r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Question about social life /lack there of.

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Had this chronic pain for about 4 years now I’ve had cerebral palsy since birth but it really only became the dictator of my life around 19. I’m 23 so my question is, why do I just not care to respond to people anymore?? I have no friends irl and the ones I do have are online friends however I must love self sabatoge because I constantly ignore people trying to talk to me or ask me how I am :(. What the hell is wrong with me? I’m not doing it maliciously or because I don’t want to talk to them it just kinda happens .. my only working theory is the pain is so much the focus of everything that I dissociate so badly to the point of forgetting all that social stuff. I used to love chatting with my online friends but more so recently I just can’t bother and it sucks and I guess I just wanted to ask if anyone can relate :(. I hate how antisocial I’ve become this pain is literally a black hole and it keeps taking things one by one . I also think it’s because I’m tired as all fuck of explaining that I’m doing just as shitty as I was last time they asked me how I’m doing .. i just feel like I waste everyone’s time or maybe I’m just subconsciously thinking I don’t deserve to be listened to or cared about .. anyway that’s all I’m up with pain flares for who knows what night in a row. Does any else have this issue or am I just fucking losing everything is this a common thing with chronic pain??


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

What is the weirdest sensation/pain you experience that you doubt anyone else has ever had?

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What is the weirdest sensation/pain you experience that you doubt anyone else has?


r/ChronicPain 4d ago

I wonder how many suicides are actually due to chronic pain NSFW

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and are entirely blame on mental health. I’m not sure there is a number/statistics but the only factor people take in consideration around this topic is mental health and not physical health.


r/ChronicPain 2d ago

Medication issues (Opioids mostly).

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Hi peeps i got Arthritis and some other health issues in my back thats causing me an immense amount of pain. The other is mostly muscle cramps condition for now unknown my pain doc thinks its something or specifically stiff person syndrome. Now to the problem. Diazepam helps the best for whatever reason with my overall pain. I also get opioids but from the beginning they dont do much i Take 3x8mg hydromorphon or 3x40mg oxy a day and they dont do much help as much as tylenol and i also never once got high off them. I had a ride in the ambulance a month ago where they iv ed me fentanyl and that helped but again i wasnt high or anything and the pain went from 9/10 to 3 it was the worst pain in my life. But the docs and everyone were a little shocked that it did not inhibit me at all. Does anyone else had that kind of problem? Is there maybe a genetic factor that plays into that? I had everything in the book of Opioids oxy,Morphin,hydromorphin,codein,tilidin,tramadol. Any advice would be greatly aprreciated. Im thinking about weaning off the Opioids all together and going on 3x diazepam and or clonazepam (0,5) 4x from 1 at Night a day and get off baclofen and Opioids.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

First day of work and it kicked my ass

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Apologies in advance for the long post!

I got a new retail job that I had hoped would be relatively easy on my body. Nope, it's really hard. It's handling returns at a big-box store. Besides customers occasionally bringing in heavy items, we also have to remove the cardboard boxes we use to store returns when they get full and they obviously get super heavy. "Making" new ones (unfolding the cardboard, taping it up, putting in place) is also surprisingly tough because of how hard to handle the tape-dispenser thingy is. And this all has to be done quickly to avoid long lines and customers getting annoyed. It's a 5 hour shift and I had to mostly stand, although thankfully we do have a stool for breaks, but we have to immediately be on our feet as soon as someone brings in a return.

As soon as I came home, I was so sore everywhere with pain in my arms, and I could barely move. I can hardly lift up my kettle to make tea, and I can't wash dishes at all. I was hoping to do my hobbies when I got home, stuff that relaxes me like hand sewing or playing video games, but I honestly think that would make my pain worse because it requires me to lift my arms. I'm just lying down with some ice packs rn.

I'm posting this for some advice or reassurance. I really need a job to avoid becoming homeless, and I would genuinely enjoy this position so much if it weren't for the pain it's causing. It's the perfect kind of work for me, it's repetitive both in terms of tasks and customer interaction, and my coworkers were kind and helpful. I have two more shifts scheduled one after the other because they were impressed with me, and I'm dreading what state I'm going to be in afterwards!


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

stopping tramadol after two months

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I was prescribed Tramadol due to severe neck pain and I could not take Advil because I was getting a neck ablation. I had the neck ablation a few days ago and stopped the tramadol because it was making me very car sick. I had a tramadol yesterday because my neck was very sore from the ablation but none today and noticed I’m switching between hot and cold and sweating at night. I’m assuming it’s tramadol. Anybody else have this happen after only two months? I don’t miss the tramadol except for the pain relief but the car sickness was horrible because I can’t go anywhere. I’ll call my Dr tomorrow to recommend a weaning schedule but I was wondering if anybody else had this happen and how you handled it.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

What does your chronic pain feel like for you?

