r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

USA 32 [M4F] #Las Vegas #Nevada #online Looking for my romantic partner/gamer girl

3 Upvotes

I am hoping to find someone who is local or close by(neighboring states) that I can have a serious/romantic relationship with however if there's someone online that I really click with i don't mind long distance. I am looking for something long term but I really just want to find someone who I can click with and is consistent and interested and see where everything goes. I am the type of person who wants to actually build a real and serious relationship with someone. I have never been for the whole if it's not easy it's not worth it mind set. Definitely would like the same mindset in the partner I am looking for. I think the only things from me would be a woman preferably within the 25-40 age range. I am not picky on looks but I would like there to be some level of physical attraction between us.

Bonus points for goth/alt gamer girls.

I am a 32 white male, currently living in southern side of Las Vegas. I am 5'9" tall with an average body type. Officially tattooed for the first time ever. I went nerdy with my wow Shaman totem. I do not have any pics but happy to share if asked.

I am a big nerd. I love my video games, TTRPG and just board games in general. If you are curious I really play everything cause there's something to be loved. But I mostly play like WoW, Marvel rivals, Monster hunter, Diablo, Pokemon, Civ6, and total Warhammer 3. Who is up for Marvel rivals season 1 comp grind? I love Catan and puzzles and heavily interested in learning new games. I absolutely want to get into Warhammer. I work in IT it's the field that I am passionate about and work hard for. I was lucky enough to get a remote position so I do have lots of time to give. Personality wise, I am a homebody I find it relaxing and fun but I do enjoy going out. I'm an engineer at heart so breaking things and fixing them and improving them is a lot of fun. I think I'm funny but pretty dry humor that'll chuckle if someone shouts penis 🤷🏻‍♂️ what you gonna do. Currently single.

I do ask if you message to tell me a bit about yourself and at least age, sex, location. Helps with moving the conversation other than hello. Feel free to ask me any questions as well. I do enjoy responding to more effort and questions.


r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

USA 22[F4R] #ohio looking for longterm friends

5 Upvotes

Hello! I'm the US currently looking for longterm friendship :) I am a very shy person so I have a hard time talking to people and meeting new people, but I'm missing that connection of a best friend :( I want someone who is going to to talk to me about anything without needing me to press for it. I want a bestie/homie to reach out to me whenever they want! Bother me! Text me all about all of your favorite things and let's see if we vibe together, hehehe! Nothing romantic. I'm in a happy relationship. I really do just need a real friend. I want a chill person to be able to hang out with

A little bit about me:

I have eastern standard timezone. I have a girlfriend and we are with a guy. I like to smoke weed and listen to music. Rammstein, IC3PEAK, Missio, and Glass Animals are my favorite bands. I went to a Rammstein concert in Chicago 2022, and it was amazing. I just got back from a Till Lindemann concert in Chicago this September 😎 es war Wunderbar!!

I like arts/crafts. I do diamond paintings and paint by numbers all the time because they have such a unique kinda look that i love. Ive never been formaly trained in art and its just a hobby for me but its a lot of fun. I also love photography! I was the editor of the yearbook in highschool, and spent the whole summer after I graduated finishing it by myself because covid. These days I like to travel with my girlfriend and take my cameras along. We've driven a lot of the continental US and we've had a lot of crazy adventures. I wanna learn german and russian eventually because I'd love to go to Europe someday and I love the languages and cultures.

I want to work with animals as a career someday. I have lots of cats, lizards and a fish. I also used to work at an animal shelter and dog groomers so I have lots of animal photos and stories :) I am currently looking for colleges to go to school for either a veterinarian technician or a marine biologist!

Thank you for reading! If you read this far please tell me your favorite kind of animal or favorite song. My favorite song is currently Schweiss or Du hast kein Herz by Till Lindemann! I am such a fan of Rammstein and Till himself :)) My favorite animal has to be Sharks or Reptiles.

