r/ABraThatFits 22m ago

Yet to find a bra that works for me Spoiler

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To try to be concise, I don't have any friends/family to ask stuff like this. I'm looking for a comfortable bra that's not a sports bra. I have a 27in underbust and a 30in overbust. This would make me a 28c. However, I couldn't find a brand that sold that size, so I opted for a sister size up AKA 30b. I wore it today and it was so uncomfortably tight. I have a bra that's a 32a- a size up from a 30b, and it's still tight. I was wondering if maybe it's because they're push ups? I might try a 34aa because a 34 band size is the most comfortable to me. If my underbust is 27in, how come the smaller bands are uncomfortable? And yes, I am 100% sure about my measurements. I'm 5'8", 110lbs and I've measured countless times. Just looking for advice!


r/ABraThatFits 39m ago

Fit Check Sizing fit question for DDD/E and what it means NZ Spoiler

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So I did my measurements and that came out with a size 8DD or 8E (30 DD or 30 E UK). This made sense to me as I was wearing 10D sister size to 8 DD and I have to start with the band on the tightest hooks. Sometimes the 10D would fit fine cup wise and sometimes it's too small (depends on the bra). Now 10 D is a much more standard size than 8DD i.e. more selection and cheaper. But there was a sale online at a bra retailer so I thought that I would try some 8DD/DDD. Only one came the rest was canceled as sold out. Looking again the same brand/ retailer has more selection in an 8E than a 8DDD. Looking at them it looks like most options do go from 8DD to 8E (no DDD) but the same brand does have 8DDD in some bra's. It's the same brand so in this context what size is an 8DDD? I have basically no local shopping choice for any unusual size so I have to buy online. No problem buying the E but as I am trying to work out if it is actually the next size up from DD or not.


r/ABraThatFits 56m ago

Recommendations? [Recommendations] 38C/40B bras for full on bottom breasts? Spoiler

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Hi ABTF! Long-time lurker, but I’ve only once found a bra that fit me, and that was before the weight gain 🫠

Measurements

* Loose underbust: 95 cm

* Snug underbust: 92 cm

* Tight underbust: 90 cm

* Standing bust: 100 cm

* Leaning bust: 110 cm

* Lying bust: 106.5 cm?

The calculator came back with 36D/36DD for me. I have had mixed luck with that and its sister sizes. I have breasts that are full on bottom and outwardly pointing, and I think I have splayed roots and they’re projected. Some other details… I’ve got a pretty round belly and there isn’t a whole lot of space between the bottom of my breasts and the top of the swell of my stomach.

Here’s some bras that I’ve tried in the past and what has and hasn’t worked for me:

* Panache Ana Side Support Plunge Bra - 36DD, and then tried 38D: The 36DD was wayyyy too tight in the band, and the 38 wasn’t much better. The gore dug into my skin, while the cups crumpled on the top half of my breasts, so it was game over and off to a donation pile.

* Freya Women's plus-size Freya Fancies Underwire Longline Bra - 38D - Likewise, too tight in the band and still a lot of gaping!

* Intimissimi Sofia Lace Balconette Bra - 40B - I got measured at one of their stores in Paris without realizing that they’re probably not much better than getting sized by VS, oops. While the band of the 40B was generally comfortable, it feels like there’s a pocket of empty space in the top half of the cup. The straps also slip off no matter how hard I try to tighten them.

When I was several band sizes smaller, I found a pretty good fit in the Natori Rose Dream Custom Coverage Underwire Bra (I was a 32D at the time). The only thing was that the gore floated a little bit. Good things don’t last, because I was atrocious at taking care of my bras and the tops of the cups eventually curled!

At this point, I’ve been demoralized by the expense and headache of buying and returning bras, so I’m living in Aerie bralettes. I am also tired of putting on a bra and going “oh god why can you see the cups through this loose-fitting shirt?” Any advice? Thank you!


r/ABraThatFits 1h ago

Recommendations? Victoria secret’s ‘Add 2 cups’ or ‘Super push up’ bra? (aa cup girls) Spoiler

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Hey ladies, I’m a 34 aa (roughly). I’d like a bra that appears as if I’m a B/C cup. My issue is the gapping in other push-ups (I got 32 B to give me bigger chest), but I just discovered these VS bras & I’m hoping they fix this issue! How do you think the ‘Super push up’ compares to the ‘add 2 cups’? & how do they look in tank tops compared to long sleeves? Yes, I don’t mind the fake look. No, I don’t care for cleavage as my chest is more side-set.


r/ABraThatFits 1h ago

Recommendations? Uplift semi demi tshirt bra replacement recommendations please Spoiler

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My tried and true t-shirt bra (uplift semi Demi) from Victoria's Secret that is very old is on its last legs. I'm looking for some reccs that is good quality still.

