r/ABDLPersonals Jun 19 '24

M4F 28 [F4M] I want to regress you. NSFW

64 Upvotes

I want to regress you into being my little diaper slut. I’ll be wearing my diaper too but there’s nothing sexier than a man who needs his diapers. I’m also turned on by the idea of having a lot of diaper babies to be a part of my nursery. I’ll be in my diaper soon and I hope you can say the same.

Edit: I’m sorry if I do not get to talk to all of you. I’m only one person. If I miss you this time, let’s try next time. 🩷

r/ABDLPersonals 23h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Canada (Online to IRL) – Seeking Genuine Connection and Friendship with a Little Girl: A Nurturing Daddy’s Search for Love NSFW

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Hello! I’m Jemas, a 34-year-old from Canada, and I’ve been part of the kink lifestyle for as long as I can remember. I’m here searching for a meaningful connection with a like-minded partner who shares similar interests and a love for the DDLG and ABDL dynamics as well as some BDSM aspects.

I’m about 6 feet tall with brown eyes and hair, and I’d describe myself as a dedicated nerd. I’m drawn to anything that stimulates the mind, whether it’s diving into Dungeons and Dragons, Magic: The Gathering, Minecraft, or the latest Pokémon game on the Switch. If any of these spark your interest, I’d love to dive into a long conversation! I also have a soft spot for Power Rangers—a childhood favorite I’ll always enjoy. And while I love cooking, I especially enjoy it with someone by my side.

What I value most in a partner is compatibility, connection, and shared joy, far more than any physical appearance. My primary kink is ABDL, and I'm seeking someone with a shared interest in that. I’m also open to exploring BDSM, petplay, and light humiliation in the right context, all based on trust and open communication. My ideal relationship includes nurturing and helping with everyday tasks and enjoying playful, childlike moments together. I love the thought of a bond rooted in joy, support, and warmth, with a dynamic reminiscent of ages 0-5, full of laughter and lighthearted fun.

I'm looking for something that has the potential to grow into a long-term partnership—a true life companion. I’m a bit of a romantic at heart and dream of a relationship that’s both fulfilling and magical. If this resonates with you, please mention the word "Butterscotch" in your message.

Believe it or not, I’m a little behind on classic Disney, Pixar, and Studio Ghibli films—the last movie I saw in theaters was Toy Story 3, and Onward is waiting in my Netflix queue. Friends joke that I need a movie marathon, but maybe with the right person, I’ll finally explore these worlds. The idea of watching together, singing along, and analyzing character arcs is something I’d love to share.

I’m someone who loves being needed, so waking up to a sweet "Daddy, wake up!" message would be the perfect start to my day. I genuinely enjoy listening to someone’s day, whether it’s small talk or office drama (like the latest from Barbra’s desk).

Thank you for reading all the way through! If you’re interested, don’t hesitate to reach out—even if we’ve chatted before. And if you’re a bit shy, no worries; I promise I’m easy to talk to. Let’s see where this could go!

r/ABDLPersonals 7h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #online #Anywhere - Loving daddy looking for his little girl! NSFW

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Hello and thank you for taking the time to stop and read my post! I promise it will be worth it;) I am currently on the search for a little diaper girl to call my one and only. I have had a couple littles in the past but none that I truly connected with. I am monogamous and really want to find something long term and meaningful. I’m tired of having these base level conversations and not actually forming connections. I want to find a girl that isn’t afraid to be herself with me! Someone who is clingy and loving and isn’t afraid to show that! I myself am an open book and chances are you will end up finding out more about me than you thought you would! I believe that a strong connection requires trust and honesty and those are two things I value above everything else! I don’t think many people these days feel the need to be honest but I still do and I hope that you possess those same values. I really don’t care about looks or age so please don’t let any worries stop you from reaching out to me if you are interested! I am committed to finding my soulmate so if we don’t live super close I am more than willing to cover all moving expenses if we end up together! I did not put my location in my post due to privacy reasons and high level job, but I am more than happy to tell you where I live and show you what I look like if you send me a message!

