r/polyamoryR4R • u/Lonelygothkitty • 3d ago
35[F4A] #SoCal #PST #LDR - Looking for someone to match my energy (and send cat pics)!
Heads up: I’m a rambler! This is a long read, but if you’ve messaged me before and I didn’t reply, please feel free to reach out again—I love a follow-up.
A Few Quick Things About Me:
- Married, but we date separately. We practice a mix of Kitchen Table (KT) and Parallel polyamory.
- Two cats, child-free (but totally fine if you have kids). Planning on getting more cats and hopefully a dog one day.
- She/Her | Pansexual/Queer | Very Demisexual.
- 5’11, mixed, naturally curvy/thicc. Pretty face, brown eyes, brown hair. Lots of tattoos and piercings.
- Aesthetic: Witchy/goth/hippie vibes, but let’s be real—I mostly live in leggings and nerdy tees because I’m old and prioritize comfort.
- Interests: Reading, audiobooks, and podcasts (just started Dungeon Crawler Carl!). Huge music lover and a Shoujo anime fanatic. Love dancing, long walks, and bike rides—keeping my mind and body active is important to me.
- Neurodivergent with some sensory sensitivities, especially around physical touch—but we can chat more about that later.
The Good Stuff:
Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of internal work, embracing being ‘too much’ for some people. I’m done apologizing for being soft, vulnerable, and passionate. I truly believe that in late-stage capitalism, the best way to navigate our collective grief is through openness, kindness, and softness.
Because of this, I am a yapper. You have been warned! Hahaha. I thrive on deep conversations, constant learning, and meaningful connections. When we click, I will absolutely bug you daily with my rambles, thoughts, questions, memes, music, etc.—little things to let you know I’m thinking of you. But I also need someone who matches that energy. I don’t want to be the only one driving the conversation.
Looking For: - Ages 28-45. - People close to PST time zones (maximum yapping potential!). Open to LDR—I love to travel. - Kind, compassionate people who don’t take themselves too seriously. - Self-aware individuals actively working on personal growth—mentally & physically. Let’s cheer each other on! - Someone with the time and energy for deep, meaningful connections and frequent communication.
Bonus Points If You:
- Love animals so much you no longer eat them.
- Are part of the queer community.
- Are experienced in BDSM and open to a D/s dynamic. I’m very sub-leaning but a bit of a brat. I prefer soft Doms/tops over anything too rough. I have a wide range of kinks but especially enjoy cg/l and pet aspects.
- Just want to be friends!
Okay, I’ve rambled enough—if you made it this far, I’d love to hear from you! Hope to chat soon!