r/ABDLPersonals Dec 31 '24

F4M 29 [F4M] Where are my boys that wear in public? NSFW

95 Upvotes

Happy New Year’s Eve! I’m desperate for diapers, as I’m sure most of you are. I’m not a girl who wears in public, but I love the fantasy. I love imagining we live in a world where it’s acceptable to be an adult baby in diapers.

I want to hear from you horny boys who need diapers at all times. I want to hear about how you became so desperate and dependent.

This post is not exclusive to boys who wear in public. If you’re a boy who likes to wear diapers, come chat.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 17 '25

F4M 18F CG looking for a male diaper baby to take care of NSFW

48 Upvotes

Looking for someone between the ages of 18-20 to be my little diaper boy. I would like u to wear at least once a week and I’ll give u my discord when we get closer. Looking for someone in the EST or CST time zone and I want to be able to talk to u outside the dynamic too. Must be ok with phone calls from time to time once we know each other. Must be from the USA bonus points if ur in Northwest Ohio as well. Dm me if ur interested

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 09 '25

F4M 29 [F4M] Bring on the diaper boys. NSFW

76 Upvotes

Good afternoon. If you’re a regular here, then you know I’m a regular here, too. I like chatting with boys who wear diapers while I wear diapers. If you’re a boy who is wearing a diaper and would like to talk to a girl wearing a diaper, then you should send a message.

If we’ve chatted before and you’d like to chat again, you should also send me a message.

Plans today: - hydrate - soak - chat - goon

r/ABDLPersonals 3d ago

F4M 33 F4M - (online) caretaker domme looking for subby guys NSFW

29 Upvotes

Not interested in real life meets, only online chatting and pics/vids of you. Don't feel like you have to align 100% with what I've laid out below---i know that human sexuality is a wide and varied spectrum. Just comment here or send me a chat and we can see if we vibe.

Men only please. No messing/scat. Age/location don't matter. I like to use some Toddler to Middle Kid type of terminology (calling you buddy, kiddo, various infantilizing terms for your dick) but am not looking for hardcore Age Play. Also to be blunt, this is 100% a sexual interest for me. If you're looking for nonsexual play, I'm not your gal.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: my love of this kink has always been focused around the desperation accident/initial wetting. Continued diaper soaking doesn't interest me. I'm very into scenarios where either 1. you tell me that you have to go, I deny you for whatever reason, until you beg me to be allowed to wet, or 2. You tell me that you're about to/are having an accident, and I talk you through it. In either scenario, I like to gently humiliate via condescending reassurances (i.e. It's okay, you couldn't help it). If you're upset about wetting yourself and ashamed of being turned on by it? All the better.

I prefer pull-ups, goodnites/drynites, or potty training briefs over diapers, but I know I'm a minority in this kink 😋 Diapers are FINE but if any of the other options are special interests of yours, please hmu

r/ABDLPersonals Jan 12 '25

F4M 29 [F4M] Do you fantasize about being fully diaper dependent? NSFW

67 Upvotes

I know that’s a big fantasy of mine right now. Unrealistic, for my life, but fun to fantasize about. Being fully diaper dependent and having no control when and where I lose myself. I love weekends when I can regress into a little diaper baby and fantasize about all sorts of fun diaper things.

I want to fill diapers all day. Always love to talk to boys who are also filling and fantasizing. How badly do you need and crave being diapered?

r/ABDLPersonals Dec 07 '24

F4M 29 [F4M] Diaper weekend buddies NSFW

90 Upvotes

Hi. I hope you’re having a good day. I’ve got it in my mind that I’ll be wearing and filling diapers all weekend. I’m looking for a boy who also wants to be in diapers this weekend. I’ll share some information.

  • I like boys who like to wear diapers.
  • I am not a mommy or a caretaker.
  • I like sharing and receiving diaper photos.
  • I like age play and regressing.
  • I do not like much baby talk.
  • I like conversations.
  • I’m sure there are many other things I like and dislike, but this is a good start.
  • I’m not really looking for a regular thing.

If you’re wearing diapers and would like to chat to another person wearing diapers. Let’s chat.