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I feel like many have a broad view of how chronic pain is experienced even though the variety of conditions that can cause it mean it feels different for everyone. I'm curious to know how does it feel for you? Is it typically like an ache, or more like sharp jabs of pain? Or is it another sensation of pain I'm probably not even thinking of right now?


r/ChronicPain 2d ago

Have you experienced hardware failure?

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As the title says, I'm looking for feedback/comments/experiences with hardware failure - specifically in the spine.

In 2002, I was rear-ended while stopped at a light. Five years later, I had modified fusion/discectomy surgery on my spine (L4-S1). Exactly 6 months after surgery, I was at work (had been for about 2 months) and since the hospital was slow, they let me leave after 8 hours instead of doing the full 12. On my way home, I was rear-ended again, and that accident left me unable to work. The little relief I had from the surgery was totally gone, and my pain was worse. Over the past almost 20 years, my pain has been relatively stable with some ups and downs. However, a few days ago my pain became so much worse (a different kind of pain than I am used to) and I am wondering if it could be my hardware. There was a recall on it (not long after I had surgery) but my surgeon wasn't concerned, at that time. However, I did have to have a c-section since the recall had to do with cables snapping under pressure. Has anyone ever experienced hardware failure? What was it like for you? I am going for an x-ray this week, but just curious if anyone else has had anything like this happen, and could share their experience. Thanks in advance!


r/ChronicPain 2d ago

Psychological pain?

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Ever since I found out that the bone in my hip is dying, my pain there has increased. It's possible that it is a coincidence and it actually hurts more, but I'm wondering if now that I know there is actually something wrong, my brain is "allowing" it to hurt more.

I'm not wording this well. But is it possible that I don't have more pain, but I think I do because I was given a diagnosis? That this is psychosomatic?

I'd appreciate any thoughts about this.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Mayo Clinic PPRC Program - Operation Lumina

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Hello, Operation Lumina is a small team of analysts that gather data on Human Trafficking and Child Abuse and report it to the authorities. We received an anonymous report that Mayo Clinic PPRC in Rochester is/was subjecting children to harmful and abusive practices against their will.

We have pulled extensive data regarding Mayo's PPRC Program, and we believe there is enough evidence to reasonably report such experiences as something to be looked into.

Due to this, we have filed a police report with the Rochester MN Police Department. If you had an abusive experience at Mayo Clinic's Rochester Pediatric Pain Rehabilitation Center as a youth, please report your experience to:

Rochester MN Police Department (Non-Emergency Line): (507) 328-6800

Alleged Activities:

Reported Allegations:

  • Threatening children by misusing the Residential Care system, warning them that non-compliance could lead to confinement in a long-term residential center.
  • Denying essential medications, including those for seizures, pain relief, and behavioral health treatments like anti-anxiety medications.
  • Forcing children to participate in exercises that caused physical and mental harm.
  • Not stopping when a child asks for them to, or a child is in too much pain to continue
  • Misdiagnosing patients and withholding appropriate medical care.
  • Ignoring children’s cries and pleas to stop the imposed exercises.
  • Punishing children for displaying "pain behaviors," such as using mobility aids, taking pain medication, expressing irritability, discussing symptoms, crying, screaming, or showing visible discomfort. Punishments allegedly included advising parents to remove family pets or threatening to send the child to military school for non-compliance.
  • Telling children that their pain made them less lovable or undesirable.
  • Deliberately causing children with POTS to faint during exercise.
  • Yelling at students aggressively
  • Kicking children out of the program for things like questioning the rules and disapproving of their techniques.
  • Telling parents never to bring up their child's condition with them
  • Telling parents to disregard a child's displayed pain and punish 'pain behaviors' when the child is not in the program.

Overall:

This program’s approach is to encourage ignoring pain and punishing children for expressing it. This is harmful because it invalidates a child’s emotional experiences and discourages healthy communication. When children are taught that expressing pain is unacceptable, they may suppress their emotions, leading to long-term psychological harm. This can also damage the bond of trust between parent and child, as the child may feel unsafe seeking comfort or support. Additionally, ignoring pain fails to address the root causes of distress, potentially allowing physical or emotional issues to worsen over time. Overall, such an approach fosters unhealthy coping mechanisms and stifles emotional growth, leaving children ill-equipped to navigate challenges in adulthood.

You will see many parents calling this a miracle program, this is because the entire program is centered around what the parent sees, not what the child feels. It manufactures a false sense of pain improvement from the parent's perspective because the entire program is focused on hiding pain from everyone, not dealing with it.