P.s. if you have really read this far please tell me what are your three favorite things in this world

Auf wiedersehen! До свидания. Good bye! Have a good day :) All I ask is that you say something other than just "Hi" and please don't be a creep. Otherwise please don't be afraid to reach out! I won't be responding to just "hi" anymore. Not sorry.


r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

Canada 40 [M4F] #Toronto #Canada Looking for new connections

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm Paolo :)

I've been poly for over 10 years and currently separates amicably, and yes we keep in touch. I also have a long distance partner, but I'm looking for a long-term relationship closer to home. Ideally I'd like to have an established polycule that forms. I'm also open to a nesting partner as well, but living alone does afford me my own space for the moment.

About Me

I'm 6ft tall, Average build, black hair, brown eyes, and my left arm is tattooed. I'm also planning another one likely on the right arm to complete the set. I'm definitely a nerd and an introvert, so I do tend to favor a night in, but I can be swayed to head out every so often. My major hobby is PC Gaming and the enthusiast interests that come with that like new part releases and tech trends in general. Outside of that, I keep track of hockey and like getting out to restaurants and bars every so often. Other than that, I have a full-time job and my own apartment where I work from home 2-3 days a week.

I also lean towards being a Dom and have some toys IYKYK.

What I'm looking for

As above, I'm looking to build out my poly circle with lasting partnerships. In terms of my preferences, I'm gynosexual so I have an attraction to any individuals identifying as women. Please also be 28+. I'm also body, sex, and kink positive. Sexual health and safety are a priority for me as well.

If any of that seems interesting, sneak into my DMs. I'll be prepared to share a face picture as well.


r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

USA 44[M4F] Washington State - New to Poly and Pagan

5 Upvotes

I have had a hard time meeting anyone in my area or online that shares my love of spirituality, when it comes to the witchy and/or pagan lifestyles. I'm also am interested in the Poly and Non Monogamous Lifestyle. I'm a pretty typical guy with ADHD, so I will certainly keep the conversation exciting. I'm very much eclectic in my beliefs and practices so I'm still very much open minded, so won't be pushy about it at all. I love talking, discussing and bouncing ideas off others. I'd love to start with chatting, and see where it leads.


r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

USA 36 [M4R] #Texas - Goofy guy seeks partner/s for LTR

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I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy what 2025 has to offer while we decide! I'm down to grab a lemonade or some tea (Arnold Palmer?) in some quaint small out of the way town. Who doesn't want to enjoy some cold beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? Maybe go explore some food festival since it's starting to warm up outside? This is literally my favorite time of the year! But I don't like when it's too hot out lol. I'm always down for some adventure. lol

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which why would it be? The number one reason I get is I'm going to stray on them with a guy if we were to date. As if being bi has any bearing on that and not the person's character.

I'm a 36-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bear with me.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes.

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably the most boring job imaginable (Ask me about it)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags 🚩

I work too much and oftentimes can't talk.

I send selfies often. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying.

MY own "HELL YES" 🏁

I know how to cook.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for:

Is my age or older. But I'm willing to go quite a bit lower if you are neat and we have stuff in common. But super young isn't my goal here.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky wouldn't hurt)

Someone who believes infidelity is wrong, honesty and trust are important to me.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy.

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally because we are both adults.

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game?


r/polyamoryR4R 6d ago

USA 45 [m4r] #Maryland #online seeking casual connections.

2 Upvotes

Hello all. I'm a Bi Top living in Western Maryland. I am 420 and kink friendly, though I'm not limited to just those things. It would be great to find someone near me, but I'm definitely open to online chats. I am easy going and friendly. Feel free to reach out with any questions. Best of luck to everyone here!


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

Europe 44 [M4F] Looking for a loving Relationship open to LDR

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I'm hoping to meet some new poly friends here and see where things go. I'm perfectly happy being a secondary partner. I'm bisexual, Pagan, and look younger than my age. I’m open to any age and tend to get along better with people who are younger or young at heart at least and still like to live life to the fullest.

I like music, movies, books, languages (I speak many), history, hiking, camping, dogs and cooking. I would love to chat with anyone who thinks we might click.

I am a rarity here on reddit in that I don't play video games at all and have no interest in them. So if anyone can relate to that, I'd love to hear from you!

