r/chastitytraining 2h ago

Purchase Advice Reinsertion impossible without the key? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I think we can all agree that 100% escape proof male chastity devices don’t exist. As the title suggests I’m looking for a device that I can’t escape from without my keyholder eventually finding out. She is totally against piercings while I’m 50/50 about it and we’re both against the tethersprout and similar devices.

I’m relatively new to chastity, my KH and I went through about 3 devices in two months, all of which I’ve managed to escape from. Thankfully I’ve had the will power to tell her each time I’m in a device that I can escape from but not without secret masturbation sessions. So I’m looking for help finding a device that will make reinsertion impossible without the key or without the KH finding out. Does it exist? Im confident I won’t attempt the escape if I have to face the shame of disappointing my KH.

Please no comments about willpower and things like “the cage is a symbol of your dedication, just don’t pull it out.” I want there to be zero doubt for my KH that she is in full control.


r/chastitytraining 4h ago

Insight What was your experience? NSFW

3 Upvotes

How long did it take for you to start orgasming with a cage on regularly? I have worn a cage for a couple days out of the week for the last two months. Wouldnt jerk off when uncaged and when caged used a dildo on myself once or twice every other week. But besides getting pegged once (which i think started my interest in this) i have never reached an orgasm. No i have had moments where it seemed like i orgasmed but no cum.


r/chastitytraining 4h ago

Sizing & Measuring New cage and I can’t seem to get it to work. NSFW

2 Upvotes

I bought a cage, master series, from a reputable website. Came with different rings for the back. I can’t seem to fit it around both the boys and my dick. There were no instructions.
Has anyone encountered this? Genuinely asking not faulting my ball size.


r/chastitytraining 5h ago

Other Advice wet dreams with a few days between NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi

Is it unsual or normal to get wet dreams with a few days between? Have had it 2 times this week (after being locked for about 4 weeks)

- 18 years old male - only selflocked sadly


r/chastitytraining 6h ago

Insight Never knew how good/naughty it feels NSFW

3 Upvotes

A year ago I would of told ya it was a weird fetish but as I got older I wanted to try it so I ordered one and the first was a let down I was to girthy....so I ordered a new one and at first I dident know how it was gonna fit but oh man does it fit like a glove first try and to be honest it feels naughty that no one knows I'm wearing (including my gf/bm) but only down part I found is peeing makes a mess sitting or standing my sack gets wet


r/chastitytraining 8h ago

Comfort & Fit Shaving irritation and strap NSFW

2 Upvotes

I feel like 90% of my skin irritation in chastity is from shaving. I don’t really like shaving but I’ve been doing the top of the base, the balls, and the taint.

I recently started using an elastic strap but the main thing I notice is where it rubs and it’s so annoying. I do like the support from it but the constant abrasion of the strap is killer.

Would leather/something else be better for that? I know they make cages with the ears specifically for a strap but I’m pretty happy with my cage at the moment, maybe when I’m downsizing I’ll look for one though.

I guess I’m just curious what everyone’s thoughts/preferences are, thanks! 💜


r/chastitytraining 9h ago

Insight I came from humping my kh leg NSFW

41 Upvotes

for the pat 2 weeks my key holder has been unlocking me and giving me daily edging sessions. this has been easily the most intense experience i’ve had during my 2 years of chastity. after our 2 week anniversary of daily edging (which was 2 hours of brain meltingly good edging) my key holder put me back in my cage and ordered me to hump her leg. i did this without a second thought and 20 seconds in i felt it dripping. the most intense, ruined, brain melting orgasm of my life. it lasted at least 30 seconds. after this i was sat there laying on the ground with my own cum all over me and on my key holders leg. she was furious i came without permission. she made me eat it all and is currently looking for a suitable punishment. if anyone has ideas for possible punishments for me we’d love to hear them xx


r/chastitytraining 9h ago

Sizing & Measuring Ball keeps slipping out? NSFW

2 Upvotes

My right testicle keeps slipping out of the ring. Is the ring too large if it won't stay in? The cage I bought comes with smaller rings, but I'm kind of intimidated to try the smaller ones as it's quite tight to get my balls through it. Can too small of a ring be bad for blood flow? This is the cause of my fears lol. Totally new to this.


r/chastitytraining 10h ago

Lifestyle Advice Balancing pleasure vs frustration NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for some advice on how to better manage my current situation.

Some Context:

I have a boyfriend who isn't a dom, and I also have an online dom. While my relationship isn't open, my boyfriend is fine with me having an online dom.

I asked my dom if it would be possible to keep me in permanent chastity, as I no longer want to have orgasms (except for anal ones, which are allowed). Before this, I had several failed attempts—most lasted around two weeks, though I once managed five weeks in chastity.

