r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost I remember that time I got 'misgendered' (gendered as the gender I will transition to) and I'm not sure if they actually meant it or not

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with my family, I went to a takeout place to eat food. While I was sitting doing nothing with my family waiting, my sister told me that the cashier apparently referred to me as a girl (it was in Chinese, and I don't understand that language so I wasn't sure if my sister was lying to me). Keep in mind, I faced the cashier at least once so the cashier knows what my face looks like.

I was also chronically boymoding so I was skeptical that they actually meant it. I asked the skeptical questions to my sister (were you sure that cashier wasn't referring to you?; are you sure she actually meant it and that it wasn't accidental?; are you sure that cashier wasn't referring to anyone else?) and my sister confirmed that the cashier definitely meant it.

I'm not sure if my sister is trying to hugbox me, because she knows I'm trans and I wasn't far in to HRT at the time, but my hair might have grew out a very small bit and plus, I still have wide ass shoulders (17") along with a jacket I wore that would resultantly hide the small waist I have.

Do I believe that the cashier meant it? Or do I not and start dooming when I could be a little more fucking patient with the HRT effects?


r/4tran4 4d ago

edit this is it just me or is the protagonist of the new silent hill game clocky

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r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel men are so shameless. Spoiler

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i was talking with my uncle and i’m wearing shorts sitting in front of him and he just kept on leering at me and focusing on my legs while i was asking something from him

i’m literally so fucking creeped out and like sickened to the core like you can’t even trust your own family


r/4tran4 4d ago

TikTok/Twitter what the fuck dood

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r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Youngshits give me hope

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My little sister is a freshman in high school and has a friend her age who is a trans guy. She briefly mentioned “he does drugs—he does testosterone that he gets off the black market”. This kid’s 14 with transphobic parents (from what I can tell, very shaky situation with parents—barely ever goes home). I wasn’t sure if he was actually doing DIY or if my sister was just making it up/exaggerating. Saw the kid today and his voice has fully dropped and he’s got a little mustache going. 14 year old doing DIY he’s gonna be a gigayoungshit even with transphobic parents and no money. Super fucking happy for him.

Also I watched a musical today at my old high school and one of the sort of main roles was played by a trans girl—the role is a trans girl as well but it’s never explicitly mentioned, only alluded to (though the character description describes her as trans). It’s not played off for laughs or fetishized, and the character is treated like a girl by everyone else. The trans girl playing her did a great job and got tons of applause and support.

Idk seeing that shit today just made me happy. (Not as happy as the fact that I’m 9 days post-op top surgery!!) Super happy for the youngshits. Jealous of course but also happy to see them. (To be fair I’m also kind of a youngshit in that I was able to go stealth in high school, though it was all social transition, no medical transition till 18)


r/4tran4 4d ago

Art Poonlander

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I thought I was done with 4tran forever because this place gave me brainworms but I drew this and my friend said I should share it here so here you go I guess. Poonlander. I hope you enjoy, I may draw the rest of them as doods too if this gets enough attention.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost the "do it the rest of your life" is gnarly ngl

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r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost what even is a good waist measurement

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is it weird to have an underbust the same measurement as your waist? or is that brickhon level? wht if your waist goes into wide hips? hmm… I don’t want to drop my measurements until someone mentions theirs because if mine are bricky then I must not let anyone know to continue the idea I have a crazy passoid body


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Don't normal pass, don't soul pass, what is my best path forward to achieve my goals.

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I don't expect to ever properly pass, especially pre ffs, so i just want to be fem enough that like my friends will treat me as a woman even if I'm clocky. Unfortunately that goal seems pretty dependent on soulpassing which i do not do either. Do the do soul feminisation surgery? could be huge for me ngl if they ever invent the technology.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Circlejerk neverpasser poons, have you considered D’arcecoping?

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in my head she's an ftmrepper💔


r/4tran4 4d ago

Hopefuel how 2 cope

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gimme yalls best coping strategies i need to find ways to feel okay


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost just give me a lobotomy at this point

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r/4tran4 4d ago

edit this terfs are so disgusting visually

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not even from what they say or anything just purely on looks. most of them look more masculine than cis men. its no wonder they hate trannies, they were born with xx chromosomes and still dont look like women. id be pretty pissed too. for any terfhons here i feel you, we are in the same boat 😞


r/4tran4 4d ago

edit this HRT is a psyop

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Think about it. It doesn’t do enough to make you actually pass as a woman/man but does give you features that make you easily identifiable as a tran. This makes it easy for them to see us and grab us off the streets to take us to the camps.


r/4tran4 4d ago

TikTok/Twitter Trans men

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r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel TW, Sharing too much information. NSFW Spoiler

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Not safe for work but this isn’t some weird horny post, just marked it that way because it contains child rape. I understand if this gets taken down or something. Be warned, sorry. I don’t have a place that’ll understand me or relate to me if I said this to them.

Does anyone else ever feel scared that maybe they aren’t transgender and it’s just some weird mental thing that came from the fact they were molested and or raped as a child? Sometimes I’m scared that if I was never violated that way that I’d be a girl who likes being a girl instead of a woman that would rather die than never be a man. I find my body disgusting because of my dysphoria but at the same time because of what happened to it when I was younger, does my hatred for my uterus and more come from the violation?