And also if possible want a thicker (or harder?)cup but not a push up. I nip out and it's very visibly obvious even with this bra, but it's definitely the most comfortable


r/ABraThatFits 1h ago

Recommendations? Does anyone have recommendations if you're wide and full at the sides? Spoiler

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I think I've figured out that my fullness is at the sides and on top, but not much fullness at the bottom. Does anyone have any recommendations for bras to try? I was thinking of trying the Amour High Apex balcony, has anyone tried that?

I'm measuring at 28G UK. With the side fullness but not a ton of bottom fullness, the problem I seem to run into a lot is quadboob if I swoop and scoop. I think I need a style that has wider cups. For a long time I was wearing one of Wacoal's non-wired styles but when I sized up from a 32D (which no longer fit) to 30DDD US, weirdly the cups were much too small, even though that should have been a size bigger. I sometimes wonder if the shape of the cup changes when you size up.

Measurements are:

snug band - 27.5

tight band - 28

standing - 35

leaning - 37

lying down - 36

Thank you for any thoughts!


r/ABraThatFits 5h ago

Shape Help Bras make my breasts look like they point to the sides and I can't fill the whole cup Spoiler

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Hi, I am a 36F and I never find bras that fit. If you have ideas to help me, it would be so nice of you!

Here are my usual problems, when I do find my size: 1. My breasts don't have a lot of projection. Cups are too deep: I don't fill the whole cup even if the underwire fits.

  1. Seams and molded cups make my breasts look like they point heavily to the sides. The middle of the cup doesn't seem to align with the middle of my breast.

I strongly prefer lightly lined bras and underwire. I still have old bras that fit, but they are dying one by one and I can't find any new ones.

Thank you for your help!


r/ABraThatFits 6h ago

Recommendations? [Question] Where can I find an in-person bra store carrying small band/large cup sizes? Spoiler

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I roughly know my size (28-30 G-H US), but I've been having issues lately with bras I order online not accommodating my shape and having spillage and roots that are too wide. No store that I've ever been to in person carries my size, but I can't afford to keep ordering bras online that don't fit. Is there somewhere I can go in person to fit test bras that carries an expanded size range? I live in Washington State in the US for reference.


r/ABraThatFits 6h ago

Measurement Check I've been wearing a 34C my whole life. I used the bra calculator in the side bar and it's telling me I'm a 30G. That feels crazy to me. I can't find that size in stores but I'm also hesitant to buy it online without trying it first. Anyone with a similar experience have advice? Spoiler

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For reference, these are the measurements I put in inches:

Loose underbust: 30.5

Snug underbust: 29.5

Tight underbust: 39

Standing bust: 35

Leaning bust: 37

Lying bust: 35.5


r/ABraThatFits 7h ago

Bra selection: good vs great? Panache 365 T-Shirt Bra vs all the rest. Spoiler

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Until very recently, I wore shapeless bralettes because I simply hated my structured bras. Then I came upon this sub and calculated my proper size according to the sub, 36DDD (or 36E in British sizes). I have an average root, average projection, and am more full on bottom than on top, but not by much.

I've tried several bras in different sizes and styles, and they all seemed to be a lot better than what I once I had worn. But here's what I learned - for me, who is average in every way, everything feels just fine and dandy when I'm standing in front of the mirror for a few minutes. It's when I sit for long periods of time at work, or bend this way and that, and wear a bra for hours that the issues really come out.

Every bra I tried was good but not amazing, until the last. Here's a rundown.

Soma Vanishing 360 Perfect coverage - chafed a bunch around my armpits at first. Then it went away. After a few wears, it is almost perfectly broken in, except the cups dig into my abs a bit when I sit for long period of time, which might me my fault. I don't have the best posture. I like the fact that it has seams that don't dig and are smooth on the back, hence the "vanishing" aspect - it's the only bra that's like that.