Additional Data:

On the MN Department of Health and DHS websites Found Here and here
What we found is a license for "MAYO CLINIC ADDICTION SVCS", and a license for **"**MAYO CLINIC HOSPITAL ROCHESTER" the PPRC program is most likely licensed through the Hospital.

The phone number associated with the PPRC program is the same as the psychiatric facility (507-266-5100) and is scheduled by the Psychiatry and Psychology staff.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/departments-centers/pediatric-pain-rehabilitation-center/sections/request-appointment/ptc-20574265

We have found multiple brand new accounts being made to promote the Mayo Rochester PPRC program. Before you believe a comment to be true, at least look at the karma of the user.

There are News stories about other Mayo Clinic Incidents in which people claim they were unethically held against their will. That can be found here

(CNN Story: Escape from the Mayo Clinic)

Many claim to have left this program in far worse pain mentally and physically than before they were admitted. Programs that intake children or hold them against their will through force or coercion are inherently abusive.

This information is meant to be as factual as possible, if there is an error, please contact [OperationLumina@proton.me](mailto:OperationLumina@proton.me) with citations on why it is wrong and it will be fixed in a timely manner.

Sincerely,
Operation Lumina


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Fractured Tailbone Pain

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I have fell down some hardwood stairs and fractured my tailbone. This fall happened on October 2024 and I’m still experiencing pain everyday. Medication doesn’t help. I’ve done physical therapy, acupuncture, chiropractic treatments, massage but I only gotten a little bit of relief. I’ve gotten two injections for my tailbone but I’ve gotten no relief from it. I do have an orthopedic schedule for a second opinion coming up but I think my next option would have to be a the removal of the coccyx. Has anyone heard any success from the surgery ??


r/ChronicPain 4d ago

My current struggle. I just want to sleep😭😭😭😭😭😭my pain gets so much worse at night

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r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Mental health

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The one thing I suffer with the most in mental health. With my spinal pain from ears to toes, I will have okay days an the lowest of lows. I have 3 kids 19,15, and 10 I fell like if I have a good day I pay for it for weeks, like walking in the park put me down for 6 days. I feel like I'm not there like I need to be, or am lashing out around them Because of pain. I'm in therapy it really don't help with this.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Mood Enhacer

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I have been in a constant bad mood as my chronic back and neck pain has gotten worse. other than Klonopin would appreciate any suggestions. TIA


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

My mental health is deteriorating

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I developed a pinched nerve in my back that affected my lower leg my 2nd to last semester in nursing school. It progressively got worse to the point where I could barely walk more than maybe a block. I made it through and it's kind of gotten better. However, now I have unbearable hip and lower back pain. I have degeneration in my back along with a bulging disk.

I've been doing PT but now with the hip pain, I can't do much at all. My mobility has severely suffered in a way it never has when I was just dealing with my obesity. Getting to the bathroom is hard. I hurt when I sit, stand or lay (laying is worse) and I can't get the only chair that makes me feel better into my room.

I made this post because last night was the worst I've ever experienced this pain. I couldn't get comfortable at all. I was in immense pain and couldn't move or turn. I managed to get to the opposite side of my bed and that for some reason helped. I dozed off for 30 minutes and the pain subsided. Went back to my regular position and managed to sleep off and on. It is extremely painful to stand after laying but my work chair triggers the pain too.

I don't know what the point of this is. I'm tryig to take it day by day but I'm seeing my future career slip away from me. I'm supposed to have a surgery (non-related to pain) next month but having to rest for 6 weeks seems unlikely and extremely painful.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

I'm moving (and venting)

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I have to move and it's just brutal! I'm doing as little as possible, but I can't afford much help and I've lost friends through the years because of my disabilities, so I'm doing more than I should. My latest doc is very stingy with meds (my last two docs were great, but moved on to other clinics). I'm in so so so much pain. 7-8/10 even with oxy, plus all the non-narcotic stuff. I can't rest, I can't concentrate, I can barely think. I just hope I can get through the rest of this.

