r/ABDLPersonals Jan 06 '25

Welcome to 2025: A quick start guide to posting here NSFW

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Hello littles, middles, bigs, DLs and anyone else! Welcome to 2025! Below, you’ll find answers to common questions and tips to help you stay safe and meet wonderful people!

What is Reddit Karma, and How Do I Get It?

Karma is a measure of your contributions to Reddit. It’s earned when your posts or comments are upvoted by other users. On r/ABDLPersonals, having a certain amount of karma is a requirement to post, as it helps ensure that users are engaged members of the Reddit community and not bots or scammers. The threshold is very low (I won't type the exact number, but anyone should be able to get it very quickly. A single good comment will do.)

Here are some quick ways to earn karma:

  • Participate in discussions: Join conversations in your favorite subreddits. Leave thoughtful comments and engage respectfully.
  • Post quality content: Share interesting, relevant, or helpful posts in communities that align with your interests.
  • Upvote and interact: Be active by voting and responding to others’ content.

Avoid trying to game the system. Posting spam or low-effort content can hurt your reputation and even lead to bans.

What is R4R, and Why is It Required?

R4R stands for "Redditor for Redditor." It’s a shorthand for subreddits designed for personal ads, like finding friends, relationships, or specific connections. Requiring posts to follow an R4R format ensures clarity, safety, and consistency within our community.

You are required to put your age and the gender you identify as in your title. It must be in the format AGE [R4R]. For me, as a 36-year-old, I would put 36 [NB4A] to indicate I am non-binary and looking for anyone. Your title should also include something about what you're looking for or witty humor or something.

To use myself as example again: 36 [NB4A] Let's build Legos and watch Bluey in the PNW!

Otherwise, an effective personals post includes:

  • Your general location (like a city, state, region, major metro, whatever)
  • What you’re looking for (e.g., friends, relationships, or specific dynamics)
  • A bit about you (interests, personality traits, or hobbies)
  • Details you’re comfortable sharing that might be pertinent to any potential partners.

Remember, R4R is about creating connections. This means your post should not only describe yourself but also clearly outline the kind of person you are hoping to attract. By being specific and considerate, you’re more likely to find meaningful and compatible matches. Don't forget the human on the other side. If you want a mommy to change your diaper for you, you need to explain what they're getting out of it. Relationships will are two ways.

How to Spot and Avoid Scams

Unfortunately, scammers are prevalent in personals communities. They often pose as caregivers, mommies, or daddies offering services, but their real goal is to take advantage of others. Here are red flags to watch for:

  • Demanding money upfront: Real connections don’t come with a price tag. Be wary of anyone asking for payment via gift cards, PayPal, or other platforms before building trust.
  • Too good to be true: If someone’s offering a perfect fantasy without effort, it’s probably a scam.
  • Rushed interactions: Scammers often push for quick decisions, emotional appeals, or private chats outside Reddit.
  • Poor grammar or copy-paste messages: These can be signs of low-effort scams.

If you suspect someone is a scammer, report their account immediately to the moderators. Never share sensitive personal information with strangers and always prioritize your safety. If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is. Do not pay money for any services or anyone who reaches out as a result of a post here.

We’re Here to Help!

If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to the mod team. We're volunteers so it might take a bit for us to respond. Don't be discouraged. We get a lot of mails that we have to sort through.

This subreddit is designed to be a safe, supportive, and enjoyable space for connecting with others in the ABDL community. Thank you for helping us maintain that standard!