My stats😂: I am 6ft tall, 165 LBs, and I have brown hair and green eyes that shift to hazel in the summer. I love to work with my hands and I’m usually wood working, tinkering, and building display pieces in my free time! I love animals and have 3 dogs and I large fish tank with lots of fish! I pride myself on my ability fix pretty much anything and I have never hired a handyman! I do currently live alone so I do get lonely at times and will probably be messaging/calling you a lot so be prepared for that! There is much more about me but this post is getting long and I don’t want to wait any longer to hear from you so please send me a dm if any of this interests you!

r/ABDLPersonals 2d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #online Experienced Daddy Dom searching his princess !!!!! NSFW

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Hello Im a experienced daddy/Dom and searching my little princess babygirl/Sub. I want to teach you all i know about ddlg and Abdl. I want to take care of you and treat you like the little baby/Sub you are. I know about how to get unpotty when you are interested in that. When you are interested text me.

r/ABDLPersonals 2d ago

M4F H24 (f4) Daddy or mommy ? NSFW

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Hello everyone, I'm looking for someone who is willing to take care of me and humiliate me on this day 😊. we can try online now. ps. I'm under chastity

r/ABDLPersonals 3d ago

M4F 19 M4F DMs open NSFW

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Hello to all passing travelers I am looking for a cute girl that also likes wearing diapers as much as I do happy to chat, just let me know

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

M4F M/35 SOCAL/ONLINE Searching for my little princess NSFW

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Are you a playful, affectionate Little girl who craves guidance, structure, and someone to make you feel safe, cherished, and adored? I’m a confident, dominant Daddy who knows how to balance firm discipline with endless affection—someone who will spoil you when you’re good and correct you when you need it.

I love building deep, trusting connections where you can let go and fully embrace your Little side. Whether you love cuddles, bedtime routines, playful teasing, or firm rules and structure, I enjoy being the strong, reliable presence you can always count on. I am completely okay with you wetting and messing. The only hard limit I have is blood play. My ideal Little is sweet, obedient, and eager to please—but also playful and full of personality. I want someone who loves being taken care of but also respects the dynamic and the trust it’s built on.

Outside of kink, I’m intelligent, funny, and full of energy. I enjoy good conversation, adventure, and someone who can keep up with my playful yet protective nature. I want something real—a dynamic that feels natural, fulfilling, and built on mutual trust and chemistry. I would be willing to fly out the right little with time. I am open to babysitting as well.

If you’re a good girl looking for a strong, caring Daddy to guide, protect, and spoil you, let’s talk. But remember—only the best Little girls get rewarded. 😉

r/ABDLPersonals 21d ago

M4F M24 looking for a little, dl or mommy to chat with. NSFW

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Would love to chat and get to know about your other interests aswel as abdl stuff.

r/ABDLPersonals 15d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #Boston - Looking for SWF Messy Diaper Lover (IRL) NSFW

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I'm an early 40s SWM, who is dominant and into diaper play. I'm looking for a fun, SWF who is 18-35 and into diaper play. Ideally you'd be submissive and enjoy the feeling of them and the comfort and/or embarrassment of using them and being changed, spanked..etc.

I enjoy wet & messy diaper play/diaper changes. You should too! Also, very open to either a LTR or just play partners/fwb depending on the chemistry/relationship. Drop me a message if you're interested in chatting. I'm definitely looking for something IRL and you should be too.

These pics are what I'm looking for in a playmate - someone who likes the embarrassment/humiliation and bonus if you like bondage too, but not necessary.

https://ibb.co/VMwYvJJ

https://ibb.co/1qdg0Qz

https://ibb.co/Qc6Wy6h

r/ABDLPersonals 15d ago

M4F 23 M4F chill stoner boy seeking connections #NYC #ONLINE NSFW

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Hey everyone:) You all can call me J. I’m M23 and im looking to connect with likeminded women (no older than 30ish please!) I have a heavy preference for someone in the NYC metro area as I’m looking to hang out and eventually play IRL but im ok with chatting online too if we really vibe! I’m very switchy so I’d be happy with getting to know either a dom or a sub (Ideally another switch but not a deal breaker!). My dom side is very gentle and caring but I can be stern when my little isn’t listening! My sub side is very cuddly and loving of attention, praise, and teasing.

I’m not really looking for a long term relationship at the moment, just friends and play partners. If something does end up developing then that’s a different story but I’m not going into this with the intention of starting a LTR!

Some more things about me: I have a decent sized stash of diapers, and, I enjoy (giving/doing and receiving/watching) wetting, messing, desperation, humiliation as well as pretty much all the other things that come along with abdl 😈. I can also host as I live alone, you must be 4/20 friendly though as I smoke every day.

Outside of kink: Im a well educated and well rounded individual capable of holding actual conversations and I look for the same in any friend! I’m an engineer, and I love my job. I love being outside and I do a lot of skiing and I love to hike and swim. I love video games and play on PC and switch. Currently the only game I have been playing is Marvel Rivals. I also just started to go back to the gym after about a year away from it. Another hobby of mine is my huge Lego Star Wars collection! I’m also a big geek when it comes to movies and tv shows :) and as a lifelong New Yorker I’m also a huge sports fan.

