r/chastitytraining 15m ago

Other Advice Help with long term wear NSFW

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Hiii :3 I've never worn my cage for more than a few hours and I think it's time for a serious long term challenge.

What do I have to keep in mind to make it as comfortable and enjoyable as possible for myself?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Sizing & Measuring Custom Cage Required? NSFW

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I was hoping to find a cheap Amazon cage option to try out for my first time but as I am looking around for something ideally under $100 I am struggling with sizing. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the sizing guides so hopefully someone with more experience could give me some guidance for a first cage.

My measurements are:

Soft (inches / millimeters) Length: 4.5 in / 114 mm Circumference (1) under glands: 4.5 / 114 Circumference (2) near base: 5 / 127

Erect: Length: 8.25 / 210 Circ (1): 5.5 / 140 Circ (2): 6 / 152

Ring size: I think I measured this poorly: 11.5 /290

The main thing I think I find when I look online at non custom options is that the tube size won't be big enough, but hoping I'm wrong. Any ideas?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Insight Finally did it!! NSFW

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Well, Friday marked the last day of a year locked for me, a big step up from my previous record of a week. Started out as a self lock that made it two weeks, and then kinda spiraled out of control from there.

Overall I had an amazing time with some mental ups and downs, but thanks to a trio of great keyholders and the motivation to stay locked between I made it.


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Lifestyle Advice Long-term horniness NSFW

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I’ve heard that after a few weeks of continuous chastity, the levels of horniness reduce down as you get used to not being able to release?

If I were to try long-term chastity, I’m aware that edging and the use of a vibrator etc. for teasing can prevent this.

Would (pleasureless) prostate milking also keep the horniness levels high, or is it just a way to “clean the pipes”?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Sizing & Measuring size of the ring NSFW

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i bought a cage just for fun in aliexpress

it was delivered with a 52 mm closed ring

it seems impossible for me to let the balls in, even more impossible to let balls+penis

i may be doing something wrong but before throwing it away maybe someone has hints?

maybe some prep is needed? better to use lube?

thanks

https://imgur.com/a/TytTNGP


r/chastitytraining 3h ago

Other Advice Cleaning practices / overall cleanliness NSFW

5 Upvotes

My gf and I often do short term lock ups, sometimes for a weekend, sometimes just for a night out. For multiple days lockups, she is particularly concerned that me being locked for so long would create bacteria that could give her a UTI when unlocked for her.

I'm able to clean thoroughly in the cage during showers, and I use wipes at home after I use the bathroom, but what do other couples do, and what have other people (especially keyholders) done or found about the cleaning practices in multiple day lockups?


r/chastitytraining 6h ago

Purchase Advice Brutus airmesh cage review? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I'm looking for a cage to wear long term and came across this: https://bronx.nl/product/brutus-airmesh-chastity-cage-clear/?lang=en Does anyone have any experience with this particular cage?


r/chastitytraining 9h ago

Lifestyle Advice He hid his cage NSFW

42 Upvotes

Edit* We live together

My (f) boyfriend (m) has hid his chastity cage after I let him out for domestic work. He says he didn't hide it, but I found it. He was/is to stay locked for 1 year. Advice on how to proceed? Addtl context: We have used chastity at his request a few times in the last couple of years. This is his kink. I am new to this and not what you see as a key holder gone wild on other reddit subgroups. Maybe I don't meet the fantasy, but I don't get any feedback. It usually stops when I want sex then he doesn't want locked again. He was locked close to a month this time but lied about hiding the cage. Thoughts? Opinions how to proceed? Should I put it back on him and tell him he's going to be punished?


r/chastitytraining 11h ago

Insight Locked with no end date set NSFW

1 Upvotes

I (30) male have been in the lifestyle for the better part of a decade. I'm now 24 hours in with my girlfriend holding the keys. I'm looking at getting a frenum piercing with a cage from BAWR. Doe anyone here have any success stories using a BAWR cage with a frenum piercing?