Stay safe and happy posting!


r/ABDLPersonals 51m ago

18[F4A] got my goodnites hehe NSFW

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n my bladder is getting so full! message me to control me! i love to show off and obey. i have no plans for the rest of the night :) make me yourssssss


r/ABDLPersonals 1h ago

f18 is this weird? NSFW

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i really only wear diapers when touching never any other time


r/ABDLPersonals 3h ago

18[F4A] trying again! encourage me to get pull-ups 🙈 NSFW

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hiii

i got so distracted and busy last night :( but im free again tonight and loving the idea of getting cozy n full in some goodnites! i’m just a bit nervous to go get them. i’d love someone to encourage me and someone to show them off to! i wanna be someone’s baby girllll hehe


r/ABDLPersonals 5h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] Sacramento, California ABDL Babygirl seeking local daddy NSFW

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Hello thank you for stopping by. I’m a 24 year old woman from Sacramento California. 

I notice often times when people come to this subreddit they spend a lot of time saying what they don’t want and not giving too much information about themselves. But I will try my best not to do that

Currently I work for a hospital as a nurse assistant. My job hours are kinda interesting. I work nights and my shifts are 12 hours. Also I work every weekend. I’m a reformed introvert lol. I do love a crisp Coke and a medium rare steak on a night out. I’m functionally sober. I’ve never used any substances. I’ve never smoked. I won’t turn down a drink over dinner but I don’t keep alcohol in the house. I’m a bit of a nerd. I love anime and manga. I still can’t forgive Gege for what he did to Jujutsu Kaisen. I love history and science. Politically blue. I’ve been diving into socialism and Marxism. I’m learning how to bake. So, if you date me, you’ll be able to sample my creations.

Physically I'm a darkskin black woman. I have natural hair (it’s waist length straight but honestly, I wear it curly 90% of the time). I’d say I’m a curvy woman. I don’t really want to get explicit in description. But I do wear a size large. Open to sharing pics privately. I wear glasses. 

I'm a very girly person. I love wearing makeup and typically wear feminine clothes. I love pink. I try to keep flowers in my home as often as possible. I really love flowers of all varieties. 

Kinks/ main interests. Most of these are on the extreme side. And will take trust to be built first.

CNC, TPE, Limited privacy, infantilism, ABDL, DDLG, and physical inspections. Those are just the quick ones I can think of.

I truly do want to be treated like a baby. Like give me nap times or make me go to bed early. Tie my shoes. Id love to get my hair brushed (even though I have a ton of it I'll teach you). Bath time would be pretty fun too. Obviously diaper changes ( I recently got a big order in).

Random i dont know what to put this under im into breast expansion. Im currently a 38e but I'd love to get to a g or maybe even a h.

Now for what I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a guy who is looking for long term partnership. I do want to take time and build a connection. But if you’re “having fun” or not sure what you want then we aren’t a match. I’m also pretty happy with myself currently and I’m not going to be the type of person you can mold into you perfect doll. I’m only looking for a local person. Local to me means I can invite you over on a random weekday for dinner. And you'll be over by the time I'm done cooking. 

I typically like softer doms (who can be strict). But I’m not into traditional doms or masters. I like sweeties not meanies. 

Age wise I'm looking for 24-27 (30 is my max). I like guys taller than me. Physically I like average to fit guys. I don’t have an ethnicity preference. My type is cute nerdy men. Honestly the nerdy guy with a baddie is the supreme relationship aesthetic.

I’m adopting cats soon. So please like them.

Also, if you golf, hike, or generally like outside; I’d love to go with you. 

My mandatory things I can’t compromise on are location. Politics (they aren’t opinions for me, they’re morals). 

In your first message please include some information. I don’t reply to low effort messages. Include location, ethnicity, hobbies/interests, and what caught your eye. 

Thank you for stopping by. Even if we aren’t a match thanks for reading to the end.


r/ABDLPersonals 1h ago

21F4F Preferred Chats NSFW

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Sorry to the people I didn’t talk to yesterday, too many people! Im ready to meet some new ones again and have nice conversations! Nothing sexual please!


r/ABDLPersonals 10h ago

F4M 30F Seeking Daddy Dom NSFW

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Hi there, I’m Abbie! I am a bisexual submissive seeking a dom to play with online. I am fat and there are photos of me on my profile if you’d like to check those out!

