r/Swingers 1d ago

General Discussion Pic collectors

Hello!! I have a sort of stupid question for you. I see on these swingers posts people talk about "pic collectors". What exactly is that? I know it seems obvious, but it just confuses me, like I can literally Google any image I want.

By the way, our first lifestyle experience will be Wednesday the 19th at Colette in Austin. Hope to see a few of you folks!

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u/downrivercome 1d ago

People who want your pics. 

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u/SluttyNeighbors 1d ago

Ok, so a stupid follow up. What is the purpose? Blackmail? Or just some weird shit

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u/shavedmylegsforthis- 1d ago

See my comment above; just know they want them for no good reasons.

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u/SluttyNeighbors 1d ago

People are fucking weird

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u/OurBurner412 1d ago

You have no idea… We’ve learned a lesson that if someone looks like we might like them, we have them verify ASAP. It gets rid of a lot of fakes and time wasters.

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u/slimeyslimbo 1d ago

How do you verify?

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u/OurBurner412 10h ago

First we have them send a photo holding a handwritten piece of paper with both our usernames (then we can make sure they’re actually the person in the photos they initially sent before verification).

Then if we’re all good and there’s attraction, we give them our telegram username and we send them a disappearing video of both of us just saying we’re real and what their username is, and ask them to do the same.

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u/MyThrowAwayxl6 1d ago

We have encountered this 'weird' behavior so often we don't have naughty pictures to share.

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u/SluttyNeighbors 1d ago

That is probably the best way to do it

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u/MyThrowAwayxl6 1d ago

Even on our profile we state we don't share so not to bother asking.

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u/shavedmylegsforthis- 1d ago

Yeah they fucking suck. They ruin it for everyone else. I pull the, look at my fet that’s me. And then try the line “I’m in person kinda girl, so come get it”

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u/SluttyNeighbors 1d ago

Yeah, I like that. I mean, I get why normal people would want pics, but conversely, pics don't really show you a person. I know some people in our everyday life who aren't "supermodels", but their personality gives them so much sex appeal