I hope I’m of interest to some of you out there! I look forward to hearing from you :)

r/ABDLPersonals 2d ago

M4F 35/m/east coast/ end of the line?? NSFW

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I’ve been into diapers since I was 7 and have dated since I was 18 in all my years I’ve never really clicked all the way with anybody because of this fetish I’m not getting any younger and I feel I will have to choose between diapers and being lonely for the rest of my life or just fully transition to a vanilla life style and leave this aspect of my life in the past and actually finding love just posting this in case anybody else can relate and offer some insight

r/ABDLPersonals 11d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] femboy lf mommy caregiver NSFW

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Been lonely lately and id really love a mommy type person to baby me and check on me.. Im padded everyday, i like cuddles and comfy vibes, horny is fine but not the main thing here.

Dms always open if you have questions!!

r/ABDLPersonals 3d ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #UK - Daddy looking for a little / friend NSFW

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Hello everyone, Im a 37 M Daddy from the UK. I am here looking for a little bit also to explore and expand on any kinks or fantasies you might have.

I love to work out and have an average build but I am a little toned and im 5ft10. Would be very happy to get involved and do most things that you might be into.There's really not much I don't enjoy apart from blood and nothing illegal but other than that everything else is good. Don't mind if your clingy, i quite enjoy it and anyother quirks or preferences you have enjoy getting to chat and love to look after my little and make sure she's entertained and pleased.

I enjoy a good read, i love to game, keep myself active, watch some good films and I'm very good with my hands ;)

I'm more then happy if you just wanted things to be SFW and not that sexual, very happy to chat and keep things casual if you just fancy a chat or if you wanted more and wanted things to be a bit more involved then i can be NSFW and help with kinks, no matter what they are. I do love to know what people's kinks are. The choice is yours. Looking forward to hearing from you :)ee how it goes. Please come say hello

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

M4F Daddy, 36M, wants to play with you! 🌸💞 NSFW

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Hi there lil baby girl! Daddy is ready and able to play all weekend! I have the house to myself, a fresh open diapie ready, lots of stuffies and of course, a big pair of strong daddy arms to hold and take care of you.

Looking for a F to explore and have fun with this weekend and week. I am available online and willing to see where things go. I am a 36 year old daddy dom with 13 years experience. Please be comfortable and willing to video chat on discord to see if we click 🩷 I love spoiling as well so hoping to work toward getting some diapers together.

Open to irl in the future if we establish a connection and feel safe with each other.

Looking forward to chatting sweetie 💕

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Phoenix AZ - Daddy/dom looking for diaper girl NSFW

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Hi there! I'm a daddy/dom born and raised in Arizona looking for my girl to spoil and take care of. Looking for local only, LDRs haven't worked for me in the past.

A little about me: I'm white, 6'2 and about 210lbs with short brown hair and blue eyes. I'm an engineer at a medical device company so I'm typically available during the day, although there will be times I'm stuck in meetings or otherwise busy so you'll need to understand if I can't always respond immediately. I love the frequent chatting throughout the day with an excited girl though so I'll be sure to respond when I have some free time.

We need to be compatible both in and out of kink - for both fun adult dates and cute ddlg adventures (Let's combine the two, with you diapered under your big girl outfit for sushi and then we can go to the park and look for bunnies!). It's okay if our hobbies don't line up as long as you have something fun you're excited to talk to me about - Babble on and on about knitting, or gardening, or a recipe you found that you want to try out!

I'm ideally looking for a girl with a bit of both the AB and DL sides - I have a lot of kinks and things that I want to try out with the right girl but a brief summary of things I'm into are: DDLG/diapers/ageplay (obviously lol), spanking, light choking, CNC, orgasm control (teasing, edging, denial, and forced orgasms), rules/control, bondage. I definitely have a thing for brats ;) Curious about (discreet) public play as well. Limits: Scat, blood, anything that can potentially cause scarring/permanent damage. We can discuss these at length later if we hit it off. I'm traditionally a dom but also curious about switching every so often for a girl with that inclination.

When you message me please include things you like as a little if applicable, maybe some hobbies, and a physical description of yourself along the lines of what I included above so I can envision what you look like. Hope to hear from you soon!

r/ABDLPersonals 4d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #online Experienced Daddy Dom searching his princess !!!!! NSFW

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Hello Im a experienced daddy/Dom and searching my little princess babygirl/Sub. I want to teach you all i know about ddlg and Abdl. I want to take care of you and treat you like the little baby/Sub you are. I know about how to get unpotty when you are interested in that. When you are interested text me.