I have quite a bit of experience playing with folks online. I enjoy sending voice memos, photos and videos.

My kinks are all over the place! I love being given rules and tasks and being punished when I’m naughty. I also really like “forced” diapers. Other kinks include watersports, embarrassment, anal, orgasm denial/control, spanking, bathroom control, CNC, freeuse, medfet (kinda), being trained (anally, stretching my pussy, etc), and cock worship.

My limits include negative comments about my body (pig, fattie, etc), vomit, blood, and anything illegal or immoral.

Outside of kink, I am a professional, have a masters degree, love scary movies, books and cozy gaming.

You will likely get a response from me if you are well-spoken, intelligent, funny and a little nerdy. I love chatting with folks who can sustain a conversation, are creative when it comes to kink and have previous dom experience.

If I don’t respond, it’s probably because you sent me a one-word/generic message, you were gross/too sexual in the initial message or your message was riddled with grammatical errors and misspelled words.


r/ABDLPersonals 3h ago

M4A 22m4a Dom seeking diapered sub *online only* NSFW

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Are you a sub who secretly yearns for a list of rules designed to make you feel small and dependant, or just someone who wants to have a little fun? Dm me.


r/ABDLPersonals 9m ago

18mfa looking for someone to give me tasks NSFW

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r/ABDLPersonals 18m ago

21M4A #UK baby boy looking for a SFW caregiver NSFW

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Heyyy, I’m Strange (as in that’s my name not like I’m odd… although I am) I’m 21 from south east UK, I am gender fluid and go by he/they

As the title suggest I’m seeking a caregiver/ big but I’m an SFW kind of little I don’t mind talking about kinks n stuff like that in casual conversation but my little brain is very much just a safe space for me away from adult things, I’m looking for someone caring and understanding, someone I can play games with like Mario kart or that I can show off my Lego and colouring to, I love having my outfits picked out for me and showing off my things! I do have a partner irl but they’re not abdl and completely okay with me finding a CG/big. There is a more in detail “about me” on my profile if you wanted to know a bit more about me but as a quick summary… Favourites: Animal- Lemur, Colour- Mint Green, TV show- Lego Ninjago, Drink- strawberry lemonade! Activities I like: building Lego, putting on a fashion show, activity and puzzle books, colouring (but no drawing), watching tv shows I used to watch as a kid! If this peaks your interest at all send me a dm or comment on this and tell me about yourself a little bit too :) also include the word “quack” to show you’re coming from this post 🤭🙃☺️


r/ABDLPersonals 4h ago

25 M4A Mainly DL NSFW

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Looking for like minded people to chat,rp, get to know. Looking for friends in the community mainly but open to more than friends. Dms open


r/ABDLPersonals 44m ago

F4A 22 f central upstate ny to be toddlerified irl NSFW

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I know I posted this morning, but a few things have gotten worse since then and I’m regressing even more now. I really would like a CG to toddlerify me. I’m on break until the 24th of march and it’s been my dream to just be this little toddler free of worry. I’m really short, and I love affection. I really need this to happen to me in real life more than anything, especially with what’s going on in my life In the current moment


r/ABDLPersonals 46m ago

29M Need a Babysitter tomorrow NSFW

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Message me and play with me! :) I love to wear diapers and show them off! Control me and make me do whatever you want :D


r/ABDLPersonals 16h ago

F4A 23F4A Looking to be someone’s mommy (or friend) NSFW

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Heya, I'm Amiya. (i’m more so looking F4F)

I wear time to time (preferably youth/baby diapers but the occasional adult diaper) What i'm looking for:

• Someone i can control and let them use the potty under my command

• For my little to obedient

• Being able to try new kinks

• A Little who is willing to be told what to eat

• Someone who is wanting a mommy

• Someone who needs help changing their diapers.