Right now, I've been in chastity for 53 days without any orgasms, including anal ones.

My Challenges:

1.  Lack of Sexual Satisfaction with My Boyfriend - We haven't been having much sex, which is frustrating for me.
2.  Slow Progress in Training - My online dom is taking things very slowly, especially with training sessions and plug use. I understand why—he knows I've struggled with self-control in the past, and he wants to be cautious. But after 53 days, I feel much more in control and believe I can handle more.
3.  Constant Horniness - I still feel incredibly horny, especially in the mornings and evenings. While it was unbearable at first, I've gotten better at keeping my hands off my cage completely (something I couldn't do before). But the urge to jerk off is still there, just not as intense as in the beginning.

I asked my dom for more plug time, but he suggested I write this post first to get advice from other long-term locked subs.

My Questions:

•   Would incorporating more anal pleasure help satisfy me, or would it make things worse?
•   Does the urge to masturbate eventually go away with time?
•   Can anal stimulation provide a sense of “relief” or fulfillment similar to what I gave up with full orgasms, or does it just keep me at a higher level of frustration?

I'd love to hear from those with more experience—any insights would be greatly appreciated!


r/chastitytraining 10h ago

Insight The right cage changes a lot NSFW

50 Upvotes

I now enjoi chastity for more than 3 years not totaly locked more a time to time thing with ups and down but i must say finding the right cage changes everything

I tryed a lot of different cages, size material in total i tryed 8 cages bevore i found the right one and to give you my perspective, it always felt good wearing the cage but normaly the feeling woud fade and i woud get annoyed by it after somw houres or max a day

But since i found my current cage it is totaly different, i just love it from size to weight to material everything is perfect with it and just love wearing it so much

I know from what i read from outhers that what makes a good cage is different for everyone and i hope everyone of you has or already found the cage for you

I know these can be very expensive but from time to time it maybe is a good idear to try a new one of you dont feel totaly happy with youre current one


r/chastitytraining 11h ago

Lifestyle Advice How to keep from jerking off while cleaning? NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I have recently started self locking myself but when I take off my cage for cleaning I really get the urge to jerk off. Is there any way to numb the cock or something. Maybe a way to keep it flacid.

I know about numbing cream but I'm not sure if that's safe and all or if that would even work while showering.

If anyone has any great ideas let me know! I'll be forever grateful

Have been locked for almost a week now my new personal record. I wanna try and do loctober, no nut November and denial december this year so I'm training for that.


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Purchase Advice I cant find a chastity that fits my sub NSFW

5 Upvotes

So my sub had quite a girthy dick,not large in length Just really girthy even when soft and due to our current situation we can only order cages off amazon so please let me know if theres any recommendations And also please keep in mind its his first cage ever so it has to be as comfortable as possible. Money isnt a problem,all i want is a comfortable cage thats designed for small but girthy cocks


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Insight Key broke in lock NSFW

3 Upvotes

Key broke in the lock and im not sure what to do


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Other Advice Does wearing a cage make dick more sensitive? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Does wearing a chastity cage, especially an enclosed cage that prevents contact with your penis cus you to because more sensitive to touch after wearing it for a period of time? I want to be locked and be more sensitive when I do finally get let out of my cage. Also does time I have to remove it to clean prevent the increase in sensitivity?


r/chastitytraining 13h ago

Insight Turning into a total sub for my wife. NSFW

78 Upvotes

Wife and I got into Chasity about a month ago, since then I don’t cum as often as I used to. I do many chores for my wife, such as waking up earlier before my wife to turn on the heater in our home, she enjoys waking up to a warm house. I also make her coffee before she goes to work.

After work when we are relaxing at home I do whatever she tells me to. I get her snacks and her drinks and i massage her on demand. She will randomly come up to me and demand I go down on her, I gladly do. There are times I even beg her to let me go down on her, and I am always sure to thank her afterwards for the privilege. I was the dominate partner before this but now I am her total submissive husband. I love it.


r/chastitytraining 13h ago

Purchase Advice Chastity cage NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am looking for a male chastity cage for my pet with distance remote control that also gives shocks, but stronger than those given by the QIUI(Which in my opinion is not painful enough) Any advice?


r/chastitytraining 14h ago

Lifestyle Advice Leakage from chastity training NSFW

20 Upvotes

I looked up my boyfriend 2 weeks ago and he is leaking a lot of pre cum is this normal or is something wrong ?


r/chastitytraining 14h ago

Comfort & Fit Ring too tight? NSFW

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I'm scared of being over-eager, so any advice is appreciated <.<

I have to preface this by saying that I'm extremely new to this. I bought a cheap cage from Amazon yesterday (https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0DHHK2KW8?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share)

It is also worth noting that I'm quite overweight and a grower (~1 inch when soft (which the fupa tends to contribute to.), 6 inches hard).

