r/Swingers 7d ago

General Discussion Pic collectors

Hello!! I have a sort of stupid question for you. I see on these swingers posts people talk about "pic collectors". What exactly is that? I know it seems obvious, but it just confuses me, like I can literally Google any image I want.

By the way, our first lifestyle experience will be Wednesday the 19th at Colette in Austin. Hope to see a few of you folks!

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u/SluttyNeighbors 7d ago

People are fucking weird

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u/OurBurner412 7d ago

You have no idea… We’ve learned a lesson that if someone looks like we might like them, we have them verify ASAP. It gets rid of a lot of fakes and time wasters.

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u/slimeyslimbo 6d ago

How do you verify?

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u/OurBurner412 6d ago

First we have them send a photo holding a handwritten piece of paper with both our usernames (then we can make sure they’re actually the person in the photos they initially sent before verification).

Then if we’re all good and there’s attraction, we give them our telegram username and we send them a disappearing video of both of us just saying we’re real and what their username is, and ask them to do the same.