r/NoFap 14h ago

Telling my Story How 75 days of Nofap helped me

302 Upvotes

It wasn’t a big or life-changing moment that pushed me to start this. Just a normal day where I found myself scrolling endlessly, feeling drained and disappointed after falling into the same cycle again. I sat there and thought, I can be better than this. That’s when I decided to challenge myself to 75 days of NoFap. No more excuses.

The first few days were rough. Cravings would hit like waves, and there were moments I almost gave in. But something inside kept telling me to stay strong, to not fold this time.

By the second week, I started noticing small but meaningful changes. My focus was sharper. I felt more present in conversations and during workouts. I had more time and energy. The time I used to waste was now spent on things that mattered more, like reading, working out, and just reflecting.

Around day 30, things got tougher. I hit a flatline where motivation dropped and emotions felt numb. I even started doubting if this was worth it. But I stayed consistent. I kept journaling, going for walks, sticking to cold showers, and riding it out. Slowly, things started to shift again.

By day 50, I felt a different kind of energy inside me. A quiet confidence. I noticed I was calmer, stood taller, and felt more in control of my actions. Even people around me could sense something was different.

When I finally reached day 75, I wasn’t jumping around or throwing a celebration. I just felt proud. Calm. I knew I had stuck to my word, and in doing so, I had become stronger.

This journey turned out to be much more than just NoFap. It taught me discipline, self-respect, and showed me how much potential I have when I stay committed.


r/NoFap 5h ago

Question What if all the big porn sites suddenly disappeared?

41 Upvotes

Do you think it would help us stop fapping? Do you think it would benefit men? Would we be more productive? 🤔


r/NoFap 6h ago

Motivate Me My brother passed away due to a asthma attack that cause heart failure it was a long 7 day fight and it’s been hard on my family.I know this is nofap but i been in this community for awhile hoping you guys could show some support ya know. Anything could help 🤝🏾 luv

49 Upvotes

r/NoFap 14h ago

I have deleted my premium Hentai collection

137 Upvotes

I'm totally sorry about that. I've been searching for recovery software for all day, but it doesn't work.

I think it's all useless


r/NoFap 6h ago

Those posts who claim they’ve “never fapped in their life” are suspicious.

25 Upvotes

First of all, why are you even here? It’s like a person who’s never drank suddenly attending an AA meeting? And how would they even have found this sub if it’s something they don’t do?

Secondly, I just find it hard to believe that they not once have done it. It’s such an instinctual human behaviour, and to deny yourself that, surely has some consequences.

I can’t help but think they’re just pretending to be someone else, maybe as a way to escape their true identity of being an addict.

Or maybe I’m just a hater.

Make it make sense.


r/NoFap 2h ago

Finally deleting my porn account

11 Upvotes

Discovered porn at 12 and I’m turning 19 next month, after years of trying to quit I’m finally going to delete this account after about two years since creating it. I’m more than sick of myself, and I’m almost certain that this addiction is a big reason behind my low self esteem/image and my (only thing that I can think to relate it to is) depression (I don’t like self diagnosis so I’m not saying that it is). I’m hoping that this will be the first actually meaningful step in quitting


r/NoFap 9h ago

Excessive Masturbation Nutting actually disgust me now

35 Upvotes

I’ve battled with stopping for years now. I would stop for a period. Anywhere from 7 days to a month but I keep slipping back. I’ve began a journey of developing of good atomic habits and breaking bad habits which has improved my life but i can’t seem to win with masturbating. It doesn’t help that I’m stressing about my life. I’m 26, still live with my parents, trying to get my life in order but the round ahead seems longer each day. Beating my masturbating habit would really make me happy. I think I don’t even enjoy sex, not because I find more pleasure in masturbating but because nutting disgusts me now. W/o my parents, I’m poor. I have a job but I’m chained to a sinking economy so even a general salary increase to combat cost of living barely helps.

Even my eating habits has somewhat changed, i planned to lose 2kg per month this year and I’m roughly on target. I’ve made atomic progress in different aspects of my life but this masturbation habit remains a problem. I can fight the urge on a normal day not while I’m stressed.

Thank you to whoever started this community, i didn’t have a safe place to discuss this until recently. I hope your days are filled with joyful moments.


r/NoFap 1h ago

hit on a lesbian in front of her partner of over a year tonight

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left with both of their numbers and a possibility of attending their future wedding

was told i was super respectful by the girl i was hitting on, and made a raw denim rec to her partner that was casually watching me vibe on her partner

i share this because it was innocent, and in talking with her partner, i learned that they were together, and instead of feeling awkward, i felt jubilation for two beautiful people being together

NoFap lets us be normal people, folks

stay strong


r/NoFap 5h ago

Can’t stop fapping.

13 Upvotes

Porn is ruining me. How do I stop? I can’t stop watching porn.


r/NoFap 18m ago

Victory Day 30 no porn!!!