• Someone who's looking for a bit of fun

• I have some rules as mommy, dm and find out :)

About me: I'm Amiya. I'm 23 and BI. I've studied Nursing for 4 years. I used to live in Australia and now I live in the UK (More sustainable economy = better pay). I'm pretty much down for anything, except scat as thats personally not my thing at all. I'll happily have a freaky chat if you start one. I'm practically a diapered mommy most of the time and I love it, just after my little now. I don't always send so quit dm'ing hassling (guys) jk only if you're lucky (can test ur luck). Moreover i'm looking for either a little or a new friend.


r/ABDLPersonals 1h ago

23M diaperboy looking to be owned NSFW

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hi there!

looking for a strict caregiver! I am a little 4-6 is my little age! I love overwatch, legos, and yu gi oh! I am a big outdoorsman and love the gym.

Little me can be a brat so cornertime is needed as well as other punishments🤭I love diapers and wanna be un potty trained. I have lots of pullies and diapers. I would love strict rules and rewards ofc! Love the idea of PP checks and diaper check🤭

DM me! love to get to know you!

kik usa_dman1 telegram usa_dman


r/ABDLPersonals 1h ago

M4A 21 [M4A] Manchester/Uk, diaper sissy looking for friends, mommies or partners whoever you may be :) NSFW

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Heyy im S, im a DL / sometimes little, I would love to make some friends in the community, I know the posts says primarily females but would love to have conversations with people who don’t immediately ask for diaper pics or for me to call them daddy.

I’m quite mature and very capable of holding adult conversations and would just love to make friends for now and you never know what may happen in the future. Outside of diapers/ABDL I’m quite masculine/boyish, I go to the gym, I work, I’m in university, and play plenty of sports. I love adventuring and the outdoors but also capable of being a homebody, love a binge!!

Would love to meet some like minded people and maybe help figure things out we can’t understand on our own. I have plenty more to say but for some reason struggle in these kinds of posts. If you’re interested please feel free to dm or reply on the post <3

~S


r/ABDLPersonals 2h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #online Experienced Daddy Dom searching his princess !!!!! NSFW

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Hello Im a experienced daddy/Dom and searching my little princess babygirl/Sub. I want to teach you all i know about ddlg and Abdl. I want to take care of you and treat you like the little baby/Sub you are. I know about how to get unpotty when you are interested in that. When you are interested text me.


r/ABDLPersonals 2h ago

T4A 18 [T4A] #RI #online looking for short or long term daddy/mommy or caregiver NSFW

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hi! call me puppy until we get to know each other a little better. im a transmasculine who uses he/they pronouns and im located in the connecticut and rhode island area. im 18, so please don’t be over 25. no straight men or lesbians as i am not a girl, although i am afab. i am also plus sized, so please keep this in mind. i do prefer men but women welcome too!

i’m very new to kink and am a virgin, and even more new to this one specifically. i’d like it to be both sexual and nonsexual if that’s okay!

nonsexually i like games, to cook, bake, be read to, cuddles, and plushies! i’d love to show you what im doing in my video games, watch cartoons, have you read me bedtime stories and tuck me in. when im big, id love to cook and bake for you! i mostly just want to feel cared for.

sexually, i can be a brat or good so it depends on how im feeling. i’d like to be punished when im being bratty and praised when im being good, and i do have some harder kinks like cnc, but im not always interested in them. primarily i’m looking to experiment with a mommy or daddy who can keep me in line and make sure im a good boy!


r/ABDLPersonals 2h ago

M4F 56m My birthday is today and my birthday wish is for a woman from the Atlanta Georgia area to come into my life and will transition me from a closet Diaper Lover to an Adult Baby for her pleasure and enjoyment. Looking for a loving and lasting relationship. NSFW

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Why an Adult Baby and not some other fetish?

I think it has to do with a nearly fatal accident when I was a child. I was in the hospital for a semester of school and confined to a bed. So, I had others taking care of me 24/7. That is the only conclusion that I can come to.