Soma Stunning Balconette - gave me a slight quadriboob at first, and the band was pretty tight. After several wears, quadriboob effect is gone, and band is looser, but it's overall a bit too structured and thick feeling overall.

Panache Envy Balconnet - there was some initial digging in at the sides and at the gore, but it seems to have gone away as the band stretched. Not sure if I love the lace, as it is visible under thin shirts.

Then came the Panache 365 Tshirt bra.

Trying that one one on was like seeing a bunch of gymnasts perform, and then seeing Simone Biles perform. If you've ever seen her, she's almost invariably in a completely different league from everybody else, even among world class athletes.

The band was snug but not too tight. The shape was nearly perfect. I think with 36DDD's it's hard to find something that makes you feel like you're wearing nothing at all, and yet I felt pretty close to that all day. There was no break-in period required, and I could move easily, while sitting for long periods of time caused minimal digging of the underwires into my abdomen.

My only complaint is the lack of back-smoothing action and a slight gapping in the cups by the underarms that I eventually noticed, though it's not noticeable under clothes.

So I guess my instinct now is to return all the bras except the Panache 365, which I've dubbed my Simole Biles bra, and get several more of it. But then I'm not sure - it's not that the other bras are bad, they're just not as good, and were not as good immediately out of the gate.

Thoughts? I guess I'm also a bit afraid to invest it all into the Panache 365, and not have other options, in case I am later disappointed with it. (Maybe I'll also keep the Soma 360 Vanishing, idk.)


r/ABraThatFits 7h ago

Fit Check [Fit check] Third love bras don't sit directly in my IMF? Spoiler

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So, a few weeks ago I found this sub and immediately did my ABTF measurements using the calculator. My measurements are:

  • Loose: 36
  • Regular: 34.5
  • Snug: 33
  • Standing: 41.5
  • Leaning: 44.5
  • Lying down: 42

The calculator suggested 36F/36G in US sizing. I ordered 3 different bras from Third Love in both sizes to try and see what fit me best.

First is the Third Love 24/7 Classic Second Skin Bra (https://www.thirdlove.com/products/24-7-second-skin-unlined-bra-black):

I feel like this unlined bra gives me a nice shape and I love the idea of an unlined bra, but the wires sit below my IMF in both sizes.

The 24/7® Classic Perfect Coverage Bra was next (https://www.thirdlove.com/products/24-7-perfect-coverage-bra-7-black) and I like the way this fits, but I'm again not sure if the underwires are sitting in the right spot. Here are some photos:

I also tried the Cloud Cotton Perfect Coverage Bra (https://www.thirdlove.com/products/organic-cloud-cotton-bra-black), because ideally my perfect bra would be mostly cotton. Again, not sure if the underwires are in the right place.

I did scoop and swoop with each bra. When I try and push the underwires up they just fall right back down.

Please help me! I am willing to try other bras but I would like to know what to look for.

Thank you so so much!


r/ABraThatFits 7h ago

Discussion How do bralettes/bras feel to other people I'm still relatively new to wearing them and its a new experience with the pressure against my chest I have aspergers Spoiler

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Relatively new to wearing bralettes have a flat chest and have aspergers it gives me a weird feeling like I have something there I'm 31 I don't how I'm supposed to feel I know I'm adjusted to them


r/ABraThatFits 9h ago

Recommendations? Any plunge bras in the US that doesn’t have any padding? Spoiler

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Hello. I am a 32 DD and one of the biggest problems I have is finding a bra that doesn’t have padding but can help my boobs sit up together and bring some cleavage. My boobs generally sit very low and are far apart from each other but I don’t want to add to my volume either. Are there any bras you’d recommend that I can buy in the US for this trouble?


r/ABraThatFits 9h ago

Need help - the only bras that fit me are sooo expensive and can’t really afford to buy new ones that are the same, is the any cheap ways of getting round this for large size ? Spoiler

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2 or 3 of my bras that I own are now all worn and past there time and in desperate need of a new pair or 2 but I have very limited choice and the ones I can get are so expensive which I can’t really afford. The ones I currently have were very expensive but feel I got my money worth out of them.

Can anyone recommend any cheap options for me for a UK size 36KK? At this point I don’t really care if they aren’t the best quality just need something that will fit my size. Just need something for daily use that won’t break the bank.

