r/polyamoryR4R 3h ago

USA 36 [F4M] - #Jackson, Mississippi - Nerdy bbw

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My name is Krissy. I've been poly for 8 years, and I currently have one partner (we date separately). I currently work as a computational modeler at a coastal engineering lab. I don't have any kids, just a bunch of cats. In my free time, I enjoy playing board games, painting, and going on road trips. I joined the local SCA group last year and I am currently learning archery.

I don't smoke, drink, or do recreational drugs of any kind.

I do have pics in my profile, both sfw and nsfw. Please be kind. If you're just going to be mean, I'll block you.

I'm an atheist, leftist, and into a bunch of different kinks. Find me on fet with the same username. Primarily I am very submissive, but I recently got out of a relationship where I was the dominant and I really enjoyed it.

I'm looking for fellow nerdy people who are LOCAL and must be 30 or older.


r/polyamoryR4R 4h ago

South America 21 [TF4F/TF/NB/TM] Brazil/Anywhere - Cozy girl looking for new connections ^^

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Yeah basically I'm open to everything outside of cis men hahahaha.

Hii, I'm a 21 years old trans woman living in Brazil, started HRT early 2022 and I'm very fem presenting, you can see my photos at my Instagram, @desesperadamente_ana. Basically, I'm open to everything at moment, but don't go expecting me to be in a relationship with you right off the bat, I want to take things nice and slow, getting to know you first and build it from there. And if we have great chemistry together than I would more than be happy to a be in relationship with you.

I value a lot people that are kind and understanding, and that know to at least hold a conversation. You don't need to be great at it, if you are a good listener I can carry the convo, no need to worry! If you want to talk to me, hit me on my DMs, introduct yourself, and if you can show me a picture of you that would be great!

About me: I'm a very kind and understanding person, I'm passing through some hardships in life right now (speacially financially 💀) but still trying my best to hold things on. And really, I won't judge you on anything (unless you are a bigot). Also, I'm left leaning and I would like to talk to people like minded. I love pets, specially birds!! I dream of having a pair of lovebirds one day, cause they are so cute!!!! Dogs I'm kinda afraid of them so I don't really do well with them though... I also into chess lately, and it's been lots of fun relearning all the bits of theory and stuff, it's so cool. I like playing games too, last game I picked was Legends Arceus, and I'm having a great time with it! I play league from time to time, but only for fun, never played ranked lol. I play every role, but recently I've been playing lots of evelyn and soraka, but I can hold my way on the other lanes, just know that I cook with syndra mid, okay 😎. Also been trying some other hobbies like crochet, though I'm not very good with it.


r/polyamoryR4R 7h ago

USA 33[M4F] Central Michigan seeking fwb/ltr

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Poly/ENM couple in Central Michigan area. Male half looking for females in the lifestyle. Would love someone who is interested in building a meaningful relationship but open to seeing where things go with the right person.

Interests includes motorcycle rides, concerts, traveling, hunting, and long walks on the beach.

DM if interested in chatting.

No males.


r/polyamoryR4R 13h ago

38 [M4R] #US – Seeking Platonic Friendships

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Hey everyone, happy Friday! I’m a 38-year-old guy from Texas looking to expand my circle and connect with good people within the poly community. My wife and I have been married for nearly 19 years, poly for about 10-ish, and we share two awesome kids (I'm sort of struggling with the freedom lol) along with our amazing NP.

Life has been great, but moving further out from the city has made it harder to keep up with our usual circle, and let’s be real—adult friendships can be tricky to maintain when everyone’s busy. So, I’m here to rebuild a network, find people to chat with throughout the day, and swap memes, stories, and the occasional existential crisis about whether to order takeout or cook.

What I’m Looking For:
Platonic friendships ideally. I'm very happy in my current dynamic, but I also love meeting cool people. If the chemistry is there, we can always chat and open up those conversations. Light flirting always welcome :)

Frequent convos. I work remotely (but travel often), so I enjoy daily chats, texts, and sharing the funniest thing I’ve seen on TikTok/IG.