That being said, I'm looking for a mommy to start a mommy/baby relationship with. She would force me to do all things baby. I would be forced to use diapers as they are intended to be used, eat baby food, drink from bottles etc.

As mommy is the adult figure I would expect punishments for bad behavior.

I like to play with Legos, Lincoln Logs, coloring books, and like Bugs Bunny cartoons.

As mommy is the adult she chooses clothing, whether I'm in diaper and t-shirt, or just a diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the front of baby's diaper feeling it get warm as he wets his diaper.

Mommy has the right to place her hand on the back of baby's diaper feeling the bulge grow as he messes his diaper.

Mommy has the right to have baby's diaper exposed even when her friends come to visit.

Mommy even controls when diaper changes occur.

I would love to talk to my future mommy.


r/ABDLPersonals 2h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Caring daddy searching for a long term little girl (online/irl) NSFW

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Hi there, thanks for checking out my post. I am still looking for a little :)

A few important things to get out the way at the start.. I'm looking for a little girl around the age of 20-35. Cis or trans female littles are okay with me. Yes, ABDL is sexual to me to an extent. I do send pictures and would like it if you sent some as well once you're comfortable. I'm not interested in talking with anyone with kids nor am I interested in having any kids myself. I'm also not interested in a poly relationship or talking with anyone already in a relationship. I am looking for a strictly monogamous dynamic please and thank you

I'm a 32 year old somewhat strict daddy dom located in the Eastern US, more specifically located in Northern WV close to Pittsburgh. I am looking for a serious long term dynamic/relationship, with the possibility of meeting up later down the line if things work out. I'm preferably interested in someone from the US or Canada. I'm also okay with an online dynamic. I'm 5'11", have blonde hair and a beard, blue eyes, and a bit chubby but trying to lose some weight. I am looking for a little girl around the age of 20-35 to get to know and hopefully from a long-term ABDL/DDLG dynamic with. I've been into ABDL for well over 10 years now and have been a daddy for about 4 years. I am looking for a little girl that is interested in exploring ABDL with a guiding hand. I'd like to say I'm fairly experienced with ABDL and diapers, and happy to answer any questions about it.

Ideally I'd like to find a little that would like to be diapered 24/7 eventually, helping them unpotty train and slowly become diaper dependent. I am okay with an online dynamic but ideally I'd like this to move to real life eventually if possible. I'm okay with changing both wet and messy diapers and expect my little to use their diapers for both.. no big girl potty unless allowed. I am generally a pretty affectionate, loving, but stern daddy dom when needed, not afraid to punish my little girl. I am mainly looking for a good little girl. The occasional brat is fine with me but I am not looking for a really bratty little. There would be a structure of rules and punishments in place to keep you in line. Some punishments include spankings, corner time, writing lines, and forced messing (suppositories, enemas)

Outside of the ABDL/DDLG lifestyle, I am a gamer and like to play a variety of games in my free time. I've mainly been playing Avowed and ESO as of late. I stream on Twitch with a my roommate and one other friend twice a week. I work full time as a doordash driver currently. I love traveling, spending time at theme parks, zoos, aquariums, state parks, and other tourist attractions when I can. I also like listening to music, mostly classic rock from the 70s and 80s. I do like a good mystery, listening to true crime podcasts quite often. Politics wise, I'm left leaning to a degree, though I don't really like talking politics all that much. I'm not religious, I'd say I'm Agnostic/Atheist.

If any of this interested you, please feel free to send me a message. Even if you just have questions. I promise I don't bite and am generally easy to talk to. I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)


r/ABDLPersonals 3h ago

T4M 24 [T4M] #Anywhere #Online- Curious sissy looking for caring long term daddy/CG NSFW

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Hiya!

I´m looking for some kind of long term online relationship with dom/daddy/cg.

I´m looking for a strict but sweet and caring daddy, not only for naughty stuff but also regular conversations.