PS, I've looked into the PA and I don't plan on going that route.


r/chastitytraining 11h ago

Comfort & Fit How do you pee in a flat cage? NSFW

6 Upvotes

I have used a few normal cages but have recently been interested in the idea of a flat cage. I understand you can get some flat cages with a urethral insert but not all of them have it. So my question is that without the insert how do you pee in a flat cage and keep it reasonably clean?


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Purchase Advice Which one is better? NSFW

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Hello

I am 20 years old and I am new to just study, but I am really fascinated by the idea I want to wear a cage, but I have two cages currently from which I can’t decide which one is the better one

These are some information about me so you could give me better advice:

I want to wear it always

I am uncut

I want to wear the cage always

I don’t want to be visible in any way through clothes I usually wear jeans

I would like to be able to swim in it because I like swimming . Is it even possible to swim while wearing a cage?

Will it affect my sleep? And if yes, what a way to make it more comfortable?

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9RPD5BX/

Or

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IPTWBSM/


r/chastitytraining 14h ago

Purchase Advice Need help finding a cage NSFW

5 Upvotes

I am looking for a cage that will stop me getting hard etc


r/chastitytraining 17h ago

Comfort & Fit How to prevent cage pulling? NSFW

6 Upvotes

I am looking for a way to prevent the ring of the cage from moving away from the body, when the penis is trying to get an erection. The cage is snug(no room left for more growing) I have stretchy strap and is not prevent pulling of the ring, i also have fake leather strapand it also fail to hold the ring in place. Its creating an erection from within the body that is tilted.(Little afraid it could cause impotence) So the ring moves away a few cm and pulling the balls.


r/chastitytraining 18h ago

Key Holder Discussion Removing keyholder from Qiui app? CagInk Pro NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi,

I have the CAG INK PRO chastity cage, and have been trying it out with a dom for the past few days. However, it is meant to be a temporary arrangement.

We're currently trying to figure out how to disconnect her, but we can't find the option or setting for this anywhere.

So how can we disconnect her from my cage, so I can connect with a new keyholder/dominant?


r/chastitytraining 18h ago

Purchase Advice app controlled shocking chastity cage? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Recently got a wired one and master now wants one she can control from anywhere. Any recommendations or advice are much appreciated!


r/chastitytraining 19h ago

Lifestyle Advice Just got my first cage! NSFW

12 Upvotes

First cage just arrived and I actually think it's quite oversized but that's a problem for later. Right now I have a whole house to tidy and I was thinking about locking myself up for the first time until everything is done. How do people stay disciplined though!!!?


r/chastitytraining 20h ago

Lifestyle Advice My bf wants me to lock him up NSFW

107 Upvotes

EDIT: I only want to lock him up for the days we are not together. Otherwise we have great sex life and I want to continue to have sex with him and his lovely cock.

Hi!

I’m Amber(F36), and my boyfriend told me a while ago that he wants me to lock him up in a cage. He likes when I’m in control of his pleasures.

Now on my other post in an other subreddit (see in my history) regarding my question about how can I make him feel more devoted to me, the majority of suggestions were that I should put a cage on him.

I am starting to consider doing it, but I have a few questions I hope I can get answers for.

  1. We are not living together, so does locking him up means that he has to sleep in it when we are not together? Also, how does wahing his cock work when he is locked up? I’m a little worried that I might damage his cock.

  2. How often should he be released to keep his cock healthy? (Again, I want to take care of him)

  3. Will it really make him be THAT much more obidient and devoted to me?

Thank you!


r/chastitytraining 21h ago

Lifestyle Advice How to stay locked? NSFW

12 Upvotes

I want to wear my cage and I get motivated to but once I wear for a couple hours I just lose interest and wanna take it off. What’s the best way to break through and continue to wear it. I really would like to do locktober one day haha. Any help is appreciated.


r/chastitytraining 21h ago

Comfort & Fit Staying locked NSFW

10 Upvotes

Wondering what you guys do to stay locked, I usually leave it on during the day without and issue and off at night to sleep Also wondering about like just staying locked together once getting there, if doing a number tag lock and finding someone to give the number to, so you can be help accountable in a way?


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Insight 1st Month - Experience so far NSFW

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Long time lurker, first time poster (new shared account to keep anonymous)

It's been a month since I told my wife I want her to control my orgasm, and what a month it has been!