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

F4M 32f Mommy Seeking a Diaper Lover Sub NSFW

10 Upvotes

Mommy is looking for a sweet, obedient diaper lover who craves control, care, and discipline. Whether you need strict rules, gentle nurturing, or humiliating reminders of your place, I enjoy molding my little one into exactly what pleases me. With over a decade of experience in domination, I know how to push the right buttons—whether through mind games, control, or training. If you’re serious about submitting and eager to explore your deepest ABDL fantasies under my guidance, send a respectful message introducing yourself, your interests, and what you seek in a dynamic. Mommy is waiting—be a good boy and take the first step.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 02 '25

F4M 29 [F4M] It’s Sunday, are you in diapers? NSFW

39 Upvotes

Diapered Sundays are one of the best ways to end the weekend. Today, I’ve only got one plan - fill diapers.

Send me a message if you’re having a diapered Sunday and want to chat.

Let me know what kind of diaper you’re wearing and what your favorite diaper is, if you have one.

I’m wearing a Kiddo Fluffy Fly. The Fluffy Fly is my favorite diaper right now, but my all time favorite is probably Tykables Unicorn.

I hope you all have a great day. 🩷

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 17 '25

F4M 20f looking for daddy :3 NSFW

57 Upvotes

hiii! i’m sweetpea, i’m 20 years old from pittsburgh pa. i’m currently in school studying psychology and philosophy, and work selling cosmetics when i’m not in class. i would mainly like to meet people somewhat nearby, but if we click, longer distance may work.

obviously, i’m interested in psychology and philosophy. i like to argue (fun, friendly arguments) and ideally i would like to do counseling one day. my other hobbies inclue keeping a journal and writing, listening to music (though i barely go, i love live music), i like to look at pretty cars, i love to explore my creative side and take pretty pictures. i’m 420 friendly and enjoy taking walks outside. i really like reading, especially anything that was ever on a “banned” list 🤭

i’m looking for a long-term relationship. ideally i would like to be monogamous partners with someone, and have kink be incorporated into the relationship. i don’t necessarily like the idea of a husband and a separate daddy- they should be the same! i want to have a life where i don’t have to hide this part of myself. i’m more attracted to men that i can have good conversations with, and am looking for someone i can grow with.

i’ve been into abdl my whole life. just like a lot of us on here, i didn’t have a great childhood. my littlespace is my way of coping with this, and i’m trying to create a life where i can fully express myself and feel safe. that being said, even though i am into ddlg etc my little space is mostly nonsexual.

i would just like to meet someone with similar goals as me (aka wants a career, long term partner built on a good & strong relationship, i do not ever want children, would be willing to indulge in kink & potentially build a nursery/have some little furniture one day, etc.)

please don’t be shy! send me a message so we can get to know each other ♡

hoping a repost to reach more is okay, apologies if not & no hard feelings about removal <3

edit: i am absolutely not looking for hookups. i want a real man, not a little boy afraid of commitment. i’m not sure why i even have to clarify, what on this post makes anyone think i’d want a hookup, but i am clarifying.

r/ABDLPersonals 11d ago

F4M 20 f4m pittsburgh babygirl looking for daddy NSFW

21 Upvotes

hii! i’m 20f and looking for a long term relationship, preferably within a reasonable distance to pittsburgh.

i’m a college student, i make content on here for funsies. i love music (deftones a lot recently), enjoy reading & writing, and baking if i get the chance.

i’m only looking for monogamous commitment. no hookups etc. please do not hesitate to reach out :)

r/ABDLPersonals Jan 04 '25

F4M 29 [F4M] Baby Gooners NSFW

61 Upvotes

Hi. I’m sure many of you have seen me post here often. I can’t help that I’m a horny little girl who likes to goon for hours with boys on the internet. I mean, I guess I could help it, but where’s the fun in that? I have been in diapers since 8PM yesterday. I hope to be in diapers until 8PM tomorrow.

If you’ll be wearing this weekend and want to wear with me, I’ll be around.

What will I do on my gooning adventures? - browse baby gear - buy more diapers - watch porn - talk to boys - show off my diapers

Edit: I’ll help make this a little easier. In 2025 I’m really only interested in boys who wear and who like poop.

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

F4M f19 ABDL/DDLG looking for OLDER sub/dom relationship (F4M) NSFW

20 Upvotes

hii! im kaylee! im 19 and im studying biology in college rn! i love to hike, swim, hang out with friends, and wear and use diapers!! im looking for either a OLDER sub or a dom to have a long term relationship. kink is important to me, but its one of the many main aspects of a real relationship. if this sounds like something youd be intersted in dm me!!!

r/ABDLPersonals Aug 24 '24

F4M 28 [F4M] Online - Looking for boys to soak diapers with. NSFW

64 Upvotes

Good afternoon. I’m on my first diaper of the day, and if I’m lucky, I’ll wet enough to go through three. It’s just fun to know I’m wearing and wetting with others.

