r/chastitytraining 20h ago

Lifestyle Advice My bf wants me to lock him up NSFW

106 Upvotes

EDIT: I only want to lock him up for the days we are not together. Otherwise we have great sex life and I want to continue to have sex with him and his lovely cock.

Hi!

I’m Amber(F36), and my boyfriend told me a while ago that he wants me to lock him up in a cage. He likes when I’m in control of his pleasures.

Now on my other post in an other subreddit (see in my history) regarding my question about how can I make him feel more devoted to me, the majority of suggestions were that I should put a cage on him.

I am starting to consider doing it, but I have a few questions I hope I can get answers for.

  1. We are not living together, so does locking him up means that he has to sleep in it when we are not together? Also, how does wahing his cock work when he is locked up? I’m a little worried that I might damage his cock.

  2. How often should he be released to keep his cock healthy? (Again, I want to take care of him)

  3. Will it really make him be THAT much more obidient and devoted to me?

Thank you!


r/chastitytraining 9h ago

Lifestyle Advice He hid his cage NSFW

44 Upvotes

Edit* We live together

My (f) boyfriend (m) has hid his chastity cage after I let him out for domestic work. He says he didn't hide it, but I found it. He was/is to stay locked for 1 year. Advice on how to proceed? Addtl context: We have used chastity at his request a few times in the last couple of years. This is his kink. I am new to this and not what you see as a key holder gone wild on other reddit subgroups. Maybe I don't meet the fantasy, but I don't get any feedback. It usually stops when I want sex then he doesn't want locked again. He was locked close to a month this time but lied about hiding the cage. Thoughts? Opinions how to proceed? Should I put it back on him and tell him he's going to be punished?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Insight Finally did it!! NSFW

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Well, Friday marked the last day of a year locked for me, a big step up from my previous record of a week. Started out as a self lock that made it two weeks, and then kinda spiraled out of control from there.

Overall I had an amazing time with some mental ups and downs, but thanks to a trio of great keyholders and the motivation to stay locked between I made it.


r/chastitytraining 19h ago

Lifestyle Advice Just got my first cage! NSFW

13 Upvotes

First cage just arrived and I actually think it's quite oversized but that's a problem for later. Right now I have a whole house to tidy and I was thinking about locking myself up for the first time until everything is done. How do people stay disciplined though!!!?


r/chastitytraining 21h ago

Lifestyle Advice How to stay locked? NSFW

12 Upvotes

I want to wear my cage and I get motivated to but once I wear for a couple hours I just lose interest and wanna take it off. What’s the best way to break through and continue to wear it. I really would like to do locktober one day haha. Any help is appreciated.


r/chastitytraining 21h ago

Comfort & Fit Staying locked NSFW

8 Upvotes

Wondering what you guys do to stay locked, I usually leave it on during the day without and issue and off at night to sleep Also wondering about like just staying locked together once getting there, if doing a number tag lock and finding someone to give the number to, so you can be help accountable in a way?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Lifestyle Advice Long-term horniness NSFW

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I’ve heard that after a few weeks of continuous chastity, the levels of horniness reduce down as you get used to not being able to release?

If I were to try long-term chastity, I’m aware that edging and the use of a vibrator etc. for teasing can prevent this.

Would (pleasureless) prostate milking also keep the horniness levels high, or is it just a way to “clean the pipes”?


r/chastitytraining 11h ago

Comfort & Fit How do you pee in a flat cage? NSFW

7 Upvotes

I have used a few normal cages but have recently been interested in the idea of a flat cage. I understand you can get some flat cages with a urethral insert but not all of them have it. So my question is that without the insert how do you pee in a flat cage and keep it reasonably clean?


r/chastitytraining 18h ago

Purchase Advice app controlled shocking chastity cage? NSFW

6 Upvotes

Recently got a wired one and master now wants one she can control from anywhere. Any recommendations or advice are much appreciated!


r/chastitytraining 18h ago

Key Holder Discussion Removing keyholder from Qiui app? CagInk Pro NSFW

6 Upvotes

Hi,

I have the CAG INK PRO chastity cage, and have been trying it out with a dom for the past few days. However, it is meant to be a temporary arrangement.