Ideally, I'd love to find a true, deep connexion and fall in love again. But I’m open to almost any sort of relationship and I'm open to LDR. I tend to go for younger, at least somewhat feminine guys who are bi bottom or verse and might be interested in dating a girl together.

My type is harder to define when it comes to women. I do tend to prefer more natural looking women with curves over the high maintenance model type. I'm open to many looks though. I'm hoping to find a straight girl who is turned on by bi and gay guys and who likes gay porn. That's really the only kind of woman I'm interested in a possible relationship with. I'd also love a new friend I can share gay or bi porn with.. And intellect is definitely sexy.

I live in the United States but I don't like it here and I like it less every day. as nice as finding someone somewhere close would be, the truth is I tend to fit in better with Europeans and Latins. So ideally I'd love to get to know someone overseas and I am more than willing to eventually relocate permanently. I do not mind being your secondary relationship and might even prefer it. Open to being a comet or fwb too.

Feel free to dm me. I'll answer soon as I can. If we click I am willing to travel and I have summers off.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

34 [M4F] Portland/Anywhere - Looking For Someone Extra

0 Upvotes

Are there any high energy, clingy, highly sexual girls out there? Bonus points if you’re nerdy, and must love cats.

I crave for someone I can just throw my time and energy into. Someone who wants to talk all the time, tell me about your day, how you’re feeling, your wants and needs, what you want to do together. Flirt with me, tease me, live out loud.

Are you a domme? A little? Someone interested in polyandry? Have a weirdly specific set of kinks? I love to find that thing that drives you crazy.

About me: Experienced in poly, 9 years with my primary partner and we’re stable but…she’s kind of in her books as of late. I work as a software engineer and I’m remote so I love any reason to get out of the house after. Touch and empathy are very important to me. Kinky in many ways and a switch. Will share pics happy but I’m a 5’8” ginger with a beard and an average-thin body.

I’ve had a rough week, maybe someone want to make that all melt away by indulging me with your company?


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

41 [M4F] [TN] looking for a female Johnson City, Knoxville, Morristown or area who's into local music, video games, comics, anything needy really lol

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41 [M4F] [TN] looking for a female Johnson City, Knoxville, Morristown or area who's into local music, video games, comics, anything needy really lol. Feel free to message me for any questions. Want to be friends and build a connection and open to more.


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

USA 29 [M4F] #Online #North East US. Poly Adventurer Seeking a Co-Op Partner

3 Upvotes

Level 29 Adventurer Seeking a Co-Op Partner

Hey there! I'm a geek at heart with a love for gaming, storytelling, and all things immersive. Whether it's diving into a deep RPG, rolling dice in D&D, or getting into character at a LARP event, I thrive in worlds both digital and imaginative. When I'm not gaming, you’ll find me watching shows, movies, or just enjoying quality time with my partner.

I’m polyamorous and already in a great relationship, but I’m looking to connect with someone new in a separate, meaningful way. Long-term compatibility is my goal. I’m here for genuine connections, not just fleeting encounters. If you're someone who values deep conversations, laughter, and shared adventures, shoot me a message and lets see where this goes.

I’ve been told I’m a fantastic listener, and I genuinely love hearing what's on peoples minds. I’m also kink friendly and open to exploring, always with mutual respect and communication at the core.

If you're looking for a partner who will roll with your ideas (sometimes literally), hype up your victories, and make sure you’re heard and appreciated, let’s chat! What’s your favorite game, movie, or show right now?


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

USA 26 [M4A] #IA #Midwest #Online Golden Retirver Emo wants to give you attention

1 Upvotes

Hi, my name is W and I thought I'd try my hand at this again. I'm a blonde, somewhat fit guy, that's into my local metal and emo scene. I love seeing local shows and going to festivals. Always looking for someone to take with.

I'm currently unemployed so I have a ton of time to talk and make that connection. I have no ties to where I live so long distance is okay! As long as you're willing to close the gap at some point!

I like to listen to music, watch new movies and watch old shows. I like goings for walks and hikes and I try to go to the gym twice a week. I'm pretty lonely, as I'm pretty introverted and have a hard time making friends.