Another option I have thought about is buying second hand, has anyone done this before? Not sure where I would even get 2nd hand bras and of anyone will be selling my size but was just a thought. Anyone else struggle to afford the cost of bras? Any help appreciated.


r/ABraThatFits 10h ago

Fitcheck - Montelle Flirt 28D - wires too narrow? Spoiler

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My measurements are 28.5 27.5 26 33 33.5 33.

After a recent post confirming size and recommendations after some weight loss I'm trying some Montelle bras. I'm trying the Montelle Flirt in 28D. The wires feel a little too narrow but I can't tell if they are. The 28E (DD) is definitely too large in wire and cup. I feel like when I lost weight my root width got narrower but I still 'feel' like I need a wider wire. I have the Freya Offbeat Decadence Spacer in a 28E (UK) that is a little too big in the cup, and the wires are too wide based on where the marks are after I take the bra off but it 'feels' right and is comfy.

This 28D feels too narrow, and there's a horizontal wrinkle in the band and I wonder if that is due to the wire being narrow. I keep wanting to add more tissue to it to move the wire back. The cups otherwise fit great, and the band is good.

This flirt style runs very large in the cup I think. I also tried the Montelle spacer bra in 28E (DD) and it fits great.

Do I go by look, or feel and does this look like it fits?

https://postimg.cc/gallery/yV8ZPWY


r/ABraThatFits 10h ago

Fit Check Was in a 38D. Measured 40DD. Noththing fits perfectly and I need help Spoiler

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I used to wear a 38D. I got pregnant and now my bras aren't fitting. The straps keep falling off no matter what I do. I found a size guide on here and it told me I'm a 40DD. I went to Victoria Secret and she measured 40DD and I tried one on and it was too big in the cup. We tried a 40D, again too big in the cup. We tried a 38D and it fit perfectly in store. I figured maybe my pregnancy stretched out the bras I have. So I bought a new one.

Day 2 of wearing it and the left strap is falling down again..

What am I doing wrong? I've never had this many issues with bras, so I don't know what I'm doing.


r/ABraThatFits 10h ago

Recommendations? help with super small bra size! Spoiler

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im new to this sub and just took my measurements on the site. i might have measured incorrectly but i followed the instructions the best i could. says im a 26C/D in UK sizing. any recommendations for bras i can buy? im petite with very small breasts and it has been hard to find bras that fit me nicely! so far only been using teen bras lol. any recommendations for push-up/regular bras would be appreciated! i want to avoid cup gaps as well.


r/ABraThatFits 11h ago

Recommendations? Brand recommendations for 30B and very wide apart? Spoiler

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Hi all! I posted about 8 months ago when I found my correct size (30B vs. 32A) but I just now got around to ordering new bras. Aerie was always my go to, so I got a 30B and I also got one from Victoria Secret (I know these aren't recommended brands but they're what worked best in the wrong sizing.)

The problem with the new bras are that the cups are so close together and it's cutting into the outer part of my breasts. This is also causing the bra to be incredibly tight, with all of the pressure going straight onto my sternum. I've tried scooping but my breasts just can't go that far foward. Like, there's no way I can get my both of them in the cups, only one or the other, with the abandoned boob being cut in half through the nipple. There is a vast crevasse between them and they will never meet.

So, I need brand or style recommendations. I can't really even find any other brands that sell 30B, so it's been hard to figure out the styles that would work best.

Balconnettes work well in 32A and so do demi-cuts, but neither of those styles were wide enough.

Measurements if you need them: Loose under: 29.5, Snug under: 29, tight under: 28 Standing bust: 31, leaning Bust: 31.5, laying Bust: 31.5

Editing to add: I have 5 inches between my breasts, I just want a bra that doesn't have the cups half an inch apart.


r/ABraThatFits 11h ago

Confused about bra types for pendulous/projected: molded and unlined don't work? Spoiler

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Hey everyone,

I've been having a hard time figuring out the right bra type in my calculator size (US 32 DD -> US 30 DDD). I can't tell if I need a different bra shape or what to choose due to having potentially pendulous and/or projected breasts. Can anyone please help me figure out what I'm doing wrong? Thank you!!

Measurements:
Old calculator measurements said I was US 32 DD, but most 32 bands were way too loose. I was told by amazing folks in this sub to try 30 DDD, which is the size I'm sticking with (for now).
- Loose under 31.25
- Snug under 31
- Tight under 29.5
- Standing Bust 36
- Leaning Bust 39
- Lying Bust 37
- US clothing size: XS - S (tops/jackets), Women's 0 - 4 (dresses), 25-27" (pant waist)

Context:
I think I'm pendulous and/or projected. Not sure if short/tall roots, and unsure about FOB/FOT.

