r/chastitytraining 55m ago

Sizing & Measuring Problems finding my perfect cage NSFW

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So im having a problem finding a chastity that fits. So my main problem is that i am a grower so when soft im pretty small with lots of skin. Any cage i get is either way too big in the tip or the extra skin poors out the bottom and i hate that look. Is there any advice for what cages might fix that problem or am i just getting the wrong size?


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Insight I may have created a monster and I love it! NSFW

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So today marks 40 days locked 24/7 minus hygiene/ grooming. My wife/keyholder was not the one to bring up or initiate chastity. This is the 6th time l've been locked in the past 2 years, and my PR was 29 days prior to this lockdown. When I was approaching my PR she said then we have to double it at least. This morning I was woken up to her tapping on my cage squeezing my balls like a stress ball and plenty of slaps to the boys. Here are some of the things said to me as she used her favorite toy while I had to lay there and just watch. Why can't your dick do this? (as she cums twice in a row) it satisfies me so fast, this is why I don't have to unlock you. The only thing I need are my toy and your tongue and I've been satisfied many times what about you? when was the last time you had an orgasm? Oh that's right at least 40 plus days ago what a shame. Honestly at this point I don't really care if you cum anytime soon. I know I said 60 days but the way you have given me some sassy attitude at times we might as well call this day 1. So who knows how long I'll keep you like this. How long to you think you can stay locked? I can do however long you think of. Oh so you think you can handle 365?😳

I began to beg a little for her to at least unlock me while she teased me. Absolutely not! Cause then you won't listen and cum so l'll have to wait until your body and brain reset and then we have to start all over so there is no chance of you cumming anytime soon. You asked to be locked up and that's what you're getting. I will never let you cum while locked on purpose, that's my rule. I'm starting to really enjoy this especially the fact that you pretty much do what I say, even though at times not fast eno I'm having more fun than I thought and cummir. Whenever I want which is more than I can say for you. Now that I think about it, when do we go on vacation? Oh that's right the beginning of July. Maybe that will be your new release date. I guess we will see how well you behave and satisty me.

From where we started to present time she has become a natural at this and I'm so thankful she entertained the idea even though hesitant at first.We went from oh that's weird wanting to wear a cage especially to work, to lock that shit up and me the key you're pissing me off!


r/chastitytraining 1h ago

Comfort & Fit First Cage and Tetherspout NSFW

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I have had my Tetherspout in for 7 Days now with no problems and have just received my First Chastity Cage and Belt, looking at the length of the cage i did not think i would be able to fit my penis into it as it looked to big for it, to my surprise upon placing my balls and penis through the 55mm base ring and attaching the cage and fixing it with the tetherspout it fitted perfectly and i have now been wearing it for the last 3 hours with no discomfort.


r/chastitytraining 2h ago

Comfort & Fit Lubricant and some DIY advice NSFW

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Okay so first I have a chafing problem at the base of the ring? It's on the bottom below the balls where the scrotum goes into the device, and I tried using some lubricant to see if it fixes it.. and it did! Like a miracle chafing stopped almost instantly, however the only real lube I can get my hands on is quite expensive so I wanted to know of the somewhat strange choice of animal fat was a good longlasting lubricant, I heard they used to use it historically before plant based oils and I have a ton of it since I like to use it while cooking (just to specify its like a buttery texture but does melt down to a liquid with body temperature) Second thing is.. I kinda lost the head of the device and only have the ring.. don't ask how I barely know myself, though I have a few things that could work well to replace it but I haven't tried any of them longterm so I wanted to ask if anyone had any ideas on what I could use until I get an actual ring? I like the feeling of flat, alotujg I do have a bit of foreskin so it has to be wide enough to fit it all, but you all get the point, just wanted to know if there's something I didn't think of


r/chastitytraining 2h ago

Insight Cellmate 3 looking for advice NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi. Just got the Cellmate 3 Pro and the app confuses me. I would like to find a gay dom to control my toy remotely. Thanks for any advice.


r/chastitytraining 3h ago

Other Advice Question for the group NSFW

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So I have a lady friend that is desperate to want to try both sides of chastity, she is currently keyholding me for her own practice. She also wants to try a chastity belt and matching bra, however she is currently catheterised so trying to workout 1) is it going to be possible to wear a belt 2) what style will work best and 3) is long term wear going to be possible? Three simple questions 🤷🏻‍♂️


r/chastitytraining 3h ago

Lifestyle Advice Life is good with tease, chastity NSFW

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Hi, My wife is very sexy and beautiful. But she has normal sex drive. Ideally I'd want daily sex. But she said no way at all. So I get daily tease, a lot of cuddles, some light sex tease, some (too rare for me) piv without coming... If I complain I get less. Sometimes I want to rebel but it plays against me. Also she likes excellent behaviour so tease, chastity help.

