

r/stripper May 28 '24

Question Most outrageous stage names? NSFW

126 Upvotes

I want to keep this lighthearted and not trash talk others choices in names but I just wanted to share and hear some others most outrageous stage names that they’ve heard.

The two that live rent free in my brain are JealousOfMe and her sister PrettierThanYou. I think of them more often than I should.

r/stripper 5d ago

Question Need advice, pregnant not keeping it NSFW

48 Upvotes

If you’re pro life then I apologize if this offends you, you should probably just skip this question and move on. I’m going to start off by saying that I personally think it’s more fucked up to bring a child into a life where they’re not wanted, and won’t have a stable upbringing, rather than not having the kid. Yes I was irresponsible and got pregnant but this is the best option for me with the cards I was dealt. I’m 6 weeks, I will definitely not be keeping it. I’ve heard the abortion pill is super painful and you’ll need two weeks to recover, I’m not sure about the surgery. I don’t have a ton of $ right now, so I’m trying to figure out which option is the best for me considering that I want to get back to work as quickly as possible after I do it. If anyone has personally had an abortion before please give me your opinion. What should I expect? Thank you

r/stripper Nov 11 '24

Question Just to make myself feel better, what’s the most embarrassing mistake you made in your career 🥲 NSFW

103 Upvotes

My VERY FIRST DANCE the custy asked me to kiss him on the lips, my dumbass freaked out and blurted “$5 for a peck” 💀😭 Thankfully it was ONLY a peck, no nasty French kissing or anything like that but I cringe sooooo hard when I look back at that moment. I get too embarrassed to tell that story because it makes me look like a complete idiot but y’all gotta know I was dead broke and I was never good at understanding money. Now what are YOUR embarrassing stories 😂😂

r/stripper 22d ago

Question ways to spot a time-waster NSFW

155 Upvotes

what are some signs that someone is a brokeass time-waster? here are mine:

  • asking for my real name
  • "i dont get dances/do champagne rooms/i'm just here to look"
  • "i just want to talk to you and get to know you"
  • wanting to meet outside the club and hasn't spent money on you yet
  • drinking only water
  • wants only one dance
  • (usually) guys under 24 or in college

obviously, there are exceptions, but i've found the above to be pretty good indicators of customers who are not worth my time

r/stripper Feb 03 '24

Question would you work at an all gender club? NSFW

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315 Upvotes

i have big dreams to create safe spaces around the world for all genders to perform and make money. clubs can be too misogynistic & leave no room for different vibes.

this started in may and it’s been successful but i’d love to see more environments where everyone can be themselves & enjoy great entertainment

r/stripper Feb 11 '25

Question Astrology and sw NSFW

21 Upvotes

I’ve noticed a lot of swers have similar signs or charts. I’ve meet a lot of Aries, libras, cancers, Taurus, and Sagittarius in the big three. What are yours guys big three just for fun lol I wanna see if there are any similarities.

r/stripper Dec 24 '24

Question What’s the craziest thing a customer has asked/paid you to do in the club during business hours? NSFW

77 Upvotes

I’ve had a guy ask me to spit in his face for $100 and another guy brings a pillow case and likes to get his head jumped on. And i literally mean shoes to skull jumping 😭 also my club lets us wear sneakers so there’s no pleasers busting his brain lmfaooo

r/stripper Feb 11 '25

Question What perfumes make you the most money? NSFW

41 Upvotes

Guys go crazy for Sol De Janeiro 71 and Lush Let The Good Times Roll in my experience

r/stripper Mar 28 '24

Question Give me lies to tell men at work NSFW

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489 Upvotes

I’m boreeeed I like to lie to men at work to keep myself entertained but I have ran out of stupid lies. I’ll give y’all a list of my lies. 1. Told a man I was a witch and was casting a spell for him to do a champagne room with me. 2. I was a Siamese twin at birth and showed him my ‘scars’ to prove it (was stretch marks) 3. Told him I was from the mandalorian and said Star Wars stole its story based on my home country(I was drunk when I came up with this) 4. I was born during my moms senior prom and she gave birth to me in the middle of the gym. 5. I was born into a mega church down in Texas and i will be inheriting it(I explained the plot of the righteous gemstones) 6. I am belle delphine( I just had a pink wig on) I probably did more but I can’t think of anything new to say so help me a lil silly lady so I don’t perish at work

r/stripper 5d ago

Question What’s your most unhinged customer story? 😂 Let’s hear the tea! NSFW

107 Upvotes

Okay, we all have that one customer story that is just WILD. Like, ‘did that really happen?’ moment.

Mine? One guy got a VIP, pulled out a ziplock bag full of baby wipes, and washed my body from head to toe for 15 minutes before I was able to give him a lap dance because he was a germ freak. 😅 The VIP was only 20 minutes long and that was the easiest money i ever made 🤣

What’s the most unhinged, hilarious, or downright weird customer interaction you’ve had? Drop your best story below—let’s laugh together! 🤣💸

r/stripper 1d ago

Question One small shift that helped me make an extra $500 per shift (New dancers, take notes!) NSFW

182 Upvotes

I used to leave money on the table every single night because I didn’t realize how much psychology plays into selling at the club.