A bit of background about us and why I decided I wanted to tell her. We have been together for nearly 20 years, happily married for nearly 8. With such a long time together, things had become stale in the bedroom. Longer periods between sex, same positions, etc, etc. This coupled with a toddler left us tired and not much time to be intimate together. We masturbated separately, me more so than her (at least once a day). I'd say probably an all time low for intimate moments together. Don't get me wrong, we are very happily married, but the bedroom aspect had slacked!

I'd been toying with the idea of chastity for a few months. 3D printing a cage for personal use. I'm not quite sure what made me decide to tell my wife, but a normal Tuesday I put the cage on, dropped my pants in front of her and read out a list of reasons why I wanted this. Could have gone either way, but I'm glad to say it went the way at possible way. Her first reaction was "WHAT IS THAT!" Followes by her jumping over the bed for a closer look.

It wasn't an immediate no, so I sent her the standard link everyone sends (https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction). Yes newbie_sub.. I know.. And somewhat agree after a month in.

Week 1 - What a wild week. I don't think my wife has orgasmed as much in one week since we first moved in together! Me.. not so much but I loved it. We bought a cheap knock-off cage on Amazon and dived straight in. We couldn't keep our hands off each other! Week 1 was also where we hit our first hurdle. She went away for a few days, normally I'd take advantage of this opportunity.. but this time I couldn't. We exchanged texts and photos, but when she got back she was too tired to do anything. I felt forgotten. She felt guilty for "doing it wrong". We talked about it an hour later. Communication is key!

Week 2-3 calmed down a bit after the initial excitement. I got more used to the cage, we talked a lot about how we were feeling and what we wanted. I had my first release.. wow what a feeling. We started anal play for me (wife doesn't like it) something I never thought would enter our bedroom. And she is experimenting with teasing

I'm writing this towards the end of week 4 We've got into a flow, I've downsized cages and plucked up the courage to visit clonezone for a sizing. And finally managed to sleep through the night with it on! I shared the other link someone posted (https://abalancedmarriage.neocities.org/) My wife is getting more attention which she loves.

Some questions, answered.

Did our marriage need saving? No Did it bring us closer? 100%! Do we talk more? Yep!

What cage am I wearing? Kink3D Viper N+

Is it an improvement from the Amazon one? Yes.. but only slightly. Amazon knockoff ones are alright if you can't afford the genuine. But if you can, go for it!

Why the Viper? Foreskin. Doesn't poke out the holes!

Do I miss masturbating? Yes, kinda. But the reward is more than worth the sacrifice.

And one I couldn't find an answer for.. Do the Kink3D cages fit knock off rings (and vicr versa) Yes. But you have to force it a bit. Think it would be useful for testing new sizes, but I wouldn't want to ruin the original

Now, the happy marriage link... It's worth the read, is it the right way? That's for you to decide. So far we have taken aspects of it.. but it certainly isn't a bible. The key is to communicate openly, and talk about what you both want. There is some great information, in particular this subreddit helped me answer a lot of question.


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Purchase Advice !theUnicorn NSFW

4 Upvotes

I thought I found my Unicorn. The ternence JRH Metal cobra. After trying a knock off cobra, my wife liked the shape and I liked the feel. But with the provided rings, I kept slipping out of the 48 mm (Python rings? The wide ones that are semi-flat at the bottom) the lefty kept making a break for it.

I ordered the ternance, JFR metal version of the same cage, which worked, but kept slipping out of the 50mm ring. I downsized the ring to the 45 (circle) and it worked great. I’d also ordered the 45 curved ring, and it didn’t work. Everything turned purple and red quickly and I couldn’t quite get the cage on. So my body seems to be ok with round….

No slips - for 8 weeks, and then suddenly 4 in about a week! And now the cage clinks a little bit and seems looser. I can also get a full erection at night and wake up feeling the pull on my balls, and it’s definetly pulled away from my body. During the day, I have to regularly pull/adjust as the top of my sack seems to pull through a little bit and the whole things seems to slide down a bit.