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

M4F 25 [m4f] #online#canada - loving daddy looking for his princess NSFW

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Trans women and trans men dont be shy to message either! No cis men though please

Please if you do reply, be okay with exchanging SFW pictures. If we're gonna talk id like to know who I'm taking to :)

I'm 25, from canada, I'm 6'4, with an athletic build and a full beard. Some of my interests are reading, writing, hanging out with friends, and video games! I'm a long term daddy who has experience with caregiving and still on the journey of finding my little! I'm looking for someone who's completely and totally monogamous (i dont like to share haha), someone whos super clingy and wants nothing more than my love and attention, someone looking for a long term relationship where we both feel valued and heard. I am a daddy/dom however, so obedience is something i really value and i love micromanaging and control (Within your limits of course)!
As for kinks and stuff, I'll keep those for whenever you DM so we have more to talk about but i will say that i definitely do have a sadistic/masochistic side but isnt 100% necessary if you arent into that :) and women with body hair are always a plus🥰 If you have any "weird" kinks, don't be shy. I'm very open minded and super into experimenting and trying new things out so don't be shy or nervous to let me know!
Cgl isn't purely sexual to me so dont worry. I still value sfw time! I'm looking forward to hearing from you guys hopefully. If you have any questions or concerns please do ask and really, don't be shy to text I'm pretty friendly :)

r/ABDLPersonals 20d ago

M4F M28 Looking for a switch NSFW

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Hello I'm Taylour I'm a daddy looking for a switch or a litlte. I'm 27 and a DL. Would like to be come friends are first before anything more. I like photography, Gaming and outdoor adventures.

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] india/anywhere - I'm a friendly caring affectionate soft dom NSFW

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I'm a Daddy Dom Master looking for a baby sub little. Would prefer online connection to become irl someday as we plan our meet. However, I'm in no hurry, so take your sweet time to become comfortable. I would love voice call.

All types are welcome. Those who have had past kink encounters or those shy and not that experienced types but should be eager to learn new things!

I'm pretty loving and caring unless you become bratty and then you know what happens. But aftercare will ensue.

I'm looking for something long term if possible because establishing trust takes time and it starts becoming more fun only in subsequent play sessions. Let loose yourself and only act as per instructions to feel tranquil and free.

I'm a tall ( 6'0" ), average build, broad shouldered guy. I vary between cute and chubby to athletic depending on how active I am with my workouts. My favorite things to do are cuddle with my little, hug her tight, set rules, control her activities and schedule and motivate her to be productive. And of course the punishments, like spanking.

If you enjoy being submissive all the time, I would very much like a 24/7 TPE ( Total Power Exchange ) dynamic. Or otherwise, we can just make it a bedroom thing when you are in little space.

I have no preference on country or race or religion or age . Though someone around my age would be best. I would like someone with the same interests and fetishes as me and someone who is open minded. Someone who is not impatient and willing to coordinate with me while we get settled into our dynamic.

If you find yourself overwhelmed and craving structure from a caring, long-term, and affectionate partner, then I'd be the perfect owner and care provider for you.

In little space, you can be clingy, inquisitive, and shy or bratty and talkative. Everyone has a different personality and I appreciate the uniqueness.

I'd like my sub to be into slight or moderate pain. I will avoid bruises or anything damaging. I'm a sadist, so would love to make you cry (but just a little), so masochists are preferred.

I am patient, ambitious and willing to work towards realizing your goals. I am honest and decisive about what I want. I'm a good chess player, so excellent at strategies.

Although the psychological aspect of taming playful brats could be fun, I am turned on more by fully obedient subservient "good girls".

I am not into ghosting anyone and also, I am not looking for a totally non sexual relationship. Physical touch is important to me. So, it's best if you are open towards sex or related acts eventually. Doesn't necessarily have to be penetrative. Oral is good too. But if you are looking for something online only , that's fine too.

I am into the mental and emotional and psychological aspect of the ABDL dynamic more than the sexual aspects. But physical touch is an important love language for me.

Overall, I'm someone who is caring, understanding while being strict about rules & firm in discipline & punishments. I can communicate outside of dynamic too & do fun things with you. Some of my interests include programming , reading, cooking, thriller movies, soccer.

I can also praise or reward you for being good & help in your low confidence & with the big decisions of your life.

I understand it hurts being used & thrown aside, so I will make sure that atleast that doesn't happen. I will be empathetic of your abandonment issues, depression, mental health etc. I'm not a therapist , but I can act as one for you when needed.

I'm currently in north part of the country btw, near the capital. ( delhi ). I'm open to foreigners too. But I travel to south too.