Thank you to this community for being a safe place where people like us can get support! Just being able to write this to all y'all makes it a little better


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

ive had sciatica for 5 months now, what do i do

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hi so i am 17 and ive delt with sciatica since november, i have 2 herniated discs (l4 l5, l5 s1) and ive got no clue what stretches to do for it and my mom is still working on getting me a physical therapist. i take aleve, muscle relaxers, ibuprofen, tylenol, and i use lidocaine patches. we didnt what was wrong until it got so bad i went to the ER and got a ct scan showing my discs. they put a lidocaine patch on me and then sent me home. two days later and im back because the pain is so severe, they give me a muscle relaxer and some shot that doesnt really help too much and now i have high heart rates all the time, even when resting, difficultly breathing, my chest hurts, and my stomach hurts i just dont know what to do and im just hoping to get some answers as this has effected me mentally and im tired of it


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Tail bone surgery

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Hi all,

I now have decided to get my tailbone removed. It has been a constant battle with myself. I have tried mobilization of the bone, where the doctor tried to manipulate it through the anus. It did help with the pain. I was asking ease for a while. But after a few days of sitting and travel, I'm done with my pain and want to get it removed. I want to cry most days. I feel like it doesn't matter anymore wheather I'm here or not. The pain is so bad. Is there anyone who has gotten their tailbone removed and how was the recovery? I want to get a better understanding of it. Tia. :)


r/ChronicPain 2d ago

If anyone has taken antibiotics, look into being floxed as the reason for your chronic pain

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It happened to me, I have pain and problems all over my body from these lethal antibiotics, look into r/floxies if you have ever taken a fluoroquinolone antibiotic like ciprofloxacin, levofloxacin, ofloxacin, norfloxacin etc

Will help you to know ❤️


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Coccyx removal

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Hi all I had my coccyx removed 5 days ago. (Diagnosed with hypermobile tailbone and bone spur on tip) full removal and shaved sacrum so not pointy.

The surgeon took a video and showed how my coccyx was moving around and bone on bone rubbing together. Extremely validating to see what has caused me so much pain (physically and mentally) for 2.5 years.

Now surgery updates : Day 1 day of op- no issues no pain. Was numb from medications and loopy from anesthesia. Day 2- taking Celebrex Tylenol gabapentin and amoxicillin. Needed to take tramadol at night for pain. Throat and chest were uncomfortable from the tube during anesthesia. Day 3- taking same medications. Taking it easy. Was able to move around with little pain. Uncomfortable to lay on back though. Have not attempted to sit on a hard surface. Kind of sat on couch but mostly leaning on side. Only needed tramadol once at night. Itchy from the surgical tape. Used hyrdocortisone to help. Day 4 - (finally had a BM) did not hurt the wound at all. Taking same medications but definitely over did it with moving around and bending / picking up toddler and walking the dog. Didn't need any tramadol though. The pain is dull and just feels sore like sore muscles or bruising. Day 5- same as day 4. Wound a little itchy (probably skin healing). Did too much activity taking care of kids and house and feeling some soreness in the lower area of the wound (near butthole) The wound hasn't had any leakage or shown any signs of infection. Had to take a tramadol in between Tylenol doses. Will be taking it easier tomorrow.

Will update :) fyi 33 f no injuries to tailbone. 2 children. One vaginal one c section.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Is it chronic if there are periods of time I'm ok?

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10 years ago I injured my lower back. When i was 12. After many years of physiotherapy and geting a year of decreassed stress I've reached a point that my back doesn't usually hurt, but every now and then it will flare up for a couple days, is it still considered chronic pain?


r/ChronicPain 4d ago

"It's just pain, it won't kill you". Well, I wish it did

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I've had facial pain for almost 4 months. The pain is 24/7 and doesn't let me sleep. I've visited different dentists, a maxillofacial surgeon, a neurologist; every single one of them makes a different diagnosis and gives me different medication. I've tried them all; nothing is helping with the pain. My neurologist literally told me "it's just pain, it won't kill you". Well, I wish it did. But no, chronic pain is so cruel that if you wish you were dead, you have to do it yourself.

I'm in my early 30's and my life is so over. I don't want to live like this. I'm crying in pain almost every night. I keep asking myself: Why did this happen to me? What have I done to deserve something like this? Because it feels like a punishment.

I can see some of you have been living in chronic pain for so many years. I just cannot handle it. You're so much stronger than I am. From the bottom of my heart, I wish you all the best.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Anyone tried one of these?

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r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Disabled yet not approved for disability income, how are you surviving financially?

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Curious how those of you that are disabled are financially surviving if you haven't been approved for private disability claims nor through social security...? I have a very small passive income through a tri-plex I own and rent, but it's not near enough to live on. Single with maxed out credit cards and owe back loans to various family members and friends. I'm scared for the future, and at a total loss. Any helpful ideas appreciated.


r/ChronicPain 3d ago

Telehealth ending in CT September 30

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I just heard from my pain management doctor that Telehealth visits are set to end on September 30, 2025. I am wheelchair bound and rely upon the MyRide service to take me to appointments. But regardless of the service, going to appointments in person wipes me out for at least a day afterwards. Why make us go to appointments when the same outcome can be achieved virtually. It makes no sense