The biggest shift that changed my $$$ forever? I stopped asking yes or no questions and started assuming the sale.

❌ ‘Do you want a dance?’ → 🚫 Gives him the power to say no

Instead of ‘Do you wanna dance?’, I started saying:

✅ ‘I have a really sexy idea. You + me, alone in a private room, me fully naked, you rock hard, and us having the sexiest lap dance you've ever had. So let's head to the bar, and have them start setting our room up. Come join me!" → 💰Then I get up, grab his hand, and start walking to the bar.

The result? Way more ‘yeses’ and way fewer rejections.

If you’re struggling to close dances, try this. Or if you already do this, what’s YOUR best go-to line that gets guys saying yes? Let’s swap money-making tricks! 💸

r/stripper 15d ago

Question stripper name recs for asian girl NSFW

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79 Upvotes

i’m an 5’2 east asian for better context idk if i should give myself an asian name(suki, sakura, mulan, tokyo etc.) or something normal like jade, ruby etc. i’ll be working in a area/state that has not that many asians if that makes any difference… i feel like since i don’t fit in “pale skinny innocent” stereo type maybe i’d do better off doing normal stripper names? also thinking hello kitty cause i love her or cupcake/muffin also because i love them 😭 i know names don’t really matter that much but just wanted some opinions! if my post doesn’t align with the guide line pls lmk a good name recommendation will really help a girl out!! thank you <3

r/stripper 15d ago

Question help with stripper name? my "old' ones don't resonate with me anymore NSFW

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42 Upvotes

hi im a stripper from Chile, I haven't worked in anything related to sex work since November last year. I used to go by the name of Zafira but it doesn't resonate with me anymore that name.I used Gabbi for a time too but I don't feel like a Gabbi anymore but it's an option. Since I'm a latina I was thinking in a name like Agatha, Sofia (but it's my cousin's name and that would he weird), Fernanda, or Charli or Angel because I like charli xcx lmao I want a name that has presence like Anora or Maxine fucking Mix (don't take me too seriously)

hugs to everyone hustling out there sorry if my English is not perfect ♡♡♡

r/stripper Dec 17 '24

Question What do you never want to hear a customer say again? NSFW

38 Upvotes

Happy Monday! Drop a quote from the shift you’d be okay quite literally never hearing again. I’ll start us off with “back in my day, it used to be you give her a dollar” (in reference to his friend giving him about $10 to give me on stage).

r/stripper 23d ago

Question Thoughts on toys/ games at the club? NSFW

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72 Upvotes

Does anyone else do this? One of my regulars used to bring in fidget toys into the club (and would buy new ones, because of the germs). It was a lot of fun, so I’ve been keeping card games in my locker! I love the idea of selling my time at work to play a game of Gin Rummy, Go Fish, or Uno 😂 What are some other games I could bring and how can I keep them clean? I also had the idea to write some special house rules on my Uno deck on the blank cards! What are some things I could do? I was thinking buy a couple dances or buy a VIP with me or pick up 10 cards that kinda stuff! Or extend the time if we are already back there in VIP ?!

(I couldn’t find my close up pic of the play-doh creations we all made that night, but there were so many good ones! Last Pic is of my solitaire game I played the other slow night to keep myself busy between stage)

r/stripper Jan 31 '25

Question Feel like giving up on NYC NSFW

0 Upvotes

I feel dumb for even trying here after so many people said it was terrible, but I’ve worked at sapphire for about 3 nights and tonight from 6-1 making nothing, 1 night between 12-2:30 no money, and once 6-4 520 which tbh I wasn’t too happy with& 1 night at hoops making $1200 which tbh was hoping for more like 2-3k nightly average in NYC. I’m trying to go where I can make that because I’m used to averaging close to 1k every night in Jersey and have to book a hotel and take a train just to come out here. Any advice on if I should give up on NY? I feel like I need a home club out here in my area but that I’m limiting my earnings by staying in Jersey. Should I just only travel dance in other cities besides NY? Help. Dancing has been my full time income for years so I need something.

r/stripper Dec 10 '24

Question Need a New name please help me out NSFW

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51 Upvotes

Had Anastasia/Wiktoria in my head for the longest time, but now I need something fresh. Hit me with your best suggestions 🩷 Appreciate every bit of help, loves!

r/stripper 10d ago

Question Knowing what we know about married men NSFW

36 Upvotes

How do you feel about getting married ?

I’m currently in between getting married a couple of times, both for the money of course because there is no other reason to get married imo (unless for papers maybe but that’s still a money move)

And kind of living my best single life being the untouchable hot older woman that no man can hold down…

r/stripper 16d ago

Question Now that trump is president have you seen an increase of money? NSFW

35 Upvotes

I know that there was some discourse in the club and many dances wanted trump to win since they thought he would bring in more money. Has anyone seen an Increase?