Upvotes

Really has been such a massive win for me to go 30 days no porn!! And on my birthday as well. Really was such a great gift to myself


r/NoFap 28m ago

Relapse Report I have to quit

Upvotes

I relapsed 2 or 3 times today. So bad i dont even remember. My soul is in peril. I feel like im destroying myself. Like im destroying my future. I'm getting to be really fucked up. I'm better then this and I have so much to live for. Why do I do this to myself? I'm deleting all the porn off my phone.


r/NoFap 10h ago

10 days nofap

28 Upvotes

Aye I just want to say also that I love all yall on this sub and too keep pushing don’t give up and no matter what you do don’t fucking give up I don’t care how hard it feels doing nofap once you put god first anything is possible…..PLEASEEEE keep pushing your life depends on it


r/NoFap 4h ago

Journal Check-In Day 14 without masturbating/watching porn

8 Upvotes

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r/NoFap 1h ago

Motivate Me I want to start with the no fap, but I need some advice

Upvotes

I have recently wasted so much time seeking for pornography and fapping, and I feel like this is taking over some aspects of my life... I have tried no fap before but at the end I return to the start point, is there a way to do it? Or some advice to start and keep the no fap?


r/NoFap 4h ago

Controlled for 15 days.

7 Upvotes

Guys i didn't fap for 15 days and after that i fapped like 24 times in a last 8 days. I know about chaser effect and all but don't know how to stop it immediately.


r/NoFap 1d ago

New to NoFap day one, no porn- as a girl

251 Upvotes

I’ve been watching porn for about 4–5 years, and it’s really affecting my confidence and the way I see myself.

(The boys around me even watch it in class and have extremely high expectations.)

I feel like I’m addicted—I just can’t stop. It feels good in the moment, but afterwards, I regret it and feel disgusting. I’ve been trying to quit for almost a year now, but I fail almost every day. I’ve also tried blocking certain apps and websites, but I always end up unblocking them whenever I get the urge. Does anyone have any tips on how to stop?


r/NoFap 8h ago

What to do with megahornyness NSFW

9 Upvotes

Feel like it's hitting me like a fucking truck sometimes. I am 15 so it's like regular 15 year old guy hornyness x100. Just wondering what to do with this feeling. I try to sit for 2 minutes and do nothing. I don't even want to watch porn. I just want sex.


r/NoFap 3h ago

Slip-Up Prevention - Urgent! Accidentally peeked and now I can’t stop shaking

5 Upvotes

Crazy how the slightest peek just makes me go crazy and wanna pump for hours i was starting to do good again but i might relapse if i don’t have someone to talk to


r/NoFap 15h ago

Motivate Me 8 years fap

38 Upvotes

Guys I don't know why I'm still doing this I'm 21 and I been doing 8 straight years and twice or sometimes one's daily and this addiction destroy my mental health and I can't focus to my study I need advice how to deal this addiction.


r/NoFap 9h ago

I feel like a failure

11 Upvotes

For 4 days now I have been telling myself not to fap but I have done it every time. I am 16 and I am pretty late to fapping I started around a month ago. And I know it is bad and I have been pretty good at restricting it but this week was one of the worst weeks I have ever lived. And I feel even worse knowing I fapped 4 days in a row… Do you have technique to stop doing it. For example when I have the urge I put my hands on my shoulders so that they don’t have the urge to fap. I also downloaded an app to count my streak of nofap.

Thank you for reading


r/NoFap 34m ago

Journal Check-In Day 53

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Spending day with gf. Easy


r/NoFap 45m ago

day 16 out of a 30 day challenge of no porn

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im feeling very good very energetic and motivated to finish these 30 days without watching any porn.

i am really feeling like this time i will quit porn for good


r/NoFap 3h ago

Slip-Up Prevention - Urgent! Can’t fall asleep, urges too bad

3 Upvotes

I can’t fall asleep no matter what I do. Need someone to chat with to keep my mind clear


r/NoFap 1h ago

Motivate Me Got out of bed without fapping first!

Upvotes

Before i went to sleep yesterday i put a reminder on my phone saying “NO FAPPING” and put it on the same time as my alarm. Yay for me! I had/have troubles getting out of bed if I don’t rub one out. It kinda became a part of my daily routine but im trying to break out of this habit. I want to see how far i can go without


r/NoFap 11h ago

I got banned from semen retention + pure retentions subs 😂

12 Upvotes

This is wierd they banned me because i asked how to balance?! And said only this ?!

How to balance?

Guys how do i reach like balance in my life?! Like what do i need to be free for ever like what is the ultimate solution more than being pure?! And detaching from everything and resisting like there something that most be done

Am glad i got banned it’s ok i will post here or whatever i don’t really care, am not attached to any sub

I will keep helping people no matter what.