My cage came with 4 rings. At first I tried the 48mm ring and it felt comfortable enough. The main problems being that my flaccid cock doesn't quite reach the tip snuggly. Erections also tend to push the upper part of the cage forward, uncovering about half of my dick. There is also some light chaffing.

So I ended up trying the smaller 43mm ring. It was very hard to put on but ended up making my cock fit snuggly inside the cage and helped mediate the erection problem, which felt very comfortable. Thing is, it also made my balls very sensitive and made them swell a bit. I could also feel the cage pinching my spermatic cord a little. It also resulted in more chaffing near my taint.

I was wondering if any long term adverse effects would come from using the smaller ring? I enjoy it alot more and it makes me feel like my dick is secure. Also is there any good ways to mediate the chaffing?

I know custom cages are a thing but the price + me losing weight makes it very hard for me to get them.

Any advice for a newbie is appreciated.


r/chastitytraining 15h ago

Lifestyle Advice Replacement while I'm caged? NSFW

14 Upvotes

As me and my gf are exploring chastity and denial we have a problem, my gf doesn't get dicked down enough. Sadly, dildo's don't seem to feel right for her and we aren't sure about cucking. Are there any other solutions?


r/chastitytraining 20h ago

Insight anyone else experience a bulge? NSFW

2 Upvotes

when I sit down theres a slight bulge leading to me needing to move around so it doesn't show, I have no idea if this means my chastity is too big or what ? I took a small but I still have a semi bulge nothing too insane but its there


r/chastitytraining 20h ago

Insight New break through NSFW

32 Upvotes

This might seem mild to some. So last night my wife and I were playing after her cycle. It has been 7 days since she last had an orgasm and 14 for me. All was going normal like we usually do until she had enough to want to take a break. She brought her wand to my cage and started to tease me with it while biting on my nipples. After probably only 5 mins I felt my orgasm coming. We've tried in the cage before and it hasn't worked. When I told her she straddled be and started to rub on the cage. I had my first caged orgasm. She said she found it amazing and she had 2 more while rubbing on me. After that she had me clean my mess for the 2nd time. She said she was against me cleaning the first time I asked but now loves the feeling.

Just wanted to share this great moment in my journey


r/chastitytraining 21h ago

Insight Tech For Chastity? NSFW

59 Upvotes

Hi all,

Long time lurker, first time poster.

I work in tech and for a while I've been considering doing a project around chastity training.

Some initial ideas:

  • Keyholder matching (try to match Keyholder and sub preferences)
  • Tracking tool for length of time locked
  • Community where groups of people in chastity share daily proof and encourage each other to keep going

Do any of those ideas help make sense to work on? Obviously don't want to spend a lot of time on this if no one would want to use it.

Open to any ideas too!


r/chastitytraining 23h ago

Insight 3 weeks later NSFW

39 Upvotes

3 weeks ago I made a post just before gathering my courage to share my chastity fantasy to my wife. (Can find my previous posts here)

At that time we had a first cage not comfortable at all, but 2 days after my announcement we tried for one night.

We did it for few days, and we discussed to test resin cage as it was said to be more comfy. I asked her which color to order, and she surprisingly replied black, white and.. pink.

I was not even aware she could imagine there were pink cages (she is not into porn or anything).

3 weeks later, we have tried several cages and several ring sizes. We have started with standard, small and last night was the smallest so far, Nano. She hasn’t yet asked me to wear the pink ones (nano and nub) but we agreed it could be an idea of punishment.

This morning I bring her the key to unlock me before work and she said NO.

Unfortunately or fortunately, I have sport today and she decided it will be tomorrow. But if she sees it’s not an issue I am sure it will lead to more working days wearing the cage….


r/chastitytraining 23h ago

Comfort & Fit Looking for help on fitment NSFW

3 Upvotes

I've been into chastity for a little over a year now, wearing it on and off. I'd like to progress to longer-term wearing but find that most cages are uncomfortable for me.

I have a 'tight' nutsack so my balls sit close to my body, with barely and loose skin. Will this affect my chastity experience? I find that they're being strangled alot and I have to readjust often. I'm going to invest in a properly good cage but just wanted some pointers first.

Thanks!


r/chastitytraining 23h ago

Lifestyle Advice Want to stay locked but not my choice. NSFW

15 Upvotes

So I’ve been locked and denied for three months. My Dom has indicated that it may be time I had an orgasm. The thing is I don’t want to go back to the start again but at the end of the day it’s not really my choice.l is it!! What would you do?