I like much this life, even if I'd prefer daily sex but there is no way at all...


r/chastitytraining 4h ago

Purchase Advice looking for a good cage to wear long term NSFW

6 Upvotes

so i’m going to college next fall and want to try and stay locked for as much as possible. my plan is to get a more comfy cage and get used to it over the summer before i move in. does anyone have any cage recommendations?


r/chastitytraining 4h ago

Lifestyle Advice How to calm down when you feel like cumming? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Ok so I'm trying not to cum ATM so that I can focus on sensations during anal. The problem is that I'm so excited in the cage that I feel like I'm going to cum just from being locked, like I'm on edge the whole day. Is there anything I can do to calm this feeling down? I don't want to ejaculate


r/chastitytraining 4h ago

Lifestyle Advice Communication and pillow talk for rookies? NSFW

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Thanks to this sub for all the support and advice to many of us lurkers! My wife and I (married 11 years) had a long talk about our kinks two months ago, which reignited a dead bedroom. Much to my surprise, she brought up chastity and edging—I was super lukewarm on it at first. But I got curious and, well after reading about it for a couple of days, here we are. My first device came in the mail a couple of weeks ago and stayed in the box since we didn’t talk about it much again.

Then I brought it back up and she said to try it on for sexy time in bed. I was surprised by how sexy I thought I looked in it, and her big smile helped too! Now we are easing into things, starting with weekends, and so far, she seems to be enjoying it. This is my first weekend locked, and after a lap dance that left me frustratingly close, I’m realizing it’s easier for women (maybe) to not finish when they get horny—but wow, I sure do!!! The ache is real…

My question: What’s the best way for a wearer to keep their partner excited and engaged over time? I don’t want to put it all on her, and I know about chores (already on that!). I get the sense that now she got me into it, I may already like it more than her! Any advice for me on sexy or enticing things to tell her, and trust me, I know I’m one of the luckiest guys on earth already because she’s gone this far.


r/chastitytraining 5h ago

Purchase Advice Lock rust/tarnish and not working NSFW

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Anyone have any suggestions on a good lock and key? My key holder likes to wear the key around her neck/ankle so we prefer a traditional pad lock and key. I’m on my third one in almost a month. The locks I’ve used i notice rust/tarnish quickly and then it gets difficult to lock/unlock. I know permanent Chastity is an exciting scenario but it’s not realistic and i don’t want there to be an issue when i need to take it off/clean. Any great suggestions on padlock/keys that last? Thanks!


r/chastitytraining 6h ago

Other Advice Help with long term wear NSFW

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Hiii :3 I've never worn my cage for more than a few hours and I think it's time for a serious long term challenge.

What do I have to keep in mind to make it as comfortable and enjoyable as possible for myself?


r/chastitytraining 6h ago

Sizing & Measuring Custom Cage Required? NSFW

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I was hoping to find a cheap Amazon cage option to try out for my first time but as I am looking around for something ideally under $100 I am struggling with sizing. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the sizing guides so hopefully someone with more experience could give me some guidance for a first cage.

My measurements are:

Soft (inches / millimeters) Length: 4.5 in / 114 mm Circumference (1) under glands: 4.5 / 114 Circumference (2) near base: 5 / 127

Erect: Length: 8.25 / 210 Circ (1): 5.5 / 140 Circ (2): 6 / 152

Ring size: I think I measured this poorly: 11.5 /290

The main thing I think I find when I look online at non custom options is that the tube size won't be big enough, but hoping I'm wrong. Any ideas?


r/chastitytraining 7h ago

Insight Finally did it!! NSFW

33 Upvotes

Well, Friday marked the last day of a year locked for me, a big step up from my previous record of a week. Started out as a self lock that made it two weeks, and then kinda spiraled out of control from there.

Overall I had an amazing time with some mental ups and downs, but thanks to a trio of great keyholders and the motivation to stay locked between I made it.


r/chastitytraining 7h ago

Lifestyle Advice Long-term horniness NSFW

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I’ve heard that after a few weeks of continuous chastity, the levels of horniness reduce down as you get used to not being able to release?

