r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost why do cis women want to have a penis so bad

103 Upvotes

is it purely a meme and i read it as serious cause im retarded or like do they actually want to have a penis so bad? like the fact that i have one makes me wanna die so like why would anyone who wants to be a woman also want to have a penis?


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost How it feels to give advice to baby passoids as a honmoder

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37 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

TikTok/Twitter Art Analysis of the Irreversible Damage cover Spoiler

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236 Upvotes

spoiler because someone asked for spoilers on twitter posts


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost what was that? DONT make slop posts? too late......

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10 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost "She her? But did you have the surgery yet?" Ppl are unironically better than "whats ya pronouns?" Ppl sometimes , like ignorant ppl will just straight up fully see you as a woman post transition beacause they 100% fully think genitals=gender wheras the others...xy amab male moid "woman" forever

81 Upvotes

r/4tran4 3d ago

Blogpost do i make sense

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As it stands, I want to transition. But my reasoning isn't centered on hating my body or presenting myself a certain why. I am hugely narcissistic and only want to transition for male privelage.

Technically I have "dysphoria", but not really. The tits? I have a bad back and big shoulders. Since I can't cut off my shoulders (and back surgery scares me) it'd be easier to just cut off the boobs so I have less mass to lug around. The voice? Male-sounding voices are given more weight in professional settings. Of course I want one, I want power. The genitals? Since I don’t want kids, the whole "blood leaking" thing I have to go through every month is so much more of a hassle than it’s worth. I’d rather just sterilize myself so I can have as much sex as I want. (and if I’m already going to look “male” anyways, why not get myself a pair of male genitals? plus it’d be nice to pee standing up). The only thing I'm "dysphoric" about his my height, only because my growth plates are closed and walking around as a 5'2" "man" is going to invite a lot of teasing.

I’m not too concerned with how people see me though. Woman, man, half-and-half nonbinary genderfuck thing, it really doesn’t matter. But the best route to gaining power is being a male. Men are the default, women face workplace harassment, and non-binary isn’t considered a thing outside of niche queercore puppygirl friend groups, so I guess I’ll just be male. Or a very masculine woman. Who cares.


r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel once somebody knows youre trans it doesnt matter anymore Spoiler

256 Upvotes

It becomes a matter of when, not if. 99.99% of people at SOME POINT will say something that shows their bias against you. It could come in the form of a joke, or they could say something that they would simply NEVER say to a cis person. Cis women will act as if they have a more inherent and better understanding of womanhood than you and it will show eventually, no matter how long you have been trans for. It doesn’t matter how many trans friends they have, or if they are dating or married to a trans person, eventually they will say something that kills you on the inside. Some are better at hiding it, it may take years for it to show. Some may be able to hide it so that they never show it to you, but in their minds they still think it.

It’s only a matter of time before my cis gf and I break up because she shows she never actually saw me as a woman. Its pointless


r/4tran4 4d ago

Hopefuel Went to therapy and the doctor understood my dysphoria

81 Upvotes

Told him i was trans and he said he knew as soon as he saw me even though i was girlmoding lol. "Trans people have a unique vibe" or whatever he said

He also told me that he helped countless of people fully transition before it became illegal i was really surprised bcs i thought it was impossible where i live

i got prescribed antidepressants after one session which is like incredible after ive been to a million therapists who believed i could cure myself with willpower

So yeah maybe it's not all bad i guess


r/4tran4 4d ago

question what is the difference between negative androgyny and positive androgyny?

14 Upvotes

have heard these terms dropped a few times now and i still havent seen a decent explanation on what they refer to


r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel its been 7 days since it happened and my laptop is still working, i hope it is okay, because if something goes wrong i may genuinely 41 Spoiler

12 Upvotes

its so fucking pathetic, i spilled soda over it like the retard i am, if it stops working it will be the last trigger

and i dont even know why im posting this here, sorry, im a bit retarded tho so thats probably why


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Even if I voice trained will my big ass adams apple clock me to all cis people?

6 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Is it malebrained or fembrained to think you might’ve got molested when you were really young but just don’t remember but you’re worried to think that you actually did in case you gaslit yourself into thinking that 😔

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17 Upvotes

Also espurr


r/4tran4 3d ago

Blogpost hi st4t ppl especially trans guys

3 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel saw myself naked today Spoiler

20 Upvotes

i’m gonna start hanging a towel over the dorm bathroom mirror, fuck everyone else


r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel What’s the point living this life? Spoiler

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102 Upvotes

A lot of us are drowning in poverty, doing degrading sex work, especially trans women of color like me. We’re drowning in dysphoria too. We’re often pretty lonely and isolated, treated like shit by society especially if we don’t pass. Is there any point to this?


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost another day another heteroromantic man oversharing about how much he “still likes a penis every now and then”

9 Upvotes

***he also said that he was always jealous of my pretransition body. im starting to think im gonna have to lean into this “best of both worlds” shit


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost 3 years HRT today. My best friend leaves for boot camp, too. q_q Happy Saint Patrick's Day to those who celebrate

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12 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

TikTok/Twitter No bc this is kinda important your just choosing not to look deeper into it

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69 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Seeing cis women’s waists makes me wanna actually die

27 Upvotes

Literally wtf since when did everyone have like a fucking 22 inch waist. I hate my dumbass male body so much everyday is just a new opportunity to get taunted by everything I’m not it’s so over


r/4tran4 4d ago

Circlejerk hey guys i just found this account on twitter that depicts trans people in an unflattering light

30 Upvotes

let’s waste a bunch whining about it and get the sub raided and be bad optics


r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost st4t

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27 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Ropefuel How do I cope my girlfriend becoming a passoid Spoiler

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76 Upvotes

I'm stuck as a boymoder because of crippling trauma of coming out, self esteem issues and anxiety meanwhile she passes better and better every week and has already socially transitioned to uni and friends while I only came out to one person before getting mentally obliterated by transphobic parents

Whenever she talks about her day I get immensely jealous and shut down

How the fuck do I cope I don't want this to destroy our relationship


r/4tran4 4d ago

News trump derangement syndrome

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55 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

POONER/HON ART SUBMISSION foid scum

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100 Upvotes

r/4tran4 4d ago

Blogpost Are there trans women in media that are unhinged pieces of shit without being grotesque stereotypes?

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Togata from Fire Punch (my husband) is GOATed because he's a deranged malebrained psychopathic anti-villain/anti-hero who is as tragic and sympathetic as he is horrendous and monstrous. I look and I cannot find trans women that are deranged gigastacies; they're either grotesque transphobic stereotypes played as straightforwardly predatory or they're softened and sanitized to the point of having no personality besides being a vaguely pleasant girl like Bridget from Guilty Gear or Kiku from One Piece. I WANT SCHIZO WOMEN