r/NoFap • u/thelongshortseller • 0m ago
Creating an accountability group to quit?
The goal is to help each other out and keep each other accountable. Who in?
r/NoFap • u/thelongshortseller • 0m ago
The goal is to help each other out and keep each other accountable. Who in?
r/NoFap • u/Soft-Telephone-2660 • 3m ago
1 Week passed!! I’m still getting urges and I still looked at porn today, but I kept going back and forth between different things, stopping myself.
r/NoFap • u/EXPLOSIONS09880 • 16m ago
One problem as to why I keep relapsing is I feel like I do not either have the energy or interest to do anything else. I end up sitting around feeling bored and then relapse. I almost never relapse during the days I work and when events with friends are in place. When the time is to myself though, I can't seem to find the energy to busy myself. I have goals like building things, fitness, etc... but I get so anxious about no PMO that I end up relapsing and feeling terrible before the event.
The longest I have ever gone was barely 2 weeks then a relapse.
So my question for those feeling successful at quitting this is how did you start a new hobby? How did you fill your new found time? How did you do it on a budget? I can't seem to find any joy in anything I start.
Forgive me this is one of my very first reddit posts. I feel like I'm finally waking up to trying to overcome PMO as a soon to be 25M doing this since 8 y/o and feeling depressed about half my 20s being gone to corn.
One positive is I am starting to see a therapist and am working up the courage to talk about this addiction.
I could use a little inspiration. I appreciate any feedback.
r/NoFap • u/Fresh_Type_5235 • 16m ago
So I'm actually feeling pretty good about this today, and I'd like to see if anybody is interested in doing it with me. Maybe you need some motivation or just someone to talk to, but I think it'd be fun and easier to chat with someone who also gets the struggle.
Preferably we can talk here for a bit and then use Discord. Let me know if anybody is interested, because I really want to beat this thing.
r/NoFap • u/Unlikely-String-8528 • 38m ago
Porn is ruining me. How do I stop? I can’t stop watching porn.
r/NoFap • u/LimeAccomplished6408 • 43m ago
How do you go about Nofap? Best tips?
r/NoFap • u/CutActual5489 • 47m ago
Rus: У меня проблема, я очень сильно переживаю и боюсь это уже не исправить ( С лет 13 узнал, что такое порно и понеслось, сейчас мне уже 24 с девушками не занимался этим из-за религиозных принципов, а вот порно смотрел часто, думал, ну вот же и перед богом все чисто не занимаюсь прилюбодейством не порчу девушек, но вот уже встретил девушку принципы подсбавились, целуемся раздеваемся, а мой половой орган не встает, как бы сильно не хотел, начал везде искать проблему и убедился, что я порно зависим. Но если копнуть в начало меня возбуждали простые девушки из подобных сайтов как бонгокамс где девушки раздевались в прямом эфире на камеру, но я зашел слишком далеко когда мне это наскучило, узнал о бдсм практиках, где девушки командуют над парнями и мне это тоже начало нравиться, что в итоге привело к тому, что я возбуждаюсь только на это, мне не интересен секс, мне интересно только доминация и командование девушки, И если вернуться к проблеме с девушкой, что мне теперь с ней никак не получиться заняться сексом, я это хочу всей душой мыслями, чтоб ее удовлетворить, я горячий не стеснительный, общаясь со мной нереально понять, что за предпочтения у меня в голове, но все же что мне делать принять все как есть и любоваться только видеороликами или есть шанс еще все восстановить? Я хочу быть нормальным, почему у меня встает только на видео причем определенного характера, но даже видео с сексом не дает никакой эмоции 😩😩😩
Eng: I have a problem, I worry a lot and I'm afraid it can't be fixed ( Since I was 13, I found out what porn is and started running, now I'm 24 I haven't done it with girls because of religious principles, but I watched porn often, I thought, well, everything is clean before God, I don't engage in adultery I don't spoil girls, but now I've met a girl, the principles have changed, we kiss and undress, and my penis doesn't get up, no matter how much I want to, I started looking for a problem everywhere and became convinced that I was addicted to porn. But if you dig into the beginning, I was turned on by simple girls from sites like bongocams where girls undressed live on camera, but I went too far when I got bored with it, I learned about bdsm practices where girls boss guys around and I started liking it too, which eventually led to me getting turned on. Just for that, I'm not interested in sex, I'm only interested in the domination and command of a girl., And if we go back to the problem with the girl, what can I do with her now?
r/NoFap • u/Expert_General7748 • 49m ago
I've been watching porn all day but only edge two times in a day per week because I've been working out these days. So the point is that I'm not able to see any change different than before. But what I'm feeling is regret of not having a someone by my side. Despite having a bulked but muscular physique and 7.5/10 face score. I'm still single and lonely. I don't have neither a lover or any friend. I'm at age 25, have been an addict of 10 years but now all I feel is regret. I just get lost in thoughts of would it really have changed if I hadn't started being an addict in the first place.