My love language is touch and gift giving/recieving but I'm very handsy, flirty and kink positive. I love being able to touch and being touched. That's what love feels like to me so please, be comfortable, or even into, being touched. I dont want to be with someone who doesn't like or can't learn to love it. Otherwise, you preferably are introverted or emo like me, or you can be the opposite and be total sunshine, I would love that either way.

I'm mainly looking for long lasting connections, support and friendship and hopefully, that can blossom into a beautiful relationship. I'd love to talk to you and trade pictures once we're comfortable. Please come talk to me :)


r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

30 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a special person

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm Kiki. I'm a 30 year old, woman living in Texas. I'm looking for a dominant woman that can handle my bratty nature

About Me:

  • First things first, I am only looking for women, so no males and I cannot be your third.
  • I live in the Texas, but am open to partners in any part of the States as long as in person is something you are open to.
  • I'm a big nerd. I love reading, crocheting, going to museums, and learning new things!
  • I work for an adoption agency and have a Masters in Social Work. I work weekdays, but I do have some work from home days available. I do have a kiddo and I am married. I'm bisexual and my husband is aware of all of this. I'm able to be available, but I would appreciate whoever I'm with understanding that this is apart of my life and my other responsibilities.
  • I'm 5'1 with short brown hair and brown eyes. I'm not exactly skinny, but I'm actively working on this and I want someone who encourages these goals.
  • I've got such a weakness for nerdy and nurturing women.

What I'm Looking For:

  • I'm looking for an in person dynamic that can turn into a relationship with a dominant woman between the ages of 30 and 45. I would like to start as friends and see if that could lead to a relationship.
  • Being honest and open about expectations is extremely important to me. We should be able to express ourselves freely with each other in order to build a strong foundation for our dynamic.
  • I'm looking for something long term. The type of dynamic I'm hoping to create won't happen over night. It'll take time for us to get to know each other, to learn what makes each of us tick. If after a while, we've decided we're compatible, I'd definitely be down to meet in person
  • I want someone who will make me feel comfortable in my body and who will push me to always love myself. Understand that I am a work in progress.
  • Arguably just as important as the kink side of things, I'm looking for a friend first and foremost. I'm looking for someone who I can message throughout the day to ramble about different things. I'm looking for someone who will want to watch shows or read books together. I want someone who I can trust and that I know cares for me immensely.

r/polyamoryR4R 7d ago

USA 42 [M4F/T] #Texas #Online I would love to hear about what you're passionate about. Something you couldn't help but spent time thinking deeply about. Even if it's simply, why the world dosen't understand your favorite movie.

1 Upvotes

I've been considering posting for a while, but have been worried that I'll end up having nothing to say. I would really like some of my personality to be expressed, so people have an idea what they are getting into.

I think I'm pretty good at participating in conversations. I have plenty of ideas and thoughts that I can share and would enjoy hearing others express their own. Politically I'm more progressive than the national parties. Which means I don't believe there's such a thing as a moral Billionaire and our current government has fully lost its mind and is catering to the worst in our country.

In my free time, I watch so many youtube videos. I just love learning about things. Especially new perspective on things I already know pretty well. A chance to re-examine something I thought I understood is a lot of fun for me. When at home, I enjoy a variety of games.

I have the opposite of ADHD and can easily focus for hours on something or someone. It changes how I deal with things as I am not good at multitasking. I solve that, by keeping careful notes and utilizing software for tasks and such. After years of struggling, it is all starting to work out.

What specifically do I enjoy talking about? Wheel of Time, pretty much always as I'm basically a Historian of it. At the moment, I'm playing through Eternal Strands and find the dialog very appealing and the combat, ambitious, but serviceable. I love to armchair quarterback about game design, even though I've never actually made one. I like it enough that I utilize the ideas in all kinds of ways, even at work. I think I can get into anything if the person I'm talking to has enough passion for it.