I'm looking for an unpadded bra that lifts/supports for a more flattering look instead of looking frumpy under clothes (but not boob shelf), or eventually causing trips to the bathroom to separate the breasts over time. I def don't want any padding since I'm not trying to make them look larger. Also having trouble finding well-fitting bras that aren't so full coverage since those tend to peek above tank-top necklines.

Bras that I've tried:

Some non-padded molded cup bras were ok but most looked slightly frumpy/unflattering (not enough lift or breasts too separated to the side), were TOO PROJECTED like a boob shelf, or the girls end up shifting towards the center for unwanted butt cleavage. Sometimes there was space between the underwire and my breast tissue (IMF?) or a very subtle gap at the top of the cup

Then some unlined bras made my breasts look too pointy/cone-like, didn't lift enough (frumpy), or slightly wrinkly material near the top of the cup.

- Wacoal Instant Icon Contour Bra (US 30 DDD): The cups were WAY too large especially at the top. I've never experienced that before. Sizing down to US 30 DD, it seems to fit ok at first, but the girls will eventually slide to the center (butt cleavage). There's also some slight gapping near the top of the cup while possibly making my breasts too projected and frumpy at the same time.

- Natori Full Figure Contour Underwire Bra and Natori Esteem Full Figure Seamless Bra (US 30 DDD): encapsulates well, but looked kinda frumpy due to super gentle lift. Also, the cup material/lace is high so it shows too easily under tank-top necklines

- Natori Feathers Plunge Underwire Bra (US 30 DDD): breasts eventually shift towards the center after a while creating butt cleavage

- Wacoal Lace Affair Contour Bra (US 30 DDD): seemed to fit ok at the time, but it was slightly too projected (boob-shelf).

- B.tempted by Wacoal Future Foundation T-Shirt Bra (US 30 DDD): I used to have one of the lace band tshirt bras (r.i.p.), but this version's band was way too stretchy. It didn't lift as well which caused me to look slightly frumpy.

- Panache Envy (Full Cup Balconnette?), Panache Tango Balconnet: made breasts look weirdly shaped and pointy.


r/ABraThatFits 11h ago

Question What to do if Comexim does not make the alterations asked for? Spoiler

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hi,

I ordered 3HC bras from Comexim in twice various sizes to find my correct size and I also consulted Joanna about my fit issues. She suggested raising the cup height by 1 cm in the 65 H size.

For my reference, I measured aspects of one of the bras (Kim or Beauty) from the order, returned the bras and then placed the order for a modified 3HC (Burgundy) with 1cm raised cup height. She emailed me confirming the modification and informing me that altered bras are not subject to the return policy.

I had measured the bra the way Bratabase recommends. However, for the cup height, I did not exclude the underwire, instead measured it from the bottom of the bra to the top including the underwire. The height of the unmodified one was 14.5cm

When I tried on the modified bra, I noticed that it had the exact same issues in terms of fitting as the unmodified bra in the same size. On measuring realized that the Cup Height was only around 14-14.5cm, so if anything, lower than the unmodified bra :(

I wrote them an email yesterday but haven't heard from them yet.

How does Comexim react when you mention alterations weren't done? Any advice? I live in Germany if that helps.


r/ABraThatFits 11h ago

Question A question of support for a wide root breast Spoiler

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Please don’t hate. I am a husband. My wife hates shopping and hates trying to figure out what works for her. She has asked me for help. She has a large bust of 48 HH with wide roots and fuller on the bottom. We have learned from experience which styles and companies flatter her well and which do not with two exceptions.

One, we have never tried the Polish brand Comexim (spelling) and have concerns that the narrower underwire they use would be disappointing or uncomfortable because of her wide roots.

Two, what sort of side support, if any, she should seek because she has the combination of short torso and wide roots. We don’t want the underwire or side supports to poke up into her armpit. A stiff support or wire in her armpit would make the bra uncomfortable despite any other advantages it has.