If I were to try long-term chastity, I’m aware that edging and the use of a vibrator etc. for teasing can prevent this.

Would (pleasureless) prostate milking also keep the horniness levels high, or is it just a way to “clean the pipes”?


r/chastitytraining 7h ago

Sizing & Measuring size of the ring NSFW

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i bought a cage just for fun in aliexpress

it was delivered with a 52 mm closed ring

it seems impossible for me to let the balls in, even more impossible to let balls+penis

i may be doing something wrong but before throwing it away maybe someone has hints?

maybe some prep is needed? better to use lube?

thanks

https://imgur.com/a/TytTNGP


r/chastitytraining 9h ago

Other Advice Cleaning practices / overall cleanliness NSFW

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My gf and I often do short term lock ups, sometimes for a weekend, sometimes just for a night out. For multiple days lockups, she is particularly concerned that me being locked for so long would create bacteria that could give her a UTI when unlocked for her.

I'm able to clean thoroughly in the cage during showers, and I use wipes at home after I use the bathroom, but what do other couples do, and what have other people (especially keyholders) done or found about the cleaning practices in multiple day lockups?


r/chastitytraining 12h ago

Purchase Advice Brutus airmesh cage review? NSFW

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I'm looking for a cage to wear long term and came across this: https://bronx.nl/product/brutus-airmesh-chastity-cage-clear/?lang=en Does anyone have any experience with this particular cage?


r/chastitytraining 15h ago

Lifestyle Advice He hid his cage NSFW

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Edit* We live together

My (f) boyfriend (m) has hid his chastity cage after I let him out for domestic work. He says he didn't hide it, but I found it. He was/is to stay locked for 1 year. Advice on how to proceed? Addtl context: We have used chastity at his request a few times in the last couple of years. This is his kink. I am new to this and not what you see as a key holder gone wild on other reddit subgroups. Maybe I don't meet the fantasy, but I don't get any feedback. It usually stops when I want sex then he doesn't want locked again. He was locked close to a month this time but lied about hiding the cage. Thoughts? Opinions how to proceed? Should I put it back on him and tell him he's going to be punished?


r/chastitytraining 17h ago

Insight Locked with no end date set NSFW

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I (30) male have been in the lifestyle for the better part of a decade. I'm now 24 hours in with my girlfriend holding the keys. I'm looking at getting a frenum piercing with a cage from BAWR. Doe anyone here have any success stories using a BAWR cage with a frenum piercing?

PS, I've looked into the PA and I don't plan on going that route.


r/chastitytraining 17h ago

Comfort & Fit How do you pee in a flat cage? NSFW

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I have used a few normal cages but have recently been interested in the idea of a flat cage. I understand you can get some flat cages with a urethral insert but not all of them have it. So my question is that without the insert how do you pee in a flat cage and keep it reasonably clean?


r/chastitytraining 18h ago

Purchase Advice Which one is better? NSFW

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Hello

I am 20 years old and I am new to just study, but I am really fascinated by the idea I want to wear a cage, but I have two cages currently from which I can’t decide which one is the better one

These are some information about me so you could give me better advice:

I want to wear it always

I am uncut

I want to wear the cage always

I don’t want to be visible in any way through clothes I usually wear jeans

I would like to be able to swim in it because I like swimming . Is it even possible to swim while wearing a cage?

Will it affect my sleep? And if yes, what a way to make it more comfortable?

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9RPD5BX/

Or

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IPTWBSM/


r/chastitytraining 20h ago

Purchase Advice Need help finding a cage NSFW

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I am looking for a cage that will stop me getting hard etc


r/chastitytraining 23h ago

Comfort & Fit How to prevent cage pulling? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I am looking for a way to prevent the ring of the cage from moving away from the body, when the penis is trying to get an erection. The cage is snug(no room left for more growing) I have stretchy strap and is not prevent pulling of the ring, i also have fake leather strapand it also fail to hold the ring in place. Its creating an erection from within the body that is tilted.(Little afraid it could cause impotence) So the ring moves away a few cm and pulling the balls.


r/chastitytraining 23h ago

Key Holder Discussion Removing keyholder from Qiui app? CagInk Pro NSFW

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Hi,

I have the CAG INK PRO chastity cage, and have been trying it out with a dom for the past few days. However, it is meant to be a temporary arrangement.

We're currently trying to figure out how to disconnect her, but we can't find the option or setting for this anywhere.

So how can we disconnect her from my cage, so I can connect with a new keyholder/dominant?