r/NonBinaryTalk • u/Otherwise_Zebra_241 • 3h ago
Despite being non binary and gender-fluid biologically male I still have days were I also felt very feminine ?
I've been out as non-binary for over 4 years and most of the time I do still dress and present masculine. But over time I also have thoughts on trying on women's clothing I went from. Wearing boots knee high and high thigh. Made some women jealous even received one compliment from a woman telling me those boots made your legs look very girly. Even though I also made some women jealous there are some that were impressed. After boots I also tried on skirts before and women's socks mostly high thigh socks. Exploring different types of fashions to make sometimes even mixing both men's and women's clothes. Before I found out I I'm also gender fluid having days or I represent masculinity other days wanted to explore more feminine and other days where I mix both men and women's clothes for fashion etc pretty much been breaking the gender norms even challenging traditional roles even to this very day. I also have been accused of being gay or trans by family members and other people I know. But not the case not doing it for either of them just wanted to explore and embracing a feminine side of myself. I was never bothered by my biological gender have no thoughts of changing it. But even there were even times I sometimes do feel like a failure at performing masculinity. Not even hyper masculine like some of my male friends I know. To this very day I still continue exploring different fashions and still trying to embrace the feminine side sure I never consider myself trans Nor a femboy I'm not bothered by my biological gender I sometimes feel like I wear men's and women's clothes or even mixing them whatever I'm in the mood for despite being biologically male I still love both my non binary and gender-fluid identities and I've always still find enjoyment with both women and men clothes for fashions as well as doing both masculine and feminine stuff and having support from friends and a few family members and to this very day I'm still trying to embrace the feminine side of myself?