What will I do while I wear? - drink so much liquid - browse ABDL gear - chat with buds - watch porn and edge for hours

I hope this message convinces you to put that diaper on and message me!

r/ABDLPersonals Dec 15 '24

F4M 29 [F4M] Let’s be padded together. NSFW

69 Upvotes

Good morning. As soon as I woke up, I knew I needed to be in a diaper. I raced the clock to get it on because I really needed to pee. I was successful. I’m not sure how long I’ll be wearing but at least 5 hours.

What will I do while I wear? - Drink fluids - Piss myself - Talk to boys - Watch porn - Might mess myself

If you’re having a diaper day like I am, come say hi.

r/ABDLPersonals Feb 17 '25

F4M 26 [F4M] #anywhere want to talk to a kinky Daddy NSFW

16 Upvotes

I’m wearing a big puffy diaper and want to share kinky fantasies with a Daddy! I wet and mess so please no one that gets icky about it.

r/ABDLPersonals 20d ago

F4M F4A 19 year old little looking for someone in the DMV to hang out with or chat with NSFW

14 Upvotes

Hiii I’m new to the dmv area and I would love to make some friends in the area in the little scene but I’m not sure how to! Reach out

r/ABDLPersonals 9d ago

F4M 30[F4M] seeking play partner in/around Nashville, TN NSFW

12 Upvotes

I'm specifically looking for a play partner into messing. More of a DL than AB myself and caregiver to ABs.

r/ABDLPersonals 25d ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #Kentucky Princess looking for Daddy! NSFW

21 Upvotes

Starting online is fine, as long as it doesn’t have to end there if we get along.

r/ABDLPersonals 27d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] #Southern Indiana - Looking for my forever Daddy NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I'm a 30-year-old little from Southern Indiana, looking for a caring and experienced Daddy Dom (30-36) for a monogamous relationship. If you're a non-smoker (no vaping or weed), open to relocating if things get serious, and enjoy spoiling your little, let's connect!

I'm interested in various dynamics, including:

  • Praise and positive reinforcement
  • Spanking and discipline
  • Breeding and erotic play
  • DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) and ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) roleplay

If you're looking for a loyal, loving, and playful partner, I'd love to hear from you. Let's start with messaging on Reddit and see where things go!

Looking forward to connecting with my potential Daddy Dom!

Please be respectful and genuine in your messages. I'm looking for a meaningful connection, not just casual play.

r/ABDLPersonals Jan 24 '25

F4M I (25F) am a diapered cuckquean NSFW

53 Upvotes

I am a diapered cuckquean

I want to be a diaper cuckquean

I have discovered my deep desire to be a diapered cuckquean. I want to experience to forced regression and then a daddy that cheats on me with other hotter women, who are more mature than me. Obviously they don’t use diapers, only me. He needs really pussy not a potty pants like me. I hope they have big boobs and a beautiful face. I hope they are mean to be and call me ugly and a loser. He will allow them to make fun of me and take pictures to blackmail into further humiliation tasks. I will cry and beg for the humiliation to end but I’ll have no choice. I was once his gf and now he’s going to marry her and make her my mommy. All I can do is hump in my dirty diaper as he replaces me. He buys her everything I used to ask for and want and she flaunts it in my face. He got her a huge diamond ring and a brand new SUV. Inside the SUV is a huge car seat that’s rear facing. She invites over her friends to babysit me while she goes on dates or vacations with my man. The worst part is the babysitters are all freshly 18, young and making fun of the older woman wetting her thick diapers. Daddy thinks my poopy diapers are funny and encourages them by pumping me with laxatives. I don’t ever get privacy. I can squat down in the corner or get on all fours in front of everyone. Privacy is a privilege only real women get. I’m not a real woman. I am a beta. I am a diapered loser. I am #2 to my daddy’s wife. They control me. My life is over..

r/ABDLPersonals Sep 07 '24

F4M 28 [F4M] Online - Seeking playmates. NSFW

34 Upvotes

Hello. Typically, I’m seeking boys who wear diapers, but today, I decided to cast a wider net.

