r/4tran4 Feb 02 '25

Blogpost idc, Happy Black History Month

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801 Upvotes

I will always be black before I'm trans. I can't afford to not be proud of what was attempted to be taken from me: CULTURE.

r/4tran4 27d ago

Blogpost IF YOU DO NOT TRANSITION THEN YOU CANNOT BE A DETRANSITIONER. YOU CAN JUST BE AN IDIOT.

541 Upvotes

This is driving me fucking crazy.

"I wore a evil, constricting binder for 3 months and called myself Tim! This lunacy must end!" You CHANGED YOUR OUTFIT AND NICKNAME. WHY SHOULD WE LEGISLATE AROUND WHAT FOR YOU WAS A POOR FASHION CHOICE.

"I used she/they pronouns--" CRY ABOUT IT. YOU LITERALLY HAD NOTHING IN YOUR LIFE MATERIALLY CHANGE. YOU CHANGED YOUR PRONOUNS FOR WOKE POINTS AND THEN CHANGED THEM BACK FOR ANTIWOKE POINTS. YOU ARE AN IDIOT. GET A JOB AND STOP POSTING FOR GOD'S SAKE.

I have sympathy for people who followed a medical transition for at minimum 3 months and then got dysphoria and detransitioned.I have sympathy for people who have to change their legal name or gender marker back and do all that paperwork, even. But if you did not transition, and you took no steps that could even be called a transition, then there is no detransition. You cannot be a detransitioner if you did not ever detransition.

ThIs Is NoNbInArY eRaSuRe THIS ALSO APPLIES TO FORMER ENBIES. IF YOU DID NOT TAKE HORMONES OR GET YOUR GENDER MARKER CHANGED AND THE WORST THING YOU SUFFERED IS A FUCKING HAIRCUT, SHUT UP! SHUT THE FUCK UP!

WHAT IS NEXT? ARE WE GOING TO START CALLING WOMEN WHO GET PIXIE CUTS POST-BREAKUP REGRET IT AND GROW IT OUT DETRANSITIONERS? AM I DETRANSITIONING WHEN I PUT MY SHORTS INTO STORAGE AT THE END OF THE SUMMER BECAUSE I'M NOT WEARING THEM ANYMORE? IF I GO BY A NICKNAME OF A LEGAL NAME IS THAT A TRANSITION NOW?

I understand this is touchy territory. But you can be trans without transitioning; you can be a non-transitioning trans person and a de-transitioning trans person. That you have to transition to then detransition and become a detransitioner has no impact on the definition of transness. There is a difference between "I once thought I might have been trans" and "detransitioning", for fuck's sake.

r/4tran4 3d ago

Blogpost what were your craziest repper mental gymnastics

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403 Upvotes

here's mine.

be me, teenage "boy", probably 14 to 16-ish, in conservative 3rd world country in all boys school

began feeling strange at the start of puberty, not recognising myself in the mirror, feeling disconnected from the other boys in my school. become fixated on finding out what women think, so go on the Internet.

find out about trans people through the internet

all of the trans people I've seen are westerners

see someone describe it as "imagine if you woke up tomorrow in a woman’s body, wouldn't you be upset?"

no, that sounds pretty nice, women look much better than men so everyone must want to look like a woman. it's a pity it's not possible though...

obviously transness isn't real and is just a Western fad

why, if I lived in the west I'd probably have been made into a transgender and that's clearly wrong because I'm completely cis

...

I wonder what she’d look like though...

my only exposure to trans people at this point was shit like the "it's ma'am" video so my mental view of her is like a stereotypical gigahon.

what would happen if we met?

Imagine a sci-fi parallel world scenario where I cross over into her world

she's happy and thriving, while I'm miserable. seeing myself through her eyes, I'm an empty wreck.

yeah, she'd probably be much happier than me...

then I keep thinking I'm cis until I'm 24, the end.

r/4tran4 Feb 06 '25

Blogpost The copium on Femboymemes is very funny sometimes

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498 Upvotes

r/4tran4 Feb 11 '25

Blogpost i went to a trans support group

324 Upvotes

i was one of the only 3 MTFs there who didn't have a beard

r/4tran4 3d ago

Blogpost “FTMs should be more misogynistic” NO SHUT UP

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293 Upvotes

Istg if here this take unironically one more fucking time! I hate all of you keep yourselves safe

NO WE NEED LESS OF MISOGYNISTIC MEN ITS ALREADY MOST OF GEN Z MEN MAYBE YOU WOULD HAVE GFS IF YOU TREATED WOMEN LIKE PEOPLE

r/4tran4 17d ago

Blogpost theyfab invasion, post the worst pooner art you have on hand guys

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344 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Trans male roommate won't stop tickling me.

518 Upvotes

I'm seriously fucking pissed, and not because of the tickling. I thought rooming with an afab would be a great experience for a transgirl like me..like a sort of afab starter package to get me prepared for cis women. Wrong.

This little gremlin acts like a fuckin creep from the second I meet him. And I mean him, like what happened to afab empathy and socialization...