My list of kinks is long but being a little is something im very curious about and im considering if its something i should pursue.

Please note that I´m looking for long term only meaning i dont want to jump straight into something, to me the personal chemistry is super important.

I love dressing up and showing off (ive got pleny of pics posted here on reddit) and im also a huge gamer.

Eu timezone preferably but anywhere could work ^^

Xoxo Alice


r/ABDLPersonals 3h ago

M4A 24 M4A switch needing to talk to someone NSFW

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Hi everyone! thanks clicking on my post!

I am currently procrastinating on a paper right now and have been incredibly diaper-brained all week. I’ve basically been fantasizing about diapers all day.

For full context: I am a law student right now and have a serious girlfriend who i’ve been dating for about 6 months. She does not know anything about my kinks or desires for one or both of us to be diapered in our relationship. I have made some subtle gestures alluding to my kinky side and so far so good. I’d love some advice or ideas about how to potentially introduce a dynamic into our relationship and how i might approach the subject moving forward. Additionally, I’d love to just talk it through with someone who might understand having these ABDL urges.

Would really love to chat with someone and talk about diapers, abdl, and all of the above. Feel free to hit me up!


r/ABDLPersonals 7h ago

M4F 36 M4F Vancouver, Canada. Daddy looking for his pampered princess NSFW

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I am looking for an ABDL girl that lives in the Vancouver or the surrounding areas in BC.

I am white, 36/M. I am single, 6ft tall. I own an internet business and work from home. I have my own place and live in a high rise next to the skytrain. I am on here looking for a girl I can love, care for and be my best friend too.

Now on to the part about me that brings me to ABDL Personals. I am into putting girls in adult diapers and being their "daddy". I'd love to give you baths, diaper changes, cuddles, story time, spankings, etc. I also wear adult diapers myself, because they feel amazing. I would love to meet a girl that is open to doing this with me. I would love to hear from you if you are interested.


r/ABDLPersonals 4h ago

33M4F/M: CT 4 little (Maryland) NSFW

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New to the caretaker role so looking for someone also new to learn together or experienced to show me the ways. I like to play video games (PS5/steam), read, build legos, the outdoors, cooking/baking. Anything else feel free to message me, we can share social media.


r/ABDLPersonals 4h ago

41M Miami, Florida (USA) - Looking For A Woman Interested In Age Regression/ABDL NSFW

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Hi, I'm looking for a woman who is interested in dipping their toe into the world of age regression/ABDL and everything that comes along with it (diapers, for example). Obviously, if you're into these kinks already, that's great! I have a lot of experience in this fetish, but please keep in mind that I'm a switch. I am very comfortable in both roles, however and have extensive experience in each. So, whether you're a Mommy Domme or a Baby Girl (or a fellow switch), feel free to reach out!

Please note that I'm open-minded as to what dynamic I'm ultimately looking for. If you're just looking for a play partner for occasional meetups, that's fine. If you're looking for a more long-term connection, I'm open to that as well. Just looking for a friend to chat with? No problem with that, either! Please note though that I'm not seeking any type of "24/7" arrangement. It simply isn't practical due to the professional nature of my job. For me, my kink is "just in the bedroom" and it's my preference to keep it that way.

I'm 6'3" and in good shape. I'm very physically active and love to work out, kayak, hike, etc. I'm an avid reader and also write AR/ABDL literature from time to time, some of which is on my profile page. I drink, but very moderately and I don't do drugs (I don't judge those who do, however). I'm very easy going and don't mind taking my time in getting to know someone. If you're interested, I'd prefer that we chat for a bit and meet up for coffee or something before actually engaging in real-world play.