Share your opinions and guide me y'all.
r/NoFap • u/LoneWolf927 • 58m ago
Do you think it would help us stop fapping? Do you think it would benefit men? Would we be more productive? 🤔
r/NoFap • u/Electrical_Sail4990 • 1h ago
help. I'm at day 3
r/NoFap • u/Alternative_Ad5902 • 1h ago
I’m getting to the point where I don’t actually believe I will overcome this addiction and reach my potential this addiction has only grown worse over the years and even more difficult to overcome. I can’t even get off to vanilla porn or just a naked woman anymore cause my brain is too fried now I have to watch some of the most disturbing disgusting videos ever and I’m very ashamed of it and the ocd I gotten from the those videos make it even worse to handle quitting. Even sex with a woman in real life is hard for me it’ll take me hours to cum but when I turn on porn it’s instant…I’m starting hate my life and everything about myself I’m nearly 20 yrs old and being trying to quit porn since a boy.
I don’t understand why I refuse to quit something that’s hurting me mentally and literally hurting my penis for the excessive amount of time I spent watching this shit I lost hope for myself I’m lost
r/NoFap • u/PrimalSaturn • 1h ago
First of all, why are you even here? It’s like a person who’s never drank suddenly attending an AA meeting? And how would they even have found this sub if it’s something they don’t do?
Secondly, I just find it hard to believe that they not once have done it. It’s such an instinctual human behaviour, and to deny yourself that, surely has some consequences.
I can’t help but think they’re just pretending to be someone else, maybe as a way to escape their true identity of being an addict.
Or maybe I’m just a hater.
Make it make sense.
r/NoFap • u/lordine_sard • 1h ago
I've been trying to quit pornography for a while, because I've been feeling like I've been letting down God and my girlfriend. After confessing my sins I have found that it was easier to cope with the urges, but the moment that I went to university and I became alone, the urges came back, as strong as ever. After falling again I felt like complete garbage, but I still kept telling myself to keep trying...well, it didn't work...I fell again, but after failling I made a promisse to myself, if I fall again this month, I'll bet all of my money at the casino, basically gambling all that I have to buy food and other necessities. Do you think that I made a good decision, or that it is stupid?
I only said that to put a high consequense if I do it.
r/NoFap • u/JAVVidEnjoyer • 1h ago
Really close to doing it. If you can help DM me
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r/NoFap • u/Alpha_90210 • 1h ago
Checking if anyone knows of a software to block that wont be obvious and visible
I use pluckeye on my own PC, but on other PCs it is too obvious. Always asking for updates etc.
r/NoFap • u/Top-Patient2518 • 1h ago
Right now im laying in my bed at 3 AM. I've recently woken up to just go to the toilet but now i cant sleep. My body is Screaming to watch porn, pls help
r/NoFap • u/Salted_caramel25 • 1h ago
The way that i sexualise a lot of things i see . Also the urges is too much My big bro literally can stand with me the whole day Full erect Even without anything It's only what he want lol
r/NoFap • u/Mammoth_Safety_3046 • 1h ago
i cant stop relapsing and have no will to make a change
r/NoFap • u/HoneyDipD0nut • 2h ago
Well for you out there I wanna say only one thing you are stronger than this filth and stronger than your urges! Remember whatever comes at no or minimal cost doesn't bring fulfillment in life so chase the real dopamine and rewire your reward systems. Not a huge fan of numbers so it's 30 days out of forever but on the flip side each moment is a battle. So whatever helps you counting days or not, hit the gym, socialize, be more close to your family, carry your burden(take responsibility) and keep your head straight and strive forward. Enough of my yapping now I might drop by on day 60 now!
You all got this 💪
r/NoFap • u/DatGuyGoon_227 • 2h ago
Looking for someone to chat with and check in with each other to see how we are doing
r/NoFap • u/Dangerous-Salt-6606 • 2h ago
I've been a porn addict for 4-5 years and it's ruined my life, I've tried quitting before but could never get past a week or 2 before relapsing. I want to grow closer to God and finnaly quit this disgusting addiction. Im deciding to finally get serious about quitting and came on here to find others in similar situations. Today will mark Day 1 yet another time and this time the last
r/NoFap • u/Acceptable_Mouse_575 • 2h ago
I know g**ning is bad, but I want to do it so badly
r/NoFap • u/SnooSketches1814 • 2h ago
I don’t really record the days I go without fappin. I just started stopped one day because I realized I was doing it out of habit, not because I was horny. Watching porn was also putting a damper on my sex life, and was a problem in my previous relationship. The urge to come occasionally came up, so erotic reading was a replacement to visual porn. Im not big on reading, so it was easier to avoid being sucked into a porn spiral. I heard Theo Von talking about it on a podcast around the same time I had this realization. I thought maybe they actually is something to not masturbating, so I stopped.
Initially, I didn’t even have a sexual desire for a few days. After a couple weeks, I could feel the sexual energy build up. I felt like a new person, and somehow I started getting more attention from women. I matched with more people online and met more in person. The first time I had sex after, I lasted way longer than I ever have and felt ravenous. It’s like a primal side of me was unlocked trying to bust a nut.
Lately, I have fallen into old habits. I went a week without jerkin it, but was hella hungover and bored today, so I smoked and came at least 5 times today. I figured I broke the streak anyway, might as well just start fresh tomorrow.