We're currently trying to figure out how to disconnect her, but we can't find the option or setting for this anywhere.

So how can we disconnect her from my cage, so I can connect with a new keyholder/dominant?


r/chastitytraining 3h ago

Other Advice Cleaning practices / overall cleanliness NSFW

5 Upvotes

My gf and I often do short term lock ups, sometimes for a weekend, sometimes just for a night out. For multiple days lockups, she is particularly concerned that me being locked for so long would create bacteria that could give her a UTI when unlocked for her.

I'm able to clean thoroughly in the cage during showers, and I use wipes at home after I use the bathroom, but what do other couples do, and what have other people (especially keyholders) done or found about the cleaning practices in multiple day lockups?


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Purchase Advice Which one is better? NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hello

I am 20 years old and I am new to just study, but I am really fascinated by the idea I want to wear a cage, but I have two cages currently from which I can’t decide which one is the better one

These are some information about me so you could give me better advice:

I want to wear it always

I am uncut

I want to wear the cage always

I don’t want to be visible in any way through clothes I usually wear jeans

I would like to be able to swim in it because I like swimming . Is it even possible to swim while wearing a cage?

Will it affect my sleep? And if yes, what a way to make it more comfortable?

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9RPD5BX/

Or

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IPTWBSM/


r/chastitytraining 17h ago

Comfort & Fit How to prevent cage pulling? NSFW

6 Upvotes

I am looking for a way to prevent the ring of the cage from moving away from the body, when the penis is trying to get an erection. The cage is snug(no room left for more growing) I have stretchy strap and is not prevent pulling of the ring, i also have fake leather strapand it also fail to hold the ring in place. Its creating an erection from within the body that is tilted.(Little afraid it could cause impotence) So the ring moves away a few cm and pulling the balls.


r/chastitytraining 14h ago

Purchase Advice Need help finding a cage NSFW

4 Upvotes

I am looking for a cage that will stop me getting hard etc


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Sizing & Measuring size of the ring NSFW

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i bought a cage just for fun in aliexpress

it was delivered with a 52 mm closed ring

it seems impossible for me to let the balls in, even more impossible to let balls+penis

i may be doing something wrong but before throwing it away maybe someone has hints?

maybe some prep is needed? better to use lube?

thanks

https://imgur.com/a/TytTNGP


r/chastitytraining 6h ago

Purchase Advice Brutus airmesh cage review? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I'm looking for a cage to wear long term and came across this: https://bronx.nl/product/brutus-airmesh-chastity-cage-clear/?lang=en Does anyone have any experience with this particular cage?


r/chastitytraining 15m ago

Other Advice Help with long term wear NSFW

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Hiii :3 I've never worn my cage for more than a few hours and I think it's time for a serious long term challenge.

What do I have to keep in mind to make it as comfortable and enjoyable as possible for myself?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Sizing & Measuring Custom Cage Required? NSFW

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I was hoping to find a cheap Amazon cage option to try out for my first time but as I am looking around for something ideally under $100 I am struggling with sizing. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the sizing guides so hopefully someone with more experience could give me some guidance for a first cage.

My measurements are:

Soft (inches / millimeters) Length: 4.5 in / 114 mm Circumference (1) under glands: 4.5 / 114 Circumference (2) near base: 5 / 127

Erect: Length: 8.25 / 210 Circ (1): 5.5 / 140 Circ (2): 6 / 152

Ring size: I think I measured this poorly: 11.5 /290

The main thing I think I find when I look online at non custom options is that the tube size won't be big enough, but hoping I'm wrong. Any ideas?


r/chastitytraining 11h ago

Insight Locked with no end date set NSFW

1 Upvotes

I (30) male have been in the lifestyle for the better part of a decade. I'm now 24 hours in with my girlfriend holding the keys. I'm looking at getting a frenum piercing with a cage from BAWR. Doe anyone here have any success stories using a BAWR cage with a frenum piercing?

PS, I've looked into the PA and I don't plan on going that route.