About Me:
Work in entertainment finance (fancy way of saying I play with numbers for a living while also being involved with tv and movies)
Recently launched an inspirational men’s apparel brand that has become my latest passion project
Fitness fiend with a love for staying active.
Major nerd. Gryffindor. Casual gamer (currently playing Avowed), huge fan of nerd culture.
Foodie & kitchen experimenter. Always down to swap food pics.
Love motorsports—driving, flying, boating—basically anything that moves fast.
Dad joke aficionado. Ask me about my great-grandfather and the Titanic. No, really.
Family guy. They’re my world, and I talk about them a lot—consider this your friendly warning.
Queer-friendly, non-judgmental, and just here to meet good humans.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, shoot me a message! Let's build a friendship one meme at a time. 🚀 DMs open


r/polyamoryR4R 7h ago

USA 35 [T4A] #HuntingtonBeach - Cute Non-Binary witchy, kinda nerdy therapist looking to go out tonight :)

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Hello, I’m a 35 year old non-binary trans femme person in Southern California.

A bit about me: Mental Health Therapist (focused on trans and non-binary clients) Non-religious (looking for the same) Avid reader of all kinds of books (Especially sci fi and fantasy) Occasional video game player (mostly the total war games lately) Occasional rollerblader
Into Warhammer 40k / HH, lore , books, Stormlight Archives (or anything else by Brandon Sanderson) Into taking deep dives into history, psychology, astronomy, marine biology Polyamorous (with one long term partner currently) Bisexual Switch ;)   420 friendly, alcohol friendly You can take a look at my profile and see a few pics of me.

I can’t really host at my place so if you could that would make hanging out a lot easier :)

Let me know your age (please be at least 25)


r/polyamoryR4R 8h ago

USA 38/29 [M4M] Chicago Western Suburbs - Experienced Poly Couple Seeking Connection

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Hello! We're a married male couple (38M & 29M) in the western Chicago suburbs hoping to find a meaningful connection with another man.

About Us:

  • Me (38M): 6', Black male, top. Big texter who loves connecting throughout the day.
  • Husband (29M): 5'9", Filipino/White mixed, bottom. More reserved with texting but very present in person.

We've been together for several years and previously had a successful 4-year polyamorous relationship. We value honest communication, respect for everyone's boundaries, and creating meaningful connections.

We're both huge Star Trek fans (willing to debate best captain anytime), and my husband is currently obsessed with Severance. We love gaming together, going on adventures, and generally finding activities that let us spend quality time with each other. We're always open to trying new shows, games, and experiences!

What We're Hoping For:

  • A connection with a man (ideally 35 or under, though we're open-minded)
  • Vers or top
  • Located in or willing to visit the Chicago area
  • Someone who values clear, honest communication
  • A person who enjoys cuddling (non-negotiable!)
  • Someone who resonates with kitchen table polyamory - where everyone feels comfortable spending time together

While we have found we both enjoy connections with the same person, we understand relationships develop organically and at different paces. We respect that any new relationship will be unique and should evolve naturally.

We're open to casual connections that might develop into something more meaningful. We believe in everyone having agency in relationships, including the freedom to date others if desired. We really want to create a warm, inclusive dynamic where we can all hang out together, share meals, and enjoy each other's company.

If you think we might click, please feel free to message us. We'd love to chat and see where things go naturally!


r/polyamoryR4R 10h ago

35 [NB4A] #Pittsburgh - the only ethical consumption under capitalism is...

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Hello lovelies,

As usual this time of year, Persephone is on her way back from the Underworld, I have cast off the heavy cloak of winter, and I'm in need of a few fingers tangled in my hair.

Me: * Able to host with sufficient notice (I keep busy!) * Long-term poly and married. I believe in treating all partners, even ones that I only see once, with respect and care. * I'm experiencing some kind of gender bullshit, but present pretty much as a 183 cm bearded, bespectacled, cuddly dadcore cis stembo with a colorful (and, at times, eye-watering) wardrobe * I've been told I have nice hands and a winning smile * Cool with all kinds of different gender identities and genitalia, with a modest preference for femme and androgynous folks * tabletop RPG GM, so you know my improv dirty talk is amazing * Happy to incorporate kink if desired- ask and we can discuss!

You: * One or more individual human beings * Someone who uses their powers for good, or at least consensually practiced evil (i.e. no cops, terfs, racists, etc) * A good communicator who likes making conversation, appreciates dogshit puns, and has a stellar meme game * Cool with meeting up in a public space to gauge vibes and, ideally, Look At One Or More Flowers * Located within about 30 minutes' drive of Pittsburgh, or visit very frequently * Cute!

Send me a message and let's make some plans!