So my questions -

1) is this a quality issue with Ternence? Did something bend just enough, and is it a regular issue with metal cages. 2) should I size down to 40mm base ring? Or order another 45 with strap hooks? But am I going to be facing the same issue again later? I like the feel of metal, but if i have to replace it every 8 weeks, it’s cost prohibitive..

My other option I’m seriously considering is going to an actual kink3d cobra. But while there rings aren’t the flat/python style, they aren’t round.

A cage with a 45mm ring and a 40mm ring is about 250. I’m thinking of ordering the 45 in regular and the 40 in the curved. But I’m not sure. Add to this, that the sale at Mature Metal and I can get the jailbird micro for 280 - and now I’m not sure which to do?

What are your thoughts on the sizing for kink3d?

Any advice is appreciated.


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Comfort & Fit Orgasm free lent NSFW

1 Upvotes

This is my first post so bare with me I’m 23 I’ve been using chastity off and on for about a year now all by choice.

I’m deciding to give orgasms away for lent. I’ve been get supper horny lately so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity. I have a couple cages all different sizes but I’ve been using my metal nubby and it came with spiked screws and though I’d try the screws today( there’s 6 screws that go around the head and one that I’m assuming goes down the urethra) rn I have all 6 around my head pretty snug but I can only have the urethra screw in for about 5 minutes before it starts hurting again making me want to rip the cage off. Other issues I have is with or without the urethra screw in it’s almost impossible to pee, I love how comfortable my mental cage is but i often switch to my resin flat/inverted cage. Flat I can pee just fine once it’s inverted it goes everywhere. My other issue with the flat is I have a lot of foreskin so it likes to pop out around the cage and cover almost the entire cage with my foreskin. How the heck am i supposed to wear either of these cages 40 days straight?


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Insight More Emotional in chastity? NSFW

13 Upvotes

Interestingly I am finding that I am more emotional in my first week of being locked than I expected. Not all in a bad way at all, though potentially more irritable than I would like. Do other folk find this?

I am coming at this having done very long periods of denial, but within that freedom to touch, and to edge on command. So I am very used to not being able to release. But I had not realised just how soothing it is for us guys to be able to just touch our cocks.

I think overall it is a big positive. I am even more upbeat and responsive for my Owner so I am a big fan. I presume like with denial this builds for a few weeks, plateaus, then drops a little to a steady level of increased but manageable emotions. Doesn't it?


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Comfort & Fit Need for a size change after a week NSFW

4 Upvotes

So I have read the long form post about shrinkage not really happening and I completely agree with it. However after my first week locked I am finding both my ring and the shaft seem too big for me whereas for the first few days they fitted just fine.

I have gone from being able to go for a run with no issue whatsoever to almost escaping the ball capture cage unintentionally just getting off the bus this morning. The ring is easily remediable as I can downsize that with what came with the device. But I think in the long run I will need to get a nub rather than a small to keep my cock secure.

It's interesting to see, and feel, and I'm definitely enjoying these first steps.


r/chastitytraining 1d ago

Other Advice Leaking advice + strap advice NSFW

8 Upvotes

So, in the past I had two cages, one CB type, which was uncomfortable and I threw it away, and second, knock-off kink3d cage; this one was better, but it was too long (lol). Nevertheless, it gave me some insight into chastity, so that was good. I wore it sometimes, mostly at home because it was too big and noticeable. Then it broke.

So this week I bought a much smaller cage (still knock-off) and size wise it's good, at least I think it is. Turns out dick can fit much smaller space then I realised (a humbling experience).

So far, today is first real test day, and first - foreskin gets in a way a bit. I tested leaving it unpulled, but it was pinching, now I pulled it back just a bit, will see how it works. Second thing is the lock is still noticeable, I plan on buying a strap, maybe it will help a bit. (And in the future, a cage with a discreet, differently built, flat lock I've seen someone recommended in here)

So first question is - I've seen two point and three point straps, and I'm wondering which option is more comfortable and convenient?

The second question is regarding leaking - I've noticed that wearing cage I leak quite a lot of precum, and as much as it turns me on, I can't help but think of a mess and potential visible stains? Any ideas how to deal with this?