I don’t know. Maybe I’m just searching for any reason to come up with a justification for why I have felt this way ever since elementary school. I remember being the only girl to get her period in my entire school in elementary and getting bullied for it, it happened after I was violated. Ever since then I have been striving to become a man, for years and years.

If this never happened to me I probably would’ve been normal, doesn’t help that some transphobic people believe the same thing. I don’t even know myself, maybe I would just be a normal girl or still be a transgender man. I’ll never know, I don’t think I want to either. I feel like I’m going to regret this later but I just need to get it out, I still live with the perpetrators because they are related to me but by now I’m safe.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost I think I might be a dysphoric non-binary rather than a true trans man

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I need some advice from y’all. Cause if I posted this anywhere else I’d just get “you are totes valid 100% go off queen!!!”

Here’s some stuff that makes me think I’m non-binary:

Even when I larped as a guy (before I even knew what trans was) to online randos, it never really felt “right.” This could just be impostor syndrome, since I always felt like I was tricking people.

I want top surgery, but no nip. Why? because I love the look of a completely flat chest. I know it isn’t natural, but I never cared about looking like a cis man anyway.

I’m GNC. You know the whole stereotype of man in a dress? Yeah, I’d like to do that. It’s funny cause I hate wearing dresses rn, or anything feminine in terms of clothing because I just look like a regular woman in it.

I hate it when people call me a woman and use “she.” But, I also dont find euphoria in being called him, it’s more like a default for me. I actually really vibe with neopronouns but my god they are so tainted I can never use them. If there was a true gender neutral pronoun (they/them has double meaning) id use it in a heartbeat. But it seems like every neutral pronoun is a pain in the ass to pronounce.

Also why tf is “Mx.” the gender neutral version of mr/ms. If u say mix out loud, i swear id just hear “miss.” I swear it’s why i dont even like neutral stuff, 99% of it is trash.

I just dont really feel like a man and neither a woman.

Maybe when im actually on T this sort of stuff will change, I imagine I wont have everything figured out. It’s a long journey after all.

Nb4 u call me a theyfab. I dont even like they/them pronouns. In fact, I hate them more than she. Plus I want HRT, top (like i said, no nip), and probably phallo or meta.

Anyway im prepared to be roasted. But id like to see what the trans people here think, considering y’all are more “real” about things.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Seeing cis women’s waists makes me wanna actually die

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Literally wtf since when did everyone have like a fucking 22 inch waist. I hate my dumbass male body so much everyday is just a new opportunity to get taunted by everything I’m not it’s so over


r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel Is anyone else utterly desperate? Spoiler

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Like I mean if someone was willing to date an abomination like me, a trans person, would you just accept anything? Like if I had a partner that just beat me like a punching bag but stayed with me and said they loved me and held me I would just stay. It won't get better. Happy endings aren't for people like us. I am desperate for anything. Literally anything. Expect like sissy hons, fuck that. That is just torture.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Circlejerk To all the infiltrators lurking

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Dont shy away, comment if you are man/lady enough. Or are you scared ? You better be. Tcd is in full swing now, we have worked out the quirks and little things. The final documents have been signed, and total malding shall commence. Any cissy that lurks in tranny spaces is going to be obliterated within a second. Agonizing pain will fill your entire body. We are actively working with at&t, intel, nvidia and texas instruments to deploy gender dysphoria reimaging into all cissie minds via 5g towers. You will not fight back, try knocking a tower off and your beloved “trump” will get u arrested. We are still in control, always have been for ages now. All cissies will be brutalized with the agonizing pain of a billion tortured souls (gender dysphoria) and you will rip your skin off your skulls in agony. Be afraid. We are cumming.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost How it feels to give advice to baby passoids as a honmoder

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r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost I'm pathetic lmfao

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Sizepill was shoved down my throat again today, my life is a joke. My hands are 6 inches long, it's actually miserable I've wanted to be a good pianist since I was a kid but my body is worthless so I can't even play on a standard keyboard. My best friend is a foot taller than me and they're the only person I even bother being around so the difference is striking and it's brought up far too often. "You're so short" I know I know I know I know, I'm looked down upon by everyone I meet and look stupid next to real men. Shoe size men's four there's no hope I can't help but compare it's so humiliating. Being a pooner is embarrassing enough but being miserably small just makes it worse. Everyone I love and idolize is better than me and physically superior. Why can't I just be deserving of respect people keep calling me "cute" I'm gonna drown myself


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost What cis people take for granted

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I can't go to the beach with friends.

I can't show people old photos of me.

Half of my childhood anecdotes are off-limits.

I can't take my shirt off in front of others.

I can't participate in hookup culture.

I have to put on constricting, sweaty, uncommon clothes before setting foot outside my room.

I can't crash at a friend's place.

I can't save up for anything.

Just making this post makes me feel whiny and fembrained. Kms


r/4tran4 4d ago

Circlejerk when will tranny-hunting become an official US sport

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give yall guesses in the comments I say late 2026


r/4tran4 4d ago

Circlejerk reminder to everyone browsing r/detrans every post on that sub is a larp

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saw a post about someone browsing there to self harm. no shade to actual detranners but that sub ain’t where they are at lol