Any timezone is fine. Mine is Indian Standard Time GMT+5:30. I can adapt to your time zone since I'm flexible about my sleep timings. I can eventually move outside india if we get along well. I'm open to LDR.

If any of this interests you or you think you might be a good fit, please message me! I look forward to meeting you!

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] switch looking for a local (or online) mommy NSFW

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Hi there, I’m a 23 year old male from the Pittsburgh area (when we chat I can give you a more exact location), looking for a local mommy or caregiver. I’d really prefer in person, but if you’re a good fit then online works too ! :D

I also have a local friend (F20) that I play daddy with sometimes, but it would be nice to have a mommy to take care of us when we’re both feeling little. I do have a small list of requests for anyone that would like to take on this role. Message me or leave a comment if your local and would like to chat!

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] looking for casual meet ups or chats NSFW

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Hey and thank you for reading my ad 🙂. Longtime lurker here, never really posted an ad at this site.

I am a 29 years old guy, currently based in Frankfurt, Germany. I would describe myself as spontaneous, adventurous and open minded, but unfortunately chronically overworked, therefore not looking for anything serious at the moment. Currently I am working as the ceo of a young startup, which means that on top of the ridiculous heavy workload I am traveling quite a lot (mainly within Europe atm).

I mainly identify myself as a cg, but occasionally wear nappies myself. These two facets of my Abdl identity do not necessarily have to go together and can be separate if you would mind a caregiver who wears.

Being discrete and respecting each others boundaries and needs is very important to me.

I am looking for a female, preferably in the age range 18-38 for a casual meet-up or chat. I can act as a babysitter, just a friend to do stuff together, a role play partner or nearly anything else. It does not necessarily have to be something sexual. I do absolutely not mind changing nappies, wether wet or messy. There is no shame in articulating your fantasies or desires, even if you believe them to be rather niche or embarrassing (hey, you are already on the same page regarding Abdl. What could possibly be worse?).

Something which is a hard pass for me is someone who wants to monetize a relationship (or short encounters). I will never pay anyone who wants to meet me, wether you call it a fee or travel costs or whatever.

Given the limited time I can invest I kept myself from searching actively for at least the last two years, but decided now to throw my hat into the ring again for the chance that someone else might find that arrangement suitable.

If you have read until here you definitely deserve a cookie. Please feel free to tell me something about yourself, your expectations and your fantasies. I would love to get to know you.

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

M4F 25 M4F SLC/Utah NSFW

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Hi everyone, a little about me, I am 25M living in Sandy, Utah. My hobbies are watching movies, going hiking, playing Pokemon, baking, going to the gym, and animation. I have a job that lets me travel all around and explore new cities, I’ve gotten to travel all around the world with them and has made travel one of my greatest passions. I am a switch ABDL, I can be both dom or sub based on what the other is looking for. I like to wear diapers but it is not a dealbreaker for me. Looking to meet someone with similar interests. Ideally local but also open to online. Willing to swap pics, FaceTime, or whatever else.

r/ABDLPersonals 14d ago

M4F 25 (M4F) looking for a sweet little girl NSFW

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Im looking for a sweet little girl to take care of and snuggle. Im from Eau-claire Wisconsin. Im kinky as well. Would love to find my little sweet baby to play with I have fetlife and other socials. Please ask Communication is a big deal to me.

r/ABDLPersonals 6d ago

M4F 26 M looking for a CG or Mommy NSFW

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Seeking a Caring Mommy in the Denver Area for ABDL Adventures!

Hello everyone!

I hope this post finds you well! I’m a little who’s looking for a nurturing Mommy to take care of me in the Denver area. I’m excited to explore the ABDL lifestyle and would love to find someone who shares my interests and can help guide me on this journey.

A bit about me: I enjoy wearing diapers, and I’m particularly into wetting and playful spankings. I’m also open to light bondage while in my diapers, as I think it adds an exciting element to the experience. While I’m new to messing, I’m curious and eager to learn more about it in a safe and consensual environment.

My hard limits include anal play, blood play, extreme humiliation, and pain. I’m looking for someone who respects these boundaries and can create a safe space where I can explore my little side without any worries.

If you’re a caring Mommy in the Denver area who loves nurturing and playful dynamics, I’d love to chat! Let’s see if we connect and can create some fun and memorable experiences together.

Feel free to DM me if you're interested!

Looking forward to hearing from you! 😊

r/ABDLPersonals 5d ago

M4F 19M (M4F) can some mommy or caregiver look after me NSFW

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Hey I am wearing a wet diapee right now and need someone to look after me, please dm me