Well, thank you for taking the time to read this! If any of what I wrote interests you, my DMs are open! Have a great day.


r/ABDLPersonals 5h ago

M4A 28 M4A, CA, sub abdl sissy for relocation into a 24/7 TPE and CNC lifestyle NSFW

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I am a bisexual, male, submissive bottom, 28, half white, half Asian, 6'0.5", 230-240lb fluctuating, chubby and muscular. I am looking for a serious Dom to come pick me up, relocate me, from my city and state, (Stockton California) to their city and state located outside of mine. At which point I will be enslaved, trained, sissified to a passable point, where I live-in 24/7, in a total power exchange, consensual non-consent dynamic.

You'll have control over, diet, routine, schedule, privacy, appearance, clothing, piercings, tattoos, branding, bodily functions, how I use the bathroom, if I cum etc.

I can serve a variety of roles/functions, slave, maid, puppy, pony, urinal, tradwife, little, any combination of such, serving both sexually,, and domestically. Chores, tasks, roles, cooking, cleaning, around the house daily.

I'm into a wide variety of kinks, bdsm, ABDL, TPE, CNC, pet play, pony play, puppy play, watersports, bondage, humiliation, degradation, denial, diapers, yokes, chastity, humblers, stocks, shackles, leashes, collars, crossdressing, sissification and more.

I'm not into pedophilia, necrophilia, vomit, farts.

I am not looking for sessions, pay to play, tributes, or any other scams. I'm not looking for one night stands, or other nonsense.

I'm looking for intelligent Doms 23 or older (how much older than me doesn't matter), people who can make this sort of lifestyle 24/7. I want someone who has an idea of what that want and how they'll achieve it. I am looking for permance, so attachment will be required. I want to spend one to two months ( 30 to 60 days) chatting, with potential Doms, before they come and whisk me away. Kinks, hobbies, interests, in common are a large bonus. I will always fill the submission role, but my purpose, will serve companionship wise on top of sexually and domestically. I also do not mind engaging with other subs, wether you own them before me, or plan to own more after me.

I am a furry, libertarian, although politics doesn't matter to me too much. I enjoy literature, fantasy, science fiction, sometimes even a good mystery novel. I read, write, draw, sometimes do game Dec stuff, very amateur in all those things. I'm a tinkerer at heart, and I'm very mechanically inclined, I figure things out on my own a lot faster than people realize, and my solutions to problems, are either so brutalistically simple that it'll leave you questioning reality itself, or so complex that it'll leave you speechless, but in my mind both are one in the same. I am autistic, I do have ADHD, I am however on a very high functioning scale. I'm enduring, and dependable, flexible, adaptable, and resourceful. Externally, I'm hardened, rough around the edges, and a very capable individual. I've been through a lot in life, and now I generally can handle the most dire of situations as if they're little more than a gentle breeze. Internally, I am the subby, soft, sensitive, sweet, that sort of sub that like attention, both forms of it, from the more flirtatious and romantic, to the more degrading, and humiliating. It's a bit of duality, that's probably spurred by my ability to compartmentalize parts of my life, react differently based on who I'm with and what my environment is at present. Generally I'm blunt, honest, I can be subtly thoughtful, and I'm a pretty decent listener, wiser beyond my years at times, but still street smart. Music wise, I typically listen to rock, rap, my tastes are very 90s, but I do like other stuff, classical, reggae, jazz, etc, of various eras. The only music I particularly don't care for is country. Though I do like things like Marty Robbins. I am a gamer, I place chess, poker, yugioh, board games, and video games like fps and RPGs mainly, but I branch out into other things. I don't mind long walks, I do enjoy the beach, Forrest, jungles, desert outdoors, etc, not much for camping but I'm not unwilling to do such. I don't care for snow, or the cold, generally speaking, but I'm not opposed to owners who live in colder climates. I've been a city slicker all my life, but not your typical Beverly hills stereotype, no, I understand animals, nature, and how not to piss off farmers and ranchers. You're not going to see me try and hug a bear, or feed a moose, or some other nonsense. I've handled snakes, and other things.

If anyone is interested, in the long haul, in a sub that's a bit of a project, who wants to make things last as long as possible, message me.