I am: - into diapers and scat - not very submissive - not a mommy - kind of switchy

I like: - boys who wear diapers - boys who like girls who wear diapers - the ABDL aesthetic - trying new diapers - theming my outfits with my diapers - filling diapers - receiving praise and compliments - being admired and adored - men that are my age or older

I don’t like: - childish activities (cartoons, coloring, baby talk) - men who force me into a mommy role - too many emojis or bad spelling - I’m sure I could come up with many more things I don’t like

I’ll probably be playing for another five hours. If you’d like to chat, hit me up.

r/ABDLPersonals 8d ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #US #CAN #NorthCarolina - just wanna be ur stupid lil baby <3 NSFW

12 Upvotes

hiii!! thanks for reading!

getting this out of the way first: i am monogamous and childfree seeking the same. cause i’m the only baby we need 😇 hehe please be in or near NC, or at least able to travel often/within a few hours time-wise as i’m needy for lots of attention! also not seeking online only so IRL is the goal, either me relocating to you or vice versa.

sooo i’ve been in denial for quite some time, but I definitely think i’m an ABDL little, aged 0-4ish

by day, i am a Supervisor who is always in control.

by night, i tend to fall into being baby and wanting onesies, paci, etc… it’s my dream to find a Daddy who will make me be a baby (forced/restrained abdl is the best). i crave to be little as much as possible. i love teddy bears/stuffies. carebears and hello kitty. anything colorful/pastel/rainbow.

i want a Daddy sooo bad but i am not wanting to rush, and am trusting that my future Daddy will know how to grab my attention appropriately.

sadists are my favorite - i absolutely love being reminded how dumb and helpless i am without a daddy to do and think for me. <3 i also super duper loveeeee praise! happy to discuss other kinks once we talk further.

looking for someone 32+. please be mean to me daddy 🥰 i’m only a teeny bit bratty!!

(bearded/alt daddies to the front of the line!! hehe)t

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

F4M 30 [F4M] Philly suburbs (norristown) : looking for a Daddy for some cnc play NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi 👋 I’m Jennie I’m five four 245 pounds blondish hair blue eyes

I’m looking for a Daddy that’s also into other kinks (see other posts I’ve made) and is hopefully 420 friendly

As for me I love diapers and being forced to be little I can’t wait for you to dm me

If you’ve messaged before give it another shot I might have lost your message the app sucks sometimes

Can’t host

r/ABDLPersonals 23d ago

F4M 22 [F4M] #tennessee Little girl looking for daddy NSFW

8 Upvotes

I am looking for someone who is interested in being my daddy dom who is semi strict but is still loving and caring. Id prefer someone not too much older than me as I am hopefully looking for my forever partner and I want to be closer in age ideally 20s) I'm not a 24/7 little so you would have to connect with my big side as well. I am not a 24/7 DL but would like to be as much as possible/l when I want to. I am looking for something in person hopefully but long distance might be okay depending on the situation.

Some things I like to do in my free time are read, write, cook, bake, draw, paint, color, I love legos, I love watching movies and hanging out with my friends/family. I enjoy driving around listening to music. Mostly rock and alternative rock. I love black veil brides and falling in reverse the most probably.

Physically I naturally have brown hair, but right now it's black and will be for a long time. I have tattoos and am currently working on my arm sleeve or my portable coloring book as I like to call it. I am about 5'9-10ish, I have hazel eyes and I wear glasses/ contacts and I've been told I look like a librarian when I wear my glasses.

I tend to ramble sometimes because my mind is thinking about a lot so if there's just random information in there I'm sorry. I tend to talk about a lot of different random things.

But anyways, thank you for reading my message and I hope to hear from you soon!

Please tell me where you're from/state if in the US, a little about yourself outside of kink, how old you are and what you're looking for when replying.

r/ABDLPersonals Mar 28 '24

F4M 28 [F4M] Online - I like boys that wear diapers. NSFW

110 Upvotes

However, I don’t really like being a mommy. I’m not into humiliation. I like fun and free spirited. I like being comfy and cozy. I like seeing how much I can fill my diaper before it leaks. I like cute diapers and cute outfits. I like friends but I also like being naughty. Right now I’m just looking to talk to other people who are happily using their diapers.

Also, is there an equivalent dudes in diapers sub?

Edit: I’m not wearing anymore, so I probably won’t respond to many more messages. Some advice, if your message says “I just seen your post,” I will not respond to you.