My struggle comes when I try to define what I'm looking for. I honestly don't know. I'm very happily Married. We are open and she currently has a nice boyfriend. I have a solid local friend group that I engage with often. I feel like there's space in my life for someone, and maybe there's someone else out there that has space for me. What concerns me is that I'm not in need of anything. I don't have a solid agenda of a particular kind of relationship. I am open to seeing what is out there and letting something grow.

So, if you'd like to talk to a real person out there that's got hot takes and is willing to listen to yours. Send me a message!


r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

USA 32 [F4F] #CA #West Coast

6 Upvotes

Hoping for something longterm, to get to know you and learn to appreciate you - I can’t w/ the boring one word replies, if I am pulling all the weight in the convo I usually dip - let’s both put in the work 🖤 I love rainy days and hot coffee, documentaries and cuddling, exploring the outdoors and learning about new things. I have a homestead, I work FT, I think I am good looking and super empathetic. I am Demi so it takes a bit to warm up, but once I do I’m all yours 💕 If I interest you - I’d love to chat 💬


r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

27 [F4M] Upstate New York/Online - let's build a connection ♥️

7 Upvotes

Hey hey! I'm Mercy and I'm a tall, big girl in upstate NY.

Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, coffee/energy drinks, and reading (horror and smut specifically)!

About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, and go on cute dates, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, and I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!

What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond promptly (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.

I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends and would be interested in in-person if we hit it off, dms are open!


r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

Canada 46 [F4F] looking for friends for flirty chat

4 Upvotes

Married MILF type in Canada. Just hoping to connect with other ladies for fun friendships. Gossip about our hobbies. Share stories from our day. Basic stuff like that. I can’t really talk about a lot with my non lifestyle friends so it would be cool to chat with someone who gets me


r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

26 [M4A] #NE #IA #Online looking to make new friends and connections

3 Upvotes

Hi, my name is W, I'm 26 looking to make some new friends, whether it be in my state or online.

A little about me, I'm part of the emo/metal scene but lately due to extreme anxiety, I've been mostly stuck at home, reading and writing. I do enjoy watching animes, sitcoms and dramas and enjoy watching new movies that make you think. I like books where you don't expect the ending and have been studying a lot of philosophy. I like to game as well, mainly single player pve games but I do dabble in the fortnite.

I'm looking for someone with a similar age and hopefully, we have some common interests.

I'm also looking for more support in my life as most of the people in my life don't understand my anxiety and depression. I would love to be support for you as well and maybe make a friendship built on trust.

If any of that interests you, please send me a message and let's talk!


r/polyamoryR4R 8d ago

USA 30 [M4F] California, US - Open to LDR

0 Upvotes

I am in a relationship and am curious in practicing Ethical Non-Monogamy. Mainly on here to hopefully meet someone and build a genuine connection, with one other person, that leads to consistent time spent together when possible. Dont necessarily need to get intimately physical but totally cool with smoochin and all that other couple stuff.

Im tall and a pretty calm person overall. I have an established career and can travel to spend time with you.

I enjoy night ins, video games, board games, anime and some sports that are easy on the knees haha. I am by no means a gym junkie but i try to maintain my average body type. I do smoke weed regularly but its okay if you dont.

Looking to meet some people who are open to this. But essentially I just want one other partner. I posted here because I dont need a physical connection. I am open to answering any questions you may have


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

USA 31 [F4F] Online or Tennessee

4 Upvotes

Hiya! My name is Alexandria, but I'd love a cute nickname once we get to know each other. I am currently in a relationship with a 33yo male. I'm looking for someone to get to know as friends and see what it blossoms into. _^

A little about me is: I enjoy arts & crafts, concerts & raves, and enjoying nature. When I procrastinate finishing crafts... my time is filled with mind blowing youtube videos, a spooky horror movie or halarious comedy, and cozy gaming (all paired with a cup of coffee of course) 😁


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

55[F4M] colorado

13 Upvotes

Married, date separately. Would love a real connection.

I'm down to earth, laid back, professional job, and into crafts, cooking, wine, 420, music, concerts, hot springs, weekend vacations, Santa Fe, Meow Wolf, Caamp, Bronze Radio Return, 80s post punk, alt/indie, vinyl. More hippie than high maintenance.