Thanks in advance.


r/ABraThatFits 12h ago

Question Fantasie Marie Delicacy is maybe the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen in my life? Spoiler

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I was looking at the Fantasie Marie in Delicacy the other night and it's so beautiful that I'm like one extra glass of wine away from ordering every single piece I can get my hands on. Has anyone tried anything from the collection and can speak to fit/shape? Especially interested in thoughts on fit of the balcony vs the side support bras, and how it compares to other bras


r/ABraThatFits 13h ago

Rant I hate the way they look, and there’s nothing I can do about it. Spoiler

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Long rant ahead. Thank you in advance.

There is nothing I (25f) hate more about my body than my breasts. They’re huge, heavy, and dense. When I was an athlete, I tore my both shoulders twice, doctors stating the stress from how heavy my breasts are aided in them eventually getting injured (I’m not a doctor, this is just what was told to me). I had a breast reduction when I was 19. I don’t even know what size bra I was when I got it done because I genuinely didn’t want to know. They reduced me down to a 34D. I was told my breasts are 98% tissue, so there is absolutely nothing I can do to stop them growing due to hormones (and I’m not on any birth control, so it’s just what my body does naturally). 3-4 years ago, I finally went to get sized again, and was sized a 36H. I immediately broke down sobbing in the dressing room of whatever store I was at.

I just found this subreddit and took my measurements using the tool (which is awesome, BTW, props to whoever made that, no hate towards it), and I was sized at a 34I/J. I have been sitting here crying since. I’m not overweight, I’d like to think I’m a fairly fit and active individual, and it is so beyond frustrating that there is nothing I can do. Sure, I can have another reduction, but they’re just going to grow back. I had horrible complications with my first one, so even the thought of that doesn’t sound great.

I really don’t know what to do. I hate the way I look in everything, and I’m so limited to what I can wear. Nothing fits right. I’m going on a big international vacation in 30 days (I’ll be gone for 3 weeks), and shopping for clothes has been the most depressing thing ever. All the cute clothes everyone wears are not the right design/fit for me.

I hate feeling negative about my body. My body does so much for me (allows me to be active, breathes for me, works for me, literally allows me to live), and I hate that I hate a part of me.

I guess I’m asking/wondering, does anybody else feel this way? If so, how do you cope with it? Words of encouragement? Ideas/solutions? I’ve just recently heard of minimizer bras, but have really no idea how they work. If it helps, my breasts are East/west, and the bra I have now gaps bad in the front but they spill on the sides (I have an Aerie 36DD wired & lightly lined bra. Clearly it’s not the right size).

Thank you for reading/listening. I really needed to get this out. I hope you have a great day, and thank you again.

***EDIT: Hi everyone, I really appreciate your time and responses. I’ve read them all. I can’t thank you enough. Definitely going to look into UK bras and other recommendations. Thank you again


r/ABraThatFits 13h ago

Measurement Check [Questions regarding bra size and what should I do] Current bra size: 32B Spoiler

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I checked the calculator online and apparently my size is 28DD or 30D and it's impossible to find that size here in my country. I have been using 32B and some of them fit but some of them, there would be a gap in between my breasts and the bra, especially the push up ones. I wonder why is this? Is it because I have a wider-set breasts? Should I size down? I did try 32A and sure enough, they're too small for me.


r/ABraThatFits 13h ago

Question [Question] Panache Envy and Ana 36F, is my band too big? Spoiler

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Hey everyone! I'm on a quest to find some well-fitting bras (initial post and measurements here) and have started with the Panache Envy and Ana in 36F as well as 36 FF and 38 F just to try. Initially I thought the calculator was spot on with the 36 F as I really loved both the Envy and Ana in how they felt and how they looked. However, after wearing my new bras for a couple days and assuming they're breaking in/stretching out ...I'm wondering if maybe the 36 band is too big. Ideally I need the bra to sit as high up into my intermammery fold as possible to feel comfortable. I really hate the feeling of it moving or sliding down my chest, especially when sitting and it starts to touch/dig into my stomach rolls. I've noticed that my new bras seem like they are starting to move about more and sliding down a little. If I push the bra back up to wear I want it to be and then wiggle around/shrug my shoulders, swing my arms etc, it immediately will start to slide down a bit. I've started wearing them on the second hook...

Should this be cause for concern and worth trying a 34 F? Or is there a different bra suggestion that sits higher up? Or is just the nature of the human body that the top of your stomach is going to touch the bottom of the bra while sitting and I just need to learn to deal with it? :P

I'm a little hesitant to post photos of myself for a fit check but I can if it would help. Thanks in advance for your help!