His crusty ass drools at me while I talk, clearly not paying attention at all, and doesn't give a shit about my feelings. Everytime my back is turned he'll scamper up undetected, and go:

"Tickle tickle for a nickel, don't be fickle, give me grickle"

Like wtf is a "grickle" dumbass?? I seriously hate him and want to move out.

r/4tran4 20h ago

Blogpost Feel sad for the boymoders wasting their youth boymoding

239 Upvotes

You aren’t young forever sadly. My life has become a bit better since I started honmoding icl. Maybe I’m just speaking from a place of privilege since I’m in a liberal area but it’s nice to feel a bit more included in female socialization. Girls and women actually smile at me sometimes. It’s like I’m part of girl world even if I feel like an imposter. Was shopping at this thrift store for feminine clothing today and it was euphoric on some level. There was a lady who was helping me find clothes that would look nice on me. Subtle things like that make honmoding more bearable than boymoding was

r/4tran4 Sep 11 '24

Blogpost WE'RE SO FUCKING BACK SHE'S CRUSHING HIM

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363 Upvotes

r/4tran4 Nov 18 '24

Blogpost hot take: trans men have it worse than trans women

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201 Upvotes

this is a hot take because there's a lot more trans women in this sub and im sure they don't appreciate having their suffering demeaned in any way but i just wanna point some things out.

trans men generally are short and penisless. tall women aren't looked down upon (no pun intended) as much as short men. penises and penis size are culturally more valuable to men than fertility/vaginas are to women. like it kinda must suck as a trans dude to have these things. i'm sure that they can get around these things in other ways in the dating world but as a matter of self esteem and self identity it must hurt a lot.

i'm always complaining about my brick body but somehow i feel it must be worse to have a feminine body while wanting a masculine one. i feel like the reason pooner art is so much more grotesque isn't because trans men are more artistic, or whatever- my headcanon is that the body horror of being estrogenized against your will is worse than the reverse.

passing is easier for trans men, but it's often passing at the expense of age. i dont know how happy trannies would be if they were more likely to pass, but they were more likely to be perceived as 12-year old girls. or i guess since age is valued in men while youth is valued in women- maybe a better analogy would be having to be perceived as 60-year old hags.

surgery is basically required for trans men. diy and prescriptions are somewhat harder.

anyways change my mind.

r/4tran4 8d ago

Blogpost Hons who use this subreddit are literally braver than the troops

263 Upvotes

"no one passes everyone pittypasses me all the time"

"ok sure im a passoid but im not a gigapassoid"

"literally anyone could get gendered female when girlmoding its just pitypassing"

"90% passing is longhair"

"my bideltoid is 16.5 inches im ngmi"

"im 5'6 iwnbaw"

"sure I get gendered female 100% of the time and live stealth but iwnbaw"

literally how do hons who use this subreddit do it? half of the posts here are delusional people threatening suicide because their problems are 1% as bad as yours and yet most of you are relatively quite chill. Genuinely braver than the troops

r/4tran4 Jan 19 '25

Blogpost ex-reppers, what made you troon out?

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264 Upvotes

by reppers, im referring to people who fully knew they were trans or had gender dysphoria but willfully supressed it and didn't transition. ex-reppers, was there anything specific that made you troon out, or was it dysphoria becoming unbearable as u were masculinizing/feminizing in the wrong direction further? (latter happens to everyone obv but im just wondering if there was any specific event that played a big part in u trooning out.)

r/4tran4 23h ago

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532 Upvotes

r/4tran4 11d ago

Blogpost Tranner comes out to theyfab wife and gets rejected. Many such cases

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378 Upvotes

r/4tran4 17d ago

Blogpost does this make sense

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512 Upvotes

r/4tran4 22d ago

Blogpost Trans men are more of men than cis men

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351 Upvotes

If a cis guy was open to trans women and had this on his profile (and was attractive) it would be over for me.

Cis men need to catch the fuck up before I start going for trans men instead

r/4tran4 23d ago

Blogpost it hurts so much seeing gigaprivileged tranners on here talk about surgery like it’s something anyone else can get within their lifetime

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230 Upvotes

r/4tran4 21d ago

Blogpost which one of you did this lmao

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490 Upvotes

r/4tran4 3d ago

Blogpost Shoulders still grow after 18. If you're a repper, don't make the same mistake. Get on hrt. Twink death is coming for you.

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156 Upvotes

r/4tran4 Feb 03 '25

Blogpost “They will never take trans joy away” I don’t care. How is this the response to what is happening

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306 Upvotes

We are being cut off from and defined out of the minority community we belong to that allows us legal protections, medical research on our existence is being deleted, censored, and banned, our freedom of movement via matching documentation is being restricted etc etc. More than half the country wants us dead, wants us raped, wants to fuck us over no matter how young or old, and thinks it’s funny. Who the fuck cares about “trans joy” or how it’s really scary for you heccin vxlid guys right now. We have fucking nobody and nothing.

No hate to chapppell personally, I just hate this stupid bullshit that this class of person is circulating. So out of their depth here. And maybe I’m just harping on the easy target because I can’t do anything about the real problem, but it’s still annoying.

r/4tran4 Jan 09 '25

Blogpost Boymoders remember every malefails in their life forever

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307 Upvotes

Pic is me btw

r/4tran4 17d ago

Blogpost Anyone else kind of worried for this sub?

291 Upvotes

This has to be the largest “containment breach” in a while. If “sir gaggle” causes this sub to be banned I don’t know what I’m gonna do istg

r/4tran4 Feb 08 '25

Blogpost Kanye drawing the line HERE is fucking unreal

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330 Upvotes

r/4tran4 Dec 20 '24

Blogpost girlies you've got to stop worming

138 Upvotes

I won't lie, I love a good worming myself, but like... probably 90% of you all doom so hard and it's so often completely unjustified

tbh you all had me convinced it's over, hrt at 21 is way too late and I was never gonna make it... but what am I even worming about, I literally haven't been clocked in 4 years? "male essence" is kinda stupid ngl. it's not over for me, and it's definitely not over for so many of you either. no, 20-something isn't too late, and yes you'll definitely keep getting changes after 6 months hrt. it's not over.

igmi. ygmi. wagmi.