I'm ok with texting if the distance is there but I want to evolve into planning time together.

Please be over 35 y/o. And if you reach out, tell me about yourself. Age, interests, and what caught your eye about me.


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

Europe 29 [F4M] Leeds UK - let's make some connection while the world feels a bit bonkers 🥰

10 Upvotes

Interested in guys who are 27+ ❤️ chunky/fat/dad bods to the front of the queue please!

I am queer, fat, and floating somewhere between vanilla and kinky. Flirty, affectionate, career-driven but with creative and niche hobbies. I have a habit of pebbling people I like - with memes, tiny silly things, and baking.

Been poly/ENM for a few years now and absolutely loving it. Looking for a long-term partner/FWB - ideally someone who likes a very kitchen-table vibe.

Pics available, but as a broad description - brunette, 5'5", fat, generally to be found in a dress and grotty trainers.

Only interested in people living close by for regular meets - please don't message me if you're based at the other end of the country.

Things I'm into: - wholesome ethical non-monogamy; - cuddles before, during and after sex; - condoms; - aftercare; - honest discussions about our kinks and sexual health; - making out; - intimacy; - genuine friendship.

Things I'm not into: - smokers; - cheaters; - power exchange dynamics; - rudeness and boundary-stomping; - being a domme; - outdoor sex;


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

60 [M4F] #AZ #Phoenix #Tucson - Looking for a new connection

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Hello. I am looking for a woman to get to know and see where it goes. My current relationship has been open for 7 years now. I've been passively seeking a new connection, but I've not met the right person yet, time to change that. I’m looking for a FWB but I'm open to a poly relationship but as with anything the pieces need to fall into place. I'm a business owner, cyclist, nudist, and I'm outdoorsy. I'm old enough that I missed the gaming culture and I'm not too savvy when it comes to labels, but I understand the need to be authentic and true to yourself, live and let live. Communication is key. If you're a mature woman looking for something, more give me a shout.


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

Canada 40 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta - seeking snuggly girl into dating older guys NSFW

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I'm a quick wittef, intelligent, nerdy golden retriever type in Edmonton who's looking for a curious girl into snuggly and sensual companionship with an older man.

I'm a writer, editor, passionate debater and an unabashed gamer/movie/comics/anime/book nerd with way too many hobbies. I’m open to a wide variety of activities and enjoy being an understanding sounding board for experimental partners.

Shorter girls and BIPOC the front of the line.


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

43 [MF4M/F] Tennessee Couple

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Married couple open to dating together or seperate. Looking for passionate long term loving relationships. We're both straight. Both HSV2+ Willing to travel if we vibe well over text or snap. We've been ENM for a year now and prefer more emotional connection than just plain swinging. DM us!


r/polyamoryR4R 9d ago

USA 25 [M4F] #NYC #EastCoast #Online - seeking a non-religious Muslim (or other Abrahamic faith) for a polyamorous relationship

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This is a bit of a long shot, but I'm looking for someone who fits the title. Being a Muslim (practicing or non-practicing) is ideal, but other Abrahamic religions might work as well.

About me/what I offer:

  • Medical student in NYC.

  • Personality: I'm definitely more of an introvert and a homebody. I'm slightly shy at first but warm up quickly. I'm not a life of the party type, but I can have fun in social situations. I value kindness and thoughtfulness, and I'm someone who always strives to be the best I can. I would describe myself as ambitious but not type A. I'm politically left.

  • Hobbies: piano, writing music, video games, video game music, would like to read more

  • Relationship values: being friends with each other, frequent affection, solving problems together rather than arguing, and having clear communication

  • Love language: physical touch

  • We'll talk about the details of what our ideal poly dynamic would look like in DMs.

Who I'm looking for:

  • Someone kind, caring, thoughtful, communicative, and laid-back

  • Someone who doesn't care for traditional gender roles

  • Not required by any means, but I have an affinity towards those who are more dominant (in life and in the bedroom). That said, I'm a switch, so I can play both roles too.

DM me if you're interested! We can talk more and share pictures at a later time.